So basically I've lived in my house for 6 years and this year I found out that we are most likely moving. I really don't want to move until I'm done high school. I've bassically spent as long as I can remember with my friends and we have tons of memories and stuff. Is there anyway to sabotage the move?? Please help. :(

I feel like I fit in at my school, but I want to fit in more with more people. I have a small group of friends and I feel like those are the only people I fit in with, but I want a broader group of friends. What can I do to stand out to the general school population. Maybe become the popular kid or get a hot girlfriend

I met theses girl no to long ago. I would say like 2 months ago and they are really good friend with each other. They tell me they been friends since middle school. Their in 10th grade and I'm a senior. So one day we were talking and I mentioned that, u can have a good grade even if u don't dress out but she said, but your in weight training. I was like how does she know that? I only talk more personal things too her friend that I have I class with. I also she said happy birthday to me when I don't even tell no one that why does she know? I didn't even tell her friend let's call her A. I only talk to A and I didn't even tell her about my birthday she just saw it on my Id one time. Also I didn't even A that good before hand. Why do girls talk about everything??

I am in my last year of highschool and i am graduating in a couple of months. But, I'm homeschooled. I used to have a lot of friends that always wanted to hang out with me but since my boyfriend and i started dating my friends knew that he didn't like them much (because they're smokers) so they distanced themselves. Plus, they are busy with going to school and working. Idk if it's an excuse. I'm so lonely and have nothing to do all day. I want to go out and have fun but i hate being alone. My boyfriend and i only see eachother twice a week. I need friends, i need someone to hang out with, but i don't know how to even make friends anymore!

So I have a friend, we aren't super close but we talk quite a bit. He loves kit kats, and so I was thinking since tomorrow is April Fools I could buy some kit kats but crush/break them and give it to him (but leave them in the full package, so he wouldn't know). The thing is like I don't want to be annoying or have him get mad at me lol, I know its a harmless and stupid joke but I don't want to do it if it would be mean :p should I go through with it or no?

So a couple months ago my friend and I got into a fight because he lead me on and tried to apologize over Facebook. After the argument we were so mad at each other that we stopped talking. Well last night I drew him a picture and it stated that I'm sorry for pushing him away. Today I was going to give it to him myself, but being the awkwardly shy and easily embarrassed person I am, I had my brother do it. Well my friend just looked at the picture and just folded it up and chucked it in his binder. He didn't come up to me, didn't say anything to me, he wouldn't even look at me. I'm having these little anxiety attacks because right now tons of people talking bad about me and I just can't lose another person. I just need to know what I should do, because it hurts when everyone is turned against you for no reason, especially a friend.

We had a big fight the other day and I wanted to hurt him bad. It ended with me calling him some names like worthless POS and then making fun of his dad who died last year. Now, I know that might be a little mean, but he actually cried and bursted into tears when I said that and left my house! I thought guys weren't supposed to cry. This really surprised me and later I got a text from him saying "wtf is wrong with you?" He claimed that "he'd never say stuff like that", but I think he deserved it. I didn't respond. I haven't talked to him in 3 days. I'm getting worried, was I really mean and should I apologize, or should he just grow some balls? To clarify what I said, I said "your dad was ashamed to have a son like you, so he killed himself"

okay so i will be a freshman next year and im already stressing out now because i have so much stress and axienty of what people think of me. people in highschool already think wrong of me and i deleted all my social media accounts. i really need some advice because im super scared.. ); thanks!

