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- Question: Whys my dad allowed to watch violent TV shows but he won't let me?
- Question: Help! I think my Mom wears lingerie.?
- Question: My mom is trying to control my life. i feel so lost?
- Question: Is it OK to leave my six week old kitten in my room with all of her supplies and toys where she has access to them while I'm in school?
- Question: He says its no rush but what does that mean?
- Question: Please help quickly - what do I do? Did I cause this? Please be honest as possible and just explain the situation, I need help.?
- Question: My mom is a hypocrite, help?
- Question: Should I call CPS on my boyfriends parents?
- Question: Am I being unfair?
- Question: Does Adult Protective Services really help in cases of Elder Abuse?
- Question: Rude family visiting please help?
- Question: WHAT WOULD U DO IF U WERE IN MY PLACE? PLS HELP?
- Question: My father just died and I don't/can't move on?
- Question: My mom is trying to control my life. i feel so lost?
- Question: Single mother and depression.?
- Question: My parents keep abusing me for no reason. I want to kill myself because I deserve a much better life. What should I do?
- Question: What are signs that my dad hates me or doesnt want anything to do with me or is heartbroken by something that was said to him?
- Question: I'm attracted to my uncle's wife ?
- Question: Should I return the money to keep peace in the family?
- Question: How can i get my parents trust back?
- Question: How to get along with fiances Bitchy sister??
- Question: What are some ways to respond to invalidating comments from my "mother"?
- Question: How do I tell my mom I don't want to take piano anymore?
- Question: Is this child abuse?
- Question: I am currently homeless?
- Question: Mother in law issues?!?
- Question: Taking my kids and going to a woman's shelter?
- Question: MY DAD IS GONNA KILL MY PET CHICKEN?
- Question: I promise I'm not trolling - I think I'm falling for my sister? Help please?
- Question: My mother embarrassed me, told everyone I am being proposed- it was a lie.?
- Question: If you're an only child, DON'T answer this question. What kind of relationship do you have with your siblings?
- Question: How do I get my sister to stop blackmailing me?
- Question: I'm 19 I'm still in high school but I want to drop out now before we go down the long train of et I shouldn't I need to inform you why.?
- Question: Why does my big brother get treated better than me?
- Question: Should I call CPS on my boyfriends parents?
- Question: How can I get back to living a regular life?
- Question: My parents told me I'm a problem child?
- Question: Older sister So for about 5 months now. Me and my older sister have been getting into really bad arguments lately yelling. Cussing?
- Question: I accidentally broke a TV?
- Question: Concerned over my little brother who i love so much. how can i help?
- Question: What do you do if your dad invites your ex fiancee to stay with us for five days with her husband?
- Question: My family is trying to get me to stop my hubby from going to his ex's wedding! How to make them shut up!?
- Question: If you re from a 3rd world country, would you want to know what you re missing out by visiting a 1st world country temporarily?
- Question: I want to know what my sister's downstairs region looks like.?
- Question: What kind of impression am I giving others when I tell them I missed out on my Christian indoctrination and telling them to blacklist me?
- Question: Husbands daughter isn't getting taken care of.?
- Question: Me and some of my cousins masturbate together, is this okay?
- Question: Would an adult step daughter moving back home cause the step dad to move out?
- Question: Should I trust my gf again?
- Question: Does my dad hate me?
- Question: Being a Middle Child?
- Question: Perks of being the middle child?
- Question: If you had a child you did nothing for, do you think you have the right to dictate their life at all?
- Question: I asked for a PS4 for my birthday and my parents got me a bike helmet. How can I get one?
- Question: I know your going to think i'm crazy but I need to know a great public place I can be dropped off after my trip to the beach?
- Question: Moving away for work...family?
- Question: Does this sound like child abuse?
- Question: How to convince my wife to let me and my two sons go hunting/fishing this weekend?
- Question: I can't watch everybody hates Chris?
- Question: Should I call CPS on my boyfriends parents?
| Question: Whys my dad allowed to watch violent TV shows but he won't let me? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 12:46 PM PDT He was watching that show on Netflix that's about Pablo Escobar. I sat down to watch too and he said no, get out. I said why. And he said cuz its got too much violence and also drugs and women with big butts. It's not fair. It looks like a good show. Whys he watching it if its so bad??? It's just like game of thrones. He complains when I watch it, but he watches it!! |
| Question: Help! I think my Mom wears lingerie.? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 12:36 PM PDT So, I ordered some clothes a few days ago and I was really excited to see they came in. Well this is were it goes down hill. I start opening some boxes it came and I started picking through and then I saw this package. Well I opened it to see its lingerie! Keep in mind my Mom is single and I've never seen her with another gut at the house. What should I do? Confront her? Leave her be? |
| Question: My mom is trying to control my life. i feel so lost? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 11:53 AM PDT im 19 years old and have been with my girlfriend for around one year. Recently my girlfriends uncle passed away, so i decided to pay my respects to her and her family by attending her funeral, my mom found out about it and started to yell at me and threaten to break me up saying i was too young, when im already in college, andh ave been in college sincethe age of 15, but moved colleges as the medical stream just isnt for me. and she keeps trying to make me not meet this girl and etc. My grades and etc arent affected in fact my girlfriend is the one who makes sure i go to class everyday and study for exams and etc. even in my job, im in a modeling agency, i got this job my self, without any support initially because my mom didnt believe i could and that i waso nly dreaming. but i finally got it and now shes trying to tell me how to do my job. and just.. everything. my dad cheated on my mom so i guess it affected her, but i was 15 when it happened and i was the one who had to do my dirty deeds like follow my dad, and record him for evidence, and even this one time i had to seperate her from basically killing him and pull my little brother out of the room and tell him veerything was going to be okay. its so hard to not run away. i need help. even me visiting me bringing my girlfriend to visit her uncle because he got into a motorcycle accident, it got me into trouble she was saying how i was "too much". while my girlfriends family all welcome me with arms wide open and treat me really nicely.. i just want that |
| Posted: 22 Sep 2015 11:51 AM PDT I go to school from 740-220 every weekday and I when I get home I have chores to do, homework and studying, and dinner to make for me and my sister. And she is very little so I don't want her to wonder my large house because I feel like she would get stuck somewhere or get lost. I just want to know if it's OK that I go and do my things she will be okay? |
