I'm a senior in highschool, and every year since the 7th grade thee school has an overnight trip to somewehre. I have NEVER gone on one of those trips because mainly of money issues. This year is my last chance to go anywhere with the school, and my orchestra is going to new york city to see the rockettes and sckate at rockefllar center and about 30 other things. I really want to go, and this time I have 550 of the 690 dollars saved up to go. I told my parents instead of christmas gifts they could pay the rest, and that they can have my christmas money to (I get 100 every year from my grandparents). But instead of even listening to me, they mock me and make fun of me, saying "How are you going to pay for it?" "Are you going to cry on the trip" (I have deperession, so sometimes I can't help but cry. They just dont seem to care about how I feel about it; yet they buy my twin brother $50 dollar magick card sets when he asks them to, for no reason! I really want to go on this trip, but they won't even hear me out. This is my last chance to go somewhere with my frineds from school; I don't want to miss it.

It starts with inviting them over, I am from a different background/culture where we didn't spend lot of time with family and mostly with just the close family and are big on privacy and are "colder" people (we don't open easily). I find them a little too relax in my house and sometimes their manners and sloppiness irritate me and I it feels to me like I am invaded in my house even though they really aren't that bad at all and I enjoy their company when they come and find them to be nice people. Now with my baby, they want to visit at the maternity and then help me when we are back home by spending a few days or week with us and even though I think I would find that very helpful, the most part of me is not at all ok with the idea and I want to stay with just my husband and my baby for a long while before I am ready to share. And I want it to be on my own terms. I would like to understand why I am so unwilling to share and feel so protective of my home and my baby to come. I know some factors like the fact we haven't been married long, the baby hormones, the cultural differences btw them (my foreign northern culture more "cold" and their South Hospitality type etc) the fact that I am a loner...I would like to know how to find a good balance and take things a little less seriously!

I just took a pregnancy test & it was positive, I told my boyfriend & he's happy about it. My step mother is trying to convince me that abortion is my best bet. I haven't started college yet & she says I never will. My boyfriends in the navy & is across the country so I'll have minimal to no help at all because she's not gonna help (I'm not about that, it's my baby not hers) & she said that if my dad finds out she can guarantee He's gonna throw me out, even though I pay rent. I just don't know what to do. I feel very over whelmed & I don't know what to do. Just looking for advice

My brother is 26, and I'm 17. He was diagnosed with paranoid schizophrenia, and he has very bad anger problems. He has hit me multiple times, and I just can't take anymore of this. Tomorrow I was planning to have a garage sale because right now we are not in good shape money wise, and I have been planning this garage sale for a couple weeks. Well tomorrow is my brother's birthday and he said "No, you're not having a garage sale. And if you do, I will beat you up so bad." The garage sale will only be in the morning, and he's sleeping anyways. Another thing is, my brother states at me in the car all the time. He sits in the front seat, and I sit in the back. If I try to sit in the front, he will hit me. But he stares at me every 10 seconds and if I look at him, he'll yell at me. Another thing is, my brother repeats the same things to my mom. He'll say "I'm not living with dad right?" Every minute. He's worried about living with my father, so he asks all the time. I can't defend my self when my brother hits me because in really short and petite, where as gr works out and is very tall. One more thing I want to add, is that my mother and I can never go anywhere without him coming. My mom and I like to shop at the mall, but he hates too. He comes with us anyways, and when we get there, my mom and I only have like 10 minutes to look around because my brother gets really angry and says we have to leave when he says so. I just can't take this anymore honestly.. Any advice?

I am invited to two parties this Saturday. The first one is a birthday party, and I am not that close to the girl. The second one is a fashion show, with a afterparty. The problem with the fashionshow is that I only know this one girl(and she knows everyone else, so I dont think we are going to be togheter that much). The fashionshow also cost waay more. Which one would you have attended?

I'm gonna try to make this really short for the sake of not getting bored. Basically, I'm in early thirties, no job, no social life, but I'm the one to blame for my own misery. This is not the issue here. My sister is driving me nuts with her lack of responsability. She never had a job in her life, married my borther-in-law and had two kids with him. The eldest one is four years old, and the youngest is one year old. I'm cutting to the chase here just bare with me. She left him in the family home with my parents and I to take care of him because her other child is a handful and she says she has no one to take care of him, although they can afford the money to hire a nanny or even ask her mother-in-law to help out. She comes over on the weekend and refuses to take care of her baby, coming up with excuses like tireness or that she's taking care of her eldest child. So basically, I'm left with him all week long and on weekends too. My parents are doing their best, but only my mother really takes care of him. He sleeps with my parents, and my mom wakes up every night twice or three times to give him the milk. I'm so sick and tired of her irresponsible behavior. Today, I confronted her and she didn't like it. I'm thinking about moving out of the house, but I know I have to get a job first. I'm so sick

