Friends: Question: Is this person even my "friend" anymore? |
- Question: Is this person even my "friend" anymore?
- Question: I had safe, consensual sex with my friend a couple months ago, is this type of sex bad?
- Question: Moving into a shared house, everyone already knows eachother ??!!?
- Question: My bestfriend doesnt talk to me anymore?
- Question: How do I get the New Girl to leave us...?
- Question: Friends always calling me crazy?
- Question: How do I keep someone out of my house?
- Question: Don't want friend to go on vacation with me?
- Question: Could he have Told me this cuz he doesnt like me?
- Question: How do i send money to inmate using green dot pay pal?
- Question: My best friend is really mean to me...?
- Question: Was I flirting with him?
- Question: Girls who can drive would you have done this?
- Question: My best friend ALWAYS does better than me in everything, what should I do?
- Question: I don't like my friends anymore?
- Question: Can I get in trouble too for doing nothing?
- Question: I have no friends im raising a 12 yr old son he is not into helping himself cook clean nothin?
- Question: Friend getting too clingy Advice?
- Question: How to deal with friends addicted too video games?
- Question: Why nobody likes me in school?
- Question: What should I do?
- Question: Is being drunk an excuse ?
- Question: I feel really guilty?
- Question: Am I just not seeing my friends point of view?
- Question: I feel like one of my friends has harmed more than helped, even though it's not her fault?
- Question: Jealous girl cut my boyfriend's name into her arm??????
- Question: My friend is being accused of sexual assaulting my other friend advice?
- Question: My friends like sniffing cocaine?
- Question: Does anyone know a florida couple samantha and cormac keegan?
- Question: How to become popular/not be so awkward in high school?
- Question: I really miss my old best friend?
- Question: How to not be stuid anymore?
- Question: Friends with nerds; help?
- Question: How do I apologize to my friends? The friendship broke up because my mental health was bad because of anti-depressants.?
- Question: Pretty depressed about being single? Can anyone help?
- Question: Should I just give up trying to "fit in"?
- Question: I Miss My Best Bro?
- Question: Will friends and people eventually forget that i used to do that?
- Question: Met up with old guy friend from high school?
- Question: My friend keeps leaving me out?
- Question: My friend keeps leaving me out?
- Question: Help?? It's about Great wolf lodge.?
- Question: Whats 9+10?
- Question: I'm so ugly! Please help!?
- Question: How do I cheer up my friend?
- Question: My friend doesn't trust me?
- Question: My friend offering me weed?
- Question: So my friends?
- Question: How to get my friend to trust me?
- Question: Why would my best friend move a thousand miles away without telling me?
- Question: There's a girl in my school who is really mean and bullies me and my friends what do i do?
- Question: Did I do the right thing when I yelled at my best friend yesterday?
- Question: Toxic Friends or Lonely Loser?
- Question: How to get a friend to break up with his completely insane significant other?
- Question: I'm worried my friends going to end up failing because she's so focused on guys(PLEASE ANSWER)?
- Question: Can other friends on snapchat see who you are friends with, and also who sends who pictures?
- Question: I feel competative around my bestfriend?!?
- Question: Why did he get mad when I went to work for his rival organization?
- Question: Do you believe in Girl Code?
- Question: I need advice about friend troubles? They aren't good friends?
| Question: Is this person even my "friend" anymore? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 05:06 PM PDT I've had two supposedly "good" friends for nearly five years. One of them is a bit younger than me and the other is two years younger than me. The youngest friend and I used to be great friends and talked all the time, we used to hang out a lot in 2010/2011/2012 and then things got awkward. We stopped talking and she began to talk to my other friend way more. Now, it's to the point the youngest friend and I NEVER talk, EVER. It's like she's obsessed with my other friend and thinks my other friend is super cool. I am the most immature out of my friends, even though I'm the oldest, and ironically, the youngest is the most mature. I feel as if she's embarrassed by me. My other friend, the one in the middle, always asks me why I never talk to the youngest one anymore and I say, "I don't know." It's SO awkward when we're all hanging out because she talks to EVERYONE but me. Basically she acts like I don't exist and I act like she doesn't... we just... don't talk anymore. I'm wanting to confront my "friend" and say something like, "Hey. If you don't want to be friends anymore, that's fine," or something just to make it clear because she won't say anything about it. She ALWAYS hangs out with my other friend and they do everything together. It's so weird. Does anyone know why this might have happened and what should I do? Thanks. :) |
| Question: I had safe, consensual sex with my friend a couple months ago, is this type of sex bad? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 05:06 PM PDT our friendship wasn't damaged, we still hang out together |
| Question: Moving into a shared house, everyone already knows eachother ??!!? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 05:04 PM PDT I'm 19, just moved into a shared house with 5 other girls. They're great only there are 5 girls here, 4 guys and a girl next door, and 4 boys in the next door down. They all go to the same school and have lived together for 7 months. I was in the house with 4 boys for a month and a half, and have been living with the girls for couple weeks. But I still feel like I haven't made friends with any of them even though I'm really trying, they are always going to each others houses and cause they don't actually invite me it feels like I can't just invite myself round. I wouldn't mind so much only I have moved away from home, before this I was living abroad so I don't have any friends in the whole country! And I lived here for 7 months! And I swear to god I have no friends what so ever. I'm usually pretty good at making friends because I use to move around a lot when I was younger, but I don't know why I can't make any friends at school or in the houses. Does anyone have any advice? Really anything will be a great help |
