Friends: Question: I've been kicked out of a friend group by seemingly nothing. Am i over reacting? |
- Question: I've been kicked out of a friend group by seemingly nothing. Am i over reacting?
- Question: Should I tell my mother my best friend healed my eyes with his healing tears?
- Question: My friend ryder can't nut. any advice?
- Question: Older girl threatening me over ex boyfriend - help?
- Question: Im 16 and bored with my friend, fun activity for us to do?
- Question: How do I ask my best friend to spend more time with me?
- Question: Graduating high school with no friends :( ?
- Question: Gift giving?
- Question: Is my mom ok looking.she feels plain?
- Question: Please answer fast?
- Question: Should i consider these people not my true friends? Please be nice enough to give me a thoughtful answer and not just try to get points?
- Question: How do i stop being scared to stick up for myself?
- Question: I don't understand my life?
- Question: My mom hates the fact that I am still friends with an ex?
- Question: I need help.?
- Question: Gift idea??
- Question: How to make things better??
- Question: How can I get over someone who will never like me back?
- Question: Christmas gift for someone who likes jazz and boxing?
- Question: Do you think I will ever be able to talk to my friend again?
- Question: Anybody out there depressed from the job their parents forced them into?
- Question: Family Feud for Christmas ..?
- Question: Accidentally pushed autistic friend into pool FORGETTING she couldn't swim?
- Question: How to ask my friend if she can hangout with me more?
- Question: How to have a friend?
- Question: My friend wants me to come over tonight to hang out at her house, I said I would but it's honestly to cold to go anywhere. It's 22 degrees?
- Question: My friend is obsessed with a girl. What should I do?
- Question: Should I add her on Facebook?
- Question: SHOULD I FIGHT THIS B****?
- Question: I work with a 15 year old and hes a brat what do i do?
- Question: My friend doesn't care I got rejected from my dream school?
- Question: So im hanging out with a group of friends and another person from a diiferent group of friends asked if he can come with me.?
- Question: Why don't people like me?
- Question: Why is my sister being a c u n t?
- Question: Friend keeps cheating off of me?
- Question: I really don t like my friend anymore, but I already booked a europe trip with him. Need advice?
- Question: I was just embarassed in public (how to recover)?
- Question: I miss my old online friends?
- Question: I have a friend that cant dress?
- Question: Should I go to private college with my sister or public college with my best friend?
- Question: In love woth best friend?
- Question: Can I get in trouble doing this?
- Question: Should I just move on?
- Question: I gave my friend the middle finger as a joke and now he doesn't want to talk to me?
- Question: How do you win friends?
- Question: Switching schools halfway through 8th grade?
- Question: I think I'm in love with my best friend's girlfriend?
- Question: My friends said i was screaming "I am going to die!!!" while i was on LSD i too be honest don't remember it Are they lying?
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- Question: What should I do? Best friend is talking bad about me, my family, boyfriend, and sharing a pic of his body so she can bully him. Help??
- Question: Should I blame the alcohol?
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- Question: How to get over losing many friendship at once?
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- Question: I did something bad im scared?
- Question: Surprise gone wrong and fighting with friends??
- Question: I always feel the need to talk to my one friend?
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- Question: I don't know what i'm going to do about my anxiety. I feel so pathetic.?