so here i was, napping while on a break, and since my homework folder was under me, i'd feel it if someone was going to take it (although i didnt put it there for that purpose). So, my sister wass trying to take something from my folder, of course, i felt it, and groggily, i put my hand over it and half-awakenly said "no my treasure my treasure". She ran upstairs to my mom and started complaining that i didnt want to share my work (even though sh couldnt use it anyways, we did seperate experiments with very different numbers) and how i grabbed it and told her NO YOU CANT SEE MY WORK. So my mom came down going ballistic at me, and of coursel, like always when im woken up by a shouting person for no reason, i got real angry. Since i was half awake, i was aware of what i said, but my body just did what it did anyways, and i remembered exactly what i said. They were both going crazy at me. I toold them that the when someone barely wakes up you cant expect them to play beethoven's 5th or whatever with their lips of course they will be groggy and probably act what they're dreaming up into the real world. Then when i told my mom that all the questions my sister has kept asking me were ALL in the instructions, she just refused to read them. Then they brought God and the Devil into this whole mess, and they said "oh gosh you have some evil spirit in you," bla bla blah. They do this all the time to me. I swear having an argument with very religious people is like driving a truck a brick wall no matter how much i try to use reason its not going anywhere. why do they not listen to reason? i mean, i'm a Christian myself, but this is insane

i am 15. In the past my dad has been emotionally abusive. In the past 1-2 months, he has decided to step out of my life. I got in trouble a few days ago, for good reason, and I should probably have some sort of consequence. I go to school online, and my mom has decided that I need some sort of supervision, which is fair, but she can't do that. She called my dad and asked if I could stay at his house for the day. When she told me that, I had a panic attack. This tends to happen when I have issues with my dad, mainly around communication. He dragged me and carried me to his house yesterday, I spent the night there, but I feel unsafe, emotionally mostly, but physically a little bit as well. I tell my mom this and she doesn't seem to care. I know that I am safe and that as far as I know my dad is better and doesn't drink or anything anymore, but that doesn't change the fact that I feel unsafe around him and at his house. What are my legal rights in this situation? What about their legal rights, or any moral obligations that either side may have? Please leave links to any information you think I might need.

When I was a baby/Child/Teenager my dad never paid Attention to me ever. My mom did all the work. My Dad is always Nice To Strangers but is always mean to his own family. Whenever he sees babies and kids hes always Mr. Friendly to them but never did the same thing to me when I was I kid. When ever I asked him to play sports with me he was to tired. I never learned anything from him. Now as young adult 22 years old. Hes still more of the same. Tell me is my dad an mentally abusive asshole? Why does he treat strangers so much nicer than his own family. He even treats my mom like **** making her do everything for the house when he comes home from work he just watches TV and Drinks wine. WHen any other husband would help their wives out.

I knew it I had this feeling all along my parents didn't tell me though to popular adopted Facebook pages did and to be sure I'm getting DNA Testing with my dad my mom is unwilling idk why but my dads like yeah let's go! Why do you think my mom won't but my dad will?

Yesterday my sister gave me cup of hot coffee.I was wearing underwear that time.Unfortunately she spill whole cup on my dick.I rush to the bathroom to put water on me.She also came there and said sorry to me.I remove my underwear immediately.I didn't care that she is standing with me and seeing me.She told me to come out I was crying that time due heavy pain and itching.She got ice cube and started rubbing.She rub it for 2 hours and I am still not able to wear anything.I am still naked from yesterday.Whole area is totally red should I consult to doctor?

In my 16 almost 17 years of life, my mom has made living Hell for me. She would always out put my dad down and never cared about my older sister, brother and I. My Grandpa and Dad both worked together to raise us three kids, but to this day my mother likes to take their credit on raising us. When I was 8 almost 9, my father passed away. Things got hard for me and it made it even worse that my mom didn't even try to comfort me, instead she'd run around with her co-worker til 1-2 in the morning. Then she started dating this co-worker, forced us kids to move into a house with a man we verily knew, and eventually he abused us kids (sexually/mentally/physically) and knocked my mom up. She had a baby boy and my sister and I raised him until her boyfriend kicked my sister out (she moved in with my Grandpa) and then CPS came and took my older brother and I out of the home, where I went to my Grandpa's house along with my sister and my brother went into a foster home. Since then, my mom got me back, she moved me into a home with her current fiancé, he's abusive too, and had another baby. I'm raising her baby, struggling in school, working a part time job that I don't like(but I have to have in order to get anything I need/want), all while being told if I don't do as they say they'll take away everything from me and isolate me like always. I'm so tired of this and just want to get out. Advice?

My mom has recently changed the payment to graduation which is a few months after I turn 18.

