Friends: Question: How to stop being sad after not getting into select chorus? |
- Question: How to stop being sad after not getting into select chorus?
- Question: How long should I wait to give my friend space?
- Question: My "friend" is really starting to annoy my other friends and me.?
- Question: To forgive or not to forgive?? Plz help me, I'm so confused on what to do...?
- Question: What is this girls problem?
- Question: How do I switch friend groups?
- Question: Emotionally Distressed?
- Question: My best friend didn t accept for who I am?
- Question: Making friends in dance class/getting someone older to like me?
- Question: Should I contact a "BFF" first? She hasn't been there for me....?
- Question: How to deal with a friend that won't leave you alone?
- Question: Rejected from my own table?
- Question: 10 POINTS BEST ANSWERER!Another roommate question?passive aggressive comments being made at my 2year old daughter but indirectly toward me?
- Question: How to meet good friends? Im 23 years old, My job is online poker. I dont like talking to people in big groups. I prefer 1 on 1 in start.?
- Question: How do you tell your friend they nees to clean up a bit?
- Question: Should I move on or start over with my friend?
- Question: How to be more social?
- Question: It feels like im distancing myself from my closest friends?
- Question: How to talk to girl when mom won't allow it?
- Question: Losing a friend, being bullied, and depression?
- Question: Why can t I have good friendships anymore?
- Question: Why has she just stopped talking to me?
- Question: How do i deal with an all boy group in school?
- Question: What is up with me?
- Question: Best way to make friends?
- Question: How to make a best friend in high school?
- Question: What do you do when you need a friend?
- Question: There's this really annoying kid in my class.?
- Question: Georgia people are not ghetto.. How do I hang with them?
- Question: Is it odd to feel offended for being made fun of for how you USED to look?
- Question: Am I overreacting?
- Question: Le gusto o no le gusto a ese chico?
- Question: I dont have manny friends and im 12 and im at a new school can you be my friend?
- Question: Girls, how could a stranger show you kindness?
- Question: Is it weird to go on a weekend trip with a friend who has a girldfriend?
- Question: Why do I like touching his abs and chest?
- Question: Meeting girls?
- Question: Another roommate question?
- Question: Help please anyone just keep it serious?
- Question: I cant make friends???
- Question: How can I get her to come to school?
- Question: Why do I have such bad luck when it comes to friendships but others don't?
- Question: Haven't talked to a guy friends in 2 years.?
- Question: Someone I don't know is talking about me?:(?
- Question: Should i kill myself?
- Question: What do you think of this situation and what should I do?
- Question: I lost a friendship to domestic violence. Is it my fault?
- Question: How can I make an obnoxious person leave me and my friends alone?
- Question: Would this offend you?
- Question: What do you think of my new rap song?
- Question: I need a bet for my friend (a girl) were in 7th grade and I need something for her the bet is who will score better on the german test?
- Question: Never good enough?helppp!!!?
- Question: Did I do the right thing?
- Question: Ha what to think about the dude from high school who stole my heart for a little while wanting to be friends now?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: Am i right to be so p*ssed off with my friend?
- Question: What is prohibited friendship content?
- Question: Estoy engañando a mis padres Esta mal hacer eso?
- Question: Some of my closest friends wouldn't tell me happy birthday?
- Question: What do you think they are up to?
| Question: How to stop being sad after not getting into select chorus? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 05:03 PM PDT Ok so i auditioned for select chorus and i was practicing for a week and my friends told me i sounded good and i think i sounded good to so i auditioned and i think i did good and i really wanna get into select chorus cause this is my last year in middle school and they dont have this in the highschool so i didnt get in and now i am really sad i worked so hard on this and my frined who just decided she wanted to try out the day right before it got in and that makes me even more sad. HELP |
| Question: How long should I wait to give my friend space? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 05:03 PM PDT So my friend was having a bad day, and I guess she got her period which made her seem off. I called her to make sure it wasn't anything I did, and it wasn't. She just told me that she's fed up with everybody and drama and that she's trying to distance herself. She told me, "Don't worry it's not like I'm telling you i'll never be your friend again or talk to you". How long should i wait? And by space, does this mean no conversation in person as well as text? Thanks! She's an Aquarius, and I know they tend to need their space sometimes. |
| Question: My "friend" is really starting to annoy my other friends and me.? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 05:00 PM PDT So my friend, who we will call Royalty dates lots of boys, and thinks that means I want to as well. This has caused her to ask out boys for me, even though I don't want her to, and clearly tell her this. Eventually she started to date my closest male friend. This caused me, disliking the third wheel role, to sit with my other group of friends(a girl who we'll call Mary, and a boy who we'll call Clark). It was very enjoyable, until Royalty sat down with us. Immediately, I could tell Mary and Clark were annoyed. She kept invading my personal space and Clark's. This was due to her "slapping" me(which actually kind of hurt) because I said the "forbidden word"(eye roll)- dating. She started to bother Clark after I said "Clark, protect me!" when she was probably going to slap me until my face was bright red because I poked her. This caused her to start poking and hitting Clark almost every time she sees him, and he just sighs, and hopes she goes away soon. Mary, who is very honest and dislikes people in her personal space, has openly confessed how she thinks Royalty is annoying. Now, I want to know, how do I get her to stop annoying my friends and me? The best thing I have done is gotten her to sit with us 3 days a school week instead of all 5 by suggesting she try sitting with her other friends to mix things up. I apologize if I sound rude, but I can't take it anymore with her trying to get me to date guys, hitting me, and ruining my time with other friends. |
