I have a pin pal in Japan and we have known each other for about 8 months. Christmas came around and I thought it would be a great idea to get him a gift. I gave him some homemade honey because my mother is a beekeeper and a small stone statue about the size of an apple. He ended up getting me a Sword art online book from reki kawahara, several rare Pokemon cards signed by the artist and his Great Grandfathers helmet from WW2. Those are amazing gifts way better than what I got for him. I feel really bad about it and feel like a horrible person. There is no way I can accept his great grandfathers helmet. How could I give it back to him and tell him I cant accept it with out offending him?

I was at this bakery and I sat at the table and I got my book out to read while I had my coffee. As I was getting my book out from my bag, there was a guy (who was pretty cute) who was two table away from me and we made eye contact and (just to be polite) I smiled at him and I began to read. Shortly after, I looked up and I saw him standing there. I started at him and waited for him to say something and he said "uh... um... Will you marry me?" And I think he saw how shocked I was because he apologized and backed away slowly and into the waiter who was carrying some pies and they both went crashing down and everyone starred at them. The guy then got up and apologized to the waiter and then to me and rushed out the door. Everyone then starred at me and I just hid inside my book until I felt it was safe to leave. Is this normal?

We have bought every single one of her clothing. She lives with us most of the time because her mother decides to choose to drink. We have heard her hit the child before while she was drunk. I failed to record it. Recently, the child's dad came into town and now is living with her mother. The mom is homeless and is living with various people. Ever since this man came into there life, the moms drinking has become worst because the dad is also an alcohol. The dad is a meth head but we have no proof. We could of called the cops on the mother various times but we didn't because of the fear of losing my little sister. The mother is $20,000 dollars in debt with child support and the dad pays $400's of money for meth. The mother have not had a job for 4 years and lives off food stamps and relying on other people to get her the things she wants. My mother is not suited to become custody of my little sister because of her past history of fighting for custody of myself and my brother. She also had a DUI and she can barely walk. The only person I can think of who is suited to fight for custody of this little girl is myself. Although I heard it is hard to gain custody of a child when you are not related to them. One evidence we have is that the mother signed a paper that was proof of residency, showing the fact that the child lives in our home and we went to get it notarized. Do we have a strong case if we were to fight for custody even if we aren't biologically related to her?

...that I voted for her?

Gosto de um rapaz mas ele tem namorado, mas dámo-nos super bem e toa a gente pergunta se namoramos. E sempre que não há ninguém acredite. Trabalhamos um tempo na mesma empresa e um dia em um rapaz que dizia que é '' comer '' como funcionárias todas e um dia perguntou um esse rapaz se ele era meu namorado e ele disse que sim. E eu perguntei o motivo e ele disse para a proteção não quero nenhum rapaz à tua volta. Quem vai cuidar de ti sou eu. Mas agora cada vez que os dois estão juntos por um namorado e eu digo que não. Mas não sei como reagir. Ajudem-me. O que faço?

try on frilly women's things to see how they look and feel waltzing about in them ?

I think he's going nuts. What should I do?

I have a child who i share visitation with (his dad) and sometimes when he comes back, his diaper area looks different. This time, around his bootyhole and on his booty cheeks, he has a red circular spot. I am wondering if he just let him sit in a poopie diaper for too long or is this sexual abuse. Any nurses or social workers who can tell me about this? Is this sexual abuse or neglect? If so, what is the first thing I should do?

Long story short, back in late 2006 I met a guy over the internet that claimed he was from/lived in County Wicklow, Ireland. He was a good friend, but he lied about certain other things...I was just curious to see if he really existed, lol. He said he went to East Glendalough school. He was born in 1990, so he would be featured in the 2001 - 2007 yearbooks or so. He actually scanned in a few yearbook photos for me to see, but where it shows the name was cut off. We had planned to meet someday, but it kept falling through on his end and it's bothered me since. I don't necessarily want to put his personal information on here in case it's true...but if you have access to those yearbooks, please leave a quick answer on here and then shoot me an email at lioness724@snet.net and I'll ask you a few questions. We only ever corresponded through Myspace, Facebook, and email...he never wanted to talk on the phone or write to me...which just made my suspicion worse. Thanks in advance!

I'm a white teenage male with black hair, and I was considering getting highlights for it. I've only known one guy at my school last year who did it with his long hair. I know a couple other guys with short hair who've dyed theirs, so it doesn't seem to look so effeminate for them. But it just seems so uncommon for guys with long hair to dye theirs or get highlights for it.

