Question Family

In America (the Northeast to be specific) What changes did you have to do? What was it like when moving? Can you ever see your family again?

Okay so here is what happens. My dad was upset at me for reposting some things on twitter from comedy accounts that cursed or maybe had a racial joke. I understand that it may not have been smart on my part to repost those things please don't lecture me on that I understand that much. My dad was talking to me about that and when I thought he was done I said ok and proceeded to go to my room and get my phone and start removing some of those things cause he said employers could see those things. He started yelling and asking Ok? Thinking I was not listening to me. I told him I was but in anger he took his laptop (which he uses primarily for work) and threw it down quite forcefully breaking it. Money has been tight lately and he does need a new laptop for work. I just feel really bad and I haven't spoke to him since and I keep trying to avoid it. I don't like not talking to him but I'm afraid he is going to have to dip into our Spring Break fund to get a new computer. He works on computers all day so it would have to be a nice one which would be on the expensive side. sorry I didn't really ask anything I'd just like to have some advice cause there is alot of tension around the house now and also needed somewhere to vent

They have a weird taste in rules. Examples: Mom: Won't let me date until I'm over 20. No buying leopard leggings, because that is an animal, and animals are bad. Only care about yourself, and nobody else. Can't get a puppy. Dad: Can't wear any hair piece that contains colors (extensions, dying hair, etc). What I'm worried about is that I want to do things in the future like any normal teenager would do, but I don't think I will because of my unbearable parents. Like, dating in High School, dying my hair hot pink, getting a puppy, and going to clubs. Any suggestions? Should I secretly do some things like dating and going to clubs? Or maybe I should express how I feel? But I might get yelled at very badly. Then, I'll move out maybe...

I'm in a relationship with my child's father. He has been staying with Me and been living in my car since he been put out his mother's house. This has been going on b4 he was in my car he was living with a friend. they was fine till they parents found out he was wrkN and put him out. he lost his job. Bt nw he has a new one nd want to go looking for places bt he dnt even kno if this job is garented to stay .I called his mom to ask can he *** back bc he's her son nd she jus been a birch about things nd like no he's a grwn *** man. I understand that. Bt it's stressful bc its like I can't do wat I want bc he's living in my truck. I dnt have privacy. Nd my parents dnt want em outside there house anymore bc they feel he as a man suda been trying to Wrk nd keep a job den being lazy leaving the baby all on me while he go to skool nd go to his friends nd smoke. I get to feeling at times he jus using me. Until he can get on his own feet. I dnt mind hlpping him bt lastime I hlped he cheated on me nd left to b with sum1 else. Now it's like he needs me more den ever nd it's hard to think or believe bcuz wen it's said nd dne he will b back cool wit his family..Nd I jus dnt wana b or look stupid again. I wana b. There for him bt I jus dnt kno. nd den he quick to snap on me nd etc like it's jus stressful. Nd we been engaged for 3 months bt I jus dnt know wat to do

I'm 15 and have divorced parents I live with my mom full time and she has full custody over me but doesn't take good care of me at all Ii don't want to be taken away from her I just want my dad to have full custody so I can live with him and he can take me to the doctor and dentist and school and everything she doesn't do for me I dropped out of school in 6th grade I want to go back and graduate so I can go to college and become a teacher but she doesn't seem to care because she will not put me back in she just doesn't do it there's no reason same thing with the dentist my teeth are horrible and ugly and she just doesn't take me. She takes my siblings to school and the dentist but not me also the doctor because I am not mentally healthy and living here makes it worse. I think there's something seriously wrong with my body also. My dad has experience with depression and stuff and says he will take me to the doctor but he can't until he has custody over me. Ii asked her about this and explained how I would prefer it all be smooth and easy and she just hands custody over but if not we will have to go to court about it because I don't want to live like this anymore. She said no and that she won't give me up and we "will just have to force her" I just need some advice on what to do what Ii can say to her and how to handle this whole situation mentally and stuff If she doesn't agree to this we have to travel to another state (where they originally got divorced) and it is going to be a huge battle and will take such a toll on our relationships and me I need some help asap

