She went threw my room and she promised and swears to god that she won t do it again. So I go to live with my friend for 3 weeks in Florida for vacation. I come back home and I go to my room and my lego farari v12 grand prix is missing along with my lego nitro car and 2 nxt robots! There very expensive. I also got a lego crane that was huge and knex construction for huge roller coasters manuals we re 40 to 50 dollars each I had 15 of them they were all gone!!! So I look under my bed in my drawer of my cool stuff like collectables and my dinosaur bones REAL ONES we re gone!!!!!!!!. My huge the size of your hand megladon tooth it s a tooth from a extinct shark is gone it was real and worth alot of money. I yelled at my mom for all this crap she did her responce of the legos was it was a donation where kids clean and bring it back a week later. That was a lie I talked to her a day later she said I don t want to see another lego in this house again it was collecting dust!!!! It s in my bedroom my shelves are empty and I love my creations and im actually planning to sell her jewelry to buy another megladon tooth. And I don t care what she says I m buying more lego modles to fill out MY shelfs. I need help any plans to really get even with her? I dont want any forgive her answers she needs to be taught a lesson not to go threw my room. BTW I m buying a lock for my room door and locking it everytime I leave the house. I don t have anger problems but she went too far this time.

She is 5'2" and recently jumped from training bras to 30b. She says she doesn't have to listen because I have the body of a little girl. My sister encourages the teasing. I can't make her do stuff because she's 4" taller and outweighs me.

I made the mistake of allowing my mother to help me with some household cleaning being that I m 8 months pregnant, she offered and I gladly took the help, however when my mother came over she quickly became disgusted at the amount of work needed to be done, she and I worked together to get the house ready for baby, just a little background, I do work full time and cook and clean for hubby as well as go over my son homework, so anyways my mom called my mother in law regarding my husband s inability to help out around the house which caused an uproar between the families, my sister called my mother yelling about the way my mom spoke to her mom and my mom wants me to call and yell at my sis in law, I don t want her to think I don t love her but I really don t want any drama with her or my in laws so I chose to stay out of it and now my mom is upset, what should I do.

Basically, my friend became popular and just dumped me. She was my only friend. I have hard time making friends, so I have no idea how I will ever get another. My dad treats me like ****. He would always tell me to shut up. He never listens. My mom can't leave him for now because we don't have enough money to move. Everybody at school hates me and people are actually starting to bully me. My grades are getting worse. I try to escape it all by playing video games and spending my time on the internet. I remember how I was reading alot of books a long time ago, now I just can't. I am easily pushed around because, I'm shy and quiet... people think I'm dumb because of it.. but in truth... I usually noticed more things around me... I can't live like this anymore. Please.. help!

My husband and I are mid-twenties and moving 10 hours away from his family for a job opportunity and happier lives for ourselves. My father, widowed, is retiring in December and plans to move near us. My mother-in-law is also widowed, and is having a hard time accepting the move. My husbands family is kind of making us feel like we are doing something wrong for following our dreams. I understand how hard it is to not have family around, but sometimes it can be the best thing for you. I m nervous about everything, but it would be better if everyone were supportive of us. After all, it will be a harder transition for us than it will be for everyone else who will still live here. Do these feelings get better? My mother-in-law is 53 and in good health. We currently live 4 hours away and will be moving 10 hours away. As we are young and have no children, we plan on visiting as often as we do now and would really like her to come and stay for extended periods of time. She has two other sons who live within 10 minutes and 3 hours away and a huge support network of friends. My husband's family tends to stay close to home, and we are definitely breaking the mold.

My step-mother has 3 kids from someone else and one child from my dad that's almost 3 years old. I live with them and my dad has full custody of me. It just hurts when we're out and someone asks her how many kids she has, she replies with only 4 (her 3 kids and my half brother) I guess I'm not considered her kid even though I've been with her for almost half of my life. She even says i only had 1 daughter in my life (her daughter). I start thinking well what about me? I considered you as a mom and wherever i go i call her my mother... My real mother :( . i loved her just like a real mother and never treated her any different than my dad. Why doesn't she consider me like her kids? I know i didn't come out of her stomach but her husband is still my dad, and her son is still my brother :( I just want to be considered family, but from her side as well. She seems to care and give more attention to her kids and my dad than me and she knows I've never had a mother . Am i overacting? Should i talk to her? I need some advice please. Mircat@ Thank you for your answer. To be honest, i don't think she thinks that because she knows i never had a mother besides her (my real mother walked out on us at a very young age and never really knew her) We've been together for so long i even told her "You're my mother :) " but i will ask her

More info I'm 16 my mom just went into acoma :( and I am left with my dad who doesn't know anything about me b/c we refuse to speak to each other. If you say get over it their is way more to it then that and disputes between us usually end in physical violence. I have a friend also 16 who I played football with and we are good friends. His dad would let me sleep over at his house for like a whole week during spring break or the summer. I moved to Florida like 3 months ago they still live in stl Missouri but I could get their no prob it's just I don't know how to bring it up with my friend. He understands I hate my dad b/c that's y his dad would let me stay so long. I haven't told him about my mom or anything yet any recommendations on how to start the convo. I can't just say hey my moms in acoma want a new room mate lol. His sister is in college btw so they have room.

