I was just married and my husband just revealed that years ago before he had even married me he came to a point in his life where he had just lost his job and had plenty of extra time on his hands. He never understood how someone could say they had been searching someone their entire life when they are saying whatever they can to get some girl into bed. He wrote to his future wife like what marriage meant to him what he wanted in a wife, sweet messages, poems , articles on marriage. He made a promise that he would always send me something once a day continue his search for me and no matter what never give up. (He felt at times it was crazy and he wanted to give up, but he made a promise he said it was really hard, but then he thought you know I bet married couples have problems and they feel like giving up if he couldnt to this he had no business getting married) He also felt that when ever things got hard in our marriage he could reflect back on this and it would remind what its all about. I just wanted to see if anyone elses husbands does something like this and how would u feel about it? Thanks.

I was just married and my husband just revealed that years ago before he had even married me he came to a point in his life where he had just lost his job and had plenty of extra time on his hands. He never understood how someone could say they had been searching someone their entire life when they are saying whatever they can to get some girl into bed. He wrote to his future wife like what marriage meant to him what he wanted in a wife, sweet messages, poems , articles on marriage. He made a promise that he would always send me something once a day continue his search for me and no matter what never give up. (He felt at times it was crazy and he wanted to give up, but he made a promise he said it was really hard, but then he thought you know I bet married couples have problems and they feel like giving up if he couldnt to this he had no business getting married) He also felt that when ever things got hard in our marriage he could reflect back on this and it would remind what its all about. I just wanted to see if anyone elses husbands does something like this and how would u feel about it? Thanks.

My ex keeps sending me massive friend requests on instagram and I accepted him once and then unfollowed him because I don't want him to know what I'm up to. Then he bombards me with more requests. I simply do not accept him.I blocked him and his family. Plus he has a gf and I was just there for him for 6 years while he was incarcerated and he was not a good person to me. Why is he trying to know what I'm up to? This has gone for almost 7 months...

I studied abroad in Mexico and I wound up studying there for years. I have this one friend down there, but we're JUST friends. We've never been more. Anyway, when he and I met he was already married, and he still hasn't gotten divorced. Ok, please lower your pitchforks. I have really high moral standards, and I would never be a homewrecker or commit adultery. I just don't have it IN me. If he were married to a decent woman who loved him then I would just quietly accept it and resign myself to dying of a broken heart. His "wife" is a horrible, evil and cruel woman who has been unfaithful to him and abused their kid. Please don't tell me to accept that I'll live in USA forever, or to marry an American white guy. I am profoundly unhappy in the USA and miss Mexico so much, my heart is there and I don't like living in America. I am a passionate girl who loves music and playing in bands and an American white guy will try to take the music I love away from me. Anyway, I know in my heart that this guy is the one that God had for me. I don't want some crummy jerk who will try to take away my passion for music and give up my talents. This guy understands my love for music, and I even wrote a song about him. He doesn't know that. How can it work out for me to be with this friend of mine? Is there hope that he and I could wind up married sometime down the road? I love this guy and know in my heart that we are soul mates. I met this guy when I was a study abroad student in Mexico. I have returned to the states and I'm miserable here... no music in my life, a crappy job that makes me want to die, my family is here but it's torture to my mom to see me miserable 24 7. I regret returning to USA but I came back because of the pain of watching the man I love with a woman who doesn't deserve him tore me up inside. Mexico is really beautiful and I identify with the culture there. I'm seriously unhappy and don't identify with USA culture. I can't be what I really am here, and i am sick of being a damn fraud. I'm attracted to guys with black hair, brown eyes, dark skin. What's important is what's inside and blah blah blah but I want someone I'm attracted to physically I've never told my friend how I feel about him. I know I'll be judged for writing a song about him, but it's not like I wrecked his home or anything. I don't want to be some bitter, sexually deprived, sad old woman, nor do I want to settle for any of the guys who are available at my age, they're all creeps. My life is over before it ever began, and I am so sad.

