Llevo ya tiempo con mi novio pero tengo la sensación de que me deje tras Acostarme con el. La cosa es que el me cuida en todo momento, se preocupa por mi, conozco con los que se mueve, pero aún así tengo esa sensación y cuando estoy con el desaparece. Creéis que realmente busca eso?

I don't really care. I just want to know the answer as to why. Give reasons ....................

I'm not going into details, but I feel like I'm ruining my life. After being severely emotionally hurt by someone, whojust doesn't care, I feel traumatized. She took something away from me. My innocence, my humanity, and it sort of feels like she took my soul. I find myself hating people now. I isolate myself, act in extremely selfish ways and sometimes even laugh (to myself, like a pathetic fool) when other people are in pain. I hate myself. I was never like this. I used to love people. Now I'm afraid I'm going to be like this forever. I want healing. I want to love again and feel some sort of hope. If you have any advice, I would appreciate it. Please don't say anything like I need Jesus or god yada yada yada. I'm examining my own beliefs and am finding that I need to take responsibility for the circumstances in my life without a magical god in the sky. Other than that, please just don't call me an a$$ hole. I already feel like a bag of poop. Thanks.

Im a freshamn in college within the first two weeks of being at my very small christian college and quoting a sport i decided i hate this school i have no friends and i don t want to be here. Im transferring next semester and i recently told the school and my advisors but me and my roommate aren t very close. i mean she is nice and stuff but we barely talk I NEED TO TELL HER TODAY but i don t know how to bring it up, i mean for gods sake when i leave every weekend i try to hurry and leave before she s back so i can just leave a note. i don t know how to bring it up of discuss that in going to a school like 30 minutes from where we are PLEASE HELP ME!!

I met a girl at this focus group who I happened to be interested in. At some point, I made a confused face to her when someone said something stupid and she laughed. I looked at her and was already thinking that we were on the same vibe... I kept thinking "third eye" and clairvoyance for some reason. We share the same intellectual interests. However, we never got around to talking to each other and parted ways. Two days later... we happened to meet on the train. She smiled and waved, I was shocked since I never expected to see her again. We met just as we were supposed to get off at the same stop, but it was interesting. She almost forgot to leave even though she was with friends. I got off that stop but I was looking at her thinking of getting her contact info and even getting back on the train. Anyways, she got off and immediately we exchanged numbers. We acknowledged that we have similar interests as we parted ways and texted each other. She's still in school, I'm not. How should I approach asking her out? What did you guys think of this meeting... coincidence or something spiritual?

Why that everytime i trust someone , they always stab me in the back ???. I trust them easily and i never learn from my mistake everytime . I just hate people

We currently Long distance (4 hours away) for 1 semester of college and then he's coming back home for school. Last night I found out that a girl in his math class smoked him out, which is the same girl he said flirted with him once when a lot of people were playing tag. At first he lied and told me nothing happened when they smoked weed together but last night he said she kissed him but he didn't kiss her and that it felt weird and that he feels bad. I blew up and got upset. He says he doesn't like her. He says he told her the next day that he has a gf but idk if he actually told her. I don't know if I should forgive him. Please help. I'm honestly so hurt :-( We've been dating for 15 months and I just don't know :-(

I made a mistake at work that cost too much money and i tried to cover it by lying which is my 1st time i swear and now the manger want to come and see the work and dicover that i were lying , i swear to god that this is my 1st time that i do this and i am scared

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A couple is separated with children. The toddler has been running unexplained fever for the past 4 days while Parent 2 has been out of town working. Parent 1 has been taking care of toddler and is very worried and exhausted. Parent 2 tells Parent 1 how ridiculously they miss the children and wish they were there to help take care of the sick child. Friday comes and it is Parent 2's turn to have the children for the weekend (every other weekend arrangement), although, Parent 1 offered to just keep the sick child but Parent 2 insisted to take both children. Parent 2 lies to Parent 1 that they will get the children as soon as they get out of the airport, around 9pm. Parent 2 finds out that Parent 1 actually got into town before 5pm and instead went to see their new significant other who lives way further out than their own children. Meanwhile, the children are waiting and asking for Parent 2. Parent 2 shows up an hr later and the children no longer want to go b/c they were already comfortable at home. Parent 2 is angry at and curses at Parent 1 in front of the children for 'dare' getting upset and calling Parent 2's significant other looking for them, since Parent 2 decided to turn off the phone and then not answer the calls of Parent 1. Parent 1 was being understanding of Parent 2's supposed crazy work schedule to Parent 1 didn't make a big deal about a birthday dinner they were supposed to attend. However, once it was discovered that Parent 2 lied, that also added to anger.

Since your children may not be at home during the holidays and it may be just you and your spouse have you started new traditions just for the two of you ? If so what did y'all do ?

