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- Question: Daughter got taken away from mother. How do I find out what happened to my daughter?
- Question: How do i get my parents to let me go to normal school and not online school?
- Question: Do you know any websites that help you with parents calling you names?
- Question: How can I resolve a 4 year old fight with my brother?
- Question: I need advice. Please don't come on here immediately assuming leaving is what is best. I need HONEST opinions.?
- Question: Father forcing me please help need advice!?
- Question: Does my mother sound crazy or stupid?
- Question: Peppa Pig World - Question?
- Question: Was I spoiled for not making a big deal out of a new car?
- Question: How would you solve this problem?
- Question: How could incest happen?
- Question: If you were teased, put-down, and bullied by an older sibling for years (always made to feel less than your sibling and other people) did?
- Question: How do I tell my parents I can't live in city?
- Question: What should I do? Family Life?
- Question: Parents Can't Come Up with a Reason For Grounding Me?
- Question: How to deal with an unruly teen?
- Question: Would this be disrespectful to his family and/or the community?
- Question: How can I get my guardian to show me affection?
- Question: Traveling outside the U.S with a minor.?
- Question: My mother (93) wants me to move to the same city she lives in. should i ?
- Question: How can I get back at my mom without sticking pizza crust up my butthole?
- Question: My grandma just died, what should I do about the funeral?
- Question: Sometimes you've just got to smile through the bullshit u don't realise how hard I is until u seeing better daysMy childhood I was a happy?
- Question: I want to help my bipolar brother-in-law but i don't know how.?
- Question: My mother says I'm antisocial and that I'm evil?
- Question: Single mom looking to move to Myrtle Beach SC?
- Question: I think my dad is acting strange and cheating on my mom!!!?
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- Question: Mom won't let friend come over?
- Question: Why are my parents so hard on me?
- Question: What should I do about the fight?
- Question: What do I do about angry cousins? Help?
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- Question: Is incest the best? Like is it better then if it's not your brother or sister? I need some help and opinions....Thanks?
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| Question: Daughter got taken away from mother. How do I find out what happened to my daughter? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 01:10 PM PDT The mother of my daughter ran away with my baby girl 6 years ago and cut off all contact with me. I wasn't able to find my daughter for years. One day I got a letter in the mail informing me that I had court over the custody of my daughter because she was taken away from her mother, along with her new baby. I did not have the means to take her at the time and they did not tell me what happened. |
| Question: How do i get my parents to let me go to normal school and not online school? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 01:02 PM PDT i tried that but they gave me the BS keep in contact via FB(doesnt work) and meet new friends |
| Question: Do you know any websites that help you with parents calling you names? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 01:01 PM PDT |
| Question: How can I resolve a 4 year old fight with my brother? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 12:55 PM PDT This is a very long story that I will try to condense as much as possible. I have 2 younger brothers. Back in 2010, we decided to create rules in which we were not allowed to like each other's interest, such as music or movies, ect. The 1st brother has never followed these rules. He does whatever he wants. 4 years ago, he discovered that back in 2007, I liked a Japanese band, which is part of his rules. But, the rules weren't created until 2010. A huge fight broke out. He told lies to everyone we know. They all believed him, and no one ever looked at me the same. None of it was true. and I tried to tell them that. After all that fighting, he continued doing whatever he wanted. I got so upset with him that I stopped following his rules, and started liking Asian stuff, which was his biggest rule. When he found out, all hell broke loose. The lies continued, and so did the fighting. He hates me now when he used to be so close. I regret my actions, and wish more than anything that I could take them back. It's been 4 years, but he still brings it up like I'm the worst person who ever lived, while he still does whatever he wants. How can we resolve this stupid fight? Am I in the wrong? If so, please tell me. He won't listen to reason, and says that he can do whatever he wants and not me because he's a "man" he sure doesn't act like one. Thanks for reading, and please help. Yes, I know that our 'rules' are absolutely ridiculous, and that we need to grow up. I agree. They weren't my idea. |
| Posted: 23 Mar 2015 12:54 PM PDT I married my wife after being together 5 years. Since, everything has changed. I work a 5am-4:30pm job much of the time. While I am at work she is tending to a "friend" of her's child. While I'm at work she's constantly taking pictures of the little girl, constantly exchanging texts with the parent, and in a perfect mood. I come home and every bit of that changes. She's no longer in a good mood, whenever I ask her if she's moody she tells me yes. I ask why and she says "I don't know." I say "there has to be a reason you are in a good mood all day until I walk in the door and then you're angry." I ask why and she gets p'od stating now my asking what was wrong is what made her angry, yet the "friend" could ask her the same thing and instead of beating around the bush, she tells her the problem. By the time I get home she has already deleted the text messages between the two of them, but claims the two of them are "only friends." A few days ago I received a text from this so called "friend" which was supposed to be to my wife stating "I will make sure I work you every day I say I am going to so that you don't have to be around your wife cause I know how much you don't want to be there" yet I WAS the one wrong for that text as well and told if I had a problem with what was said then I should take it up with her. She has literally broke down in tears because I was going to leave, but it was not over my leaving. It was over my taking the computer with me when I was going to leave. |