| Question: To forgive or not to forgive?? Plz help me, I'm so confused on what to do...? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 04:43 PM PDT Let's call him Jeb. Jeb and i have been best friends for 3 yrs. He's been a good friend for those years. Yes, we had our fights but we'd always make up. He's one of those friends who make me forget my problems in life and forget to look at my phone. He's also like my personal cheerleader. I know him inside out the same way he knows me. I was diagnosed a breast disease (not cancer)earlier this year. My parents wanted me to continue school, and they told me not to tell anyone about my disease. After a couple of months holding it in, i couldn't take it in anymore; lying that i'm going to skate practice when i actually have to go to the doctors and stuff like that. So i told my closest friends, which is a small group off friends, and jeb is included in the group. Jeb knew first, and started crying (he never cries) when he found out. The rest of the group was very upset, but not upset as him. friday night at a football game, a bunch of people at my school went to watch, but i couldnt go. turns out Jeb was crying about his cousin who passed away, and then he suddenly blurted out that i was also sick. My friends who didn't know about my disease started freaking out and crying.Jeb calls me and tell me, i'm so sorry, i know you told me not to tell anyone, it was an accident. I was so upset. he texts, emails, and facetimes me but i ignore. the next day I decide to facetime him, just to hear him out. I know when jeb is faking/lyinig. He got down on his knees and begged for forgiveness. i reluctantly forgave him. this is the first time he spilled a secret of mine. Also, i know he went through a lot over this summer and i just couldnt say no. Monday, i get to school and find out i'm the biggest gossip. I'm so incredibly mad bc my parents told me not to tell anyone and here, the whole school knows. I also know that many parents found out. Even a couple of teachers found out. My circle of friends who knew before everyone else thinks that i shouldnt forgive him. |
| Question: What is this girls problem? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 04:37 PM PDT Ok so I dated this guy and he left me for another girl and the girl has these 3 best friends and they all say that they don't like me they go behind my back and tell other people that I'm ugly and skinny and I don't even know them . When I see them at school they give me evil stares from distances and today my friend was near them at school and she overheard them saying "let's walk past her so we can give her a dirty look" I am not trying to be conceited but they don't even compare to me . I'm a really nice person but my ex was spreading rumors telling those girls that I said they were ugly and blah blah. Me and my ex have been done for almost 5 months now so why won't these girls leave me alone. By the way I'm older than them.. |
| Question: How do I switch friend groups? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 04:37 PM PDT Im in highschool and im in this friend group of some people and we r supposedly close but i dont want to be in the group anymore because their rude and would ditch the group for boys,,, im aquatintences/friends with a lot of people in the school and i wanna join this group but im not that close to them/ we only talk a little in class/halls. i dont know where to start without just seeming super desperate to them,, i barely see them after school but some of them and i have a couple classes together and usually there are barely any chances to take in class. ugh i cant stand my friends rn and srysly need a group. thank you |
| Question: Emotionally Distressed? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 04:37 PM PDT I found out a kid that is in my "group" of friends told another one of my friends that isnt exactly in this group, to "f**k off, because you a fa**ot" I told teacher, and the kid was expelled, he admitted to it. Now, everyone hates me. I dont know what to do. |
| Question: My best friend didn t accept for who I am? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 04:33 PM PDT It s too late now, but honestly I have no shame so far for breaking this 6 year friendship.This problem has been going on for a long time.(1-2 yrs) I'm more of the calm and shy type of person until you get to know me. My best friend is really outgoing and weird around her friends. We talked last night about our friendship problems. She says she wants me to be more outgoing so I won t be left out and be the third wheel. I am actually outgoing, but not at her level.After she told me that,I felt not only she didn't accept me for who I am but she wants me to change not just for her, but for her friends also. It's not like I make her change for my other friends.That really made me lost my confidence internally. I feel like as a best friend you should like them for who they are no matter what.The past 2 weeks she has been leaving me at lunch to hangout with her friends because she said it's hard to interact with me and I'm not outgoing enough for her. She says our friendship problems have been bothering her but she didn't know how to approach to me to talk about it.I mean if you really do care about this friendship you would put in the effort to talk about it with me instead of leaving me sitting by myself at lunch. I really didn't want to end this friendship but after she told me that I felt like it just wasn't right to say that to your own best friend because you should like them for who they are and you shouldn't change them especially when you've been with them for 6 YEARS! |
| Question: Making friends in dance class/getting someone older to like me? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 04:25 PM PDT Hey, everyone. So I'm in need of some advice. I recently joined a dance class, (it's pretty eclectic in terms of genre) and there's this girl who I really like. She's really beautiful and an amazing dancer in my opinion (clearly the most advanced in the class). But I'm brand new and this is my first time dancing ever. I can pick up on the choreography fairly quickly, but things don't come as naturally to me. Anyway, everyone, including her, is really nice to me. They all call me 'baby', because I'm new and it's really endearing, but I'd really like to forge a close friendship with the dancer I'd been eying in particular, but I'm really shy. She's 19 and I'm 17 (senior in high school). I travel to New York every weekend to take this class, and next week they're having a Halloween party, so I was hoping I could make my move then? She makes me incredibly flustered, so I really need some tips on how to make friends. She seems to be really popular at the studio I'm attending, so I'm also a bit nervous about not getting any along time with her. Thanks in advance for the advice, guys~ |
