I m a Freshman and I m not the most popular. Well anyways, this past week we had to vote for people to be the nominees for hocoming lord/lady, duke/duchess, prince/princess, and king/queen. I got nominated for Homecoming Lady and the day that the school announced the nominees over the loudspeaker, was the day I found out that people only voted for me as a joke. (In the morning, I suspected that I was going to be one of the nominees because one of my friends told me that everyone was voting for me and something made me think that I was only voted for as a joke, and I was right. I mean, also when they announced my name over the loudspeaker, the whole class started laughing.) Everyone was talking about this so called "joke". It was the freshman guys who did this btw...a few girls came up to me (including one of the other nominees for Homecoming Lady) and told me that they re really sorry this happened and that I don t deserve to be nominated as a joke and that they completely support me. I wanted to drop out and have someone else replace me but the principal, the HS counselor, and the HS secretary convicted me to stay in. The final voting is this coming Wednesday and one of my friends told me that this guy said "Hey, let s all vote for *insert my name here* as a joke!" I don t know what to do. This whole thing really took a toll on my self-esteem. How should I handle this? Should I just drop out of the contest once and for all?

He is kind of an online sugar daddy. He has payed for tutors to boost my school grades this year and sent me some nice generous gifts. We've been talking of him coming to my country and he's been talking about if he's coming over he at least has to receive a bj. Pretty much he has said this nearly every day and then right after he says he's just joking. I told him that upset me and I'm so confused what he wants and he apologised many times and sent me a gift card. I am very willing to do stuff with him when we meet but I don't want to say there 'will be's because you know just in case I don't have a good time with him. Any tips or advice of what to do, act when he comes over?

I have this dream that I've been following since last year, I had actually everything going on as planned, my friends, school, situations, everything! but suddenly everything went down, everything I put a lot effort into to make it happen, I lost my friends, the only friend I had is pregnant and she left school, my best friend (not in the same school) stopped talking to me, and now I'm a hopeless case, my dad is taking me to live with him, I feel lonely, I don't know what to do, I want to cry but Ii can't! That is making me go crazy, help.

Ok so right now I'm an 8th grader and I was so excited to be one because I thought It would be so cool- but now I'm regretting ever even thinking that. In 7th grade I had all my friends, my teachers were nice and liked me, I had a great schedule, it was all easy, and I had fun. Now, I only have 2 friends In my classes, the teachers are mean and give out a ton of tests and homework, I have a horrible schedule, I don't understand anything, and there's a ton of drama. It's making me so upset, I've cried myself to sleep and become really sad and its like all I can think about. Every time I try to talk to the others about it, they say they don't miss it at all or they don't miss it as much as I do. I'm so upset. How do I help or get over it? Thanks ;,(

My son is 15 in the 10th grade. He has always had a 97 GPA since he made friends with certain kids it's now an 85, I'm worried he's not trying in school anymore. He goes out a lot. The other day the school called me that he got detention because he was disrespectful to a teacher ( I was in shock because in school he is very polite and respectful ) he just got suspended for getting in a fight then him and his friends bullied another child it's just getting out of hand. These boys his new friends I feel are influencing him Badly. They were outside playing basketball yesterday all they did was curse and talk about messing a kid up and how one kid (that's his friend gave another kid a black eye in the summer. )I'm just worried about him , I told him not to hang around them so much but he told me to stop controlling his life. I just don't know what to do

I ll try to keep it short.Was in an unhappy relationship, met a friend at work.We hit it off, he stopped at my office a lot.He d be around Friday nights 2 hours later than he needed to,at times we d only talk for 10 minutes(I work slow) but he d keep lingering!I write erotic literature for leisure,he d beg me to share some of it xD.We chatted more,it intensified.Caught him staring at me, a smitten look on his face.I decided to talk to him,ask if he was attracted to me, and if so,talk to my SO,maybe move to the next step,do what seemed to be right. Leave an unhappy relationship and see a guy with whom things may work out better rather than cheat. When I attempted to arrange this talk, he kept avoiding me. He said he had no idea what I was talking about, we were "just colleagues who just need to get on with our work."Embarrassed and hurt,I forced a friendly smile and said he was right.I ignored him from then on.Ignored his text messages offering to help me at work. Ignored his attempts to make small talk. Continued with life. I m married and have a baby. When he heard I was pregnant he had a prolonged look of surprise. Found out about this time he dug through my computer files (our computers track our activity). About this time, he found a girl on eharmony, in a year decided to take her to travel to France. Not sure if he s proposing? Everyone said he s in a super happy relationship after finding a girl on the first try. But shortly before they flew, he texted me. What gives?