Hola, tengo esta duda, por favor lean... A lo largo de mis 22 años he conocido mujeres que para mi estan "rotas", esto lo digo porque son mujeres que siguen pensando en el ex pero aun asi dicen amarte y apreciarte. Mujeres que te hacen pensar que eres especial para ellas pero solo te utilizan para sacar un clavo por otro. No importa que tan buena persona pueda ser o que tan responsable o bien parecido, hasta malo, siempre hacen lo mismo. Me atraen las mujeres solamente Trato de no ser negativo, si una lo hace ok la vida sigue, pero solo he tenido 9 "novias", y las nueve me han hecho eso, tratando de ser diferente con todas, pero conservando la esencia. Las 9 me han utilizado, me han dado a probar el cielo para luego dejarme caer de tan alto. No entiendo como le es facil a una mujer fingir cariño y hacer ciertos dramas si al final solo son mentiras. Hasta les es facil fingir celos, cuando realmente no te guardan esa estima. He sido claro con la mujer que salgo, a veces hasta les platico de mi pasado y de lo que me han hecho, pero parece que les gusta pensar en "Tambien le hare eso yo", aunque te digan "Yo no soy asi, descuida" solo despues llega la apuñalada dolorosa. Algunas son peores, no quieren estar contigo pero tampoco te quieren ver con nadie, no entiendo. En una sociedad donde "El hombre llega hasta donde la mujer quiere", que podria esperar? Solo pienso en que todas son malas, quizas llegando a sentir odio a las mujeres por pensar que todas haran lo mismo.

I'm a person who is always blamed, scolded and blamed for everything around the house by my dad. My dad has also permanently blacklisted me from my Christian/Catholic Christian indoctrination late last year while he gave it to my other siblings since he wanted to punish me for all the things he blamed me for when I didn't do it. He has also stripped me of my nurtured traits. I feel very conflicted after realizing all of this.

You see my boyfriend is sexually active, and I am too, but I feel like he isn't as creative and romantic when it comes to showing me he wants me to suck his dick or whatever and I always like do it, but it gets boring sometimes and as I watch gay porn and what I love the most is that when couples that are real or not even couples but real people recording themselves ******* the other person, I want that hardcore sex but I am scared to tell my boyfriend. I told him before and I want to tell him again. When I told him before, he said he wanted to wait until we can get an apartment and have full on sex but I can't wait that long, plus we had sex before(he top I bottom, someday I will top), it's been like a year and month we haven't done it. I love my boyfriend a lot, I just want to know how I can tell him where we can have fun sexual pleasure. He did give me fun sexual pleasures before, but he stop ;c. Any tips on how I can tell him?

Were both girls and both 14 and she was sleeping over like normal but she got on top of me and put her fingerss in my vagina and started to finger me and rub my clit and I was saying "NO STOP" "GET OFF OF ME NOW" but she wouldn't she's stronger than me and keep doing it and she sat on my face and made me eat her out and then she ate me out. I feel sick and violated and hurt she would do this to me. She even said "shut up you know it feels good" help please!!

Everything feels like an annoyance or bother over the years. I ended up leaving my previous job due to my school schedule longer being able to work around. I'm trying to find another job or paid internship to keep busy. The guy interviewing possible interns said "You have good experience but we like our interns to have more." An internship is for gaining experience. And they did not say experience was required in the details. Another guy for a job refused to hire me because "You're still a student, so come back when you graduate." despite having a resume with three previous jobs I've worked years for and 2 semesters away from getting my BA. The my schools staff. I've gone to Bursar to pay my tuition day one an hour after opening to one guy there who spent forever on the phone then pulled the shutter down and walked away and nobody else showed up. I've seen people working Financial Aid and looked at their computer to see them typing randomly on a Word doc to look busy. I've made appointments with professors who arrive an hour late. Not because of an emergency, but because they lost track of time at the coffee shop. All while I'm trying to do my best while a nagging part of my mine keeps going "Why bother?" because nobody else seems to care and I'm sick of bending over backward for lazy, irresponsible behavior. Honestly there are days where I wish I could just come home, lock the door and not bother with anything besides my hobbies which are my only outlet to all this. Just wanted to add in case anyone asks. I'm aware you can pay your tuition online but due to all the situations where various online transactions with money could lead to stolen identity an other nasty things I feel better paying my tuition at Bursar instead of paying over the computer. Also I've been attempting to find new work now for a while and have been on a job hunt for the last 3 years since leaving my previous workplace.

Long story short, I currently live with my mom after I broke off an almost 3 year long engagement where we lived together. I'm now paying off bills that my ex-fiance ran up and never paid off that are in both our names (stupid I know). I'm also a full-time nursing student and planning to go off to university in January. I currently have a part-time job as a nanny, but the mom just isn't giving me enough hours anymore to pay my bills. I owe my current school a little less than $400 and I'm two months behind on my car insurance. I'll just barely be able to afford my car payment this month and won't have much money left over for gas to even get to classes. I'm really worried about what I'm going to do. My mom is starting to get really angry about having to pay my car insurance. I'm looking for other jobs, but I haven't been able to find anything yet as I live in a small town (part of the reason I'm moving in January) and everybody who needs a job is applying for everything. Help what can I do?! I've even thought about being a sugar baby or getting into escorting, but I can't bring myself to do that. :( I'm really desperate though. Help!