When I wasn't a a teenager, life was easier. Now, I have mixed feelings on everything. Why is it so complicating?

they just bother me and bother me and bother me. I want to be completely confident in myself but they just make me feel super down. I hate it i wish they would all leave me alone so i could be a radiant goddess without them. HOW DO I SHAKE THEM?!?!!?!!?!?! i dont want to be mean :( but i have to sit by them at lunch and we talk in the halls. I wish they would all just back off :( how do i get rid of them? I honestly hate them. please please please give me serious tips to get every single one out of my life. They're so rude and mean and i hate them all. SO MUCH. everyday at school is hell just because i have friends :(( i wish i could go further in to context but i dont feel like it so please help.

i don't know where to start with this. my best friend and i have been literally, and i mean literally, inseparable for the past 7 years. since we were 12, and we are now 19. we've gone through so much together and we don't go more than a day without seeing each other. not more than probably 4 or 5 hours without talking. it's honestly a major co-dependence issue. anyway. i am autistic. i have a hell of a time with social situations. i was the "weird kid" through my entire school experience. i've always been made fun of. my friend, he is the greatest friend i could ever ask for. i really love him with every bit of me. i'd go to hell and back for that guy. but he's always bullied me. on and off. all of my friends have, i'm a doormat and afraid so i just let people push me around. he's called me a retard, ugly, told me to go to hell, told me to kill myself, told me i'm the reason he self harms, told me i'm a constant embarrassment and he's sick of being seen with the weird kid, constantly tells me i look like "something's wrong with me." he especially gets angry at me for never expressing myself... but i don't know how. it's not a skill i have, talking about myself. he knows i am autistic and knows i don't have these skills but still just yells at me for "not listening to social cues." i'm scared of him, really. he is the one thing i have in this life and i'll let him walk all over me just to keep him as my friend. he is the reason i stay alive. (cont) whenever i say anything about myself, though, he calls me selfish and tells me all i do is throw a "pity party." i am diagnosed with severe depression, he is too, but he treats me like only he is allowed to be sad. but sometimes. most of the time, really, he is caring, kind, treats me well...we usually get along better than anyone could imagine. i don't know what to do. when i confront him about any of this, he just attacks me with everything he can think of. i'm very scared of (cont) ever trying to bring it up with him because i know he'll just go off on me about everything i've ever done that upset him or embarrassed him and then threaten suicide. he'll say he wants me to hate him so he can kill himself. it's a mess. i dont know how to show him i care because those skills are simply not in my head. all i do is hang out with him 24/7 because that is the only way i know how to show that he's important to me. he thinks i make everything about me but i am simply afraid and i dont know how to bring up his issues. plus when i do, sometimes he'll just tell me off for it or not say anything. i dont know what to do https://40.media.tumblr.com/a1475b803d41497e5cc0847e9158d0c6/tumblr_nm3ogz4wm21qlehw2o2_r1_500.jpg this is from probably 4 years ago now but it's the only screenshot i can find and frankly it hasn't changed much since that

Me and my best friend are drifting apart and she is like the only person I have. I mean she doesn't really care about out friendship but idk what to do :/ I'm just a really really shy girl and it's so hard to talk to people.... Any advice?

I am 17 year old girl and the sports team I am on has a party at the end of the season.Prolem is its a drinking party(drinking legal age where I live is 19) and my parents don't drink and don't really want me drinking.The party is small only around 20 people and my parents know must of the kids (I have known all those invited for several years). they trust me and my teammates to be safe( my sports team is very close like a second family so none of us would ever date each other) and will most likely let me go but will expect me to drive home after the party which will not work because I am planning on drinking a little bit (like a few sips to one drink)so it would not be safe to drive home.I don't know how to convince them to let me sleepover afterwards though because the party is at a guys house , my parents know both his parents so that might help but since his Mom is a teacher only his Dad will be home (his Mom knows about the party),but most of the people there will be guys (like 12 guys and 8 girls).Also I feel it would be safe to sleepover as the guy hosting it is very responsible , all of the people invited are in high school , we are all like family to each other (friend zone level 90000: 2nd family), and I trust them , plus his Dad will be there.How do I convince them to let me go to the party and sleep over after it ?

I am very serious,and that actually happened .. The friendship is over ,what would you do?

Other girls when they dont like them. So my "friend" talks to me all the time. and in front of guys that she likes shell be really mean to me and make me seem stupid and shell stare at the guy to see if hes paying attention. also we play lacrosse and at practice she kept whipping the ball at my face and she KNOWS how to throw and the coach told her to stop throwing it at my face and she says "yeah rosa stop putting your face in front of the ball" wtf why would i do that!! Pisses me off really.

