she was nice to me in the begining but then she talked behind my back, isolated me from her real friends, ignore me, rolled her eyes, she lied to me about school lynching, almost hit my face, yells at me paranoid with me, and called dumb, ugly, and b word etc. I didnt do anything to her just want to be her friend, but she shove me away effortlessly and crying with joy she would put it :( ask her to hit me up anytime.. no response and never heard her again, I mean by I never heard her again, it mean she cut ties like I'm dead to her, non existence, stranger, and totally utterly wipe off from her life, DOESN'T feel bad hurting me, just walked away easily, coldly to me, person who treat me like I'm lowest digusting, worthless garbage, I told her nicely about this, never replied, I told her how I felt she told me to f- off, your annoying b-, after that I never talk to her again or see her again but the I'm in pain and regretful, just want to forget her and the pain of cruel person

I'm great at meeting people and making great first impressions for example I could talk to any random person and get her number or get invited to a house party etc I come across as a legend. But then as the person gets to know me I fade into the background very fast and become boring. This is evident in many situations and add a result I have lots of friends but none I can rely on and if there are four seats in a car send five people I'll always be left behind obviously my creator forgot to add social skills but if you could help me gain them it'd be much appreciated

So I took you guys advice and decided to go nude in the locker room. Everyone on my team freaked out as I was flashing them (even though there is actually a kid on my team who flashes everyone). So when I turned around to face them (when I had boxers on) they said that I had a ***** (I didn t) now I m really embarrassed. What should I do. Should I go nude again? Next time I have to shower soooo what should I do???

im not shy or afraid of new things. The problem is i dont have friends to do anything w. I dont have a "best friend" i have closer friends i sit w at lunch but lately Ive been going to the library doing or pretending to do homework(sad i know).I cant tell these girls anything about my life, they are judgmental & will talk about me to one another I have lots of acquaintances i talk to in class everyday. People do like me but not enough to be close w. Im a junior in high school & the friend groups or "cliques" have all been set. Im sure people would let me sit w them if i asked but i cant just walk up to someone i only talk to in class & say "hey can i sit w u & ur friends that i don't know at lunch & join ur friend group?" That would be weird & uncomfortable for everyone because they dont know me & a conversation would have to be forced I hear people talking about parties & hanging out & stuff that i want to do too. I want to do things w my life, but i cant invite myself anywhere or intrude. My family is very dysfunctional, I dont play any sports, Im clumsy & uncoordinated, its too late to join a sports team because of my age. Everyone is already a pro and no one likes a newbie. Im honestly not good at anything, no talents, no skills, get poor grades. Im on antidepressants but i dont think my depression has anything to do w it. I just never do anything w my life & i need advice. Help? Side note: i know this sounds like i feel bad for myself but i dont, i just want a life

I cannot stand them, they're normal people with high expectations and I don't live up to any of them. Why do these kids feel the need to pick on my friends. They know I don't mess around, so they don't even try with me. It's funny though because half of them end up in jail when they're older because in school they're always getting in trouble. They're loud, and they pick on kids that don't wear brand name. It's just so terrible. I wear brand name because its good clothes, but I think they should stop judging people on what they wear! They don't know absolutely anything about what happens to them outside of school. Popular kids think they run the school, they push everyone around, fail at finding a job, and they think they're so "cool." Also I hear them always saying how much friends they have. I think it's funny because everyone else that's not in their group, they also have the same amount... but you don't see them having an ego or being bullies. These are the exact reasons why I suggest NO ONE goes into this group. They don't have a future, little do they know. Oh one more thing, I sometimes have to grade their papers, and their spelling is the most sucky thing ever. They can't even spell kindergarten words! Bunch of kids that put popularity as their main goal. So stupid.

So i am really spoiled. I am getting a MacBook air for my bday and uggs for my bday and I wasn t even thankful. Whenever I want something I get it and I feel really bad after. Can someone tell me how to train myself not to be spoiled?

Like everything i wear people at school got something to say or the way i do my hair ? Some try to say it behind my back but i still hear them and like today i was walking down the hallway looking fresh azz hell to me then someone gone say his chuck taylors long azz hell and his glasses big azz hell lol i didnt say nothing because first of all they were some 9th graders and second this is my 12th grade year and i do not want to fight . So was i right for not saying something and moveing on because im actually really mad rite now because i wish i had said something but im trying my best to annyoe people with there stupidity and a couple weeks ago i had an afro that i loved but people kept saying helmet head and how i look like a bowling ball even when i went to stores. No matter what i do people always have something negative to say and im kinda tired of annoying them. Why are people doing me like this ? Is this haters or is it something wrong with me ?