| Question: My bestfriend doesnt talk to me anymore? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 05:03 PM PDT My best guy friend and I have been drifting. We havent talked in over a week. We havent hung out in a month. He's been not talking to my other friend too, which is strange. I feel like hes isolating himself from everyone else. But he still hangs out with his other friends. I asked him what was wrong and he said hes been sad lately, and he also told that to my other friend. Idk if i should talk to him to let him know i care or let him be and he will come back to me, i just don't want to lose him. Thanks. |
| Question: How do I get the New Girl to leave us...? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 04:57 PM PDT this is gonna sound so,so,so mean but I don't want to hangout with the new girl anymore...Tbh I got told to show her arould the school basically guild her take her to my lessons ect...but she does not have anything in common with me or my friends. Tbh she smokes has tattoos she's nice but not my kind of person what should I do? |
| Question: Friends always calling me crazy? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 04:54 PM PDT First of all, I work with these girls one is fat and the other is just average looking. So I don't know if they hate me because everyone at the job thinks I'm pretty and have a good body. But anyways every time I have something to say they either say "your crazy" or "your stupid." I don't know a lot about medical problems of women but both work in women's health so every time I have something to say they make me feel like I'm stupid or retarded. I work in pediatric but I feel like just stop hanging out with them and ignore them if I see them. How would you handle them? They are the ones who join me for lunch by the way |
| Question: How do I keep someone out of my house? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 04:54 PM PDT I used to be friends with someone. Now I cannot stand to be around them because of personal issues, but my brother and his girlfriend are still friends with him. We live in a connected duplex with our parents, who try to stay out of our issues. My brother keeps inviting this person over but I keep telling them to leave. My parents take my side, but he keeps sneaking the unwanted guest in. How do I end this and keep them out of the house legally. (And preferably cheaply.) |
| Question: Don't want friend to go on vacation with me? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 04:52 PM PDT I asked my best friend to go on vacation with my parents and I. At first I was very excited about it, but lately I have felt very iffy about it. I feel like she will be in a bad mood and won't appreciate the experience and the fact that we are paying for her to come. Also, I can tell she feels uncomfortable my dad's silly personality and it hurts him. I just feel like this vacation will be really crappy with her and I now want it to be a family thing. How can I tell her that I don't want her to go without ruining our friendship or hurting her feelings? Thanks. |
| Question: Could he have Told me this cuz he doesnt like me? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 04:49 PM PDT Kinda want real answers😁 I just dont get why he made this up lol Okay so basically james walks into class nd says "hunter needs a girlfriend" then like 5 mins later he starts telling me that kid(hunter) likes me(hunters pretty weird and it wasnt even true)then he was asking if id date that kid,and i knew james was joking so i said "yeah of course!" and james started saying like "okay ill set and interview for you guys" blah blah. i just agreed with him and then he said "yeah hes not looking for personality though...Hes looking for other things" but im like way out of hunters league :/ and james just made that up so why did he make that up |
| Question: How do i send money to inmate using green dot pay pal? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 04:41 PM PDT |
| Question: My best friend is really mean to me...? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 04:25 PM PDT We've been friends for 7 years but just this year is when we became best friends. She gets really mad very easily and snaps at me if I say something in a playful manner that makes her annoyed. She also hates a lot of my good friends and talks bad about them not caring about my feelings. Once she even flipped off my close friend for no reason right in front of me! I asked her why and she just said "Nothing Nevermind." She also gets mad at me whenever I get mad at her first. Like once we were video chatting and I was singing and then she just told me, "You always ruin every song so I always have to find another one." She was serious. So when I asked how, she replied that I always sing it in a really squeaky voice and that it pisses her off. So I got mad and I gave her the silent treatment and then she said, "Hey, are you mad or something." And I said "What" and she said "Yeah you're mad." And she gave me the silent treatment for being mad. Other time we were video chatting she was covering the camera for who knows why and then I asked, "Why do u only have half of the camera covered?" And she screamed back at me 'playfully' "QUIET!!!!!" And then I said, "No." Then she said "Fine!" And hung up. I didn't call back. She never called back. It just drives me crazy that she's so mean but I don't want to ruin our friendship... She also admits that she's a ***** but she doesn't care. What do I do? What do I tell her? |
| Question: Was I flirting with him? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 04:19 PM PDT I don't really know what flirting really is. I've never flirted with anyone before which I'm kinda shy and quiet. Guys don't seem to like me. I have social anxiety. Last year, I've been taking Prozac for my anxiety and it actually seemed to lessen (sometimes). I talk to people more now and go up to people and try to act "normal" as possible. There's this guy (I gqve him a note that he's cute haha) who I've been talking to, he's really nice. We exchanged numbers and talk about family, school etc. I found out he likes me which he later asks me out. I dump him a day later because I was afraid of being in a relationship and felt uncomfortable. I asked to be friends which he understood but didn't talk for days. I later talked to him myself by texting. I later asked if he needed help with work. We did homework together and I couldn't stop poking him and trying to tickle him. I would tell him he has a nice smile and I like it when he smiles and I would make direct eye contact and smile. Laugh at his jokes. As the bell rang, I hugged him and wanted to hug again. He actually said hi to me later on. |