| Question: He says its no rush but what does that mean? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 11:10 AM PDT I went on a date that has been trying to take me out for years. We had second date which was just talking about whats been happening in our lives and he brought his kid which is 1 and now sends pics of them occasionally. He has mentioned some problems he was having from the child mother. The other day i told him i didnt understand why he wasnt accepting my invites over. Our last two dates have been about three weeks ago now. He said he will get here before it is too long and its no rush. We talk on the phone everyday and night. Any reason behind this? |
| Posted: 22 Sep 2015 10:52 AM PDT My parents are shouting at each other (never happens often - maybe 2 times in my life so far) and my mom is blaming it on me their son. It started when I asked her where my PE kit was and if she had put it anywhere, she said no. I questioned her saying "but I havent taken it to school yet" and then she started shouting at me. Apparently I it was none of her buisness and that I need to just find it myself. My Dad came down stairs shouting then saying, "I am sick of living with you people! You re always Rowing!" He said, "just find you PE Kit!" To me so I did. Him and my mother continued to argue downstairs and then my dad took the dog for a walk to get away from everything. My mother said, " I can t even LOOK at you you ungratful little... I remember you took it to school and you ve probably just lost it! I havent put it anywhere!" So then I just left and looked for my PE kit. It was in a random draw in my room with the label still on it but I decided I d take the label off and say it was in the wash (i did this so I could hopefully take the wrath for it rather than ruin my parents marridge and not upset my mother furthur). I then told her that story and she said, "You have caused this all and remember you are not only effecting yourself but my marridge!" I dont see how it is fair because I never shout it is always my mom who takes things to the next level and raises her voice. |
| Question: My mom is a hypocrite, help? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 10:42 AM PDT I'm a 32DD in bras and my mom makes me cover myself a lot because she doesn't want men thinking about me because of what the bible says. She also thinks that men are so stupid that they see some cleavage and start humping your leg or that they think about fu***ng 24/7 after they see cleavage. She has a tiny waist and a huge a$$. Men stare at it all the time right in front of her husband. She wears see through tops to bed and walk around the house in them and I'm not even allowed to own tank tops, even for undershirts or for bed. She thinks I'm "tempting" my brothers and dad. and she shows her cleavage and a$$ and gets gawked at everyday. I have barely any clothes whatsoever (I'm homeschooled btw) and I don't know what to do. I'm so mad. |
| Question: Should I call CPS on my boyfriends parents? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 10:29 AM PDT Should I call CPS on my boyfriends parents? My boyfriend is 28 and has a 12 year old step sister that has many issues with her family. Her father is a raging alcoholic and my boyfriends mom is verbally abusive towards (lets call her Leah) "Leah." Shes opened up to me about how her step mom called her a F***ing B***h for messing with her cup in the restroom. His mother is looking egally blind and is up there in age, I get it, she's been through a lot, but that's no way to treat a child. "Leah's" dad on the other hand is also up there in age and drinks on the daily. Most of the rent goes towards beer and cigarettes (her stepmom smokes too). "Leah's" father has always been an angry drunk, but about a week ago I found out that "Leah" threw a fit about not doing something her dad (drunk) asked her to do and he became so enraged that he threw her up against the wall and started screaming at her. "Leah's" stepmom had to urge him to let her go. About a half a year ago her stepmom accused her of contracting an STD She said she read a paper that stated "Leah" had an STD (Keep in mind, my boyfriends mom is legally blind). When I approached Leah about it, she said it wasn't and STD, it was a UTI and a yeast infection. I can't stand the way they talk about her. A stepmom is supposed to be on your side. "Leah" needs help and I really don't know what to do. I don't want to break up a family, but I know when something isn't right. (Please no negative comments, I really worry about her) |
| Posted: 22 Sep 2015 09:51 AM PDT Recently I had to move out of a very bad situation, during my time of relocation ( while I was in transit/transitioning from one address to another) there was about a two week period during which I could stay at neither place, because I had moved from ONE and had no electricity or hot water at the other. I was forced to have to stay at my mothers. I find the fact that I had to stay at my mothers increasingly difficult to handle when I have a boyfriend, he never ONCE offered up his place as an option. As a matter of fact IN PART, I actually moved to be closer to him. We did not live together because the place I moved from did not allow for that, so when HE had to move from his place LAST year ( he could not move in with me as an option, but that was not because of me, rather the rules that governed WHERE I was living) Anyways I am just hurt by the fact that he never offered his place as an option to me ( instead of my mothers) and there's NO reason why he couldn't of. I have brought it up to him and said I feel it was a " slap in the face" and to which HE replies " Your the one that wanted to move." I dunno but I find it very hard to swallow and am looking for an opinion on who is being unfair. I dont think I am AT ALL being unfair. IF I had a place to live, he would never have to stay for two weeks with his mother or out in the elements ( like camping) and even though HE could not live with me where I recently relocated from ( moved out of) he could of stayed for two weeks! |
| Question: Does Adult Protective Services really help in cases of Elder Abuse? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 09:23 AM PDT I recently needed to report elder abuse on my mom from my sister. Not physical, but mental, environmental and financial abuse. I'm worried for my mom. |
| Question: Rude family visiting please help? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 09:13 AM PDT This is long but please help me Ok so I live in the U.S. And my family lives in the Middle East. They visit me at least once a year and their extremely rude its usually my 2 brothers and my dad and I live In a one bedroom apartment so it's a little cramped. They fart loudly and burp loudly and turn my apartment upside down throwing their bags anywhere and their clothes all over the place they come when I have college classes which forces me to miss some classes which really frustrates me. If I go to class they'd probably burn down my apartment and I just keep thinking about what their doing to my apt if I'm in class and I can't focus. The bathroom is hell of course you can imagine 4 guys sharing one bathroom ain't gonna be pretty. I love my family and i love for them to visit but this just frustrates me what should I do. Whenever I bring it up to them my dad says I'm paying for this apt (which is true since I'm still dependent on my dad financially) he also says "we're only here for a week your so selfish we travelled all this way to see you and this is how you talk to us" I've maintained good relations with my neighbors and now they won't even look at me cause it's so awkward I'm pretty sure they've heard my brothers and dad burping and farting loudly and it's so embarrassing. Please help me what should I do they left but they want to come back for Christmas holidays. |