| Question: I've been kicked out of a friend group by seemingly nothing. Am i over reacting? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 05:35 PM PST All my friends and i seemed to get along about a month ago, but all of a sudden they just kicked me out? i am very shy and not that outgoing, but I've always been there for them. it also seems like they rub it in my face, posting videos and pictures of the group, except me, on instagram. am i over reacting? |
| Question: Should I tell my mother my best friend healed my eyes with his healing tears? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 05:28 PM PST |
| Question: My friend ryder can't nut. any advice? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 05:17 PM PST |
| Question: Older girl threatening me over ex boyfriend - help? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 05:02 PM PST Ok so I was a fake friend to a bunch of kids and i forced a break up between a high school senior and her ex. I didn't think she would take it so seriously and she said i deserve the consequences. I'm only 14 and this is my second year of high school because i started in 8th grade. My parents are too busy to even care about my well being because my mom works in the fashion industry and my dad is always working too building houses, fixing roofs and leaks, etc. Neither of them have the time to even hear it. Someone told me that the girl is gonna beat me up or try to hurt me because shes so upset about it. I told her that shes not my parent so she can't tell me to refrain from being a fake friend. Kids are leaving notes on my locker anonymously telling me to dig a hole and bury myself, rant paragraphs, and mean notes. |
| Question: Im 16 and bored with my friend, fun activity for us to do? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 04:52 PM PST Hey, I looked up this question but all the lists were made by parents. Lets face it me and my friend aren t going to knit a ****ing sweater or build a blanket fort.... Any suggestions? We just got on break for two weeks and a long project is great too. I can drive but my friend cant. |
| Question: How do I ask my best friend to spend more time with me? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 04:46 PM PST Just to point out, I do have other friends that I hangout with it's just that I'm sad I don't get to see her often anymore. Since she started dating her boyfriend in July she seems to have been hanging out with me and talking over the phone less and less. We text everyday still and she still sees me as her best friend too but I only get to see her once a month or maybe twice if I'm lucky. But she makes more time for her boyfriend than for me. She sees him once or twice a week. I just want to ask you guys how to approach her. Should I be like "hey I'm kinda sad I don't see you as often I feel like you make more time for him than you do for me" I'm not trying to control her life or asking her to spend less time with him or anything like that; I just want to see my best friend mor often and it hurts me that she makes more time for him than she does for me. i would also like to point out that my other friends who are in relationships make time for me and their other friends and my stepmom who is MARRIED sees her friends once or twice a week so i dont think this is something "normal" that happens when you get a boyfriend i think she is having trouble maintaning her relationship AND her friendships |
| Question: Graduating high school with no friends :( ? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 04:36 PM PST I'm so sad because it is my last semester of highschool and I have no friends. I've moved three times now and have never had trouble with this. I moved here to Colorado last year & met 3 bestfriends and had an amazing time, i started dating a guy and it was overall the happiest time of my life. fastforward and he's studying abroad and i have nobody. one of is graduating early and leaving, & the other 2 started treating me not so great. it probably wasnt intentional, but they both started hanging out with a really mean group of people who dont like me. everytime i tried to be nice, i just got excluded, so i just cut them all off. probably not in the most mature way but this has been going on all semester and i was just tired of it. now i have no one and im scared to have to graduate all by myself, miss out on prom, everything, and i feel so lonely :( what should i do, any advice ? thankyou xoxo |
| Posted: 16 Dec 2016 04:29 PM PST I have a new friend and we're actually pretty close already. We talk almost every day and he's talked to me about his problems and I've been a listening ear. And for Christmas I wanted to give him one of my old rosaries as a kind gesture.. is this a good idea? |
| Question: Is my mom ok looking.she feels plain? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 04:24 PM PST http://imgur.com/a/eot40 |
| Posted: 16 Dec 2016 04:05 PM PST My grandpas friend died and he's writing a letter. We were wondering if this common made sense. "Your life was a blessing, and your memory is a treasure. You will be missed from your old friend, XXXX XXXX. |
| Posted: 16 Dec 2016 03:54 PM PST I have ppl in my life that I consider good friends but they never take time or effort to like any of my posts on fb, like pics for example. Or wish me happy birthday on facebook or text. What bothers me is that they take time effort to like their other facebook friends posts and wish them happy birthday but won t do the same for me.. They act nice to my face tho. And only really contact me when they need something from me. So I have started treating them the same way and realizing they don t really care abt me. Am I correct? |