Okay lately I've found that my stepmother and her boss have been texting back and forth messages like: I love you, I need you to be here with me, I need you to take care of me, I miss you. Her boss is married also and has kids. I don't think my dad knows. These messages are sent around 3 am. Is she cheating?

I am 34 years old and very sad because I'm accepting that I'll never be married and have the husband and children that I dreamed of. I oscillate between this anger and resentment... "Why did God create me to be single... how could you... I'm a good girl and prayed for a husband that would love me"... and self hatred... I feel like the lowest piece of rubbish in the gutter, because no one wanted me and I wasn't good enough for ANYONE. I'm too stupid, too ugly, too untalented. Ok, but there's this undercurrent of fear running through this stream of emotions. Maybe God had someone for me, but we never crossed paths and that person married someone else. Ok, there's this guy... that I met in Mexico, and we were never more than friends. He's separated from his "wife" and she's a ***** who cheated on him and abused him. I just know in my heart that he's the one God had for me, but I met him after he was married. He's in Mazatlán, Mexico. We met when we were 29 and he was already married. I'm basically white but I'm part Mexican and from the States, he is a real Mexican. I've tried to "do the right thing" and find someone from USA but I'm just not interested. When I was 20, I studied abroad in Mexico City... he's my age, so he was 20 at the time, and didn't get married until he was 25 or so. I keep torturing myself because it was my fault we didn't cross paths, but how was I to know? Maybe if I'd asked God to lead me to him, or done something differently... ... if I'd chosen to study in Mazatlán instead of Mexico City, I would have met him and we might have fallen in love. I'm not a homewrecker, I'd NEVER commit adultery but the ***** he married does NOT deserve him. Ok, lower your pitchforks please... She's a horrible person, has cheated, abused their child, and is a lying manipulator. I play the piano and the drums, sing, and share his love for music and everyone says we would have been the perfect couple. I would literally step in front of a train for this man, I just have feelings for him that won't go away. If God ever had someone made in Heaven for me, it was him. I'm doomed to be lonely forever because now the love that was meant for me can never happen. "There are decent single men your age." Yep, they're called homosexuals. If I woke up male tomorrow, I would call up one of my gay friends, but that won't happen. I'm so sad because my life is already over before it's even begun. Living in bondage sucks. Watching happy couples when you're doomed to a life of loneliness in like being a caged bird watching other birds flying free. Aside from getting gender reassignment surgery and hooking up with a gay friend (my gay friends are great. If I were a guy I'd be gay and happy every day), how the hell can I EVER be happy? I'm a good girl, who would be an amazing wife and loving mother. I have prayed for a husband and saved myself for marriage, and I feel forsaken by God. I believe that my friend would love me and understand me. I've never told him my feelings for him, but I've told him how much I love music and he says I'm really talented and will be famous someday. He believes in me and understands my heart. I don't identify with USA culture and am really unhappy in the states.

I am 34 years old and very sad because I'm accepting that I'll never be married and have the husband and children that I dreamed of. I oscillate between this anger and resentment... "Why did God create me to be single... how could you... I'm a good girl and prayed for a husband that would love me"... and self hatred... I feel like the lowest piece of rubbish in the gutter, because no one wanted me and I wasn't good enough for ANYONE. I'm too stupid, too ugly, too untalented. Ok, but there's this undercurrent of fear running through this stream of emotions. Maybe God had someone for me, but we never crossed paths and that person married someone else. Ok, there's this guy... that I met in Mexico, and we were never more than friends. He's separated from his "wife" and she's a ***** who cheated on him and abused him. I just know in my heart that he's the one God had for me, but I met him after he was married. He's in Mazatlán, Mexico. We met when we were 29 and he was already married. I'm basically white but I'm part Mexican and from the States, he is a real Mexican. I've tried to "do the right thing" and find someone from USA but I'm just not interested. When I was 20, I studied abroad in Mexico City... he's my age, so he was 20 at the time, and didn't get married until he was 25 or so. I keep torturing myself because it was my fault we didn't cross paths, but how was I to know? Maybe if I'd asked God to lead me to him, or done something differently...