| Question: WHAT WOULD U DO IF U WERE IN MY PLACE? PLS HELP? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 09:10 AM PDT I am 35 years old woman, My daughter has been diagnosed with severe speech delay and learning difficulties. My husband of 13 years asked for divorced once our daughter has been diagnosed as he admittedly said he doesn't want anything to do with our daughter. My daughter is 11 years old. I live and work in singapore. After two years now our divorce is finalized but the sad part is the judge said my daughter should attend government schools and the father will not pay for private school and he will only pay the child's food. After long struggle i got nothing from the court. And my ex husband remarried now and he told me he wants to have normal kids and had a child already. The public schools and private schools cater to severe disabled kids and they do not have schools for children with moderate disability. I tried to seek assistance from the government if they could sponsor my child to pay for a school overseas in europe or america as their are some children that is sponsored but so far i didn't get any luck and i am so desperate that my daughter is at home and i hired nanny for two months. I have to resign my job and move to boston us where i got school for my daughter but i don't have a job and i don't know what to do. So i decided to send twitter message to one of our ministers seeking assistance from the government. I did my best to meet them and i sent many letters thru the proper channel but no response. What do you think is the downside of sending message thru twitter WHAT IS THE DOWNSIDE OF SENDING TWITTER MESSAGE TO GOVERNMENT OFFICIAL BEGGING THEM? DO YOU THINK I WILL GET A RESPONSE? PLS HELP THANKS |
| Question: My father just died and I don't/can't move on? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 09:07 AM PDT I'm 18. My father just died this morning. It was VERY UNEXPECTED and I definetely not ready for this. All his and my mom's families came. I never stop crying since the second I found out he's death until after he's burried. But then after the funeral all of my cousins play/hang out with me and trying to cheer me up. But the problem is whenever I play or laugh (even just Small laugh) it made me remember my father and I felt how wrong is it that I can feel the slightest happiness right now. And then I instantly remember the morning when the doctor said he's gone. After that I also remember the terrible I did to him as a child (you know, yelling and being a brat) and it made me feel guilty. I don't want to remember my dad as someone that will only made me cry. I know its only been a day, but it hurt so much. Every normal thing I do make me cry. |
| Question: My mom is trying to control my life. i feel so lost? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 09:00 AM PDT im 19 years old and have been with my girlfriend for around one year. Recently my girlfriends uncle passed away, so i decided to pay my respects to her and her family by attending her funeral, my mom found out about it and started to yell at me and threaten to break me up saying i was too young, when im already in college, andh ave been in college sincethe age of 15, but moved colleges as the medical stream just isnt for me. and she keeps trying to make me not meet this girl and etc. My grades and etc arent affected in fact my girlfriend is the one who makes sure i go to class everyday and study for exams and etc. even in my job, im in a modeling agency, i got this job my self, without any support initially because my mom didnt believe i could and that i waso nly dreaming. but i finally got it and now shes trying to tell me how to do my job. and just.. everything. my dad cheated on my mom so i guess it affected her, but i was 15 when it happened and i was the one who had to do my dirty deeds like follow my dad, and record him for evidence, and even this one time i had to seperate her from basically killing him and pull my little brother out of the room and tell him veerything was going to be okay. its so hard to not run away. i need help. even me visiting me bringing my girlfriend to visit her uncle because he got into a motorcycle accident, it got me into trouble she was saying how i was "too much". while my girlfriends family all welcome me with arms wide open and treat me really nicely.. i just want that |
| Question: Single mother and depression.? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 08:51 AM PDT I had my daughter (she's six now) when I was 17. I really thought her dad and I would be together forever but I guess fairytales don't always have a happy ending. Her dad and me broke up when she was 4 months old because he did things I didn't approve of so I ended up moving(back) to a different state . A year or two after I moved away he contacted me apologizing and saying how much he misses me and her and that he took me for granted and stuff like that.FyI: I was faithful to him didn't cheat or lie he just never realized it until it was too late.So he kept begging me to move back to the state he lived in, but by that time I was over him and wanted nothing to do with him..He tried to get back with me for years. I haven't told my daughter anything about him because she thinks my step dad is her "real" father because he's always been a father figure towards her since she was 4 months old.Right now its just me and my daughter and I get really sad sometimes because she does not have a "father figure"in her life to guide her and be there for her and I know its partially my fault. I'm single and a majority of men want nothing to do with single mothers because they think we are bad.Although, I don't mind being single, I just don't want my daughter to grow up without a father. What are some positive/logical ways I can be a better parent towards my daughter without her having a father figure? Because right now she is accustomed to my step father but he's not around anymore. |
| Posted: 22 Sep 2015 08:37 AM PDT Of all the nicest mothers and coolest dad of the world, why did I have to get this one? The abusive parents that only care about themselves who thinks they are the good parents in the world but I had to go to 6 different elementary schools and 2 different middle schools. The only thing they ever did to me was give money and they never were nice, cool parents. I only was able to talk to them since 2014, they refused to talk to me and only give money and yelled at me if I try to have a proper conversation. Why do I have to be abused for no reason? Yesterday, my mother yelled and scolded me. The only reason she yelled at me is because I was sleeping with two jackets at the same time because I was cold. As you might have guessed, I am asian. I am Korean. I found that that this kind of thing is normal in Korea. the injustice, parents who never make proper conversation with children and only give money while their children study in school. only tell their children to study and which college they should go to. It seems there is seriously wrong with older generation of Korea. I wish I could explain more how my parents abused me. My original question was too long. so I had to make my question this short. Why should a person experience such injustice in this times and when evil actions become punished and what comes around goes around? I am a good person and I will never abuse my children(if I could marry) like my parents abused me and put me in the dark. What should I do?? |
