So my husband proposed to me that I put him in a chasity cage, and get f*cked by men with big d*cks. I have read all the sites that he showed me but I'm still hesitate. However the only thing that sounds very appealing is being f*cked by a cock bigger than the 4inches my husband has. Dont think that I would ever cheat it just got me thinking when he proposed it.

Bad marriage and kids scenario.... married to a man who i found out has cheated on me over 50 times..lots of proof of everything. i feel like im going to throw up. We have been married 10 years.. he is the only man i have ever slept with. he insisted we have 6 kids but we have 3 now. Begged me to join catholic church. Never has sex with me and I end up falling asleep crying. im so upset. two women he has cheated on me with came forward and told me everything. Neither knew he was married. I stopped going to college and had two jobs so he could get schooling and join the army like he wanted to do so bad.. now he is in the army and i have no job. all these kids, he cheats, doesnt want me and lies............. I do not know what to do. What do I do?

I am a 34 year old female and my hubby is 37. We have 2 kids (We want to add more to the family soon) I have a 6 year old son and a 9 year old daughter. My son, hes nice and sweet. He cares. My daughter, when she doesn't get what she wants, she completely disrespects everyone, including her brother who has never touched her in his life. When she gets what she wants shes nice. The rest of the time its her snotty attitude. I don't know how to deal with her. I have a 8 hour shift from 7-3. She never gets ignored so that's not the problem. My husband works from 5-6, So its harder for me because I have to deal with both of them for the rest of the evening when the babysitter leaves. I have weekends off and I never get rest. My son's name is Dylan. My daughters name is Elliannah. Whats holding us back from having a 3rd child is 1: We barley have any time alone because Elliannah is either crying, or she wants attention. And 2: Both of our kids are a handful so we don't know if we can handle a 3rd. Other moms can you give me some good discipline techniques for me to use, just so me and my husband can feel like we can go out in the world and have another kid without feeling tied up? THANKS!

So we been together 3 years had are first baby 8 months ago and while I was 9months pregnant one day my husband was sitting on the couch on his iphone>;( so I asked for his phone and I guess he forgot to delete stuff before handing me his phone.... And I seen he had a secret Twitter account and a picture of MY SISTER! And a naked pic of Elizabeth gillies his obsession >:( I confronted him and he was making excuses and just said I'm sorry I have Twitter to look at a person who posted dirty pics on private n now I can't look at my sister the same cuz he likes her what do I do he never talks to me never jokes laughs anything since we been married he's very controlling and jealous and I listen to him but now I do what I want and we fight so much every day n night

My fiancé and I have been together for 10 years, we re now pregnant with our first child. Since we re not married yet, it's something that I'd like to look into. Now my question is, will getting married affect my financial aid (FASFA) and Medi-Cal (Health Net) services?

Okay, so my ex husband had the first weekend of October as his vistation (October 2-4). The next week he had the girls from Wednesday to Saturday (it was fall break and I wanted to ensure that he got BOTH girls despite them being in two different school districts; my youngest is in prek in one county and my oldest in elementary school in another because of my job). ANYWAY, the fall break took up my weekend - that Friday and Saturday (October 10 and 11) was my weekend. I had Sunday for my visitation day. I did not do this because of a court order, I simply did this to be nice and let my girls have extra time with him. I even gave him an extra day. SO, the fun part: My ex was supposed to get them last weekend on his normal weekend as well (October 16-18). He couldn't do this so I said we will switch and he agreed. This means I had the 16-18 and he has this weekend, October 23-25. He thinks that means he gets this weekend and NEXT weekend to get back "on schedule". Thing is we don't have a schedule. The papers flat out say every other weekend. How I see it is since we switched I now have his weekend and he has mine since it's every other weekend. There are NO other stipulations in the court papers unless it's a holiday of course, which next weekend is not a holiday covered by the papers. So, I'm right...right? If I had them last weekend and he has them this weekend then that means I have them next weekend? http://tinypic.com/r/dctvli/8 http://tinypic.com/r/dctvli/8 http://i57.tinypic.com/dctvli.jpg One of those should be a link or something for our court order where it says it!

I am recently divorced, and my ex wife is about to remarry, with my blessing's I might add. I have a 8 year old son, and the ex wife's husband is a widower, with 4 kids, 3 grown up and 1 the same age as my son, so, he will be my son's step brother. I only want to do the right thing, but as I see it, sending just my son a Christmas gift, his step brother misses out. so, do I buy for both or single out just my son?

