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- Question: I'm worried about my friend need help please?
- Question: I was bullied at three jobs, why?
- Question: Is a Mixtape a Good Gift?
- Question: Is it qrong in friends with a 13 yr old girl in 17 i met her last year on one of my friends comment sections and all that?
- Question: Why do the nicest people have to leave this earth at such a young age?
- Question: Why does he always hide his face?
- Question: Fired from my new job?
- Question: Should I ask her out now or wait?
- Question: I want a friend !!! I have friends but were not so close. Please i just want a friend doesnt matte what gender (im f12 7th grade)?
- Question: Risk losing her?
- Question: Why do people hate rock music and the people who listen to it?
- Question: I think my friends are trying to make me fat (give me real advice this time)?
- Question: Why does she speak to me, then acts like I don't exist?
- Question: Has anyone lost a friend to suicide?
- Question: Will we be friends again?
- Question: Am I in a bad friendship and how to deal with conflicts?
- Question: I feel hopeless because of something bad that happened at school?
- Question: I have been without real life friends for 15yrs due to parents,I cant make any for no obivious reasons I dont look bad nor behave so, why?..?
- Question: New school? New city? New friends? Lonely?
- Question: My friend is more worried about me more than herself?
- Question: Wouldn't you be mad if your friends ditched you?
- Question: Middle School Girl gets tickled by gym teacher?
- Question: Transferring my old macbooks contents to my new one without transferring glitches?
- Question: Are irish people friendly?
- Question: Can you help me find a porn video?
- Question: I feel like weird person who shouldn't be treated right?
- Question: How to deal with losing friends?
- Question: My friend who is fat said that when he is skinny he plan on growing his hair long passed his chest area. Should he have long mid back hair?
- Question: I think I just lost one of my closest friends, what do I do?
- Question: My co-worker said you shouldn't let rude comment about you get to you if the people saying them are not doing anything for you. Thoughts?
- Question: How to get friends?!?
- Question: How to make friends in high school?
- Question: My friend told me that if I ever got jumped, he would not help me b/c he could be charged with assault/battery. Thoughts?
- Question: Middle school tips?
- Question: Ideas for a fake argument between two high school guys?
- Question: Is it my fault he is this way?
- Question: How do I get people to stop worrying about me?
- Question: How do I get this guy to leave me alone?
- Question: Guy friend is ignoring me?
- Question: Why does my best friends mom always say no to her when we want to go out?
- Question: Crazy *** ***** at school slapped me, wha the **** do I do?
- Question: Why do girls dress like sluts and then complain when they get groped and catcalled?
- Question: How to lie in this situation?
- Question: What do girls think about this?
- Question: What to do when girlfriend disagrees for me to see my female friend?
- Question: Why does my best friend lie to me?
- Question: Why am I all bitter because he doesn't want to be my friend?
- Question: Having a hard time being friends with neighbors!?
- Question: How do I get over my best friend?
- Question: I am the only one who cares what do i do ?
- Question: Does anyone else have this problem as a shy introvert?
- Question: I feel so alone and hopeless?
- Question: How I can find out if I have like commitment issues or something that I like never realized or something?
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- Question: What did her comment mean?
- Question: They say that if a girl likes you she'll always be eager to talk to you so if she doesnt text back and says no hanging out she dont like me?
- Question: So here is the situation: I live with my boyfriend and a roommate.?
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| Question: I'm worried about my friend need help please? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 05:12 PM PDT Ok so me and her are both 17 we both are in 11th grade. My best friends parents are extremely strict and don't let her go anywhere by herself even though she has a car and a liscense she isn't even allowed to go over anyone's house. Anyways her parents are older and friends with this married couple who are in their 60's and the husband is like creepy as hell and my friend is like in love with him they text all the time and he try's to touch her inapproately but she won't let him or her parents see. They know what kind of relationship she has with him and they don't like it yet they continue to hang out with him also he plays mind games with her manipulates her and I'm worried for one he is married she is 17 and he is like 65 years old. She told me last month she was over him but now this week she is like obsessed again and is talking about having a relationship with him beacuase he says when they are older they will get together. I'm worried I know she is lonely in her only friend and all she wants is to have a guy friend and she doesn't see how this is wrong or creepy at all what do I do I don't want anything to happen to her and I don't want to tell her parents beacuase they scare me. Also I can't tell like a school consular cuz we go to different schools |
| Question: I was bullied at three jobs, why? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 05:02 PM PDT I hopped three of my jobs. Each of these jobs had (all the way up to management) athletic, arrogant jocks, preppy People and old people that were jocks and football players in their prime. The girls there strangely said that they were all cheerleaders. I sought three jobs in this area, and I was ganged on and bullied and retaliated by management. The reason that I was bullied was because they said that I was different' and some came out saying that I was a nerd or a male beotch. I sought a fourth job in this particular area and the same thing, jocks preppy people and cheerleaders. In my home area I had a job one time and wasn't bullied. The thing about it was that it was ghetto and was afro america. What should I do?PeopleSoft |
