Kind of pathetic, no? The entire point of alimony is so guys would stop using women as full-time free childcare and then serial-divorcing them as soon as the kids were raised (at which point she would have no professional training and no history of employment). Do you think it's a little pathetic (if typical) that regular absentee fathers are using this law as a way to leech money off of women who just happen to be richer and/or more successful than themselves? I do.

Or was it the alimony that did it MWAH HA HA HA HAHAAAAA???? I don't have a problem with sex workers but tbh idk of any with a $1,000,000 per yer retirement plan at age 26?

He likes to take pictures and video during sex ns especially after he cumnnm inside me. It seems liking showing this to others. It happened few times that he took pictures and video when i had sex with other guys that he found (friends or strangers online) He likes to see other guys cummmnn inside me. Is he sick? He needs to get therapy?

I am 36 years old woman. I have mba and work in a bank full time. I have disabled son 15 years old. My ex husband left three years ago when they diagnosed our son. After he left he refused to pay any money to our son. After a long fight at the court we won that he will pay monthly allowances. I needed help at the time as I was going through difficult time with the court and my son didn't had school ( all the schools rejected him), so I got special education teacher at home to teach. I needed to continue my day job as well. I didn't had money to hire lawyer so I was representing myself. I have spoken to my mom who lives in Singapore with older sister and brother. I requested her to come and stay with me a month or so, in order for my son to familiarise himself with the new teacher and because my son is not verbally she could give me feedback. My mother flatly rejected my request by saying she is busy. She said your brother's wife is pregnant and I am staying with them. I heard the three of them went for holiday together. I was genuinely hurt by that action. Little background info. Whenever my mother visits my house in Kuala Lumpur - I would ask her lets go out as I am taking my son for playing or swimming etc.. my mother will refuse and give me excuse that she is sick. Once we go out and I come back home she goes out with her friends. It has been on going for few years she never wants to go out with me and my son. I realised she doesn't want to be seen with my son. To make matters worst, she would tell me how her friends and my relatives keep telling her that nobody will marry me now because I have disabled son. My mother anyways lives in Singapore and she is raising the kids of my sister and brother but doesn't like to be around my son. All she does is she calls me as the calls are free to ask me the generic questions hi how r u? so now I stopped answering her calls. I feel disgusted from her. What would u do if u were in my place? My mother never paid her own ticket whenever she visits me. She calls me and I have paid for it. What ridiculous comment to make by darkness. I was asking her to help me for a month as she is my mother. that is what family is for.

I am in my mid 30s and wife is early 30s. I fully understand our lives are busy and I think I have realistic expectations. I would like to make time for that 2x a month, but will really be happy with 1x a month. If you have been here, what worked for you?

My wife cries after sex. She said she's never been raped. She always does this why does she always cry ?

My wife had a bad dream she's crying and shaking she doesn't want to talk about it. How can I comfort her ? What should I say to her ?

Would you overlook it? It's not as personal and insulting as if it were another man.

Which explains why people can't be intimate after 10 years of letting themselves go, meaning the other partner has to cheat with people who are hotter, beautiful and overall more attractive.

My wife found out yesterday she's pregnant she's on birth control she has an IUD in. She showed me the test last night it said positive. We've been having a lot of sex lately. She's really worried something is gonna happen to our baby. We're not doing adoption or abortion we're keeping it. She was so upset last night she had a hard time sleeping. How can I help her feel better ? Will our baby be healthy ?

I honestly don't know how to start this. A few months ago, I came upon the realization that, though I'd dated and had claimed I'd liked a guy since I was twelve, I don't think I've ever felt physical attraction to anyone. Most girls grow up dreaming of their first kiss, right? I have had times where I felt it was appropriate to kiss, but haven't because I just didn't want to. Aside from that, I came upon the conclusion that I don't have any physical attraction to the guy I claimed to like, I just feel we'd be compatible and when picturing a married life, I wasn't upset with it. I do want to get married, but only because I want children. I keep looking it at a logical point of view that I should get married so I can live in an at least somewhat financially stable home and have less of a burden on my own shoulders and because I really love kids and want some of my own. I'm not saying I don't find people attractive. I can see people and think they look good or not so good, but I've never felt the need to act on the feeling. I'm basically just word vomiting now. Okay, key points, 1. I want to get married, but only because I see it as the only way to have children and be financially stable. 2. I can tell when people are attractive, but don't ever feel the need to react to it. 3. Though the occasion has arisen, I don't want to have my first kiss; It doesn't feel important. I think I've covered the majority of my reason for questioning. Thanks for you help

that probably means he's looking for a `bj later that night. Am I right?