So I stopped sitting with a few friends of mine at lunch for a while, and I want to sit with them again tomorrow, but I'm not sure if they'll resent me. I don't think so, though, because it was really casual, I'm just friends with everyone so I just need a little push and reassurance..

I used to be the insane, outgoing, funny one of my friend group. I drifted apart from that old friend group, though, now I am onto one that is more crazy. They are trouble-makers. There is one guy in particular that is always wanting to do something daring. The way I was raised, I have an edge, but I don't break the rules. My friends mean the world to me, but I've had to go to the office 3 times this semester because of them influencing my actions. Now one of my friends "shunned" me in the hall and said he did it because "I just annoy him sometimes." He also flat-out called me the "goody-two shoes of the friend group." I'm not used to this. I'm used to being the crazy one. How do I change my reputation without crossing the line?

we are both virgins and are 16, we have known each other for almost 3 years. what are boys thinking when they ask their best friend to be FWB. why would you risk your friendship?

I am 15 years old, and I want to act like an 18 year old person in High School. I understand that some Seniors worry about College, and are more stressful than any other person in High School. I sometimes hang out with freshmens, but Mostly all of my friends are Seniors, so I usually hang out with them all of the time in lunch. They're not that mature, but I've seen other Seniors that are really Mature, and get respect. Others (like my friends) are stressful about college, (which I understand). When I hang out with the freshmens, It really Annoys me by how they act. They are freshmens, and I understand that they are immature. They run, and yell in public. I feel more mature than them. Sometimes I feel like walking off the freshmen group and say; "Bye, I'm hanging out with the Seniors" (but that would be a show off, or just an unexpected thing to do). They really don't have friends that are Seniors, so I feel lucky. One day, I was thinking of acting Mature in the classroom with freshmens, so I did it. I acted like a Mature 18 year old person in front of my classmates. Next thing I knew, they were trying to copy my work I did in a paper, they start talking to me, and they respected me. I want to do it again, But I want to know how Seniors really act How do 18 year old people act?? (Freshmens don't respect me just because they're jealous that I have friends and hang out with friends that are 18 years old) If I start acting Mature like 18 year old people do, they can respect me

Lo que me paso fue que estaba hablando por cell con un amigo mío que mi novio or ex novio no conoce, pero el es muy amigo mío de hace mucho tiempo, yo le había hablado a mi novio de el por que fue a vivir a Tennessee y yo me quede en Massachusetts y mi novio nunca lo llegó a conocer, ahora el volvió a Massachusetts y me está buscando invitandome a lugares y asi, y pasó que mientras yo hablaba con el por el cell, mi novio me llamó y yo no le contesté, no quería ser mal educada cerrándole el hablandome y después como 30min cerré y le llame a mi novio y le conté lo que había pasado y el se molestó mucho dijo que no tengo que estar hablando con otro hombre tanto tiempo y que le falte al respecto al no cogerle la llamada, al final terminamos discutiendo feo y terminamos al final, yo lo quiero pero no quiero que el controle mis amigos o con quien yo hable

So this boy kept calling me by my last name (which he knows I hate) and prank calling me(and doing other mean stuff) so I told on him and he knows it was me. I really want to prank him for April Fools Day. But I'm afraid he will just hate me more or take it the wrong way. Should I prank him or not?

Hi, everyone. I am having some issues with a so called friend and I would like other people's opinions and advice. In January I bought myself and my "friend" concert tickets. I used my dad's credit card to pay so her and I could sit together, and she told me that she would pay me back. Well, she still hasn't... She has a job and spends her money on other things, like her boyfriend, vacation, clothes, and now some other stupid show. I have already talked to her about it, but she doesn't seem to understand, and the interest on the purchase keeps going up. She says she wants to go,but it seems like she is avoiding me. I don't want her to go to the concert anymore and aside from that I'm just tired of her. She has a bad attitude, prioritizes stupid things, and is very petty. What should I say to her? I currently have both tickets in my possession, no way in hell would I give her hers, and someone else already asked me for her ticket. Thank you :)

hi there everyone. i am a 16 year old guy. there is this girl that is one year older than me. we're friends for like 5 months now, not close or anything. lately is started noticing that she is posting a lot of pictures about being positive in dark times and such ( which i did when i was depressed) anyways i think she might be depressed and im itching to just give some words of encourgment but i have many buts. will she accept it? what would she think of those words? she might think im a creep. and the questions just keep going. so my question is should i just do it and talk to her or just shut up?