So I'm 18 years old living in an other country in europe at the moment, my dad is muslim and living in the in the UK, me and my dad dont speak but he sent his wife to my country and persuaded me to take a dna test with my half sister and I foolishly accepted. Then she was asking me weird questions like if I am virgin and stuff like that and now I'm suspecting that maybe they want me for human trafficing. And now she is also trying to persuade me to go live with my dad in the UK. Does he have a right to register me in the UK and take me away from my country? Cause this is getting scary now. Thanks

Okay so I knew about her and her daughter since my ex and I started dating last October but he claimed that the little girl wasn't his because he said he couldn't have kids and I was dumb enough to believe what he was saying. In January I got pregnant which obviously means he lied about being sterile (of course he did what 17 y/o knows he's sterile) but now I am pretty sure he lied about the little girl being his and if she is his I'd like my son to be able to know his half-sister if her mom permits it. The father hasn't been in either of my son's life nor this little girl's life and I just don't know how to message the mother without it sounding weird, I also don't want to bring up a possibly touchy subject. What do you think I should say?

Every ******* time she seems to make something i say a problem. Like literally, i just said something just to contribute to the conversation. Then all of the sudden 5 minutes later she brings that up and now it's a problem for some g*d d*mn reason, i don't ******* get it, this thing that i said didn't even offend anyone in any way, it was a completely neutral statement. She makes completely pointless things into arguments. I'm getting so tired of this, i can't even ******* say anything because all of the sudden it'll be a bad thing and there we go another argument. And i can't win the argument, because she's literally stupid. I'm not even saying this because i'm pissed at her, i'm saying this because sometimes i seriously feel like she's not even smart. HOOOLY ******* ****. Anyways, i was just kinda venting, hope some of you can give an answer.

I was failing math b/c they would not get me a tutor they said it was not necessary and didn't want to spend the money till this day 6 years later im still angry and resentful towards them I had such a difficult time graduating high school and barely graduated I didn't even have a camera for my graduation because they were to cheap to buy me one how could people who have money have kids and not take care of them I hate hate hate them?? is tis reasonable they are so cheap and I will never stop

He's 16, and he has no real mental problems. He's popular at school, gets good grades, has a girlfriend, and is often laughing and happy, if a little rowdy sometimes. But he'll often tell me that at home, if he swears at his mum because he has a short temper, she'll give his face a real slapping. Once, he came to school with a bruise on his right cheek, and he told me he had broken a cup from his mother's favourite tea set and she'd belted him in the face. That was a one-time, though he said on average his face gets slapped around twice a week. He'll joke about it, too, like 'So I told my mother I'm 16 and I could do whatever the f uck I wanted. Not after a smack in the face I didn't.' I suggested maybe reporting her and he looked horrified, saying he loved her and a few slaps don't change that. So I think I shouldn't interfere, maybe it'll work out fine? Plenty of teens get slapped by their parents, after all.

Recently, for the past few days my mom has been really irritable and grouchy yet i have no idea why. Theyve had fights before but not exactly ones like this... yesterday my mom left the house without telling me where she was going, after that she came home at like 8 with her hair all colored up and cut and she had that grouchy look in her face and some really intense make up.. it was just 8pm yet she bluntly told me she was sleepy and she wanted to go to sleep already but she usually slept at like 10 and we'd still have dinner with all of us in the family yet she went straight to her room and locked it.. my dad came home right after.. but they barely talked.. i think my mom thinks my dad is cheating since he goes away and to the gym alot these days... he's been trying to make himself look good for awhile now which he's never done before.. im just scared since theyve only been together for 14+years.. and thats still pretty young for a marriage and theyve been fighting from time to time these days... please help me..

I'm 13 years old. I'm tired of my parents always tell me to grow up, act like a teenager, and ranting about how I can't do things because I'm not mature enough. How do I act like a mature teenager? *telling Sorry I was typing fast, I was a little heated.

I m 16 and about 3 months ago I was caught taking pills which I have since stopped but still smoke weed. After I was caught I left and moved in with my dad but ever since communication has been very limited I text my mom maybe once a month I haven t called or seen my brother either. I ve talked to my sister but if I bring anything up about my brother she says "you know stuff happened it would hurt Robby to much for me to talk to him" also he s only 5 my sister is 18. I know what I did was wrong but should I not be allowed to see or talk to my little brother while he s still young? We were really close I played with him all the time and he loved me and it hurts a lot. I tried to go to my sisters graduation but I got the same stuff about it would hurt him too much if I went.