First of all, I'm sharing an account with my roommate, so ignore the other questions. I'm a 5'3, 110 lb, 23-year-old blonde female. I don't want to sound conceited, but I'm what most men would consider "hot". Anyways, whenever I'm on the bus, a guy will offer to give up his seat to me. I'll smile and say, "No thank you. It's really nice of you though." But inside, I feel really annoyed. I'll look around and see people standing who really need to sit(elderly, disable, etc.), and these young guys don't offer to give them their seats. It's so obvious that they're doing it because they think I'm hot, and they want me to like them. There's no other explanation. I can stand and they know it.

I live in an average sized town ( 150 elementary and 30 highschool) And I'm good friends with all the highschoolers and I know that they don't like my friend. We have bonfires at peoples houses every weekend. We hang out a lot and she comes for sleepovers every other weekend and i go to her house quite a bit plus we hang out every single Tuesday and Friday. My sister doesn't like her (my sister hosted the fire) and her friends don't really like her either.. She planned to have more but she doesn't want my friend coming..How can I nicely tell her no? I am her friend.. but I know the opinions about her from some of my sisters friends. I wouldn't want them to be mean to her if she came.

I always call myself the "ugly fat friend" and everyone in my friend group agrees.

We ve been best friends ever since 5th grade and right now I m in 8th grade. So she moved schools in the middle of 6th grade but we re still super duper close more than any of our friends and we made a promise to be best friends for ever literally. But the past few months I ve just been getting annoyed of her for the littlest things and its normal because of course like who doesn t get annoyed when you re that close to a person but it s different like when I m hanging out with her like just a little bit of me wants to hang out with some of my other really close friends who I ve met over the years at my school since she left who I ve developed also important relationships. And I feel like I m the one that s changing like all the stuff we use to die of laughter isn t really funny to me but it s still funny to her and I get annoyed of the littlest things she does like when she doesn t say please when she s asking me something like shes still the same but I just feel like I m changing and idk what exactly this means but someone please help to me figure out what exactly I want or I m feeling ??!!!! And is this normal ?!!!!!

im a freshman in high school. i don't have much friends but im tired of being alone and not having somebody to be close with and have fun with. there are people that i would talk to but im not that close with them. if we have to get in groups i don't have anybody who wants me to be in their group and i have to ask them. and a lot of the time the people that i talk to i just don't connect with them. im kind of anti social and quiet too. i just don't really know how to talk and be funny or interesting. also i just think that a lot of the girls at my school are just really annoying. but then the boys are really immature too so i just don't have anyone to connect with and talk to. i don't have a best friend but i just want some really close friends that i can do everything with. i just want to have fun too :(

Okay so my friend Alex was acting weird and very mean. Like she was talking bad about me behind my back to my other friends and then said it was cause I was being mean to her along with my other friends Maddie and Gabby at our last sleepover. Anyways we are all getting along again and she FINALLY "forgave" everyone in the friend group. I put forgave in quotation marks because we really did nothing wrong and I am not being biased. Okay so moving on. Well today is my birthday and Alex, Maddie, Gabby, and my other friend Jalyn are all coming with me to ice palace along with about 5 others. So Alex said that she wasn't mad at me and that she was going through "stuff" well I know for a fact she was mad at me. I am still very mad at her for that but should I just forgive her and move on and who's side would you be on mine or Alex's? Oh yeah she also brags A LOT. She hurt her ankle on Wednesday was absent on Thursday and was here on Friday at school. I called her and she said that she was so good on the ice and she's been doing it since she was four. Well it doesn't matter how good you are on the ice if you have a broken ankle right? She also said Happy Birthday to me and asked if she was in the top five people who said Happy Birthday to me today kinda like it was a competition. Also I don't know if this matters but we are in the seventh grade.

she got distant because she didn't want to lead me on and we used to be bestfriends for a whole year. But I noticed she deleted me from facebook but she would still inbox me once a month asking how im doing. and it felt like deep down she still wanted to be friends.... but now we beraly talk... I know she doesn't have a boyfriend. Then wjy did she delete me?

