My sister and I are roommates, her husband passed away two years ago in a horrible accident... and thats how we wound up living together, she came home from work today and swears she saw her husband, and I was like "pssshh nahh its wishful thinking, its your brain playing tricks" and shes like "NO, I saw him, we made eye contact" and I'm like "okay...two things, one if your husband wasn't dead why wouldn't he be with you here, home, and with his family, and two why not go walk up to him" and she's like "I don't know and it was an extremely crowed area, I tried and lost him in the crowd, I know what I saw!" And I just like Hokay...but is something like that even possible? It sounds like a movie....

My in laws cant stand me and the feeling is mutual. They are hung up on things that we fought about from nearly a decade ago. They cant move on, they always have to have something negative to harp on. My mom also does not like my husband (mainly because of his evil parents). Recently, my in laws got mad about a question I asked and started up about decades old arguments they have had with me or my mother. They told my husband that they "do not want Tina at their house because she does nothing but cause trouble and bring negative energy into our home, she is not welcome here anymore". I am the mother of their grandkids. My husband did not say a word to them about this. My mom said that if I am not welcome @ their house, they shouldnt be welcome @ our house and that my husband shouldnt tolerate this immaturity and negative energy from THEM. She said he should tell them "if Tina is not allowed, I am not coming, end of!" What is right? We can never get along, because they take everything to the extreme and bring up past mistakes. My FIL is a man who believes "people are incapable of change", "God helps those who help themselves"

My husband and I don't exactly live the safest lives, I'm a new mom, I just had a baby girl, so as you might expect I don't get much sleep, and its making me anxious, I'm a full time private investigator, and its casual for me to get that feeling, like I need to be concerned for myself and others, but only while on the job, lately ive been these episodes about my husband...I just feel like this ALL the time, about my husband, like there's a little voice in the back of my head telling me he's in some kind of danger, and I need to protect him, I know it sounds crazy, but its like if he so much as cuts him self with a knife while cooking I wanna flip out, we've been having...more like disagreements, I wouldn't call them arguments, like things we used to see eye to eye on that we don't anymore, and he...he thinks theres something wrong with me, and thinks I should see a doctor, so Am I going crazy

Hey guys!So Im married&been with my man for 10yrs.We are both 26&yea we love each other but things are getting stale.I don't want to blame him but it will sound like it when I get into this.So I want a man's point of view here?So Im one of those women who love touching my man& love sex.I could have sex everyday 3X a day if I could.I love it.But of course we have lives& we are tired.Well what if your man just rejects u every time u start to touch& want him and try to turn him on?I mean is this bad?We went from 3X a week to twice a month.I mean come on.and let me tell u I try!So last night I tried my hardest to just get him in bed.but nope I ended up in bed alone until he was ready & I was asleep before I could try when he did come to bed.I mean now I feel like I am begging for it.should I need to?Well then this morning I walk in on him jerking off in the living room!That's when I was just like WOW!&guys let me tell you I DO NOT have anything against that I love watching him(which we haven't done that in a while either)but what really got me is I BEGGED for sex last night.I was doing all the work, i mean all you gotta do is lay there.and I wake up to u watching porn and getting off.I mean it's just frustrating.We BARELY have sex and now it like he rather jerk off then put in any kind of work with me.Which he doesn't have to!I mean what advice to u guys have.I'm unhappy here and it not always about sex but thats another way to connect.&if this keeps up.im not sure we'll make it.

my ex-wife has not moved on from our divorce. when I filed the divorce I requested for physical custody of my son and she didn't have any objection because she told me that she can't take care of my son because she has to work. a year after the divorce she is threatening me to file a case against me and reverse the child custody in her favor and said that she will ask for child support and alimony. she is full of hatred that she is doing this to get revenge for divorcing her. she is not really after the child's welfare because all she said was I will get our son and get money from you thru child support and alimony. my question is can a judgement on the child custody be reversed?

The father of my wife is my superior at work. If he fires me, he'll have to provide a reason to the board. And he can't say I fired him because he divorced my daughter. That's a personal business and is not work related.

My best friend recently cheated on his wife and got caught and he's moved out and they're getting a divorce. She and I have started sleeping together. He doesn't know. I don't feel too good about it and I'm considering telling him. She and I never did anything before he moved out and they decided to get divorced.

About 3 months ago me and my boyfriend (also my baby's father) of 7 years broke up. In between these 7 years there has been a lot of infidelity on his part. I always forgave him and always took him back. Along the way of finding out my boyfriend cheated I met this guy. He was a friend that I really needed. He was there for emotionally, in ways that my boyfriend wasn't. he listened, gave me advise, he was a shoulder for me to lean on. So when me and my boyfriend broke up. I started seeing this guy, maybe it was too soon but the attraction was there on both ends. We both had feelings for each other but I would say we were both afraid of getting hurt. We decided that we would stop talking and go our separate ways. I then reconciled with my boyfriend and got back together, we have been doing fine but this guy is always in the back of my mind. I miss him, talking to him, seeing him, everything. We have started talking again which I know is bad because I'm with my boyfriend but I just cant get over him. I learned to love this man in so many different ways and I feel so guilty because I'm with my boyfriend. I also feel guilty because I leave him again I feel like I'm taking my daughters family away and she loves her dad so much. I feel stuck in between my emotions and what I want my daughter to have. & when I think do I really love my boyfriend I cant come up with a straight answer. I mean I will always have love for him but I'm not sure if I do love him.