So my fiance and I was together for 2 1/2 years while I was pregnant he messed with someone else he went back to her after we had a fight he still hits me up asking for money and on Christmas we had sex afterwards I asked was he in love with the other woman he told me to mind my business and it was his relationship we had unprotected sex and he came in me he says he misses me and he wants me to help fix his car but he still stays with her so why can't he ask her?

She's married with 3 kids but she insists on not making it a big deal and that we should get intimate in bed etc. Im single so i really dont care about her husband and / or kids since she wants it as much as i do. And she got the mommy type of body that i adore. So why should a man refrain from fornicating with a married woman ? Bonus question: why would a married woman with kids choose to have a sexual relation with another man .

I catfished her, ended it by pretending to be dead. Kept in contact on another account, claiming to be a friend of my catfish self. A month ago, I apologize in a long text, admitting everything and showing my true self. She says she doesn't want me to leave, she says she loves whatever is the same of my old self. The latter day, she's gone. I just don't know how to feel, put yourself in my shoes and imagine how you'd feel? It's not guilt, am I in love with her or something? Why can't I just get over her leaving without notice?

I'm horny, send me nudes and I'll send you nudes just hmu

've been dating this girl for a couple of months now and she makes everything ok she makes me feel young and I'm just so in love with her and everything about her. Her style, hair, eyes, smile, she brings me to heaven. I've done the whole flowers and chocolates and everything but we haven't slept with each other yet. Actually because I wanted to show her I love her for more than her body but at night I feel frustrated. I want to kiss her neck and caress her hair, I want to massage her with oils, with all due respect I want to grab her big fat *** and kiss her whole body head to toe and caress her breasts I want more than sex I want to make love to her. I want to stare into her eyes under dim lights and tell her she's my everything. I want to make her wet. I want to bathe with her with candles and I want to shower her with gifts and play piano for her and have a candle lit dinner with her on my roof top. I'm crazy about her. But I don't want to come off as weird. I want to tease her. I want to lay with her skin to skin. I tell her she's special and amazing but I feel the need to make her feel that way. I want to do it infront of the fire place. I want to spank that and make her feel appreciated and desired. Idk if women want to feel that way though. But she's my cleopatra my princess. The body of a goddess with the mind of a genius I want to spoil her

My ex like an idiot was in a moto accident yesterday he and his bosom friend were racing in a motorbike outside of the city of Paris like they do every week since he got his new motorbike when he lost control and crashed with an iron fence sending him off the bike and crashing on the floor where he rolled for over 6 meters he's just 22 he is a self loving coño and I love him even though he is my ex he still hasn't woken up he is in a very delicate state he has a broken arm shoulders and his knee part of his face has a bad scar I went to go see him today but his future wife started insulting me as usual his dad mom and her sister were defending me but his grandfather insulted both of us he told us to fight outside until we break each other's heads his grandson might die and we are here fighting over a stupid competition but I had to leave but I just want to see him only once and know he's okay but his future wife won't let me what do I do?

I went out with a good friend I ve known for years he s been trying to be intimate with me but I had not given in. I usually drink harder liquors but this time I just had 2 shots of whiskey and 3 beers. In a 3 hour period. Well I completely lost myself leaving the restaurant maybe in a 30 minute period blacked out vomited on myself which has never happened before I woke up confused 1 hour later can t remember anything.

I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 months now and we're both in college so we basically live together in his dorm room at this point. I spent fall break and thanksgiving break at his house with his family. His family and him were all born in Mexico but all of his siblings are fluent in English however his parents struggle with it. I've studied Spanish for 5 semesters so I can say basic sentences to them but I mainly speak in English because I'm not confident in my Spanish yet so I'm very quiet when I stay at his house. His mother acts like she likes me but she's told my boyfriend that dating a Hispanic girl would be much better and that he'll 'find another gf eventually' so he shouldn't bring me around so much. I don't know what to do, I frequently study Spanish so I'll become better but she clearly doesn't like that I'm not already bilingual. I don't know what to do, should i just stop visiting his family all together?

So I broke up with my boyfriend about two weeks ago because I felt that he was really untrustworthy and I knew I deserved better. We hadn't really talked after that but last night he drunk called me to tell me to "have fun with my new boyfriend" which I don't have. He also told me that I can "f*** whoever I want" and later in the conversation as he drank more he said he loves me and began to randomly tell me his life updates. I am very confused as I don't really know if he is jealous or what.