my mom is 67 and im 30. I am her youngest daughter. I am single and have no plans on getting married so far. I love my mom so much, shes the closest person to me, so we live together as i dont want her living by herself. overall we get along, my mom can be the kindest person, supportive and loving. But when her blood sugar is high, or shes feeling sick. her mood swings are insane. its like jekyll and hyde. shell start yelling and five minutes later say shes sorry that its her health issues acting up. its so hard because even though i love my mom, there are times that i hate her so much. that i just want to dump her in a senior senior or just shut her up somehow. i know that makes me sounds like a monster, i dont actually want to hurt her. but there negative thoughts are there (i have OCD). Not only that, my mom is angry and bitter from her divorce, she doesnt seem to want to let go of the past (even tho she divorced 25 years ago.) she gets into fights with people, and gets into tantrums sometimes. i shouldnt blame her for how im feelings, because im responsible for my own mind. but i feel like her anger and bitterness is being transferred into me. i dont like who i am when im with her. theres only so many times i can hear her call me worthless for a mistake i make. please dont think that i dont love my mom. like i said, when we get along, we get along great. sometimes weeks go by without her going crazy. but im so expectant of her temper tantrums that i just get to the point that i dont want to deal with her. i just dont know what to do. i love my mom and want us to keep living together, but i just wish i had the patience that my older sister has. she is able to just ignore my moms anger and just carry on with her day. but my sister is moving out soon just she got married. i want to keep living with my mom, but i need to figure out a way to deal with all this ugliness inside me.

My son is 4 soon. Since pregnancy it has always been just me and him. Within the first 2 yrs, his father visited 6-7 times. When he was 2, I filed for child support (which his father agreed, ignored, was served & the case defaulted). I don t believe 6 mo. of consistent payment has been made. Money isn t the issue but consistency is. Now that my son is 4, his father has visited 15-20 times overall. He comes, then disappears for months w| no contact. I ve done my best to make time but my son is realizing what a DADDY is. He has stated many times to me that he doesn t have a "daddy". He know who his DAD is, but he says he wants a DADDY & it s heartbreaking! Recently I have started ignoring his father. I m so tired of the inconsistency and how he s ok w| it. During the past 4 years of visits, I believe they have been purely for show (posting everything on social media) He brags about my son like he s the one who raised him and taught him things. He receives endless praise, then he disappears for months again. A little about him, no have a car, no home, has had 4+ jobs since my son s birth. He likes to think he s a celebrity considering his status on social media + some high profile friends. In the time my son was born, I ve graduated from a university, got a stable job, purchases my own car & have my own place. ALL while parenting on my own. I m fed up w| the same arguments! You know they say "sometimes an absent father is better than an inconsistent one" what are your thoughts?

My neighbor came by and asked for something so I went looking. My mum said she knows where it was so I went to get it... With the door open. I left it open because I had faith in my brother keeping hold of my dog, but he didn't and let her go. She went out and bit him. My family are blaming it on me and I know I shouldn't have left the door open and my mums going on about its because I'm thick and an idiot and games distract me, I don't know what to do... Help

I am 19 yrs old and in college. and I need help on how can I hide my headphones while I listen to music.Because me and my mother always have a misunderstanding about me having headphones in my ear. everytime i'm in the car with her she'll always ask me what am I listening to and I have to lie and say a artist that she like.And then she always snatch the headphone and try to hear what i'm listening to but I always turn my music down whenever she do it. Me and her don't like the same type of music. for instance I don't like beyonce, taylor swift or pop music but she does. I only like international music and sometimes rock. Reason why I lie to her about what am I listening to because she always use it against me in a negative way and say that i'm trying to be white(I'm black by the way) because I listen to rock and that I am trying to be Asian, Hispanic,etc. because I listen to songs in different languages. she aIways say something stereotypical. I love international music because it sounds so beautiful to me.I'm just different. What should I do?

Whenever she sees me she eyeballs me like she wants to hurt me. She is fine throughout the day mostly then she snaps! Today she kicked me in the mouth with a steel-toed boot for no reason! She usually is not that mean but it's getting worse. My daughter's nephew is a lunatic

I got yelled at repeatedly, and then I went over to my dads place and woke him up at 5 am and he got mad at me for waking him up but I told him because I got yelled at, I don't understand! At 5 AM.

Ok, so I'm a 23 year old girl, and lately I have been stuggling to manage my finances and it's all built up to this huge tangled mess that I really CANNOT get out of unless someone helps me. I mean, I am THIS close to getting evicted from my apartment. I've asked my parents for some financial help, but they keep on refusing to help me! If I knew they couldn't afford to help me, I honestly wouldn't ask, but the thing is, I actually come from a very wealthy and affluent family. I've been brought up in such a way where money was sort of like air, it was always there, so this is the first time ever that i've had to deal with this sort of thing, and I find it EXTREMELY unfair that my parents aren't helping me! Do they want me to end up homeless? Because that is what is going to happen if I don't pay my rent. And when I ask for a reason why, their only excuse is that I "Made my own bed" and should have been more careful with my college trust. I realise I have also made a lot of mistakes, but isn't it their duty as parents to help me and protect me? I mean, I have like 50 bucks left in my bank account and that's it. I honestly have no idea what to do. Please help?