I really miss a kid im 21 now and well growing up SUCKS so BAD when I was a kid and a teenager I use to be sooooo HAPPY now im always sad, depressed, and angry I have been so angry now I dont even know what im mad about anymore it just SUCKS I know bills, taxes, responsibilities, etc and on top of that its just soo much more I have to deal with like late last year one of my favorite uncles died who practically helped raised me died from cancer we were close January came and my childhood friend died in her sleep from a seizure, februay one of my favorite aunts died from a massive heart attack, march an associate of mine was killed in a shoot out, a weeks later another friend died from being shot, a week and a half later a friend died in a motorcycle accident, then I got news one of my aunts was going to be ok after she suffered a stroke in which she is ok now then a month later my favorite aunt had diabetes and slipped into a coma. after that an associate of mine came up missing and 2 3 months later his body was found shot up and in a sewer, then I FINALLY decided to get out the house more on a way to a family cookout to mend our broken family back together and I get news my aunt that was in a coma passed away from a heart attack on top of that I couldn't enjoy the picnic and my uncle started some bs and everyone started warring with each other as soon as it was over literally when I was a kid I was the happiest person EVER I even looked alot better because now im losing hair my hair is thinning and receding BAD I often find myself wondering back to my past but I cry alot now its just waaay to much and counseling and prayer just has not helped me I dont know what to do everytime I try to move past one problem another pops up with death or more hair loss or something I look into my old pics and all I can see is smiling from myself now im more aggressive my "family" does not even see each other anymore except funerals or holidays I just miss the way things used to be being a kid* I was more happy like now its just horrible I cry even looking at old pics and both sides of my family hate one another now im losing friends, family , hair etc I used to want to be an adult as a kid so I could stop following orders on top of that I ant find a job I have no record and im a good person and I cant get back to college due to my fafsa being messed up due to my taxes does anyone have good memories to their childhood or wish they could be a child again ? Time heals all wounds is the biggest lie to me im still having problems with lost people from years and years ago I just hate this the only thing that keeps me happy now is my music or hanging out when I can afford it

I got in an argument with these two boys. And its been over with i left it behind. But now when I missed a day of school they talked **** about me asking me where I was at, calling me rude names saying them to my friend at our lunch table. I don't know why they choose to sit close to me. Can you please help me try to understand what's their problem?

So she s turning 18 im 16 but we @thesameclass.. İ liked her for a long time now and idk.. She did too(not sure) we had a connection and she s waiting for me to tell her that I like her.. İ wanted to tell her in her bd but that might destroy our friendship we have and my other friend s friendship.. Do ü think I have to tell her in her bd or just cry at the corner?

This may be confusing from the question but I go this high school youth group and there's more than one leader. Girl and guy leaders who are mainly in their 20s. There's this one leader I can trust more than the rest and talk to her about more. But she keeps telling me to talk to a different leader because that leader is controlling a small group that goes to my school. And I don't know what leader very much. What should I do? Get to know the other leader or somehow convince the leader I trust the most to talk to me?

I'm 14 n i decided to run away (its a personal problem, I don't wanna tell anyone so please don't ask). So since I was 13 I wanted to run away, n I have planned everything. I want to go to South Korea but the problem is I don't know how to leave their alone in this age. I really want to run away so badly, whatever I just wanna leave. So anyone can please help me what to do (please I don't want anyone to say "DONT LEAVE" coz whatever I'm gonna run away even if the problem is solved) so please give me some tips on how to settle their

Okay so me and my "best friend" are in a crisis. I don t know if she knows it but this just hurts. We used to be so close always giving shoutouts to each other. Now it s not like that.You know how modern girls say "I love you!" Well that makes me jealous.So now we aren t as close but not only that my bestest friend, Jade, came over and got me obsessed with Creepypasta. At a peprally my friend (the one I m having trouble with) was with my other friend Erin. Erin was a problem but she isn t as much now. They were like talking and all and I said "Guys" and I kept repeating but they didn t answer. So I made my move by leaving. They were like "Lizzie come back" but I didn t because I was mad. So I went to my other friends and only a few times Erin came to check on me. So I was texting Erin saying if they pushed me over the line I would go to the Slender Mansion and all that creepy stuff (half joking half trying to make a point). So today my friend Brooklynn told me that herself, the crisis one, and Erin were talking about me. Erin said: I m annoying. Crisis girl said: I should be put in a mental hospital. So I asked crisis girl (Autumn) what that was about and she said that s not what happened and she said she asked Erin why she stopped texting me and she told me Erin said that she was mad because she thought I said I would drag her into the slender portal. I said that s not what I said and put a laughed. Erin isn t mad at me anymore and she s friends.