| Posted: 22 Sep 2015 08:16 AM PDT what signs would i be looking for if he wants nothing to do with me or is heartbroken by something that was said to him on the phone |
| Question: I'm attracted to my uncle's wife ? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 08:06 AM PDT My uncle (who visits us often) has this really gorgeous wife, and she has everything that I look for in a woman, now shes like 26 and I'm 17 and whenever I see her I just can't stop imagining myself banging her :/ I know this is very inappropriate and I feel like a pervert .... Help ! |
| Question: Should I return the money to keep peace in the family? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 07:34 AM PDT I was at a meeting of a women's club and one of the members told me she planned to extensively remodel her kitchen and ask me if I knew any contractors. I told her my ex husband was a contractor and she might call him to discuss her remodel project. She called him and liked him and hired him to do the remodel. She told me he did a great job and she was very happy with the results. Shortly after I got a $500 check from my ex husband. A note enclosed with the check said "I give anyone a gift that sends me a customer and I don't see why I should treat you any different". "Spend this on something you will enjoy". Then I had an unexpected problem. My current husband does not want me to take the money. He does not want me to have anything to do with my ex husband. I tried to explain that this is a business transaction and it has nothing to do with him. He is not buying it. Should I return the money to keep peace in the family or keep it? What would you do? |
| Question: How can i get my parents trust back? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 07:10 AM PDT I was on a wrong path during this summer . I tirned my life around a little bit but then slipped right back into my bad patterns . I started to sneak out , lie , and steal. I eventually got caught at a store stealing and my mom had to come down to pick me up from the station. I have no idea how to get her trust back because she is not that very understanding. She thinks im a disappointment. |
| Question: How to get along with fiances Bitchy sister?? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 06:45 AM PDT My husbands sister is like a mother figure to him. But she cannot stand the fact that my husband has moved on to a new place or is expecting a child from me. It's a real awkward story between them but I feel like since the beginning she's never tried to give me a chance. I know for a fact that she's told several other family members that "I'm changing" her brother, but I honestly think she had issues dealing with the fact that she's not the center of his life anymore. Anyways it bothers me so much because we go to visit his family every weekend and everytime we are there she always find a way to try to belittle or prove to others that she's better then I am. She also rude and tries to ignore when I speak or am trying to have conversations with others. And tries to not include me when it comes to future family events, pictures or so forth. One day she was drunk and even tried to get into a physical altercation with me. Because of her conduct my husband has chosen my side and had drifted away from his family and certain family occasions where she is going to be present, lately we have seen her because there father is trying to reunite them again.but she still continues to act in an inappropriate way. To make a long story short. I'm soon to be having my first child with my fiance and want his family to be involved in the baby's life as well. How do I deal with this situation without having to put my husband or child in the middle just because she doesn't like me??? |
| Question: What are some ways to respond to invalidating comments from my "mother"? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 06:01 AM PDT She doesn't know how to have a normal conversation where she isn't arguing against something I've said, even if it is something simple. Ex: I recently wrote in an email that I wasn't going to buy firewood this year (for heating my house). I wanted to see how much it will cost me to use just the electric heat this year. (I have used wood heating since I've been in my house and its a lot of work.) Her response was: "I think you should still buy some wood even if you won't use it. You won't be able to get it later. This way at least you can use a few logs to heat the garage. Do you need $ for it? I'd feel better if you had at least half of what you normally buy just for emergencies or to keep the place a little warmer. Even if you just let it sit in a pile and put a tarp over it so you don't have to stack it." While it sounds nice that she's offering money for the wood and showing concern for my heating needs, I already decided to NOT buy wood this year and don't need the money to buy wood. Her comments are invalidating and I'm tired of it. I don't know how to respond when she says things like this. Usually I argue back and then she shuts up. I'm sick of having to defend my decisions against her opinions. The problem is that she argues with pretty much any decision I make, even small ones like this (this is a mother who is and always has been completely emotionally unavailable and offers only money/material things). What can I say to her instead of arguing back? |
| Question: How do I tell my mom I don't want to take piano anymore? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 05:55 AM PDT Okay so I've recently just started piano lessons because my mom wanted me to enroll in it. For some reason I agreed to it but now I'm really just not looking forward to it. I've already had a trial and first lesson so far and I want to tell my mom that I don't want to take piano anymore before I do my second lesson. She's already paid for the semester and I want to tell her that I want to stop before she spends more money on books and stuff. Not only that but I already have school to deal with, yet alone piano. How do I get the courage to tell her my thought without disappointing her? I can already imagine her reaction when I tell her And she'll most likely just make me do piano bc she wants me to get a scholarship but I really just can't do something I don't want to do. I'm just wasting her time and mine. Any suggestions? |
| Question: Is this child abuse? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 05:47 AM PDT I am a 14 year old boy who lives with my mom and sis.. My mom and dad are divorced if you are wondering why I just live with my mom.. My mom calls me trash, forces me to do things I don't want to do/I can't do, puts a lot of pressure on me, sometimes physical Hurts me such as slapping me or getting a broom and hitting me with it, and sometimes she even threatens to call my brother so he can come and beat me up if I don't do something she wants me to do.. My best friend, Lana, knows about all of this and doesn't exactly give the best support.. She just tells me how things will get better and that's it.. Today my mom got groceries and forced me to take them up to our house even though she knows I have a surgery that makes me not hold any heavy stuff.. I told her about this and she threatened to call my brother.. When I told Lana about this, she said: "like i always say...this is all shitty and it sucks *** that you go through this...but you need to know that things will get better! Its hard to ignore but stay strong ok! Stay strong for me! Stay strong for yourself" This didn't help whatsoever as this support sucks ***. |
