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- Question: No Friends in high school, severe social anxiety. I’ve lost all hope?
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- Question: How to respond to a friend that says they're fat?
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- Question: Was I right to call social services on someone?
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- Question: My Friends Don't Care About My Problems?
- Question: Wasn't invited to a party, but my friends won't stop talking about it?
- Question: Having Trouble Adjusting to College?
- Question: I got caught for underage drinking by the cops...what happens now?
- Question: Is it totally ok that I love girls to poop and piss on my chest?
- Question: Worried about finding "my people" in college?
- Question: What should I do when guys at school bully me because I'm quiet and have no friends (I'm a girl)?
- Question: How do I deal with embarrassment tomorrow?
- Question: Find an old high school friend?
- Question: Did we take this too far? What should I do??
- Question: How can I make new friends?
- Question: What does it mean when people say:" I trust you"?
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- Question: Why would my friend abandon me for complaining about bullying?
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- Question: I feel like relationships are dumb. Is it normal?
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- Question: How to make friends in Highschool as a shy insecure socially awkward kid.?
- Question: How to politely tell them we are tired of being involved?
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- Question: Is my friend insecure or conceited??
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| Question: No Friends in high school, severe social anxiety. I’ve lost all hope? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 05:51 PM PDT (Sophomore Boy) From 5th-8th grade I was in the "popular group" but they treated me like **** and eventually forced me out of the group, and for two years I've been without anyone. At school I talk with people and they act friendly to me, I sit with people at lunch, and it looks like I have friends but I don't. Firstly since I stopped hanging out with the "popular" group everyone has treated me awfully, I have this reputation of of someone that you can treat like **** and be awful to. So people do, people treat me so poorly. The people I sit with at lunch and stuff sometimes call me and instead of asking "can you hang out?" They ask "can we come to your house?" But if something else better comes up for them to do they leave me and don't ask me to come. Since I've lost all my friends I've developed severe social anxiety. I'm scared of even going into public now cuz I'm scared people will see me by myself or rip on me, I don't ask anyone to hang out ever cuz I'm too scared to. I have lost all enjoyment in anything, I get in fights with my family constantly, and I am just so lonely. I have nothing anymore and I feel like no one understands how sad I am. I already see a therapist and he is good, he tells me to certain things to try to help me but I'm scared to change what I'm doing. Everytime anyone suggest that I do something to change my situation I figure out a reason that it's a bad idea. Ive lost all hope pretty much, I've reached my limit I don't know what to do anymore. |
| Question: She wrote this on FB but I don't know what she could be referring to? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 05:33 PM PDT She wrote this: "It's a shame that there's people who don't value a friendship or a true love. Today I learned a new lesson, but this won't stop me from believing in people." What could she be possibly talking about? |
| Question: Am I doing the right thing for once in my life? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 05:21 PM PDT I'm a male. My best friend is a dear to me, I love her very much. But she's getting closer to the real me and I can't let her see that. She's too amazing for me, she's smart. We're the complete opposite in some ways. I'm starting to push her away because of this. She's too amazing. She has her life almost completely sorted and I don't. I ruin everything I ever come across. I can't do anything right, everything I try to fix, I ruin it even more. Im a curse. I'm almost starting to feel sorry for myself for actually having her as my best friend. I get pissed off when she's honest with me even though I tell her to be honest with me, I don't know why I do it. I'm rude to everyone since I've been off my meds and I'm too anxious to get them refilled. I can't do this anymore. My birthday is coming up in 2 weeks and I'm just not feeling it anymore. Every hates me and I'm letting them, but I'm not telling them leave me because I'll be the one who'll be doing the leaving. The amount of times I've tried to commit suicide since leaving my mums house has upped. Can someone tell me what the **** I can do to ******* better myself or whatever. I'm done. ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.0.03 |
