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- Question: Should I go to the baby shower?
- Question: OMG MY SON HAS A GIRL FRIEND AT SCHOOL! MY HEART IS BROKEN!?
- Question: I don't want to go to Cali with my family?
- Question: Is this normal my friend mom 60 and she has a child 14?
- Question: I hate my husbands family.?
- Question: My Mum is obnoxious but yells at me when I stay in my room?
- Question: My mom plays child favorites help?
- Question: Abusive parents please answer this?
- Question: Should I leave home?
- Question: What is this man thinking now?
- Question: Do I spend too much time with my mum?
- Question: Do men with multiple kids out of wedlock have low iq's?
- Question: What hair color should she get ?
- Question: I hate living so close to my mother in law?
- Question: How do I tell my mom to get help for her anger issues?
- Question: How do I get my mom to stop treating me like ****? I do everything for her I'm a 24 hour babysitter and I always clean. She still says I get?
- Question: Sister isn't talking to me? Am I wrong?
- Question: Should I move back out or continue staying with my family?
- Question: Help! im on my sons computer what is YOLO? is it a drug?
- Question: Im a disappointment?
- Question: I got fired from my first job? (16 years old)?
- Question: My grandpa just died I don't know if I should tell my mom?
- Question: I hate my Life, how can i make it better?
- Question: Help. I ******* hate my sister???
- Question: How to deal with compulsive nagging? and compulsive hate.?
- Question: How old do I have to be to live with only one parent?
- Question: Why does my dad smack my mom?
- Question: In a child custody dispute between relatives, who would win in this case?
- Question: Dad is dad?
- Question: How do i tell my gay son that i hate him and want him to kill himself?
- Question: Is it ok to fall for my 1st cousin (if his mom is my mom's HALF-sister), and should I tell him?
- Question: My father hasn't talked to me for a long time?
- Question: Are we handling this family issue the right way?
- Question: Can being lazy be a symptom of a mental illness?
- Question: What do I do.?
- Question: My parents are making me pay for lead abatement?!?
- Question: Would you charge your 19 year old kid rent?
- Question: Help with dad?
- Question: My dad abuses me ?
- Question: My dad abuses me ?
- Question: 10 year old stepson problems?
- Question: My sibling is Canadian can she sponsor me to live there? I am single and I'm 24years old?
- Question: My mom is crying because of me?
- Question: How do I avoid giving my parents the impression that I am a genetic failure?
- Question: Are all men hypocrite like that? We are fighting everyday as newly wed.?
- Question: Now realizing my plan bit me in the behind?
- Question: My brother walks around the house with a handgun!?
- Question: Best friend has an abusive mother?
- Question: I need help and examples?
- Question: Why do parents think they can do whatever they want, but Kids or teen or there young aldult kids cant?
- Question: My mom pulled my hair 5 months ago and ever since then our relationship is suffering?
- Question: How to talk to son's girlfriend about her buttcrack showing?
- Question: Dad won't let me!?
- Question: Is it OK to talk to my mom about this?
- Question: Sister seem upset HELP PLEASE need answers?
- Question: Mother kept from child by father?
- Question: What can mother do to see her child when child lives with father?
- Question: 2 dubs for a gram?
- Question: A few months ago I gave my nephew a cell phone and he lost it, what should I do?
- Question: My religious parents caught me sexting?
| Question: Should I go to the baby shower? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 01:29 PM PDT Recently my aunt on my dad's side of the family invited me to my cousins baby shower. For the past year, most of the people on his side of the family have been rude and very belittling to me, including him and his wife (stepmom). I'd like to go because I want to be there for my cousin, but because I know who all is going to be there, I don't feel comfortable going alone. My aunt is fine with me bringing someone if I want to, but two of my friends have already told me they can't go.. I'd like to go still but I don't know if I should either 1)try asking someone else to go with me or 2)just try going by myself or 3)not go at all?? Please let me know what you think I should do thank you :) |
| Question: OMG MY SON HAS A GIRL FRIEND AT SCHOOL! MY HEART IS BROKEN!? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 01:26 PM PDT His father left me in 2002, an I have not had a REAL man in over 13 years! Just all them men that's in love with me on the internet but there all ovarseas! How can my 13 year old idiot son, who is NOT the best looking boy in school, doesn't get good grades an ain't real smart, have a girl friend while I am the hottest women at work, have HUGE boobs an a hot bootie an I can't get ANY man intarested? That is STUPID. I am going to tell him he can't have a girl friend cause he ain't old enough (he is only 13) an their is NO WAY he is havin a girl friend when I don't have a man. NO WAY! |
| Question: I don't want to go to Cali with my family? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 01:17 PM PDT Every year we go for a trip to Cali to visit some of my dads relatives last year was really fun we travel by car BTW and it takes a day and a half to get there so its like a road trip but this year will be different because my sister won't be joining us and she won't be going the year after that too because she got pregnant she already has 2 kids and I just don't feel like going OK my parents are going to force me on going I just really prefer staying home how should I deal with this? |
| Question: Is this normal my friend mom 60 and she has a child 14? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 01:04 PM PDT Well she's actually 50 and she has a child that's 4, I was just wondering in 10 years , all her other children are teens :) I don't say it matters that much she is a great mother, just wondering :)) |
| Question: I hate my husbands family.? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 01:01 PM PDT I hate my husbands family. His sister is annoying and calls him constantly. How do I tell her to get lost. |