| Question: Father forcing me please help need advice!? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 12:49 PM PDT My father used to hit me, belittle me as also my mother and my sister. He verbally abused us. There was a time where it got out of control and I wanted to leave home and go in a care house for teenagers ( my father doesnt know that only my mother) but I felt like I owe my father so much he's highly intelligent and has a very high position in his business (hotel) and then I started a few months ago after it esqualated too stop talking to him, avoid and just say the most nessery things too him. Mostly on the weekend im not allowed out the apartment or mabey just on friday evening for 2 hours (I am 17 y/o) I and all my friends which im very close with and love alot will start working in August and I have my last vacation with them befor everyone goes there way. And my father said i have to go for those 5 weeks with him on vacation which is actually a wonderfull thing and I told him how gratefull I am but I asked politely if id be okey if i only stay half the time, dont go at all or my friends come to (theyd pay for themself) he freaked out on me told me how much of a piece of **** I am and said if i dont come with him hell put me in a strict boarding school for the whole vacation. And he will do that i know my father he did it with my sister and he will do it with me too. I dont know how to handle the situation or him he always degrades me and tells me my opion is noz valid because I must obey until I am 18 hedoesnt have to treat melike a dog PLEASEHELP what should i do? |
| Question: Does my mother sound crazy or stupid? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 12:46 PM PDT My mother is a very cold person, I've already accepted that. But for the past 4 days I've been sick with a horrible stomach bug. I'm talking about diarrhea 30+ times a day, 10 lbs dropped from dehydration, no sleep because I have to get up every 30 mins to run to the bathroom, it's pretty bad, I almost passed out twice. I never ask my mom for anything because she's so selfish, but today I asked her to pick up some Gatorade for dehydration or ginger ale for nausea. She was already out running errands, this shouldn't be a big deal right? But, she didn't get it, and when she came home she yelled at me for not washing the dishes....HER dishes. I'm sick, I haven't been eating. Is it just me, or does this woman sound like she has a mental disorder. |
| Question: Peppa Pig World - Question? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 12:34 PM PDT I have a little 3 year old cousin whom wants to go to peppa pig world. His dad is out of town but his mum wants to take him this easter. However she has asked me to accompony her as she needs help for whatever reasons. The problem is this means going on the rides with him. Will I not be allowed as im 13 but not a adult and what are some past expreiences you guys had? |
| Question: Was I spoiled for not making a big deal out of a new car? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 12:33 PM PDT My parents bought me a new car. I am 25 years old so I am a bit ashamed because I should have bought my own car. Anyway, I know my parents are a bit of control freaks and would use any means to control me so I took care not to give to much attention and thought to it. Just take the car and do not seem to eager because as usual they would have taken the opportunity to make me do something. My mother tried a couple of times to make me pay for her vacation in another country, which I did not like. So I didn't make a big fuss about it but I did not complain either. I just said thank you and minded my own business. But I was a bit busy with work and did not have enough time to brush up my skills so let the car at my parents. Now they are complaining at me calling me ungrateful for not taking the car. But I am busy with my life and friends. I mean I did not say to them that I was expecting something better. I just thanked them and that's all. Also I was really suspicious because they might try to make me do something like get married to someone they recommend and stuff like that by guilt tripping me. So what should I do? Honestly I just want to get rid of them. I am planning to send them all the money back for the car so that they can\t make me feel obligated to do what they say to me. Either way if it's a gift and you are using it to get to me then it's not a gift anymore. |
| Question: How would you solve this problem? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 12:29 PM PDT Okay, here's the situation, my dad just bought a new truck to replace his old one that the motor, 4x4, and maybe the transmission is going out. He was going to give it to me (I have my permit right now) and at first I was really excited. I was planing to get a job so I can fix it and all that fun stuff. Well I heard my dad and mom talking about getting it fixed before giving it to me. My dad just guessed it was going to be like $10,000 to fix completely. Here's my problem, $10,000 dollars is a lot of money plus the 30,000 he spent for a new to him truck. We're not using money as toilet paper or anything like that, but when I heard 10,000 I wanted to throw up. I don't think I'm worth that much. It's not like I'm a straight A student or anything. So should I tell him I don't want it and sell it as it is, or (I just thought of this) let him fix it, and I'll get a job and slowly save up to pay him back. Thanks |
| Question: How could incest happen? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 12:10 PM PDT Why does it happen? |
| Posted: 23 Mar 2015 12:05 PM PDT you ever overcome it, and feel worthy? In addition, are you are speaking terms with that sibling now? |
| Question: How do I tell my parents I can't live in city? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 11:59 AM PDT When I am in this city I feel so blocked out. Everything is buildings and huge malls with alot of people which quite of them are rude. I hate it here. I would love to move with my family to america in a suburb. Everything there is like in my dreamplace. It has nature and its not socially empty. It is near cities and its really neat and cute. I enjoy peace. But I talked to my parents and they look at me like I am crazy. I really hate it here and they can't understand. When I talk to them they forget in the next day so I am back with myself. I don't have any friends though. How do I explain? |