so my dad has cancer currently. he has been battling with it for about 4 years now. my dad has 11 kids in total. but he has 6 kids with my mom . i havent seen him in 8 months because everytime i see him he makes me fel like crap. i want to see him because he can die any second but then again he makes me feel suicidal. dont worry he doesnt hit me. he lives with the mother of my 2 half sister who i dont talk to. i am the youngest of his children. my dad is 55 and im 13. my full blood brothers and sisters tell me to visit him but i dont want to. i just need some advice from ppl who wont judge me. my family already judges me and i literally have no friends

So I constantly keep lying my grades. I am I think afraid of their disappointment more. And I had bigger problems than just grades. I have been bullied so much that I just didn't have the will to study. I told my mom that I am being bullied and she told me she will handle it at school but I think that is just going to make it worse but I will trust her on that one. I keep lying my grades and I don't want to u I just do it like a ordinary thing. Help with

So im 19. I live with my mom and 2 brothers in an apartment. One of my brothers who's 11 is ******* nuts. He yells at us for everything we do and everytime he wants something he goes ******* beserk. We're about to get kicked out of our apartment because of him. The neighbors must ******* hate us. He also breaks all his stuff like his playstation 4, xbox, cell phone, he gets mad and puts dents in the wall and my room door. My family is so stressed because of him. Also when he yells its at the top of his lungs for like an hour. What can we do about him? Please help!

I am 19 yrs old and in college. and I need help on how can I hide my headphones while I listen to music.Because me and my mother always have a misunderstanding about me having headphones in my ear. everytime i'm in the car with her she'll akways ask me what am I listening to and I have to lie and say a artist that she like. Me and her don't like the same type of music. for instance I don't like beyonce, taylor swift or pop music but she does. I only like international music and sometimes rock. Reason why I lie to her about what am I listening to because she always use it against me in a negative way and say that i'm trying to be white(I'm black by the way) because I listen to rock and that I am trying to be Asian, Hispanic,etc. because I listen to songs in different languages. she aIways say something stereotypical. I love international music because it sounds so beautiful to me.I'm just different. What should I do?

I really dont know when this hate started but its been going on for years. Basically my mom cant stand the lady that lives next too us she told me that she was the one that started the problem my mom said when we first moved where we are now she gave my mom attitude for some reason I kind of understand why my mom dont like her but my sisters know her and they get along with her and when my mom found oit about that she got even more madder but forgave em cause she cant stay mad at her kids. Does anybody else have this problem or jad this problem before please reply and ty

My mom moved to Mexico. She was my best friend. I don't think she'll be coming back. I now live with my grandma who is unnecessarily rude and crazy and my aunt and cousins whom I don't trust whatsoever. I have 3 friends that are willing to run away with me. I just need to know how much it will cost and things that I will need to leave. I have thought about suicide but I figured this is the best option. Please no rude comments. I'm really upset you I'm not happy. I don't deserve this I'm not a bad kid. I try my hardest to please my family but I don't get anywhere. How much money should I need to run away? What are the things that I should bring? My mom already knows that I'm thinking of running away. She had my pastor calling me but that did nothing. I just need to get away from here. I cry every night and every morning. It's hard to stay here anymore. Please help.

okay so i'm 14 years old (female) . i live with my mom, dad, and brother (he's 17) and my dad is in the army . in August we moved from South Carolina to Germany . The whole first week i didn't eat and cried myself to sleep from being homesick . I got a little better after but i guess that was just temporary . As soon as we got our house my dad was sent on a mission in Italy . I have never been good with him leaving though he has been in the amy since i was in 5th grade . I cried everyday he was gone . i'm in school now and my dad is back , but i still hate it here, the school staff is nosy ( they sent me to counseling and got me put on anti-depressants) , my grades are dropping because i cant focus in class, and i don't have a lot of friends( not too bad, i keep to myself anyways) but they keep pressuring me to make friends . I hate everything here, i feel so out of place . I cant talk to any of my friends from the states because of the time difference and my family hasn't spent time together since we got our house(about a month after we got here ) and all this is happening to me but everyone else seems fine ?? What do i do , i cant stand it here anymore , especially not for 3 more years ?? And can they even just throw me on anti depressants like that ?