| Question: Should I contact a "BFF" first? She hasn't been there for me....? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 04:23 PM PDT I met a girl thru work. We lived close we got close fast. My husband disliked her & her family. I'm going thru right now with kids, my husband having a major surgery, being off work & money problems. My own health issues. I'm so over whelmed. She was happy to listen to me complain but never said "what can I do to help?" I cut off everyone for a few days. Didn't even turn my cell phone on. No social media. She has asked me a question. I answered the few days later. She hasn't said anything back. Or asked how things are. Another friend brought us cookies & sweets, took my daughter for a few hours to help out. She has been all over Facebook.....even saw me walking on the road with a friend & she turned around her whole car. I waved. She hasn't checked in to see if we were ok at all in over a week. It's like she liked me being unhappy & complaining about my In laws & life. She's a very unhappy person. Always has to be talking about someone. I feel bad because her husband has thanked me be being her friend said she needs me. But has trouble sharing a friend. Do i contact her or let the relationship die? |
| Question: How to deal with a friend that won't leave you alone? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 04:23 PM PDT There is this buddy of mine that just constantly wants to hangout on a daily basis. We are both dudes in our early 20s and he tends to be real clingy. All my other friends say the same thing that used to hang with him. All day, 7 days a week he wants to hangout. I don't mind hanging with someone for a few hours once in a while but with him he wants to daily. It's weird because if he comes over and starts knocking on the door and I don't answer he will sit on the porch for sometimes a few hours. Last year on thanksgiving he wanted to hang I told him I can't because it's pretty much an all day family reunion at my house. About an hour later there he is knocking at the door. What should I do? If I ignore his calls he will keep calling and if I don't answer the door he comes back through out the day. I don't even go to the bar with him anymore because after he usually stays over so he doesn't have to drive but he wakes up around 6:30 and wakes me up to hang all day. Another thing is when I tell him I'm busy he will ask me how like it's any of his business. I usually just ignore those messages but still. Also I guess his phone you can tell when someone views your Facebook messages. If he sees I viewed it he will rush over to my house because he will know I'm home since I only use Facebook on my laptop One time I was out of town and I told him I was when he texted me. About 5 minutes after my mom said he came over to see if I was home. I've actually went to my house to see if I was lying or not. |
| Question: Rejected from my own table? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 04:18 PM PDT Group of friends and I already sitting where we sit everyday, then this girl (let's call her dudet) and her friends wants the table, and they decide to kick me out and my best friend. So....I should move to another table but I still want to sit there with my friends bc technically I'm the one who's not wanted by this *****. Also, I don't know what to do when lunch starts. Should I still sit where my bff and I sit every ******* day?? or should I let the ***** and her friends take the table? |
| Posted: 20 Oct 2015 04:12 PM PDT guess me female roommate is kinda passive aggressive. so when her and her man are arguing she will sometimes make shots on her way out the door or on the way back directed toward me and my daughter. today as she spoke to my 2 year old daughter on the way out to walk our dog she said "hang on mary I have to ask permission to walk the dog." wich since its not her dog I don't get why that is a problem? on her way inside and up to her room the next passive aggressive shot was also said through talking to my two year old daughter " sorry mary but im not allowed to influence you." this annoyed me first because my daughter is two years old and doesn't understand a word of it.she just understands her "aunty pam is upset" due to tone of voice.anyway when she came back down she tried to ask me if I made some honey wich I asked." who told you that you couldn't influence our daughter?" pam says"nobody did" me"then where did you get that idea enough to get upset about it?" as she is going up the stairs she says "you did Allison with your body language." wich makes no sense to me. honestly im getting tired of stupid bull like this.I never once felt like keeping her away from my daughter til today.now im a bit concerned because of the crappp that's spewing from her mouth toward my daughter about her mistranslations in my body language.I have never been overly good at people but I don't think I have done anything wrong toward her. our roommates are in their 50s im 25 and I don't really know how to react to immaturity from such an older person its seriously vexing because I have had little to no interaction with her but for her to say something so specific. "sorry mary but im not allowed to influence you" kind of seems weird. Since I have only spoken maybe 20 sentences to her in the month we have been home in our house. Well now I am picking my daughter up and retreating to the next room whenever she comes in because I don't want her influencing my daughter like this. I find it a very shitey attitude and it seems unprovoked so after she made that comment I am trying to show her that my body language is indicating currently that I don't want her influencing my daughter if this is her attitude |
| Posted: 20 Oct 2015 04:06 PM PDT I want to meet loyal and solid "real" friends. I live in Europe. Online poker = means time for yourself. I want to build up my social life. 0 friends, 0 facebook... |
| Question: How do you tell your friend they nees to clean up a bit? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 04:04 PM PDT My friend has allot of red acne and she smells a bit musky or rotten. Shes also overweight (not that i have a problem with that, she just has a few difficulties with walking, running, etc.) I want to tell her the nicest way possible, i dont want her to get bullied because i hear allot of people talking about her. |
| Question: Should I move on or start over with my friend? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 04:03 PM PDT Long story short (by the way, I'm a guy) A friend of mine stopped talking to me and hanging out with me for a long while (almost a year) and he explained to me that the reason he did it is because of one of my friend (a girl) was always with him (kind of like stalking him almost) and he didn't like that and now I don't know what to do. Move on or start over? |