So ive been married for almost 3 years. I am a christian. My matrimony hasnt been the best. We argue frequently. Besides that i have like no friends since i got out of school like couple years ago. I am a stay at home mom with 1 toddler. I get very fustrated with my toddler. He has some behavior.. Also Crying for anything annoys me. Hes about to be 2. I love him but he drives me crazy. I dont really go out because i dont know where to hang out. I mean i have like no friends so theres really nothing to do. I do go to church but just Sundays. My parents work and my brother dosent ever message me or anything. So i feel alone! I know God is here but it sometimes feel like hes not. I feel very depressed when me and my husband fight because he is the only person close to me and we still love each other, just cant stop arguing sometimes. We are mad at each other right now and he got home from work and still didnt speak to me. Its been all day :( I really dont want to speak with him first because he really hurt me by his words last night. He also started the argument for anything. He passed the line. I hate living like this. I want to be happy. Not be arguing all the time. God is strict for divorce also. Its only allowed when a spouse cheats. Idk what to do with my life :( i dont want divorce. But i hate this.

20 or 22? I will not be angry or freak out, or mind. it would just be nice to know. C'MON! C'mon, please? Wow, you have just turned/ are just turning 21, right? 16 years, 15 year and ten months like Anthony Kiedis and me.

Ok so This is crazy and i understand if u find it funny I did when it happened the first time,but now it is a nightmare.So practically if ever me or my husband try in any way shape or form to stop her from doing something or tell her off even in the nicest of ways ,like darling you will cut your self with the knife give it to mommy/daddy she will just go usually on our bed and do her mess on who ever ''told her off 's'' pillow ,it is disgusting ,i literally have no controle on her ,my neighbor who is an old fashioned lady saw once ,and she done it on the living table infront of her and she told me i should smear it on her bed and face and hair,after all i or my husband will have to clean it off her and anything she touches and i think that is just pure crazy ,I really want her to stop and i mean i feel like she is gonna be a really revengeful child and that scares me ,I do not wanna have a 12 year old killer,she is only 4 but so envergent!

I was married 9 years at took me at least a couple. Someone I know seems to be taking longer but he was married 24 years. He's been divorced for 3 years and seems interested at times but hasn't asked me out. We've known each other for several months.

I have this question. I am 22 years old. I am currently sexually active with my boyfriend and I've had sex in the past and he knows it. I want to know if couples still get married even if they've had sex already. I know that some of my friends who are still virgin are getting married this year. And I know that a few of my friends who are not virgin are living with their boyfriend right now. I love my boyfriend so much. A few times he has said jokingly, why don't you move with me. I have never thought about the details of marriage. But I would like to get married some day. Not because I like dresses because that's not true. I hate to wear a dress. Not because of the party, because I hate attention and standing in front of people. But because I want to know that whoever is gonna be with me is serious and committed in the relationship. I don't want my guy to ask me to just come and live with him. I want commitment. Is this possible? Are there couples who get married even though they've already had sex? And could you give me any suggestions of how I should let him know that I would prefer marriage to just cohabitation?

My husband and I are both experienced our first threesome with another female. He is 27 and I am 23 and we both live in a small Michigan home outside of town. It was a great experience for the both of us, and exciting until we found out her age... We found the female on Craigslist and she agreed to have sex with us. Her age listed '20' and we asked again to confirm that. Well after the sex the next day, she sent me a text message saying she was acually 16 and sorry for lying. I was shocked and almost started to cry. My husband and I had sex with a child, and I feel disgusted... The age of consent is 16 so was the sex legal? What if the child tells her mom and calls the police on us?

My husband and I are both young, we are 24, so trust me our sex drives are still through the roof. We have been married for three years, after having been together since 8th grade and all through high school, and we are hitting the typical couple rut - passionless sex. The difference? We have already tried every suggestion most commonly put out there. We picked up karma sutra and openly tried new positions. We found a list of 50 different kinky things to try, and we tried them all. It was always too awkward/uncomfortable or just not something we decided we liked. We have ordered hundreds of dollars of different types of toys, tried role playing, dressing up, role reversals, everything under the sun we can think of, but honestly...I'm sure a lot of the problem is I am just not sexually interested in him anymore. I find myself using those toys on myself a few times a day more happily than having sex with my husband. I just am not interested in him. Sure I love him, I just don't want to have sex with him anymore. Because we have a very open communication in our marriage, hence already trying everything else, he knows this, too. And he tries, it just doesn't work. Am I doomed to live the rest of my life sexless when I am so young?