We were yelling at each other and then I insulted her so she took me by my hair and started shaking me... and then she sat on my back with all her weight on it and ive got bad back problems and I told her she was hurting me but she just threw me on the floor still pulling my hair... What do I do? Should I call someone? Please qanswer this is really bad and Im serious btw im 14

I just don't understand why and she keeps making me feel so bad horrible. I'm depressed and I almost even did commit suicide and I really wanted to die but she doesn't know about that. She keeps laughing at me about everything, screams and it's like she goes crazy then she runs up to me threatening to hit my keyboard on the wall and she seems almost hitting me (she did punch before). And she's said that she would kill me. I just feel so horrible I don't know what to do anymore.. She just starts laughing and I ask ''why are you laughing?'' she just says that ''I'm just so ridiculous'' etc.. and when I tell her to stop laughing at me and putting me down about my problems she's just like ''but it's the truth'' etc... then when I start to cry she's like ''wtf is wrong with you, you're so weird'' and almost punishes me for just CRYING. I really can't stand her anymore and I've started to be really scared of living here. I want to move out but I can't yet and I have my boyfriend in another country, and I'm planning to go there when I can but I'm scared what if she won't let me or if she kills me or what. Then for a while she can just change and ''be normal again'' but she still keeps laughing and mocking me every day. The mornings are the worst because it's hard for me to wake up and she keeps shouting at me every morning and she really goes crazy, and because of that it's hard for me to go to school.. if only she would leave me alone... But I really have to get out of here at some point I CANT live here forever. I'm so sick of this place I need to get out. I know I'm a failure daughter, is that why she is being like this? I have problems like messed up sleep schedule because I can't sleep at night because of my anxiety and just all the problems I have. I want to live I really want to but I just can't do it here. I still have to graduate next year, then I'll have new possibilities but I'm scared for now. What can I do..? I'm scared of contacting anyone though because I don't know what would happen then, and it would be the easiest for me to just stay at home if only my mom could calm down and leave me alone, and not be like this to me.. until I've graduated. She was there for me before but she just changed like this, this year and I just don't know..

This morning I woke up but I didn't have a lot of time to eat because I had to be at my crushes birthday pool party so for breakfast I ate beans, broccoli, Brussels sprouts, eggplant, cheese, cauliflower, and some of that Jamie Lee curtis yogurt that makes you poop. Anyway I went to the pool party my stomach was not feeling good. I still had to go swimming though cause it would have been clear that my stomach was not in Good shape otherwise, I went in the pool and felt a huge pain, then I got out and went on the diving board in front if everyone. As I bent over to dive, I farted. It was really loud and everyone heard and was laughing at me. I was so embarrassed. Then I dove and diarrhea shot out of my bathing suit. As I came up the water around me was brown and covered in poop. People were laughing and screaming and running away from the pool. My crush was in the pool and some of the diarrhea got in her hair and mouth I went to to the side of the pool to exit as that happened more diarrhea came out and ripped off my bathing suit so I was naked.i tried to get Out but someone slipped on the diarrhea and fell on top of me, my crush was furious and had her dad kick me out, he told me I ruined the pool and that it was going to take weeks to fix it and to never talk to his daughter. She agreed with him and told me to get the hell out. As I walked away naked I farted and poo got on their dog who then bit my leg. I'm so embarrassed do I still have a chance with my crush?

We see his family maybe once or twice a year. No one I m really close with but he is so close to the whole family. This will be the first blood grandchild for his father. I know sucks we aren t married but together for 4 years. I would feel bad not inviting them because we will be missing thanksgiving and Christmas this year due to the baby. I see is as a chance for them to see me in my element but I don t think oat of them will show up.

Yesterday my brother was changing clothes in his room.I was went there for giving him coffee.He was sitting naked on bed and using his mobile.I really got stun to look at him naked.He also get shocked by seeing me.He don't hide his penis and stand in front of me.I put coffee on the table.He has a very long penis around 9 inch.Now I am feeling shy.He is 23 and I am 20.

My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for over 6 years and his parents are divorced. We are in our mid twenties and are caring for his younger brother while his mother is in jail for narcotics and his father is hospitalized. His father has a history of illness and may not pull through. The boy and his father are in touch via phone, and his father keeps undermining rules we have set while we are responsible for his care. He argues with my boyfriend about being 'cooler' and more of an 'asshole' and is really having issues with his brother as an authority figure. He's been skipping school and staying up past bedtime, refusing to shower or get ready, and asking for expensive things, and his father requests that we give him everything he wants. He needs to learn about accepting responsibility for his actions and consequences for attitudes and develop some kind of financial awareness. I want to be able to bond with this kid and show him I'm looking out for his best interest and that his disrespect is unacceptable, and find a middle ground where we can work together, maybe even get some structure/routine so he can finish school and find a job. I get that between dealing with his dad and being a teenager life is hard, but I'd like him to be able to sit and talk about it with us. Also, we are currently at his father's house, but as it is being foreclosed any day now, we may have to move him into our apartment, and I want to make any transitions easier. Any tips?