| Question: How to be more social? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 03:55 PM PDT I really have a problem with speaking, sometimes I want to speak more and stuff. I do talk to people (close friends) but I don't know how to make friends, initiate a converstion with someone im not friends with. Another thing, I dont know how to talk to boys you know keep the conversation going. I really need help what do you think I should do? |
| Question: It feels like im distancing myself from my closest friends? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 03:49 PM PDT So, there s this boy at school that i like, but his friend group is different from mine. His friends and my group of friends would never hang out, we re just too different, and my friends don t really care for that group of guys. But I recently found out from a mutual friend of this guys and mine that he also likes me, so recently ive been hanging out with our mutual friend and his friends. I want to spend more time with all of them, and i want to get to know him, so i go out to lunch with him and his friends whenever i get the opportunity. But now i ve been neglecting my own friends in my original friend group, as ive always been eating lunch with him or other people. I cant really invite them to come with us, or else i know that my friends and i will go off in our own group and i wont be able to talk to him at all. Now, my friend has told me that everyone feels my absence, because we went from hanging out in every minute of our spare time to me always going off on my own without a real explanation. I feel bad, but i also feel as if im caught up in two worlds; i wanna go off and meet new people and talk to others and this guy, but at the same time, i want to spend time with my friends. Its just that my group of friends are very exclusive, you can t just come to lunch with us. It just doesnt work that way. And if anyone else does come, they ll feel awkward in our group, and it will just be disconnected. |
| Question: How to talk to girl when mom won't allow it? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 03:47 PM PDT I'm 16, and I want to be friends with a girl at my mosque..... i only have 5 classmates in my alternative school, and they're all problem students who I can't be friends with.....she once came over to my house with her mom and we hung out for a few hours....... problem is, she's only 11, and my mom won't allow it.... what should I do? |
| Question: Losing a friend, being bullied, and depression? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 03:43 PM PDT Hi! I'm Carly and I'm 15. I've always been shy, and I was bullied for years. I have clinical depression and severe anxiety, used to cut, and struggle with eating disorders. Up until I was 13 I was in an abusive friendship. I'm sorry if this is bragging or offends anyone, but since you don't know me I'm gonna tell you that people describe me as sweet and perky. When I got into highschool, I thought my life was perfect when I found my friend group and my best friend Hannah. These girls seemed to accept me for who I am. It wasn't until recently that things stopped working out. Hannah and I noticed that some of the other girls cld be mean. They would talk to us like we were stupid, put their boyfriends before us. say mean things about other girls in the group, and do things we found annoying like acting like people they weren't. When we confronted them, they got mad at us. we talked about them and began to grow more distant. This was okay, bc we still had each other. Last week, I confronted one girl for how she was acting. I was very polite. She got extremely angry and started sending me extremely mean texts. She threatened to ruin my life and called me a c*nt. I was so afraid that I told the other girls what she was doing, and didn't come to one girl Mirabell's birthday party bc Jem would be there. Suddenly, no one would talk to me, not even Hannah. Hannah acts like she loves all of them and I'm not even there. I have other friends, but I still feel alone. What should I do? |
| Question: Why can t I have good friendships anymore? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 03:37 PM PDT In high school I had close friends. We d hang out and it d be so easy and enjoyable. Now in college I just don t feel connected to anyone. There is this girl that is so nice and friendly to me. Today we were having a conversation and she was just laughing hysterically and having the best time. I was just thinking it not that funny and finding her kind of annoying. I am like this with everyone. I try to be friendly but it just feels wrong |
| Question: Why has she just stopped talking to me? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 03:37 PM PDT So I'm a 15 year old girl and so is my best friend. Lately she's been pretty pissy and snippy and it seems like she's blocking me out or ignoring me. She's come to school crying a few times, and she won't even tell me what's wrong. She used to at least tell me a little of what happened (she has a lot of family issues), but now she's barely even talking to me about anything. I understand I should give her space, but how do I do that without making it seem like I'M pushing HER away? And if she can't even confide in me about her problems, what does that say about our friendship? |
| Question: How do i deal with an all boy group in school? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 03:33 PM PDT In my 7th period class,I have Project Lead The Way and we are all paired in groups of either 4 or 5 or 6.Since their are a odd number of girls i am in an all boy group so i am the only girl in the group while all of the other groups have at least 2-3 girls and one group has an entire group of boys if that makes sense any.My group gets work done but they play on their phones or they just walk away or do something stupid.PLTW is a building robotics class and we have to build they don't give me anything to do and they plan everything in class without me so i just watch.How do i deal with all of this? Remeber,they play around,they always talk,they always throw stuff,they always play on their phones,and they always talk about VERY inappropriate stuff. |
| Posted: 20 Oct 2015 03:32 PM PDT OK I feel like this is and odd question but here it goes. I'm a 23 year old female and I have always been a lone wolf. I never really tried to make friends with anyone and never really cared. I'm an introvert and I have always enjoyed being alone more that social situations. But ever since I turned 23 half a year ago. I really want to have friends. I mean I have work friends but work is where the line is drawn. I don't know why this is happening to me. I have never cared about this before it is so opposite from my norm. And now that I actually want friends I suck at making them because I have no experience. I don't know what to do. Is this normal? Has anyone else had this happen to them? |