| Question: Girls who can drive would you have done this? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 04:17 PM PDT I just got back from taking my friend home. Since it was warm out and I did not get out of my car and was only gone for 15 minutes I drove barefoot and left my shoes at home. I hate wearing shoes unless I have too and since I did not get out of my car and was only gone for 15 minutes I did not need shoes to go for a quick drive. |
| Question: My best friend ALWAYS does better than me in everything, what should I do? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 04:15 PM PDT I just got a test grade back and I did better than average, but my friend as usual got an A++. The thing is I studied really hard, and she said she didn't even try. We're also both searching for internships this fall and she's gotten three interviews and an offer while I haven't even gotten any calls for interviews yet. I feel so stupid and worthless, should I just give up on life? |
| Question: I don't like my friends anymore? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 04:10 PM PDT I have this friend who used to be super nice, but now she thinks shes all that And makes fun of me, and it really hurts my feelings... how can I stop being her friend? |
| Question: Can I get in trouble too for doing nothing? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 04:10 PM PDT One my of friends who is a total jerk and has always been a couple days ago, slap a girl's bottom kind of hard and him and our other friend Ernie laughed. For the longest, I've wanted to ditch them but I'm kind of a akward, loner. I don't have any other friends and there were a couple times they both dared me to do stupid things. Many times I've refused and only a couple times went along with it, feeling terrible. But I saw that shocked look on the girl's face. She must have been somewhere close to our age, like 16-18 year-old. Now she must be thinking I'm like them even when I was the only one not laughing but just did nothing, say nothing. I'm currently a sophomore. I'm still thinking about that girl and wished I could say something if I found her. I'm always like the follower or bystander that does nothing. |
| Posted: 24 Mar 2015 04:07 PM PDT i am sick couchbound |
| Question: Friend getting too clingy Advice? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 04:00 PM PDT Im a girl for starters. I have known him since i was in 7 years ago and to be honest we did not get along at all. He was always mean to me, and we were always trying to fight each other. In senior year i guess that everyone else got tired of his nasty attitude towards people and no one wanted to talk to him. Everyone in our senior class wanted nothing to do with him. He and i had the same class together, and even the teacher did not like him because he would always ruin all the presentation, and make students feel bad while they were talking. One day I felt bad for him, and told him i was there for him and that he could sit with me and eat lunch so he would not feel alone. Since then he has been super nice to me, and he stopped being mean to me, and everyone around him. Now we are in college and he calls me his best friend, and follows me around the school, and waits for me, and defends me, and buys me lunch. When i ask him nicely to leave he doesnt and he is always scaring the cute guys away from me. Its like he is attaching himself to me. Why is he so clingy now? Advice |
| Question: How to deal with friends addicted too video games? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 03:58 PM PDT I have this friend I have known for 4 years, currently were roommates, He got a new ps4 about a year ago, now he never leaves his room, except too get ciggerets from his mother, when he has friends over he talks for a few minutes then retreats too his gamer room ignoring his friends are even there... He says he wants too get a job, but makes no effort, his addiction has gotten too the point where he plays online with his friends for 12-18 hours at a time... and this is every day.. as his friend I am concerned about his well being, hes 25 and never leaves the house, I have confronted him about it before and he says he's depressed that's why, or he has nothing going on in his life.... I had a friend like this a while back I had known since highschool I finally completely cut him out of my life... I don't want history too repeat with this friend. I'm not sure what to do, He would rather hang out with this group of friends from china he has never met before online, then have real life friends.... Please any help or advice would be greatly appreciated |
| Question: Why nobody likes me in school? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 03:55 PM PDT so my friends are always making fun of me they say im fake everything my parents buy me with hard work they say Its fake my friend said that im so fake because i didnt got her a present for her birthday people make fun of me because im really skinny and im ugly i really dont know What to do because no one likes me 😭😭 |
| Posted: 24 Mar 2015 03:55 PM PDT I recently played this game called Wizard101. One year ago, I had a best friend that I always hung out with. We've been friends for a few years and I was in love with her. In the game, my account got hacked and I couldn't get on to see her, so I made a new account to go and find her. It took me a year to find her and I was really happy. We talked and talked, and just kept talking about what happened a year ago. She told me that she kept searching for me and I did as well. Then, a person named Eric came along. He claims that he loves her as well. He said he knew her for a year or two and is in love with her. He told me that he is 13 years old, btw, I am 18 years of age and she is in her 20s. I was frustrated, but felt that there is going to be some rivalry. Today, me and Eric got into a argument. Rosie, my best friend, was peeved and that's when I shut my mouth. She told me that she was mad at us both and that she doesn't want to be talked to right now. The argument was over her. However, remember when I told you about the rivalry part? Well, I felt bad for what I said to Eric and apologized on the day when we started the argument. So, in conclusion, what should I do in this situation? |
| Question: Is being drunk an excuse ? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 03:52 PM PDT So here's the 411. There was a party. Next morning we noticed some kids took a crap ton of food from our apartment. My roommates justified their actions with the line "Well, they were drunk and certain people do stupid **** when blacked out". I of course didn't agree. They made it seem like I was overreacting. Like I, ME, was the bad guy. Thoughts everyone? Be as blunt as possible. Thanks. |