| Question: My Mum is obnoxious but yells at me when I stay in my room? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 12:47 PM PDT What can I do? My Mum chews and breathes loudly (both from her mouth and nose), snorts her snot/loogies, pops her awful-smelling gum against her teeth constantly and chews with her mouth open, but then yells at me when I stay in my room. She calls me a hermit and a liar when I complain about her gross habits. I used to have a set of ear-plugs but she took them away because it was 'rude to wear them around the house'. |
| Question: My mom plays child favorites help? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 12:44 PM PDT Okay so I am nineteen and in college and my brother is twenty seven in medical school with two kids. She basically yelled at me in the car today to change my college classes but I can t since they are full and hit me just because I talked back :\ Did I mention my brother is going through a divorce and she favorites him because she listens to his bullshit every night and takes care of the kids but for me when I need something, she tells me "Oh I am sick" I understand but still? She doesnt care about me or it looks like that. She is willing to do everything even risk her own life for those three.. |
| Question: Abusive parents please answer this? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 12:40 PM PDT I know for a fact my friend IS NOT lying! I have heard recordings and seen pictures of what his parents have said and done to him. Since he was 10 his parents have been beating him with belts(he just hid the bruses with his sisters makeup). His mom even gave him a bruised eye when he was 8 years old(she slammed a basket in his face). But he's been verbally abused since age 10 too. He is in 12th grade. Please don't say he can wait it out. That doesn't help, I'm just wanting to give advice to him. He may try and "spend" the night with somebody every few days to get away from the abuse. His mom also tells him that she doesn't care about him and that he has never been a priority to her. They had him at 34 and apparently he was planned but once he got older they stopped "liking him". His dad has even gone as far to say that this is "disaplene" and not abuse. Sorry for the spelling mistakes. Both of his parents deny the abuse when he tells counsellors etc.. they go as far to say "Oh that's never happened." So no one believes my friend even with his recordings and pictures. What should he do? |
| Question: Should I leave home? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 12:34 PM PDT I want to go live with my fiance and transfer colleges but my mother absolutely hates him. She gives me hell and threatens to take my daughter away if I do leave...should I leave anyways or just stay and finish college here? |
| Question: What is this man thinking now? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 12:34 PM PDT This man has 4 sons three are biologically fathered by him and fourth one Vikram is the result of his wife,s sexual affair with one of his friends .Every one can tell by looking that Vikrams features that he does not belong to the family.He accepted the fact and raised him as his own to save the family from humiliation every one will bee saying that his wife has cheated i he had abandoned vikram .all sons are grown up .the 3 one are living together in harmony and that Vikram creates problem for the family every day.One day I asked a relative of that man that why did nt he thow away that bastard which is causing problem now in his child hood when he was bor.he said to me thta he did a nice thing by raising that child as his own.that child is a man now and he is causing alot of problem for the family.he even fought people and they fought with his Vikram,s father back and police arrested him.I think he may be cursing himself by raising an othr man child he will not b ehis because he does not belong to the blood |
| Question: Do I spend too much time with my mum? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 12:29 PM PDT I'm a 16 year old girl and literally every weekend I go shopping or do something with my mum. My brother is 19 and all he ever does is spend time with his friends, I hardly ever see him and he's been like this since he was 15! I'm jealous of him and I find it embarrasing that I spend so much time with my mum -she's starting to get on my nerves now. I don't know what to do I don't want to be doing this when I'm an adult! |
| Question: Do men with multiple kids out of wedlock have low iq's? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 12:20 PM PDT |
| Question: What hair color should she get ? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 12:19 PM PDT My bestfriend is the one on the right in the dress . She wants highlights . What color would look good ? Pictures would be great too . Also do you think she has pretty hair ?. She's insecure about her curls |
| Question: I hate living so close to my mother in law? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 12:13 PM PDT When I first met my boyfriend (now my husband) he lived around a half hour drive from me. I am from the city he's from the country. After dating for a year and a half we wanted 2 move in together so I agreed that id move to his area as house prices were cheaper and I really thought I would like it as my mum was just a half hour down the road. I did like it for a while at the start, that soon changed when I really got to know his mother (she lives literally a stones throw away from us). She is very interfering and treats my husband like a child. She is constantly ringing my husband and asking him to do jobs around the home for her which I don't mind to a certain degree but she needs 2 realise we have a family of our own and can't be at her beck and call. We have a 5 year old son and another on the way, when I first had my son she would come to our house when my husband was at work and try and tell me I was doing everything wrong, that I was holding the baby wrong, lying him in the wrong position etc. I've tried talking to my husband about it but he says she means no harm and just wants the best for us, but I think she knows exactly what she's doing. I also don't get on with his sister from the moment I met her she has been very ignorant to me for no reason we recently fell out because she was ignorant to my mother, she can treat me whatever way she likes but I won't tolerate her treating my family bad. Anyway I just feel so isolated and I don't know what to do, we can't find a house in my area in our price range plus my son is in school here and i don't want 2 move him to a different school where he doesn't know anyone. I was made redundant a few months ago and I feel stuck in this area that I hate! I just wish I was near my family and friends and people Who care about me. I'm starting to really resent my husband too because why should he have everything he wants (his friends, family and work) and I feel like I have nothing I'm living his life and I want my own life back. |