| Question: Is a Mixtape a Good Gift? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 05:00 PM PDT My best friend's (a guy if that makes any difference) birthday is soon, and I was thinking that one of his gifts could be a mixtape of music I think he'd like, that I also like too. I know he really enjoys listening to music. Is a mixtape, in general, a good gift? He's also a big Deadpool fan too, so if anyone knows some good, and possibly inexpensive, Deadpool merchandise to get, that'd be greatly appreciated *^* |
| Posted: 27 Sep 2015 04:59 PM PDT She would call me handsome id talk to her about this girl i liked and everything im not considered a pedohile am i or thats unless i do something isnt it i dont remember if i called her beautiful i have a cousin who think is about the same age as her she isnt really considered family but i talked her one time so am i considered a pedo sense in friends with her???? |
| Question: Why do the nicest people have to leave this earth at such a young age? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 04:57 PM PDT My best friend 17 years old was killed in a car crash Friday night and I can not stop crying. Everyone keeps saying how much they miss him and it is so sad, then this girl gets on Facebook and says he is not going to heaven. It tore me apart even more when I seen that because he was the sweetest person in the world. He would help you no matter what he had to do. Why are people so mean? |
| Question: Why does he always hide his face? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 04:55 PM PDT I have discovered a rather unusual problem about an acquaintance. Something seems a little off but I just can't put my finger on it. Why does someone hide their face when they visit? I find this very odd and strange. I've never known anyone like this before, ever. I can't seem to find the answer elsewhere, and that's the only reason why I came here to ask this question hoping someone will let me in on what maybe going on. Thanks in advance because something just doesn't seem right. Better clarification: He rides a motorcycle and insists on the hiding in a full helmet when his bike is off for long periods. When asked him about it, he never seems to want to answer my question, like he almost clams up, which makes me suspect maybe he might be hiding something. He makes excuses for not getting a phone, and shows up unannounced, which is aggravating |
| Question: Fired from my new job? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 04:52 PM PDT So I have just been fired from my new job at quicklys.. I've only been there for 2 weeks. I have another job but what really bothered me is the reason I was fired? So we make drinks, teas, slushes, coffee things like that. Apparently I wasn't getting the drinks down fast enough. I knew most of the drinks, there were only a few ingredients I couldn't memorize here and there. I didn't think it was a big deal because I thought I was doing pretty good. I was fast and never just stood around like the others. Even the employees who've been working there for years made mistakes so wtf? I honestly don't think that was the reason I was fired. There was this girl (assistant manager) who had been training me and always gave me dirty looks, and was rude to me. I can just tell she didn't like me and I tried being as nice as possible. I wish I knew why she didn't like me but I have no clue. Her and the main manager (the one who hired me) are best of friends. So idk I think they just didn't like me and I didn't fit in with them. I feel like a failure... I really don't wanna be here anymore. Nothing I do is right, even when I try. It just sucks! Does anyone have any thoughts or advice on how to cope with being fired? Anyone who's been through the same thing? Thank you. |
| Question: Should I ask her out now or wait? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 04:47 PM PDT Ok so I ve been talking to this girl a lot in class (we have class once a week though :/ ) and she kinda seems interested Not sure maybe she s just being friendly but we talk a lot about anything and she constantly picks eye contact and I look away sometimes. I m shy She also remebers what we talked about from the previous weeks and asked me how it went or what I did about the issue we discused. Ok so now we re teamed up in a group for a presentation in groups of 5. Its due in 2 months so it s quite a long heavy project to do. The thing is I want to ask her out but if she refuses it will be so awkward and if she says yes maybe she ll just say yes for the sake of being good for the project. How can I ask her to do something with me alone? Should I ask her next week in class if maybe after class she wants to go for coffee? What should I do? I really like this girl. |
| Posted: 27 Sep 2015 04:44 PM PDT Ima girl 12 almost 13 in 7th i like art and im kinda funny sooooo yea PLLEASE THX |
| Posted: 27 Sep 2015 04:44 PM PDT I'm friends with this girl who I like. We talk a lot and have shared some deep and personal stuff with each other. Though we aren't best friends, I think that she is the closest anyone is to understanding me. She and I text more than I do with my family, and I enjoy every second of it. I wish we could be more than friends but I feel like she is so important to me to have somebody that listens that I don't want to take the chance of terminating our friendship. Its really important to me that I have a friend like her to open up to, so I'm not sure making a move would be the best idea. Thoughts? |
| Question: Why do people hate rock music and the people who listen to it? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 04:36 PM PDT I don't see what is wrong with it. My classmates and people at school look at me all weird when I listen to it and I often get bullied for it. I just want to know what's so weird or bad about it. |
| Question: I think my friends are trying to make me fat (give me real advice this time)? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 04:35 PM PDT Well I'm from America recently moved to asutralia not that that has anything to do with this question After about of week of unpacking and getting used to everything I decided to go to the pub and check and this is were I met this guy markus he was well obese not that I mind anyways we actually talked for a couple hours and then I came the next day and we talked etc... long story short we became friend got his number and everything anyways a few weeks later I met all his friends (most of them were also on the chubbier side) and became good friends with them to we would go out for drinks here and there but anyways flash forward 3 months I've gained about 20 pounds and Markus and crew takes me to a eating place and I order a Salad cause I wanna lose some of the pounds and then markus and the guys are telling me to order this really large burger I don't but markus orders it for me anyways I realized his been doing this for the past couple months then I confronted him and was like "what you ******* doing to me" and Marcus said "what you mean" I explained the scenario then he said "well you have to experience all this good food mate" and then I said "well I'm trying to lose weight cause I've been getting fat from all this food, can you just let me eat light stuff for awhile" then markus said "no you have to experience this food, being fat is a small price to pay" |