| Question: Best way to make friends? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 03:32 PM PDT Just helpful tips on making friends in day-to-day life at school, work, or just walking around town? |
| Question: How to make a best friend in high school? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 03:26 PM PDT I always had a hard time making friends and there is this one girl I talk to and she's nice. We talked about hanging out last week and she said that she hangs out with her dad but mentioned sunday she was free. I brought it up again and she said the same thing but said sunday was taken too so it didn't happen. I feel like i've been a bit clingy to her so I was wondering how I could fix that or how we could get closer. She has other friends that are guy friends and it feels like she would rather hang out with them. She mentioned to me in class that she doesn't have any girl friends so that's why I started to hang out with her. She's really nice but I don't want to push her away. It doesn't seem she has that girl best friend but she didn't mention someone "before me" so I was thinking that she could be better off without me. What do you guys think? She did mention someone before me (typo), and she does have girls that are friends. She isn't really loud and attention seeking like either |
| Question: What do you do when you need a friend? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 03:18 PM PDT I have all these friends but they're male. I was hanging out with a female in the last house I lived in. It was great until the males started doing peer pressure on me and then she didn't like the way I was acting. I'm not saying I want a girl friend I just want to find a female friend I could just hang out with... |
| Question: There's this really annoying kid in my class.? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 02:58 PM PDT There's this really annoying kid in my class and he's so disruptive, rude and rowdy. No teacher can get him to stop because he doesn't care about school. I know i should ignore him, but he makes SUCH A SCENE. If a teacher is out of the room, he will crawl around the room and poke another classmate. Today, he jumped into a pile of stuffed animals that we bought for our teacher who was out for the flu. He will randomly yell some swear words and somehow the teacher won't hear it. He is so annoying and he thinks he's cool because of it. If another classmate tells him to be quiet or shut up he'll just say that they're spoiling everyone's fun. It doesn't stop there. He has a bunch of "friends" that support him and act like him. I don't want to snitch on him but i do want him to stop. Any advice? Sorry for any grammar mistakes. |
| Question: Georgia people are not ghetto.. How do I hang with them? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 02:48 PM PDT I follow girls from Georgia and they went UF in Florida and I'm just wondering how I can hang out w classy ppl like them? |
| Question: Is it odd to feel offended for being made fun of for how you USED to look? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 02:46 PM PDT When I was a child, I was pretty overweight and got made fun of a lot for it in school. When I was in middle, I started exercising and lost so much weight that I'm skinny now. I'm 15 years old now and if you saw me, you'd probably never guess that I was overweight before. But some of my friends and family like to joke around sometimes on how big and chubby I used to be. They've said things like "You should've seen her, she was fat!" and reminiscing how I used to be a "fatty" or a "hippo". Others usually laugh at that but I don't find it funny at all. They noticed me being quiet while they were joking about it and one of them told me to lighten up and that it's alright because I'm skinny now. They don't do it all the time but when they do, it still hurts. But I don't ever say anything because I worry I may come off b*tchy or oversensitive. Am I being too sensitive? |
| Posted: 20 Oct 2015 02:37 PM PDT My friend made plans with me for Halloween near the end of September or beginning of October to go to a haunted house. I ve been looking forward to this since then and now she said that she can t go any more because a guy she likes asked her to come over to his house on Halloween and do the exact same thing we were gonna do after the haunted house. I feel really terrible but I want to know if I m reacting in a reasonable way. |
| Question: Le gusto o no le gusto a ese chico? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 02:36 PM PDT hola ps a un chico que me gusta y la verdad cada rato me mira antes yo y el si hablábamos un moton pero llego el momento que nos dejamos de habar y ahora soloamente me mira me mira acada rato yo a el antes le gustaba a el´pero ahora nose que pasa con ese chico |
| Question: I dont have manny friends and im 12 and im at a new school can you be my friend? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 02:30 PM PDT dont be mean that means you justin |
| Question: Girls, how could a stranger show you kindness? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 02:25 PM PDT How can anyone make a girl feel better? Complements? Honesty? A listening ear? A person of mutual circumstance? I m asking because we all take encouragement in different ways. A complement to one person can make their day but to another can feel completely patronizing. So personally, how would you like a stranger to show encouragement to you? Thanks :) GIRLS, how can a STRANGER show you kindness? |
| Question: Is it weird to go on a weekend trip with a friend who has a girldfriend? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 02:13 PM PDT Me and a friend (I've known him since forever) are planing a surf trip for a weekend, and I was wondering if it was out of place. I used to like him a lot, but now we are just friends. and I really want to go to this trip for the surf and all, but he has a girlfriend (I don't actually know her cause she lives in another city) and I thought it may be out of place or something..... WHAT TO DO!! .... we are also gonna stay in a house just the 2 of us, which may or may not create sexual tension. its not like i'm assuming something may happen, and I don't like him that way anymore, but you never know until u do.! Update: P/S: Im 18, he's 19 and his girlfriend is 16 |