I'm a 17 yr old girl and I think I found my soulmate and he's a racially black person...My parents are totally against it and are trying to convince me to ditch him.... They show his crime record as a teen but little do they know that he grew up in a poor single parent household with a brother and a sister and his brother was a bad influence and he made some mistakes in his teen years but now that his brother is locked up...He's now 29 and has matured as a man Parents are also threatening to cut my trust fund if I marry him but we need that money to start a business because he is unable to get good employment as he didn't finish school and records but he says if we can invest that money in business,we would be self employed and never have to worry about in future.... Since I'm not yet 18,I find it tough to mobilise the trust fund.. Even his mom is against this because she thinks white women arent faithful and will ditch him when things dont go good... How to convince my parents that he is a reformed person and would love and care me all his life..... FYI,he's not a pedophile and I'm 17 when I met him and 16 is the age of consent in my place.... Also,he didnt target me..We just met and hit it off....and he didnt know about my financial position and trust fund for a long time since we were dating.... He never tried to hide his past away from me and that shows that he isnt trying to con me... Sorry I cant get pregnant..He is more focussed in making sure we stand on our legs and we dont want a baby now

He has been acting really weird lately and he always plays around with a knife and lunges towards me. I don't know if he is playing around but me and him get into fights A LOT. One time he threw an ice cube at me and beamed me in the head a dinner. He gets mad whenever I scrape my plate with the fork and it makes a noise. (Not on purpose) Also he said hat he wanted me to sit down in a chair so that we could play a game. He tied me up and pushed the chair down and cranked my head on the wooden floor. He can be aggressive sometimes but I don't know when he is messing around. Any help?

I am bored and i have nothing to do, it is night so i can t go outside. My grandma is visiting so i cannot go in my room and watch TV because she is going to sleep in there. I can t watch any other TV because my dad is watching football.. What should i do, i feel like i am going to die of boredom pls help. Thanks :)

She leaves early in the day then come back come back at night. She's stressed out trying to mangage to pay every bill. Im 17 and I'm trying to get two jobs so I can help out. I'm in school. My brother is 21 and he doesn't do anything around here but stress her he's very disrespectful. My second brother passed away a couple years ago. He was only 14 when he died an a car accident. We got a good sum of money from that.. And we been living okay after that. But now the money is all gone and we're back to square 1. My moms mother passed away 2 months ago. It was suppose to just be me and my little sister who's 15 to only live with my mom. But it's my mom,brother(who's 21), my aunt and her kids, my brother FRIEND.. And my little cousin who mom passed away. I know what your thinking why don't your mom kick their *** out ? Well it's not that easy. She's way too kind hearted. My aunt is a cocaine addict. She chooses the drug over her kids. My mom had them every since they were between the age 4-6 while their mom in and out of jail. She didn't want them to go to the fosterhome so she took them. I feel like something bad is gonna happen to my mom. And I don't want to lose her. She is 46.. She use to weigh 267 and something pounds but now she has lost aloot of weight.. When my grandma passed she turned to drinking a lot and clubbing and staying out late.. We can I do to help my mom??

I'm 19 years old, I have to be on a Gerd diet, but my little brother he's 16 he's 6'4 and weighs around 200 lbs. My brother keeps eating all the food I buy for my diet . And he eats everything. So right now I haven't eaten in two days and I've been to the hospital a couple times in the last 4 months because my brother eats everything. Then my mom doesn't even care that I'm not eating. I was in the hospital 2 days ago and the Dr was worried because I lost 20 lbs in 2 months I'm 5'8 and weigh 109 lbs , what do I do? I'm tired of going in and out of the hospital, and Dr's have talked to my mom and brother about the food situation. They don't care.

I'm at college 4 hours away from home right now, and I got a call from my mom a week ago saying that she thinks that my grandpa is giving up, and just wants to die. She said he stopped taking his medications, and has been extremely depressed lately. I'm afraid he's going to pass away while I'm at school, and I won't get to say goodbye, which kills me because we have a really special bond, and if I lose him, its going to absolutely kill me. I just really hope he can hold out until Thanksgiving break, or at least the new year, because our bond is over Frank Sinatra, and its his 100th birthday this December, and Christmas is what started the bond, and I want one more Christmas with my grandpa. Someone just help me feel better, please. Reassure me.

My brother is putting hes penis in my mouth while im sleeping. I woke up today with *** in my mouth and i know it is his because i live alone with my brother. What should i do? Were very close and sometimes i feel him masturbating next to me when i sleep with him. I dont know what else he has done to me. Please help i dont know what i should do. Should i pretend i havent noticed?

She's 17, and she's always been a quiet kid in school, but she was always happy and outgoing with family, so I never really thought of it as a problem, I thought she was just shy. That changed when she started middle school. She starting distancing herself. She stopped talking as much around family members. She's never had a lot of friends, but she's always had at least one or two. She would talk on the phone all the time with one best friend that she had since grade school, but I noticed that stopped around the time she entered sixth or seventh grade as well. She never wanted to leave her room or go to school. She stopped wanting to go out with family. This went on for a while, and she also started gaining weight. I noticed she had been eating a lot more than usual, but I never really mentioned it because I didn't want to hurt her feelings. She does well in school. She always gets A's and B's, and a couple C's, but that's fine. Then she started high school, and things took a turn for the worse. She didn't like it at all. She told me that she didn't have any friends and sat alone a lunch. Her Sophomore year, she told one of her guidance counselors that she wanted to kill herself, and they contacted me about the incident. I tried to get her into counseling, but she refused to go. She said she was feeling better and didn't need it. I feel bad for her, she just sits alone in her room, and she's seemed even more depressed ever since she got a job. She only works a couple days a week, but she hates it. She's a cashier, and she has social anxiety. She gets very nervous is crowds, she has trouble sleeping. Like I said, I've been trying to get her into therapy, but she insists she's fine. Yesterday when I got home, she was still in bed sleeping when she was supposed to be at school. She told me she missed the bus, but I know she probably just didn't want to go to school. She pretends to be sick all the time because she wants to stay home. I know when she's faking, but I feel bad, so I just let her stay home. She's a nice girl, she's just very quiet. Sometimes I can't even hear her when she speaks, she's so quiet. She never tells me anything. If I try asking her what's wrong, she just storms off into her room, and she won't speak at all to her father. Every time he tries to talk to her, she just gets mad and walks away.