My ex-wife has full custody of the children Who are currently 17 in senior and 15 in freshman . She bought a house out in the suburbs but the children still go to school in the city and they want to continue going to school in the city . So she is planning on leaving the children with her mother in the city while she lives out in the suburbs . She thought that it will be a good idea for the children to move in with me even though I have no custody . Went to court to ask for custody and the court gave her 30 days to decide whether she wants to give me joint custody. Ever since then we cannot get along we can come to an agreement just constantly texting and arguing . And telling me that she won t give me joint custody and is planning on leaving the children were her mom in the city instead. The court allow this ? Wouldn t this be called abandonment ? Do I have a chance of getting full custody since they are currently living with me for the last month and a half and do everything for them . She has not been around .

The divorce happened a little over 2 years ago. I asked another question on here a few minutes ago. I hate myself for what they did and am afraid to be mad at them.

It was over 2 years ago but I am still hurting especially with the holidays coming as all holiday traditions have changed since their divorce.

I know its a stupid question but how do you get over someone you wanted a family with? I really thought he loved me back but his actions showed me otherwise. He was abusive in all ways , he even tried to make reports about me to get my son taken away when I was really down in the dumps and homeless with no where to go. I know I should hate him but I can't get myself to do that. I am extremely hurt bc he was supposed to be the person I looked to at times like this but instead he used that to hurt me even more. Idk what to do I feel so lost right now.

The legal stuff from the rape is over. I want to heal from this. I would like to begin treatment for my mental illnesses, but my husband is against it. We've been arguing constantly about it. How can I convince my husband to let me begin treatment for my mental illnesses?

This married guy at work gives me such hot and cold signals. This has going on for some time. For instance he stands me up for lunch, seems like he starts to get bored with me if we talk everyday, yet if I don t go talk him for a few days in a row he ll be all extra nice and like where have you been... He ll obviously be...

Our son will be 3 in December and he only saw him once since birth I have tried to push him to see our son, but it never worked and I don't think it's my responsibility to keep on pushing our son on him. He's never paid child support and I've never asked for it. He wanted me to get an abortion but I would not and now he's trying to make my life a living hell because I didn't. He gave me $200.00 for an abortion and I did try, so I wouldn't have to deal with him for the rest of my life, but I couldn't do it. I wanted my baby, even if it meant dealing with him for the rest of my life! He's a cop so he thinks he can get custody and try to make me pay child support. Now, I think he should pay child support. It's obviously for my son, and he absolutely deserves that money and since he doesn't need or want for nothing I could start him a college fund or whatever he wants when he's an adult and can decide for himself. Do you think I'm being irrational or greedy? He also wants custody of our son but again, saw him once when he was 3 months old. They don't even know each other!! He's mad because I wouldn't get an abortion! He's married and his wife and him we're separated, at the time but trying to work it out. She doesn't know about our son, and I don't want to get into that mess (because truthfully, it's not my business) This was a one time thing we were both drunk (not proud or defending my actions) but regardless I think he's equally responsible for finances in regards to put son.

When my husband and I started dating we were 18 and I went over to my Sisters to babysit her kids and I have a 15 year old niece who is beautiful and does not look her age. My husband had started flirting with her and making sexual comments about me and her when I talked to him about it He apologized and said it would stop and it has, well resently it was brought up again, and I found about more. He told me that he use to masturbate to her and to me and her with him, and with another friend of mine. When he masturbates he imagines himself actually with the girls, The whole thing with my niece and best friend really hurts me. I have insecurity issues. It really hurts that he thought about her that way and imagined himself with my niece and with the both of us. This was about a year ago but just a couple months ago he was imaging other women. This was before we married but it really hurts me, I feel like I'm not enough. He says he's sorry and I believe him but I don't know how to move past the thing with my niece, it hurting me so much kills him. He's cried, I know this hurts him that he screwed up like that. He hates that he has hurt me like this. He's said that if I would have done the same that he would be broken up with me and he dosnt know why I didnt, or I'm not.Don't say let it go, or anything like that please. I am letting it go, I'm just having issues with it. I'm trying, I just need advice, I don't have anyone to talk to.