| Question: What should I do? Family Life? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 11:47 AM PDT Okay....before I start off...I'm 12 years old. I know I'm a bit too young to ask questions but I desperately need answers. There's my mom and Dad, and 4 kids, including me. I am the oldest one, and the youngest one is 2 years old. My dad works a really big job and is the owner of a company. He leaves early and arrives very late at night. My mom doesn't have a job and she sometimes cooks and cleans, although I try to help her. Every time my dad comes home he yells at my mom for her being lazy. We don't have any extracuricullar activities so all my mom does is wait for the bus stop for us to come home. She also has this "shopping" problem, in which she spends hundreds of dollars on jewelry every month on this website she is addicted to. She goes on it 90% of the day, only when she cooks is when she stops. On the weekends she works more though. Strangely, most of the time I have to take care of my little brother since my mom is upstairs a lot. My dad doesn't think my mom cleans at all, since when he gets home the house is always a mess. They always fight even over the simpilist of things and even wanted to get divorced several times. My mom blames a lot of things on me, when even it has NOTHING to do with me. My mom always watches TV, more than my siblings and I do. It really concerns me and I don't know what to do since neither parents don't even want to talk about the problems I have, so most of the time I rely on friends help. I don't want this to happen at a young ageHELP |
| Question: Parents Can't Come Up with a Reason For Grounding Me? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 11:36 AM PDT What happened was: I wanted to buy Super Smash Bros for the 3DS on the day the game came out, but my parents said to wait a month. So I waited, and after a month, they said to wait a little longer. So I did, and finally they said I could buy it in 1 week. So, I waited a week, ordered it online, and when it came, my parents took it away because I didn't tell them I was buying it, even though they said I could buy it if I waited. They even took away my 3DS. I would understand the reasoning behind taking my stuff away if they had bought it, or if I had taken their credit card to buy it, but I bought it entirely by myself, as well as the 3DS. When I asked them why they were taking it away, they simply said: "We're your parents. That's why." So, anyways, I asked them if I had done something wrong and if that's why they were taking my stuff away. This time they answered: "We don't need a reason. We're your parents." So essentially they are just taking my stuff away because they can. Every time I ask for a reason, they just give me the same stale, vague answer. Do you think I should keep trying to get the reason, because by now I just think they are taking it away because they want to play it themselves, or should I just roll with it and let it be? |
| Question: How to deal with an unruly teen? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 11:33 AM PDT My nephew will be 16 next month. He was taken away from his mother at age 6 and has resented everyone including the social worker and judge since then. My mother stepped up and took him in. My brother (his father) was on his way home from the military in a few months and saw no need to take him out of his school for a few months. My brother is out of the military now and back home with our mom, with wife and 4 year in tow. We thought that with his father in the house with him, things would change but instead things worsened. He talks to us as if we're ignorant, flat out refuses to do what he's told, refuses to clean up after himself and is verbally disrespectful. One day, my brother had had enough and took his privileges taken away from him. My nephew then visited his school counselor, which led to a call to child protective services which eventually led to him admitting that he had lied to get back at his dad. Because of that my brother is truly scared to discipline him in any way. He thinks he's in control and whenever someone is stern with him, he threatens to call the police. We've tried counseling through the school but just when it seemed like he was making a tiny bit of progress she pushed him off to private counselors. He manipulated the first counselor so bad that she just never came back and won't return any of our calls. A second counselor never came back after two meetings. Anyone been through this with any sound suggestions? The State found his mother to be unfit and was ready to make him a ward of the state. He's our flesh and blood and there was no need for that. I'm not saying he doesn't have the right to be bitter but he's taking it out on the people who did nothing to him. What was our alternative in this situation? Let him go to a foster home? Is there anyone who would have done anything different? |
| Question: Would this be disrespectful to his family and/or the community? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 11:21 AM PDT A couple of days ago, a 4th grader and his dad were involved in a collision with a train. The dad was fine but the boy was ruled dead at the scene. I've never known the boy or his dad. But, I play guitar and I was wondering this: Would it be disrespectful to play 'Tears in Heaven' as a tribute for this boy? |
| Question: How can I get my guardian to show me affection? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 11:17 AM PDT I am 15 years old. I started living with my first cousin two months ago; she takes care of me. She has three kids herself. She never talks to me unless i talk first. I see her talk to her kids and hug them and show love and what-not. She never includes me in anything. Dont get me wrong im not saying i want nonstop attention. I just want someone that talks with me and makes me feel like part of the family. I never get any physical affection either. I like a hug now and then, just small things like that. I tried talking to her but it didnt help. What can i do or say to show her how i feel? I want to think of her as my mom, but she wont show love or care. How can i get our relationdhip to grow? |
| Question: Traveling outside the U.S with a minor.? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 11:09 AM PDT My mom and I are taking a trip to Mexico and my younger cousin is coming with us. She's 6 years old and her mom and dad won't be on the trip with us. Does she need anything besides her passport to come back to the U.S if shes not accompanied by a parent. |
| Question: My mother (93) wants me to move to the same city she lives in. should i ? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 10:52 AM PDT i'm 66 yr oldest son single semi-retired. one of my sisters already lives with her. should i care what my mother wants from me ? |
| Question: How can I get back at my mom without sticking pizza crust up my butthole? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 10:50 AM PDT i shove pizza crust up my butt when I get angry at my mom because i want her to get pissed because she has to take me to the emergency room. whats another way to get back at my mom? |