| Question: How do i stop being scared to stick up for myself? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 03:51 PM PST I feel so weak! Like i have no backbone.... People think i dont know how to get mad or be mean because i am so nice. I catch myself doing whatever people ask. Im 22 and the kids i work with are years younger than me and they will seriously tell me to do something and i do it because i dont want to seem mean and i dont want to have problems with them. I hate it! I want to be serious and be able to say NO. I find myself acting like another 15 year old laughing and acting silly and not being able to stick up for myself. How do i stop this? |
| Question: I don't understand my life? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 03:44 PM PST Im going to try to be brief but to sum it up, I'm a 16 year old loser. I stay in the house all day and I have no friends. I just feel like I'm wasting my life. I mean I don't even have that one friend who I can just call up and go hang with, I did but he started hanging with a new crowd and wants nothing to be done with me. As do none of my school friends. I hate them all they only talk to me at their convene, sometimes my mom says I'm lucky they talk to me at all but honestly whats the difference? My point being? Idk I just felt like venting. I feel like I'm the only teenager who isn't out of a friday night and this is every weekend for me. My life is a waste :'( |
| Question: My mom hates the fact that I am still friends with an ex? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 03:42 PM PST We broke up a month ago and it seemed like there was more to the story, but I guess it was a difference in religion. She's convinced that he's lying and stringing me along and that I'm just letting him have control over me. Now he's transferring and she's upset that we plan to stay best friends. I'm not sure how I'm supposed to be able to see him if she's still so bothered by our friendship. If only she knew that he truly cared for me.. I really believe that's true. |
| Posted: 16 Dec 2016 03:41 PM PST WARNING - MAY CONTAIN DISTURBING CONTENT. Ok so here's the story. I am 15 years old and a freshman in high school. I have a few friends. I have very strong opinions. But lately people have been making fun of me. I am very small and havexamine extremely small muscles. Kids in my gym class make fun of me. There is this one kid who is never popular. He always tells everyone how he would destroy me in a fight. How he would physically harm me. And I'm sick of it. Everyone at my school has to be better. I have a natural need for power, which I know ia bad and I'm working on it. BUT I CAN'T DO IT ANYMORE. I HATE EVERYONE THERE. I WANT THEM TO FEAR ME, I WANT THEM TO BE SCARED, I WANT THEM TO KNOW WHO THEY ARE MESSING WITH. I ALWAYS TRY SO HARD IN SCHOOL AND I FAIL. I MAKE BAD DECISIONS EVEN WHEN I KNOW THEY ARE WRONG. I AM A BAD PERSON. I studied for over 20 hours on exams and got 70s on 2 of them so far. IT IS INFURIATING. Maybe I am overreacting. I just want people to treat me right. And if I don't fix my perspective on life I will end up doing something bad. Please best advice you can give. |
| Posted: 16 Dec 2016 03:34 PM PST Teen guy, likes lifeguarding, fixing and working on everything, weird gadgets, adventerous things, likes music-piano particularily, sethign funny but entertaining would be good he loves that bertie botts game, |
| Question: How to make things better?? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 03:30 PM PST My name is Ricardo, and I had a close friend for a few years. but a few months ago she told me a secret about her depression. But I said something and thought I made fun of her (but No). She told me to never talk to her and she got distant ..... She was ignoring all my messages ... we did not talk for 2 months...but On Wednesday I sent her roses with a friend. She thanked me, and also told me that it made her da!!!! But we have not talked much yet, She is still distant !!!!is she still disappointed with me ???? What shall I doo!?!? |
| Question: How can I get over someone who will never like me back? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 03:29 PM PST I'm in my freshman year of college, and I've been crushing on this guy who's in two of my classes for over three months now. He's insanely attractive, nice, funny, smart, and he has this bad boy vibe going on (something which I'm a sucker for lol). We've sat next to each other in class a few times and got along really well, and he was also acting kinda flirty. However he's very popular, loud and confident, and I'm shy and introverted, and although I'm not ugly I'm no beauty either. He's also never talked to me or interacted with me in any way outside of class. He hasn't even added me on Facebook even though we have like 10 mutual friends. I know that he's completely out of my league, but I just can't help being super attracted to him, and knowing that he'll never like me back or even want to be friends with me hurts me so much. Every time I see him chatting to his friends and walking off with them after class I want to cry because I wish that I could be close with him like that, but I know that I never will be. How can I get over him? I can't take this pain anymore and I know that at this point I need to just move on. @ Elaine M Well I'm not assuming or pretending that I'm in a relationship with him, I know exactly what the situation is, so your answer makes no sense lol |
| Question: Christmas gift for someone who likes jazz and boxing? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 03:12 PM PST I am in a secret santa and i have to get something for a friend that likes jazz and boxing a lot. He specifically likes Vulfpeck and Mike Tyson. What is a good gift for him around $20? |