| Question: Why do I like touching his abs and chest? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 02:07 PM PDT My guy friend has been hanging around me a lot lately and has been taking his shirt off, whereas before he would never do that. I walked up by him and put my hands on his chest with his shirt on, then he lifted my chin and kissed me. We've never kissed, but my hands were resting on his chest, then he wanted me to take his shirt off and I didn't want to, so he did it himself. He backed me up against the wall and told me to just rub his chest down to his abs, so I did. He kissed the side of my neck while I rubbed his chest down to his abs. I leaned forward and kissed his shoulder. We walked back into the bedroom, then we fell on the bed, but then he asked me if I wanted to and I just nodded my head. We started kissing and caressing, but now I can't stop touching his abs and chest region. When I touch his chest, he kisses my forehead, but when I touch his abs and chest, he gets turned on. He asked me if I regretted doing it with him and I just whispered no, then I said I love you that's why. We kissed and I told him I had to go and would call him later, in which I did. I'm 25 and he's 26 |
| Posted: 20 Oct 2015 02:03 PM PDT Ok first of all this is not about dating as i am way to young (14) i just want to have some FRIENDS that are girls because guys can be really stupid sometimes at my age and i feel like it would help me in the future when i am old enough. |
| Question: Another roommate question? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 01:57 PM PDT I guess me female roommate is kinda passive aggressive. so when her and her man are arguing she will sometimes make shots on her way out the door or on the way back directed toward me and my daughter. today as she spoke to my 2 year old daughter on the way out to walk our dog she said "hang on mary I have to ask permission to walk the dog." wich since its not her dog I don't get why that is a problem? on her way inside and up to her room the next passive aggressive shot was also said through talking to my two year old daughter " sorry mary but im not allowed to influence you." this annoyed me first because my daughter is two years old and doesn't understand a word of it.she just understands her "aunty pam is upset" due to tone of voice.anyway when she came back down she tried to ask me if I made some honey wich I asked." who told you that you couldn't influence our daughter?" pam says"nobody did" me"then where did you get that idea enough to get upset about it?" as she is going up the stairs she says "you did Allison with your body language." wich makes no sense to me. honestly im getting tired of stupid bull like this.I never once felt like keeping her away from my daughter til today.now im a bit concerned because of the crappp that's spewing from her mouth toward my daughter about her mistranslations in my body language.I have never been overly good at people but I don't think I have done anything wrong toward her. any suggestions as to how to maintain peace around a passive aggressive roommate like this? now I AM concerned about how much she influences my daughter. our roommate and her boyfriend are both in their 50s. im a 25 year old housewife. I dunno I guess I expected more maturity from a woman who could be a grandmother. |
| Question: Help please anyone just keep it serious? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 01:56 PM PDT hey so my life been pretty messed up recently and my best friend has been there for me but i kinda snapped one night and ive cut and smoked before but i stopped recently until that night and it was bad and i told my best friend whos cut before and has issues about it and she seemed super hurt that i snapped and she was crying and pissed and god ive never felt so terrible and right now i kinda am feeling like cutting again but im also thinking about her and myself and i dont know what anymore if i dont cut i need some type of release any advise im a guy btw |
| Question: I cant make friends??? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 01:54 PM PDT so i am a 16 yeat old girl and there are so many people that i want to be friends with but i dont know how. They usually have their own friends so i would feel out of place if i went up to talk to them. Im also so awkward talking to people and i dont know how to start a conversation! Im so worried that i go to talk to a group of girls who im not really friends with because theres this girl that follows me and my "friends" around and nobody likes her or wants her there and im afraid that i would be that girl to other groups!! I always end up sitting all alone while everyone else socializes. Everyone has made new friends since high school started except for me!! Please help i dont want the same thing to happen for college!! |
| Question: How can I get her to come to school? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 01:50 PM PDT so my best friend doesn't go to school at all, she comes maybe 2 in 2 weeks, and she did it last year too. Her mom doesn't gave a ****, but yet she excuse her. She is going to get held back. And she still wont care I got so mad at her that if she doesnt get her head out of her *** soon she is going to have to work a mcdonalds for her whole life, or she better marry a rich guy. Can someone help me? i know it was really mean to say that but she knew it was true, and she needs someone to yell at her since her mom could give 0 ***** |
| Question: Why do I have such bad luck when it comes to friendships but others don't? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 01:44 PM PDT Ok when ever I make a friend they turn out to be fake,jealous or envies what you have or what you got or they don't talk to you anymore I'm cool and all I'm not stuck up or take anyone's kindness for granted I never ask for favors but yet I heard some people have luck with keeping friends and having each other's backs and all why does this happens to me often I got to the point I better off being alone then knowing that the people who I taught were my friends weren't at all like it never works out at all why does this happens I don't know how some people have tons of friends and never gone threw any issues with them and I'm not a teenager I'm an adult btw lol |
| Question: Haven't talked to a guy friends in 2 years.? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 01:38 PM PDT I'm in 8th grade, and in 5th grade I was popular with the guys (I am a tomboy). But in 6th grade I became shy and I couldn't talk to them. So it was akward when we walked next to each other. I don't feel like I'm as happy as before when I was friends with them. I'm possibly moving in 2 months so I want to at least say bye, but I don't know how. Can you please help me? |
| Question: Someone I don't know is talking about me?:(? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 01:36 PM PDT There's this 8th grader that I met in the line for a haunted house all u asked her is "is this scary?" She said no and rolled her eyes. The next day my friend told me that she called me a s l u t. I never told her my name but she found my Instagram and stalked it!!! She called me a bunch of names like that. I'm only a sixth grader and she's in eighth. She goes to the same school. Do you think she's jealous of me? Because she's really short and not to be rude but she's rly ugly. I'm taller than her. It hurts she said that about me when I don't even know her!!!;( |