| Question: I am currently homeless? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 05:18 AM PDT I have money saved up but I need for my boss to transfer me to another job in order to have some place to stay. I was going to stay with this lady I know. It's sad when your own family turns against you. I just want to get away and not even look back that way. I hate it here with a passionate my life has fallen deeply apart. All because I told the person if he didn't want to pay rent he needs to move out.! My sister got mad and wanted to protect him when I was only helpin her because she has to be the man in women in their relationship when it comes to their little baby. He cheats on her constantly but she knows it. I'm so done I can't live with them any longer I have to go. Right now I'm in a hotel room and I have no idea where I'm going when I get off work. |
| Question: Mother in law issues?!? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 05:02 AM PDT My Mother in law always gotten along. We never had problems. When I first started a relationship with my Husband (Then Boyfriend) He asked her to meet me. She acted Awkward' about it. So we dropped it. But then we gotten engaged. She asked to have us over for dinner. We accepted. She was good to my Child from a past relationship, and our newly born son. She offered Milk, Fruit, Snacks. She was good to me. She was so sweet! I started telling her everything about me. Then she was so sweet at our wedding and after we got married. I always adored her. Well, a week ago my husband was arrested because we had a fight. I told her when he was arrested and we kept in good contact. She picked up his stuff last Monday night. He wasn't allowed home till some 'cooling off' time passed. We all three were under the impression we would have him home Tuesday. She talked crap to him saying 'Lets call the police. She's keeping your stuff from you." But when she got his stuff I immediately said "ok everything to last till tomorrow." But when he got to him he found out he can't come home till court. I told her he can get his stuff through her. Just to let me know. He had him convinced I was keeping his stuff away. I explained everything. -she even read his letter I wrote him before giving it to him. *sigh*. Then she tells him not to come home. How we should live together separately.. But stay married. Then she tells him I was talking **** about him when he was in jail. Advice, please |
| Question: Taking my kids and going to a woman's shelter? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 04:34 AM PDT It's not working out where I live at all. At the current moment there's 7 people living in one house. I was told yesterday that I was the problem. I don't know how I am the problem. I've been paying rent to my grandmother since I moved in. All she do is complain, nag, *****, and believe it or not but tantalize and aggravate my nerves. My health is failing and I'm emotional drain and confused. This has her going on and she has threaten to hit me and I told her if you hit me I have every right to call the police on you. I told my mom I was going to a shelter so my kids and I can have better. Changing my number because I don't want anything to do with her, I'm afraid I will lose my kids if I continue to stay here if I live in this garbage. The cops have been here 19 times for domestic dispute and violence in the last year. I have no other place to go as for moving in with family. I do have housing, but my housing isn't available at the moment. I don't want to go to a shelter, but I have no other option. |
| Question: MY DAD IS GONNA KILL MY PET CHICKEN? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 03:47 AM PDT HOW DO YOU STOP HIM ? IM SO MAD RIGHT NOW BECAUSE IVE TRIED TO CONVINCE HIM NOT TO MURDER MY PET BUT HE NEVER LISTENS (my mom is on my side, and also my siblings and my aunt, my grandparents and all of my friends) I told him to buy ready-to-eat chickens at a supermarket BUT HE DOESNT WANT TO SPEND MONEY EVEN IF WERE LIKE MIDDLE CLASS. SORRY IF IM USING CAPS BECAUSE I JSUT REALLY LOVE MY PET CHICKEN (her name is Flappy) AND I RAISED IT FOR LIKE 7 YEARS and I spent ALL OF MY SPARE TIME RAISING IT WITH MY MOM AND SIBLINGS BUT MY DAD IS JUST GONNA KILL HIM IN THE END? HOW DO I STOP HIM |
| Question: I promise I'm not trolling - I think I'm falling for my sister? Help please? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 02:35 AM PDT My sister and I have been best friends all our lives and we were raised in a severely conservative household. To the point at which she's never seen a man naked, and I've never seen a girl nude. Porn is banned, we can't talk about sex, and we're not allowed to have partners until we're 18. I'm 17 and she's 16. My sister used to be very overweight and spent a year getting back in shape. Last night she opened the door to my room and came in at midnight when our parents were asleep and asked me to close my eyes after she shut the door behind her. She then said for me to open them, and she was standing smiling at me in a lavender bikini with the word, "Love" across the cups. She asked, "Do you like it?" I responded it'd be wrong to tell her how I felt because she's my sister, but that was the first time in almost 10 years I'd seen a girl like that. She could tell I was looking, and my heart was racing as I was sweating uncontrollably and covered my boxers between my legs. She giggled and told me I was adorable, and said only because we're best friends I could feel her boobs. She lifted up her bra and laid back on my bed then asked me to massage them. I did, reluctantly, but once our dad got up to pee she made a run back to her room just in time. She texted me, "I love you with all my heart, big brother. Stay mine." I didn't respond. I think I love her too much now but is this only natural to feel this way? |
| Question: My mother embarrassed me, told everyone I am being proposed- it was a lie.? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 02:05 AM PDT In an attempt to get my dad to paint the house, and see to the small things around the house, she told him I am getting a proposal and a family will come on XX date. I told her this is stupid and I will end up being the laughing stock in the family because my dad will want to share this kind of news. He did end up sharing this news because my mum gave him a date and everything, and stuck to her lie right till the end. I got so many calls from family, felt so embarrassed I wanted to scream at my mother. i don't live at home, so it was easy to refrain from doing that. I am so embarrased now. I am home, and I met some family yesterday and they asked me what happened to teh guy that was supposed to come. I just brushed it off and changed the subject. Now obvs they think that someone was supposed to come, but changed their mind, making me look bad... the laughing stock. I am thinking next time family ask me, I will say ask my mother. What do you think? I am so frikkin mad. I have a clean reputation, 27 years old and never messed around with guys letting the whole town see me out with a guy, and now my mum does this rubbish. |
| Posted: 22 Sep 2015 01:32 AM PDT I'm really close to my brother. He says I'm his favorite sister. We did a lot of stuff together when we were kids and as for my sister, my brother and I both have a distant relationship with her. |
| Question: How do I get my sister to stop blackmailing me? Posted: 22 Sep 2015 01:20 AM PDT I read her diary but I can not find any good dirt to black mail her with. How can I get her to stop blackmailing me when she writes nothing good in her diary. |