Today I was dressed beautifully with cute earrings and I noticed that this guy who I worked with, couldn't look at me in the eye as usual. I don't mean to brag but I've always been called pretty. I was just kinda surprised by this coming from a married man. I thought married guys didn't care about what pretty girls thought about them.

In their early to mid 20's, they could care less if a guy still lives with his parents, has never had a job before, doesn't have a drivers license, and plays video games 24/7 and dropped out college. Then all of a sudden, they start caring if a guy owns a home, has a car, has a good job, has health insurance, no debt, a college degree, etc

How can you be sure if it was a sexual hint or a mistake? My daughter is a drug addict and is never home. my son in law and I spend a lot of time watching tv, grocery shopping..i kind of like him around.

If we stay together for the kids, I'd want a new house with another bedroom...and I think being married to the same person for that long isn't normal. Variety is the spice of life.

We have been married for two years. He's been in Iraq for 10 months. We just had a healthy baby, but it's black. My hsnand is white with red hair. How do Inlighten the baby's skin so that it is white? Husband will be home next Friday and I'm scared!!!

my wife has been nagging me all day and crying about how we are "financially crippled" because i sold her car to buy 3 dirt bikes for myself.. i know that i cant be the only one who thinks that she is being ridiculous right now

i dont want to divorce her because she is paying the lease for my dirt bike so what are some reasons why its okay to cheat on her so i dont feel bad doing it

I did ask him. He said he wanted to. That's not a reason!

We have been in a relationship for three years and been living together for an year . I don't feel our relationship is lacking anything , I care for her like a good husband would and try my best to ensure that she is happy and comfortable in my house . However in the past three or four months , she has brought up marriage very often . My opinion is , that she should complete her education first ( she is doing her masters ) and then we can think about marrying .and that would be another two years atleast . Another thing is , I don't believe in marriages but I may say yes to it , because she wants it , anyways I don't want a wedding atleast for a few years . When I say this , she gets very upset . Why doesn't she understand that a fancy wedding and a ring won't make any difference in my attitude towards her . I still love her immensely and she is my priority but getting upset over this marriage business is sure to spoil our relationship. What should I do

Before husband can get any quality time. She apologizes when called out but then does nothing about it. Why do so many women understand that their marriage is the foundation for everything

Basically It was me, my friend Marlon and his girlfriend Sam. We moved in together after High school graduation. A few months later we start having one of our friends from high school, Lexus, over a lot. We were all cool with it. But then i find out Sam and Lexus slept together. He figured i wouldn't care. In his mind, maybe he thought i would be like, "He won't be mad, it just proves she's a whore" I didn't know what to do. Should i just kick him out and then when they ask why, Spill the beans on Sam? Or go to Marlon directly and tell him? What if i tell Marlon, him and Sam argue about it, then make up, and i look like the instigating friend trying to break them up. Because it's not like a hated Sam i figured she made a mistake. Turns out she also slept with another friend of Marlon. Then he finds out, **** goes down, the guy leaves, sam marlon talk it through. A couple weeks go by. Marlon thinks there's something between sam and lexus. He confronts him man to man. Lexus lies. Then he tricked Sam into confessing. We kick lexus out. Marlon later tells me. All that happened was she started blowing him then chickened out. But i know They slept together multiple times. At this point it's hard to even look at her the same. Should i tell him still? Or is the damage done? It's been about a month since all that went down and they are trying to work things out. They seem pretty happy at the moment.

When I was a teenager I became a victim of human trafficking I was bought and sold repeatedly eventually when I was in my early twenties I was given an offer this rich guy wanted his son to settle down which was a little odd I admit but because his son was a loser he never had luck with the ladies so his dad hired me to pretend to fall in love with him and marry him. The sickest part is his dad used to be one of my clients. I stopped viewing myself as a person a long time(it made my situation easier) ago I didn't come from a bad neighborhood or anything I came from a good family and I never wanted to be this kind of woman. I want to be a good mother and I want things to be real with my husband but part of me resents him because his dad basically paid/bought me for him and even though he has no idea, I sometimes take my anger out on him by being condescending. My father in law constantly treats me like property(he doesn't respect me as the mother of his grandchildren) and part of me feels like I shouldn't complain because I let him put me in this situation on the other hand I feel like I've failed as a mother because I tell my daughter whose five to never let anyone treat her badly when I let people walk all over me. The truth is I am afraid to do anything because I'm ashamed of what my family (I have not seen my parents in years) would think of me back home and I'm afraid of my daughter and son losing respect for me if the truth came out. In a perfect world I could tell the truth see my parents again, work things out with my husband, and keep my kids respect but I'm afraid I'll lose everything. I'm tired of being feeling like a possession but it's all I know how to be and I'm afraid of being anything else.

He was looking at her and they are really close friends and my husband is overly friendly which seems like flirting as he makes eye contact n stuffs like that. She is slim and hot. But they have been friends for 4 years. Does this mean anything? Should i talk to him about this please help Opinions?

Very physically affectionate and sexually expressive all the time, with emotional intelligence to know what herself and him are feeling and why, and Very open with words of how she feels for him, loves arts

But I've never had to tell him while he was in a combat situation. He is going to be heartbroken. I don't know how to tell him. I am worried it will hurt him or upset him and he will not be focused while on duty. Any suggestions? Thank you.

can u say which looks better? the top part of her face or the bottom? please just say : top or bottom? i will choose a best answer..tks