| Question: Do you think I will ever be able to talk to my friend again? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 03:11 PM PST I miss her so much, I can't stop crying. She was the only reason I almost stopped cutting and now im starting again. Her parents let me drop off her birthday present but I had to leave right after I could even watch her open it. Her mom blocked me on her account and she's not allowed to unblock me. How did get in this situation? Well she started cutting I told her to stop I tried so hard to make her stop. Her mom said it was all my fault that I did this that's I made her and that I'm a terrible person. I constantly hear her voice in my head. I miss her so much I can't stop crying or cutting what can I do. She's 14 (she Just had a bday) and I'm 13 |
| Question: Anybody out there depressed from the job their parents forced them into? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 02:59 PM PST I m pretty sure there are people out there. Anybody want to fight me, they are welcome. And no, you are not better than those people. They keep at their job continuing to do what needs to be done, and do well at this stuff, and they are busy every second with no personal time, maybe miserably twice a month in short time. Are they happy? No sir. Actually, I should say profession. |
| Question: Family Feud for Christmas ..? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 02:58 PM PST I'm currently bringing litigation against my sister, because she is the Executrix over my Mother's Will and is not following my Mother's wishes / instructions. Per the Will, my sister is to sell my Mom's old house, when she is no longer residing there. She hasn't been living there since May. Instead, she has rented it out to at least two different parties, and has not shared the income with me (or our other brother, to my knowledge). After involving a Probate Court Lawyer, she has made repeated lies. 1) She's only been out of the house for six weeks. 2) She has rented the house to a friend, and only charged them reimbursement of the house's utility costs. Additionally - as Executrix, she is required to pay taxes on the property, maintain homeowner's insurance, etc. As of late November, the School Taxes due by August 31st still have not been paid. When she was served with the Notice to Appear in court, her son called and left me a voice-mail message, that "the next time I see you, I'm going to fck you up!" My brother texted me recently, and asked if I was coming home for Christmas. Per him, my sister ("we all") wants you to come home. So - how should I respond to this? 1. I don't socialize with people: I'm in litigation against. 2. who lie to members of the Court. 3. who don't follow Common Law, and shirk their responsibilities. 4. All? Including my nephew who told me he would fck me up next time he saw me??? 5. No response at all - if you can't say anything nice .. |
| Question: Accidentally pushed autistic friend into pool FORGETTING she couldn't swim? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 02:58 PM PST I was at a pool party and a girl I know, who I sense may have Asperger's/autism (but hasn't told me so directly) was present. She had mentioned in the past in conversation that she couldn't swim, but I FORGOT (or somehow failed to recognize this) at the very moment I playfully pushed her into the deep end. However, when she yelled "NO!" as she fell, I then realized and immediately felt horrible. Luckily, our normal friend rescued her and I gave her a serious, genuine apology, promising never to push her again. Even though she had told me previously she couldn't swim, I had NOT taken note of that during my actual push, so could I still have gotten charged with manslaughter or second-degree murder? |
| Question: How to ask my friend if she can hangout with me more? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 02:54 PM PST Ever since she started dating her boyfriend since July she sees him once or twice a week. I on the other hand end up seeing her once a month. Maybe twice if I'm lucky. How can I approach her about this? I asked if I can see her more but it bothers me that she makes more time for him. Can I say this? "Can you please make more time for me? You always make time for him, I want to hangout more with you" or something along the lines of that? |
| Question: How to have a friend? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 02:43 PM PST I can't have any friend everytime I met someone I am kind, funny, trying, I remember small things about people and events but then people leave me, they find other friends and leave me the same situation is with boyfriends I am over 30 and I am alone all my life, I do not know why nobody can love me and why I am not enough I am smart, inteligent, kind and good person and hard working, maybe I am ugly to everyone. I just do not understand anymore why nobody likes me |
| Posted: 16 Dec 2016 02:12 PM PST My friend is sensitive and she already feels as though I don't really like her, which isn't true, I just have a lot of personal problems going on. How do I politely tell her that I'm going to stay in tonight because it's cold out and I'm going to stay in and apply for jobs. |
| Question: My friend is obsessed with a girl. What should I do? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 02:03 PM PST My best friend and I have been friends since 5th grade. Even since he met this girl though, all he does is stupid things to get her attention, and almost completely zones me and my other friend out. What should I do? She's not his gf, they're just friends... I don't want to make him sad, I just want him to do the things we used to. Btw we're in 7th grade so pls base answers off of that |
| Question: Should I add her on Facebook? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 01:48 PM PST Hey guys, This girl Deleted me on Facebook 2 months ago because we got into a big fight that was my fault. we didn't talk for 2 months, But I sent her a long apology text and she said "its sweet of you." but we didn't talk much. I really want to Add her back on Facebook, Should I Add her??? we been friends 4 years!!!! |