Long story short when i ws just a little tddler i was abused and bullied and beat up by other childen and my parents didnt do anything about it. My parents now to this will threaten me and call e awful names daily. I refued to lt it get to me but finally, somethin truck me and i completely broekdown. I am a very strong person for making i this far as i am now still bullied to this day and my parents tell me it's my fault that i am bein bullied. My parents say everthing is my fault. and they call me NASTY names i dare not repeat DAILY. They tell me it's wrong to love what i love, etc and more. I just had a breakdown and i really think i am a terrible person and that they're right about me, what do i do? I am now feeling incredibly suicidal and am just waiting to die. I am so confused and they say they love me...Ever since i was a little child i was bullied and now i am an older teen. Sorry for my horrific typos. Like i said, i am really thinking about ending it all, just a gunshot is all it would take.

Alright. Well... I'm currently 17 and I don't have much time until I'm 18. Sadly I dont have a job, but I do have a car and license(the car is all payed off and in my name). Anyways. The mom nd dad I live with, the mom isn't my real mom. Granted, she was there with me al the way back when I was 3 but abused me until I got bigger and taller than her, wich was about 13-14 years old. My dad is my real dad. And honestly. Hes the best person I have ever met in my life. But further on tge story. Currently I'm dating a girl and have been for a little over a year and a half. And her family loves me. But my moms side of the family hates my girlfriend. My girlfriends mom is fully aware of the situation that I am in and was in. And told me that I can't live with them. And pay a small rent, since she owns two houses. My mom tells me that I can't move out when I'm 18. And is in no way supportive of my relationship. My dad is just chill and really has no side in this story becuase he is just a sweetheart and understands. But it got to the point that I had to fake a break up with my girlfriend just to keep my mom off my back. But. I will still be in highschool. And when I'm 18 ill be a junor. But my grlfriends mom said she will make sure my education stays in check. I just. Am I alout to move out at 18? If I want. I also want to note that me and my girlfriend have known each other since we are baby's. But. I have freedom of a 12 year old. And i just want to experience more.

My daughter is 11. She tells me when she coughs or sneezes hard a little urine leaks out. We have been to a urinologist who thought it could be constipation. We have been treating this for 6 weeks, and the urine problem persists. Any insight, anyone?

About three months ago my aunt, cousin and I got into a fight and my aunt said something that really upset me and crossed the line. This story is complicated but please bare with me. When I was around 11 I had to go live with my aunt and cousins because my big brother who about 5 years older than me made some really bad life choices. I was scared but she took me in and gave me every thing that I needed.

So here is my issue, my mother is constantly on me about my school. She even has a specific app on her phone that alerts her my grades right when my teacher enters an assignment. I'm always terrified while doing my work, I even get confused if I should be answering the problems to my mother's standards, or the teachers (Obviously the teachers) but it has gotten to the point where I am terrified to get home because I feel like a lecture is going to start when I walk through the door. I'm a gamer, love my video games. But I don't play them on the weekdays. I am usually grounded every single weekend, my last streak was 3 weekends in a row, because of some assignment that I did not do well on. My mother also cuts slack for my sister, she is 20, but when we are talking about my grades, my sister will chime in and admit she did not do well on a test or something of that sort. My mom will look at her and sigh, then go right back to me and begin to ask me if it is a deeper mental issue that I have which limits my academic abilities (I do not have one by the way.) But she calls me retarded and compares me to my "perfect sister". I feel so alone and depressed all the time when I get home, so isolated and attacked. Stress levels are through the roof 24/7. Don't get me wrong I love my mother and the rest of my family ofcourse, but my mom's school side is very over the top in my opinion.

I haven't seen my aunt in over 6 years because we're estranged. She's from out of town, but left a message on my phone today that she's in town and will be leaving tomorrow. That doesn't give me enough notice at all. I'm sure she knew well ahead of time that she'll be coming to town, so then why did she wait until the last minute? It's as if I'm just an after-thought. Should I feel insulted?