My friend(yes really my friend) is often disrespected by her mother-in-law. She has asked her husband repeatedly to step in and ask his mother to kindly stop disrespecting her. In fact he still hasn't done this. In fact he lied to her once and told her he texted his mother and he hadn't! Yesterday they got in an argument about it and he destroyed their house. I went and picked her and her daughters up. Do you think the way to resolve this is by going back home and discussing it yet again? Or should she refuse to come back home until he shows her the respect she deserves which includes talking to his mother about the way she treats his wife and also making him clean up the mess he made? I have already put in my 2 cents, but always good to have free advice. Thanks in advance! Cinn :)

i don't know where to start with this. my best friend and i have been literally, and i mean literally, inseparable for the past 7 years. since we were 12, and we are now 19. we've gone through so much together and we don't go more than a day without seeing each other. not more than probably 4 or 5 hours without talking. it's honestly a major co-dependence issue. anyway. i am autistic. i have a hell of a time with social situations. i was the "weird kid" through my entire school experience. i've always been made fun of. my friend, he is the greatest friend i could ever ask for. i really love him with every bit of me. i'd go to hell and back for that guy. but he's always bullied me. on and off. all of my friends have, i'm a doormat and afraid so i just let people push me around. he's called me a retard, ugly, told me to go to hell, told me to kill myself, told me i'm the reason he self harms, told me i'm a constant embarrassment and he's sick of being seen with the weird kid, constantly tells me i look like "something's wrong with me." he especially gets angry at me for never expressing myself... but i don't know how. it's not a skill i have, talking about myself. he knows i am autistic and knows i don't have these skills but still just yells at me for "not listening to social cues." i'm scared of him, really. he is the one thing i have in this life and i'll let him walk all over me just to keep him as my friend. he is the reason i stay alive. (cont) whenever i say anything about myself, though, he calls me selfish and tells me all i do is throw a "pity party." i am diagnosed with severe depression, he is too, but he treats me like only he is allowed to be sad. but sometimes. most of the time, really, he is caring, kind, treats me well...we usually get along better than anyone could imagine. i don't know what to do. when i confront him about any of this, he just attacks me with everything he can think of. i'm very scared of (cont) ever trying to bring it up with him because i know he'll just go off on me about everything i've ever done that upset him or embarrassed him and then threaten suicide. he'll say he wants me to hate him so he can kill himself. it's a mess. i dont know how to show him i care because those skills are simply not in my head. all i do is hang out with him 24/7 because that is the only way i know how to show that he's important to me. he thinks i make everything about me but i am simply afraid and i dont know how to bring up his issues. plus when i do, sometimes he'll just tell me off for it or not say anything. i dont know what to do

I think I'll going to US in 2016 and I just want to make friends, and work on my English too! I am from Brazil and North America is my passion, so if you don't mind to give me your phone number, don't worry! We can have conversation on WhatsApp, anyway... Thank you! 😘 #swifties #directioners #sheerios #katycats. Email: nickohduff@gmail(dot)com , see ya there! 👼

I'm 16, and a guy, and I met a 12 year old girl at a Turkish-American festival, and the place we had the festival is a place we go to, but my mom doesn't want me talking to her even though I've told her over and over again I do NOT want to date her, I JUST want to be friends. It's hard being friends with teens my age, anyway, since I have autism. i currently have no close friends. and only 1 casual friend. How do I talk to this girl without my mom knowing?