| Posted: 21 Sep 2015 11:56 PM PDT My parents are divorced at the age of 14 for me and there has been nothing but stress and struggle my sister who is 16 has started doing some serious drugs since 15 at school my mom has no grip on her what so ever me being the older brother I tried to help so when I was in charge she liked to tell me no and eventually it lead to her pulling a knife on me and I can't bring myself to restrain her my dad beat me and my mom for 10 years and I don't wanna lay a finger on a woman ever even in self defense the stress has caused me to have none stop head aches and feeling very depressed I don't wanna be around this screaming yelling and hurting environment I want to leave but without my school deciding to call my mom and start something I need to leave with as less fighting as possible so I have decided to leave early in the morning while my mom is at work and sister is asleep and leave a note explaining why I'm leaving I don't want the school to cause me problems till I'm gone I have somewhere to stay with my brothers a job lined up and plan on getting my GED and further any input and help would be nice I'm not going to change my mind I'm not gonna stay in this type of environment thank you for reading and any help |
| Question: Why does my big brother get treated better than me? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 11:44 PM PDT My parents would let him do whatever when he was here and I can't do half the stuff he was able to do. Also when they would celebrate something of his or he won something they made it a big deal and for me it's like nothing. Is it because he's the Jr the first born son? |
| Question: Should I call CPS on my boyfriends parents? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 11:42 PM PDT Should I call CPS on my boyfriends parents? My boyfriend is 28 and has a 12 year old step sister that has many issues with her family. Her father is a raging alcoholic and my boyfriends mom is verbally abusive towards (lets call her Leah) "Leah." Shes opened up to me about how her step mom called her a F***ing B***h for messing with her cup in the restroom. His mother is legally blind and is up there in age, I get it, she's been through a lot, but that's no way to treat a child. "Leah's" dad on the other hand is also up there in age and drinks on the daily. Most of the rent goes towards beer and cigarettes (her stepmom smokes too). "Leah's" father has always been an angry drunk, but about a week ago I found out that "Leah" threw a fit about not doing something her dad (drunk) asked her to do and he became so enraged that he threw her up against the wall and started screaming at her. "Leah's" stepmom had to urge him to let her go. About a half a year ago her stepmom accused her of contracting an HIV. She said she read a paper that stated "Leah" had an HIV. (Keep in mind, my boyfriends mom is legally blind) |
| Question: How can I get back to living a regular life? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 11:40 PM PDT I went through the hardest few months, and tomorrow is my first day of school in high school. I was being hospitalized, and I'm having meltdowns whenever I start to think about it. The doctors hadn't been able to find my problem for two months, and I went through many different things at this time. From having many blood tests and x-rays to having a bronchoscopy and then surgery which resulted me in spending time in the ICU. They just found out last week that I had a lung disease (CEP) , and I got treatment in hospital last week and am taking medication orally at home. This has been the most hardest thing I went through, and I just feel that this has become part of me. I just don't know what to do. |
| Question: My parents told me I'm a problem child? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 11:35 PM PDT I'm 16 and my parents always tell me that i'm "so hard to handle" and "i cause so much problems" and "i stress them out". I have a lot of anxiety problems, and whenever I get nervous about something, they start complaining and telling me those things. Do they know I don't mean to be like that? I can't help what I feel. I have an older brother who's 18 and they always tell him "you never give us problems" and "you are such an easy child". And whenever they say that, it makes me sad, because they act like I'm SUCH a problem. And whenever I tell them they're hurting my feelings, they say "oh please", or "stop being a baby" how do i make them realize i can't help how i feel? i don't mean to have anxiety about stuff and give them "problems" or "stress them out". |
| Posted: 21 Sep 2015 11:18 PM PDT ..my sister is in her 40's with 3 older kids ! And doesn't live with us . So why is she coming around knowing that I don't like her?! Knowing that every time we get together something bad happens! I understand that she can come over because my mom and dad are hers as well ! But I don't understand why she can't give a head up on when she is coming so that I can at least go for a walk or something ! I have ADHD, depression, and anxiety and she knows this and of course my parents do and when we fight it triggers all of that. It really is! I'm in therapy it's helping a little! We talk about a lot ! But lately it's Been getting worse. I'm a mother as well and she's trying to tell me how to raise my son I don't need her help. I don't ask for her help. I will never need her help . It bothers me so bad nd o added more fuel to the fire a few weeks ago I do feel bad very very bad but I hit her son NOT HARD AT ALL I was in the car of course . My dad, and my little sister. It wasn't hard but of course he is crying and tells his mom and she said the next time I do that she will hurt me... I said try me bit*h !...... I just really need help on knowing how to deal with her when she's around when she's around weather we are talking or not I get really sweaty and shaking and I know that's the anxiety . But I don't wanna keep feeling like this everyday of my life ! What can I do about her. |
| Question: I accidentally broke a TV? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 10:31 PM PDT Okay so me and my boyfriend were playing around with a BB gun and I had it pointing to the floor and i shot it, when he went upstairs I noticed the plasma was different colors and is had a small smal cut & my heart dropped I was soooo scared I told my bf he was pissed off I was crying so bad he was saying that I wouldn't be allowed back to his house and that hurt me so much because his step dad is a big dick he would hate me & I really if I had a job I would pay for it but I don't my parents don't make a lot of money we aren't rich, I babysit but they only pay me $80 a week that's nothing & his dad would be coming back from LA his Job is ending and my bf doesn't have a job so he's kinda unfair to my bf but he said he would take the blame and I feel so bad, if I say it was me. I would never see him anymore we live 25 min away from each other, his dad wouldn't want me here anymore, his mom would be mad that the dad would be bitching so much at him talking **** & idk what to do I feel sooooooo bad I was crying soooo much I wish I had a real Job I've been applying everywhere since this incident happened and nobody calls back I love him sooooo much we've been together for 9 months I don't want to loose him |