| Question: My grandma just died, what should I do about the funeral? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 10:50 AM PDT My grandma died a few minutes ago, and I was a mess. I don t think I can take the funeral, but should I go anyway? |
| Posted: 23 Mar 2015 10:40 AM PDT until my mum had an affair and my dad killed the guy dw he was resuscitated and now is living happily ever after with my 2 younger brothers and mum I havnt seen since they were 7 or so cos I ran away from my mum when my dad went 2 jail,I took my older sister with me who is 2yrs older than me I soon found out my mum wasn't my mum and then when I met my mum I was told my dad wasn't my dad I just wanted to escape the world so I basically sold my sole yer.. then I met my now x bf of 1 yr who I was with for 5 yrs he was abusive we both were though the only person in my life that I had and maybe truly love basted I feel pregnant he forced me to abort the drive 2 the clinic I was trying hold back tears,keep saying I don't want 2 do this at the clinic we already were over an hour late but the manage to get me in even though I was carrying over 3months at that time I wanted to leave,i kept saying I asked the lady 2 let me go outside an she kept askin me y I kept telling her excuses like I want to have water I want to have a smoke and she told me I cant have anything in my mouth I sat down and started arguing with my x he kept reassuring me wed leave soon after he told me hed kill me my voice got louder the doctors came out fastword a few yrs he left me lol suprise a few moths later he was engaged and in december marriad who calls me now,my life ive regained some of my sole im competing my degree just trying to save all money off this guy so i can be free my bf is not perniment here. |
| Question: I want to help my bipolar brother-in-law but i don't know how.? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 10:38 AM PDT KC is now 28 and was diagnosed bipolar when he was younger. He was adopted but his real parents were not the best. His mother did drugs while pregnant with him. His father turned out to be a murderer and has spent time in jail. KC's twin sister has schizophrenia. He seems to have a very bad self destructive personality. He goes on benders and seems to be a bit of an alcoholic. he can never seem to hold a job for more than a year. He and my sister have been on and off for about 10 years and fight constantly. I believe they mainly stay together because they have an year old son. they can't afford counseling/therapy (or won't set aside the time/money to do so). I love them both but they are so hard to deal with sometimes and i just want them to be normal and happy. He is currently unemployed and about to move back to california where he can always get work making pretty good money but always seems to come crawling back to my sister and she just lets him back in her life for whatever reason; can't find a guy that she likes and gives up or wants to be a normal family without a step dad for her son, i don't know. i don't want him to leave again because thats all he ends up doing every time. what assistance can we get KC and/or rachel from the gov't or anywhere that is affordable and will actually help? |
| Question: My mother says I'm antisocial and that I'm evil? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 10:25 AM PDT The antisocial part is true I admit, I barely go out with friends, usually like once a month and whenever guests come over I just hide in my room, lately I've been feeling depressed most of the time or get mood swings from really sad to really happy. I'm usually sad when I'm alone or with my family (except my cousin, she can make me laugh) and I'm usually happy around friends and with my cousin. My mother says that people (guests that she has over) tell her that I'm antisocial and I never say hi and that she needs to force me to go outside and talk to people more. Every time she tells me this, I cry because she says that I'm doing it on purpose because I'm evil. I'm not doing it on purpose, that's just my way of being and I don't do it on purpose. She says that I have to change and take off the password on my phone so she can know I'm not planning to bomb a school or something. Honestly, I would never do that. The only person I have hurt (or at least on purpose) was myself. I would never hurt others. I'm not evil, she says I need to go out more but I actually don't want to change, I like the way I am and I don't want any different. I like being in my house, I don't wanna go out more. I hate when she says I'm evil because I would never hurt anyone. Right now there is a girl in my house in my room with my little sister, and I'm out here in the living room because I don't want to be in there and talk, I realize I am antisocial, but I'm not evil, and I don't want to change. She says that I'm evil as in mean (I guess she just couldn't find a better word), because she says that I lock myself in and that I make faces at people, even though I try to smile and wave whenever they are over but then I go to my room. |
| Question: Single mom looking to move to Myrtle Beach SC? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 10:11 AM PDT I am a 25 year old single mom of a 6 year old who lives in CT. I have lived on my own with my daughter for 3 years, but recently moved in with my mom (same state) For extra help and better school. My mom and brother are moving to California this year(PALM DESERT SOUTHERN PART) I don't want to go slong with them. I've been there and I don't like the scenery, intense heat or schools. Plus the rest of my family lives in CT like my dad who recently got a pace maker in and my daughter's grandma who is loaded and brings her places I've never been and buys her everything she needs.Her father sadly wants nothing to do with being a father. I have been dating a guy who I love and does have a son of his own, baby mama drama and enables his alcoholic mother. I know no one is perfect, I'm just not sure he's the one. We talked about living together in CT and I think I would like that (I THINK) I also have a friend of the family who's moving this year to SC. I'd love to live there, never been but I did research. Schools, weather, JOB MARKET, apartments are beautiful and affordable. I'd just be on my own completely other than my friend who has a family of her own but would definitely watch my daughter if need be. I have about $15,000 saved. I graduated from MA program more than a year ago and I'm finding it hard to find a job anywhere! My boyfriend is a mechanic and makes decent $ but I'm making minimum wage now at a daycare. Should I stay in CT or move to SC?? |