| Question: Am I in trouble or am I worried for nothing? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 04:47 PM PDT My boss who is in his 50s brought in his new wife who is in her 20s and introduced her to his employees. When I met her, she said "you look vaguely familiar, have we met before"? I told her I did not recall ever meeting her before. I ask her what her maiden name was and she told me. That night when I got home, I found my high school year book from a long time ago. OH MY GOD, I had went to high school with her and even went on a date with her one time. This is not good. If she comes to our office again I plan to avoid her as much as possible and hope she does not see and/or remember me. Do you think it would be a problem if my boss knew I had dated his wife at one time or am I worried for nothing. Should I be looking for a new job? |
| Question: Good excuse to not go to a party? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 04:40 PM PDT So basically it's a seniors party, and I'm a freshman. I'm not even friends with her. My friend invited me to go with her cause she's the only freshman there too. I already told her I probably could go. My sister who's a junior is going, but I don't want to go to this party. At all. How do I get out of this? :/ |
| Question: My parents think i'm bullied? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 03:47 PM PDT This has to be one of the cringiest asks I've written. My parents think I'm bullied because a girl who used to be my friend told some people that I was apparently gay, apart from talking **** about me. It really isn't true. But in my country, people talk immense **** about each other no matter how 'popular' they are. Im considered normal really, people like me and I'm very friendly, far from bullied. But I used to be ignored in early primary, if you count that as bullying. I changed schools for a better education and partially the exclusion issue. Nowadays, I hate when my parents say that I'm bullied because i'm really not, it degrades me a lot, and my family as a whole thinks I used to be immensily bullied in primary. It wasn't like that. They can't understand that people at my age, specially girls, are really fake and relationships fall apart, with inmature girls saying ****. How can I make them understand i'm not bullied, it's making me feel like crap? |
| Question: How to respond to a friend that says they're fat? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 03:23 PM PDT My friend just told me he thinks he looks fat. I don't think he's really overweight, maybe not super fit but not super overweight either. Might look better with a few less pounds but most ppl would lol. How should someone respond to that? |
| Question: I humiliated myself at my new school. How do I make classmates forget about it? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 03:18 PM PDT I'm a freshman guy and we moved so I had to start at a new school. My first day was on Wednesday and I wanted to ditch my quiet shy personality and be more outgoing. So I'm in my homeroom and my teacher asked me to stand up and introduce myself...and I thought I'd try to be funny so I stood on top of my desk and did the robot dance and in a robot voice I said "i come to take over planet earth and make you earthlings my prisoners"...I said it really slow. Nobody said a word. Dead silence. The teacher even said "okay go ahead and sit down and we'll try another time"...now nobody talks to me and they just avoid me. I feel like a freak now. Is there anyway I can fix this? |
| Question: Some unattractive Girl likes me at school! Please help? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 02:14 PM PDT Well, I'm 17 and this girl is 16. We're both in High School. Well since Summer School began and there's been a very few people. I MOSTLY talk to two people, them being my best friends. I'm a very social person though, and I was being very nice to this girl who needed to find her three classrooms, and I even gave her some supplies, if needed. Though I think she took my actions more than that. She has one friend, I'm assuming she talks to a lot, and her friend told quickly told me her friend (implying to that girl I'm talking about) likes me, and I quickly just brushed it off my mind, and thinking "I'm sure that's a joke, hah". Every time I get out of class, that girl always taps my shoulder and says Hi and respectfully I say "Hi" back, and have some short conversation and always gives me an unwanted side hug. She gets the conversation very personal and asks me "What do I look for in a girl" or something. But I sometimes cut her off, and say I have to get somewhere very quick or just go home. She even try to seek my number from my friend, so she could know more, I guess. I honestly don't like this girl AT ALL! I'll be utterly honest, she's quite big and well ..Fat, (Superficial, I know) But I'm a guy who finds that to be important, alright? But it's not just that, her very impulsive and clingy attitude just makes me feel like I'm in a trap of having to "like her", or else I'll feel ridiculously f ucked up ... I ignore her now more often, but she keeps on trying . . . |