I don't get it, my best friend and I have been friends for a year and we were super close, inseparable, this year were still close, but she has changed drastically. She cares way more about boys, and to smoke and drink, I don't care because it's her life, but I don't do that. She found this new friend who is really big on drinking and smoking and she's changed because of her. We keep in touch kinda, but its awkward now. Like its almost as if she is forced to talk to me. Like she never ever texts me anymore, it always is me texting her but sometimes I don't want to text her waiting to see if she texts me and she doesn't. She says she will and doesn't. We say hi I'm school but like it doesn't seem meaningful. Like last year we would joke. Laugh, smile,hang out all the time. I get friends change and friendships and she says she loves me and cares about me but I don't know anymore. I've been trying to distance myself even though its very hard because I really care about her, but when I'm having fun laughing and joking with other people I always see her staring at me, or shell talk to someone and look at me too. Well say hi and text sometimes but it feels so different and I'm so hurt. We used to be super duper close like we kissed as a dare just a peck, were "wives" always hugging, kisses on the cheek, I still get them but when were hanging out alone. Around other people its so different and never used to be. What changed??

Ah..... This is embarrassing to say. But yes, I have imaginary friends. Frankly, though I admit they are imaginary, I still refuse to believe that they kist don't exist point blank. They are so kind. And they make me so happy. Surely there has got to be some dark magic, some supernatural wish, some magic genie lamp that can make them real to everyone else? I know I'm in denial of the fact that it can never be, my imagination can't cross into the real world. But I WANT it to. This is just my odd way of comforting myself and telling myself that someone put there can help me make my best friends a reality. So.... Comfort me, why don't you?

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend because he was a cheater (at least 3 times!) and verbal abuser. Anyway, I saw him recently at a party and he cornered me in a hallway. He started getting agitated and then said we "had to get back together." I said "no" and started to walk away when he grabbed my arm and twisted. I broke free and kicked him as hard as I could right in the balls with my pointed cowgirl boots! After I rocked his babymakers, he fell down and puked while I stood over him and asked him if he could taste his nuts. His face was priceless! I guess I nailed him so hard his nuts swelled up to the size of oranges and one ruptured and had to be removed (I play college soccer so I know how to blast a ballsack!). I feel a little bad about what happened but he is now saying he never mess with a girl again and he even wears an athletic cup all the time to protect his remaining family jewel. My girlfriends on the soccer team now call me the "nut remover" and say I should hang up a fake pair of nuts like a hunting trophy on a tombstone background with the words "RIP Brian's Nuts-Destroyed By Girl Power" since I sent his nuts to "nut heaven." Other people say I should hang up a guy's athletic cup as a symbol of female power over male weakness (guy's nuts are so vulnerable and they need the extra protection). Any other good nicknames? And what should I hang up? The nuts? The cup? Both? The more names and ideas the better! Be creative! Just wish more girls could experience blasting a jerk's balls! It is such a great feeling seeing a supposedly tough guy go down with one kick. Must suck to have nuts. They are just two targets dangling between a guy's legs! One shot and it is all over.

This girl has always been friends with me but there always felt like weight on me. She left for two whole weeks, and everyone in the grade agreed it felt free. Then she came back, and it was tense. That's when I truly saw her. I knew she was always mean to people and I don't even know why I'm friends with her. Also, the follower thing. She is truly not herself, she copies, sometimes I feel bad. But now I have my best friends party and she doesn't want to invite her even though they're close. We need to tell her in a non-harsh way that will not hurt her as much. She is just a mean girl with no right to be like that to people. Any advice would be incredible. Please? This party is happening soon I need all the help I can get!

I have been looking forward to my best friends party for months, but i just realized that its on my moms bday! 😩 The party is at 6, so i was wondering if i should just spend the day with my mom and then go to my friends party, or just dont go at all? Help me please! I really want to go to my friends party, but i don't want to make my mom sad!!