I m wondering if my husband (were separated but nothing filed n court) can get in trouble for child abandonment .I have tryed to contact him several times in the las few months and he refuses to talk to me about our daughter or anything. He never calls to see how she is doing or anything. The last time he talked to her on the phone was jus over 4 months ago. He refuses to help with anything for her because there is no child support order he says he don't have to help support her in any way. So is it abandonment or not if not what is it called .

My fiance lost his wife 8 years ago to cancer and since then had another relationship before he met me. I have a big soft corner for his deceased wife and family. The relationship he was in severed his relationships with many of his friends and family because of the attitude of the person he was with and hence as his partner I am ensuring he is in touch with all his friends and family by building strong bridges so that I can see him happy. I make dinner plans with his sister in law to check with her mom and dad to see they are all available so we can go out together once I am back next week from a business trip I am on. She promises to check back and let me know. I shared this information with my fiance by sending him an image of the actual conversation I had. Meanwhile the mom who gets the information from the sister in law calls my fiance and they all plan to meet for dinner sans me. My fiance lets me know this and I am so upset with him because I go through all this just for him and now I feel like a piece of joke. He went on to say may be we can go again when you are back!!!! Seriously, I am not desperate to go out for dinner and the only reason I planned for it was for him. I expressed my frustration to my fiance and now we are upset at each other. I am traveling for work and he hasn't called me or texted me yet. Am I overreacting and unreasonable blowing this up?

My husband has joint-legal custody of his daughter but the mother has physical custody (and lives 100 miles from us). The child is in 2nd grade and every year, shes had issues with attendance. The school board has even made threats of failing her. The child has issues waking up for school, and just admitted to me that she doesn't have her own bed or room at her mom's house, sometimes sleeping with her teenage brother or sister. Can my husband do anything about his or is it not enough reason?

I will give them sex, I will shower with them! I will love them back and care about them back... : - ) I may even give them children if possible, that is half them and half beautiful me! I'll even share their last name! I'll be a friend to them amd more : - ) I will be there for better or for worse (hopefully that doesn't happen too often), through sickness and in health, richer or poorer, till death.. do you part!

and unfit mother

comes around he request the day off. And when mothers day comes around hes broke and his phone bill is due... and he doesnt do anything for you..... But i have money in my bank account and he uses that money to pay his bill rather than take you out.

I'm from Europe and here only if the man is alcoholic and beats is divorcing, but not even then.

Sometimes I wish she would do this and let me watch.

When I say push away I mean when hes upset he doesnt want me around he says get away from me. When im touching him he doesnt want to be touched but he wants to touch up on me. When I want to have sex he doesnt but when he wants to he gets it while Im sleep.

We've been married 7 yrs & I was resigned to it, but now we're having kids it's serious. I love eating adventurously & want my kids to experience this joy as well. Plus proper family dinners are important to me--but cooking a separate meal just for him isn't an option & will send the wrong message to the kids. He's approaching 40, is very stubborn, & is esp. prickly about food because EVERYONE tries to get him to eat better. I've begged him to do it for his & our kids' health & he's promised he will when the time comes (excluding things he really hates--fair enough). But I don't trust him (because, history) to not "forget" the promise. If I ask him to start now to prove it, he gets angry He eats: Grilled ham&cheese sandwiches Peanut butter/Nutella Cornflakes TONS of pork Hamburger meat Rarely, fish or beans, but he's "gone off" chicken lately. TONS of white processed carbs Potatoes must be fried, roast, or the fake powdered kind Rarely 2 tbsp of peas, corn, carrots, green beans, okra, spinach, zuccini, tomatoes or cucumber, maybe eggplant on a good day He used to like a few types of fruit, but now he's "gone off" them & only eats a few grapes or a banana A TON of chocolate (he's naturally skinny dammit) That's a COMPLETE LIST. NO SOUP NO SALADS NO NUTS NO SPICE, not even pepper or heavy seasoning e.g. sausages Even if I stick to this, if it's a "complicated" recipe he barely tolerates it. I'm questioning if I even want kids with someone so rigid. Thoughts please? "you sound really controlling. he is a grown man and can eat what he wants to eat." I know it sounds controlling. But I'm generally not. He even boasts about how little I nag him. I appreciate the points about the kids. But I don't think it's extreme to want to be able to sit down together as a family. And he's risking his health - god knows what his cholesterol is. A marriage is a partnership; when the consequences affect me directly, I think I have the right to a say, no? As in, I literally fear for him. I don't know if I made it clear by listing everything he will sometimes eat. 98% of the time, he's eating pure red meat, fat, cheese, fries, spaghetti and white bread. What do I do when he drops dead of a heart attack at 50? When I (for example) work too many hours or stay up too late, he tries to get me to stop and be healthier, and I at least try to listen or agree he's right. Why does it only go one way? Thanks for your answer anon, and suggestions for healthy substitutes, though so far brown bread is a no, & the fattiest pork is his fave. He also eats 2 grilled cheese sandwiches, plus 6-8 slices of white bread slathered in nutella or peanut butter every day, so moderation not so much. He's also refuses to go to doctors so I have no idea what his cholesterol is. But fwiw, thanks.