| Question: Concerned over my little brother who i love so much. how can i help? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 10:07 PM PDT im going to visit home in 6 weeks, mainly to spend time with my lil brother, we been through alot of trauma and weve always stuck together and so far i think weve come out on top. im aware that alot of my other family members are dysfuctional and surpressed in a way and i understand the effects it has had. my lil brother is living with thim. he wants to leave, but due to disbabilities they are his beneficiaries, but i believe he is capable of doing so much more and he wants to. he just doesnt know how and my family is always telling him that he cant, partly i feel also having to do with the money they receive from him, but hes overcome and done so much and he strives. he wants to visit me but they telling him he cant and he has no documentation to get a passport which he does. hes going to be 25 this year, and my family is very intimidating. ive always been there for him tho and i want to rescue him. i just dont know how or if i can or is it my place....how can i help? |
| Posted: 21 Sep 2015 10:02 PM PDT It has been two years since me and my ex fiancee broke up. We broke up because of arguments and disagreements in our relationship. She is the daughter of my dads best friend. Why invite them over to the house? I feel he might feel uncomfortable with me and try something with me! He might feel insecure around me. I think this will make me feel awkward looking at them to together knowing me and her had history. What do I do if he gives me ugly looks due to not being comfortable around me? Could this be my dad trying to maintain the relationship he has with his best friend. I dont want to get into a argument with the guy when I clearly moved on! Plus I am much more mature right now and I wont let her husband get under my skin. |
| Posted: 21 Sep 2015 10:02 PM PDT First of all I fully trust my hubby and his ex girlfriend to be around one another, they remained friends after the break up and they often hang out with each other. They have NEVER given me a reason not to trust them, so when he got an invite to her wedding I encouraged him to go :) after all, she's his best friend and was even the "best woman" in our wedding. He was going to ask if I could go, but I told him that he could have fun without me because he's usually home with me. When my family found out about it, they flipped out and started bashing him and her. Telling me that I was an idiot for trusting them alone, I promptly kicked them out and told them off but they are bombarding me with phone calls and voicemails calling me all sorts of names. |
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| Question: I want to know what my sister's downstairs region looks like.? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 09:52 PM PDT I recently noticed she shaves down there, something I didn't think she did. I only saw a glimpse because of the shorts she was wearing. It's a curiosity thing, nothing sexual, so how would I go about seeing it again, discreetly? |
| Posted: 21 Sep 2015 09:31 PM PDT I basically told them to blacklist me after telling them my full name and me missing out since parents took my teen and adult siblings to a center for half a day on the day I persistently chose to stay home since I didn't know. I also told some lies about me being in and out of prison, assaulting parents and doing drugs when I'm the exact opposite of those lies since I have a good moral character. I wanted the indoctrination. |
| Question: Husbands daughter isn't getting taken care of.? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 09:30 PM PDT My husband has a daughter from a previous relationship. She is 5 and we always have been worried about her well being with her mother, who put partying and herself before their daughter. Due to my husband being on parole, he can not get full custody. We live together and try to get her as much as possible. Unfortunately, his ex, and his daughters mother recently died... and now his daughters great grandma has full custody and continues to raise her. (Grandma has been the main person raising his daughter) and whenever we have her, her hair is super greasy, she smells, her underwear are dirty, and she's telling ppl to stfu. Turns out she hasn't been going to school either because her mom's friends take her whenever they want. I'm lost as what to do. Great grandma is also sick. Do I call cps so she is just taken care of??! That family only let's me do so much with her and I do love her,and I hate to see that this is happening. They can't even bring her to school??! Help |
| Question: Me and some of my cousins masturbate together, is this okay? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 09:28 PM PDT I'm 14 (male), and my sister and our 3 cousins (1 male, 2 females) masturbate in our basement when we get together. We are all a year apart 11-15, so we're all comfortable with it. Sometimes we touch each other, but there's never any actual sex. The girls sometimes shave their pubes together beforehand. We all enjoy it and I don't see a problem with it. I mean the girls say they like our armpit hair and we obviously like looking at their boobs. It's normal to be attracted to the opposite gender, right, even if we're related. |
| Question: Would an adult step daughter moving back home cause the step dad to move out? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 08:53 PM PDT My step dad moved out around six months after my sister and her seven year old daughter moved back home. She was only suppose to live there to get back on her feet for a few months. It's going on two years and she still hasn't saved any money. I'm starting to think she is the reason my step dad left? I've asked him already but want more answers.Does that sound about right to anyone? |
| Question: Should I trust my gf again? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 08:50 PM PDT Eh so basically I knew a girl for 2 years over the Internet and we loved each other called and all these .. she's not really social with people and actually not at all and then we had a little fight and after an argument she said I'm going to tell you the truth that was hidden from you and then she said a lot of shocking things that had tons of lies and tons of promises broken and I was so shocked oh and she always thought she's ugly and whenever I asked her for pictures no matter what she (according to what she said) used to get a certain girl from the Internet so .. then meanwhile I sent her my pictures easily but I see many would tell me leave it and crap...honestly I love her so much and idk what to tell her really I want to be with her and I have planned to travel to her but eh idk what I feel right now I'm just so broken inside and just so sad I still love her more than anything because she's really an amazing girl and I want to be with her she cried when she told me those things but eh you know ... this feels so bad ... what should I do? Please don't tell me leave her and these things |
| Question: Does my dad hate me? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 08:43 PM PDT He threatens to rip up my homework if I get a problem wrong and never helps me. He says I won't be successful no matter what, and he favors my brother over me. He calls me stupid too. I don't know why he does this. I'm young. What will he do to me by the time I get to high school??? He never shows his pride in me, only my brother. :"( |
