I am a 60 year old hispanic women and have never worked in my life. I've been married to a Vietnam VETERAN who is now 70 years old and is now handicapped and gets money from the VA (or something like that) for being handicapped. He is handicapped because he is old and can barely walk and see due to his age, weight , and health issues (ex: diabetes). I have been taking care of him for all these years. I have also tried to sign up as being a health provider for my husband, but it was not allowed. Now they are not going to allow me to receive social security money because i have not worked even though I've been taking care of my husband, does this count?. Is there any way i can still get the social security money in anyway?

My husband talks to his single friend about nasty stuff, Are all men like this? Regardless of whether they're married or not?

I ve known him a few weeks, we ve connected. Been on one date. Today he said he wants to see me tonight and he would be in my area. I said "Great". So I texted him at 8pm asking him what time could we meet. He never responded and it s almost midnight. I m upset but don t want to sound desperate. I would appreciate him respecting my time. What should I say? Or say nothing when he contacts me tomorrow?

This wasn't the binge watching TV show scenario you see funny memes going around slot. We were on an 8 hour road trip and my husband plugged head phones into his phone to listen to a streaming sports game that he knew i wouldn't be interested in. I was grateful. The trip goes on and on, I keep throwing out comments and observations, forgetting he had his headphones on (he notices whenever i talk, removes an ear bud and asks me to repeat myself every time; chats until it's over and then press his earbud back in). About 6 hours in, at one of the pit stops, I finally ask him "what are you listening to again? I didn't know those games went on that long." And he says, "oh, that was over a long time ago. I downloaded some movies and have been and listening to them." I knew he downloaded movies beforehand, but I thought they were for us to watch together. WTH!? (This isn't a real concern. Our relationship isn't on the rocks and this doesn't put a damper on anything. I'm just curious if anyone has any similar stories or can relate.)

We have a status hearing the 28th this month and I found out I can just file for uncontested divorce hearing which would be the final one to just get divorce over with but my wife has protection order and I can t afford a attorney and I just have two things to have her agree one before but how can I do that without contacting her myself? We agree she will keep the car so I guess I just won t ask judge to have her refinance to make this uncomplicated and we have IRS debt and 4 out of the 5 jobs our mine and I wanted to have her split it 50/50 but I don t have proof she unreported those jobs without my knowledge sonshluod I just take all that debt as well ?

Two months ago my best friend thought of divorcing her husband and as of last week, has started the process. He is emotionally abusive, gets jealous of her guy friends, and has tried for years to keep her from going out with her friends, going to college, and getting a well paying job . So, now that she is going through with the divorce she's under a lot of pressure. She works as server, but she's looking for a job that pays more so she can afford to buy a car and move out, and into one of her friend's apartments. Anyway, now that I know what's happening, how should I approach this situation? I know she's in a tough spot right now and I want to be there for her as a friend and not put anything else on her shoulders, but i also want to let her know what I'd like in the future. So would it be okay to let her know that, if she wants to and when she's ready, I'd like to date her? I know now isn't the time to specifically ask her out yet, but I want to put the thought into her head so she knows. Although she's very modest about it, she has a lot of admirers. When her coworkers realized she was getting a divorce many jumped at the chance to ask her out. So far she's turned them all down, saying she wasn't interested in dating anyone right now, but I know that won't last and I don't want to miss my chance. So would it be okay for me to let her know that I'd like to date her when she's ready to start dating again or should I wait? P.S. She's given me hints, through our relationship, that made me think she also may like me as well. She's told me that I'm one of the most amazing people she's ever met, she told me a story about how she joked with a friend (who was flirting pretty obviously with her at the time) how if she was single and would date anyone in our group it would be me not him. She also asked me if I would actually date her if she was single and told me that she had what she called a 'married girl' crush on me

I have to leave at 11pm to go pick up my husband at work. Since it is warm out and I am not going in anyplace and only going to be gone for about 45 minutes I am going to drive in my bare feet and not bring my shoes.

Well I know we have to sign papers, but I do not understand what kind of papers we need to ask for in the county. I read that marriage license last up to xx days before expiring. My question is.. when the marriage license expires does that mean we are not married any more or its not official. Do we have to get remarried since it expires?

I am an aspiring masseuse. Also please guess my age and rate my looks 1-100.

Does it mean you're also a killer?

Why would you want to marry?