Restraining order just ran out and now that his mom died this July his dad and older brother are bothering his friends family and are trying to get custody. Can they do this? His new family is one of those perfect families and his dad and older brother are pos.

I'm an adult. my family is dysfunctional. Dad only likes my sister, parents blame me for everything. Dad says he doesn't have to speak to me. He says he talks to my sister because she talks to him, i talk to him but not like my sister. If i do talk to him he doesn't seem interested. He doesn't seem concern, he is concern about anything but me. He even hates me for saying he left the family and don't care about me. I been stressed about work and this doesn't help. This is a reason why, i can't focus at work. He said he doesn't want me to do anything for him, and even threaten that to have my uncle kill me. I'm not perfect but why does my dad hate me

I saw my son doing this earlier. Is he weird? So I went to pick up my kids with my 14 year old son. As we were walking home he was walking slowly. I saw and there was a mom with her daughter. Her daughter was about 9-10 and wearing a pink shirt with black tight sweats. He kept stopping and staring as I looked back. I guess he like what he kept staring at. A ten year olds buttocks. Should I talk to my son or just leave it at that?? Is it weird??

My husband's mother hurt her hand pretty badly last year. She bent it back and her nerve system and everything hasn't been the same since. Well she told my husband's father that she was unable to work because her hand hurts, but now she messages my husband every five seconds on Steam (which is a computer app with an instant messenger for those who are unfamiliar). Apparently her hand doesn't hurt too much to type like she said it does. This doesn't sound like a problem really, and the lies that she told her husband are between them. What annoys me though, is that she has taken to pretty much FLIRTING with my husband every five seconds over Steam. Even though he ignores her, she's constantly messaging him stuff like "you're a saint', "You're a diamond that I could never see a flaw in", "you should come over after work so we could have a picnic"...it's creepy. Not motherly. I'm his wife and I don't message him that much and it just annoys me that she's so creepy about it and doesn't ever leave him alone. She also doesn't seem to realize that my husband has limited time after work with me and I'm pregnant with his child, so he doesn't need to be going over there every day after work. Luckily he doesn't, but she needs to let him live his life a little. Is there anything I can do to get her to stop messaging him so much and pretty much flirting with him? If you're going to tell me "no she isn't", then continue to cyberbully me, then don't bother replying. It's not answering my question. Go troll someone else.

I was hanging out with my cousin at my aunt and uncle's house and we were looking through their photo albums. They had several pictures of my mom when she was in high school. One was of mom in her cheer leaders uniform. She sure looked cute in that picture. Another was her when she was homecoming queen. She was gorgeous. I think she was the prettiest female I have ever seen. Was she ever beautiful? My aunt said "Did you know your mom was homecoming queen all 4 years she was in high school"? I had never seen these pictures and mom had never mentioned she was a cheerleader and homecoming queen. I asked my aunt to make copies of these pictures for me and she did. Can anyone think of a reason mom would not tell her daughter about her being a home coming queen and a cheer leader? Mom has a birthday coming up next week and is having a party and many of her friends will be here. I want to make a large birthday card that say "Happy Birthday to my beautiful mother". "I am proud of you". "Your daughter". I would like her friends to see how beautiful she was as homecoming queen. I plan to attach these pictures to the birthday card. Mom has NOT gained a lot of weight and still looks the same as her high school pictures. She is still beautiful. Please give me some feedback what you think of my plan.

Im 20 years old and i live with my parents, no big deal. But i still have yet to graduate, let alone get a job. Anyways, when its my birthday i usually dont ask for things, but thats because i have a younger bro who does it for me lol. This year when i turned 20 they asked me if i wanted a gift card so i could get any game i want on the ps4. I said no, i didnt need it. So they decided to out money on my bank account instead. But i feel bad when i use their money and i feel childish as fk when i ask for a game or clothes. They are the ones who go shopping for the things i need, not me. Now, i want this game but i feel a bit of shame about asking them. I had people telling me to stop complaining and just take advantage as i still can. But i dont know, still bothers me.when i ask them for things.

Whats wrong with wanting to stay home and enjoy doing the things you love like reading or watching a favorite show? i m 19 now, and everytime i decline a offer to hang out with my sister and her friends i get so much heat for it. My mom keeps saying that i wont make any memories and all i will remember is my bedroom. Like really? i work every day long hours all week and when I finally get a day off i'd rather spend it doing my own thing. Its not like I'm socially awkward and I do love being with family, but i just prefer being alone and they dont get that. They think its strange and unhealthy. i remember always being called a hermit growing up to :/ its just annoying as hell. Why should i change myself to meet other peoples standards? Why can't i just be happy? Its not like i tell my sister its strange that you have to be interacting with somone every damn second of the day. Ok maybe once lol Any advice.