| Question: Why does she speak to me, then acts like I don't exist? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 04:31 PM PDT soo I really liked this girl i used to go to school with, she was a good friend of mine, But she only saw me as a friend. we got to be really close friends...we did everything together... but later we started drifting apart because she felt she was leading me on and didn't want to hurt me. soo eventually she started speaking to me less and less... she eventually deleted me from Facebook, And she told me it wasn't personal because she said she "deleted everyone that she went to school with except 3 people" My question is, why out of all people, why would she delete me? after she deleted me she would still inbox me here and there. She doesn't have a BF |
| Question: Has anyone lost a friend to suicide? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 04:30 PM PDT I went to my best friends funeral today. I can't understand why?Why wouldn't she talk to me if something was terribly wrong? Her mom keeps asking what happened and I don't have the answers for her. I didn't think anything was wrong she was always so happy and full of life.I don't know how to answer, I don't know what to say. |
| Question: Will we be friends again? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 04:17 PM PDT My ex (24M) and I (22M) are/were best friends. There was nothing sexual going on between us, but we hung out 4-5 times a week. A week ago, he brought up that if we are hanging out together so often, we don't have the opportunity to go out and meet other people that could potentially be in our future. He said that maybe we should get some space and not talk for awhile. It really sucked, since he was one of my best friends and to not have him as a friend sucked a lot. But he also made me realize that I should go out more and make new friends, since I don't have *that* many friends (I just happen to be pretty introverted) I sent him an email last Monday, explaining how I was feeling and how I don't want to lose my best friend. This was his response: "Look, i feel bad about this whole thing because you did nothing wrong... but this is just the way it needs to be. Lets chill out on the whole talking/being friend thing for a while and revisit it at a later date. Im not angry or annoyed about anything, i simply want to try this thing out and see where it goes" I know he isn't seeing anybody, but still. Is that his way of saying we're never going to be friends again? I just have a feeling that once his best friend goes to India for a month in December, that maybe around the time he'll contact me |
| Question: Am I in a bad friendship and how to deal with conflicts? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 04:05 PM PDT I am very angry at my friend Jay and I don't know if I'm in a bad friendship or howto cope with the drama. When me, Jay, and our friend Taylor went to the mall, she, unlike Taylor, joked about how she didn't know what I liked. This made me sad and on the verge of tear since Jay and I hang out the most and I know A LOT about what she likes. Also, Jay is obsessed with trying to see/come to my house. Like she even told me this "When can I come over your house to see what the inside looks like." like I never her to my house because I know she wants to rate it since she does that with the rest of our friends even though she doesn't live in a house ( which I think is not a bad thing and I think her home is beautiful and lovely although she doesn't think so). Like what should I do? Am I in a bad friendship? |
| Question: I feel hopeless because of something bad that happened at school? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 04:02 PM PDT I don't have time to say hi this is An emerguncy. Last Friday I was at school and I lost something very precious to me. I'm in 6th grade and I don't like the other kids so every day I bring my air buddies plush animals (I have 10) to school and play with them in the bathroom. My mom says that I'm more mature than the other kids so that's why they don't like me. Well last Friday a catastrofy happened! I had 2 of my ten of my air buddies in the toilet (if you laugh your just imatchure toilets are not funny) when the principle came in! For the purpose of confedentchiality we will call her principle ***** ****. She'd told me not to play my air buddies in the restrooms anymore because it "made the other girls uncomfortable " and I "became aggressive when they refused to play". She told me if I did it again, she'd call me grandma! And it gets worse...if my grandma got another call, she told me she would take away my air buddies and storks for a week! In panic, I began to slam my body and my air buddies around the stall. I jumped up on the toilet and barreled towards the door, hoping that I would intimidate her and cause her to retreate. In the mist of this caos, I acidenely flushed the toilet WITH my 2007 limited addition rose bud in it! Since she was so petite (she never ate as much as the others and wouldn't nurse nearly enough) she flushed down. My grandma told me that I cldnt call the sewer company & make them give her back. I can't give up. Please help me, I'm despreate. |