We are having a birthday party at a restaurant for our daughter.My mother in law just visited us at our house yesterday and did not mention any of her plans. Today she emails us that she is bringing my husband's sister's in laws to see our house before the party. We invited them to the birthday party but not to come to our house. Is this rude?

While husband have a job and under of SSDI? I'm not sure if he must require have provider what wife needs. Wife unemployed. I wonder if it require or husband don't have do provider what wife's needs? What affect husband in trouble?

I accidentally hit my wife.. now she wants to call the police.. is there anything i can do to keep her from talking?

I was just married and my husband just revealed that years ago before he had even married me he came to a point in his life where he had just lost his job and had plenty of extra time on his hands. he never understood how someone could say they had been searching someone their entire life when they are saying whatever they can to get some girl into bed. He wrote to his future wife like what marriage meant to him what he wanted in a wife, sweet messages, poems , articles on marriage. He made a promise that he would always send me something once a day continue his search for me and no matter what never give up. He also felt that when ever things got hard in our marriage he could reflect back on this and it would remind what its all about. I just wanted to see if anyone elses husbands does something like this and how would u feel about it? Thanks.

I am very horny as hell, and i want a WASP chick. Blonde or brunette it does not matter. As you know, white Anglo Saxon Protestant is still the Gold standard. White men, i want to marry your daughter. Could u please send someone to here in Asia? What do u think?

Ok men I need your help. My ex broke up with me about 6 wks ago because of arguing. So the entire time we didnt really talk to each other with the exception of us exchanging our son. Now the thing is that my ex SWEARS on everything that he is not seeing anyone and at first I believed, until I found out otherwise. So my question for the gents is basically why would my ex be hiding who he is "potentially" seeing. Once I found out that he was talking to a girl that pretty much squashed any chance of reconciling! However I cannot help but wonder why he d hide this. The weird thing is also that not too long ago he asked if we could be friends after 6 wks of SILENCE. I told him I d think about it and once again he had a chance to come clean, but he lied again. Why would a man do this. He s obviously not a teenager he s in his 30s and our relationship has been off and on

my wife was mad at me for not speding enough time with her so while we were having sex she superglued our bodies together without any plan for fixing it. help me

I cheated on her and she wanted a divorce i begged her not to divorce me because I love her so much plus we have 2 kids ages 2 and 3. She wouldn't do anal with me even tho she told me before marriage that she's not doing it because she said she doesn't want a penis up her butt and doesn't want to deal with the pain. Well I wanted to try it and i asked and she wouldn't let me so I cheated. She said "fine we will stay for the kids but we are having an open marriage then when the kids get older we will get a divorce" but I don't want an open marriage or a divorce I want to work it out but she doesn't want to. Plus I always thought women are supposed to do what it takes to keep their husbands happy so I really think it was her fault I cheated. After I said that she slapped me and said she's not my sex slave and went in our room and slammed the door. What do I do?!

i got pregnant at 15 and had my baby the same day i was born when i turned 16 the 8 months i had the baby inside of me were hell! i couldnt take it i had so much pain throughout the pregnancy and now i also have back problems people kept telling me that having a child is a blessing that is a complete lie! ever since day 1 i havent gotten much sleep i still really dont know how to change a diaper on occasions the baby gets bad rashes ive only gotten to go out with my friends about 10 times last year cause my mom doesnt want to babysit the father is not in my life or in my babies the family of my ex wrote off a check for $30,000 dollars to exempt my ex from having anything to do with the baby i dont have much of that money left i spent a lot of it on the baby and not much on myself i dont make enough working at jack n the box the truth is after this whole year i decided and feel i cannot make it as a mother that is why i want to give up my baby up for adoption i heard i can leave it at the firestation no questions asked is that true or where can i leave him up for adoption and im very afraid to tell my mom about what im going to do

Since I got married I've gained so much,plus I've moved to a new country and I have so much going on. Lately I've been catching my husband watching porn and stalking girls. I can't wrap my head around this. Maybe he's not happy with the way I look anymore even tho he tells me he loves me,he dosent show it.