Now before we begin, let me make one thing clear. I didn't move out. I am still living with my parents. I had some old toys and childhood keepsakes that were stored in the basement. One day, I went downstairs to the basement to search for my stuff and found out that all of stuff from my childhood are all gone! When I ask my dad about it, He just simply said, 'welll I thought you don't wan't it anymore, so I donated it to the thrift store. He just assume that I didn't want the stuff anymore without even asking me. If he doesn't want my stuff to be in his basement, he could've just tell me about it, I'm more than willing to put my stuff back into my living room. He didn't even bother to ask me about it. I really don't understand why does he do that? I was quite shocked by this because he had never done such a thing like that before. In the past, he rarely even goes through my stuff and throw my things away without asking me. My dad is a short tempered man, I was afraid to ask him for an explanation. So I asked my mom to do it for me. When my mother confronted my dad about it, he get angry, defensive and ignores her. He doesn't even bother to give any explanation.

I'm a teen girl. I have a HUGE crush on Shawn Mendes. I have literally saved images of him to my computer, printed them and put them around my bedroom, and I follow him on Twitter. I also have an autographed cd book, that I keep in a frame and just sit and stare at every day. Is this normal? Did you ever do this? I'm not obsessed, I know that for sure... I'd also like to know how to get over him? Thanks!

my little brother is adopted by my family my family is Spanish and he's black and Jamaican. I've always known men to talk less . women talk more then men. men are more on the quite. my brother talks and talk and talk s and it annoys and make me upset but ill let it go and be just as talkative as him. but what could be the cause of this. could it be a childhood trauma that made his sprit over-active in the talking?

I asked him "do you not love me anymore or do you still love me?" He said that SHUT THE **** UP!!!! You are still my baby but we aren't date so therefore I'm not ready. So please shut the **** up before you know me will talk **** what do you think?

I made friends with a female in a social group and I know she is already married. However, I didn't see anything wrong with inviting her out as a friend for a drink and a social outing. So I texted her and asked if she wanted to come out to shoot some pool and chat with hanging out at the bar and she told me she was down with that. However, I get a call from her crazy husband who called her from her phone and I thought it was her and he said something like: "HEY SO YOU DO KNOW I AM HER HUSBAND, RIGHT?! SO I WOULD NEED TO BE INFORMED AND IF YOU EVER INVITE MY WIFE OUT, I GO WHERE SHE GOES SO YOU NEED TO INVITE ME OUT TOO!" He sounded a little weary about it when he said it and assumed something was up between us. He even asked why I didn't think to invite him out too and he was worried I was hiding something between me and her or that we had a fling. I could understand if he is worried about it but I think he is overreacting and should allow his wife to have friends. Do you agree with this that he is overreacting?

OK, so i feel like this teacher is attracted to me, but id like to hear it from you. He's an older man, with a wife, kids, & grandkids. i had him for class last year, he told me i was his favorite. The minute we met, i felt this insane tension. I'm 16, so I'm not oblivious lol. He would come up to me, & touch my back, & arms. He once quoted romantic lyrics to me and called me pretty in front of the whole class. Everyone caught on, but he didn't seem to care. We became really close, and he asked me to aid for him so we could go to events out of school. He even went on to say he would "take care of me''. As days went on, he would rub my shoulders and whisper "hows that?', stare at me from across the room, and more. ill spare all of the events for sake of long reading, but this year things advanced. He calls me "his girl", and he hugs me often. HIs hand is always real low when we hug. He is a very attractive man, especially for his age, so he has a bit of an ego. He is very charming. he tells me he loves me, and even invited me to stay with him over thanksgiving break if i didn't want to leave town with my family lol. he isn't just flirty, he does care. if I'm not eating, he asks why not. one day, it was freezing outside and he came and held me close from behind. people told me it looked odd. he rubs my shoulders, and he smirks every time he sees me. one time when we sat next to each other in the dark, i fell asleep & when i woke up, he stared at me deep in the eyes and smiled.

Maybe I could just couch it in hypothetical terms... I could go like: "What works with MY girlfriend, is doing X, Y, or Z..." That way, he won't have to know.

Ok I'm in a bit of a desperate situation b/c this is my last week working for seasonal at a local Target, and Wednesday is the last day that he (my crush) and I are scheduled to work on the same day. I was just gonna try to get his number and hopefully go from there. I tried looking for him on Facebook, but it doesn't appear that he has one (kinda weird in this day & age), so Wednesday is basically do or die. I've only talked to him before over something work related, but not on a personal level. Do y'all have any suggestions on how I can start a conversation with him and sorta ease into me asking for his phone number? I've never really done this (talking to a guy I like) before. Y'all: "shoot your shot" is essentially slang meaning try to talk to someone you like in hopes of y'all maybe becoming more than friends/acquaintances or whatever. If you were to just read the description, you would determine that I'm not trying to kill my coworker that I have a crush on.