| Question: I feel really guilty? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 03:48 PM PDT I called a girl in my class a lot of rude things today. She was crying. I can't just apologize to her or my friends will make fun of me. What do I do? You all keep telling me to apologize but it's a whole lot harder than you guys think! Screaming at me doesn't help at all! I mean, I can't just /get/ new friends! I don't know what to do!! |
| Question: Am I just not seeing my friends point of view? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 03:46 PM PDT So my best friend brought a water bottle to track today and put it on the counter outside. I went running, and she was helping the coach. When I came back I went straight to the weight room, and she didn't say a thing to me about it when I passed her. In fact when I went in she went outside and she could have gotten it. She could have also gotten it when we left the weight room, and when we went back to the weight room again to ask coach something. What was really confusing was that she didn't even seem mad until we got home, where she exploded on me. "Why didn't you get my water bottle, you can't come in my house, just leave." and its not a reusable one either, just a disposable water bottle. My thing is, she didn't tell me she had it, she didn't tell me to get it, she didn't tell me where it was, she didn't get it when she had the opportunity, and most of the girls on our team have alike water bottles but she's mad at me. So I'm really confused why she's mad, I think it's crazy, maybe I'm just not seeing her side. And it's not like I'm all worked up over this one specific thing, it's just she's been acting really weird this year, and I'm not sure if I'm just missing something or she really is over-reacting. Also do any of your friends do this to you? She's my best friend I'm not gonna stop being friends with her, I just want to get a unbiased persons view of things to double-check |
| Question: I feel like one of my friends has harmed more than helped, even though it's not her fault? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 03:42 PM PDT She basically made my former best friend almost not be friends with me anymore (she didn't do it on purpose though), and she's caused problems and stuff, even though she didn't try to. She's a very nice person, but I just feel like my life would be better if I had never met her. I know this sounds so mean, but it was just something I noticed and I wanted your opinion on it |
| Question: Jealous girl cut my boyfriend's name into her arm?????? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 03:33 PM PDT Me and her have some history of friendship and fighting, but I never thought she'd go this far. When I started dating this guy after me and her had just broken our friendship she confronted me with her friends saying that I knew she liked him and a whole load of crap... Then she tried to make a move on him days later and he told her off. I was told by my friends, ( who are also friends with her but chose to stay out of the argument and stay friends with both of us), that she carved his name into her arm. She has a history of cutting, which is one reason why I drew away from her in the first place... At first I didn't believe it until I saw it myself in class one day when she pulled up her sleeve to scratch her arm. (We have homeroom together) I was really disturbed about it and I kinda just let it blew from my mind. My boyfriend and her got back to being friends again since, and I'm really concerned. At first I kept quiet because I didn't want to cause any other argument between us (she would claim I am taking her friends away.), but they're getting really close now and maybe I'm just jealous, but I want him to stay away from her. Should I tell him about what she did to warn him about her, or just keep quiet and try to forget about it? |
| Question: My friend is being accused of sexual assaulting my other friend advice? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 03:32 PM PDT Okay so about a year ago ay my 17th two of my friends had a falling out i don't remember much myself as everyone was drinking including myself so everything about that night is basically her against him. she claims that at this party he molested her,that he touched her around her groin on the outside.whilst my male friend says he didn't assault her and his hand merely brushed past and he apologised and he hit her. both of these people have been my best friends for years and my female friend has only just brought this up now and does not want me to go near or talk to him and said that it was like if she was friends with my abusive ex who raped me and physically assaulted me on many occasions but thats a different story. the girl hasen't gone to the police about it and i know that if your in that kind of situation its hard but at the same time i trust my male friend and would hope he wouldn't do that especially considering we became friends though my ex he was with he at one point while i was still friends with her and he had the same thing happen to him. and now rumours and hear say are going around and i really don't want to pick sides when i don't know the truth but at the same time i don't want to victim blame if he has done anything to her i don't know what to do i think i just need an outsiders opinion on this to be honest |
| Question: My friends like sniffing cocaine? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 03:29 PM PDT We hit the strip club and we make it rain? Should I get new friends today? |
| Question: Does anyone know a florida couple samantha and cormac keegan? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 03:26 PM PDT They reside in tampa/Brandon area and around there! |
| Question: How to become popular/not be so awkward in high school? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 03:25 PM PDT So I'm 15 and a Sophmore in High School. Now, I wouldn't say I'm a loser. I'm more along the scene/stoner group. But lately I feel like everybody is looking down on me as some loser or that I'm weird and nobody wants to talk to me/be my friend. When opportunities come up, I get so awkward and nervous and ruin things. I'm not expecting an answer that says "be yourself" because like I obviously know that. I just wish I could make more friends and not have people just feel weird about me. I mean I am a little insecure which doesn't help me in this situation...but does anybody have tips for me on how to stop social anxiety or start making new friends and having more of a social life. |
