I am neutral on the divorce as my sister says horrible things to people when mad and also she left him (he didn't leave her). So I have kept my friendship alive with him even though he wasn't perfect (he had his flaws also). So do I need to disown this friend because they divorced? I am a guy and I knew her ex before they dated though just via a mutual friend. I became friends with him in their 12 year marriage. I told my sister I don't endorse him being sneaky with money but I am not married to him.

They all think that they are special and won't have any problems like the others but eventually 90℅ of them will likely get divorce within two to three years if not less!

My great uncle seldom saw his daughter because he didn't want to deal with his ex-wife. He divorced when his daughter was 12 and would see her maybe once a year only after she became an adult because the ex-wife was always there. He had two sons that he saw a lot more frequently because they were not with his ex-wife all the time so you could see them free of her. So is this OK because the daughter was an adult or was this unfair of him as the daughter I know wished that she could've seen him more often. The great uncle died earlier this year in March. I only know him a little but I heard the daughter talk about this at the funeral. She had several kids as well.

This is what my husband said to me " i need you to stop stalking me im gonna contact your parents. Im also gonna have police contact your sister who lives in my city. Ibe already reported you and if you stop ill ask the cops to stop" Do you know what he means lol maybe he wants to live with me now? Thanks

I met my wife after she was divorced from him, he broke it off and she was real distraught.I was so happy she married me but I knew it was going to be hard to hold onto her. Now he is back in her life and I'm sick. It would really hurt if she is out with him for new years party , I have a dinner reservation for us but she is 6 hours late.

My husband and I have been together for 4 years. Our sex live sucks. He has never given me an orgasm and every time I try to talk to him about it he gets angry. I just don't know what to do anymore. He is a good man. We've been to therapy for it and it doesn't do anything. Every time I sleep with him I think about other men. He also never lasts more than a minute, with or without a condom. Even if we have sex often it doesn't make a difference. I also have to practically beg for it because he doesn't care to do it very much. I want to cheat on him because i am suffering here.I'm 23 and he is 29. What advice do you have for me?

I only make 60k a year and my hubby makes 75k a year. We are purchasing a house and have a 3 year old already. How much must we make to be relaxed and raise a second child? Any tips? We are now eating out only 3 times a month and cook most of the time. He expects me to pay half of everything. He use to pay for everything. IS he using me or am I being unreasonable? I'm use to men paying 100 percent everyday. DO I HAVE A STICK stuck up my a**? Tips please He say's I'm entitled. But I feel he makes more money, therefore he should pay for anything because I'm struggling more. lol

I can feel my skin crawling! Has this happen to anyone? If so, please tell me how to fix this issue.

Husband has a female Friend. Known her a year. I only met her once, but it was literally to see her walk down an isle for her graduation. We got invited to her grad dinner, but he said we had to bail early because he had plans which got cancelled ironically. He's been to her house with my kids. He NEVER tells me when he sees her. I find out if my kids say something. I talk to her occasionally. But I think she only entertains me because I told him how this bothers me. He never invites me to go with him either. He talks to her a lot. So much his mom and best friend said something about it. I am at a loss for words at this point. Am I reading too much into this?

My husband has a close friend who is constantly asking for advice on his situation and despite what we tell him, he does the opposite. Anyways, he has 2 young kids with his ex who lives with her parents. She cheated on him and even infected him with a disease and threw him out/dumped him for talking to other girls online after her behavior. He is from out of state and lives in our area believing that this woman (ex) is going to take him back and is "getting closer" to reconciling. We feel bad for him because while she is living in her parents home with their kids (whom she refuses to let him visit), she makes him deposit his paychecks into a joint account and he has not seen his kids in months. He mostly lives in his truck or with friends or his work vehicle. We have taken him in and had him over for supper several times, but he always feels sorry for himself and gets back on that kick of knowing she "is the one" and "still wants him back" despite her telling him "you are not a priority to me". My husband advised him to talk to the state about court ordered visitation and garnishing her wages or something and he told my husband no, because that would stop her from taking him back and make her mad. What should my husband advise his friend (best friend) to do? They never were even married, she refuses to marry him but he is convinced she wants him!

I'm a 20 year old female and I've a 27 year old husband... Last year (one month after our marriage), my husband had an accident and he became responsible for a 5 year old boy's death... The police arrested him... He was sentenced to pay a blood money for the child's death, but he didn't have enough money to pay the blood money, so he had to go to the gaol... In one side, he felt guilty for the little boy's death and in the other side, the prison officers didn't behave nicely to the prisoners (they tortured them), so my husband became mentally very ill... Finally, this year i succeeded to pay the blood money... My husband is free now, but he's very ill... He doesn't speak at all... Most of the time, he cries... He hates light... I feel guilty for his illness, because i think, i must have paid the blood money sooner to send him free (i didn't have the money before)...

