My wife has an issue with me becoming friends with a female Co worker. She does not like her at all and does not want me to even talk to to her. Wife says we should have the same friends, which seems to mean only her friends. I think she is just jealous because when she sees me with this other woman I look much happier (her words not mine). How can I get her to see reason. We are just friends and nothing is going in but my wife is throwing a fit and thinks I am already sleeping with this other woman, even though she has a bf.

He was is from AUS and I am from UK. I moved to AUS to be with him. The first few years was bliss and then slowly he disengaged, didn't communicate, became uninterested and I became frustrated. I'd try counselling (by myself, he went to one but was dismissive) I kept going to try to different tactics. He tried at times but very few and far in between. Right before our 5year anniversary i really felt like we were finally making traction and this year would be bliss. 'I asked why he was acting distant?' He promptly said 'that's it, its over..I can't do this anymore' he said he had felt this way for over 1.5years and can't go back' He left that night and has expressed he doesn't love me anymore and has applied for a job in the UK. He told his friends he is leaving and has made his mind up. Evrryone is surprised. I have no family here, his friends have disconnected. In 30 days, it is so fast. He recently emailed me saying 'even though were not together he still cares and hope I'm well.' He has taken away my marriage, in-laws,friends and our future. I always thought the best of him.I don't want to move back to the UK.I was finally beginning to feel at 'home' and he's taken that away from me. I am trying to slowly accept that this is how it will be from now on. I do not contact him or push him.in anyway.....I am just so distraught at how 30days...in this separation it has escalated so quickly. 5 years of marriage and it has come to this. Please advice or help. Will he come back?

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I've been married for 3 1/2 years separated for three months. The marriage was extremely abusive. I was tired of getting called names, getting abused physically, emotionally beat down, and humiliated every day of my life. Although there were wonderful parts of him that remained of the man I thought I had married, I eventually walked out when I found out that he was unfaithful once again. I found out that he had been seeing a woman from work. I confronted her and she said he denied my existence. We've been split since January 1st and I've began to move on. I found someone that I get along with and were becoming good friends while slowly dating. For the first month after my DH and I split I begged him to take me back because of the pain but he left me homeless on the street. Now that he sees I'm doing okay without him, he says he's a changed man because of therapy and he wants to show me that he does love me. Can a person really. Change that easily? Do I walk into that abuse again and abandon the opportunity for a new relationship that has the potential to be good just to give him another chance? To be honest, when I look at him nothing feels the same. He broke my heart too many times. He wants to love me too late. He could have changed when there was all that love I had to give him but he waited until I gave up. Please send positive answers. I need no extra negativity. Thank you. ❤

"Maybe if 'mommy/daddy' behaves for the doc, we can get a treat as well? (the kids were good for "their doc-appointment" & they got 'candy'/'treats'/etc...)

Why do man have to propose on one knee I think it is so stupid to this. If I ever marry I will refuse to propose on one knee I am just going to ask her and that's it.. what do you think guys?

I would've forgotten about him by now but at times, when I sit down, I make myself remember his existence. What's wrong with me?

or does pleasing your husband not concern you, and you just avoid sex with him entirely?

Do you think people view marriage differently now then say the 1940's/1950's era or earlier generations? I see many older elderly folks in my line of work. Very few divorced & those that did, had a second chance at love. The way they speak of their living or deceased loved ones is amazing. You can tell it's real, true love. I find they view love & romance much differently then the current generation. What are your thoughts? Do you find people are not marrying or are having children while not even engaged let alone married

I was using his phone last night (with his permission!) when a text popped up. I opened the thread and it was an unsaved number and the texts went as follows: Husband: Hi there. Hope you don't have plans this weekend… I could really use you! Number: Hey Tim! Nope, absolute free :) What time do you want me to come over at? Husband: Awesome! 7pm, Tara doesn't know Number: Haha, ok! See you then! So OBVIOUSLY I assume some funny business is going on. I confronted him, wildly. He then told me that number is our babysitter, and that I just ruined our surprise concert plans this weekend. He has decided to sell the tickets and cancel the sitter, and is calling our minister about couples counseling. I feel bad! Has this happened to anyone else? Lesson for all, don't jump to conclusions!

One of my co-workers is married and it seems like he and another one of my co-workers who is a college student are pretty flirty. For instance, he asked her to pass him the keys and she kept pulling them away when he tried to grab them, then when he grabbed a hold of them before she could snatch them back again, she playfully says, "Why are you trying to hold my hand?" He says, "You know my feelings for you." They also call each other hot. She has this teddy bear that she brings to work sometimes and he calls it their love child. It's weird he's like 40 and she's 21. Since she's not married is it a big deal? They hug for a long time often and he rubs her back. If say for instance she's busy writing something when he's about to leave, he'll take her pen out of her hand so she can hug him

Can a person forgive? I have waited for a long time and before i decide to move on or move away for good, I just wondered if people forgive each other after someone cheats on their spouse? We loved each other and were going to get married next year. But I crossed the line more than once with a co worker. I stopped and i was ashamed when he discovered. Turns out he was suspicious all the time while decided to just do it once and never look back. He decided not to continue with me anymore but we meet occasionally and i still feel that warmth from him when we shake hands or talk sometimes. I have told him that i want to work things out with him but no response from him so far? I knew a couple where the man cheated and his wife took him back and they are happy together. I don't condone cheating at all but i tired of waiting. I am about to give up on this but what if he makes up his mind later to get back with me? Should i reach him to ask him?

Hi, my husband and I have been married for 8years and have a 2 year old daughter. He is a lovely dad and nice human being. We have been separated for 8 months and we now decided to come back together for my daughters sake. I don't love him but the problem is that he still loves me. I never loved him and we were introduced by our parents and now that I've been on my own for a little while I've realised I don't have any romantic feeling for him. Now after being together for 2 months I can't even think of touching him in a sexual manner but at the same time I'm really horny. Because of this I've ended up cheating on him. I don't like this but don't know how to stop myself. I need help. He is a lovely guy and is making an effort in our marriage and I still don't feel anything for him. I just want what's best for my daughter and feel that I can sacrifice my life for her. But in reality it's not fair on either of us. I'm really unsure what to do. Please help :(