| Posted: 27 Sep 2015 03:56 PM PDT I have tried manythings but for some reason I can't seem to find anyone interested in friendships I live in the country side and due to that I have low self-esteem and compulsively train to get a better body (etc) to compensate for that yet no matter what I try or don't try I don't seem to be able to get for examle a girlfriend or friends. Its slowly turning depressing and I do 6hrs + of sport a day I was homeschooled so no social activities from there and can't afford club memberships does anyone have any Ideas on what I could do try to change that and meet people even in the middle of no where? My other question no matter how much I do why don't I ever feel satisfied or good enough? How can I do anything about that? any assistance would be greatly appriciated I don't know what to do... the loniless is eating me up and I can't possibly do more sports/activities by myself to compensate for that void anymore...it sucks..well thank you anyway have a great day or night. It was not meant to be a depressive post sorry and thanks again :) I wrote due to parents because I move around a lot and have since 10 years almost 2-4x a year, so its less the parents more the lifestyle... |
| Question: New school? New city? New friends? Lonely? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 03:36 PM PDT I've been in this school for awhile now. Sure I know people. But we're not at that stage where I can claim them as my friends. I'm fine with the classes and teachers, I guess? But I hate being lonely. And the people that I hang out with they're talkative and they hangout with everyone.So what ends up happening is that they don't stay still.Like during lunch I end up being lonely because they're over there talking to everyone.. I don't like that.. But what can I do? I'm anti-social. I'm tired of this and I miss my real friends back in my old school. I only moved here because of my parents job. But my dad doesn't even like the U.S anymore, he wants to go back to the Philippines. But he's having a hard time making his decision because he wants me to finish high school over here. In the Philippines is it harder to attend college? Apparently if I finish high school here college will be a easier, because the U.S. Is more advanced with their curriculum. And if I go to the Philippines for high school it's gonna be easier so I'm gonna have a harder time in college? They want me to go to the Philippines for college is because it's cheaper, and I'm gonna be a doctor. Is it a good idea to finish high school here? And if I do stay..how do I make friends? Im a month into school already and I'm still not settled. Is high school even fun? And sure nowadays people are like the less friends the better. But I need at least 2 people with me.Because I really don't like being being lonely. |
| Question: My friend is more worried about me more than herself? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 03:36 PM PDT I don't share every detail of my life because it's none of her business so she assumes a lot of things. How should I deal with her? |
| Question: Wouldn't you be mad if your friends ditched you? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 03:34 PM PDT One friend messaged me two days ago, saying he'll meet up with me yesterday because we were at this con. When I told him we could go to cosplay contest, he flat out ignored that that night and never replied to my texts yesterday because his phone was supposedly dead. Then my other friend and her friend decided to ditch me yesterday. I met them and went to get something to eat, and next thing I know, my friend wasn't answering any of my texts. (I don't her friend's number.) Then when I finally found them, they had to go do the photo shoot, so I went to do something else. I tried calling my friend because she wasn't at the meeting place. I decided to message her friend on Facebook, and she said they were chilling with other friends and will meet up with me soon. Lies. They never did. When my friend finally decided to text me back, I told her not to bother look for me because I got fed up with her and that I was going home. Her excuse few hourswas that she was busy (bullshit) and that she was at the cosplay contest. I said I already told her that I wanted to go with her. I also told her that I won't bother going today because it was obvious they didn't want me around, and she kept saying she'd love to hang out with me all day. I decided not to go... I mean, aren't my feelings justified? Why bother making plans when they're going to ditch me? Now I feel like I need new friends. |
| Question: Middle School Girl gets tickled by gym teacher? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 03:33 PM PDT It was my birthday and I had to do the mile run during gym class. But it was cancelled. My teacher didn't want us to do it since it's my birthday. He instead said today we should focus on me. He wanted to do something special for me. He told my classmates to get rope and they did and my teacher took me to a platform and my classmates tied me. I tried to fight back but I had 15 classmates. The teacher said it is time for a birthday tickle and he started tickling me and soon my classmates joined him and this went on for the rest of the period(30minutes). I turned 14 years old. |
| Question: Transferring my old macbooks contents to my new one without transferring glitches? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 03:33 PM PDT I recently got a new macbook but the messages on my current one and itunes have some glitches i dont want on the new one. how should i get all my stuff from the old to the new with minimal risks? |
| Question: Are irish people friendly? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 03:28 PM PDT im going to move there and a lot of my friends say they are friendly people. is that true? |
| Question: Can you help me find a porn video? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 03:23 PM PDT hey its a video about a blonde mom who gets tied and gangbanged by her sons friends. If you need more iformation, just ask for it |
| Question: I feel like weird person who shouldn't be treated right? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 03:19 PM PDT Since the 1st grade all the way to high I have been bullied for expressing myself and being different. I would love to share my ideas to people and draw but everyone would discourage/make fun of me when I did. I have been discouraged and made fun of by my classmates in elementary school. I've tried to ignore it and report the ones who bullied me but it would never stop. There was some people who helped but they were only acquaintances. Once I had to move to a different school within the school district for the 7th and 8th grade it was the opposite of what I thought it was. In the 7th my favorite video game was Minecraft along with many others, since I loved to express myself that turned into a problem. Everyone except the quiet people, nerds/geeks, and normal academic people at that made fun of me for it. I was always seen as as this one dimensional character with one sided interests and Minecraft was one of those one sided interest. People would bully me for this and anytime we had to write something the preps would always assume it was Minecraft even would tell them no. All of this bullying ended up with me having depression and suicidal thoughts. I was emotional harmed and still have depression to this day but not suicidal thoughts I coped with those myself. I felt like the black sheep of 7th grade and the preps would pick on me and I was the center of everyone's sick amusement. Anime is also another thing people bully me for along with being a tomboy. |