Your spouse keeps posting pics of their kids(from their previous marriage) and themselves on social media but rarely ever puts any pics on there of you would this bother you?

My wife had an affair and divorced me to chase the guy. We have 50/50 custody of the kids. I know that this may seem like a weak question, but it's bothering me right now. When we were going through the divorce she kept putting everything I did down. She told me that she no longer needed me to do anything for her that she had her brother in-law and the new guy to do her stuff. She took our kids to visit her parents out of state. I used to always go on those trips. So, I'm still hurt. She asked me to pick her and the kids up from the airport and I said no...since she told me she had other people to help her out now. Was I wrong? She evidently told our kids that I said no and they are questioning me why. I feel like she wants the best of both worlds. Wants to divorce me and run around with other men, but still wants me there for her to do daily things for her like be her cab driver, etc.

I've been dating now since our divorce to a man that is a family friend. I really like this new man, I always had in the past too.even when I was married we would flirt,he has a great smile and body and money, but now my ex husband in law says he will ruin my relationship with something I did in past. can this be stopped?

We live in a freezing cold place, the fan is purely for noise. Its pointed in the other direction so cold isnt an issue but i cant sleep well when i stay at hers. She brings her fan when she stays at mine. Sometimes I just want her to go home. All i can do is wait until she falls asleep and then turn it off. But sometimes she'll wake in the night and turn it back on and then that wakes me up. She wants to marry but that will mean sharing a bedroom

My wife made a comment and there were other woman near me that overheard. You look just like this naked.. like everything.. your sholders and legs.. and yes your p*nis.. exactly... the woman near by got a good laugh. Why do you think she said that? I asked her why she would say that in front of people she said it was true so why not.

Well the fact is that my wife is having illicit relationship with a guy. Cos I need to go out for my work for several months. We have a 3 year old daughter. The serious thing is I hate her and now my daughter is paying for it. Cos I don't feel like going home and my daughter is missing me. It's almost a month I didn't see my daughter. So pls help me how to deal in this situation Extra info! before our marriage she have been doing this for few times.

I am 48 husband is 55 its my 3rd marriage and his second. We have only been married for little over 2 years. The reason for divorce is over my cat. When we dated I had a cat and he passed away. After lost him I didnt want another cat right away. Fast forward to 6 months ago I asked husband if ok I get a cat again and he said fine as long as older, declawed and fixed. Which was all ok with me. I got one from shelter thats 10 years old and had been there for over a year. Well he was fine at home for first month than started pooping in main hall at base of stairs. We tried everything to get him to stop doing that. Finally about 3 weeks ago my husband said get rid of cat its just making mess and tired of cleaning up poop on the carpet in entry. I told him I cant take back to shelter that would be cruel. His reply was ok is that your final answer. Which didnt make sense to me it was a statement not a answer. Thought he was just flustered over all the pooping on the floor. That leads me to this 2 days ago when he gave me papers asking for a divorce and that I, my special needs adult son and the cat all vacate his home in the next 60 days. I am still in shock he has moved to one of the spare bedrooms. It is his house but I have not been working since before we got married had to quit job because of some medical issues that occured and he told me since were getting ready to marry and my medical issue just to take a break. I love him so much.

Me and my ex-wife have been divorced for 5 years but I can't get over the fact that she left me for NO reason at all. I was always a good husband. I gave her daily foot massages, I licked her vagina for hours, i cooked her organic food, i wrote her love letters and poetry that I hid in special spots for her to find almost every day, i sent her text messages at work telling her "I love you" and "i miss you" several times per day, etc yet she still left me! Well unfortunately for her she is aging very poorly. I stalked her facebook and saw her recent photos and she looks haggard. I am 10 years older than her and at 45 I look like a 30 year old handsome stud. I could probably have any woman I want looking the way I do but because she broke my heart I first need to get revenge before I can move on and start dating again. I want to make her fall back in love with me just so I can leave her and break her heart like she broke mine!

My heart is so broken that it feels like it is iterally bleeding on the inside. Me and my husband been marrired for a year and now he has decide that he wants to leave me. I feel lost but I know God got me. I just wanna know if anyone out there could tell me how they dealt with a situation like this.

I'm extremely worried. :( we have a 6 month old daughter together and she is the light of my eyes. My husband and I have been together for 2 years. He wants to take us with him wherever we go. But there has been damage done in the past I can't seem to move on from. He was texting a number when I was pregnant and was on dating sites. I don't know why. But he was. After I found out I told him I was leaving and he literally broke down and begged and begged for me to stay. Needless to say, I stayed. Slowly repairing our relationship. Things have been great between us. But I still seem to worry... now I'm worried about our relationship and family being in trouble after he graduates Army Bootcamp.