| Question: I really miss my old best friend? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 03:19 PM PDT We were best friends for abut 3 years, she got very depressed when I was off school ill for a year, we grew apart and she made new friends as she had to learn to cope without me. When I came back we were close but it was obvious that she had moved on. We accepted it, I made new friends. But then her mum kept comparing her to me, saying how she wished that she could be more like me and we fell out. We became friends again afterwards but we were never as close as we originally were. That was about a year ago, she hasn't really spoken to me since. Her boyfriend dumped her yesterday so she was crying, I helped her calm down. I realised how much I miss her and I don't know what to do! She isn't really someone who you can discuss your feelings with. What should I do? X |
| Question: How to not be stuid anymore? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 03:17 PM PDT everybody calls me stupid because i do and say dumb things, like asking the same question 2 times. Or spill water many times, i really want to change, everyone laughs at me. how should i change? how do i think? how can i think before i do something? i mean how can i learn that? i only want serious answers please, for about 5 months ago i almost killed myself, I had no friends. |
| Question: Friends with nerds; help? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 03:15 PM PDT So, I'm in 7th grade and I'm becoming friends with geeks/nerds, and I have no idea if that's a good thing. I can relate to them with the love of reading, but I also love fashion and makeup, they don't. I'm just really self conscious and worry about what others, especially friends of mine, will think. Help! I have no idea if I should go through with this! |
| Posted: 24 Mar 2015 03:13 PM PDT I was really close with two friends. I completely snapped after a doctor prescribed me antidepressants. I got increased anxiety and suicidal thoughts. It affected my friends to the point that they don t want to be friends anymore. I am now with a therapist and on a medication that is working great. My friends told me that they didn t want anything to do with me in the past. How can I apologize??? |
| Question: Pretty depressed about being single? Can anyone help? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 03:04 PM PDT So I've been single for most of my life. I am currently 23 years old soon to be 24. I finally had my first gf a few months ago. We talked and went on dates for about 2 months before I popped the question of being official (bf/gf). We were together for a tad over a month, until I dumped her for a few reasons. To sum it up, she basically put barely any effort toward the relationship, was lying to me and about me to my friends, and some other stupid crap. Anyways, since it was my first gf, I took it pretty hard. I'd say it took me a good 2 months to really get over her and realize I deserved a better person than what she was. I dumped her December 2014 in case you were wondering ....... Ever since though, I have been feeling extremely lonely and depressed. I know for a fact that my parents and friends are picking up on it, cause they'll ask me if something is wrong if I seem down, and I just say no that I am fine. I have not contemplated suicide, but I definitely get very down. I've also been just crying randomly and feeling sad for no reason for about the last month or so. I've tried changing my lifestyle and view on life in general, such as realizing I have a lot to be thankful for, but I just still seem to be sad often still. I've been working out at the gym since I dumped my ex-gf, and while it seems to help take my mind of off being single and other daily stresses, I usually end up feeling sad again sooner or later. So yes, I am trying to keep busy, but it does not help. |
| Question: Should I just give up trying to "fit in"? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 03:03 PM PDT I mean I don't wanna seclude myself but I just don't feel apart of any group in class. I'm gonna see these people all year so I don't wanna just ignore em or anything. But even though there's this group of people that ask me to hangout with them like on lunch break and stuff, I feel that my social skills aren't good enough..like I'm not good at telling funny stories from my past in front of a group. And i feel its too much effort, it doesnt come naturally to me, except around someone im all the way comfy with. Idk I just fit in nowhere. And i also find it draining, like theyre always talking and joking every second of the day, like when does it end. I do have social anxiety. I really don't know what caused me to have it.. But I've had since probably middle school and up. I did have friends growing up, snd i had two i was friends with just stop talking to me one day but that was in HS. Any ideas of why I may have it?? yea I definitely get that, I don't try to be like anyone though. it's just my social skills just aren't that great (well I guess they're ok / good, but my anxiety effs it all up)....that's pretty much the issue.. and sometimes I'm not good at reading social cues and I respond unaccordingly (however you spell it lol).. then I have trouble approaching people cause I feel like they're not gonna say much to me.. idk when I got SA but idk...yea |
| Posted: 24 Mar 2015 03:01 PM PDT I miss my bestfriend we stopped talking for a while and we were supposed to hang out but he bailed on me xc im going through a really rough time and ive been depressed and i needed someone to talk to since hes the only person i trust, im a guy i dont know if this makes me gay xc because i looked for answers everywhere and they were all girls who posted them,i miss him weve been friends for 3 years and now that we go to different highschools and hes way more popular hes always busy xc and he has way more friends me on the other hand i dont have any hes like my only one i have really bad trust issues,when we met he was like a brother to me he brought the bad side of me out we always caused trouble i was like a + charge and he was like a - charge everytijme we hung out we caused trouble i honestly miss him xc please help and no judging |