My husband and I have been married close to almost a full year now. He is having trouble finishing during sex. He said he's board with the same routine every time. What can I do differently to make it better for him?

My parents got married 45 years ago. My mom was 17 yrs old at the time and need a consent since she was under age. Her father would not sign the consent so she got a family friend to sign it. My mother's mom had passed away already..She thought it was legal and never throught anything of it until now. This happened in the state of Maryland in 1970 and they have been together ever since their marriage..Are they really married? Or could it be invalid ?

I live in California and I bought in cash a house in Texas when I was single. I always pay the expenses for this house by myself even after getting married. Now I am separated from my husband more than two years ago and, since he doesn't give me any child support for our two kids, I want to sell this house to pay my debt. Does he has any right to the procedures of the selling?

She just walked out on me Without me knowing and she took the kids and she moved to another state that, I found out the news 6/7 months can I get them both back to my state or is it too late

Is my husband flirting with another girl? My husband works with a married woman and I've been reading his work emails without his knowledge. I feel a growing relationship developing but think I may be overreacting. I want to tell my husband about it but don't know if the concern is warranted. A LOT has happened. Flirty emails, compliments, he cooked for her once, a always gives her more attention, etc. But just now I saw an email he sent her after she sent him an email with info he needed... On a Saturday night! He wrote to her only, without adding her boss: "You rock... Thanks". She wrote back "That's nice to hear, thanks!" But the original request was something he could have done himself... He didn't need her to do it. It would have been quicker that way. He emailed her to have more contact on Monday (he's two levels above the girl's boss.) Am I right to be upset? She's only an associate and is it normal for him to write to her these compliments?

Recent a widow, and now want to spend my life with my new man, If no marriage, but a celebration of hearts...would I lose my SS from my deceased spouce of 44 years?

my brother and sister in law never answer my texts and they deleted me on fb . my sister in law talks to her brothers gf everyday but i only hear from her on holidays and birthdays . my husbands parents tell us about other events and the birthday parties , if they didnt we wouldnt know about them , she probably gets mad when they invite us . i told them happy birthday and got nothing but the girlfriend got happy birthday and a 5 page note on how much they love her . i dont know , i guess i just want to feel apart but they must not want me to

Need advise on what to do about my marrige. Me and my spouse been married for a year. We were dating for about 6 years. My job takes alot of my time do to long hours shifts. About 7 months latter of jusy being married I got sent to night shift and well we didnt spend or saw eacother as much i would come hone from work and she will be leaving and i rarely saw her when she would get home because I would be gone to work by then. Well after that i got sent to about an hour and hakf away from my house to work. It was day shift but i would get home about 8:30 pm and well tired and it just wasent enough time to spend together. In the end she came out telling me shes been talking to someone else, she felt alone and in need of attention she told me and that it hs been going on since january. She said she was going to stop talking to him but that she was confused and stuff. She said he use to work where she works but I have a feeling he is currently working there too. I still love her! But just sometimes it dosent feel the same anymore like we grew some distance. I dont know what to do. Because she does have feelings for him. I want to be with her well she is my wife! But i dont want for her to be confused and have feelings for someone else! What should do?

My husband and I are added on his father's cell phone under the Sprint plan (childish I know) he doesn't have any added anything just unlimited text and. Data. He lives in Hacienda heights and we live in Visalia. I can get into the account because his father told me the username and password as well as my husband. I want to see what my husband is texting on his phone because he has admitted deleting texts to and from a certain girl. I called sprint to see if they can give me that information but they said they don't keep it. I heard there is a way to see what they are saying for legal purposes. How do I go about doing that?