| Question: Being a Middle Child? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 08:26 PM PDT I hate my life. I'm the middle child and DEFINITELY feel like I'm not loved equally. My younger brother is helped everyday with his homework by my mom, and my older sister is helped everyday by my dad. No one has every asked me if I needed help. My dad constantly takes away my phone for no reason, and I always ask him why me? but he only says "because." He always says my sister is his favorite daughter and it makes me really sad. I always ask myself, "What did I do to make him think that?". My mom always ignores me and I try to ask her something and she'll look the other way and walk away. I always feel depressed. I cry a lot at night when no one can hear me. I feel like my parents hate my a lot of times. I don't know what I did to deserve this. I hate type one diabetes and fibromyalgia which causes my back, shoulders, and neck to hurt a lot. It makes me even sadder because every time I have to take a shot my sister yells, "Ew! I hate that smell!"(of the medicine). At least she doesn't even have to take shots everyday... |
| Question: Perks of being the middle child? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 08:22 PM PDT Some times it feels like there is none |
| Posted: 21 Sep 2015 08:15 PM PDT Okay, so say you had a child (around 16 years old). You did absolutely nothing for them but they lived with you. You re never there for them mentally, physically, or spiritually. You never took the time to say I love you or even care enough to get them a decent birthday gift. You also rarely spent a dime on them. You leave all of the above to your ex wife/husband. Meaning that the ex wife/husband who doesn t even live with the child took care of everything the child dealt with. Do you think you would have the right to tell that child how to be and what to do? |
| Question: I asked for a PS4 for my birthday and my parents got me a bike helmet. How can I get one? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 08:08 PM PDT I asked for a ps4 for my bday and i got a bike helmet. My parents are completely financially capable yet they didn't do it. any advice on how I can still salvage this birthday? |
| Posted: 21 Sep 2015 07:59 PM PDT My boyfriend's family invited me to go to the beach with them next week. My moms more lenient and she's willing to let me go as long as she knows exactly where im at and she can be able to contact his parents he's 18 and i'll be 18 soon the only thing is my dad thinks it's a trip for a historical senior project and he thinks I'm going with my homeschool. My mom wants me to find a place thats public and has a bunch of people around that my boyfriend can drop me off at when they pick me up that sunday. Any ideas? |
| Question: Moving away for work...family? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 07:56 PM PDT Well I'm a recent college grad and I found the perfect job but it's about 5 hours away from where I live. There are no jobs available where I live with my degree. But there are other jobs closer like 2 hours away (although they don't excite me like the one 5 hours away) I'm having a hard time with the thought of leaving my family. I'm all my mom has and I don't want to leave her and I will definitely miss my dogs too. What should I do... |
| Question: Does this sound like child abuse? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 07:04 PM PDT My parents act violently towards the slightest displeasure about anything. They mainly attack me, using me as a scapegoat for anything they can (nothing within the past two weeks though, sort of suspicious if you ask me). They buy an inadequate amount of clothes (three shirts and three pairs of pants) and make sure the clothes are torn and barely fit when they give it to me. The last time I got a haircut was over half a year ago (I'm a guy). I never was able to hang out with friends (I'm a sophomore in high school and the last time I was allowed to was back in 6th grade). They always make me go to school whenever they want to take me rather then when it starts. They also made sure they delayed nearly every doctor appointment I have. They make me watch my little siblings everyday rather than let me study or hang out with friends or do sports, then they claim that I'm antisocial, fat, never active, and that I never contribute to the family despite the fact that they never do any work other than leave the house as much as possible. They also call me a bastard, autistic (I'm not but they use it as an insult even though one of my siblings is), ************, parasite, subhuman, and many more horrible nicknames. Is this abuse? Is it worth reporting it at my age? The last incident of physical abuse was two weeks ago so all my bruises and scratches have healed and left since then. Would they not believe me because of this? |
| Question: How to convince my wife to let me and my two sons go hunting/fishing this weekend? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 06:52 PM PDT My wife & I have 2 sons (10 & 8). The eldest is like his mother. He prefers indoors while the youngest is sportier. I don't think either of them are as active as they should be & I fear this will be unhealthy for them in years to come. I want to take them fishing/hunting so they can get used to the outdoors & be more active but my wife is against this. She knows our eldest will not enjoy being outside (he told his mom to tell me he doesn't want to go). She also fears for their safety. She hates guns, let alone them firing any guns, & she fears they could drown or injure themselves while driving the speedboat. I think it is important for them as young men to have such experiences but my wife is very overprotective. She says she would like to come for the sake of our eldest. I've told her no, because I know if she does come she will just sit & complain the whole time & not let the boys do anything that she doesn't deem safe (which is basically everything) & the eldest will be happy about this because he can follow along, ruining the entire experience for both of the kids. I also don't want her to come, because I want to bond with both of my sons. They spend most of their time with her & even when I am around, she is there and domineering over them. I want them to start being more independent from her. What can I do to keep her from coming while still making my eldest want to come? I'm taking them both with my older brother of three years as a sort of male bonding trip. |
| Question: I can't watch everybody hates Chris? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 06:48 PM PDT So I'm 13 and my dad won't let me watch everybody hates Chris anymore! Idk why! My bro was watching it n I came downstairs n my dad said he'll break the TV If I watch it again but I wasn't watching it wtf? What should I do |
| Question: Should I call CPS on my boyfriends parents? Posted: 21 Sep 2015 06:48 PM PDT My boyfriend has a 12 year old step sister that has many issues internally and her family. Her father is a raging alcoholic and my boyfriends mom is verbally abusive towards (lets call her Leah) "Leah." Shes opened up to me about how her step mom called her a F***ing B***h for messing with her cup in the restroom. His mother is legally blind and is up there in age, I get it, she's been through a lot, but that's no way to treat a child. "Leah's" dad on the other hand is also up there in age and drinks on the daily. Most of the rent goes towards beer and cigarettes (her stepmom smokes too). "Leah's" father has always been an angry drunk, but about a week ago I found out that "Leah" threw a fit about not doing something her dad (drunk) asked her to do and he became so enraged that he threw her up against the wall and started screaming at her. "Leah's" stepmom had to urge him to let her go. About a half a year ago her stepmom accused her of contracting an HIV. She said she read a paper that stated "Leah" had an HIV. (Keep in mind, my boyfriends mom is legally blind) |
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