| Question: How to deal with losing friends? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 03:16 PM PDT I have two friends, both of them hang out with different group of people and they don't get along for something that happened in the past. I tried to fix the problem by asking both of them about the problem and it took forever until one of them told me why but like 30 minutes before that I promised to not tell the other friend. Well because I was so mad and angry, I went ahead and asked the other friend and I forgot about the promise. She denied it and said she didn't say that. When I went back to text the friend that told me the reason, she got mad and said I promised not to tell and at that moment, I felt even angrier because I truly wasn't going to tell but because she got me mad, I forgot. We got in a huge argument afterwards and she said she doesn't wanna talk to me and we're not friends and I'm nosy and that really really hurt me because all I wanted to do was help and I didn't expect this outcome from such a close friend of mine. Now, I feel depressed. I feel like whenever I try to help I mess up things. How do I get over it? |
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| Question: I think I just lost one of my closest friends, what do I do? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 03:07 PM PDT Okay, so this started out in a group chat. My best friend said something about getting a job, which very quickly escalated into T (my friend) mocking me because I said I never had enough time for a job (I'm 15). She was being really cruel, per usual, and insulting me. She said "LOL UR LIFE MUST BE SO HARDDD" and "you don't have time for a job? Nah you're just too lazy". And I know that right now this sounds petty and stupid. But I've known this girl since 6th grade, and this happens EVERYDAY. I share my opinion and she laughs at me. If I dare to complain about a SINGLE thing she makes fun of me and tells me about how horrible her life is compared to mine. I can't trust her with any information either, because she has the tendency to publicly ridicule me for it infront of all of my friends. Today I snapped. I can't take it anymore. I sent an angry paragraph and exited every chat with her in it. It felt good. But now I'm realizing that she's in lunch, study hall and orchestra with me. All of which, I am almost always near her. We also have the same group of friends, so I see her before and after school, and in between classes. What am I supposed to do tomorrow? I can't avoid her because I won't have anyone else to sit by in lunch or study hall. where will I go before school starts? All of us stand by each other in the commons! I'm so scared, I don't want to be alone. But I'd rather be alone than near such a toxic person. Advice? |
| Posted: 27 Sep 2015 03:05 PM PDT He said he has heard people call him ugly, fat ugly, shark face, hippo, and it never got to him, and never will because they are not paying his bills, or doing anything else for him. |
| Question: How to get friends?!? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 03:00 PM PDT I have like 6 friends at school, but I never hang out with them outside of school. They hang out with each other, but I don't join them because tbh they're pretty weird. They're into a lot of stuff I'm not Into at all, and we barely have anything in common. I'm always alone after school and I always stay inside and never have any fun at all. My life is sleep,school,food and TV. Whilst my sister is out with a bunch of people going to parties, getting arrested and having fun. How can I get friends And not have such a boring life?! I'm 14 if anyone was wondering too |
| Question: How to make friends in high school? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 02:55 PM PDT all of my close friends moved and now i am stuck alone and basically friendless. how to i make friends? is it acceptable for me to walk up to a random person and say hi? would there be a way to make a friend by doing that? |
| Posted: 27 Sep 2015 02:55 PM PDT He also said if someone is being jumped even if he did help me any injuries he causes to one of the other people, he could be criminally charged, and be on the hook for their medical bills. |
| Posted: 27 Sep 2015 02:55 PM PDT Hey I'm Annie and I'm in 6th grade. It's boring. I'm failing all my classes and I hate it. They never let me play my air buddies. I used to be home schooled and all I had to do was play my air buddies but now I have to do all this shart nard work. When I fart in class and play my toys "too loudly" the other girls ask me to "please stop" so I yell at hen and get in trouble what do I do |
| Question: Ideas for a fake argument between two high school guys? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 02:44 PM PDT My friend and I have been tasked with faking an argument during a group dinner so that our group leader can talk about relationships and infighting. I have complete writer's block. Preferably, it would not be about girls, but if it did it'd need to be fairly tame bc it is a church group. |
| Question: Is it my fault he is this way? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 02:37 PM PDT There is this guy who I used to pick on back in high school. Now we are in our 20s and he's turned out to be cold and bitter and says that I'm one of the people who turned him this way. I tried to do right and apologize for his terrible experience in high school. The only reason why I was bad was because I was also miserable and bullied so I used him to make myself feel better. Needless to say, after high school, that I learned to forgive those who have wronged me and gave up my mean ways because life is too short to live in hatred. Looks like there is nothing else I can do to help him. I can't force him to accept my offer to make things right. I really just wanted him to forgive so he can also move on and live happy but instead he says that he'll always be cold and bitter for the way I was with him so it's all my fault. What else can I do? Trying to move this in the friends section. Fixed Well he brought up other people as well. I mean just about everyone is a jack*** in high school! For crying out loud we were immature at the time! |