Just the two of you, each paying for half of the meal. Is that a date or something?

last night i got into an argument about same sex marriage with my wife she kept saying how they have every right and i kept destroying her with my arguments then she called me a bad word so i punched her in the mouth i immateriality said i was sorry i tried to hug her and she pushed me away and she went up stairs i got so scared i didnt know what to do so i went to my brothers house he gave me a cup of coffee and i felt a bit better then i got a call from her sister saying that she no longer wanted me to help her with her injury case(im a lawyer) and that how could i have done that to her sister the truth is im not like this i only did it once and it was an accident i feel that just because i did it once they think im a monster that beats his wife

My now ex used to berate me in public and make me feel stupid. He even would get so angry where he would drive off and leave me at the store for hours. I would call him and he'd ignore me. Does anyone else have this problem of being publicly embarassed?

My husband and I have been living apart for a couple of months. I am still on our lease contract and have a joint account. We also have a baby together. Our relationship was rocky when we separated. But still love each other despite the hurt and anger. Last week, he became very ill and is now fighting for his life in the ICU for severe pnuemonia. I was the first person there and came as soon as he told me. In regards to his belongings, his phone, rent, updates on his condition, what are my rights? His mother is the only family he has but is not involved in his matters.

We have not contacted much but she wants to start over from the bottom, the person with whom she had the affair is someone we both know and she wants to remain friends with him which is out of the question I have met someone but will not let it go to the next level while I'm married and she is willing to wait and see what do I do I have always been faithful and still am as the woman I've met knows that I will not be romantic with her just yet.

My husband and i have been married for a year now and i noticed he was talking to a slut who has a child in a non friendly way. I confronted him he denied it and said they were friends but i just didnt believe it. He then told me he i love you but not in love with you anyhow things happened and i ended up leaving. I then came back to the house after being gone a month because he wanted time.. I notice hes talking to this girl and they had met up 2 times . I decide to make a final decision and leave him for good , its hard enough knowing he cheated on me and i wasn't going to sit around and watch it happen .. The day i was leaving i expressed my feelings towards him and said what i had to say. The next morning as i was ready to leave he said dont leave i can try to change and i will put my all into changing. He then deleted and blocked this girl( which btw: knew he was married and kept telling him is your wife gone yet every day) he know has conpletely blocked all communication with her and is willing to go to marriage counseling and church and all that.. I just dont know what to think of all this. What should i do i do love him but i dont want to het hurt at the end

Long story short went try for a yr, cheated and got girl pregnant. It's was more of a sex buddy ordeal no feelings for her just a gory term cheat but a really bad choice. Had the awful choice of telling my wife as we have 3 kids. Didn't tell her until after the other girl had baby. Can't believe I could hurt my wife like that. I really don't want to lose my feelings but don't have a choice idle she decides to leave. Our marriage wasn't strong yet their was no excuse for my actions. By the grace of God she has been a strong person although very hurt by this. The adultery part is hard to handle and the thought of an outside kid is worse. All our kids know is a two parent home. I think my wife is willing to work it out but I don't think she want anything to do with the outside baby. She is not stopping me either but would prefer to keep it separate from our marriage. I can't be mad at her and I u see stand its not hers so I havee to respect her feelings. I want to be in the kid life but think we need to rebuild our marriage first, Atleast that's what our counselor and church stated. I'm thinking it's too much to accept and she may come around later. I mean I really at the time don't have feelings for this baby as I didn't "know" the mom. It's a different feeling than what I h ave for the kids my wife and I Share. Could I get unbiase advice on why u would do? I just don't see leaving a marriage/ kids/ family for an outside kid as some had suggested. Then our kids hurt???

And how do you cope with them?

I truly love my partner - he is a great person and I care deeply about him. But I know I am not in love with him. I don't feel lost without him. I could (and do) go months without seeing him due to our jobs, and I don't look at him the way I feel I should... I want to be helplessly in love with someone but I don't know if that's just a fairy tale or if that truly exists (being head over heals in love with someone). I am 23 and have been with my partner for 4.5 years and I'm afraid that I grew apart from him but he's in love with me and I don't want to hurt him.

