Im separating with my wife. We are actually not legally married byt we a daughter of 3 year old and we ve been together for 5 years. I m moving out of state snd im not sure whats the best option. There is a probably that she migth win custody but at the same time i want to be able to get to agreement in paper but without incilvung the court. What do u think are my best options ?

My wife and I have to put in $100 a week for rent. There are times that she comes up short because she has her own bills she has to pay and buys the groceries. She doesn't make that much from her job so how can i help her?

Okay, my fiancé and myself have had our turmoil of ups and downs. We have been together for 5 years come January. The thing is that she has a best friend that I am highly uncomfortable with and don t like in the slightest. The reasoning is that during the first year together when he supposedly didn t know my fiancé was a lesbian and with me attempted in a childish innocent way to gain her affection with little stupid things like holding hands. They also once had discussions during this time about living together and marriage so forth. Now that I can easily shrug off, it was innocent bs. They stopped being friends because of a different incident that I couldn t ignore like talking about sleeping with each other. However most recently (like a few weeks ago), they began talking and hanging out again. During such I come to find out that he confessed to once had been in love with her, tried to woe her again with innocent gestures and also my fiancé played a role in leading him on by telling him she liked him.

I'm recently divorced and my child is refusing to go to his dads house on the weekends. its only two days a week! how to i handle this situation Btw he's 13 if that has anything to do with it his dad wants to see him but he wants him to make the decision

My husband and I have been married for over 8 years; together for 11. Our sex life is great but his desire to be cuckolded has grown intensely over the years. At this point, I don't know if I am interested in having sex with other men. I am instead looking for advice and suggestions on other things we could do to help satisfy his desires and stay within my current boundaries. We have gone online to cuckold chat rooms to meet other men. We have played on the phone with some of those men but it can be difficult to find the right guy who understands what will get us both off. We definitely use stories but they are getting old. Flirting with guys when I go out is an option but it's difficult to go somewhere far enough away to ensure that I don't know someone at the bar. I am looking for suggestions on things we can do to fulfill his fantasies and don't necessarily involve me having sex with someone else. At least not for now :) Any help and feedback you can give is appreciated!

I was raised by a traditional family. I was taught to get married and have kids. My parents taught me to respect my husband and always put him first. When I was fifteen I discovered I was attracted to both sexes my parents caught me kissing a friend and it did not end well. I impulsively kissed my friend she freaked and my father gave me the belt and my mother never let it go she was worse she'd say constantly "Do you want to go to hell?" or "I did not raise you to be a slut!" It sounds odd I know but my dad was more tolerant than her he believed if you did wrong you'd take your punishment that was it. My mother never lets things go and looked down on me for even thinking about college. I'm 23 and hate my life. I married right out of highshool because I thought that's what I was supposed to do. Except I've been on the pill(in secret) so I don't get pregnant. I don't want kids right now but my husband won't shut up. He never listens and if I try to speak my mind he shuts me down if I try spicing things up he calls me a freak. One day I was home alone(like always) and I found an add for job at BDSM dungeon online. I applied and started working as a Dominatrix. I've also worked as a stripper from time to time and frequently go clubbing. I hate being a housewife but I feel obligated to keep my vows even if he's a jerk and I was a stupid kid when I made them. I just want to do something with my life and have fun is that wrong? Is wanting to be with both men and women wrong? I want to leave but I feel obligated to stay. If I divorce him I get nothing and all my friends have the same mindset and I've mentioned wanting more but they look at me like I'm an alien from another planet. I'm open to suggestions because if I leave I'll be out and on the streets.

I mean does the wife always find out eventually?

My wife acts like its a chore, so now I'm bored and I just avoid her. This isn't very productive but it turns me off when someone just flops on the bed and is like, 'alright, stick it in and get it over with.' But what else can you do?

I am 20 years old and my mother has been both verbally and physically abusive to both me and my father since i was very young. I am currently attending college so I don't have the money to move out nor do i have anyone i can stay with. My father wants her to leave just as much as i do but we havent found anyone that will listen to us legally. Does anyone know where we could turn?

We got married recently but our relation is not going well , i tried many ways to make her understand but she is not understanding anything so i decided to move away from her life..... when i talk about divorce etc... she is saying she wont give me a divorce and she will give whenever she things or she says she will make false case against me ...what to do please help to handle this kind of girl ....

my husband is apprentice not ready for marriage and it is not what he expected. He thought passion and live would not fade. he didn't know yiu had to make it work to keep it alive. But how does that make him not love me anymore?

I married a slightly older woman, who has an adult daughter from a previous relationship. Shortly thereafter, the daughter met my father at a family picnic. They, too, married shortly thereafter. They had a baby daughter of their own together; meanwhile, my wife gave birth to a son. My buddy says that my son is now my uncle, my father is my son, and I am my own Grandpa! How is this possible?

I mean, soon around 50 percent of them are going to get divorced and their partner gonna take 50 percent of what they own? So, why bother marrying? Why spend such a huge amount of money for something which doesn't gonna last? Why spoil your kids? You know this gonna affect the kids and when they become adult they are also going to do the same?

I've been ruminating on this for a while and I know she'd be happy with either, but I'm trying to figure out which I should get her. Any suggestions?

We have been separate for 3 years, November we've been married for 5. He doesnt pay me and I don't want him to. But we live on opposites sides of the country and he won't send me divorce papers but won't sign the ones I've sent him. I've called his CO who has done nothing and I don't know what else I can do. I'm tired of being used and I'm ready to be divorced because I want to move on with my life so idk what I can do. I've never been divorced before and have never dealt with it so I know nothing about it. What can I do? Can I go to a court here even though we didn't get married here? Do I need to go where we were married?

My boyfriend has been in the navy for two years now and he is a submariner. I know he has deployments and they sometimes last a long time. I'm moving in with him within the next few months and I'm just trying to prepare. He's very understanding of the new adjustment for me because it can be hard, he and I plan on getting married after we've lived together a little while and I'm having a hard time as it is. Mainly because I suffer from depression and I do take meds for it. Does any body have advice or a place I can go to talk to someone?

She's 37 months pregnant. I feel she as a wife is obligated to fill my sexual desires. She needs to take one for the team. Wondering how maybe I can talk her into it or what things I can do to get her in bed. It's like as soon as we go to bed she's always too tired or cranky.

I cheated on my husband 2 years ago, we got back together but things always havent been great, we began fighting again because of his drug usage and now he isnt attractred to me and has mentioned to one of my family members that he wants sex with another woman. How should I feel about this, how can I get him to be atrracted to me again'

I can only think of maybe like, one example that would make alimony seem at all fair. I have known people who financially supported their spouse through med school and residency. They are all still married, but I guess if right when the physician started making money he or she left the spouse that supported them financially all that time, maybe I could see limited alimony be justifiable. Other than that, alimony always seems unjustified. But I'm wondering if other situations justify it. I agree, Dude. I think I was thinking that maybe investing in the relationship deserves some outcome. Investing in kids instead of work would be similar.

My baby is 3 months old!! All I want is some good intimacy with my husband but he gripes because I have a pudge on my stomach. What can I do? Besides lose weight (which I'm working on). He's a great guy, just a little stubborn.