I am 17 yrs old and currently the oldest one in the house right now due to my brother moving out last year. I help my parents with my siblings and if they need me to run errands I do them in a heart beat. Last night I was trying to speak with my father about him signing me up for a membership at a gym, and I was going to pay for it. And he would not take me seriously or give me an answer. This isnt the first time either and its making me heated. I work and go to school. AP and Honors and so on. Picture kid for a thriving school guy. What can I do?

I do. why would the women with issues need to have sex to get attention? getting male attention is the easiest thing ever. all you have to do is make online profiles or text people...and I mean that girls can do that in a totally friendly way. having guy best friends or guy bffs is so common now too. @ClicketyClack (I like your username lol) I wsn't talking about women who've been sexually abused. of course if they were abused that way they'd have issues.

this year i had over 10 friends and 2 of them ditched us for boyfriends, 3 have ditched us for popular people , 2 have left the school . some of them has been bullying the other one. then one of my friends got a boyfriend and he started rumours about his girlfriend then they split but she drifted from all her friends because of her ex boyfriends rumours. then a few were bullying my best friend and other students in the school. then at home my sister said she didn't want to live with her dad she told me and my mum that her father gave her these needles and **** which she stole from my mum school. she has ran away multiple times when mum takes her to her fathers and that was a few weeks ago. then one night me and my mum and my sisters dad stayed up until 4 am at the council building while my sister stood on the ledge of the building. then a few nights ago my mum found another bag of needles that nurses use. my mum confronted my sister then she got me in the lounge room and asked if i did it . i said no but then my sister tried to blame it on me . anyway i went into the kitchen grabbed myself a packet of chips and i bursted into tears and i couldn't stop crying for over 30 minutes and it really hurt me that my sister was trying to blame it on me , so then i cut myself and keep doing it and i didn't cry for the entire night and now i feel guilty, hurt, stupid and fool. heaps more **** happened but it wont fit

A long time ago my mother had said to me "I must be the only mother in this world who hates her child!" and she stopped talking to me for months. We're communicating again but every time we have a little disagreement, I can't help but remember that day. I know that I'm not the only one an neither is she but it still hurts. That day always feels like yesterday. What can do to completely forget about that moment?

My parents are going on vacation, and so, as I always do when they travel, I am going to their house to house-sit for a weekend (and watch their 2 dogs, who I love!). My parents had even asked me to come this time, several months ago, and have known that I'm coming. My mother has a habit of telling me that I shouldn't come visit them. She usually phrases it as "it's too much effort for you to come". In this situation, it involves picking up 2 dogs at a kennel. I checked the times when the kennel is open (which is only for a short period on Sunday, when I need to take the dogs back) and already booked my flights so that my schedule works with the kennel schedule. Would you find the message below insulting? I do! From my mother: "I think that it's too much trouble for you to come. We would rather for you to come when we are back instead of next weekend so we can see you and tell you about our trip. It really isn't worth the effort you would have to make to come while we're gone. We had to make special arrangements at the kennel to take the dogs Sunday and it scares me that they might forget. That could happen to you and you would have a huge problem."

I've been working as an au pair just outside of Paris for about 3 weeks now. I've already had a lot of trouble with the family and have had talks about leaving. The family has provided me with a nice studio in the basement and pay me 110euros a week for 4 kids. I work about 6 hours everyday and all day wednesday. They kids are a lot to handle though and the parents are really difficult to. The parents always tell me that I have it so good and i'm so fortunate and it's really not that bad but they are also always degrading me and seem to always be mad at me and find something wrong. They tell me they want me to express my problems with them but when I do they invalidate them and turn it around on me. The kids are really difficult too. I'm really not happy here. I'm supposed to be here for 11 months but I can't even imagine having to endure this much longer. I will give them a few months heads up but I want to be out of here by november or december. I know they'll put up a fight if I tell them I want to quit and I'm always really nervous about talking to them because they scold me strongly. What do I say to them that will make them accept and agree that I need to quit? I need it to be powerful and understandable.

She makes me so depressed because she's always yelling at me and putting me down and by that I mean she's always telling me I need to lose weight and get skinnier. She NEVER talks to me unless she wants to scream at me or something. EVER. She gets mad when she has to do simple motherly things like feeding me and my sister. She says she's miserable when she has to be around me and my sister at the same time and when I was going through my depression she always called me an attention wanter and all that. Little did she know she was causing it.