My husband convinced me to give him a second chance while we were separated. I decided to give it a "trial run". During this time he was the person I met and fell in love with. Sweet, caring, appreciative, showed me affection, and actually communicated with me (he always had an issue with this). Not long after this he canceled our divorce. Fast forward two months later... he is distant, rude, threatens me with empty threats (if you do this again you will regreat it). Any money that I get from him has to be accounted for before he gives me more. This normally ends up in an argument. He does not help me with our 16 month old son. This past weekend he has stayed out with friends drinking and didn t come home till 5:30 in the morning. Any time he asks me whats wrong when he can tell something is bothering me and I tell him, no matter what it is his response is "thats stupid" or "thats retarted". So now I don t even talk to him about anything. I do not cry in front of him. Any time he catches me crying he tells me to quit pouting. We also haven t had sex in over a month. He hasn t even attempted. Our son stayed the night with his grandparents, that night all my husband did was sit on the couch and watch TV all night. If I try to kiss him or show affection he sighs and then makes up an excuse (I have to go to the bathroom or I have work to do) to get away. I have talked to him about couceling he agreed when we were separated and now he says no because we can t afford it...when we can. Should I just go ahead and reopen the divorce?

I loved my husband with all my heart but he always wanted to experiment in the bed room and I would always try everything ONCE and some things I just was not comfortable with and I would tell him well he woke me up the other night doing one of those things and told me it was my fault because I didn't say anything but I just froze ( I was raped when I was young so learned to not saying anything which he was aware of) I'm honestly to scared to fall asleep near him or anything and I want time apart but he threatens to hurt himself if I leave just don't know if I'm overreacting or what

He saying that he need me working and he saying that i would make a good wife because im a hard worker but then again he ask for alot and dont give nothing in return when i give it to him i dont know if he trying to use me up or what,because from what i heard a real man make sure his wife dont have to get out and work.but he saying when he start working he was gone give me what he owe me and more but i just dont believe that.

me and my wife been married for almost 15 yrs now and we got 2 teen kids already. about 7 mos. ago we had a huge fight coz I gave her permission to buy a car w/ a budget, a Lexus RX350 but she bought a MB GL450 w/c was 24k more expensive. I got mad of course but after talks and etc. eventually we got okay, then about 3 mos ago, she said as a compromise, she said We will have a threesome sex with her newly divorced Best Friend, initially I took it as a joke then refused and eventually accepted it about 2 weeks ago then Now my wife is mad at us (me & the friend)because she said we did not respect her? Again initially I thought it was just drama from her coz it was their idea to do the threesome, then I found out that the reason my wife is mad and not talking were, 1st I facialized her friend, I had anal sex with her friend and I did 3 rounds with her friend. What happened was when we did the threesome, my was okay when I analed her friend, she continued, then after I facialized her friend she took off and took a bath and after she took a bath she saw me and her friend having sex 2nd round and we even asked her to join then she said she already took a bath and she never came back so me given a 1x free pass took advantage. I spoke to her friend, and her friend even told me they went shopping the next day and talked and even planned for another 3some then now my wife is mad. I'm confused. I got a wife who is mad and not talking to me and the kids noticing it and her friend who keeps calling me asking help from me so that she and my wife will make peace and be friends again when I can't even make peace with my wife. I'm confused why my wife is mad? I refused her offer initially then I waited for about 3 months and even spoke with them before we started and they said they've not done 3some so anything goes, I've never tried threesome before too so I don't know if there are rules. FYI, my wife does not want to do anal sex with me and does not want facial and I respect that, that is why I never forced her to do it and her friend was okay with it. I followed the anything goes with the ruling. and also I started the sex with my wife. So what was about shopping with her friend also?