I'm a 19yr old female. Ok so I'm finding it really difficult to make friends. This is my situation. I had a bff for 4 years along with some other friends in hs and when I graduated hs early, I left them all and slowly distanced myself because I didn't think that being around them would help my intellect grow. When I came to college I made mostly guy friends every semester, all of whom liked me at one point or another. Now I have 2 close friends, one who I consider a best friend (known for ~6 months) and the other who I think likes me. It seems like everyone at this age already has they're set friends for life who they met in hs or some religious institution. I really just wish I had some (girl)friends who I can hang out with/talk with..I attend a community college where most ppl are of a different religion/race than I am. I'm not a part of any outside organization like work or church or something. Is it even possible to find a best friend at this age? I'm in the prime of my life where I should be going out to clubs with best friends but no..if only I had some..

I have this friend who is ALWAYS asking where I bought this or that, and then SHE WILL GO AND BUY THE SAME THING! It's really annoying, and if I don't tell her she keeps pestering me about it. She's also always screenshotting my snapchats and then like keeping them (it's kind of weird). How do I get her to stop copying and getting the same style/stuff as me?!!

My friend makes it a point to criticize people and find every flaw. For example, today she sent me a pic of a girl who got an internship, but then she's like "yeah well if her hair was shorter, she'd look wayy better". like WTF, how shallow can you get?!? i guess it's because she's really insecure about herself; always pointing out her flaws and such, but this is also becoming a habit when me meet in person. If i make a comment about an aspect I like about someone, she always shoots it down, like she's way superior (which she isn't). How do i deal with her?? It's not like she's criticizing me, like she's really nice to me, and congratulates me ...but i'm getting really sick of how she devalues other people (even if she doesn't know them).

I Met a girl Diana last year in March and we became really close friends but I really had a big crush on her. but she wanted to stay as friends. our friendship felt more like a relationship because we would kiss a few times, We would hold hands at the movies, But she still only wanted to be friends. she would always ask me to hangout and call me cute. but randomly in October she told me she couldn't see me anymore because she felt she was leading me on. and also said we couldn't talk much anymore. soo our Friendship changed, She deleted me from Facebook but she would still message me once in a and say hi. but now she doesn't message me anymore...I feel like our friendship Died now. she even told me I never made her feel Awkward. Than why doesn't she talk to me anymore??

I have a friend of mine that lives in another state who recently made a post about her "******* something up" I asked if she was okay and she told me she was just feeling upset. I have no idea if this is something on going or just a bad day considering I ve only known her for a few months. Any ideas on how to help her feel better?

So I really don't like how rude my friend can be constantly. She's somewhat flaky and passive-aggressive but I see her pretty much on a daily basis. I thought of saying "You need to cut it out, or I'll tell everyone about your little secret." but that would be blackmail. I want to be able to set boundaries and make consequences for her rudeness without blackmailing her - in a healthy, understandable way.

I usually go by if you respect me I respect you. I don't understand, why people in my family or even friends disrespect me. I have never disrespected them. Everyone treats me like crap. I always take my time when I'm talking because I don't want to say anything that will offend anyone, and yet I'm still disrespected. I'm always called stupid, made fun of, and just laughed at in general. I feel as if I'm doing something wrong, do I have bad social skills or something. I can't even trust anyone. This makes me feel like a bad person.