| Question: How do I tell my mom to get help for her anger issues? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 12:08 PM PDT My mom has a bad habit at firing up at every little thing that happens to her. She SCREAMS at my 2 year old brother when he's crying, and most of the time he cries because of her behavior. She gets dramatic about everything. One example is whenever I'm just quiet she's like "WHY ARE YOU ALWAYS SAD YOU NEVER DO ANYTHING FOR ME YOU'RE A DISCRACE AND A TERRIBLE CHILD" then storms off, talking really loud to herself and slamming (REALLY LOUD AND HARD) every single cabinet. If something else makes her angry (probably a stupid little thing), she takes it out on us kids. She also drives extremely fast when she's late when she's not supposed to do that. I'm scared to tell her she needs help, and I'm not quite sure how. |
| Posted: 19 Mar 2015 12:04 PM PDT Nothing done around the house nor do I ever do anything. I can't do this anymore. |
| Question: Sister isn't talking to me? Am I wrong? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 11:53 AM PDT My husband and I live in a small home. I'm pregnant with twins. My sister has been making constant comments about how we won't be able to live in our house anymore and will have to move. I told her we were going to make it work at least for the time being. She then went so far as to say I was being selfish and it wasn't fair to the kids. The thing is, she actually lived in a single room in our parents' house with her husband and two children. I think it was for about two years while they saved for a down payment on a house. I brought this up and said that it was great for her to be able to buy the big foreclosure she got, but to remember that she had two kids and a husband in a single room for several years. I also said she had a lot of time to save for a bigger down payment because she didn't have to pay for any living expenses while she did that. So I wanted to know why it was a big deal for me to stay in a smaller home if it was fine for her to live in a single room for years with two kids. She became furious and called me a b*tch. Was I wrong to bring this up to her? Should I apologize? I was very tired of being put down because she thinks my small three bedroom isn't big enough for my family. |
| Question: Should I move back out or continue staying with my family? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 11:51 AM PDT I'm a 23-y/o college grad who's been living back at home with my family since February. My plan was to get a job here, save up, & then go back to school to get a second degree in August. However, at home, there's only 1 car & my mom uses it to get to & from work. I don't have my own car. My aunt, who lives here, is supposed to buy a car soon & has offered to take me to work then, but it might be a few months from now. That means I'm not working in the meantime, with August only 4 months away already. There's no public transportation where we live. Plus, I miss my old lifestyle a lot. Knowing all this, my mom has given me $1,500 of her tax return money to move back out. This means I get to go back to where I have friends, public transportation to get to & from work, & an apartment for $420/month with ALL utilities included. My aunt has offered to help me pay rent after my mom's money (2 months of rent) runs out & till whatever job I get starts paying steadily. I'm looking for something to pay between $800-$1000/month. The hiring season there is starting right about now. The cons are that I'd be taking a lot of $$$ from my mom. Then, I'd be relying even MORE on family to help me out (groceries, pocket money, & even rent) until I have real income. Should I take the money my mom is offering & move out? Or follow the original plan & stay at home, hoping to be able to save up enough money of my own by August? |
| Question: Help! im on my sons computer what is YOLO? is it a drug? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 11:48 AM PDT |
| Question: Im a disappointment? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 11:44 AM PDT My parants hate me |
| Question: I got fired from my first job? (16 years old)? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 11:32 AM PDT I am 16 years old, and I got my first job at a fast food joint about a month ago. My manager fired me today OVER TEXT. She said I wasn't catching on fast enough, and that summer was coming and it would get harder. I have only worked 10 shifts, and I think I was doing fine for my low experience. Anyway, the Manager was really b*tchy and so we're like two of the employees that I could not stand. It was a really bad/unorganized environment and I'm happy to be gone, just pissed I was fired. Also, I don't know how to tell my dad about it, he is a hard a** and mean to me. If he finds out I got fired he will call me a lazy piece of sh** and I will never hear the end of it. He already still calls me lazy and asshole WHILE I HAD THE JOB. So if he finds out I got fired he'll be pissed. It was my idea to get the job in the first place but he's just like that and gets unbelievably mad at everything. Anyway. I was supposed to work this Saturday and I don't know what to do I can't tell him. Also I don't get my license till June, he takes me to work so I can't just drive myself and pretend to go. Help?? :( |
| Question: My grandpa just died I don't know if I should tell my mom? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 11:31 AM PDT Our family is really close but she's at work and has to drive a long way back. should I tell her now? I'm just afraid shell look on FB on her phone before she heads back and will be crying anyway |