| Posted: 22 Oct 2017 02:08 PM PDT I have been really depressed lately because I miss my old friends. My dad moved about a hour away from my old town I see them every weekend but I won't be seeing them as much anymore. It's really depressing because in my new town everyone knows each other and I barely know anyone. I just wanna move back to my old town but my dad worked so hard on this new house how can I tell him. Im 13 by the way |
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| Question: How do I start a clean slate? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 01:57 PM PDT A lot of rumors go around me I'm sure, but they aren't true. My "friends" just do stupid stuff and I'm associated with it. Please help |
| Question: Should I trust my friends more? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 01:55 PM PDT I have had major anxiety lately and I overthink everything I've ever done/ will do. I'm not a "talk behind someone's back kind of person", but I do it sometimes if I need to vent. Anyway, last night, my ex got brought up and I just told them how I felt about the topic. But for some reason, I don't trust them to not go and tell. They're very negative people and I'm trying to distance myself from that, but sometimes its hard. I already have crap surrounding me just by hanging out with these guys I'm sure, but I don't want anymore if the stuff gets out and it's out of context to what I was saying. I'm pretty people hate me as much as it is |
| Posted: 22 Oct 2017 01:49 PM PDT I hate it when they touch me, or call me pet names, and I find them all super irritating. I've told two of the people that I still like, but no solutions have been offered... |
| Question: Was I right to call social services on someone? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 01:45 PM PDT The person in question was a friend. She has four kids 10,4, and two 2 year olds. She lives with her mother, brother and uncle. The house they live is in nasty. No one bothers to clean it because either the kids tear it up or they leave cigar tobacco and other trash all over. They have had rats for months and it's dirty from being uncleaned. No hot water either. I tried helping them but it got to a point that was expecting me to do stuff all the time, getting upset when I wouldn't do something or something right when she said it. She's spoiled as hell, expecting me to drive her to stores and then go in the store for her. She once told me I was a nobody in my own car because I refused to drive two towns over to pick up someone. Along with wanting to end our friendship I want to make sure the kids are safe, with it getting cold they need hot water and to eat more than once a day. I called the police station and told them my concerns I didn't give a name. I'm worried if they will get taken away. I feel like I did the right thing because she refuses to do somenting herself, preferring men and to smoke pot rather than do what needs to be done. |
| Question: What does this photo mean? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 01:37 PM PDT Everyone at my school is obsessed with this photo. They actually walk around the school and sell paper copies of it for 2$, and people actually buy them [IMG]http://i68.tinypic.com/2mcbs69.png[/IMG] |
| Question: My Friends Don't Care About My Problems? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 01:14 PM PDT I have some friends who I have considered to be extremely close to for several years now, and they always say that I'm the best friend they've ever had. Yet when I bring up my problems... they don't reply, they gloss over it or ignore me. And just pretend like that's okay. And if I dare say my honest feelings about that they say that 'talking to you is like walking on eggshells', yet the rest of the time it's all snuggles and happy to see me. They really don't care, and I don't know what to do about it. And no, I'm not depressed, it isn't just 'my perspective'. I just want to know how to have a conversation with them about these things that actually works. I always try to be honest and gentle, but it's impossible when you're talking to a brick wall, and it ******* hurts. |
| Question: Wasn't invited to a party, but my friends won't stop talking about it? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 12:26 PM PDT My friend had a birthday party for her sister, and I'm very close to both of them. Now, she only invited her OTHER friend, and her cousins and some of her sisters friends, etc. She didn't tell me anything about it, and didn't bother inviting me. What bothers me, though, is that she texted me saying "(Other friend) says hi, and my cousins say hi." Then, she proceeded to give her cousins my number, to the point where they kept texting, and attempting to prank call me. Now today, (the next day) she's telling me about how much fun they had...??? I need advice, I don't want to talk about how FUN a party that I wasn't even invited to was. This has never happened before, and I didn't expect it from her. |