Now I'm not saying I value all of myself in my looks but this have been eating at me the past few years. See I hangout with this person whos really ugly bad teeth, bad hair, bad skin, bad features he/she is not pretty in the slightest I like them and hang out with them cause I cannot be friendless in highschool and they aren't judgemental for the most part. The thing is people keep telling us we look like twins and we look soooo similar anyone we meet together tells us "you look like twins" and I honestly find it so insulting when they say it. Because it makes me even more insecure about my face. What do I say when people say it honestly I'm thinking about dying my hair so we wouldn't be compared or just stop hanging out with her in public. Usually I just agree half heartly and act happy and try my best to be nice and say yeah I really have to act happy.

Long story short my best friend and I had a falling out about 5 months ago and now we are no longer friends. We don't speak and I receive nasty looks and I just sense a bad energy when she's around. Whenever she's around I just wanna hide and cry because she just makes me angry and upset. She's not a good person and she wasn't a very good friend so I don't wanna reconnect as friends. however I've been debating whether or not u should text her and ask if she wants to talk things out, I would let her mostly vent and listen. The point of this is I feel like she's holding everything in and I just think if she let it out to me that the bad energy would lessen. However I'm also afraid bringing the whole bad situation up again would make everything worse and not help anything. She really hurt me from the reason while she split and ik she's mad/upset with me, but idk if this is the right thing to do or not. Do you think I should get in contact with her, or should I just let us go on our separate ways? Help please!?!

How to fight with this situation? I want them to stop looking at me like I'm rich, I'm not. When I say to them that I'm not an rich person, they make jokes on me... I'm not from USA...

So, I'm 18, and I have no friends, nor girlfriend. I'm struggling to make some friends in school, but It's too hard to turn school mates into your friends, even more when your school is in a different city (I have 1 friend, but he's in a different city and going out with him is a really rare thing, and when we actually go out, I can only meet people that are in a different city too, he does not know that I have no friends, I haven't told him cause I was afraid that I'm gonna lose him too).. I want to have a lot of friends, go out and have fun with them every night, get drunk just like everybody at my age does.. But I'm spending the best years of my life playing games on my PC, cause there's nothing else I can do... I'm afraid I won't even get married and have family just like every normal person does.. Friends are actually way more worthing than money.... Is there a chance I can get a normal life just like everybody else has?

Please read this. I really need an advice. My friend and I met at first day of highschool. We were best friends the entire first year, but at the beginning of a new one, things started to get ugly. We were quarreling every day, usually over stupid things. She was a bit selfish and horibble to me at times. She insulted me very much. She sad awful things and I can never get over that. I think that she spoke up her mind, said everything she was thinking about me. She lost my trust. We weren't talking for a year, but recently started chatting occasionally. We kinda sorted things out and we are friends again. But she thinks that I'm her best friend again, and I just don't feel that way. To everyone, or fight was stupid and meaningless. But I felt so betrayed, I was kinda depressed for 2-3 weeks. I think that I can never trust her again. For me things have changed forever. What should I do now? How should I behave? I don't want to repeat entire thing.

My distant friend child came down with leukemia and she lost all her hair and had a ng tube in her nose now her hair has grown and ng tube has been removed and doesn't look as pale. I'm to afraid to ask my friend coz she think I'm nosey

I closed the door on a friend that was too controlling. I want to get opinions about why she decided not to respond to my email I sent to her recently. Here's what I wrote. Hi, I know it's been six months since we last spoke. I'm very happy with my life right now. When you contacted me on Facebook after not speaking for three years, I thought it was a mistake when I accepted your friend request. I've moved forward and I don't think it's a good idea to rekindle our friendship. I wish you all the best. Take care