I am almost 26. I have this manager who is 6 months younger than me and married. Unfortunately, I have a gigantic infatuation with him. Don't worry, I'm not the type to go after a married, family man. I am just curious about his behavior. In the beginning, we didn't really get along. Sometimes, we still don't get along. He gets stressed out and frustrated often so he can be hard to deal with, but he quickly gets over his frustrations. On Halloween, I got to wear kind of a lowcut Batwoman shirt to work as my "costume". I noticed him taking peeks at my cleavage. In early October, I had to go to the ER for a chronic condition that upsets my heart sometimes. The next day, I called work to call out because it was doctor's orders. Another manager answered and said my crush had told her what happened, that he had seen on Facebook and was "really worried" about me. He actually called me after work to see how I was feeling and to see if I'd be working the next day. I was in shock, I didn't think he cared. Fast forward to recently, my best guy friend passed away a few weeks ago. I took a week off of work to grieve. My crush didn't acknowledge it, other than asking me how I am, when I first got back to work. He has actually been a tiny bit nicer since I've been back. A few days ago, I posted a long note on Facebook about my bond with my deceased best guy friend and my crush "liked" the note, meaning he read it. A couple days later, I mentioned on FB how I was depressed and how stress from work wasn't helping. He unexpectedly commented and asked "Why are you stressed at work?" I said "everything and then some, it's hard not to be" and he commented and said "I know it's hard, but leave the stressing up to me." I was totally in awe. He seems to notice a lot of my FB posts, even though he doesn't always "like" or comment on them. He has over 800 FB friends, I'm a little surprised he pays that much attention to my posts. What's with his behavior? Sometimes, he completely ignores me or is a douche. He recently compared me to my friend/coworker (who is 16) and said how she can do something better than I can. I've been giving her crap about it ever since and the other day, he told me I had to do a certain thing if I wanted to be like her and I asked "who said I wanted to be like her?" and he asked "why wouldn't you want to be like her?" -_- NYC-I clearly posted within the first few sentences that I am not the type to go after a married, family man.

She got pulled over with me today for going too fast in the snow and she tried to get out of the ticket by offering sex to the police officer. She is now in jail. She is normally always at church and stuff but in the past two weeks she's been sneaking out and coming home all pale faced and is not eating

Im currently 27 years old been seriously involved with a 24 year old guy since last December who lived an hour half away and moved close to me a few months ago. We both have 3 year old daughters who get along for the most part. Ive been staying at his apartment once he moved closer. When I met him he just graduated as a soft ware engineer and was unemployed when we first started dating. I wasbworking retail when we met.and I went back to school in the fall. He got a job this past spring.. We have really good sex life and l connect on so many ways. November: few days after my birthday he was calling women off backpage ads and what appeared to me was looking for a threesome. I had went to tutoring one evening and according to him after he put his kid to sleep, he tried inviting them over. He gave them to "wrong" -apartment number and the the next night I was getting my hair done and had his kid with me and I he googled an address and it was linked to another sex ad. He said he was heading there but turned around. I broke up with him and he's begging for me back and is swearing to change everything's Recently he hit up an old classmate and I got really uncomfortable and jeolous and didn't talk to him for a few days. He started therapy recently and wants to change and he does really nice things for me but I am worried his infidelity won't change. He has so far stopped taking me things away when he's angry.

I split up with my husband a year ago and we recently got back together and he promised me that he would propose again. When I recently cried and asked him why he still hasn't bought me a ring, he says that all I do is ***** about it and that he's doing me a favor. I feel like he doesn't care about me because i think if he did he would re-propose without saying I'm bitching and that he's doing me a favor. How should I feel?

I met my current girlfriend after she had just been out of a divorce for about a year and a half or two. She receives alimony and she received a settlement but her alimony is for only five years and it runs out this year. She blew through all her money thinking she was still a stay-at-home mom. I helped their breakdown her expenses and told her that she had to save money and even created an envelope system for her. The thing is if I wasn't helping her she would end up becoming destitute. The other day she got upset because she mishandled her finances and she is careless with her money and almost $200 was missing because she spent here and there where she wasn't supposed to so she got really frustrated and it affects our relationship when she's too frustrated to be in a relationship. So the very next day she takes her two boys out to a fancy restaurant, granted she got a job there by talking to the owner, but at the same time I guess I'm just scratching my head wondering what she's doing spending that money. On top of that whenever my birthday or Christmas comes around she always claims she never has any money to get me a gift, which I can understand. So her alimony is about to run out and I'm afraid when it does she's just not going to have any money and then she's going to ask me for help and I'm seriously going to have to decline and that might be a deal-breaker for her and me. What do you think?

I am about to tell him not to. But don't want to hurt his feelings. I hardly wear the items he buys me.

Does anyone know if finding someone listed as "Banana" in a persons contacts means anything? Is there any meaning to that?

I am going in for hip and back surgery, and he does not want to divorce me b/c of all the money he would lose, so he thinks he can get rid of me this way--can he legally in Texas?, And if he tries to do it by locking me out, what actions can I take to prevent this? Needless to say, we do not get along--he is retired,I am disabled and we are around each other all the time. CanI call the police to get back into my house? Right now,divorce is not an option for me and I want to live in my house--it is half mine.