| Question: Will friends and people eventually forget that i used to do that? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 02:51 PM PDT im 27 yr old male and for the past 4 years I've been contacting women i don't know on Facebook. i did that with a lot of women including some i had mutual friends with. the main reason was i don't really have close friends and i couldnt find a way to hangout with women. didn't bring much though. however, i have developed a problem. i can't forget what i used to do and I'm so ashamed of myself in front of everyone. i don't know if I'm just paraoid or not but i think people began to notice that i do this creepy thing and especially the women so deleted all my friends from Facebook so that everyone would forget (that was 6 months ago) then re added some. but I'm still ashamed and I'm shy to post anything so that i don't bring peoples attention to me again.. is there anything i can do to move on and get along what I've done and just forget.. I'm just afraid the girls would think I'm a creep.. especially if anyone saw me and asked me. thx |
| Question: Met up with old guy friend from high school? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 02:50 PM PDT So a few days ago I ran into my old best guy friend from high school and we made plans to meet up today for lunch. Now he's very shy and in his words, "Socially awkward". He had a big crush on me then (about 4 years ago) and I kind of like him too, but I had a boyfriend. I'm trying to figure out if maybe he still likes me. He arrived almost half an hour early (I know because I got there early too) and held doors open, but otherwise didn't seem very into me. He was fidgety (I wasn't sure if it was boredom or nervousness) taking the case off his phone, playing with the pepper shaker, things like that. He talked a fair amount but wouldn't make eye contact often, maybe only for a few seconds before looking down at the table or behind me. He didn't offer to pay (I didn't expect him to since it was only a lunch to catch up) but I heard if a guy likes you usually he'll offer. I told him that he didn't seem that happy and he said if he was unhappy, he wouldn't have come. Oh and he teased me a lot! Not in a mean way but just was teasing me a lot. He didn't make any sort of effort to touch me at all. He did call me pretty and then when I asked what he said, he said never mind. He said he had to go after about 2 and a half hours (we walked around a nearby mall after lunch) and said he'd text me and we should hang out again and watch this show I've never watched. Two hours later, he hasn't texted me, which is fine but my friend said guys usually text pretty soon if they like a girl. We texted all the time back in high school and even now he's on his phone a lot. He said never mind in kind of a nervous way I forgot to add that he was talking about me to a guy friend of his that I used to work with. I mentioned I had briefly worked with Cody and he said, "Yeah I know, Cody told me about that." He just texted me saying, "Hey, I had a good time! (please excuse my awkwardness) |
| Question: My friend keeps leaving me out? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 02:47 PM PDT I have a group of friends at school, and one of the girls in that group always leaves me out on her secrets. We're both really close, we walk together to school, we visit eachother etc. She tells all of our other friends her secrets but she always makes sure that I don't know. One time I discovered one of her secrets by accident when she accidently spilled the beans. It turns out that she told all of my friends and told them specifically not to tell me. The secret wasn't offensive to me or anything. It just hurts me that she leaves me out like this on purpose...especially since we've been friends the longest. |
| Question: My friend keeps leaving me out? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 02:47 PM PDT I have a group of friends at school, and one of the girls in that group always leaves me out on her secrets. We're both really close, we walk together to school, we visit eachother etc. She tells all of our other friends her secrets but she always makes sure that I don't know. One time I discovered one of her secrets by accident when she accidently spilled the beans. It turns out that she told all of my friends and told them specifically not to tell me. The secret wasn't offensive to me or anything. It just hurts me that she leaves me out like this on purpose...especially since we've been friends the longest. |
| Question: Help?? It's about Great wolf lodge.? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 02:42 PM PDT Okay so there was this British Guy who works their, and I just wanted to know his name, but I didn't ask. This is the Great wolf lodge in wisconsin dells. Do any of you know first and last name? How can I find it without calling? If I can't it's fine. I just wanted to know. I'm not 100% sure he's british, but he was white and had a British type accenr. Thanks! |
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| Question: I'm so ugly! Please help!? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 02:39 PM PDT I know this sounds so pathetic but being pathetic is what I'm good at. I'm a 16 year old girl and I am monstrously ugly, I have very poor social skills and spend most of my life on my own at home and depressed :(. What can I do about it? I look at myself in the mirror and cry, I fear any social situation in fear of being laughed at or judged. It makes me hate my life so much. I could be having so much fun and being with people but I keep thinking they will think I'm ugly and weird or something. Heres proof i'm hideous by the way. I just want someone to give me some idea of how to be happier with myself. Please, every day I feel worse about it. :( http://m.imgur.com/eIGIazq |
| Question: How do I cheer up my friend? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 02:38 PM PDT My best friend just went through a break-up and I really want to cheer her up. What do I say or do to help her? |
| Question: My friend doesn't trust me? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 02:36 PM PDT I don't actually know why because I never betrayed her or anything. We always walk together to school and we've known eachother since we were six and we're in the same base class. :/ It really bothers me because she tells all of the other friends in our friend group her secrets but she always leaves me out. Whenever I do find out its when one of the girls she told tells me what she said. She always tells them "Don't tell Elizabeth (me)." It hurts me that she leaves me out like this. I'm afraid to confront her because she's really sensitive. She even trusts a girl she only knew for a few months more than me. Please help. :/ I tried asking her but she just got really mad at me. I said that I have the right to know but that only made it worse. She said its because I never go to town. Like seriously? She knows that I have lots of studying to do. :( |