So whenever kids are being annoying or rude, and I say something back, I get the blame. Like, one day I was at a friends playing COD, and his other friend was over, Garrett. So Garrett, was being a total idiot and taking over all the games and whining. He got what he wanted and whenever we were playing COD, I killed him and he punched me in the arm (I'm a girl), I punched him back and said, "Would wittle Garret like some wamburgers and cry fries?" in a mocking voice. He deserved it, what boy punches a girl? And then he started crying. He got up from the couch and was starting to walk upstairs to tell my friends mom. I said to get over it and he yelled, "NO THE DAMAGE HAS BEEN DONE!" So my friends mom said that she was disappointed in me. My mom found out and I got in trouble, but he didn't, even though he took over everything and punched me. I know I did wrong, but my mom never sticks up for me. So I got spanked and grounded for like 3 weeks and had to bake and write an apology letter for my friend's mom. Another time there was a party with all my mom's friends and stuff and me and my best friend were in my room talking and eating cotton candy, (I have a cotton candy machine) So, a neighbor, George, (my mom invited him because the mom and my mom are friends) Bursts into my room and tells my mom we aren't sharing. She yells at me and takes away my cotton candy machine and gives it to George. So he laughed at us, and took it for himself. Just so you know I bought w/ my money. I have to deal with George today again. My mom's birthday party is today but my grandma knows what George is really like, but she wont always be around at the party..

I dunno... haha its kinda funny for me. So like, i've had this friend for some years, we've been like brothers, y'know... So, after some years, he went with the cool kids and i was bullied. I was kinda angry at him, because he went with the people bullying me instead of supporting me. So yeah, we go back together as friends, but we still aren't that close because our social differences... So we talk, and i say im sad because he's hanging with the people who bully me, and yeah he says "awwww TOO BAD!" "not my problem". Acting like a ******* asshole... but i just brushed it off... But yeah im having major problems now. Wanna kill people, and myself, trying to get noticed... i'm very depressed. We talk, (we hadn't been talking for a while) and yeah i tell him about the stuff... again "not my problem" "deal with it" "nobody cares". And i have a couple of other friends, but they talk **** about me all the time, laugh at me but i've just looked at it as jokes. Im from the north of my country... Talkin' **** is how we have fun. But it's kinda weird talking **** about a friend who hints about suicide? And for some years me and my friend have had this halloween thingy, no party, we just go around watching stuff... So i invited everyone to join this year 2 weeks ago, nobody answered... Then yesterday everyone was invited to this "party" with dem cool kids... Not me. I asked my friend if he was going he said no, he wanted to hang with his other friends... Well yeah, so we wanted to hang with friends. But then one guy hosts this ****, where we're gonna watch a movie at his house... Everyone says HELL YEAH! of course, not me... i wasn't invited. My friends forget me an awful lot, dont they? Now im confused. Im still kinda laughing at it, calling myself supersticious, but i dunno anymore... I dont erally wanna be in a friendship with someone who doesnt care... So is our friendship doomed? Well yeah, so we wanted to hang with friends. But then one guy hosts this ****, where we're gonna watch a movie at his house... Everyone says HELL YEAH! of course, not me... i wasn't invited. My friends forget me an awful lot, dont they? Now im confused. Im still kinda laughing at it, calling myself supersticious, but i dunno anymore... I dont erally wanna be in a friendship with someone who doesnt care... So is our friendship doomed?

So,i became really good friends with a coworker,He is really nice to everyone,and he is really funny,and handsome and everything.We started to hang out a week ago,we went to a sports game,we watched series and movies together,we went for coffe,and ate lunch together,once we watched netflix in my place,and he fell asleep with his arms around me. Anywaay,i just feel so good when i'm with him,it just feels right.But he only sees me as a friend.The closes we got was when we cuddled up,when he fell asleep on my couch. Anytime i turn flirty,he just laughs it off,and tells me what a good friend i am. Maybe because we are coworkers i don't know. I know that he is single,and straight,so that can't be a problem,only if he could look at me as more as just a friend.... How could i ease him into it? I don't want to be too direct. If he says no,we can't even be friends anymore,it just seems like risque jump to make. How could i display affection without directly telling him that i'm so in love with him,that i can't think about anything but him?

So I never see my best friend. We go to different schools and her parents always set her up on play dates. I'm really annoyed because she is my only friend so when I get to see her I get excited. Every time I see her she's late. Today I was supposed to see her from 3:30-4:30. Right now it's 3:45 and she isn't here. I called her and it turns out that she hasn't left and she'll be here around 4:20. She always makes excuses. The thing is that she's late everytime. Seeing her is the only good thing and it's not fair that she is always late. When I confront her she just apologized and starts crying. I can never be mad at her because then she will just throw herself a pity party. The thing is that this really pisses me off. What should I do?