| Question: I think my dad is acting strange and cheating on my mom!!!? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 10:09 AM PDT So well this is the story.... We recently moved to Bangkok and my dad got a job but he needs someone from work to help him translate when negotiating with customers, so since he can't speak Thai, he started having Thai lessons with a young Thai girl. Ever since he's been having lessons with her he's been acting funny, and My mom said stuff like when she wants to hold hands with him or kiss him he dosent want to and he's now so cold to my mom and always shouts at her, I can also see That he's behavior has changed and me and my mom are worried. Also my mom told him to stop having lessons with her but he gets angry and says he's not going to stop. It's really making my mom and me frustrated!! What to do??? |
| Question: Should i stop being stubborn and go? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 10:00 AM PDT I recently found out that my aunt my mom's sister invited my dad's sister to the wedding of her 2 sons. The problem is I don't like my dad's sister at all she had hurt me & my mom a lot. She is the reason why i haven't spoke to my dad for over 2 years. After my cousin's got engaged my aunt (mom's sister) said she was going to invite my dad's sister I've asked her and pleaded her not to invite her for she is not worth respecting. She and my dad's sister don't even talk to one another so i don't get why she invited her. I told her since she did that i was not going to the wedding to support me my uncle stepped down. He was supposed to be the best man and he said the he wasn't going to do that anymore. The next thing she did was that she went in front of people crying making them feel bad for her. Now people are trying to convince me that i should change my mind and go, because it is not up to me to tell people who to not invite They are saying that i should go and have fun and respect my aunt. But why should i do that when my aunt paid no attention to my need. All what people think of me is what kind of a b**** I'm for doing this. only cause they saw my aunt crying and they want to have fun. And not even that during the engagement my aunt treated me as if i were a stranger while I'm the one who deals with all of her paper work and doctors app. And so on. Let me know what your thoughts are on this matter. |
| Question: Mom won't let friend come over? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 09:57 AM PDT She's out like every night with her boyfriend and sometimes doesn't come back home until the next day and I just want my best friend over in the summer. He would probably be staying over for 2 weeks because he lives in a different state and would want to stay for awhile. She's out all the time too so she would barely see him. How can I convince her to let him come during the summer? He came last summer, but that took months of convincing her to let him come. Also she's going to St. Louis in April for a while so I have to stay home and she went to Texas 2 months ago and I also had to stay home. |
| Question: Why are my parents so hard on me? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 09:48 AM PDT My mom and dad yell at me no matter what I do and almost every day I cry |
| Question: What should I do about the fight? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 09:45 AM PDT I had a fight with my mom last night that has really wrecked me last night and this morning. I went to a youth convention for a few days missing my mom. Before heading to the airport to catch my flight home, I surprise my family with food my sister and mom haven't had in 11 years. This restaurant was at the place I was but not back home. When I arrive home, my mom started yelling at me for a stupid reason. I've been yelled at multiple times at my step dad and my mom has been yelling at me multiple times now. I would have just let it go but convention was really tiring, I've been missing my mom, I had to wait 4 hrs to catch my 8pm flight home. So I exploded and yelled back. People must have thought that I was mad because she was late picking me up when in reality, she yelled at me through the phone. I told her this is your fault. She apologized but I don't feel like that fixed anything. I'm also missing first day of school from break because I cried myself to sleep and I'm still crying as I type this. This is like a different fight. One that actually hurts me a lot. Or I just need some comfort because I can't stop crying |
| Question: What do I do about angry cousins? Help? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 09:27 AM PDT OK I have 3 cousins they are all sisters. they are from my step-dads side. when they were younger like 3,6 and 8 years old. their dad killed their mom while they were in school. since then their grandparents raised them but, the dad was an alcoholic and took the little girls money for beer. I met them when they were about 6,10,12 years old. they were nice to me (Normal). then when the oldest one turned 14, she stoped talking to me and acts like she hates me.but is fine with the rest of the family. but doesn't like me my brother and my mom. then the youngest one when she turned 10 she had tried to rape me several times and was like"dont tell anyone". then when the oldest one turned 15 she got pregnant and moved out. since then I don't know why my step dad hasn't took me back to visit them. 5 years passed. and the youngest one sent me a message on facebook saying "you better change your last name cuz ur not ma family". when, I replied "I am family wether you like it or not" she told my stepdad that im talking shet to her on facebook. I have sent the oldest sister a message like"im sorry if I have done something to make you hate me please forgive me......... she replied"do I know you?". TO TIS DAY all 3 of them have babies when they were 15 years old. 2 of them hate me ? I don't know why? if someone can help I would be greatly appreciated !!!!!!!!! PS: They also Ignore me when they see us at the stores. They say to my stepdad that im starting trouble ,when they've started it! |