My little sister, 18, came in my room last night wearing a towel after getting out of the shower. She looked at me and giggled and said I looked cute reading my book. Then she asked me to close my eyes, and as I opened them she dropped her towel to the floor to reveal her body in a shiny red bikini. She asked, "Do I look hot?" Initially I thought she was joking, so I laughed it off and replied, "Sure, just don't let dad see you dressed like that." Then my sister said, "What do you mean dressed?" She quickly removed her bra and bottoms and sat on my lap, then kissed my cheek. She whispered, "I love you, big brother, and I don't care what society may think of us. Who cares if they judge?" I told her I loved her too, but didn't want a relationship other than what we already have as brother and sister. She then looked me in the eyes, nearly in tears with puppy dog eyes. "Why not?" I kissed her cheek and said I loved her, but incest is wrong and we need to find our own spouses in life outside our family. I heard her crying later that night in her room and I opened the door and saw her holding a picture of us as kids. To finally calm her down, I removed my clothes and asked her if she thought I was attractive. She immediately replied, "Yes!" and said she wanted me. I told her she could watch me jerk off to her since that's not technically incest, so I did.

this girl ( my brothers gf) keeps coming to my family house which is owned by my father and mother. Both my parents have told her countless times that she is not wanted here yet she still comes back the next day. And today I went in my room and found her sitting there AGAIN. I got into an argument with her, started walking away called her a whale, she came after me. My brother tried to hold her back but was unable, I went outside and she followed. She went straight to my face, I backed up and got my skateboard, I kept backing up and told her to stop or I'll hit her with my board. She went back to my face and put her hands up like she was about to punch me. I hit her with the wood once and she stopped, she got a bruise on her forehead. Was it right what I did or am I going to jail?

where are some other place I could find people with siblings on the internet?

I've been so embarrassed to talk about this but what better way than anonymously.. When I was 9 and my cousin was 7 she used to lock us in my moms room and tell me to take my pants off and if I didn't she was going to tell my mom something I can't remember what so I did and she would start touching me in inappropriate even painful at some point. And I never told anyone because she moved away and I pushed it behind my mind because I was the older one and I feel guilty I should've done something but I didn't so I'm just so confused by this situation was this molestation? We were both girls and I was two years older but it didn't feel right to me I sometimes wake up in the middle of the night with random pain like if I'm reliving it and this is just such a confusing topic

My sister is always calling me names.first of all she is transgender which i have noticed when she came out it got worst. She is call mean names always telling people hate me. I dont know what i am doing i read, draw, garden, or cook for my friends (she gets none, since i have to deliver to them). She is contesenylu in the pandren. I have terid being extra sweet, and nice but her names bexome worst. I dont what i am doing. She says the way i treat people is horrible. I dont get it. I am very shy person naturally. .. she yelling i am bordrrline abusive, because that what her thypiest said. I am always work up. I told her to leave me alone for good. I am terid of it. How should i deal with this issue

my biological father died when i was four years old, i didn't even know anything about him until i was ten. i have found his family on fb they live 900 miles from me so theres not much of a relationship however i do have a lot in common with my cousin& we talk occasionally. anyways my dad traveled a lot for jobs(how he met my mom) and i was told i do have siblings.. none of his family knows who they are& where they are from. but i want to find them. the only thing on google is for adopted siblings. neither of us was adopted. how do i search to find them?

Well this is the story.....When i was about 2 or 3 months into 3rd grade i was pulled from public school for homeschooling and about for the next year my mom was my teacher and we studied and i got around to 4th grade but then we just stopped and my mom had to start working because money was barely coming in and ever since then iv'e done no schooling just basic math, money, reading, history the basic stuff and now im fourteen and i have no friends i hangout at my house all day (i live in a country type of town) so no kids to hang out with (i moved from my town with all my friends in it) it's been about 6 years without friends all i have are my siblings and iv'e grown tired of looking at them. Iv'e become very hateful i hate everything and everyone i barely see my parents because their working and when they get home thier tired and take naps....iv'e also become very very very scared of people i cant look people in the eyes not even my own parents i can hardly do anything like buy somthing from walmart without becoming extremly nervous my mom tries to get me to do social activities like sports at first im siked but then my conscience gets the better of me and i back out iv'e thought of suicide but i dont want to die or leave my family......Please help me and give me your honest opinion. Thank You

So I went to pick up my kids with my 14 year old son. As we were walking home he was walking slowly. I saw and there was a mom with her daughter. Her daughter was about 9-10 and wearing a pink shirt with black tight sweats. He kept stopping and staring as I looked back. I guess he like what he kept staring at. A ten year olds buttocks. Should I talk to my son or just leave it at that?? Is it weird??