| Question: Having Trouble Adjusting to College? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 11:30 AM PDT I'm a freshman in college and I'm almost halfway through first semester and don't feel completely adjusted and happy. First off, my roommate and I don't get along. She's international so I often excuse her behavior as cultural differences. She leaves the light on until two in the morning even though I ask her to turn it off. She says she has homework to do. I have an early morning class every day so being up late and waking up early is just making me feel tired all. of. the. time. I feel like I'm on the verge of a mental breakdown all the time. It doesn't help that she constantly tells me I look tired all the time, that I wear the same clothes every day, or pretty much any little comment about my personality or the way I look. I live about two hours away from my house so I'm not incredibly far away. I've gone home about four times already this semester for weekend visits. However, my roommate has issues with me going home so much because she says that I'm not getting "the true college experience." I want to go home again this coming weekend but I'm scared of what she'll say if I do. Also, I'm not clicking with the girls I've made friends with. I really like them but I feel like we all came together purely out of the fact that none of us party. My one close friend in the group (let's call her Jessie) keeps ditching me to hang out with this guy (even though he has a girlfriend). College is supposed to be the best but I'm not happy. Is that because I don't party? Any advice :( |
| Question: I got caught for underage drinking by the cops...what happens now? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 10:57 AM PDT I'm 19 and a freshman in college. I was at this bar that I normally go to and there was this big event so there were a lot more cops out than usual. Me and my friends went outside and we had 21+ bands on our wrist. My friend poured someone else's beer into another cup so she could stack them together and clean it up and all of a sudden these cops come up to us and ask for our IDs. Me and my friend gave him our real IDs (I don't have a fake but she does) and the cops brought us to their car and started arguing to us about giving him our fakes. I explained how I don't have a fake and that I got banded bc the bouncers were really nice (I used someone else's fake to get banded tho) and my friend ended up giving the cop her fake afterwards. The cop explained to us how we now have to go in front of the school board and explain ourselves to them and they basically decide our punishment. Do you think I could tell the board that the cops have no proof of me consuming or in possession of alcohol? Has anyone else been in a similar situation? What happened? |
| Question: Is it totally ok that I love girls to poop and piss on my chest? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 10:44 AM PDT Is this a kink? I'm serious, I find it sooo hot! |
| Question: Worried about finding "my people" in college? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 10:38 AM PDT You always hear the famous "college is when you find your people" line. Well, i'd like to think that's true. I started college this fall at northeastern under the nuin program in which i spend my first semester abroad with a relatively large group of other freshman. Although i have made about 3 close friends, i often find myself wondering if thesr are the people i want to spend the next four years with. Although its only been about a month since school started, it feels like the cliques have formed and closed already. I think this is in part due to the fact that the group of prople here abroad is about the size of a high school class. Although i am still able to form connections with new people, the cliques seem to stay the same. Like ill have a bonding experience with someone but then theyll just go back to their group. We return in two months to northeastern where there will be 2000 other freshman, but im worried it will just be the same there in terms of cliqueyness (like i'll make a new friend but it wont mean im in their "group"). I really want to find "my group" in college and am worried that it wont happen. Thoughts? |
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| Question: How do I deal with embarrassment tomorrow? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 10:29 AM PDT I snapchatted a pic of my penis to one girl and I accidentally sent it to everyone on my contacts on snapchat, to all my friends. What should I tell my friends at school tomorrow? |
| Question: Find an old high school friend? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 09:59 AM PDT |
| Question: Did we take this too far? What should I do?? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 09:51 AM PDT A friend of mine is a homophobe and has some ignorant ideas of what gay ppl do? For example, he's worn t-shirts in the pool bc there were get people around and go whatever reason he thinks we have no sense of self control and just want to hang every guy we see. Anyway, last night a friend of mine and I got fed up and started messing with him and pretending to flirt. Then things escalated to us pretending to rape him by dry humping and stuff like that but everyone was dress from the waist down. We didn't violate him in anyway what so ever we were just messing around. Next thing, he was shaking and freaking out so we stopped immediately. Today he's still visibly upset and told he told my sister (who is also his friend) and she got angry saying we essentially raped him but we never penetrated anything I did anything like that bit we just a joke and the two of them are exaggerating but I do feel a like bad. Did we take the joke or are they being dramatic like I said? After all, he was the one who had the twists thoughts about gay ppl.. we only pretended to do what he imagined we did anyway. |