| Question: Family bullies and abuses me, I can't take it anymore? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 09:16 AM PDT My sister knows I was molested and sexually abused for more than 4 years as a child and she still touches me "jokingly" just to piss me off, one time I started crying and she said I was over reacting. My brother and her has bullied me since I was just a little child. They would call me weird,ugly,big nosed and everything bad about myself, it still goes on. Whenever I'm being honest and say what I feel, they would call me an attention whore. This is why I was always scared to talk about my problems. My dad used to take me to his parents house where the molestor lived (uncle) as a kid. I remember always being scared and terrified and always tried to get away from the car so they wouldn't take me there. But I always had no choice. I had no control. One time when I was 8 while the car was moving, I opened the car door and escaped. I got beat up after that. It was either domestic abuse from my father or sexual abuse from my uncle. My brother called me selfish because of that. I couldn't tell anyone about this until I was 12 and I was in another country where I was safe and my mother was there, it took me 3 years with my mom before I came out about this. I wen't home after 3 years with my mom. My father changed and never abuse me anymore. But he would still bring me in the pedophile's house, but this time he was with me and he promised he'd never leave me, but it wasn't that. Just seeing that asshole's face made me scared and mad and terrified. At first he made me visit them, I stayed in the car then the pedophile went in, I tried to keep relaxed, but inside I was terrified,disgusted and ****. My dad was outside the car and left me alone again with that asshole. After that when we we're returning home, my dad told me to act like nothing ever happened. And I kept my chill until the 4th time visiting. That time I was shaking, I locked the doors to make sure he never went in again, then he starts knocking and he wont stop knocking so I flipped him off, and started screaming and cursing and I was crying. I was a jolly child but whenever I went there I never talked, I was scared and I didn't know why. I also have BDD and thats how bad my family has done to me. Sorry if this was long. Ps. I know I posted this two times. |
| Question: I lost the keys to my diary and needles and bobby pins aren t unlocking it? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 09:14 AM PDT The lock to my diary is very strong I guess and I lost the keys. I ve been trying to use bobbypins and needles but it won t unlock. Help meeee??? D: Thanks for your help. I found the key, so I'll remember to put it in a safe place. I was so worried!!! |
| Question: I walked in on my big brother masturbating last night. Awkward morning!? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 09:09 AM PDT So, this happened last night at around 11pm. Well to start off, I'm 14 and I'm a girl and he's 17. So, it was pretty late and he was in the computer room, I guess you can call it that. I went to grab my shoes that I left in there earlier and since its a family room, I just walked in. When I walked in, I saw him in the act completely and he freaked out and fell out of the chair with his boxers around his ankles. I walked out immediately and I just ran to my room and i hid under my bed to hide from him. I think that it is disgusting for him to use a computer that everyone in my family uses to touch his self. It's gross! But now it's really awkward between us, and I'm scared to talk to him. I'm not making this up either. To be honest, when I think about it, it's kinda funny cause he fell out of the chair and hit his head on the table, but our relationship is probably over now. We were really close, but I'm pretty sure that we're not anymore after this. What should I do? This morning when I got out of the bathroom to go to my room, he came out of his room and he just put his head down and did his walk of shame to the bathroom. It was awkward. |
| Question: What the heck is wrong with my Mom? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 09:01 AM PDT I'm fifteen and my Dad and sister and I have been having a problem ever since we moved to an old wooden house in the country four years ago. Almost as soon as we moved in, my Mom got a drinking problem. (She never had a drinking history before we moved here). This is where it gets weird, when she drinks she gets really, REALLY mean and starts to yell at my Dad over nothing. Literally Mom will try her hardest to fight with him even when there's nothing to fight about! An then she'll start trying to fight with me. She'll throw things and break stuff. Her eyes turn black as the night. She hits and curses and says horrible things to my Dad, sister and I. One time she bit my Dad's arm so hard it turned purple for months. This is not fake, I am not making this up. I need help, please. I can't take it anymore |
| Question: If my grandson gets married what relationship is his wife to me? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 08:53 AM PDT |
| Question: I want to know if my father or my mother is still a member from sss? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 08:47 AM PDT |
| Question: Struggling with sisters suicide, worrying about my brother and a new stepmother? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 08:46 AM PDT My sister committed suicide last year. She was 15. I also have a brother who is now 15 and I'm 14. Our mom died when I was 9. That hit us all really hard and we struggled with that and then our dad married this woman who is so horrible to all of us. She used to say really nasty things to my sister and brother and always shouts at us and has even tried to hit me on a couple of occasions. One particular day, our stepmother told my sister that our mom died to get away from all of us and that even a piece of trash like our mom knew how much of an embarrassment we were. Then she said my brother will rot in hell for "his evil ways", referring to the fact he's gay. My siblings and I would talk to our dad but he would ignore us and tell us to stop making his wife's life hard and that she was only trying to be a mom. He even cut us off from our family (including his side) and now we only have our stepmothers family around us, but we don't know them. It all got too much for my sister and now she's gone and I think my brother is getting to that point, too. He's changed a lot and he cries a lot and has made comments that scare me. I tried telling my stepmother to stop shouting at my brother Saturday and she spit in my face and told me to stay in my room for the rest of the day. I have to bite my tongue a lot in case I say the wrong thing and annoy her even more, because she definitely wouldn't like what I have to say. What can I do? The stress is making me lose weight and sleep. |
| Question: What do you think I should do? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 08:46 AM PDT I'm 16/ a girl. I have a close family friend I've know for about a year. 3 years ago she lost her daughter in her sleep, her daughter was my age. We're very close, we have a special bond, she's always there for me, always so sweet, tells me she loves me. My family does a dance class, I can't do it cause i just got outta surgery so I sit & watch, but she comes to give me hugs & always turns to me & does silly dances. Anyway mothers day is coming up, I wanted to write her a Mother's Day card because she is like a second mom to me. Although I'm afraid to do so because what if she thinks it's weird, I'm not trying to replace her daughter. I just want to be there for her you know? Like a daughter so she won't feel like her daughter left. I really want to, I love her very much, what should I do? (Although u don't even know if she considers me like a daughter..) If I should do it, should I write her a card or text it? |