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So a group of friends and I are planning on going camping soon. Initially it was just going to be me and my close friends, but some of them are thinking about inviting another friend that I've "fallen out" with? Basically, this guy was really clingy while we were still friends. He tried to isolate me from my other friends and was literally insecure about EVERYTHING. Seriously, hair, eyes, ears, you name it. Also he's really quiet, and not really a fun person to be around. Ater a while, I got sick of it and told him I wasn't interested in being his friend anymore. We parted ways, but he still hung out with my group though. We just didn't talk much. For the past year, he's been really passive aggressive to me, calling me names, kicking me etc. I try to avoid him but now my friends want to invite him on our trip ( only out of politeness, but still) I've talked about it with my friends, and they know the issues I have with him, but I also know he's still kind of a friend to some of them and don't want to be mean. How do I avoid this guy as much as possible during our trip?

I'm 16, I went to a festival at my Istanbul Center and met a 12 year old girl and spent time with her. But some people in previous questions thought I was trying to date her, but let me tell you, I do not want to date her. She's only 12. But shes nice to me and she's funny and fun to be around and I like her as a friend. But I have autism and Im worried Ill ruin this friendship like I've ruined every other friendship. History is not on my side. What to do?

Been bullied most of my life and people I get close to leave me I can't trust anyone outside my family without god knows what happen to me I know they love me but who else it is not fair people who hurt me are happy and I am not I am sad no friends nothing I feel like life is passing me by and I wish I could turn back time but I can't I am so lonely and feel I will be alone forever and I just wonder what is the point so much bad stuff has happened to me when will something good even then I might mess that up to sorry for rambling.

My friend has been taken like 6 500 mg of pms and other other things. On a daily. They said the pass few days they've been having bad chest pain. Also they got a shower and they told me just the water hitting the stomach made them want to get sick. They couldn't sleep or eat. What's wrong with my friend.

ok so i have this friend lets call him len (not his real name). So len and i, are practically best friends,weve been friends since 1st grade. So there's this girl and we liked each other and dated a few monthes ago then broke up. And lets call this girl stella (not her real name). So stella and I barley still talk anymore. We talk every now and then. But i got a feeling she hates me but i wanna find out if thats true. So len and ella are really good friends and text alot n stuff. During haloween a few months ago i told len that me and stella used to date but i think he forgot i told him that know but im but im not sure if he forgot or not. But tommarow im gonna when i see len im gonna ask him hey could u text and ask stella if she knows me. But im gonna tell him the truth as to why i asked him to do that tomorrow. Should i tell him the truth? And i forgot to add if she yexts len back im gonna tell him to then ask her if she hates me. Sorry this is long and excuse any mispellings and bad grammar im typing from my phone.

So tomorrow I've been invited to the house of an old friend that I haven't seen for 2 years. I'm afraid of meeting him as I don't know if he still likes the same things as I do and I'm afraid of it getting really awkward. I'm also scared of seeing his sister as I've done mean things to her before and when we have dinner (that's planned) I'll have to sit at the same table as her and my friend's dad who doesn't really like me. My mum said I'm not forced to go and I can make up an excuse. So should I go or not?

So I have a friend... yeah yeah he's a boy and I'm a girl. but we were friends and we were both just friends and it's been six months since I've seen him. that's a long time. we still text occasionally but I miss him SOOO much. I think about him all the time. I actually miss a lot of people and they all cross my mind all the time and I miss them soooo much. please any Biblr verses or advice or anything. I don't know wat to do. help!

When I noticed that my friend never invited me to go to parties with her, I asked her why. I am visually impaired, and she said that the issue is that the parties are crowded and loud and that she likes to move around and would feel bad about leaving me behind. This really angered me, because her words translate into saying that my blindness makes me a buzz kill and hat I am incapable of being independent and/or keeping up. Her saying this also shows that she has predetermined what I can and cannot handle, acting as if I am some helpless child. She has never even seen me in a party environment to know. I don't think that I want to be friends with anyone who thinks that way about me. It has hurt me more deeply than anything that anyone has ever said to me. Should I break things off? We have already signed up to be roommates next year, but I can't stand to even be in the same room as her.