| Question: My friend offering me weed? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 02:33 PM PDT So basically I have my group of friends - 3 of us. One of my friend is totally against weed (friend 1) and the other is totally for weed (friend 2) and I'm sorta in the middle. I told friend 2 that I would probably smoke weed just not regularly, meaning I'd do it a couple times in life but not make it a normal everyday thing. So I said I'd smoke the good grass. Most of the reason I told him that was because I do agree that it can't harm you (cant kill you, cant possibly overdose, hard to get addicted, not too much body damage) so yeah I was kinda ranting and then said that I'd probably smoke it. But I'm sorta iffy about it. I'm in between not wanting to do it and wanting to do it. So anyway this was a few days ago. Today in the lunch line and turned me and said "Oh btw i told (one of our friends) that you'd smoke weed and to get some for you" I just went along and said cool or nice or whatever i said. He's not one to pressure someone into doing something, I'm pretty sure if I said nah I'm cool (dont want any) he wouldnt force me to but he'd question me. So you may ask why I dont just casually say I dont want to. Well for one, a part of me wants to try some and also I dont want to seem like a pussy. Also the big one, my parents might find out O__O. So what should I do? Again, I'm 50/50 for doing it. Please tell me correct information too, dont just say that its bad because thats what everyone tells you.. thanks ;D |
| Posted: 24 Mar 2015 02:30 PM PDT So im getting bullying by my friends and they call me fake and Today they come saying sorry and everytime they do something they say sorry but then they do something Thats going to Hurtado me |
| Question: How to get my friend to trust me? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 02:29 PM PDT Ive never done everything to make my friend not trust me but it seems that she always assumes the worst and assumes i betrayed her and I always feel like I have to check in and make sure she's not pissed for no reason |
| Question: Why would my best friend move a thousand miles away without telling me? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 02:27 PM PDT We've known each other only about two years, but we became fast friends. We're kind of opposites, but opposites attract right? I went to her house a lot to hang out, and she told me many times that she would die if we weren't friends. What makes this even more significant is that this girl completely changed my life. Before I met her, I was a really quiet, antisocial kid. I was majorly depressed, with suicidal thoughts on a daily basis. And when I met her, she talked to me all the time. She was extremely friendly, and she helped me to come out of my shell. I've come out of my depression and made dozens of friends since. We don't have any classes together this semester, but we would text and call each other occasionally and hang out outside of school. But for a while I didn't hear from her, and at first I didn't think anything of it. Until a week later I found out through other people that she had moved to a city 1000 miles away. I called her and we talked, and she said she'd moved in with her step dad. But I'm so hurt that she didn't even pick up the phone that whole week to even TEXT me. She says she didn't tell anybody she was moving, but I thought she was my best friend. I don't know of she felt the same way, and I don't think she realizes just how much this has hurt me--not just because I may never see her again, but because she didn't even have the decency to tell me a proper goodbye. I've been crying for an hour now. What would make someone do this? |
| Question: There's a girl in my school who is really mean and bullies me and my friends what do i do? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 02:20 PM PDT She doesn't live in the school district so can't we just tell someone about that? She makes all of her mail go to her grandma who does live in the district. How do we go about doing this? |
| Question: Did I do the right thing when I yelled at my best friend yesterday? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 02:16 PM PDT I was getting sick and tired of my best friend being mean to me. He started for some reason poking me all the time and he thinks it was funny, was calling me a retard for no apparent reason, whatever I do he thinks its funny and what took the cake yesterday was that while we were doing homework he flat out shut the computer down and got up and left the room in the college computer lab without telling me we were leaving and I haven't even called my father to pick me up yet. So while we were outside I got upset because he never acted like that towards me before, he's usually kind and nice. he looked at me started laughing again and asked "whats wrong?" I ended up starting to cry which I didn't expect and told him I didn't appreciate how he was acting towards me lately and I even asked him why he as acting like a bully to which got him stunned and he even apologized and all. I feel bad for calling him a bully because he isn't but it came out of my mouth since I was upset with the way how he was acting towards me. Did I do the right thing and let him know how I felt or should I have not told him? He did promise to not do those things anymore and I didn't even expect to start crying in public I mean, I am 22 years old I feel embarrassed for starting to cry at the college |
| Question: Toxic Friends or Lonely Loser? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 02:09 PM PDT My cool friends switched schools last year. Now I'm stuck with about 2 "friends". One is my ex who I cannot stand. He changed for the worse over this year. He makes fun of these autistic kids all the time and is really rude to my other friend. He gets worse everyday. He's just so negative and draining. He doesn't even realize that I've been ignoring him and I'm pissed. He does know that I hate when he makes fun of them and I've told him to stop multiple times, but he clearly doesn't care. My other friend is kind of okay, but she just laughs off his offensive "jokes". She's also the type of nerd I hate. But she's still pretty nice so I'd let her slide I guess. I used to sit with just my ex at lunch, but we moved to a table with these loser kids that are in drama club and band and have a bunch of issues. I can't stand the table, but I have to sit there so I don't look like a loner with no friends. I already went through that for a year and it's not fun. Lately my friends have been destroying my mental health, and I can't take it much longer, but sitting alone is also really hard for me (social anxiety). TLDR: my friends suck but being alone also sucks. What should I do about it? |