| Question: I hate my Life, how can i make it better? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 11:08 AM PDT Ok, I m 17 years old, Male, from USA But born in Russia & Middle Eastern. I live with my Mom and the rest of my family is in russia!! My mother is 60 years old (I m youngest) but she still works as a babysitter, and supporting my sister, two brothers who are ***** married and can t even support them selves.. I hate the life that My mom and I have!!! (about me) I go to HS, 12 grader and can t wait to graduate!!! but I hate going to school, hate how people bully me, We live in apartment! and the rent bill is soo expensive! I only see my mom once in a week it s like living alone!! but i do work part time job after school to help my mother, I always wanted to buy an Iphone but can t make it :/.. My sister have a liver disease and needs alot money for the treatment!! My mother works so hard for my sister!! she have a husband who is ***** retarded and lazy mother fuker who lives in my Mothers money!!,, Life is so hard and I m trying my best to become something and support my family!!! |
| Question: Help. I ******* hate my sister??? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 11:04 AM PDT She is my villian. If everyone had a villian or bully in their life my sister would be mine. She is a perfect little estj diva who wants to be a creative perfoming actress at the same time. I think infp/ enfps would be better actresses but acting and performing arts is her thing. Either i am going crazy or she is jsut very annoying and evil. She also supervises me and other people and wants to control my who life and put me in a box. She gets the whole spotlights and everything her way I was cursed to be born with her as my sister. I cannot have a personality, only she can. She is the funny one, the smart one, enobservant one, the hipster one, the bossy contrlling one, the talkative one, the interesting one, the organized one, the clean one, the creative one, the happy one, the nice one, the affluent one, the stylish one, the trendy one, the one who has to be the center of atgention and who bosses me around all the time because accorindg toh er I suck at everything. She also says I am always late and really slopping and am just not eprfect like she is which she hates. She always has to be the center of all converstions. She wants everything to be about her. I ******* hate. I am mad all the time and its usually because of her. She buys me things to get me to like her which is very phony. She is ruining my life. I canmot act be funny or have friends because that is her thing. I am turning 22 years old this year and jsut don't want to listen to her bullshit about me, tell me who I am and what I should do with my life. about me, tell me who I am and what I should do with my life. |
| Question: How to deal with compulsive nagging? and compulsive hate.? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 11:01 AM PDT So my mom is this popular sweet lady, she really is and I love her. But she nags me all the time! She doesn't yell or anything but keeps repeating it and staring at me. For example in the middle of me eating food she will tell me to take the dog out, if I continue eating (already feeling awful) she will stare, nag again and again till i just want to die and then say in this loud voice ' its OK I'll go ahead and take her out since I've finished eating'. Then my dad starts yelling at me to take her out. In the end I either have to take her out or have a petty argument that makes me feel depressed and hopeless. All over a walk that could easily have waited five minutes. Thus goes on the whole day...if I don't want to go out with my parents and want to stay at home, my parents make this victim face and then give me an impossible list of work. Then when they come back and even one of them is not done, they get all huffy and tell me of the time when they were young, making me feel a lot worse. They've inflicted so much guilt and self hate in me that I feel that even if I move out I'll fail. And I have this consuming fear that I'll fail them. And when I usually do fail them, like not doing the house work and so on, I fuel my feeling of self hate. How to get out of this circle? |
| Question: How old do I have to be to live with only one parent? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 10:58 AM PDT I don t know the Vermont guidelines for divorced parents.. I hate my dad and I want to live full time with my mom, however, I don t know if I am able to do that. I want to see my dad every other weekend. He basically prefers my other sibling and never lets me express my feelings (whether it is civilized or not). I need to know if I am able to do this and how old I have to be... If you are wondering my mom is completely okay with me living full time with her. |
| Question: Why does my dad smack my mom? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 10:42 AM PDT |
| Question: In a child custody dispute between relatives, who would win in this case? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 10:41 AM PDT I'm writing a book, and in the book a woman is trying to adopt her younger, autistic siblings. She's a recent college graduate, so she'd be in her early to mid twenties. She's fighting with her aunt and uncle for custody. Who would get preference? Note that the aunt has Lupus. I haven't worked out every detail yet, but the woman will probably have a paid internship somewhere or some other type of job when she files for adoption. |
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| Question: How do i tell my gay son that i hate him and want him to kill himself? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 10:35 AM PDT this was my son guys im really sorry he got on to this and was being dumb me and my wife have grounded him and took everything away from im sorry guys |