| Question: How can I make new friends? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 08:58 AM PDT |
| Question: What does it mean when people say:" I trust you"? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 08:55 AM PDT I notice that more guys say that than girls |
| Posted: 22 Oct 2017 07:38 AM PDT does that give them the idea that you want to have sex? I mean,..... it's a beautiful hotel and I was thinking we would just hang out in the hotel for fun, like watch tv, play cards, etc. but sex wasn't really what I was getting at. but If I say "I'm renting a hotel room" is that gonna give him the wrong idea? we're *friends* and we sort of have a lot in common but that wasn't really the intention. |
| Posted: 22 Oct 2017 07:37 AM PDT how would u rate her lips/teeth/nose combo from 1-10...1 being the worst you have ever seen and 10 being the best. Also..does she have big teeth? please be honest and will choose a best answer..tks |
| Question: If Greg and Marsha Brady wanted to take a bath with you, would you? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 06:50 AM PDT |
| Question: Why would my friend abandon me for complaining about bullying? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 05:32 AM PDT Two students who were my workmates caused me to lose my job because of bullying. I reported them and they were expelled. The problem is that once this happened, my friend was angry from me because she thought what I did was vindictive and wrong and that I shall not do wrong to people who do wrong to me. After that she cut her relations with me. I find this weird. What could be a reason for this? |
| Question: Concerned for my friend? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 05:14 AM PDT My friend is 36 and just got engaged to a guy who is 44 and has never been married. They dated for 2 years before getting engaged. I also know a few people who have dated this guy. Apparently he has been a huge womanizer, and has burned up the dating apps over the past few years. One girl said that she found out he was on Tinder more than 4 months after they had become exclusive. And this week with all of the "me too" stuff on Facebook, a friend confided in me that this same guy had forced himself on her while they were dating and that she got an STD as a result. Apparently the guy had also told this same girl while they were dating that he had forced a previous girlfriend to get an abortion. Maybe most concerning of all for my friend who is engaged to him, one of our friends matched with him on Tinder about 9 months after he started dating his now-fiancée. They chatted, so he was still active on it at that time. I want to be happy for my friend, but I am really concerned about this guy. I know that people have told her things about him in the past but I think she is going to be making a huge mistake if she goes through with marrying him. How can I help her? |
| Question: How do i get a friend to stand up to her parents? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 03:57 AM PDT |
| Question: How can we stop writing online as if it was our diary? Posted: 22 Oct 2017 03:56 AM PDT Many times we feel free to say things online to our online friends or on websites like yahoo answers things we would not go around telling people in real life because we are anonymous. This is not safe especially for children because pedos and perverts will use many tricks to lure or even just attack even physically a child who shares too much info about their personal life or even where they live. |
| Question: Should I respond or leave the comment at that? Posted: 21 Oct 2017 11:39 PM PDT I said hello to a guy friend of mine yesterday and he said thanks, said he hasn't seen me since this school function, and asked me how I have been. I replied and said that I have been good, that I also remember the last time I saw him too, and asked him how he has been. He replied and said he had been good and put an lol at the end. He had other birthday comments on his page which he didn't reply to and started replying to mine immediately. Then he said thank you to everyone else but started a short conversation with me. I thought maybe I should respond with a question. I don't want to be pushy and ask him further questions because he just replied with a comment. He is not asking me any further questions. Should I just leave it at that? |
| Question: I feel like relationships are dumb. Is it normal? Posted: 21 Oct 2017 10:54 PM PDT Im talking about friendship and romantic relationships only. I feel like everyone will get bored of me. Whenever i feel good in a friendship, i also feel like im not their true friend or soulmate. I just want to be isolated... |