| Question: How to get a friend to break up with his completely insane significant other? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 02:04 PM PDT I have a friend named Mikhail. I've known him for a very long time, and this fall he met his first 'girlfriend', Jonicia. At least she was his girlfriend until 'she' turned out to be a guy. Trans or not, that's straight up cat fishing. The first thing he told me when he figured this out was "I don't understand it at all and this makes our relationship super awkward, but I'ma accept it.", and now this winter the same dude I've known for years, who has repeatedly discussed with me how lucky he is to be a dude with dude parts and dude hormones, has never understood the concept of dysphoria, and as far as I can tell still doesn't, (he even still tries to equate it with sexuality to try to make sense of it) decided he's gender fluid. Now, if this were the case I would be fine with it, but this guy has been filling his head up with all sorts of crap ever since he met him. Mike is an atheist. Jonicia on the other hand is catholic, and has been trying to convince him that he not only should believe in god, but that he already does. He tried convincing him that he's pansexual (he's bicurious, and he's known it since he was 12), and though every time I try to talk to him about it he seizes up and changes topic, I wouldn't be surprised if his new 'friend' suggested this too. This dude is selfish and crazy. He even hallucinates about birds and stuff and threatens him. I know mike is head over heels in love, but I can't stand by and watch him be hurt. How do I end this? |
| Posted: 24 Mar 2015 02:01 PM PDT I have a friend, one of my best and first friends attending to this school actually, and I'm very worried 😩. I've known her since I came to out school in the eighth grade and now were a few months away from finishing freshman year. I'm worried because shes getting carried away with boys constantly. This was new around the beginning of the year but now were kind of used to it and its got me thinking. She had her first "serious" relationship with some senior in 8th grade who she was pretty close to but she dumped him due to her health problems. About a month later (this is around may or June) she had a six month relationship with this freshman (now a sophomore) but she ended up dumping him because a. She didn't like him anymore and b. She found someone new (right now were in September of freshman year) she REALLY liked this new guy, who's a junior, but turns out he dumped her for another girl and she acted "okay" but I knew she was broken. Sooner or later she told me she was going out with someone online that's also a friend of mine. But by December she went out with, you guessed it ANOTHER DUDE!! and I don't even think she liked, I think she did it to numb the pain or reject her feelings. Eventually he moved to another district so they're long distance (at this point 2 boys at the same time) and guess what? Yup you already know another guy, junior. They're at about the 3week mark. I've been worried for a while because I think she's skipping guybto guy because she hasn't confronted her feelings and not to mention she has daddy issues and a low self esteem. I just need help any advice?? |
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| Question: I feel competative around my bestfriend?!? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 01:52 PM PDT My bestfriend Vanessa and i have been friends for about 4 years now and she always has to 1 up me... Like everytime i think i look nice, she all of a sudden looks better. Am i jealous or something?!?! And theres this party coming up with some older guys and i told her she should bring me but she said no because they probably dont want a bunch of "little kids" around... Like im not a little kid. were the same age... We act the same and have the same personalitys but she has another friend named Abby... They always hang out but Abby and i dont really like eachother... And whenever all 3 of us hang out together, they always exclude me.. (Abby is going to the party) but i mean i should be able to go to the party right? Like is she embarrased of me? |
| Question: Why did he get mad when I went to work for his rival organization? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 01:45 PM PDT So my boss and I had a weird connection. I interned with him and when the internship was over I missed working with him so tried to get back in touch with him. He never responded but his rival/sister organization ended up employing me. He then got mad and acted like I abandoned my family. Why was he acting this way? |
| Question: Do you believe in Girl Code? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 01:41 PM PDT |
| Question: I need advice about friend troubles? They aren't good friends? Posted: 24 Mar 2015 01:41 PM PDT Ok well I have 2 best friends and they both Say they don't like eachother to me and that went on for a while a few months but now they leave me out and they ignore me and they're rude saying mean things to me like today we were sittn at lunch and my friend was talking to my other one and then I noticed that there was a small spider in her hair and I told her and she screamed and went crazy and after she looked at me and said "I hate you" and she was pissed off at me all day? I just wanted to help Then at the end of the day one friend said to me if I was going training football tomorrow and I said no r u and she said yeah but I didn't believe her and I didn't believe my other friend cuz they always say stuff like that to me but then she said fine you're the one that's going to be left up at school tomorrow all alone and it'll be you're own fault and more stuff like this happens more often now like on St paddys day they spent the day at one of they're houses and they didnt even invite me and they keep saying how much fun they had... I really wish kick them like they kick me when I say something they don't like. But then they can be nice and good friends sometimes and I can't ditch them and get better friends because there's only 88 people in my school and I'm not popular I'm really shy and they give out to me when I do good on tests and sometimes I just wanna cry and make them suffer but I want friends and I don't want to be a loner please answer I really need advice |
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