My aunt always gets me a cake and a card for my birthday, but this year, I didn't get her anything, not even a card. I'm 18, and I've just been so stressed out between work and school, I didn't even bother trying to get them something. I feel so bad, I don't know what to do? Should I get her a card even though her birthday was two weeks ago?

I got a scholarship to this really good college in my country, and my parents were really happy of that, they put all of their hopes in me, i can't really drop out now. the problem is that I AM LITERALLY FAILING AT EVERY SINGLE SUBJECT HERE. The people around me make me feel like a failure, all though I was really good at school, but i don't know what really is wrong with me. I now got my mid-terms grades, and turns out i failed 2 subjects though i was pretty sure of my answers when i came out of the test, and even before, when i was studying with my friends, they all noticed how good i was at these subjects. I don't know what exactly is my problem, and i am feeling so horrible about it, I want to go back home to my parents and study there, but now is too late, if i drop out my parents would be so disappointed and we would also be obliged to pay a fortune

Since my uncle in with my mother and grandmother, he has been using money to abuse them. My grandmother ended up in the hospital because of him and now she is recovering. My mother is experiencing a nervous breakdown because of what he is doing to them. At this moment I am staying abroad, but I will be coming back in the winter. I intend to talk to my uncle and convince him to stop acting like that and move out. What and how should I tell him to get him do that?

my cousin broke into my house the police caught him I am not pressing charges my heart is black broken we were brought up to stick up for each other but **** him he's dead 2 me 2 days I was arguing with mom she was sticking up for my cousin she just called my I told her I wanted to die she told me to stop acting like a fruit cake she I told her to go away last night I was fighting out side a pub when I got jab a few time it felt good cant believe I am writing this but I feel numb inside and when I got hit I finally felt something I underside why people cut there self's but I would never cut myself im not crazy just a bit F***c**ED up and one my other cousin she has disowned me and her brother she is pregnant I will never be able to see that boy or girl all I want is a job so I can move on with my life I am 19 years old and when I get to my mid 20s I want to have kids I wish this never happened my family has been divided I don't have much family my mom told me my cousin has move up the north side of Scotland I don't thing that is true. had I dream last me my cousin and the rest of my family where in Barcelona having but when I woke up I feel depressed I hate what has happened its just gods way of ripping the P!$$ out of me

So about an hour ago, I was in the shower while my dad was looking for a new worktop for our kitchen as we are having it redecorated by our neighbour who is a carpenter. I didn't know my dad didn't have any keys on him - he usually takes his keys with him so I thought he would've had them with him. When I was finished in the shower (I was drying myself at this time), I kept hearing my dad ringing the doorbell, knocking the door and knocking on the living room window. I was rushing to dry myself and put my clothes on. About 5-10 minutes of doing that, I answered the door. My dad was furious with me. As soon as he came in, he said "I've been waiting outside for nearly 20 minutes ringing and knocking the door, and you wouldn't let me in because as usual, you are too much of a selfish brat to do so." I then replied that it wasn't my fault because: a) I was in the shower. b) I thought he had his keys with him because he always takes his keys. But when I said that, he shouted at me even more. When he was shouting at me, I said that I don't deserve to be shouted at, but he said "You really do deserve to be shouted at." He then sent me to my room and he's refusing to speak to me because of my "selfish actions". Is my dad right to be angry at me? Is it my fault he was stuck outside for 20 minutes?

i feel really not close to my dad lately. i think i'm getting older so now i understand things better. this is gonna sound mean but honestly, he's really unintelligent. for example, i was cutting an onion, and he thought it was a tomato. just little things that normal people know, he's just stupid. i'm sorry but it's true, not that it makes me love him less but it's hard to have a connection with him and we don't have things in common. he's kind of homophobic and racist and i'm completely the opposite. we were watching a movie, and i forget how it got brought up but it came up that i don't believe in god and he went off on me telling me that i would regret saying that and i would go to hell. this was really unusual and he never expresses his beliefs, he doesn't go to church, read the bible, pray, anything, so i had no idea. ever since then i've had some subtle anger towards him, i was really offended. this sounds terrible, but i honestly am surprised my mom married him. they have nothing in common. if they were two people i knew seperately who weren't my parents, i would think they were the last two people on earth to get married. but to clarify, i do love both of my parents and i'm grateful for them and everything i have. i just worry that my relationship with my dad will diminish over time and i'll regret it. i don't really have motivation to try to fix anything. anytime i confront him, he ignores what i say, and refuses to 'lose' the argument like a child. what do i do??