| Question: Struggling with friendships? Posted: 21 Oct 2017 10:50 PM PDT So I need serious advice as to how I can make friends with other girls. All my friends have always been guys and never with any girls. Every time I'll put myself out there and make conversation with another girl and it's going well or we have a good time playing games together at a party, i end up asking them to go shop with me or to the beach, and the plan always ends up not following through. I don't know what it is about me that i can't have at least one girl friend. Am I doing something wrong? What can I do to acheive a friendship with another girl? |
| Question: How can I get friends? Posted: 21 Oct 2017 10:10 PM PDT I have no friends or anyone to chill with...... I get really shy meeting new people Can u help me |
| Question: How to make friends in Highschool as a shy insecure socially awkward kid.? Posted: 21 Oct 2017 09:52 PM PDT Im 16 shy, have no friend in school, and sit alone at lunch what should I do to make friends should I just try saying hi to a friendly looking person? |
| Question: How to politely tell them we are tired of being involved? Posted: 21 Oct 2017 09:46 PM PDT My fiancé and I are tired of being caught up in our best friends issues. They are married and they are basically in a fight of some sort at least once a week. When this happens they will message us telling us what's happening, one of them will usually come over at any given time to vent to us making us choose sides, or ask us to watch their 3 year old (whom I already baby sit for 5 days a week) and we see them almost every weekend and 9 times out of 10 they'll argue then too. I'm so tired of their drama! I feel they need to just get a damn divorce already. |
| Question: Would you rather have a whole bunch of fake friends (80-120) or only 5 real friends? Posted: 21 Oct 2017 09:20 PM PDT I'm just wondering if people would go with popularity or true friendship because of social media these days and some people in my class making fake friends just so they gain popularity on insta,Snapchat, and other apps. |
| Question: Is my friend insecure or conceited?? Posted: 21 Oct 2017 08:18 PM PDT my guy friend brags about how exotic he is and how he sleeps with a lot of girls. He takes millions of selfies and videos of himself and loves looking at himself saying he's blessed. He also loves being called an a**hole and likes doing horrible things to his girlfriend like throwing paint in her hair as a prank. He claims he slept with other guys girlfriends and likes being a jerk period. He always kept so many girls around him and calls me baby and flirts with me. He made fun of his friend one time and his friend pushed him into a wall and he told his friend it was a joke he looked scared and everything |
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| Question: Why are Asian and white girls a lot nicer to me than fellow black girls? Posted: 21 Oct 2017 08:02 PM PDT I have few black female friends for reasons I have no idea. My mom says to make more black friends but that's out of my control. I'm friendly to everyone, so I'm not sure what I'm doing to rub people the wrong way. It's not like I'm the most beautiful or privileged person, so I don't understand how jealousy is a valid reason. I'm somewhere inbetween, like most people. |
| Posted: 21 Oct 2017 07:55 PM PDT This might be a little long but I feel so alone right now. I'm 13 and in 8th grade I go to high school in a few months..I barely have any friends and I'm really antisocial. I have one friend her name is Melanie but she puts me down a lot and people always like to be around her she's really outgoing and people find her funny and cool to be around i've been living in her shadow since7th grade. When she doesn't come to school I barely use my voice people always ask me where she is they never ask me how i'm doing or start a regular conversation. People tend to pick on me a lot they find me odd because I don't talk to anyone I just keep to myself. I self harm and stuggle with my apprearance a lot I cry myself to sleep most nights. My parents think I'm a failure and a liar. I'm starting to think that too. I've tried to kill myself last year a couple of weeks before Christmas but I couldn't cut deep enough and it hurt too much so I just sat there and cried until I couldn''t cry anymore. I hate living in other people's shadows. I hate being made fun of for not doing anything but minding my own buisness. I hate not having something special about me. I hate being useless. I hate living. Sometimes I wonder if I even belong in this world. I feel so out of place everywhere I go. I have no friends I'm always lonely. Am I the only who feels out of place 100 percent of the time? I need people to relate to. Made a few typos btw |