| Question: Should i kill myself? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 01:34 PM PDT I'm 15 and dont have very many friends. I dont have a gf. My friends have alot of friends since they're so popular, but my life to me just doesnt matter to me anymore. My parents are trying to get me help, but i dont think it will go good. I weigh 160 pounds, so my friends call me fat. One friend said he would be happy if i killed myself. Others say: "Whats the matter with you?!" and: "You suck. Get a life ***hole!' But i feel like giving up. I tried to choke myself one day, but i stopped because people made fun of me. I just feel like life hate me. Should i kill myself? |
| Question: What do you think of this situation and what should I do? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 01:29 PM PDT Ok so at school I feel like the people I hang out with are leaving me out. Whenever I sit with them they act like I'm not there and isolate me out. Like there was this girl that I used to sit with and act friendly with. Then my mom came to pick me up after school one time and then she saw my mom and she has been acting weird to me ever since. I feel like she doesn't want me to be around her and is bothered by the presence of me. Like when we sit together she distances herself from me and puts her things on the chair next to me. I have a hard time making friends because I'm quiet and shy. I feel like everyone already has their own group of friends and wouldn't want to be friends with me. I'm in high school. What do you think of this situation and what should I do? |
| Question: I lost a friendship to domestic violence. Is it my fault? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 01:17 PM PDT The first time I learned of the violence she told me that he said he would kill her, her family and her friends if she or anyone else ever called the police. We live in a somewhat small college town and he has a lot of connections. Friends always told her to call the police but she begged them not to. I'm not a confrontational person at all. I was always there to listen to her cry about him and talk about how she felt trapped. I tried not to judge her and tried to sugar coat what I said to be considerate. Every other friend was more straight forward. During this time I was finishing up undergrad & started dating a mutual friend of ours. I wasn't really home a lot and I could tell she was starting to get a little jealous especially because she had previously friend zoned him and now we were happily dating while she was miserable. Ultimately, i think she feels like I wasn't there for her like I should have been. I think she secretly wanted someone else to take the responsibility of putting him in jail, but I was also scared! She ignored everyone's advise but then would say she felt like no one cared about her. The abuse turned her into a shady, untrustworthy person and eventually she lost people around her. I feel like I could have done more but i felt trapped too! She didn't want to stay at a shelter, he knew where the rest of our friends lived. She wanted someone to save her & nobody knew how. Yet, i think she hates me the most. Sometimes I think she hates me for being happy. |
| Question: How can I make an obnoxious person leave me and my friends alone? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 01:14 PM PDT -He's repeatedly tried to steal my things and run away with them as a joke, including my hat, backpacks and pins; and did this to several other people as well; when I defend myself and yank him away from my things he insults me and threatens to fight me -He tried to yank my friend's hair out, and administration- standing right in front of us- did nothing about it, and didn't even notice -He won't listen to our repeated requests for him to leave us alone and very explicit requests not to steal our things -When my friend told him to go away she said she "was lucky she was a girl, otherwise I would kick your ***" and made really sexist remarks -He's follows me and my friends at lunch even though he knows we don't like him to irritate us because he thinks it's funny -He's said really insulting things before about my friend's girlfriend and tried to punch him in the face, yet the friend got in trouble for defending himself and punching him back This kid is special needs which I understand causes difficulty understanding social cues/barriers. Some awkwardness or unintentional rudeness is totally acceptable, I try to be tolerant of people's conditions. However, that isn't an excuse to be such a dick. We have multiple times, very explicitly told him to stop but he keeps at it. I am considering going to the office about it but I worry he'll keep doing it anyways, as this has happened in the past as well. We're all seniors and I'm frankly appalled at his immaturity. I've peacefully told him not to steal my things and had to physically separate him from my stuff but he wouldn't listen any of those times |
| Question: Would this offend you? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 12:31 PM PDT I've been talking a lot to this dude online, he doesn't live far from me. An hour or less. I asked him what he was eating and he said "your moms pussy". It annoyed me so much and Idk if I wanna keep talking to him. He apologized but I thought it was really disrespectful. The first time he apologized he put "ha" after it. Then, apologized again. I would never say anything about his family like that. We make fun of each other but never have talked about family. What would you do? I lost so much respect for him when he said that. We were getting along so well tbh, till he did that.We've been talking probably less than 2 weeks. |
| Question: What do you think of my new rap song? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 12:19 PM PDT I'm 21 and a new rapper. Please listen and give your opinion. https://youtube.com/watch?v=iQnxpU6La4M |
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| Question: Never good enough?helppp!!!? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 11:56 AM PDT It makes me really sad to never feel good enough for someone,I'm talking about friendship,you know when you get to know this new person or group of pple and for once you make friends and you become friends with them and suddenly they just start becoming distant talikng to other new people,new people who are funnier,happier than you,pple that will make them laugh or pple who know a lot of other people so they can bring them news and then you are left behind,completely alone and feeling worthless.I've spent my whole life being alone,walking alone,eating alone,living alone basically no matter how much I try to make friends and help them and be nice to them..it is just so tiring to be in the same position every year..what do u think?uve been there too? |