I'm 22 years old and I have a two year old .. I see her every other weekend because of my visitation rights and I pay child support 200 month. Me and her mother is not togethier anymore I want to see her more but I'm not finically stable.. I think about my daughter all the time. I love her so much.. but by me not spending enough time with her I feel like we aren't going to have a close relationship I'm doing all I can. Do you guys think I'm a good father

I hate my mom with a passion, I even want to see her die. She is a miserable bottle of wine/day alcoholic and rotten to her core.

So does it mean millions of my brothers and sisters died?

Okay, ill try to keep this short but still include enough details. Is it abnormal or weird that I'm infatuated/ m@sturbate to women that look and remind me of my birth mother? She rarely raised me as a child, so every-time i think of her it's always a memory or her reactions and words. We don't speak nor have the slightest relationship we used to have, i feel that she's a terrible person so i keep my distance from her. She doesn't have my number and i do not have hers. Overall i know i have mommy issues but yeah. Is it abnormal or weird that I'm infatuated/ m@sturbate to women that look and remind me of my birth mother? If it helps I'm a 22 yer old male

So I'm 28, and have been collecting all of the toenails and fingernails of mine that I've trimmed ever since I was 13. I remember going on a 3 month cruise, and I forgot my special toe/fingernails bag to collect them, so I had to grow them out really long and trim them once I returned from the trip. It has just been something that I can wake up and see hung on my bedroom wall and say, "I did that" with pride. It is the thing I feel most accomplished of, but the thing is that my friends and family don't think so and they call me insane or "disgusting." I remember taking the bag with me at Thanksgiving dinner to show my family I'm finally making something of myself, but I was shattered when they all reacted with disgust, my girlfriend broke up with me that night when she saw, left, and no one talked to me all evening. They can be proud of my sibling's accomplishents, I mean I didn't get into Stanford or anything like that like my brother, or became a nurse like my two sisters, so why can't they be proud of my accomplishment like I am of it? Does anybody else do this, and have pride in such a work?

Yesterday, I met a far cousin (the daughter of my father s cousin), who I haven t met before. Suddenly I felt the feeling. What should I do now? Am I incest? Please HELP cause I don t want to be called abnormal.

He thought my mom was banging some other dude, he never thought that I was his daughter. He demanded a DNA test and I turned out to be his. He never visited me, when I was 5 he visited for one day, took me to toys r us and he was here the next day but didn t take me to hang out or anything. Then a few years later he was in the next state over, never visited me. I believe I was about 8. Fast forward five years later I m 13 and I was invited to a wedding that was in his state, my cousins wedding. I asked him to pay for my plane ticket so I could go over there for a long weekend. My mom couldn t afford it at the time since we were struggling while he was living it up. My older sister pays for it. I barely see him the whole time we are there. I don t sleep at his house. Then comes march and he calls me and tells me happy birthday but doesn t visit me. He sends me $150 through some lady that he knows here in the state I live in. Fast forward present day and I just find out he never came to my birth. And he cheated on my mom because before I was born he had a kid with another woman in October before I was born. Now he is living it up in a big house where he lives. He owes a lot of child support and just bought my half brother a $500 hover board and idk it just pisses me off. And some days I just want to breakdown and cry. Like I would send him pictures of my good grades and high honors and AP classes certificates and he just said good job. I just want to cry, what would you do?

I'm an adult. My dad has never seemed to treat me like he does my sister, though he claims he doesn't hate me. He will talk to my sister but neglect me, he only say hey to me and sometimes don't say hey. He will sometime not say hey to me but talk to my sister. He claims that my sister talk to him, just not like my sister does. When i do talk to him, he doesn't seem to be interested in talking and it's like he is ashamed of me He and my mom blame me for everything. But never say anything to good to say about me, no matter what good i do. Whatever i do, it isn't good enough, it's like my dad just hates me. He kept putting his hand on me, pushing me when i was telling him about how he hates me. He also, threaten for my uncle to kill me, which proves to me that he really does hate me and is ashamed of me. I quit my job, because i felt worthless because i felt like a worthless worker. Another reason why i couldn't focus on my work, is because of stress and my dysfunctional family is the main reason. I'm not perfect but i try and do what i can for people, but i'm hated not matter what. There was a point my dad left me and family, but i loved him anyway and didn't like anybody saying anything negative about him. But it's like he doesn't feel the same way about me. Also, he said he doesn't have to speak to me. My dad is concern about anything but me. Why would a dad hate his son? i'm not perfect but why does my dad hate me? Give an helpful answer of don't answer. Give an helpful answer or don't answer the question. If i want my question in another section i will. I am also a level 7 so don't move my question.

If you were in the same room as your niece and you were there saying hi to her. You are her aunt. She is 7. You babysat her many times with her mother's knowing and consent and request. You have stayed with her daughter many times alone with her knowing. But sometimes her mother acts suspiciously and checks in on you. Why would she do that? How would you feel? It seems like behavior someone would make if they want to attack you.