I need to see a counsellor to emotionally deal with my divorce. In order to do so, I'll have to find a babysitter. My go-to babysitter is my ex-husbands mom because she is retired, has free time. I don't want her to know she's babysitting because I'm seeing a counsellor. If she slips and tells anyone, if her son (my ex husband) finds out, he'll use that as ammo to make fun of me for being sad about the divorce, or call me names. I know this, because any time I bring up wishing we could give it another shot, he calls me crazy and says maybe I should talk to someone, in a condescending tone. Anyways, I can't tell her I'm getting my hair done and come back looking the same. What other excuses can I make?

I've met the man of my dreams,I'm in care,I want to marry him is it legal without the permission of my social worker

So lately I've been concerned about my wife and my marriage, my wife and I have had little to no sexual contact the past few months and she never initiates saying I love you. She seems constantly displeased with me despite what I do. I always provide what she wants and needs and do my best to help in any way possible. She doesn't want to kiss me because it can lead to sex ( her words not mine). Especially lately she has been texting and hanging out with a gay coworker. I realize they'll see each other at some point of course but it seems like she shares secrets with him, is always texting him even at dinner and is disinterested in me but will jump at the chance to talk to him. One day I saw her texts and it looked like they were kind of trash talking me and I hadn't done anything I could think of that was wrong. Another thing that concerned me was that he does spray tanning and spray tanned my wife but she was make from the waist up. Now I'm not worried about it physically because he's gay but something about that just seems wrong to me and when I brought it up i was shot down with the whole " well he's gay" thing. I just need help and I'm feeling lonely in my own marriage and like I don't matter anymore. Any help welcome, thanks

I got married to a man (seven months ago) who is quite older than me (arranged marriage). he asks me to wear sleeveless dresses all the time, which i never did before marriage.however, i started to wear them due to his request, but i don't wear them all the time.he finds excuses to touch and rub my arms whenever i wear them,but strangely, he doesn't even look at me properly if i don't wear them. yesterday i had to discuss something with my husband but he wasn't paying attention. i quickly wore a sleeveless top and his behavior changed completely. he was ready for the discussion and found some excuses to touch my arms on several occasions during the discussion. if i go to watch movie with him wearing a sleeveless top he would put his head on my shoulder most of the time, but if i wear a half-sleeve top he would never do so. i don't know whether he loves me, or he is just attracted towards my body. please help. what should i do when he does this further?

Hello, I just found out that my husbands brother (the one I can't stand) molested his two younger sisters when they were children (they are all adults now) His sister just told me yesterday. The thing is, my husband (their older brother) doesn't know it. I hate his brother; he always says I talk like a "white woman", he wrote an awful message about me on my husband facebook page for everyone to see,but my husband is very loyal to him and his whole family in general. My evil side of me wants to blow the lid off this thing and tell him because I know he will never speak to him again and I won't have to worry about his brother trying to ruin our relationship like he has done in the past but at the same time, I don't want my husband to go to jail for trying to kill his brother after he finds out what he did. When you really think about it, its none of my business, but I really want this man out of our lives for good. Should I tell him or find a way to make his sister tell him?

Been married for 5 months. Before we we got married she promised she will give me one if I return the favor well she stopped because I won't return the favor. But I just don't like the idea of giving her one. I tried once and she was clean and shaved but I just don't like it. She said "I give you oral to make you happy why don't you do the same for me? you are not being fair." I just don't like it what to do?

From what I've seen from the poeple in my family and relatives. Couples typically stop having sex after the age of 45. Then they survive a happy sexless marriage while they still do go out on dates. why do people stop having sex when they're old? My parents are 57 and they haven't been sexually active for the past 12 yrs. sry for the typo in the question Babehart, every couple is different but from what ive seen people do stop having sex as they age. sheloves_dablues, you may have more sex than when you were younger. But sex DECLINES in most older couples. Just because you have a higher sex drive than when you were young, it does't mean MOST couples are like you. U don't represent most of them. Also, I knew because my parents have told me.

I'm not sure my wife still loves me. She has no desire to make love to me. Married 35 years, only woman I have ever loved. I will not cheat on her no matter what. I don't believe in suicide, but I have no desire to go on.