I'm 16 years old and my mom died about two weeks ago. As of now no one has custody of me. My family is honestly crazy and it stresses me out so much. I have anxiety and depression and being with them makes it worse. I want to love with my friend and her family. They are honestly like family I've known them forever they are good people, it's the only place I feel safe living. Will I get the choice to chose? Cuz all of my family say I can't Yes her parents would really like me to live with them

Hello! I've got a bit of a dilemma.... My dad has this friend who is super annoying. I know what you're thinking, please let me explain. He met this friend a few years ago, coincidentally this guy is a person who if he walks into a room full of people, 30 seconds later its' empty. Then my dad split with my stepmom, she moved out and my dad's friend already being super annoying, it got a WHOLE lot worse. EVERY single Saturday we drive out to the other side of the city to meet him for coffee, and my dad always makes me go. It doesn't end there. After that he comes to my dad's house to 'help him clean up'. All he does is eat our food and watch TV at our house, as he has a key to my dad's house after canvassing my dad into it. It doesn't stop there, either. He rings me up and tells me to clean my room. I mean, what the hell is this? He has no right to tell me what to do. If my dad wants me to clean my room he can tell me himself. When my dad is working he comes round to 'feed the animals' and I come to find all the food gone and him slobbing round in front of the TV. I tell my dad this but he doesn't listen and it always leads to an argument. Could someone PLEASE help me? This is annoying the hell out of me.

I'm so exhausted with my family, and people there is never a good/happy moment and somehow it always seems to end up being my fault. I just want to be done with it all and move out or something. That'd be the best bet for me. I'm 16 I know I can't move out until I'm 18 but I just guess I need advice for a constantly ****ìng fighting family. Even if I don't do anything wrong, I'm wrong. Either I'll ****ìng shoot myself or everyone else 😩 Haha. Please help me. I'm so ****ìng done with this.

where do i start? i dont have measuring tape so. parents wanna go to tj maxx but i really wanna go to ross bc i just need a bra but my mom wants to wait till sunday and its tuesday and ah i just need one its my first bra btw im 14 i didnt rlly start puberty until now haha

I don't know if I have bulimia. I hope not. But I like to make myself throw up. It makes me feel good. I know it rots your teeth and I don't want my teeth to fall out, so I think I maybe should tell my parents. But I don't know how. Do I just come out or should I ask to see a doctor or something? Or am I just overreacting? I don't know what to do!

I live in (North Carolina gastonia.) and what could they do if I got kicked out OR ran away to swain county (it's the last town before you get to Tennessee). (4-5 hours away from here) what could they all do? And if I'm pregnant right now too? I'm 17.

Ok so a cupple days ago me and my bf were planning to have sex but my dad found the condom in my room. Now were never allowed to b alone and the worst thing is, im 90% sure im pregnant from the last time we had sex and my parents don't even know yet. Idk what to do! Please help

He yells at her, tells her what he wants, and then hits her when she tells him to go to his room or tells him to do something he doesn't want to do. My mother has never yelled at him and there was a time where she literally didn't cook anything all day just to show him that you can't just TELL someone to cook for you, you have to ask nicely. He never did, eventually she had to give in. He is spoiled, and my dad has taken away the Ipad he always play on, and then he cries uncontrollably til he sleeps. It is all he thinks about. He comes home from school and immediately asks for it. He doesn't listen to anybody, always wants his way, is stubborn, but at school he is nice (?). My parents always try their BEST to not hit him, not yell at him, or do anything of that nature just cause its how they are. But from an older sister's perspective I feels he needs a big whoopin. lol. I'm not sure how he got this way, we are not a strict family at all and all my other brothers behave nicely except him. What are some ways to deal with him? BTW he is 9 years old.

Every time I go to my moms, my step mom gets really angry. She says that my mom doesn't do anything for me so I shouldn't go to my moms. What should I do? She keeps telling my dad that he shouldn't do anything for me anymore since I went with my mom. He obviously isn't listening to her . I'm getting so sick of it. It's like no one likes me anymore.

I know this sounds weird or like a troll, but really it is not. I wake up every morning around 2 or 3 am to lights shining in my window/ around my house. My blinds are shut but I can still see it. My little 4 year sister says she sees it and my 10 year old sis is a heavy sleeper and my brothers don't have windows. I look out the bathroom window to see if it's a car but it's not. It goes on and off. We had problems with our neighbors for years and he took us to court for having roosters so it could be him? My mom and dad say I'm over reacting but I have the room near the road (pretty big house) both my parents were at work and my brothers were out that night and I didn't see it! Maybe it could be my brothers pranking me?