Ok so I'm 19 years old my dad has never been in my life he has been in and out of jail many times, so now he is out and he wants to be in my life. I've been perfectly fine without him because I have alot of uncles who were like fathers to me. so since my dad been out of jail he's been forcing himself in my life to the point i can't be around him. He blows up my phone constantly texting me and he has been begging me to go to some family reunion thats a hour away with him i said no it's barely know this man its awkward being around him and i dont know anyone at the family reunion. I can't even have a conversation with him because i don't know what to say. But This is where it gets weird. My mom always make me go to her friends house and my dad is always there so Yesterday he tried to touch my mom boobs and he said to his friend " i was trying to touch those big titties" so i was in the car begged me to get out of the car so i have big breast just like my mom and i caught him starting directly at my boobs and he was touching my legs. I felt awkward so i walked back to the car and he watch me the whole time i think he was looking at my butt. Lately he's been grabbing my arm and hitting me to tell me hey and bye and I feel uncomfortable. What should I do?

My parents have been married 20 years. The last four years of there relationship& my high school years my dad totally changed. He started drinking all the time& running around with his single friends and never inviting my mom out with him and not coming home till 3 or 4 in the morning. During that time he almost died from a pulmonary embolism and my mom took care of him through out his recovery. The last 7 months my dad has treated my mom like ****. He looks at her like he hates her and calls her discusting. Little did we know he had a girlfriend.. A week ago he butt dialed me and left a voicemail on my phone talking **** on me to a women. Later that night my mom confronted him and he admitted to having a girlfriend and told my mom he was never attracted to her. My parents are getting a divorce. And my mom and I are moving out because she is a waitress and we could not be able to afford our house. First question.. Should my mom get a lawyer or should they work out the money themselves? And do I have a right to hate him for destroying both My mom and I emotionally and financially? Also, would I have to see my dad if he was paying child support for me? Thank you. I am so sad but cannot act like it because my mom is so broken. I have to be strong

My mom comes home completely wasted about 3 times a week. She has gotten into three minor car accidents while drunk but never have the police been involved. One was with my little brother in the car. I have talked to her about it a lot but she reacts badly to this. My older sister encourages her drinking and gets physically aggressive with me when I approach my mother about her drinking. My older sister is not living at home and thinks there is not even a problem because she doesn't see how bad it is. I am applying to schools but I don't want to leave her and my brother like this. I know someday she will kill herself while driving. What can I do?

Recently I have lost a ton of weight. Almost 60 pounds. And none of my clothes fit. Now I don't mean like none of my nice clothes fit and I'm not trying to sound like a spoiled brat or says "I have nothing to wear" I mean I don't have nothing to wear. I mean I don't even have any underwear that fits me. Nothing fits me. Everything is so loose and stretched out. Recently my dad was demoted at work. He went from being the IT guy who works with the computers at a high school making good money to becoming the schools janitor (not that that's a bad thing). Right now times are extremely tough. My parents have no money to buy me any clothes. I am one of 9 kids. And recently I had to quit my part time job because I had a total of four operations and I had casts on both of my feet. I couldn't go to school let alone work. Now I know there are kids that are certainly in worse situations than me. There are people starving, and I'm over here asking money for clothes. That's why I'm not certain I will post the go fund me. Should I? I'm not one to ask for help, but i have no other choice. I mean I have 2 shirts that fit me, and both of them came from my younger sister. Should I post that crowd funding post? I was asking maybe 400-500 dollars? The money I don't use I would obviously go to my younger brothers and sisters for clothes. Should I start a crowd funding page? Or is it asking for to much?

I have a two month old baby and the father was at his birth but hasn t made no effort the first month of his life to come see him and now wants to bring him to meet his family which is fine and I want him to know his family and sister but I m scared he won t bring him back and I couldn t do nothing about it bc we don t have custody established. So if I go tomorrow and explain to them would they give me primary custody so he has to bring him home?

So i dont want to seem mean but my family doesnt like going anywhere and they just stay home all day watching tv! And i know i do play on my game and everything but thats BECAUSE THEY DONT DO ANYTHING! And j would like to go to walmart! But i get to go no where! We live in a small town and my parents say thats ehy they dont really like going anywhere cause there is nothing to see. Im 13 which means i cant drive and i always try to ask my parents or sister to take me somewhere but they mostly say no. Im doing home school which means i really dont go anywhere exept like once a week, and by going somewhere i mean like walmart or something but the only time i really go is when we go grocery shopping! What do you think i should do cause I say this almost everytime they say no " YOU HAVE TO REALISE THAT I GET TO GO NO WHERE AND I BARELY GO PLACES!" And she over dramatics and says " yep we are suuch bad parents!😒" Any advice?