| Question: Did I do the right thing? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 11:53 AM PDT This girl I like, she told me she is going to sleep at a friends house, he parents thinks it's a different friend. I told her that's wrong, but it's her choice, and she got angry. I am generally an honest guy, and hate liars, she was saying she is worried if she got caught. I mean what was she thinking I'd say? "Good job, don't tell them and go to the friends house" |
| Posted: 20 Oct 2015 11:48 AM PDT I feel how I felt 4 years ago as a sophomore with all the power in my hands as some senior wanted to be my friend, he had no hold over me then just like he has none now. I guess we ended up making each other's year a little more interesting... I had wondered if we'd "reconcile" or stop pretending each other doesn't exist after a sad ending. I leaned towards no since I knew I'd never take the step but I'm not totally shocked to see his face again. I guess he's just lending a friendly hand after he decided to delete me from his life years ago. I kind of feel bad watching him hang, but don't feel floored to respond to him. life is funny, there was a time when all I wanted was for him to come back around but I barely remember now. I feel like Taylor Swift not caring anymore I happen to have a whole new bf now anyhow |
| Posted: 20 Oct 2015 11:38 AM PDT I told my friend about how he's being friends with people he shouldn't be with and he is influenced by them, and etc. I told him that he should have his own opinion and how he shouldn't listen word for word about how he shouldn't trust certain people. I'm trying to help him but he always screws up. What should I say |
| Question: Am i right to be so p*ssed off with my friend? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 11:26 AM PDT She is, or was, my best friend, inseperable, we'd spend every single day together, which is not an exaggeration at all. We'd planned to go to visit my sister who moved out for uni two months ago, she hasn't seen any family or friends since, she was so looking forward to seeing us. We'd been planning this since she moved out, me and my friend would talk about how amazing it is going to be all the time. This past week, she was ignoring my messages, we didn't meet and see each other all week, she was completely ignoring me out of the blue. I needed to know what was happening in order to order the tickets. She told me the day that i was ordering the tickets that she didn't want to go anymore, she's 16 and i'm 15, i can't travel across the uk on my own at all, and i would never make her do that. I asked why, she said many bull reasons, she said it was going to cost alot, then when i offered to pay for her completely she said "no it's fine i have the money". Obviously i went off on one, she's not only let me down completely, but also my sister, who she was extremely close with as well. I couldnt tell you how much ive supported and done for that girl. I'd honestly say that i wouldnt hesitate to risk my life for her Now we've fallen out, she's such a huge part of my life, i dont know what to do, other than cry which i've been doing for the last few days I dont know what to do now, whether to risk going on my own,abandon the trip completely or try and talk her round. |
| Question: What is prohibited friendship content? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 11:22 AM PDT We got these laptops to use for school from our school, and a lot of stuff on here is blocked. For instance youtube is blocked, facebook, blogs and stuff like that. Sometimes they'll give you a reason for why the website is blocked, for example lets say if you type in "sex" (not that i google the word sex--I'm 17 not 7 lol just using it as an example) it'll show that its blocked and say "Keyword: sex" But anyway, I googled something and it was blocked and the reason they gave was: "Website contains prohibited friendship content" My friend and I found that funny. What us prohibited friendship content?? (Don't tell me that I should be using my laptop for school, I know that lol I'm not complaining I'm just curious) oh btw I googled if hermaphrodites identify as male or female lol |
| Question: Estoy engañando a mis padres Esta mal hacer eso? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 11:00 AM PDT Llevo 2 meses con esto. Estoy enamorada de èl. Mis padres jusgaron a mi novio sólo porque me gustaba. Ahora lo veo eno secreto aproximadamente cada 20 días. |
| Question: Some of my closest friends wouldn't tell me happy birthday? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 10:36 AM PDT I turned 18 today I walked into class and my best friend that told me happy birthday on Twitter and said nothing to me.Another girl in my class who I have been friends with and hang out with all the time asked why I was leaving early from school and I said my birthday and she didn't say anything back just looked at me.Im friends with others in this class and none of them told me happy birthday.I feel like they all take their **** out on me.I am the "silly funny" girl in the this friend group and they all tell me I'm funny but none of them ever take me seriously and it's so annoying..I would always be polite and nice and say happy birthday to them,I do t know why they would go out their way to be rude to me.They acted just fine yesterday.It really just hurts my feelings.They act like they want to be friends with me and tell me how fun I am and then do **** like this to me I would never go out my way to be mean to them like that. |
| Question: What do you think they are up to? Posted: 20 Oct 2015 10:31 AM PDT so me and a friend and her boyfriend got into a fist fight anyway the drama. has calmed down. and now they are trying to hang out with one of my close friends for what.. like im bothered by this because after everything why do they still have to invade my circle and act like my friend is really gonna be best buds with them like really? i know they've left me alone but why are they tryign to disrupt my peace and trying to hang out with my friend all of the sudden.. like if anything my friend is just gonna find out that they are just digusting people to communicate with anyway.. cause he is always like well they didnt do anything to me but look what they do to everyone they are close with... they **** them over.. and for what? i just hope i never have to hear or see them ever again... and they stay the **** away from me.because they are getting way too close to my circle by trying to hang out with my bestfriend like wtf? why cant they just go away... do they sincerely believe that my best friend is gonna be all cool with them.. go on trips with them.. like uhmmm no.. hes my best friend and im his.. so they dont even stand a chance of trying to ruin my friendship with james. |
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