my cousin broke into my house the police caught him I am not pressing charges my heart is black broken we were brought up to stick up for each other but **** him he's dead 2 me 2 days I was arguing with mom she was sticking up for my cousin she just called my I told her I wanted to die she told me to stop acting like a fruit cake she I told her to go away last night I was fighting out side a pub when I got jab a few time it felt good cant believe I am writing this but I feel numb inside and when I got hit I finally felt something I underside why people cut there self's but I would never cut myself im not crazy just a bit F***c**ED up and one my other cousin she has disowned me and her brother she is pregnant I will never be able to see that boy or girl all I want is a job so I can move on with my life I am 19 years old and when I get to my mid 20s I want to have kids I wish this never happened my family has been divided I don't have much family my mom told me my cousin has move up the north side of Scotland I don't thing that is true. had I dream last me my cousin and the rest of my family where in Barcelona having but when I woke up I feel depressed I hate what has happened its just good way of ripping the P!$$ out of me

I feel like my home life is in shambles because of my bipolar brother. It's a reoccurring cycle of fights, yelling, verbal threats and even physical altercations that continue to ruin my family from the inside out. He is 27 years old, jobless, car-less, hopeless, angry at the world, and mean to everyone around him. He was diagnosed by a doctor when he was 18 years old, however he doesn't take any medications or refuses to get help because he feels that there is nothing wrong with him.My mom and dad are pretty well off and have good jobs. My dad is working out of state right now so he isn't at home like he used to be... but boy when he was I could expect fights with him and my brother almost every other weekend.. fights that would end up with the police being called. since my dad has not been here, my brother verbally abuses my mom and thinks nothing of it. words like "i will put my foot in your a$$" are not uncommon. he even threatened to kill her one time. Finally I found an escape.. my boyfriend's mother let him live in the carriage house behind her home with just paying 300 dollars a month. soon he found himself jobless for several months and began driving Uber, but that lasted only so long and she eventually made him move back into the main house since he was 4 months behind on rent. sometimes I get angry at him because I felt that he could have kept the carriage house if he tried. I only work one day a week since my life in consumed by nursing school. **continue** but I agreed to buying food and house hold items. he knows my situation and i feel as though he did not try hard enough to pay his mom the 300 dollars. so now i am back home, and now I feel like I'm back to square one and I don't know what to do. I thought about talking to a psychiatrist about my problems because it has began to effect me mentally and I take my anger out on my boyfriend. sorry this is so sporadic b/c of the word count. but I'm desperate for help.

They aren't blood related was her excuse to me BUT I mean he's a memeber of the family now so it's still wrong! Right? .. She said he went down on her and fingered her. They kissed and she went down on him too... She tells me everything.. Shes 16 and he's 20.

I am 22. My family/mom is like a cop. She is mad because: - sometimes when I go out I drink beer (which they think a girl should definitely not do because..she's a girl and a girl can't do that). There's young people doing drugs out there which I never did. - I sometimes go out and there are times when I stay out more during night because I feel good with my friends (my family says a girl MUST come home at 11 at most. they think I go out to sleep with somebody or gangbang with my friends wth. so many out of control things to say). They don't agree with the fact that I am friends with mostly guys (I just don't get along with girls because girl are more difficult). My family calls me a sl*t for that. Just because I hang out with guys. They bash my friends because my friends are more social I got a job I like pretty much and they still won't shup up. They want me to become something I'm not. I feel like there is no communication in our family. Only a lot of 'don'ts'. My cousin is still a student, has a well paid job and he gets all the praises. Has a stuck-up girlfriend. He never talks to me anymore AT ALL (which is used to do) and nobody bats an eye but everybody in my family praises him for his situation. And I complained-no changes. They think that as long as there's money, lack of communication is ok. I am more openminded. What should I do? I tried talking to them but nothing

My parents are a bit low on money. My dad works a few days a week but they are always stressed about the bills and paying car insurances e.g. Now they want to become a famous family like the Kardashians... We live in Australia so I don't even know what my plan is but my mother suffers from mental illness which is probably why she is acting delusional. Now she wants us to cause trouble around the neighborhood and try and gatecrash celebrity events to get our name in the papers and on the news so hopefully someone will offer us a deal to get a show. What can I do about this??