My husband and I have 4 kids - two in college (boys, 21, 19) and two in elementary school (age 8). We obviously had the first two young...then, years later, found out we were having twins (boy and girl!). Here is my question: My daughter recently asked about going to Disney. Obviously that trip will take financial planning. My husband is looking into it and said he will not pay our two older sons' way. I was upset at him for suggesting we'd go without our older boys. He said we took the older boys there twice when they were younger. And that they are at an age where Disney isn't the same as it is for a younger kid. After discussing it, he said they stay with us and we'll pay for their Disney ticket. But they're on their own airfare/transportation. I'd be upset if my parents told me that if my siblings were going. Before I even think about bringing this up to our older boys, do you think my husband is being unfair? Ok. I'm glad to hear that most people think the boys wouldn't want to come. We still go camping together (the 6 of us) every summer and pick a drivable random location on the map in the fall spend a long weekend there (the 6 of us.) We've always included boys before and was just worried about feelings getting hurt. But they are getting older. I need to realize this! Sounds like I'm worrying about something that won't be a problem. Thank you!

You and your spouse are being held at gun point out in the middle of the desert. The gun man is sadistic and gets hard to other people's terror. He tells you that only you or your spouse will be making it back home alive and its up to you to decide. Who do you choose? @Lili Perhaps. But If you're that indecisive, there's no sliver of hope or doubt. Gramps you a beast ******* Lord.

My family hates my spouse and I'm not saying they don't have every right to. The first year of our marriage was far from perfect. He was doing drugs behind my back and drinking and he was mean and super violent from breaking things to punching holes in the walls to abusing me. I was pregnant and super depressed. He finally went to rehab and I thought everything was finally going to be okay but while he was in rehab I found out that while he was on a Xanax binge he cheated on me. I know it's crazy given everything but we've been trying to work through this with the help of individual counselors as well as a Marraige counselor who is also an addiction specialist and it's been so very hard. I'm dealing with an addict/alcoholic in recovery as well as trying to get over my husband cheating on me and not to mention I have a 5 month old baby and a two year old and my husband doesn't live with us and hasn't lived with us pretty much since he got out of rehab. Like I said things have been awful but lately we've been doing so much better and My husband has changed so much for the better but my family refuses to be around him. They hate him for what he's put me through and the children through as well. Like I said I can't blame them I just don't know what to do when it comes to get togethers, holidays, the kids birthdays. This whole situation kills me. I need advise.

I always ask him for sex after he comes home from work he always says I have to do emails for work, i worked all day, i want to relax and then watch football. Then i go into work at night come back in the morning and he leaves for work. Then it repeats the same way every other day, he eventually ok after asking and asking like its a chor or something, then hes done within 5min-10min. I get no enjoyment. This happens maybe once or twice a month if im lucky. I have caught on several occasions watching porn on his phone and grabbing himself. I think he prefers the porn over me. I dont care i just want to know what i should do this has been going on for several years even before we got married. Its been about 6 yrs. we have a kid but i feel like the sexual problem shouldnt be a reason for divorce...but there are days when i am so ready to leave him. He never asks me for sex the whole month, im the one always having to ask him, i try to wait to see if maybe he'll ask but the whole month goes by and nothing, so i always ask and replies sometimes saying thats all i think about....i say ya i never get it, so what do u think?? We do fight over this and we have been for 6 yrs. help.

I just want my wife to behave like a un married sexy women and i want o propose her in park. She is not accepting for this How to convence her..??

A few months ago I left my husband, so he could mature himself for the better for our family of 3 children and I; however, things went in a negative direction and instead he started hanging out with negative influences. Also, even when my husband and I were broken up, we were still sleeping and seeing one another, but I would not accept him back into my life and would remind him we weren't together anymore. Eventually after a few months I decide to work things out with my husband because I discovered I am pregnant. Thing is I didn't know he had meet a girl who he was sleeping with in the same time he was begging for me back. This girl and him have been going out for a month and he has told me she makes him happy but doesn't love her. However, he refuses to get back together with me and he tells me he is not with her but refuses to see her and says she is just a friend. I have been fighting for him back since then because I have meet this girls and I know she doesn't love him and instead enjoys playing with his head. Unfortunately, no matter what I do he moves more for her and pushes me away. I don't want to loss my husband and I am not sure what to do. What should I do?

I remained good friends with my ex wife's mom and dad after the divorce and she was OK with that. Her mom and dad called me to invite me over dinner. I gladly accepted as her mom is a great cook. After dinner they told me my ex wife was getting married again and told me who the guy was. They really disliked him and did not want her to marry him. I had to agree with them that in my opinion, the guy is a bum. He is 28 years old, lived with his parents and has never had a job in his life. He is a high school drop out. They told me their daughter would not listen to them but she greatly respected my opinion and asked me to talk to her out of marrying this guy. What is so unexplainable is that she likes expensive jewelry, luxury cars, and the latest in fashion clothes. All of these things are expensive. I am conflicted about this. Even though I would like to help my ex wife as a friend in this situation, I don't think I should be telling her who she should marry. Please let me have your thoughts on what I should do. Ladies, I would really like you input. I don't plan to talk to her unless she ask for my advice. Is my staying out of this the right thing to do?