How to not get mad when other people degrade or belittle you.

So my brother recently got married to a Tongan woman. We are Italian so this cultural is new to me. She is very cultural and I want to make sure I understand as much as possible. I am my brothers oldest sister and am told I am the Fahu in the Tongan culture. At the wedding i was given a cake and blanket but wasn't sure what it represents and haven't had a chance to ask since the wedding was 2 days ago. Can anyone tell me why I received that and what else being the Fahu mean and what I should expect. I love culture and want to understand it as much as possible. Please give me any information you have. Thanks!

I did use to live with her for 2 years until I moved out got my own place and started new chapter in my life needless to say my gma is very nosey she has a laundromat in her apartment building but still wants to use mine not sure if I should feel bad for not wanting to let her come use mine every week and how can I tell her no without being mean

Me and my girlfriend are getting married next year and she insight that her family comes first or may I say her mother. She thinks that in marriage she puts her family before her husband like her mother father sister. I think that the wife comes first then her family. Any advice from a married couple or expert for church.

so my mum really liked my dad but my dad did not like her because of unacceptable things he did to her. But my mum was a submissive wife.. no matter what decision she had to take she needed to consult my dad. That was not the case for my dad. But now that my mum is gone my dad laments, openly showing that he needs my mum.. is this a form of love or is it regret?

It is my friend Daisy s birthday next week and my friends and I have started creating a book and we each get a double page to write a memory of Daisy and i keep writing things then changing my mind. My friend was turning 14 :(

I've been dating this guy for eight months now. I told him....I loved him and he does not feel the same. My feelings are really hurt , but I appreciate the honesty. I'm wondering should I stay in this relationship, or should I go? What if his feelings never change ? Please help. Thanks

A boy ive been talking to for a while he is sorta like my boyfriend but we are not official . we do everything a couple would do. We dont talk everyday . He hits me up every two months . Wenever he misses me .. or wants some ... At first the relationship was so smooth and perfect he was sweeet . he still is sweet but not as sweet cause we barely talk. i try to adress the stuff on his social media . he says ignore it i see girls putting hearts on his pics . calling him bae . he say ignore it . i dont know whether to cut him off or stay . i really like him but its like hes leading me and makin me wait . its been 7 months. opinion . its very hard to move on btw ,

So obviously my dad is abusive. When I was 4, he grabbed me by the neck and knocked me into the wall. I got a concussion. My mom lied to the hospital and said I fell down the stairs. As I got older, it wasn't really just abuse, we would beat each other up. I'm a girl by the way. Anyway, around the time I was 9, when he got mad at me he'd make me get naked before he beat me up. He'd hit me with belts and **** around my vagina. It hurt really bad. I had blisters down there.

I am a Christian person and my birthday so coming up in 1 week. I try telling my parents what I want for my birthday but my requests get rejected by my parents. They say," you should get the bible instead." I say I already have one but they say you need to be more in the bible and not have earthly things God will reward you in heaven. But I know that I want to go to heaven but I feel upset that if I can't get anything I want for my birthday why even celebrate my birthday. I'm super upset and idk what to do..

I was on the street and I was walking fast on the sidewalk but I accidentally bumped this old man with a cane walking slow and accidentally knocked him down and he fell and I said: "Oops! I am so sorry. Are you ok? I didn't see you." And I tried to help him up and he slapped me yelling: "I am suing you!! Help someone! This guy tried to attack me!" I was really scared because some people came by and I saw a police officer come by to help him up and I just kind of walked away even though the older man pointed at me and told the police the description of me and said he wanted to sue me and press charges. Why did he want to sue me? I left the scene of an accident, would I be in trouble for just accidentally knocking over an older person with a cane? Should I have left? I had to leave because I was late for work and I didn't think it was that big of a deal for bumping him where he fell.

There is this Mexican guy at work who started touching and kind of caressing my back. I rarely talk to him, but he started acting like we were close friends. He works at his desk in a room with other co-workers' desks. There is a lady that I am friends with that works in that room. Every time I pass by his desk to chat with this lady, he gets upset that I wasn't there to talk to him. He even said, "Oh, you are here to talk to her and not me!" There is new Mexican guy at work which is doing the same thing. He started "targeting" me for some reason which made me uncomfortable, so I started avoiding him. He even started patting me on the back as he walked by. He even made the remark, "Oh, you are always rushing and have not time to talk to me." Is this a cultural thing where Mexican guys are often real touchy feely towards other guys and instantaneously act like they are best friends? Or are they gay guys who are hitting on me and being very aggressive? Both of these guys are married with kids, so are they closeted gay Mexican guys?