Say a person owes the state $1900, custodial parent $1800 and is ordered to pay $640 a month and that's not including health benefits for the two children. How is it calculated on much over all Will be deducted from non custodial parents paycheck? This is the state of missouri and pay is $15 hourly full time.

First I'll start by saying, we have no kids. I was very young when I met him, I was self conscious & didn't think anyone would like me. I have changed & grown a lot in 15 years; we don't have much in common anymore & we spend most of the time fighting. When I tell him I am not happy & I think we both deserve better, he disagrees with me. He claims he is happy & he don't want to lose me. He is such a negative person, & always looking at things the wrong way, plus his priorities are so messed up. His cattle is his # 1 priority instead of the bills or food on the table, & he gets mad at me when I pay a bill instead of allowing him to buy hay for the cattle. His pay was cut in 1/2 at work because of the oil field crisis, & instead of him looking for part time work or doing anything around the house... He just burns fuel or sits around watching tv.. I work about 50-60 hours a week trying to make up for his pay cut, I come home after working 12+ hour days, & still have to cook dinner, clean up the kitchen plus whatever other room needs it, then do it all again the next day. I've asked for his help time & time again.. We even started seeing a marriage counselor... nothing seems to work, but every time I tell him I am done, he cries & makes me feel extremely guilty. My dad used to say "a man only cries over a woman when he loves her more than himself; never let him go." He changes for a short time, then it goes back to the way it was. How do I walk away without feeling so guilty?

When I think of marriage I think of the perfect wedding and the best honeymoon I could dream up. I don't think about spending the rest of my life with someone, no matter what happens. I don't think of the fights or the trials we would have to endure. I don't think of the compromises that need to be made. Everything that I just listed about marriage makes me want to stay away from it. Yes, I know this is an immature way of thinking, I don't need some older adults telling me that. I want to get away from this thinking, but I can't. I've tried "re-conditioning" myself by positive thoughts about marriage and understanding what marriage really means, but that just makes it worse. Is fate trying to tell me marriage is just not right for me? Why am I thinking this way? How do I fix this way of thinking? I honestly think this is just a sign that I'm not meant to get married.

My sister who is 50 and her husband 59 are both white and have been married 13 yrs. She never wanted children before. But lately they seemed to be growing apart. Now she's in the process of adopting an african american new born. I believe she thinks that will make her marriage stronger, I don't know what to think. Any opinions?

Most of the time it was him asking for sex. The problem now is we have it once a week. I would like it more. I talked with him the only thing he says is he's tired. He will not turn me down if I ask for sex. It's hard going from sex 4 times a week to once a week. I found no signs of cheating I checked his phone, internet, & fb. He will cuddle with me at night & nothing. I still gets hugs & kisses & he's still playful yet no sex. I'm a pretty woman so I don't understand what's wrong. He's been stressed at work his job lately & seems to only be into tv, xbox or Netflix. We spend time together at dinner or watch a movie. Not having enough sex is making my self esteem feel low and sad.

of getting them ready and taking them to school, it takes her about 45 minutes and it's no bug deal. Recently she's throwing it in my face that I don't care if they eat or not and that I MUST start helping her get them ready. She doesn't work, it's her only task in the morning then she has all day to attend to the house or other chores. She doesn't contribute one penny to the finances, I say, at least be a mother and take care of that task without bothering me on purpose to make a point.