| Question: What do you think I should do? IF I do this should I text it to her or write a card? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 08:26 AM PDT I'm 16/ a girl. I have a close family friend I've know for about a year. 3 years ago she lost her daughter in her sleep, her daughter was my age. We're very close, we have a special bond, she's always there for me, always so sweet, tells me she loves me. My family does a dance class, I can't do it cause i just got outta surgery so I sit & watch, but she comes to give me hugs & always turns to me & does silly dances. Anyway mothers day is coming up, I wanted to write her a Mother's Day card because she is like a second mom to me. Although I'm afraid to do so because what if she thinks it's weird, I'm not trying to replace her daughter. I just want to be there for her you know? Like a daughter so she won't feel like her daughter left. I really want to, I love her very much, what should I do? (Although u don't even know if she considers me like a daughter..) |
| Question: Question about being "homeless" in Massachusetts? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 08:26 AM PDT So here's a little backstory. I am a 17 years old male who lives with my sister 13, step-brother 16, Dad 48, and step-mother 47. We used to live in a house but after getting illegally evicted because the landlord knew people in the gov't, we live in emergency housing in Danvers. I go to school in Woburn. Now I stayed with my grandmother for a week because living in a hotel room with one room and five people (two beds and an air mattress) isn't something I'd prefer to do. So I lived at my grandmas for a couple days who lives right next to my school and I was happy. Recently I go yelled at and my parents were saying "You can't be over there all the time" "They're checking on us and you're not here" "They're gunna kick us out" "You need to come back" and I guess they check the bus records because I have to take a van-bus to school because no Woburn bus goes to Danvers so they CAN check the records. What my questions are, can they kick us out if I'm not there, does it matter that I'm there, and could my grandmother assume custody of me because I am technically homeless? |
| Question: My Parents Dont trust me? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 08:23 AM PDT my parents think i am a baby they wont let me use adult toothpaste, they wont let me ride my bike outstide when it is less than 60 degrees farenhit how to i make them let me |
| Question: What should I buy for my dads birthday? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 08:17 AM PDT He likes sports He enjoys cars He likes to wear Polo And his favorite color is brown . Weird , right ? |
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| Question: Do I have a cool mother in law or what? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 07:40 AM PDT My wife's mother Joyce (my mother in law) is young, in her early 40s. She has a great sense of humor. She is also an avid golfer. I was at a party at her house recently and people were talking to her about her love of golf. Someone ask her who her favorite golf partner was. She said "Bob (me) because I get to play with his balls". Everyone had a good laugh. Someone said "Is it OK with Bob that you play with his balls". She said he doesn't care if he is not using them and I really get a thrill when his balls go in the hole. Everyone got an even bigger laugh at her comment. Should I clue her in that people are taking what she is saying the wrong way or does she know what she is saying and just being funny? |
| Posted: 23 Mar 2015 07:34 AM PDT my name is Samantha, im 13. I have two sisters. ones a baby i love her. but ugh my other sister, Elsa who is 9 is annoyinggggggg! she is a nightmare. She mimics everyhing i say, she follows me, she cals my friends on phone secretly, she purposely blames me for everything she does, she is like totally annoying. What do i do? i love her like from inside ofc cuz shes my sis and im sure she also does, but we dont get along from the outside. Ugh. what do i do???? |
| Question: What is wrong with this scenario? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 07:25 AM PDT For some odd reason my "lovely" mother believes that buying a bow and arrow is trouble. However I just have $170 buring a whole in my pants and I want to buy a amazon gift card so I can buy the bow online. But the consequence is if I buy the bow my mother will kick me out of the house. Im only 17 years of age and turning 18 in July. She says I would cause trouble with the bow since I have bipolar disorder and might try to hurt her out of a fit of rage. But I still can't understand why archery is so bad in her mindset. I worked hard to earn my money and she won't let me get a bow and arrow. If someone knows what her deal is let me know please. |
| Question: Im very sad. Can you comfort me? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 07:13 AM PDT My dad's flying out to California this afternoon. He's going to our uncle's wedding. He's not taking the rest of us, (my brother, me, and my mother). and Im going to miss him. it makes me want to cry every single moment! please help. :,( |
| Question: WHICH one does the mother? Like Mother or Like Daughter? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 07:11 AM PDT |
| Question: Why does this person keep making comments about my weight? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 06:55 AM PDT A family member keeps making unwanted comments about my weight. It's my husbands mother she is overweight and I am slender we were at their house to drop off the kids I made a comment that i forgot my jacket and the weather was cool that evening. Out of nowhere My mil said I would give you mine but it won't fit maybe your 3 year old daughter might have one. I was shocked by it she has made all sorts of comments over the years and my husband will not confront her. I just do not like these put downs and I know it's not really about me is what's sad what should I do? |
| Question: Should I allow my daughter to have her bf sleep over? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 06:49 AM PDT I don't think its a great idea and her mom says it's ok. She is 16 and I don't want some guy having sex with my daughter. Overreacting? My daughter says they don't have sex. |