My daughter is 15 and is very mature for her age and I trust that she has good intentions. But she recently asked me if it'd be okay if she could stay the night in her friends hotel room. Her friend is 18 and they've been friends for three years and she claims he's like a brother. They're will also be two other guys there that are 16 years old but they're will also be a few girls friends with my daughter who are also 15-16. This is suppose to be a special occasion for Halloween. I'm a pretty laid back father. My daughter has been through a lot and I have let her make her decisions and she's made mistakes in the past so I'm a little worried. She doesn't get to go out much because her mother works a lot and were separated and I've been busy and I did tell her she should have fun and live her youth and hang out with friends, I just don't want to be a hypocrite.

Okay so my friend recently told me to join basketball with her (we're in high school and in our freshman year) and I honestly didn't want to since it wasn't my thing and it was mostly hers, but I surprisingly agreed and said I would (I know, dumb decision) Lately she's been telling me to prepare for all of these stuff regarding basketball but then I decided to tell her that I didn't want to join basketball because I didn't want to lead her on assuming that I'm gonna tryout. I texted her and said that I didn't want to join, which was pretty unwise bc I should've told her face to face. She replied and said "k" which was pretty obvious that she was mad or pissed at me. Ive been doing all my effort to approach to her and saying sorry and I know it's not enough since what I did was pretty pathetic, but shes been avoiding our conversations and barely talking to me. She doesn't approach to me like she would used to, and I'm starting to think she doesn't want to be my friend anymore (at least for now) what can I do to save our friendship?

So I am new in high school and there are some people who roll their eyes at me or simply do not acknowledge me. When I smile, they just look serious. Even if I talk to them, it becomes kind of an awkward conversation. I also know some people and we exchange hi/hello, what's up? when we bump to each other but that's it really. I also feel like I am boring, awkward, no sense of humour. By the way, how do I make some length conversations with someone without being boring or awkward?? This is sad for me... I do not think people are interested in me...

Im in college, I only have like 5 or 6 really close friends, lets call them group A, there are other kids I chill with, but only because my good friends associate themselves with them, call them group B. Group A I am close with, we vent with each other and chill whenever we can, 3 of us have goals for the future and are pursuing, the other 3 are just working & at school. Group B doesn't have much goals, they are quite the drama type and tend to talk trash about each other, I try not to hang with them. Heres the thing, one of them used to be my closest friend, but he's always been selfish, and nows he being selfish towards me, over the summer he tried using me for a ride to the club with a bunch of people, I didn't wanna go (I dont go to bars or drink) and he embarrassed me in front of every1 saying that I dont wanna get with girls, I should've left and cut all ties with him but I didn't. He hasn't done anything since, but recently he's been acting weird, he's still in group B talking trash about each other, & he was being selfish about my 21st bday, like its his birthday, being selfish, I told some of the group A friends that I'm done w the selfishness, if he ticks me off one more time, I'm officially done. Do you think its a good idea to just stop associating? Group A does, I haven't talked to B in a while tbh, I only do when I ask them to play sports, I dont ever have drama in my life, but whenever I'm feeling down I feel like its bc of THEM. I appreciate the help guys.

Hey, I have no friends, and nobody likes me where I live, is there a program of some sort that can atleast pretend to want to hang out w/ me and have my back? Thanks!

i see that lots of my friends talk to many random people on kik, is there a website to talk to real people? or how do you find random people?

So I have this friend who's really jumpy, talkative, and loud. I don't mind it at all, it's who she is and I actually like it. Other people however say she's extremely annoying, and I hear people always talking badly behind her back. It makes me really angry, and I want to stick up for her- but being the type of person I am, it's very difficult. She herself doesn't usually hear what's being said about her, but it still makes me worried that it'll someday get to her and change who she is. What should I do?

in my home im funny talkative but at at school i might as well be a zombie its not like im scared of talking but its like my body wont respond to my mind like it usually does at home

There's this girl in my school I've known for about 5 or 6 months that I can't decide if I want to stop talking to or not. She calls me one of her "best friends" sometimes, even though she is actually not close to me at all. She is in 2 of my 7 classes, and I do not want to have to see her for my remaining two and a half years in high school if I do end our "friendship." She makes life decisions that aren't that bad objectively, but I heavily disagree with (such as blocking the school's number on her mother's cell phone so she can ditch classes as much as she wants) and it actually makes me lose a lot of respect for her. She is not trustworthy or likable to me at all (I once let her borrow my library book and she didn't give it back for two days, she does the dumbest crap on projects that we do together without my approval and then tells me to make it look better, etc.), and she's always talking about her other "best friends." I feel like it wouldn't really impact her too heavily if I did stop talking to her, but I don't want to deal with her childish stupidity anymore... what should I do?