| Question: Help on uncomfortable situation? Posted: 21 Oct 2017 07:52 PM PDT Um.. so I need a little help on this.. uh.. Okay, so, my little sister and her group of friends and I where having a really fun time joking around, watching funny and wierd videos based on random statements and laughing ourselves off after. So, one girl who is the oldest out of the group besides me, (I'm 13) has a really awkward protective brother who's the same age as me and frets over anything she does. I was sketching on my computer while the others went down to dance downstairs, and he walked into the room to tell me something. I was watching a really cringey video that made me cringe out of my mind, and the volume was on blast because the dance music was so loud. He was just standing behind me, strangely enough, and to fill the silence I kept awkwardly saying while I was really red inside "I want to die" and "I really want to die right now haha" because I don't really know him. Then, he says "Were you even listening to what I said? Take off your headphones please." I took off my headphones because he was being so flatly mature, it was a bit irritating, and so he starts rambling about how I'm the oldest I have to stop the others and myself from 'exposing' her to inappropriate things like "I want to die" or our silly remarks that she laughs at, and saying that he heard our whole conversation even though our door was locked???? He's mature to a point where it's annoying and not charming, HE keeps giving orders to her, and he's 13. I'm not doing his favor? ADVICE? By the way, now he says he wants to enter so he can monitor what she says. She's really annoyed right now, he keeps knocking on the door giving demands he wants to talk to her about something. He's also a huge tattle. Someone help. I'm so uncomfortable. |
| Question: Advice on relationship? Posted: 21 Oct 2017 07:04 PM PDT I started having an discussion with my friends without intentions on starting an argument. All of sudden they both get mad having no idea why bc I was debunking things they said (the argument was upon life things) and they left the conversations. I tried putting sanctions on our friendship but they somehow keep ignoring my boundaries and we always go back to where we began. Am just tired and have tried various time to end the friendship but somehow they keep, like "ignoring" it. I tried ignoring them and stuff but they say am bully and I just want to get away from them without them noticing and I can't even distance myself. The most annoying thing they hypocrites because bc they mean things in jokingly manor and so when i do the same and apparently its "too far". HELP ME! PLEASE! |
| Posted: 21 Oct 2017 06:59 PM PDT Siempre.estube enamorado de mi amiga de hace 3 años, y.ayer tuve el valor de decirle pero por chat, le.dije que que ella era como un ángel, que quería verla ya saben, pero que no tenía el valor de.desircelo, me.contesto que quería hablar personalmente conmigo, el problema es que ella es casada y no me interesa destruir su familia, solo quiero estar con ella,, eso que solo ella me dijera que quería hablar personalmente conmigo es un si o me dirán un no, que cree???? |
| Posted: 21 Oct 2017 06:44 PM PDT Hello, I am am an average teenager whose mind is currently fu*ked up. I wont give my age because I don't know ignore it will be taken down because of my age. But, I've been having problems with my friends. I want to make new friends because my old ones make me feel down and insecure and I always tell myself "I'll sit there tomorrow". It's always tomorrow and I want to take action and branch out to other people. I don't tell my parents, but I want to. It just seems like they won't understand me. I have a bunch of other things going on in my life but my parents treat me like I'm the happiest person in the world. But, they suspect when I'm down and I always say nothing but I want to tell. I don't want to hold up on my ideas. I'm just so awkward at making new friends. Any recommendations? |
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| Question: Is this friendship unhealthy? Posted: 21 Oct 2017 05:48 PM PDT i'm pretty introverted and don't open up much, so i don't have a lot of close friends aside from this person. additionally, they're close with a lot of my other friends -- hence why i would really rather not start anything with them -- but i wanted to at least put my thoughts out there. my general issue is: when this person does something, it's expected to be fine. when i do things, it's problematic. -this person talks to me a lot about their problems -- mental health, sexuality, family, etc. although i'm shy/awkward at times, i try my best to be there for them and give advice. however, i never bring up my problems beyond the superficial (eg. not doing well on a test), because i'm made to feel they don't matter and that i'm being silly. -this person is constantly talking down to me and making me feel small/incapable. -they're always telling my other close friend and me they "choose to hang out with us" and could be spending time with much cooler people. -when they act upset, i apologize for anything i may have done wrong, try to cheer them up, let them rant, etc. when i act upset, they become mad at me and tell me why they should be upset instead. -they blow up at me over small things, and stay mad for unreasonably long amounts of time. i would say interactions like this take up a third to half of our time together. however, they tell me that they care a lot about me, and we have good times together too. am i getting upset over nothing or is this legitimately concerning? |
| Question: How to act myself in party situations? Posted: 21 Oct 2017 05:48 PM PDT I'm very outgoing and love making new friends but in front of my boyfriends group I feel awkward at parties and usually just hang with him or by myself. I change to a shy person which I'm not why is this? And how can I just be myself I feel so uncomfortable for no reason |
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