| Question: Contacting an inmate with a vacated restraining order? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 06:47 AM PDT My daughters father and I fought a short battle in family court in NY. Long story short, the judge issues a no contact order for him from my daughter until a specific date and there was also one against me that was until March 30, but has been vacated. Mind you that was a temporary restraining order , so I'm unsure now if the order is still in place until the 30 and just the proposal was vacated or if contact is now acceptable between us even though it is before that date. I hope that's not too confusing lol. I did call my public defender but she takes forever to return calls. Any insight by someone who knows would help a great deal, thanks! |
| Question: My dad is jobless and lazy? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 06:08 AM PDT He always has this 'we'll see' attitude whenever he gets a job opportunity or whenever we plan to go out as a family. I'm a homebody. I don't mind when I get to chill and sit on my a** for most of the day, plus I have anxiety... But, I certainly won't do it all the time. My father on the other hand does... It's finally starting to annoy me because my mom is working hard and paying all the bills and he's just leeching off of her. By the way, my parents aren't together. They never got married and had me as a mistake. My mom hates him so much and was a screamer ever since I was 4... He claims he stays at her house because I'm there, but whenever I offer to go to his house he declines. Please help! And then he sometimes lies and says that I never offer to go to his house. To try to make me look manipulative in front of my mother! |
| Question: Sick and unloving for a mother to tell her children she is going to run away? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 06:03 AM PDT The last year or two my mother has been saying every once in a while that she wishes she would just run away from us. I dont understand what the hell her problem is! I think that is just sick to tell us that what do you think? |
| Question: Where can I find an institute for this woman's daughter? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 05:51 AM PDT Where can I find an institute for this woman's daughter? So yesterday at church this horrible girl that goes to inclusion time in my perfect princesses class room was there again! ( She has Prader Willie Syndrome and is an embarrassment to my angel). The young lady stood at the refreshment table and cramed her face, yelling at people if they tried to get some food. My perfect princess was beyond angry, but said nothing to her or her mother. Once home, my angel called a family meeting. She stated that she felt pitty for the fat slobs mother and that we, as a family, should encourage this girls mother to send her to an institute, so that she ( my perfect princess) would be rid of seeing her and being embarrassed by her. My husband and I think this is a wonderful idea ( our angel is perfect and knows so much more than we ever could). However, I can't seem to find any institutes in the USA. Where should I look? I want to be armed with the information for this Sunday so I can give it to this poor woman to help get the slob off her hands. |
| Question: My Wife puts her father ahead of me.? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 05:50 AM PDT Yesterday we had a visit from my father in law and his wife. 2 people I am less than enthused to see on a weekend. During a conversation my Father in laws wife reminded us of a "group birthday dinner" we are having next month at the country club he belongs to. To celebrate all the April birthdays, of which is mine and his wife. It turns out the day it's on is when I go to a beer tasting (which I go to every year) as my birthday present. When I reminded my wife about this her response was "Well I guess you're not going to that." There lies the problem, my wife has decided that her father's wife, whom she can't stand, is more important than her husband's. Now after the visit I told her that I was going to the tasting and would join them for dinner afterward, but I am still upset that she so quickly dismissed something important to me without any real hint of remorse for doing so. I don't think I am over reacting, but maybe someone here can tell me otherwise. |
| Question: 21 m, how do i cope having a sometimes abusive alcoholic brother? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 05:30 AM PDT he's been in and out of our house for years now. he doesn't except our help or goes looking for it. we have had to call police in past it's been so bad. i love my bro but hate him at the same time. any had any experiences with alcoholic family members?? |
| Question: Why are people so rude when u are so nice? Posted: 23 Mar 2015 05:09 AM PDT I can start off by saying thank god she doesn't live here and only comes once a year during Christmas to spend with the family. Ok I can't stand my sister in law she is annoying. She comes this year and stays for 3 day with us. Ofcousre anyone that comes u must be a good hostess even if you cant stand them. I wake up in the morning make her breakfast and even bring it to her table pour Herzl e orange juice like she's some princess. Through out the day I'm being so nice asking her what can I get u making sure she comfy. Saturday comes along she wants to go to the mall so we get in the car and drive there score we head there she notice I'm wearing flats and it's cold then in Spanish she makes a comment to her brother y is she wearing flats and laughs. I was so mad first of all it's rude to speak a different language with someone that doesn't understand in the group but I ok that because it's what makes u comfy ur native language the worse part is when u speak of someone that's so mean especially if the person is so nice to you. I just can't stand her at all and I'm so glad she only comes once a year. I really can't stand her there was other incident but I won't get into them it's just so rude she's domincan by the way not that it matters just saying |
| Posted: 23 Mar 2015 05:03 AM PDT I stayed with my grandparents last week because my dad said he had a busy week ahead and would prefer it if I stayed with them. They dropped me off last night and when we got there we found out he had gotten married and moved his wife and her 6 kids in. I didn't even know he was dating someone! Neither did my grandparents, apparently. So after an argument where he and his wife told me I'd get over it, I went back with my grandparents. Now he calling and texting, demanding I go home and meet the new family and "grow the eff up". My grandparents are going to talk to him in a couple of hours, but I'd love some advice from people who might have experienced something similar. I also don't have a bedroom anymore. Some of her kids are in it. |
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