So the quote is "if your boyfriend is your best friend then you re doing it right, but If your boyfriend is your only friend then you re doing it wrong". I know I m taking this quote a little serious but it I have thought about something very similar before. Here s some background. Only one year ago I was constantly invited out to parties and always with friends from my church and other churches. Now I have chosen not to be in the religion I was in. Every single one of those friends won t hang out with me anymore for my choice. Also at school my three best friends moved during the summer and I don t talk to them. Now I also taken harder AP classes and I don t have any friends or even ppl I talk too in those classes and it s already a quarter into the school year and I have no one but my boyfriend. My boyfriend is amazing it s been 6 month s with rarely fighting and he is definitely my best friend. My question is. Do I need to make friends? I don t like the people at my school. So how would I make friends? and I m going to be cynical and ask what if me and my boyfriend breaking up, who would I talk to then?

She's in all of my classes so it's really hard to ignore her, but I dont want tension between us.

Hellooo. I'm 20 y/o and attend a community college, and I can't seem to make any friends. I really only have one friend that I've had for years that I can call to hang out with or talk to. Theres quite a few people in my classes that I talk to, but they never really wanna be more than classmates. I work as a nanny so there's not really a possibility to make friends with coworkers, since I don't have any! Haha. My boyfriend always says it's because I'm so pretty and girls are intimidated by me. I do tend to dress a little bit nicer and always have my hair and makeup done nicely. I feel like the people at my school just aren't the kinds of people that would wanna be friends with me. It makes me really sad that I don't ever have anyone to really talk to or hang out with. I don't know what to do :/ Any advice? Thanks :/

So I am a very shy boy. I only have like 2 friends but I don t really talk to them much. I have a female friend but I don t really talk to her as well. Other peoplr talk to me, but I only reply with short words like "Oh" and "Okay". I tend to be reclusive and all. Outside of school, I have no social life. I am very smart and a straight a-student. I like reading, playing video games and school. Right when I get home, I eat, do my homework, then rest. No social life. I tend to be curious and all, and I like to delve into the world of supernatural and enigma. Am I antisocial? What is your opinion of me?

so about 4 months ago i asked my friend something, and it was about trust. she was one of my closest friends. she stood up for me the most when i needed it, helped me with what i needed help with, and was just always there. but we havent talked ever since the incident and shes not mean to me, just is avoiding me. i tried talking to her today bout something and she was really negative, and we were just talking about sports. i really dont want to give up on this friendship especially since she did do much for me. what should i do? please give me REAL AND USEFUL ADVICE and not some other crap i usually get

I have a friend that I love dearly.... her parents are divorced she she was just able to come to where i am 4 the school year. (She used to be In Pa and now she's a few houses down) anyways, school started and she made friends.... normal, right? Well yeah, I guess. Only thing is, SHE IS MY ONLY FRIEND LIKE REALLY THE ONE AND ONLY. So I was grounded but yesterday my being grounded is over and we planned on going out and making some youtube videos. But the problem is that she just texted me saying this: "Heyyyy lol sorry but I actually just made plans with some of my new friends at school. Im going out for pizza at the 7 eleven (Thats right by house) with them. They r awesome. Btw we r walking there!" Then she put a happy emoji and all and bam, done. And I don't wanna be all clingy and be ranting on how she kinda just chose some girls she has known for a month over someone she has known for about five years. Does she like them more then me you think? I just don't understand. She is always talking about them and all. I just don't know!

Ok, the question sounds weird how I just put it. What I'm trying to say is that sometimes men scare me. They are physically stronger than us and can beat us up whenever we speak up. Please no one answer anything stupid... my birth dad left me when I was a baby, boys younger than me are taller and stronger..I never had a boyfriend, guys just tear me down. Is there ANY guys in this world that can talk to me.. or I can talk to?

My friend was hit by a semi-truck (tractor trailer) when she was trying to walk across the interstate. She didn't die, but she's in ICU, and I'm just wondering what the likelihood of her surviving is? She didn't go under the wheels, she hit the front grill of the truck. Please be as honest as possible, I'm looking for real information not trying not to hurt my feelings. Thanks.