| Posted: 19 Mar 2015 10:24 AM PDT Meaning he's not my full first-cousin. I'm 17 and I've already had a crush on him since I was 7. My own brother bullied me sometimes, but my cousin (who's his age) was always gentle (as a 14 y/o, he didn't mind to play with me all day long, who was 7). I missed him a lot when my aunt took him to move to France, but he's been back to work here since last year (he's 24 now). We did keep contact during his years abroad per mail and Skype (although not really often). I guess he also likes me, b/c he takes me out sometimes and treats me like an adult. My mom heard from his mom that he's broken up with his long-time girlfriend (they had dated for 5 years), b/c that French girl was pregnant with another guy. He has never told me about this, but tbh I was glad when I heard the news through my mom (I know this is bad from my part). That's the 1st time I realize that I love him. Last week he invited me out to celebrate my birthday (b/c my family is away), and I've never been treated like that before by my previous boyfriends. Like, he's such a gentleman, holding the door for me, taking off my coat, etc. Since then I can only think about him and nothing else. And he's so handsome. Should I tell him my feelings? I think he likes me but sometimes I'm in doubt, b/c he doesn't let me to sleep over at his apartment (he prefers taking me home, although I so wish to stay overnight). Maybe he's holding back b/c we're cousins? But it's not like we're cousins of full-blood. So is it ok? P.S. I think he loves me b/c when I complained that no one ever sings for me (for my birthday), he just took a guitar and played a Beatles' song for me ("In my Life"). Isn't the lyrics just very suggestive? Pls listen to it on Youtube if you haven't heard the lyrics, and would you tell me what you think? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UKQpRgxy... He also said that I'm not a tomboy anymore (I used to be), and that it suits me much better (to be feminine). |
| Question: My father hasn't talked to me for a long time? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 10:24 AM PDT Last year, I moved to Florida and got engaged. My father does not approve of me being engaged because I am still in college and he hates my fiance because of his nationallity. We got an apartment and started new jobs and are doing ok. I feel good about my life right now, but my father hasn't talked to me since. I was really close to my dad before so the fact that he doesn't even want to hear my voice breaks my heart. I don't feel like I'm doing anything wrong. We fell in love and decided to start a life together. I understand he's concerned about me, but eliminating me from his life completely is just going too far. The other day my mother wanted to send me some money as a gift so that I can buy a new blender and she told me that my father told her not to even dare give me money because I am not their problem anymore. I feel so torn apart. I love my fiance and I love our plans and we are doing so good, but I hate the fact that I'm living in guilt. I walk around feeling like crying all the time because I feel like im doing something so terrible. So terrible that my father wants nothing to do with me anymore. Sometimes I feel like packing my bags and just going back to my parents house and forget everything. I havent done anything wrong. I'm an adult. I should be able to make my own decisions and not feel like im the worst thing in the world because I make my own decisions. I am not a teenager. Im 23 years old. Why do I feel like this? And why does my father hate me? |
| Question: Are we handling this family issue the right way? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 10:14 AM PDT My husband's aunt kept inviting his ex/baby's mother to our family functions against our wishes. We explained to her that we felt wierd with her there but she still showed up. We got the point that she didnt care how we felt so we have just stopped talking to her and dont plan on going to anything the family does together. How would you have handled this? |
| Question: Can being lazy be a symptom of a mental illness? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 10:04 AM PDT My sister is 22 and she hasn't done much with her life... I mean she has had a few jobs (more than me) but she quits them rather quickly. She didn't go to college, she doesn't help around the house.. or help our parents out. She spends most of her time in her room, doing nothing. She used to like doing puzzles and little crafts, but she doesn't do that.. sometimes she orders projects from online but she starts them and never finishes them.. she used to like watching television.. and she doesn't even bother with that now. She has no boyfriend.. I'm positive she is still a virgin.. and not because she's bad looking... cause she's not... she's just lazy. She is also sensitive... (she has always been sensitive, her feeling get hurt real easily and she cries easily) She has a short temper around us (her family).... whenever she's called out on her lack of doing.. she flips out and goes back into hibernation. She can be pretty mean sometimes.. she tends to be blunt and to the point.. no nonsense. She is definitely not on drugs.. although she occasionally drinks and I know she has smoked pot at least twice before. I'm starting to get worried that she will never leave my parents home.. I can't talk to her about my concerns because we have never been real close and I know she won't listen to what I have to say. How can I help her? (help her without telling her I'm trying to help her) Does it sound like she's just lazy... or does it sound like something else? |
| Posted: 19 Mar 2015 09:59 AM PDT Hello my name is Johnny. I am 16 years old and a sophomore in highschool. I have an older brother and a younger brother. My younger brother is 1 year younger than I am. Him and I have always been close for my whole life. My older brother is a different story. When I was in 2nd grade. He got me to smoke cigarettes, weed, and other things. He is a caring and sensitive person but once he is on drugs he isn't. He has been off and on drugs for most of his life. He has sold so much of my stuff that I can't help being angry toward him. My mom is super strong. My brother battled with drugs and she helped him get through ithey. My older brother is 21 now and sober again. I live with just me, my mom, and my younger brother. Ever since my older brother got me off the drugs in 2nd grade I've been struggling with school. When I started sophomore year I decided I wanted to get a job because I just got my license and just turned 16. I got fired on the 2nd day and they didn't tell me why. I cried. I never cry. My friend jacob got me smoking weed and my younger brother. I hate that I got my brother smoking. Whenever I have any, I ditch him and smoke with my friends. I smoke almost everyday now. I ditch school a lot. My mom is very lenient and rarely catches us doing anything bad. I feel worthless. i don't know what to do. Nobody cares enough to stop me from wasting my life. I have no energy or motivation to go to school everyday or do anything. Help.! What could I do.? |