His Mom just told me that his first wedding with his first wife was much nicer and much more expensive than mine was. This made me feel kind of cheated, His Mom told me this last night after we hung out at her house playing cards, my husband wasn't there at the time, do I bring this up to my husband and tell him how low class I feel now?

If he had filed taxes like he should have (made income just didn't file)the last two years, he could have covered his 3 kids on heath insurance for free in 2017, because he makes less than 50K per year and is unmarried. He can't cover them at all now because he isn't' even in the system, and has no facts to base up his income. But since I make over 100K per year and self employed, I have to pay full rate of $525 per month for 3 kids on MY plan, or $262.50 per month($3,150 per year) for my wife and I's half of just the kids heath insurance. This is total bullshit because if he had just filed taxes like he should have, I would owe nothing for the kids and he wouldn't either. We have joint custody so we have to split everything 50/50 for the kids. What should I do? He obviously committed tax fraud the last two years and now costing us money from his juvenile actions. Any thoughts? Should my wife and I take him to court to force him to pay the whole amount like he should be?? Wife's ex husband hasn't filed tax last two years, now costing us in $3,150/yr in health insurance. What to do? Wife's ex husband hasn't filed tax last two years, now costing us in $3,150/yr in health insurance. What to do?

Me and my fiancee split up . We have 2 children under 4 together .He owns a home and was going to rent it to us because otherwise he would lose it not being able to afford child support on our 2 and the mortgage.I am currently unemployed but job hunting. His schedule is open so I can't even plan a work schedule around it .There for I will need child care assistance and food assistance while I get reestablished. My question is can I get the benefits I need if the house Is technically in his name Or will I have to move to an apartment ? This would be a temporary situation maybe 5 months but needed immediately so I am not trying to get sec 8.

What was the relationship like? Did you have to tell people that your boyfriend/girlfriend had been divorced? What did you tell your children?

He makes all the money. I basically have nothing but my car which I purchased before he and I ever met. I want to know if it's best to remain unemployed or do I need to find a job and my own place before filing? I need to figure this out in order to determine how much longer I need to stay in this relationship. I know I have to work as a single parent, but I want to be in the best possible position for myself when I actually file. Is it better to still be dependent upon the spouse or does it look better if I already have my stuff together? We live in Philadelphia, PA and we rent and have no shared assets.

Where do I begin? When husband and I met, he was in grad school and used their online bank to handle his money. When he graduated and became a professional, he had his checks deposited into my checking account. I gave him the pin and password so he'd have equal access to funds, but he always "forgot" the info and came to me for money. I continually told him to get his own bank account, but he never would. Then whenever we were running low on funds, he'd sulk and say he wished he was in charge of the money. Again, I'd give him all the info he needed to monitor our spending and he would "forget" it all over again. So, he eventually got his own account, but after a few months he decided to close it because he didn't like how they did business. Back to depositing checks into my account. Back to his nonsense of asking me for money and complaining about not being "in charge." Two years later and he has finally gotten his own account again. But he refuses to create a budget or savings. He says there's no point because he doesn't make enough money to save. He wants to buy a house but doesn't want to talk to the bank. He just sits on Trulia looking at houses. I don't even know if I really have a question, it's just really frustrating to watch. I don't know how to approach the subject with him but I find his attitude toward money to be very strange.

My kids are 3 and 1. I'm thinking of divorcing my husband. If not in the near future, then inevitably because I don't see things ever changing. He's impossible to talk to unless it's lighthearted. Can't talk to him about anything serious. He either shuts down or gets defensive, blows up, then apologizes later. He's really passive aggressive. He's immature, indecisive, a slob, not a team player. He doesn't understand the concept of partnership at all. It's beyond waiting for him to grow up or change. I'm convinced he just doesn't have the tools. I'm not perfect, but I'm thoughtful and open, honest and caring. He's just none of those things, even though he thinks he is but he never outwardly demonstrates it. He's unsure of himself most of the time and always avoids making real strides towards improvement. He makes a lot of excuses and procrastinates like no other. Obviously, I'm over it. I think divorce is inevitable. I just need to save enough money to make it happen. I don't want my children to be traumatized or emotionally damaged. My parents have been married all my life and they're best of friends. My husband's parents divorced when he was a baby. He once said a divorce would destroy our kids. (Then he said he wasn't destroyed by his parents' break-up, he was an exception to the rule. <----- See, stuff like that! How can you build a relationship with a person like that?) Anybody here who can tell me the truth about divorce and how it affects small children? Thank you.