I'm a freshman in high school and every table I get assigned to, I'm the quiet one, or the one who's left out of the group. Everyone else at the table (which is usually 4 people, including me) make friends with each other and they act like I don't exist. Sometimes they talk about me like I'm not there or as if I'm deaf. They'll refer to me as "she" or "her" and it annoys me but I don't know how to stop it. Sometimes they'll acknowledge me and that's the only time I speak. I know that I should try to speak more but I have severe social anxiety so I'm afraid of talking (I know it sounds stupid). The only time I act like myself is with my best friends. Does anyone know how I can talk more and be more social? Thank you :)

So when I go on to facebook I try to meet someone so I start messaging people that I don't know because i'm a person who doesn't have any friends (make fun of me laugh at me because I have no friends I don't care) and I want to change that through online being that i'm too shy to change that in real life. But anyways every time I message someone on facebook they just ignore me and never reply bad so my first question is How am I suppose to meet someone if they don't ever reply? and question number two is why are people d-i-c-k-s?? (I mean it seams like people are d-i-c-k-s nowadays being that i'm trying to meet them and they just ignore me)

Ok so let me get started about me first. I am a Indian boy freshman in high school. I like listening to Linkin Park, Skillet, Panic at the Disco etc. I am a really big computer/video game nerd( which I am happy about. But I have social anxiety so I am quiet and randomly become stupid ( which is when I talk the most). Though it seems people just try to avoid me. Like when on the bus somewhere I had the last seat a girl saw that it was open but she just got off the bus and waited for the next one. I don't smell or anything and i don't think i am that ugly. Can anyone see anything that makes me bad that makes everyone get away from me

So my birthday was 13 days ago, & I haven't gotten any birthday present. But then again, this isn't something unusual. I rarely ever get presents in general. I'm the type of person who likes to give a lot, but I get quite sad when I don't get something back; I don't care if it is cheap, I could even settle for a card. But then I also tell people not to get me presents when they insist :( I just feel really selfish when I actually ASK for a present, or ask for something. To be honest, I really do like receiving gifts. Even my boyfriend & best friend haven't gotten me a present! Every year I give my boyfriend something for Christmas, Valentine's Day, & his birthday, but I don't often receive something back. He's only ever gotten me a t-shirt and a key chain, & I know he & his family are well-off. It makes me really sad sometimes. My boyfriend & best friend even argued to get me something, but it's been a week & nothing at all. My parents also forgot my birthday as well, & I even forgot my own because I never do anything special for my birthday. It also hurts me when my best friend & I got my other close friends a Christmas gift & she got something but I didn't. Sometimes I feel like it's my fault to expect something like this. I mean, I actually really like giving presents to others and cooking lunch for them & stuff, but then I remember that I wouldn't get anything out of it, but I do it anyways. I feel unimportant. I'm sorry if I sound selfish, conceited, & spoiled.

Why do me and my best friend/ride or die fight on/off????? Are we too much alike? We hang out every one and a while, and we're in 0 classes together, yet, we're only 6 graders. We have been friends since the beginning of 5 grade til the end of 6 grade. We've always been there 4 each other through thick n thin. She's not my sister, practically my other half, lol. We make up so many times, its unreal. Please help😥😭

So i have three accounts. One is my real one, and the other two are ones i set up so i could freind all the people I hate and stalk them. If they ever unfriend one profile, I still have them on the other. What do i say to the guy i knew from highschool who ran off with the girl who was my best friend for seven years and, according to him, now hates me with every fiber of her being? Or do I just stalk him down and kill him in the middle of the night and make it look like an accident?