| Question: My parents are making me pay for lead abatement?!? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 09:54 AM PDT I'm 22 years old and graduated college last May. I've been living at home with my parents and working full time, with plans to move out at the end of this summer. A few months ago I decided it would be cool to revamp the old cast iron radiator in my room by stripping the paint off it and polishing the metal. Like an idiot, I didn't realize that the house is pretty old and has a lot of lead paint. So I started scraping the paint from the radiator, but when my mother heard what I was doing she told me to stop because it was probably lead paint. I stopped right away and left the radiator as it was, with only a small portion of the paint removed. Flash forward a few months, and my mother has read some article about lead poisoning. She tested the radiator in my room and it is indeed lead paint. Now she's running around absolutely frantic and making plans to have the house abated. She has a quote for $9500 and she's saying that I have to pay for it since I scraped the radiator. UM!? I'm sorry but that is literally all the money I have saved and if I pay for that it will be ages before I'm able to move out. I shouldn't have scraped the radiator, but at the same time it's been flaking for years and this is their house and their financial responsibility. Am I in the wrong here? |
| Question: Would you charge your 19 year old kid rent? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 09:54 AM PDT she works full time, get rides from me to and from work 3-4 times a week, showers & sleeps at home 3 times a week, buys her own food & toiletries. |
| Posted: 19 Mar 2015 09:20 AM PDT My dad had a heart attack last year and I am still a teenager. He started having mood swings. I love him and he's a great dad but I don't know what to do and I'm starting to become depressed. Please help! |
| Posted: 19 Mar 2015 08:55 AM PDT My dads crazy I'm thirteen years old just the other day my dad punched me in the stomach multiple times and then started slapping me then he started pinching me then I left and he started biting me. I hate him for what he did I just want him out of my life I know the boundary line between abuse and a woopen |
| Posted: 19 Mar 2015 08:51 AM PDT I'm thirteen years old and I'm not on good terms with my dad nothing's he's crazy for what he did he hit me in the with his fist multiple times and started to smack me in my face he then got on top of me and started to pinch me then absent to another room then he started slapping me again then he started biting me. I try to tell somebody but my mom doesn't listen to me, I know the boundary line between a woopen and abuse . Please help |
| Question: 10 year old stepson problems? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 08:33 AM PDT My stepson is 10. I've been in his life since he was 6 (when I married his dad). We had a baby 8 months ago and right now I'm a wreck. My stepson hates the baby! He hates her. I can't leave her down in case he hurts her. He's hit her, bitten her, stood on her finger, tried to put sharp things in her mouth, tried to squeeze her head, spits on her, makes her cry, pushes her and does everything within his power to hurt her. His mom is no help and has told my husband that we're on our own with it. My husband disciplines his son and has told him he could seriously hurt our daughter, but my stepson doesn't care. My husband spends plenty of time with his son when he's with us and they have 1:1 time, but nothing seems to help! Most of the time when he's at our house, we keep the baby and him apart (unless I'm the only adult in the house) and even then, I don't let her out of my sight for a second. But it's affecting me badly. I'm paranoid, I'm stressed out every weekend and it's affecting how I sleep. I just can't relax when we have him and I feel like I'm going to have a breakdown. I can't even leave the house if I'm the only adult with both kids because he refuses to go with me and the baby. My husband sometimes has to work on weekends and so he can't always be here. Please, does anyone have suggestions for us? |
| Question: My sibling is Canadian can she sponsor me to live there? I am single and I'm 24years old? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 08:31 AM PDT |
| Question: My mom is crying because of me? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 08:20 AM PDT My mom and I have a good relationship but nowadays we get in a few fights because of things like I don't respect her and I feel like she doesn't understand me. I love my mom so much, she means everything to me, but yesterday she said something that hurt my feelings. I got mad and sighed before going upstairs, completely showing that I was super pissed. The next day I kind of accused her of not coming and apologizing to me of what she said and she was like I of course felt sorry but after you acted like that and didn't come out of your room i was mad as well etc. and we were in a public place and i kept saying things and today i apologized to her really but it ended up with me crying again. my mom went downstairs and i could hear her sniffling a bit and i love her so much and i sent her a long paragraph saying I'm sorry for everything and afterwards i found her crying so much in her room. i hugged her and cried too but she told me to go to sleep. i really don't know what to do. |
| Question: How do I avoid giving my parents the impression that I am a genetic failure? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 08:08 AM PDT Recently my dad has been insisting that I start playing basketball, regardless of the fact that I have been getting plenty of exercise. His excuse is that I need "hand eye coordination", but recently he also asked me if I would use a pull up bar if he got one and said I should develop my upper body. My belief is that he doesn't want me to be a "loser" and likely wants to make sure I "spread the genes", but I have no interest in that for both racialist (my parents are of different backgrounds) and spiritual (see St Paul on celibacy) reasons. It is not in my interest to provoke this conflict, so how can I calm it? |