So I recently lost my two best friends due to their dad accusing me of stealing (which I didn't) and the entire thing is just.. undoable, they think I did it and they hate me, and there dad thinks he saw me steal blah blah i didn't. ANYWAYS. I'm in grade 9 and it's the fourth week of high school on Monday and I don't know how to make new friends.. I currently only really have one friend I kinda hang out with and he's probably going to side with one of the friends I lost. Most of the people at my school have their social groups and I'm just... me. How do I make some new friends and enjoy high school? I'm not a sporty guy, I work out but I'm not into sports, I'm more of a gamer and stoner type of guy

I have a crush on my guyfriend but he said that he can't love me. well it's fine we are friends and we do have dirty talks from time to time...but the other day i was telling him how the 5yrs old boy (that i baby sits) wanted to show me how a guy pees...out of the blue he said 'will u come and see me when i pee?'..i said no..would u have the gut to do it infront of me?? then he made as if he mistaken the conversation before replying..yes i would be glad that you help me someday. i replied that i wasn't his sex friend..to which he said..you know i'm joking...well that was a weird joke..what is going on in his head??

so my boyfriend and i do not go to the same school, and he has a problem with my best friend who i do go to school with. i ve been with my boyfriend for over a year now, and our relationship has been slowly coming apart after my best friend said he had feelings for me a month ago. on my birthday (last month) my best friend kissed me. i forgave him and trusted him not to do it again, and it was very stupid of me to think my boyfriend would be okay with it. he told me to stop talking to my friend, and i tried. i didn t text him at all over that weekend. when i went back to school, i saw my friend sitting by himself with his face in his hands, and i couldn t help but to hug him and make him feel better. last night, my boyfriend caught me and my friend hanging out. he cried on my shoulder and he almost got in a fight with my friend. after my friend left, my boyfriend and i talked about what happened. he calmed down and then we left. that night, my boyfriend s friend texted me and he told me that if i don t stop talking to my friend now, then i ll end up losing my boyfriend for good. this time, i talked about it with my friend and explained why we shouldn t talk anymore, and he understood and agreed. the last thing, i m scared that if i see my friend at school on monday, i ll feel bad and go back to him again. how can i keep that from happening? how do i keep myself away from him?

I m kind of in a dilemma here, I do not want to date but I want to meet new friends and I like my friend s church but my friend is my only source of transportation to the church. I like the people there and I get to meet people my age but I stay up late Saturday morning and I get tired Sunday morning. And I sometimes feel uncomfortable but the people seem cool But sometimes when I ask my friend to pick me up she wakes up late and she can t

Recently I talked to her and told her how I feel like we were drifting apart and that I dont even know anymore if we were ever actually there for each other. We met in 6th grade and I love her so much. She is the most amazing person ever, and she was the first person that I was very indeed close with. I also met other close friends of mine because of her, but suddenly we have all collapsed, some things happened between some of them and they still talk to me, but some of them dont talk to each other. And when we started 7th and 8th, I felt very guilty because I was going through personal issues with my family that affected my emotions. I felt like I wasnt there for her, and I know his because I saw how happy she was when she hanged out with other people. I felt like she felt forced to be with me and she always looked sad when she was with me. Now that we are not seeing each other every day like we used to, the only thing we have left is to talk texting or on the phone, and it feels very empty. We both agreed that maybe we thought we were close or that maybe we are drifting apart. And sadly I agree. I just dont know what to do because Im suddenly losing every one who were so close to me. There are so many memories and things, and I dont know how to stop remembering things.I have faith but I feel like I tried many things and none of them have worked. And just incase we do end up not being best friends anymore. How do u not feel heartbroken?

I need some good clever hiding places that are easy for me to get to and where no one will find it, it's in a mason jar so it has to be able to fit that. Thanks

Today is the day of this high school party that happens every year, where they rent out a club and everyone in the area is going. This is also my first real high school party so I am kind of nervous, I m a sophomore in high school and none of my close friends will be there. Also the girl I like will be there so I need tips with that too.