| Question: SHOULD I FIGHT THIS B****? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 01:33 PM PST I have this girl, her name is Kiara and she doesn't "bully" me, but she's friends with me but I'm not friends with her anymore because she keeps on being mean to me. I mean it's not just me, it's everyone else, but I'm the type of person that would fight her, but then I can't because I will get suspended and my parents would be very mad at me and also I would be kicked out of basketball also. I don't know what to do. I only hang out with here because my best friend hangs out with her. I be really wanting to fight her so much I just can;t hold in any longer. I don't know if I should just fight her and accept the consequences or not fight her????????????????????// HELP MEEEE |
| Question: I work with a 15 year old and hes a brat what do i do? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 01:20 PM PST I have been here for over a year. Im 22. And i am the shift lead. Well this kid tries to act better and smarter than me. He tries to tell me to do stuff. He just treats me like i am stupid and like he is superior. No one would believe me because he puts on a show in front of other people and acts like we are friend. Im about to lose it! How do i handle this |
| Question: My friend doesn't care I got rejected from my dream school? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 01:12 PM PST I got a letter from my dream school the other day telling me that I wasn't accepted. I'm crushed. I fell in love with the school 6 months ago and have been dreaming about going there ever since. I only told my 2 best friends and told them that I wasn't ready to share with anyone else. One of my friends has been great about it. The other one barely even looked at me the next day. When she did speak to me, it was like nothing ever happened. I'm very hurt. One of the worst things that has ever happened to me just happened, and it feels like she doesn't even care. Should I approach her or just let it go? |
| Posted: 16 Dec 2016 12:16 PM PST How do i turn him down easily? |
| Question: Why don't people like me? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 12:16 PM PST I am 16 years old, close to getting my drivers AND pilots licenses, speak 4 languages (working on my fifth), taking classes two grades ahead of me, set to be next years drumline captain, former Cadet Master Sergeant in both AFJROTC and MCJROTC, and have always looked out for people and been there when they need me. I used to have a group of friends at my old school ,there were about 8-9 of us, but once I transferred schools all but one stopped talking to me. She is (hopefully) my best friend, but something recently may change that. Two weeks ago my best friend of 4 years stopped talking to me because I had expressed my feeling for her and said/asked way too much of the topic of sex. (I don't recall any of this due to new ADD medication I was put on). At my new school people seem to avoid me, they try to sit away from me at lunch, I typically sit alone and work alone in class and on projects, and they only get near me when they have too. I have tried talking to some people in band, but they all say "Okay" or "Neat" then walk away. I feel like nobody wants to be around me and nobody cares about me. |
| Question: Why is my sister being a c u n t? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 12:14 PM PST my sister is 18, and i'm 15. we are literally best friends. i love her to death and her me. she's always the only person on my side. she knows i am not confident with myself and normally goes out of her way to compliment me, tell me i'm pretty or look nice. she always is very delicate with me due to the fact i am easily triggered and very sensitive, and i'm the same way with her. today is friday and since about wednesday she has been being extra... cunty. she has been calling me fat, being rude, screaming at me, judging what i wear, the music i listen to, and who i am friends with, which i really only have one friend outside of her and she has been talking rudely of her. what is her issue? and don't say she's on her period because 1. that's mean and you should never say that about a girl and 2. she's on birth control and doesn't get her period. btw saying she's a c.unt is different than saying she's on her period, she can't control her period. she controls whether or not she's being a *****. |
| Question: Friend keeps cheating off of me? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 12:08 PM PST He always cheats off me and whenever I tell him to stop or take away my paper he always sits by our mutual friends and talks about me to them! Im getting sick of him taking credit for my work. |
| Posted: 16 Dec 2016 11:30 AM PST This might be long, I really appreciate anyone who reads all this and gives my some guidance. So me and two of my friends from my hometown booked a europe trip together. One of them I m really good friends with and I love em (we ll call him friend A) but the other one I ve had a real hard time getting along with since we ve booked the flights (friend B), even though he gets along with friend A. Friend B has constantly insulted me, saying hes just joking , when I ask him to stop he replies, "I m going to say whatever I want and if you don t like that then we don t have to be friends". Whenever I say something mean to him, usually i just call him out and joke about how mean he is, he responds you know every joke has a meaning so I think you re being to mean to me and it s not fair . He s basically a moody 6 year old. Anyway, friend A and B are sort of relying on my friends and family that I have in europe for places to stay, and I don t want B to be a part of this anymore. Friend A would be devastated if I uninvited B, and I don t know if he d go with me or just refund his ticket and stay home. It wouldn t be fair to him, but I feel like if I just suck it up and do the trip as planned it would just be full of arguments and name calling and it just wouldn t be all that fun. The trip is less than a month away and I don t know what to do. Sorry for it being so long, thanks in advance to anyone who answers. |