When my husband and I started dating we were 1I and I went over to my Sisters to babysit her kids and I have a 15 year old niece who is beautiful and does not look her age. My husband had started flirting with her and making sexual comments about me and her when I talked to him about it He apologized and said it would stop and it has, well resently it was brought up again, and I found about more. He told me that he use to masturbate to her and to me and her with him, and with another friend of mine. When he masturbates he imagines himself actually with the girls. And he's done it with several other women from the internet. The hole thing with my niece and friend really bother me. I have insecurity issues. It really hurts that he thought about her that way and imagined himself with my niece and with the both of us. This was about a year ago but just a couple months ago he was imaging other women. This was before we married but it really hurts me, I feel like I'm not enough. He says he's sorry and I believe him but I don't know how to move past the thing with my niece, I I'm asking for advice

Could you imagine women detectives ratting on there best friend ....(Another woman)"Yes"And his name was Ben from Martin Luther King Blvd.

I got married a month and a week ago and my dream was to get married with a big white dress, well it wasnt like that, instead we got married on my husbands best friend backyard , it was beautiful and after that stressedfull day I said forget about the wedding on the church it will be to much but honestly I wasnt sure I shoulded cancelled the big wedding at the church , now my husband doesnt want to do the big wedding and it hurts me cuz even doe our civil wedding was beautiful My dream was to get married on a white dress at the church . H9w can I move on when Im still so hurt?

I want to say no but I feel like a ***** doing that.... But I'm so insecure and even though I know he wouldn't cheat, I don't want him going to strip clubs. We've been married for less than a year now and all his friends are going to Vegas but I am dead set on saying no... Am I wrong? I also want to mention we had less than a weeks notice before getting married and while I spent the day getting ready (he asked me to dye my hair brown because it was purple) he spent the day day with his friends at a strip club. What should I do?

I been with my boyfriend for a year and 5 months and he is already talking about marriage with me, ugh... I mean don t get me wrong I love him with my heart his my world. But I recently just got divorced. I m scared of failing another marriage. I m scared of getting my heart broken again. I loved my ex husband so much and when I found out he was cheating he chattered my heart into little pieces. I try so hard now to be a le to trust my boyfriend but when I hear him talking to other women just upsets me. I don t think I m ready for marriage if I can t and don t know how anymore how to trust men. I don t know how not to break my boyfriends heart cause his dream has been to get married and have a family. We are already in our 30s so he feels like time is tickin. What u guys think?

Imagine reading your wifes old diary from when you two just started dating. At the time your ex was pregnant with your baby but had a miscarriage. So by reading your wifes diary you find out that she somehow caused it with a drug or by attacking the woman because she was jealous that she was having your baby. She wanted to be the one to make you a dad and did what she had to do to make that happen. Would you throw away many happy years with that person because of an incident from years and years ago? Would you hesitate and consider forgiving them? Also do you think that killing someones unborn baby is worse than cheating? Or would cheating be worse?

I have recently gotten married and my husband has received a quite lucrative job offer out of state we currently live in Texas and would be relocating to California. I have a daughter from a previous relationship who is 3. Her father moved about an hour and a half away from us back to his hometown after living 8+ hours away her entire life in July. Before he moved back he was only seeing her once every 2 1/2-3 months since he has moved back he gets her pretty much every month for his one weekend a month. Although since he lived closer if he wants her more I just request 7 days notice no big deal but he has only taken me up on it one time. We have joint custody of her but I have the exclusive right to determine where she lives, with no geographical restrictions set forth in our paperwork. I have already written out a parenting plan to take to my ex when we discuss it. Every other spring break, a month during the summer, every other Thanksgiving, every December 26 until the day before she returns to school (based on our districts calendar). Is there any reason a court would deny this if he wanted to argue about it?

im very comfortable with him going. He is loyal and I trust him completely. He wanted to go out with some of his friends and I think its important for him to have time "with the guys" His buddies are all lying to their girlfriends and one to his wife, but mine simply said he'd been invited to go out and that it was to a strip club; I told him to go. I feel like he's grown, you know? and if he wants to go to a strip club and throw some dollar bills at some stripper and drink beers with his friends, who am I to stop him? I guess my friends think im crazy and they all think he will cheat on me and I tried telling them that I didn't believe that. He wouldn't stop me from going to a strip club, why would I stop him? why did my question get moved? Seriously, its a marriage related question -

Today I found searches for "sexy women in yoga shorts getting gangbanged," and "sexy women in short shorts bending over." Wtf is up with the gangbang? I get that it is accepted as "normal" for men to watch porn now, but I would also say that it is now "normal" for women to divorce their husbands because of his visual habits considering over 500,000 divorces are ending each year in the US now due to porn.