Anyone? Who I can vent? I have literally nobody, and I just need someone out there who would show some interest in being my friend. I am 17, female in a relationship with a guy who disregards me as a human being and I just want out!!!!! But I need support. Please help me?

Hey folks just wondering if there are any apps or ithings out there that can let me vocally connect with anyone one in the world, as I can recall old times such things were called IRC(not sure if the name is correct) but is there something similar designed for today's iPhone? Bunch of thanks!

So I'm studying abroad and I've met some cool people here. I have two main friends I hang out with almost daily, but I have a bit of a problem. I feel like a third wheel with two platonic people. I think part of that has to do with one of the girls ("Emma"). For some reason she treats everyone better than me. She's not *mean* to me, really. She did make fun of me and the other girl started chiming in until I told them to stop. Emma said I started it, but the other girl seemed genuinely sorry. We went out with another friend and when I said I wanted to go home because I wasn't feeling well it was shrugged off, but when our other main friend said the same the rest of the night's plans were cancelled and she worried about her all night. I do still get invited to everything, though, and we can talk at length about most things. I still feel like last choice. She's very social and takes command of a room a lot and I want to make friends with other people so that my social life doesn't revolve around the two of them, but it's a bit tricky. Am I paranoid or is this just normal? Are some friends just bottom tier? Sorry about the title typo!

My best friend use to invite me to her school dances all the time! They had a school dance few months ago that I wasn't invited to. I found out about it over social media. And I was hurt that she didn't invite me. Especially because I invited her to my dance. Like I always do because I want her there! And today I was on the phone with her asking if she could hangout. But she said she can't because she is busy and she is going some where tonight. I asked her what she has going on tonight and she said her school is having a dance! ......what? You are going to a dance tonight? Is it wrong that I get so offended by this? I know I shouldn't be but it still hurts. Especially because she use to invite me to ALL of her school things and now she doesn't. And I invite her to mine! Also, I am good friends with some of the boys at her school (I'm really close friends with one in particular) Do you think she is upset that I am friends with her friends? I know those guys because they go to the same theater class I go to. So I end up spending time with them. And thats 1 of the reasons we are friends. But we did meet at one of the dances . Do you think she is jealous? People tell me that I am so pretty and I am friends with the boys not the girls. (The girls don't talk to me. When I try I can't connect with them.) I hope she isn't jealous of me. I thought we were closer than that. I'm going to talk to her about it after her dance tonight. But I wanted to get some advice! Thank you! :(

myself and about 8 friends have a group chat going. when people text the group chat it creates multiple different text threads or whatever they are called. then i talked to one of my friends in the chat and he says that it doesnt happen to him until only i text the chat, then it creats a new thread for them.. anyone know of this problem an how i ca fix it, tired of having 20 different text chats for one group chat. thnaks

OK I was looking through my recent activity on my Instagram and I saw this girl (she's cute by the way), requested to follow me on my Instagram. I'm kind of thinking she's stalking me because I didn't ask for her Instagram but she found mine. Do you think she's stalking me? And how do you think she found my Instagram? (I am a 14yr old boy and I think she's 14 too).

im a 13 year old girl thats boy crazy but this time i found someone i really like and i cant tell if hes being nice or flirting. so when i was sitting in history talking to him i smiled and he says "you have dimples" and i thought that was cute. so i kind of blushed and smiled again to him. then he asked the girl beside me "nicole do you have dimples?" and then i was disappointed. idk if he said that to another girl because he didnt want me to think that was awkward, or if he was just talking. then he says to me "are you going to the football game tonight. you better i want to see you." then i said yes i am (i wasnt but the fact he asked me if i was going made me want to go so i did) then he asks the girl beside me if she's going. again same deal. he tells me to text him in the last class i see him in and i do.idk if he texts other girls but i dont think so and he does this thing where he says my name and i look at him and he just stares. so i start smiling and ask him why he does that, he says "because its funny you cant keep a straight face when you look at me. you can keep a straight face with him!" i cant help it he makes me smile when i look at him. then he does the same thing to another girl but she keeps a straight face. idk if he does that to see if she likes him or if he just does that just to do it. i thought he did that to see if i blushed which would mean i like him, and i do. does he like me or just being friendly? i really need help. thanks for reading this also he is kind of popular and im really not so much, he read my text and he hasnt replied so now im overthinking to myself saying he doesnt like me he is too popular his friends probably tell him how gross i am. ugh this kid better be worth it! please answer!!