| Question: I was just embarassed in public (how to recover)? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 11:28 AM PST It feels like the end of the world. And yhe worst part was that my crush, who I liked for a really long time was there. Ok so this is what happened: I was walking with my classmate and we were talking about a project that was due the next day. I told her that it was gonna be really hard since we have a test, but we agreed to meet at my place. So a guy also from my class overhears us and then come to me and says in front of everyone (I'd help you with the project if you give me a nice blow) and I was really embarassed so as I was going down the stairs I turned and said "You have no respect for women,bye" and I tripped and fell all the way down. I heard everyone laugh at me, when I lifted my head up, all I saw was my crush looking at me so I got teary eyed and ran to the bathroom and cried. I am still worried about what might happen tommorow since this happened at the end of the school day. My crush will probably never give me a shot from what just happened today. He looked worried but idk if he laughed afterwards or not. Please tell me what to do about this situation |
| Question: I miss my old online friends? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 11:23 AM PST I met 2 girls about 3 years ago. The girls are friends in real life and are 2 years older than me. We played every single day and talked all the time. Than my dad said I can only play on my computer on weekends. We still talked but not as much. Then about 1 year ago we would message eachother every like 2 months. Now we dont talk. I miss them a lot but I can tell they don't miss me. I think theyve moved on. I cant even find the account we used to chat on. I miss them a lot. I usually don't get messages back. Have they made a new skype acount without telling me? I need some help. Please... |
| Question: I have a friend that cant dress? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 11:19 AM PST I have a friend and she can't dress and today I told her she has to step her dress game up. We go out all the time to the movies , and clubs out to eat and even out of town . And she had a job interview and she was going to the interview with tennis shoes and t-shirt , pants and I told her that you have to go look casusal and nice not with that one. she has a nice house but she is not a clean girl car nasty she don't clean up her house kitchen nasty but she is a nice girl and as a real friend and been honest I told her to step her game up. like one day her boyfriend was looking at me because I was dress and he made a comment you have nice booty and yes that rude and wrong, but if hr boyfriend go somewhere with us she need to start looking nicer |
| Question: Should I go to private college with my sister or public college with my best friend? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 11:03 AM PST I'm a senior this year and my best friend and my sister both want me to go to the same uni as them My best friend is a junior at the state university. It's a good school, a lot of fun, and a little bit cheaper than my other option. I would live with my best friend and our other mutual friend in an apartment off campus. Downside: I would have to major in psychology or something because they don't have my major (social work). but you don't have to major in social work to be a social worker, I would just like to. Another downside, I've never been to public school before. The private college I have a sizable scholarship to so it's just a few thousand dollars more (I'm not taking out student loan, my parents are paying since both college options are actually less expensive than the private high school I went to). I think the atmosphere would be comfortable since I went to a small religious private high school. I wouldn't know anyone there except my sister who is older (getting her masters degree) so I'd be worried about making friends and who to room with. But, they do have my major. I'm completely torn between these two schools. I think there are ups and downs to both. I would have a good experience at either, but I imagine it would be two very different experiences. Can you please offer your opinion, or give me ideas on how to make the final decision? thank you in advance! |
| Question: In love woth best friend? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 10:56 AM PST He is my best friend and i dont know how to tell him i love him ! |
| Question: Can I get in trouble doing this? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 10:55 AM PST I am a girl in high school. I have 3 older brothers that I love dearly. Many times they have talked to me about not having sex until I am 18. However they also know that I don't always do what they want me to do so they gave me a condom and insisted that if I ever do have sex before I am 18 I make the guy us the condom. At school I let a girl use my purse for a mirror and she spotted the condom. She ask me how I got it and I told her my brother got it for me. She told me she wanted to get one also and asked if I would have my brother get her one because she had been having sex without them. She also told some other girls about the condom and they wanted 1 or more for themselves. They told me that since we live in a very small town, they were afraid to buy them as word of what the did might get back to their parents. I told them I would have my brother get them all the condoms they wanted but on second thought CAN I GET IN TROUBLE by giving these girls condoms? Should I do it in town on a Saturday away from the school to avoid problems. |