| Question: Are all men hypocrite like that? We are fighting everyday as newly wed.? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 08:07 AM PDT My husband and I are newly wed, but we lived together since we first date. Our room-mate moved out and left behind his dog, that I took care most of the time anyway. So this dog was from shelter and act more sensitive toward food and man. Recently my dog developed an attitude toward my husband (because my husband practically hurt him a few time), now he would growl to my husband in the house and has a tendency not letting him walk by the hallway to our bedroom. Well, he is stress, I understand, and I try to convinced him to feed him to build a relationship with him, he said he wants nothing to do with this dog, it would be fine if they are peace with each other, now I have to leave whatever I do when ever he needs to walk to the bedroom if my dog is here. I brought both of them into training center, and the trainer recommend a few things, and he was so pleasant and agree with the trainer. When I suggest him to feed, he yelled and said I want nothing to do with this dog. SO I asked, you were faking all these time during the session, he said YES. The vibe at home is bad, I don't feel comfortable doing anything around him, we don't have common interest and things to talk. I feel like we are very apart. But I love this dog despite all his problems, the dog listens to my commands and all and all and I never have a problem living with this dog. What should I do. I am already sitting in marriage consultant's office 3 weeeks after we married. |
| Question: Now realizing my plan bit me in the behind? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 07:50 AM PDT I am a newlywed, and my husband has 13 years on me. He just retired after his business went public. When we were dating, the kids topic came up and he said he wanted kids by 40. I went along with that idea because I was so into him. But in reality, I'm not sure if I even want kids. We do a lot of traveling and go to all sorts of functions, and I just don't think I want a kid to take away from our fun. Well, now we're married and with him nearing 40 he is really itching to hurry up and have a baby. I'm still not wanting a kid. But he's the guy I always wanted and treats me like a queen. Should I just view this as a trade-off? Have a baby to please him, in exchange for the wonderful life he gives me? |
| Question: My brother walks around the house with a handgun!? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 07:44 AM PDT My dad and brother are the type of people who are hardcore about weapons and defense and I get that it is your right as an American to carry a gun with a permit, but they are taking it a bit too far I my opinion. They recently went to about 4 different gun shows and my dad bought my brother a handgun and he's 19. In my opinion a 19 year old boy shouldn't be carrying around a gun. He's been taking it out and carrying it around the house and he will pretend to shoot things even though it's not loaded, thank god. But it's just rediculous and even though they say they have them for defending our family I still don't feel safe about it. My dad Carries a handgun with him everywhere he goes and Im fine with it because he's older and obviously more responsible and experienced. But my brother is very immature for his age. He only does what he wants when he wants and he doesn't even have a job 2 years out of high school. Just this morning I went to the kitchen to make breakfast and he comes out and sets his gun on the counter and goes to get a drink. I asked him why he put it on the counter and why he doesn't just keep it in his room and he says: "because what if someone comes in and ribs our house right now? I don't want to have to go to my room to get it. And it's my ******* right to have my gun on me on my property and in my house so you don't have any say in it!" Im seriously sick of it. My mom feels the same way. I don't feel safe in my house anymore because of him. |
| Question: Best friend has an abusive mother? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 07:43 AM PDT You see, she comes from a rich family (her mom's side), but money is all they care about... Her parents are divorcing, which is actually really good for her- her mom emotionally and mentally abuses her, she lies to her, calls her a no-good child even though she does nothing wrong, and constantly shelters her from the world, she's even hit her. She also hates when she goes to see me, because apparently I'm an "anorexic slut" and a "bad influence." But then she bribes her with toys and video games so my friend won't turn against her. Her dad, on the other hand is really nice to her and tries to get her involved in stuff, and actually tries to protect her when her mom goes batshit crazy. Her mom is also doing the most extreme things to get full custody of her. From trying to accuse the dad of "abusing" her (her grandma caught the mom hitting herself), to even making fake facebook accounts so she can take even the smallest post and give his side of the family a bad rap; even though she's a repeat offender. She wants to live with her dad, but her mom is not happy about that. If her mom does get full custody, my friend's not gonna be allowed to talk to me ever again. She's 14, what can she do? (she cant just run away) |
| Question: I need help and examples? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 07:28 AM PDT I need specific and drastic examples of a situation that would cause a parent to stop loving or generally hate their own child. I'm using it for a story and one i've got is killing the spouse of said parent or taking the forced blame for the death of the spouse of said parent. To you, what is an example of any reason why a parent would stop lovin their own kid? |