| Question: How do I get people to stop worrying about me? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 02:36 PM PDT I have issues with depression and self harm. People are always worrying about me and creating issues that aren't there. For instance one time a guy at my school came up to me and said that I have to explain to him why I was in the street when a car was coming (which is only partly true, I wasn't in the street I was on the curb).I do still have issues, I just don't want the WRONG people worrying about me. I would be fine with it if it were my parents, but these are people who shouldn't even know. |
| Question: How do I get this guy to leave me alone? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 02:26 PM PDT I'm a guy in high school and there's this annoying guy that won't leave me alone. I try to ignore him, but I always run into him and I unfortunately take the same bus as him. When I try to ignore him, they keep saying my name and will poke me if I don't respond. The guy can't take a hint, he thinks he's my friend but in reality he just bullies me. He says stuff about me on the bus and calls me stuff. He also knows where I live and he came by the other day with friends of mine and his and he was messing with a airsoft gun and shot my legs twice. I told him to stop coming to my house and his reply shocked me, "okay, I'll make sure not to stay away from your house". He's not a stalker or anything but that caught me off guard. I'm worried about threatening to report him because I'm very out there with my friends, I say racist things to get a reaction and I talk about how I watch porn, and I'm worried he'll hold that against me. I don't know what all I told him. Please, how can I get him away from me? |
| Question: Guy friend is ignoring me? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 02:17 PM PDT SORRY ITS SO LONG BUT....... My best guy friend and I started talking on first day of school and it became routine for us to sit next to eachother and just talk. We also talked about having him come over. Well shortly after, he looked at me quickly and was like "illcallyou." Like really quick like he was nervous. We exchanged numbers, and he invited me to go fishing the next day. I couldn't, due to a Bday party that day. Well we kept talking, and the following week end he came over with his little sister, who was my sister's best friend. When we were alone he said "my sister told me to ask you out and I said I would if you liked me." And at the time, it felt awkward talking about that kinda thing, so I just kinda chuckled and shrugged it off. The next morning, (they spent the night), our sisters were teasing us and he was like "I like her in a respectful way!" And I just kept playing the game I was playing. Again, it felt awkward. We talked a few days after that like nothing happened, but then he just started ignoring my texts. He ignored me on the bus, and started sitting with his other friend. He only responded to a few texts. But then he and his sister went to the park with us. He acted as if nothing happened. After that, he comepletely started ignoring me. He stopped talking to me totally, and responded to ZERO of my messages. I was advised by my mom to ignore him back. And I have been, but in not sure it's working. Any advice? |
| Question: Why does my best friends mom always say no to her when we want to go out? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 02:06 PM PDT So my best friend and I love to go roller skating so i asked if we could go.... her mom said no. Then we asked if she wanted to come swim with us. Again she said no. My friend tries to do everything my her mom ALWAYS says no |
| Question: Crazy *** ***** at school slapped me, wha the **** do I do? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 01:59 PM PDT I was the football game at my school and she was really mad. She kneed my friend in the nuts as hard as she could. I told her that I didn't want to see her hurt anyone and she slapped me as hard as she could. It stung for over 30 minutes and my friend couldn't get up for like forever. People say that if I do anything that she will slap me again and might not stop. What do I do about this ******* crazy *** *****? |
| Question: Why do girls dress like sluts and then complain when they get groped and catcalled? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 01:58 PM PDT in public |
| Question: How to lie in this situation? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 01:44 PM PDT Hi, I work at a company, today is the last day of the Eid Adha holiday, tomorrow is work, but I have to say that I am not a sociable person, normally I get out of home and have fun but lately i have no friends to hang out with, the employees always talk about what restaurants they go to, and how they had fun doing something they like etc... its gonna be embarrassing if I said that I stayed home and didn't have fun, because lately they started to know that i don't get out of home, but I don't know how to lie ? what should I say ? |
| Question: What do girls think about this? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 01:43 PM PDT I had a friend Natalie and we were close friends for about a year, she always knew I liked her but she still wanted to be friends with me. but one day out of no where she texted me and told me we couldn't hangout anymore, because she felt she wss leading me on. and now we dont talk much. why did she doo that if we were friend's for almost a year???.....and she doesn't have a boyfriend |