| Question: Should I just move on? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 10:35 AM PST I have a female friend that I like very much, but we kept the friendship platonic because we're both involved with other people. We hadn't seen each other for a while, so we were keeping in touch via social media. To keep a long story short, the last thing she sent me was a heart emoji, but then joked about it and said it was sent by accident. I sent a heart emoji back and followed it up with a smiley to acknowledge the joke. Well, since then she has gone dark on me. Over the next few weeks I sent another couple messages that she read but didn't reply to. Then I sent another couple of messages that she didn't even read. I've since stopped messaging her because I don't want to be a pest. I'm heart sick about this and I don't want to lose her as a friend. Any suggestions? Should I send her another message and apologize, even though I'm not sure what I'm apologizing for? Should I ask why she's not communicating with me anymore? Or, should I just let it go and try to move on? What would you do? What would make you want to resume the friendship? Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. Thanks |
| Question: I gave my friend the middle finger as a joke and now he doesn't want to talk to me? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 09:33 AM PST So last night, I gave the finger to one of my friends and I was out last night. It wasn't intentional and meant it in a playful way. I really did not mean anything offensive, and my other friends really do not care when I do that, and they brush it off and just continue to be playful. Now he said, "this will be the last time we ever talk." I have already apologized to him and I told him what I really meant. What should I do? I don't want to lose this person as a friend. |
| Question: How do you win friends? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 09:11 AM PST Make friends? |
| Question: Switching schools halfway through 8th grade? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 09:02 AM PST hi! my current school (MMS) is already on winter break. i am transferring to a different school (WHIS) and i will go there starting January 9th. all my friends go to WHIS however, they're all different 'groups' one group has most of my friends while a different group has the rest of my friends. most of my friends are a pretty large group (let's call them LOL) is made up of my swim team friends and some of my riding friends. idk which group to join! one of my 'friends' in LOL actually dosen't like me (we've grown apart) so i'm sorta stuck! i like he people in LOL better. what should i do?! |
| Question: I think I'm in love with my best friend's girlfriend? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 08:57 AM PST I feel terrible. The both of them are my very close friends and I really like them, but from a while ago I've been liking my friend (his girlfriend) more and more and I don't know what to do... I try to forget but I can't, I feel anxious every time that I'm gonna see them and when I say goodbye, because those are the times that I can hug her hello or farewell, and hold her in my arms for a few seconds. Every time that I'm with them I try very hard not to look at her to much, and I feel so good when I make she laught. I'm not going to try anything with her because I would never be this disrespectful with my best friend, and I know she likes me a lot, but as a friend. And I can't get apart from my friends because I'm nothing without them. I don't know what to do. |
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| Question: How should I break this to my neighbor? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 08:32 AM PST My neighbor is out of town and told me to get his newspaper and mail for him while he's gone. I messed up somewhere along the line and burnt his house down. I had no idea that it had happened until the morning after. I was wondering why there were firefighters over there last night. I was banging on the windows telling them to just shut up and go home because I was trying to sleep. It explained the awful smell that was outside and the billowing smoke coming through when I opened up the window. I haven't told him yet and I think it might be better if I wait until he comes back to tell him? What do you think I should do and how should I make it up to him? Also can I sue the fire department for keeping me up late? They were being loud and when the house was collapsing it was loud as hell and the embers kept flying into my room. I like to sleep with the window open and it's a little annoying when there are embers and thick heavy smoke pouring in my room. I just felt like they could have been a little more quiet. |
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| Question: Should I blame the alcohol? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 07:51 AM PST Last night we had our weekly dinner with the neighbors. We were drinking scotch from 1980. I've know these people for 20 years but something about that scotch got them acting so crazy! When they were cooking in the kitchen I noticed Greg (husband) sneak up behind Mary. He kissed her on the neck. It was nice to see the affection. But then we was slowly breathing on her and whispering in her ear. Obviously we have known for a while that they love each other very much.. But not this much. If you've ever seen the scene from breaking bad when Walt sneaks it in with Skyler in the kitchen? That's exactly what this was like. I sat there and watched with my children. My son had his phone up and was recording while the other son was jacking off. It was just wild. I can't believe that they would do this. Well it turns out she is now pregnant again. And they wanted us all to be there to experience the creation of their new child. |