Is it bc were too much alike? Like fr, I never hated her, she never hated me, we just fought way ftoo much. Everythings fine then we fight. I hang out with her every once in a while. We have no classes together, yet, we're only 6 graders. We have had a lot of drama in the past. Please tell me why we fight so much and how to stop

Okay so I'm 17 and I work at Walmart and I have a 20 yr old coworker who I kinda like and sometimes I feel like he gives me signs that he likes me too. Do you think he might like me too or is it just wishful thinking on my part? -he always says hi when I pass by, even if he's busy on a till -he likes to poke me on my sides, arm etc (nowhere inappropriate though), punch me playfully, etc -he's pretty teasing and jokey when we're together, smiles a lot -usually seems interested in what I have to say And some others but I can't think of them at the moment However sometimes he acts distant and doesn't wanna talk so it throws me off and at this point I really don't have any clue if he likes me back or not. He also hasn't asked for my number or indicated that he wants to be my friend outside of work...so does he just see me as a work buddy or is there a chance for something more? We've known each other as coworkers for about a year now, so it's not like we just met.

I dont really like to wake up or go to school i dont want to even be in school nothings fun like it used to be i just used the excuse that i am bored with life and im slowly loosing all my friends its not cause i dont talk to them they are all moving and i used to i dont know define myself when i was around them i guess and my heart hurts i have been really down lately and i dont know what to do

So, long story short, I got into a huge fight with my 2 best friends and now we are done with each other. (Not talking to each other at all, deleted social media posts about each other, sat at separate lunch tables, ect.) I guess I should expect all of that, but now, my one (ex) best friend is doing things like giving me dirty looks in the halls and making grossed out noises at me whenever I pass by her. She is also doing things like purposely laughing loud with my other friend to make me "Jealous". Is this considered bullying? I honestly am dreading having to go to school tomorrow and see them. It makes me feel like i'm about to throw up. I feel so lost and alone in school because i'm so used to having them there. I have other friends, but I'm not as close to them as I WAS to my (ex) friends. Please help!? What do I do? I just want to go to school and be left alone by her without having to worry about going out into the halls and seeing her give me a dirty look and a disgusted noise. This really sucks. Please help. Btw, I am 13 and in grade 7.

My neighbour who lives above is a support worker and she supports me and 8 other members near me. She's not lesbian or anything . But she seems to cling to me, she knocks on my door a lot, and rings me, it's like when I went to my mums for the weekend she called me twice and left me voicemails and me thinking it was something important it wasn't, she'll messege me at like 10:00pm asking if I want to go up to her flat. She's just measeged me now saying "Do u want me to bring u some cakes down?" And she measeges me like everyday asking if I'm okay. She's always putting pressure on all the members to go on days out with her

well it all started when my friend moved to a different school and its not like i could come and visit her we arent allowed to hangout anymore now my friend is moving to the other side of the world and i always used to define myself as a fun crazy person but i feel like im literally loosing myself and i feel so lost

I occasionally manage to make friends with someone, but it always ends up with them losing interest, until they have something to talk about. They'll ignore me for days, or weeks, but when they've had a bad day, or want someone to look at their tacky selfie, that's when I hear back from them. It doesn't take long for them to go back to ignoring me. People at work laugh at me, and are malicious, and I have no one to go out with in order to meet new people. I had a few online friends, but they are just as bad, or worse. How do I find people who will give back what I put in?

So, long story short, I got into a huge fight with my two best friends and now we are done with each other. (We didn't talk to each other all day, sat at separate lunch tables, took post about each other off social media ect.) Well, now my (ex) friends are ignoring me completely. I guess I should expect that. But, one of my friends is making grossed out noises at me in the hall and giving me dirty looks. They also do things like purposely laugh loud so i'll hear them and get "Jealous." Is that being a bully? What should I do? I feel so lost in school because i'm so used to being with them. I have other friends but not as close as I WAS to them. And just the thought of having to go to school tomorrow and see them gives me a sick feeling in my stomach, almost like i'm about to throw up. I'll admit, it does make me a bit jealous, but I want to just be left alone without having to worry about going into the halls and hearing someone making grossed out noises at me and seeing her give me nasty looks. This really sucks. I don't want to go to school and see them. What do I do? Btw i'm 13, in grade 7.

Just wanna know xD Basically my friend and I are doing an online sex roleplay (Why not) and he says shelp, I just don't know what it means...

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