| Question: What to do when girlfriend disagrees for me to see my female friend? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 01:29 PM PDT So there was a situation last week where it was my birthday. My g/f came over from friday to sunday and left on sunday because she lives 3 hours away from me. On Sunday evening, my female friend called me and said if i can come to her and toast to my health because it was my birthday.. and I said no problem. I went there and we laughed, talked and toasted. My girlfriend called and I picked up and said I was with a friend and we are toasting for my health. She flipped out because she found, it was a female friend. I told her that she has no reason to flip out if she would trust me. She said that she wouldn t have a problem if I went out with my female friend and a group of friends together out, but she has a problem me coming to her house. Personally, I don t see that this is a problem. If she doesn t trust me, I am thinking that there can be no relationship. What to do in this case ?? Should I talk with her and find a solution ? Or give into her thought and never go to a female friends house ? |
| Question: Why does my best friend lie to me? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 01:13 PM PDT We used to be the best of friends and she was so sweet and understanding. Now she s a completely different person now and I think she needs serious help. My friend is a such a huge liar :( She said her dad died during war and that her mom is in jail and that her older brother was killed. (She only has a younger brother) She supposedly lives with her "step parents" but her parents and only brother are still alive. She says she s German and she has a different last name and makes this fake accent. I say it s fake because when we first met she never spoke like that. Not only that but she acts completely different. :(she changed the way she looks and now she s all into emo and wears "only" black. But then she s texting me about wearing the girliest stuff ever Im so confused. its like idk her anymore :( |
| Question: Why am I all bitter because he doesn't want to be my friend? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 01:11 PM PDT All I want is to be his friend, is that so hard to ask? He doesn't want to get to know me; he's fearful of me. I've never had someone not be my friend, but that's not the point. He's scared because I'm a gay guy and I like him and he doesn't want to be close. He just wants to be acquaintances and I can't stand for it. Why am I making such a big deal out of it? I don't know. I do know for certain we don't have to date, but at least we can be friends and finally acquainted! |
| Question: Having a hard time being friends with neighbors!? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 01:05 PM PDT I've been here in a single family middle class development for 5 yrs now. It seems like every time I turn around there is another neighbor I've managed to alienate. I'm not perfect and don't pretend to be. There are many neighbors I speak to and get along with, but I don't know how to get closer and be friends. I'm apprehensive because of the ones who don't like or respect me. Also, their disdain seems to spread to others like a virus.I believe in acceptance and respect among neighbors, but I'm not getting that and in some cases things have gone bad. What should I do differently in the future? |
| Question: How do I get over my best friend? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 01:01 PM PDT My best friend said he didn't want to be friends with me about a month ago and we haven't talked much since and have been avoiding each other... It is hard when I have to see him at school and everything and I don't know how to make it any easier. I would love to be friends with him again but I don't think he wants that. |
| Question: I am the only one who cares what do i do ? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 01:00 PM PDT i knew him before but i just knew his name but last year we got to be friends on facebook and even in real life cuz we live in the same city and our sisters used to be friends so little by little we got to know each other more and more till we became best friends in the begining he was so sweet very nice and everything but with time i felt he started to lose intrest in our friendship,in me but i didn't care i wanted our friendship to last cuz we have so much in common and we understand each other i used to write always a paragraph asking him how he's doing,if he wants something i'll get it for him,he responds with a word ,an emoticone or nothing he sees my message and doesn't respond even tho i didn't care i kept sending him messages every time,he told i am his best friend i was so happy that i smiled like an idiot and laughed like a maniac but nothing much changed he still ignores my messages he asked me to play 2 games i have no intrest in but i played them just for his sake for his birthday i wrote the longest statut on facebook,i sent a pic of a big cake and i complimented him and i send him a birthday card and lots of letters when he actually forgot about my birthday but i didn't care.few days ago i was in real pain and i told him but he didn't give a sh*t i 4got my pain,asked him how is he but i couldn't i was really in pain and all he said was ok he didn't try to comfort me i sent him a message where i expressed my disappointment he have seen it but didn't respond |
| Question: Does anyone else have this problem as a shy introvert? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 12:47 PM PDT I'm a shy, awkward introvert, but I also have a bad case of FOMO, and I don't have a ton of friends because I'm a shy, awkward introvert. So to solve this problem I try to make more friends, which is hard because, again, I'm an introvert, and then since I can't I get pretty depressed. It's like a vicious cycle you can't get out of. Does anyone else go through this? |
| Question: I feel so alone and hopeless? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 12:37 PM PDT I posted a question on here a couple weeks ago about how I have no friends, since I'm at a new school. I got a lot of advice but I feel like everything is worse now. I'm really shy and awkward and tried to make friends at my new school but I couldn't. I try to talk to people but it never leads to anything. Also, I always feel so tired after talking to someone and don't even feel like talking, but I know I have to if I want friends. I sit alone at lunch everyday... I used to be okay with it but now I dread going to lunch. I always see happy people in friendships and relationships at school and on the internet. It just makes me feel worse about myself, because I'll never have friends, let alone a boyfriend. I just wish someone cared about me. I know I should be worrying about school and not this. I have all A's right now but I struggle to do the work. Sometimes I wish I would die in my sleep or something, or like get killed by a car. I just can't connect with anyone EVER. I don't necessarily want to die, but I'd rather die than be like this my whole life. I'm also pretty sure I was having an existential crisis last week. I just am so tired of everything. I guess I'm asking for advice or something? I don't really know. I just can't make myself be normal or fix this. I know that deep down even though I'll get advice, I'll still be the same. I feel like this is the beginning of the worst part of my life. It's only been like 1 or 2 months and I'm already done... |