| Question: Do you guys know what this means? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 07:48 AM PST So on Monday I was staring into space & i was staring at the trash can & i see the girl i liked looking at me later I was staring at the wall & when i look over she was Leaning her Head Against her Hand While looking at me & smiling. Then today In class i heard her telling one of her friend " i don't know why he looks at me" |
| Question: How to get over losing many friendship at once? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 07:33 AM PST Back in September I lost 1 best friend and her friends became my best friends so when I lost her as a friend I pretty much lost everyone. At points at care and at others I don't care. It is now december I feel like losing as a them as an friend has fixed my life, but I still am hurt about them switching up on me like it was nothing. |
| Question: How do you tell a friend shes a bully? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 07:32 AM PST |
| Question: Can no trust end a friendship? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 07:15 AM PST My friend of the last 5 years text me out of the blue this morning. She said that I've done some things over the last 4 months that have made her not trust me so she doesn't want to be friends anymore. I called her but my calls keep going straight to voice mail. I text and got no response. I called one of friends that I recently became acquainted with and asked if he knew what was going on with her and why she said that to me. He said he didn't know. A few hours later she text and said since you're inquiring what's between me and you is between me and you not me you and Lee or me, you and Lisa or anyone else. You just reconfirmed today why I don't trust you... I'm still so confused about why she feels this way. I didn't do anything wrong so why is she ending our friendship? |
| Question: I did something bad im scared? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 05:30 AM PST There is this girl at school who is mean to me but nice to everybody else.So as revenge i posted her phone number on the internet and put it on lots of sites.Today she was talking about how random people were calling her and now I'm scared she might find out?Help! |
| Question: Surprise gone wrong and fighting with friends?? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 05:24 AM PST A friend of mine gave me this idea that the day before our winter break started, we should give two of our other friends notes saying they liked each other. keep in mind that these two friends would NOT stop talking about the other. They were basically in love, but they didn't think the other reciprocated those feelings. When one of the love-struck friends found out what we were doing, she loved the idea. She thought that it was great that we were trying to get them together, and that this would bloom into something amazing. When the time came, The other friend(the one who didn't know what we were doing) got really angry at me and the friend that i was doing this with. The next day i found out that the person who planned this with me told the angry friend that it was all my idea and that it was all my fault. I get this is all my fault, but i really need them back. I have one friend left, and she is heartbroken about the one she liked. PLEASE HELP ME!!!! |
| Question: I always feel the need to talk to my one friend? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 05:11 AM PST So I have a friend who I always feel the need to talk to. I'm always texting her.. and she's gotten annoyed I guess. I tell her how much I'm thankful for her a lot and she's over it... why do I do this?? Why do people get attached to some people? Is it seperation anxiety? Please help |
| Question: How to deal with friends who always ask to make plans last minute? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 03:31 AM PST I get annoyed by this personally. In the past week, I've had multiple people ask me to make plans HOURS in advance, and I've had to decline every time. It's almost like they think you have nothing better to do and expect you to be free, so they don't bother asking until the day of. I'm usually busy, but I still make time for my friends, so maybe they're used to that and expect I'm free? How do you deal with them? |
| Question: I don't know what i'm going to do about my anxiety. I feel so pathetic.? Posted: 16 Dec 2016 03:27 AM PST I dislike how every single person around me (specifically everyone in school) seems like they have their whole life together. Everyone around me speaks loud and clear and with confidence in their voice; everyone around me talks in class without being scared of what others may think; everyone knows how to act in social situations, and they all have friends that support them and they can hang out with. But then there's me. I feel like everyone grew out of their shy outcast but i'm still stuck in mine and I don't know how to get out. Whenever I do something that's out of my comfort zone I regret it later and spend all night thinking about how stupid i looked. Just getting up in the morning is a chore because I feel like such a failure as a human being. I don't think i'm going to make it in the real world. Sometimes I just think to myself, what's the point of life if I can't even function like a normal human being. Get this, I had a fast food job for a months. I got fired because I had 3 panic attacks in that job and I made too many mistakes. I worked there for a month and I couldn't learn how the job operated because I was too afraid to ask for help. How does someone as weak as me make it into this cruel world? Wanna know something more pathetic? Ever since freshmen year i've been planning to end it all after I graduate and now i'm a senior. I've been rambling for too long, any advice? |
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