| Posted: 19 Mar 2015 07:24 AM PDT I mean they got to leave and go places when 18. Also when they were kid they got to do whatever they want. Well here a story of a little girl, the little girl came home from school and had a bad day and the mother was not in the mood and didnt want to talk about it. The little girl had to do chores, she did it, but you know when your depressed you dont wanna talk to noone. So the little girl did the dishes, and forgot that she spill some water on floor. The mother comes out and steps on it, and was mad as heck. She goes running down the hallway, You Dumb ##### You left water on floor. The little girl said Im sorry, I will do better. The mother says Shurt up and Smacks her. And then the little girl tried to hit back but mother grabs her and chokes her, then pins her on floor, choking her constantly she couldnt breathe. So, the little girl had blood all over her, the police found her dead. Why the heck are PARENTS allowed to DO THE *** THEY WANT? |
| Question: My mom pulled my hair 5 months ago and ever since then our relationship is suffering? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 07:22 AM PDT I was sick in November and I remember I had taken cough syrup since I was really sick with the flu. And I just remember feeling light headed and I kept laughing and teasing my brother. And saying c*ck. My mom kept asking me to stop but I didn't because I was a little loopy. And then she got up and grabbed my hair and yanked me off the couch. At that point, I pushed her off of me and yelled, "Don't you ever f*cking touch me like that. Don't ever disrespect me like that." And then I started crying so hard. And left the room and everyone was shocked. The thing is, I'm 19 and I was in an abusive relationship 1 year ago that has permanently affected me. I'm sad that my mom and I aren't close like before. We fight a lot now and the last time we talked about what happened she still said it was my fault that she pulled my hair. |
| Question: How to talk to son's girlfriend about her buttcrack showing? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 07:14 AM PDT My son's girlfriend is a lovely girl but earlier I caught a glimpse of her butt showing when we were sitting on the couch. She noticed and then pulled her trousers up but later on they came down again and it started showing. How can I tell her in the least embarrassing way that her crack's hanging out? |
| Posted: 19 Mar 2015 07:09 AM PDT why don't I get to do things on my own I'm 19. For example, he will not let my exercises out side on my own why is that? |
| Question: Is it OK to talk to my mom about this? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 06:58 AM PDT My mother is staying with my husband and me for a few days while her house is being remodeled. I am loving it. Every morning she has a hot breakfast with home made biscuits, ham and eggs. Working moms, can you appreciate how great that is. I got up early one morning and there was mom in the kitchen working. She had on a loose fitting robe and nothing else. Everything was visible. I told her she had to get some more clothes on before my husband got up. Otherwise at breakfast, he would get a b0ner and I would have to take care of him. Mom said "And how is that a problem". We both had a BIG LAUGH. I was relating this conversation to my female friends and they told me a daughter should not be talking to her mom about sex like that. It is just not normal. Please tell me if you think I was doing something wrong with my mom. |
| Question: Sister seem upset HELP PLEASE need answers? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 06:55 AM PDT So me and my sister work for the same company. Our scheduling manager basically made our schedule and then days later changed it all up. I gave him a called and told him that i couldnt work the hours he has given me as i have stated during my interview and many other times of him making the schedule. So he changes it, but in the process he basically put my sister on the days i couldnt work and she calls and ask me can i babysit and i told her no because i will be out of town. I didnt mean nor know they would be putting her on for days i couldnt work. She sounded prettt upset and hung up in my face. I feel bad that this happen but the other half of me is saying she has a bf who do nothing and she has her childrens father whom she still sleeps with who does nothing and that can be another day he can spend with his kids because honestly i would ask my man b4 anyone else. I feel really bother by this but im trying to convince myself otherwise. Advice please |
| Question: Mother kept from child by father? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 06:00 AM PDT what can mother do to see child who lives with father and she has the right. mother is suppose to have child every other weekend and every other holidays and father does not allow this |
| Question: What can mother do to see her child when child lives with father? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 05:58 AM PDT |
| Posted: 19 Mar 2015 05:49 AM PDT Wtf is the price . |
| Question: A few months ago I gave my nephew a cell phone and he lost it, what should I do? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 05:41 AM PDT a few months ago I gave my nephew a old cell phone, I recently found it under the bed whenever I was cleaning, I asked him where it was and he lied to me and told me that it was at school. I recently found the phone I put it my desk,well he was looking for a marker and found the phone in my office desk and I told him he was not getting it back because he was lying and not being responsible! whenever I was out looking he took the phone anyways and brought it back to school. I told his father he told me I should not worry about it because I gave him the phone!! whenever I see him again what should I do? |
| Question: My religious parents caught me sexting? Posted: 19 Mar 2015 04:46 AM PDT It was really embarrassing how it all happened. Long story short, my parents saw the messages and they now hate me. They are quite religious and didn't expect this. My mom is super pissed and hates me, and so is my dad. But he just won't admit it. I just feel so ashamed and I feel like I can't stay here anymore. I don't know what to do. I'm just so ashamed of having then even look at me. I don't know what to do. |
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