| Posted: 27 Sep 2015 12:33 PM PDT Every friend I ve ever had doesn t matter if it was a boy or girl just every friend I ve had I ve only kept them for like a year no longer than that and the more I think about it I can t really remember why I moved on from my old friends like nothing bad has happened between me and them that I can remember...anyways there is this one person I ve been friends with for like 6 or 7 years now and I don t even know what makes him different for any other person I ve been friends with...... |
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| Question: What did her comment mean? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 12:08 PM PDT I had a bad experience working with this classmate. We are now classmates again and recently she asked "how did you do on the presentation for the other class because I dropped it". |
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| Question: So here is the situation: I live with my boyfriend and a roommate.? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 11:51 AM PDT So here is the situation: I live with my boyfriend and a roommate. My boyfriend has his own TV in our room and my personal TV is in the living room. My roommate has her own sad little TV in her room. I understand that my TV is in the living room and she pays rent so she should be able to chill in the living room whenever she pleases. However, I want cable and she does not. I told her that is fine and that I would pay for it. To which she responded with, "Well how do you think that makes me feel? What if I want to watch Netflix or something and you are out here watching cable? I would feel guilty watching TV with you." The living room is the only room in the house that has the cable hookups. Am I being unreasonable? I mean it is my TV and if I really wanted to, I could have my boyfriends TV and my TV in our room and just leave the living room barren. What should I do? |
| Question: Please help me I don t know what to do.? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 11:51 AM PDT I have a really generous friend, he's really kind. In the beginning of sophomore year he used to invite me to this donut cart and this old man used to give us donuts for free. I got really suspicious about why we were getting free donuts so one day he invited me and I told him that I was to busy but in reality I was going to see why we got free donuts. My friend walked to the donut guys cart and I got closer and the old donut guy was making some weird sounds and said something like the donut guy said something like "what do you want" and that's when I realized, my friend was sucking his dick. I was really scared so I ran out of there. I confronted my friend about it and he just got angry at me. This seems to be affecting his grades. We had summer school together and majority of the time he would be absent to suck the donut guys dick, he tried covering it up by saying he had "law school" He ended up having to retake the classes. Please someone I want to help my friend |
| Posted: 27 Sep 2015 11:50 AM PDT So im american living another country that my parents were born , so when i entered to school , at first i was alot friend even there was an american who was my bff , next year there were 2 americans and my bff and them were bff , but my bff was sad because there were 3 girls who were being mean to her and i was there friend , so i couldnt do anything like an idiot , so next year my bff who had problems left and my another bff left too because she had the same problem , so i was only with 1 american so it was fine until she left because she had to go usa , so now this year everything went horrible : there a girl who was my friend but i dont know if she is jealous about me because she says she good at drawing but she isnt . im good at drawing than her so i didnt even matter at all. she goes to the same bus as me and the bus driver is my dad . before she was loner now she just laugh to get attention to all the class and that make her have more friend and before she was like that. i was really silly girl but now that im older than all my class so i feel lonley , i feel like an alien , i just wanna go to usa . i mean i have alot fake friend , and how i know? because in this year i won the drawing contest and the girl who think she good at drawing lost . so most of my class said infront of me said she should have won . just 3 girls congratulate me ( not the 3 means girl).even my 2 bff said that and they didnt congratulate me.what should i do? |
| Question: Is my mom being respectful or Reasonable? Posted: 27 Sep 2015 11:41 AM PDT today my mom told my best friend to leave because of what happened last week. last week on I think Friday my best friends mom came to my house I was in trouble but I don't remember what for but anyways my best friends mom came to my house in her car she was here to take me and my bestie to the skate park I told my mom I was going to the skate park she said no I couldn't but I still went I got in my friends car and we left to the skate park about 20min. after we got there my mom came up and told me to come home I told her no so she said she was gonna call the cops on me and tell me that I ran away and also that she was gonna tell them that my friends mom kidnapped me. I don't get how you can run away and be kidnapped at the same time but whatever so my mom called the cops but I don't think she actually told them my friends mom kidnapped me because they didn't do anything to her but she's saying that my friends cant come over anymore my mom said she doesn't like my friend and that she has no respect for my friends mom she also is a Christian and I am 15 years old and I am a female my mom says that I should hv friends that encourage me my friend encourages me my mom practically hates her my friends only lied to her once and as of last week that was probably the second thing that was bad that she has actually done seriously |
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