during my last year of elementary school, i became a really social person who didnt have trouble making friends and such because i easily knew how to make people laugh, smile, and i always had many topics to bring up. i even had a group of friends that consisted of 6 people, and we were all pretty close with each other. but ever since we transitioned to another school, all of us drifted apart except for me and one of the people from our little group, and since then, i became the opposite of who i was back then. i used to be an extroverted person but now im more on the introverted side and i really really hate it. i miss being able to be more social and a person who gains friends easily. i want to be able to make people laugh again but when i try to, it always brings negativity and it always shoots my self esteem down. i cant even make a conversation last a while. please help me.

I am really good friends with this girl, I'll call her Sally. I took her to the beach with me and we hung out a lot over the summer, we're almost best friends. But last night was our schools homecoming football game and a few days ago she told me she couldn't go anymore because she didn't have a ride. I was going to offer her a ride but I don't like driving people when it comes to football games. I was upset she couldn't go but that wasn't going to stop me. So before I left for the game my mom reminded me that I was going to have to pick up my sister from gymnastics at 8:30, so I would have to leave at 8:00. I decided I didn't want to spend $10 on a ticket for 5 minutes of fun so I ended up not going. This morning I was looking at snapchat stories and Sally showed herself having a really great time at the game. I wasn't upset that she went but I was mad that she didn't tell me that she was going. It was like she had lied about not being able to go because I know that none of the people that were with her have a licence. Is she really my friend? Did she tell me she couldn't go hoping that she wouldn't run into me or that maybe I wouldn't go because we do so much together? I have been thinking about texting her and asking why she didn't tell me she was going bc we could have met up since I didn't see her there. Would that be stupid? Help Please?

The trip is with the spanish class to Central America. We would be gone 10 days. I mean, i know a couple of people who might go, should i ask them if they would wanna hang out with me. Or would that be awkward? It sounds like a great experience but if i don't have anyone to go with would that be weird?

I have a crush on my guyfriend but he said that he can't love me. well it's fine we are friends and we do have dirty talks from time to time...but the other day i was telling him how the 5yrs old boy (that i baby sits) wanted to show me how a guy pees...out of the blue he said 'will u come and see me when i pee?'..i said no..would u have the gut to do it infront of me?? then he made as if he mistaken the conversation before replying..yes i would be glad that you help me someday. i replied that i wasn't his sex friend..to which he said..you know i'm joking...well that was a weird joke..what is going on in his head??

Even though I am 15 and I am pretty sure I know my destiny. I am not smart, I'm not strong, I'm not tall, I'm overweight, I have no friends. I am only 5'7 in The Netherlands. All I do in my life is go to school, do homework and play games on my computer in my room. Without any friends, without any girlfriends, without any pets I don't know what to do at this point I have never gotten a job, because when I did try to get a job I was just too young for the damn job. All I want are people I can talk to and simply have a normal height such as 5'10. I sometimes also have the illusion I stop time for a few seconds.

Hi, I m asking this to girls that use social media and are over the age of 15. So, here s the problem. I am a 16 year old boy with a very pretty 15 year old girl sitting next to me in Spanish. I m extremely socially awkward so asking her for her number I feel like would be the worst thing for me to do considering I d stutter and do other embarrassing things while trying to flirt with her. My question is if I were to send her a direct message on instagram asking for her snapchat do you think you would take that as being creepy af, kinda cute, or scary with a hint of stalker? BTW no I did not ask for her instagram but it s not hard to figure it out. Thank you

Ok, so I have a friend that lives in a town about an hour from me. Whenever we are on a Skype call I always hear his mom say stuff like "get your *** over here before I beat you". When I talked to him about it, he said he does not want to say anything because he thinks his dad will get in trouble, since court always sides with the mom. What can we do?