My own parents and siblings are excluding me from such event that makes males feminine with new ideas in hairstyles, dance moves and such. And now my own parents and siblings think I'm a masculine/macho person where they can just simply blacklist me from it when I was feminine well before them. My 27-year-old macho brother is also preventing me from experiencing it since I missed out. My parents - They blacklisted me from .such event where my dad also had that whole masculine/macho behaviour modification crap last year to early this hear for me where he tried to feed me foods high in protein and bossing, scolding and blaming me for everything around the home, in the hopes I would become some sort of agitated macho man with severe mental problems. Siblings - They took photos of me and published it elsewhere while my 27-year-old macho brother wanted to blacklist me from such things by saying lies about me being his old self where I assaulted both parents and siblings, being very immature for my age and having been in trouble with the police. I was always a person who's identity was always close to being feminine/metrosexual. I'm even self-conscious, non-violent and had adherence and acceptance as part of my preferences before they blacklisted me from such event that would have suited me perfectly. I feel frustrated.

OK so I am a 22 year old female, I have a job, go to school and still live with my parents. My mom and dad are Hispanic and still believe in many traditional cultural values. So before I had a job I would just go to school and my mom expected me to clean around the house wash the dishes sweep clean the restrooms ect. I would complain and say well why don t you ever ask my brother to clean? My brother is 28 years old still living at home and has a job. My mom would say you don t work so you have to clean. OK so now I have a job and go to school and she still expects me to clean even though I am never home, I mainly go home just to sleep. I don t eat at home and I rarely take showers there, I usually spend all my time at my boyfriends house. So even though i work she still wants me to come home wash all the dishes and clean the restrooms. Anyways I told my mom I was not going to clean when my brother has never once cleaned the restroom or washed the dishes. Besides I am never home and have a job and go to school. I feel that it is unfair that she expects me to clean the house just because I am a girl and she thinks it is my responsibility to help her. Also ever since I got a job she wants me to start paying the water bill but she has never asked my brother to pay any bills and he has been working for years. I do want to help my parents but I feel like they are being so unfair with me that I don t help them. I feel like my mom is trying to take advantage, What should I do?

My brother always bragged to me about how he brings his secretary on business trips just for sex. I know I was wrong - but we were drunk. I'm asking for ideas on how to go on. Thanks

My mom moved to Mexico...we lost our house. I know live with my crazy grandmother and aunt, uncle and cousins I don t trust. I want to go home. I miss my school and my friends so much and my hometown, my church...Im losing faith everyday. I hate it here. I feel so belittled by my family. I can t talk to any of them. My mom is my best friend and she is in a different country and I know she isn t coming back. I was thinking about running away. I have 3 people willing to come with me. I need to get out of here. I m not a bad kid. I don t deserve this. And yes I ve messed up a lot but I don t need this. I want to go home. Someone please tell me how I can go back. Or persuade my mother to come back. I don t know what to do. I cry every night and when I wake up in the every morning, I shut my eyes hoping and praying when I open them Ill be back home. And it will have been a bad dream. But then I open them and I cry all over again. I m a 16 year old girl. And I have terrible anxiety. I miss my old life. I shouldn t have taken it all for granted but please. If you have any ideas. And please no criticisms. I get enough of that from my family...thank you.

I accidently exploded my dads microwave and I feel really bad, so I want to buy him a new one but they cost around 50$. I am only 14yrs old and I have no money at all. Also, I don't have very much time so I can't run errands or do chores for other people Thank you sooo much! Any help is greatly appreciated :)

Recently for some father son bonding expirience we were watching some movie on thursday nightsbut when we were watching Harry Potter the little bastard said that if he went to hogwarts he wanted to be in Hufflepuff. Needless to say i was shocked and outraged.

I'll start this off by saying that I recently changed my residence to my college town. My parents no longer provide for me, but I visit home semi-frequently. I had an interpersonal conflict with an old friend of mine that ended in me cutting off all contact with said person. Said person said/did a variety of things that made me feel uncomfortable and disrespected, and was completely unapologetic about it. My dad holds said person in high regard (that's another story) and was very surprised/frustrated when he heard I wasn't speaking to them. He called me from home and asked that I tell him what's going on. I declined to answer, partially because I didn't want to and partially because I don't want to soil said person's reputation (just because I don't like them doesn't mean I need to go around badmouthing them.) He kept insisting that I tell him, and so I firmly (but not angrily) said, "Dad, this is between me and _____, I'm an adult and I can handle my own interpersonal conflict. It's none of your business." He got VERY angry and yelled at me, exclaimed that I was being disrespectful, and hung up. I haven't spoken to him since then, but I don't feel the need to apologize. I don't feel as if what I said was wrong. If the circumstances were different, I would have told him simply because he was an authority figure and had a right to know, but I have my reasons for not talking about it. Is what I said wrong?

There was this vine from a while ago, where this boy was playing a prank on his mom. He's in the back of a van/car thing while she is driving. He pops out from behind the seat and yells, "BOO!" and the mom starts swerving back and forth screaming. He keeps yelling, "MOM! MOM! IT'S JUST ME!!!" I can't find it, and I always laugh every time I think about it! I just want to see it again.