I just had my sweet 16. 43 of the people there were family. The other 10 were my friends and my twin sister's friends. It wasn't as extreme as most sweet 16s. I didn't buy a dress. I just wore one I had already. It was a hibachi place and it wasn't that cheap for them to close the restaurant for us and serve around 70 people which includes me, my immediate family, my extended family and my sister's friend and my friends. My friend had her sweet 16 last month. Her sweet 16 was the typical over the top one and costs $5,000 she told me. I gave her $50 and 2 turtle figurines I had bought for her while on vacation. I wasn't expecting the same amount or anything like that. But I was only able to invite 5 of my closest friends and she gave me a card with nothing. I know she does not have financial struggles or any other situation. I don't have parties like this any other year for my birthday. I can't help but feel guilty for being a little upset over this. I know it's just a gift. But I have her a nice gift for her birthday and this was considered expensive for my family and wasn't as nearly as much as her sweet 16.

So i only have one friend and she doesnt go to my school so i dont see her often. This means that i get really excited when i see her. The past 2 weeks she was ignoring me completly. All her texts were "seen" but no reponse. She has a lot of other friends but i dont. A few days ago i texted her to confirm a sleepover at my house. She finnally responded and with a yes. We had been planning this sleepover for months so i was super excited. My mom made me do a bunch of chores though to earn the sleepover. Today i called her and now she says she cant go bcuz shes trick or treating with her other bff. Its just that this always happenss. She always forgets about me. She had this huge party for her bffs and forgot to invite me. Its just that i want to be her friend, but being her friend hurts and can cause me to get really upset and jelous. I tried telling her but she always says that her mom made the plans( a lie). BTW we are 13. I just dont know what to do.

I dont think it will fit for Tyrese like it would Tyrik Plus for obvious reasons why he shouldnt use it they might get the wrong idea if u know wht I mean

One of my best friends, whos been my friend since 2nd grade, recently just started being a jerk to me. He now makes fun of me everywhere. In real life and on social media. I'm just done with him. But the question is why did this happen? How do I lose a friend so quick?

Okay so I met this girl my freshman year of high school and we were really good friends for a year or so. Then I switched high schools and didn t see her nearly as much but we d still hangout sometimes. Then college happened and we went our separate ways. I went straight to a University and she went to a community college for 3 years, and then she ended up transferring to the university I m currently attending. During that 3 year period while we were in different colleges we never really saw each other or hung out. So now we go to the same University and after hanging out with her a few times I ve realized that I don t really want to be her friend anymore. It s nothing she did, but she s just not someone I enjoy hanging out with, we turned into way different people, and I found myself dreading hanging out with her when we would make plans. I am a very non-confrontial person so I just started ignoring her texts or making excuses as to why I couldn t hang out. I ve been doing this for almost a year and she still won t get the message. I ll still get weekly texts from her asking to hang out even though its been months and months since I ve responded. I don t know how to get the message across. I don t want to be mean, especially since she didn t do anything wrong, my feelings about her have just changed. I thought after a year she d get the message but she hasn t. What do i do???? Thanks!

i am a 9th grader. Life is good in high school, except I don't have any friends. I was a little weird in 6th grade and that stuck with me. Also it was difficult for me to find the right friends. Every group I tried to hang with were either mean, or just didn't like me. I don't know what I'm supposed to do. I had a miserable time at one of the football games because i didn't know who to talk to and stuff. I always wanted happy at homecoming because all i did was wonder around not knowing what to do. I hate how this is effecting me enjoying my life. I cannot have any fun at any events because of this problem. It's even more difficult for me to make friends with people since I am not very outgoing. I just want to be liked, and I want to fit in. I don't want to hear an answer like "just wait and be patient" because I have already been dealing with for 3 years. I am at the point where it is making me feel a little depressed. No one wants to be lonely.

I have been stressing about this a lot lately and I would really appreciate some insight, advice, or opinions on my situation. Sorry it is a bit long! Thank you in advance! :) I have a close friend who went to college this year. (I am 15 and a freshman in high school. She is 19) She is like a big sister to me. We met last year, and got very close. She is so supportive of me, gives the best advice, and is always there for me. I miss her so much. After we said goodbye, and both cried I knew I was going to miss her a lot. I miss her even more now! I'm not used to her being gone yet. It is weird not being able to talk to her whenever I want to, and find her in the hallway if i'm having a bad day to get a hug. She is one of the only people I feel like I can be myself to. I know she is going to make new friends in college, and I am not jealous of them. I know she is going to change too. I just worry that with all the excitement and new experiences she will forget me. I don't want to lose her friendship. We text each other a lot, and snapchat. We have talked on the phone a couple times too. Only for a couple minutes though because we are both very busy. I worry about being bothersome. She says i am not a pest, and not to feel like I am bothering her but I do. How often do you think is okay to communicate with her without getting annoying? I just want to be her friend for as long as I possibly can, and I need some thoughts on long distance friendships.