I took my engagement ring off today, because me and my fiance have been arguing a lot for some time now, and I'm feeling a little confused about where we stand. This has been almost a three year engagement. And we have been thru a lot. I have felt with him not knowing whether he wants to be with me even in the very beginning of the relationship. After two years of us dating, he asked me to marry him. But now he's telling me he asked me to marry because he didn't want to loose a good thing. 4 months after the engagement he told me he wasn't ready to get married because we were rushing. And he didn't want to get married right away. After a baby and 3 years later. We are living together, but we argue over silly things and still no marriage. I trust him, and love him. But I sometime having resentment with him asking them saying we were moving too fast. I really want us to go to counseling, and work on understanding each other. But I find it sometimes hard to talk to him. He seems to come off as a jack *** and nonchalant about my feelings. What should I do?

We were going through divorce and we reconciled. I have regretted my decision but I'm now living in his hometown with limited funds. First, my mother was deleted, then my best friend who I consider to be a sister then a couple others. I would ask him, but he is difficult and I need advice.

Health and fitness is a big part of my life. I keep myself in really good shape. A few months back, I had a knee injury so I couldn't run, bike, etc. Sometimes just walking was extremely painful. This lasted for months and I was pretty upset about it and gained 10 pounds. Now that my knee is better, I'm trying to lose it.I do monitor my calories which my husband always expressed was stupid, etc. But loosing weight especially when you're already of small stature requires much more work. So I count everything. And all I've heard him say is, "It's not a big deal. Can't you just eat and skip this, etc.?" At the same time, he is a very visual person. He's always made a huge fuss over my body and is always touching me and telling me how perfect I look. And he's made it clear that if I were fat, he'd think it was unattractive and honestly, I think the same for him. I would still love him, though. I just don't understand what he wants from me. I don't just wake up looking how I do. He is very critical about it and I don't like it and I don't see how it affects him either way. I've told him to stop but he still expresses his disproval. Why is this?

We have a 3 year old and his little cousin painted his nails and I told my son that's a no no only girls paint their nails...my husband told our son he could paint his nails black!! So my husband said I'm putting a label on our son..I'm not I feel like he shouldn't introduce that to my son...let's say when my son gets older if turns out to be gay or a transsexual that's completely fine with me...my point is don't force a lifestyle upon my son let him figure it out for himself...I think my hubby is bi-sexual he was getting very angry when we had a heated discussion about that lifestyle it was like he was trhing to come out to me

I met her in a military hospital at the start of this millennium...and never thought a shirink would take me a primitive heathen seriously but she did .....cheers!!!!

The other day, after my wife and I had sexual relations, she asked me how it was and I told her the truth; I said, "You're way better than the others..." I mean, not only did I compliment her, but I told the truth and I just don't understand why I have to have a frying pan surgically removed from my keester. Do you have any advice how to reconcile with my wife? For the record, I am formally educated... I IS NOT STUPID.

but he doesn't just taste it he does what our baby does via my breasts. Is it some kind of weird sexual thing or does he just think it tastes good or does he look sucking them so much that he doesn't care that milk comes out or what? :S does this happen to everyone?

I know most men's do but I'm talking about women's out there since they have diamond ring because my coworkers know i had gotten married just recently and told me where my ring was and why i don't wear it but i do wear it just not at work because i work at a retail and my hands gets dirty touching all the bottles that sometimes leak out of the bottle and I'm just scared that my ring will get dirty or get any sratches but my coworkers told me that I'm bit crazy and that I should wear it but it's my ring why are they so nosy about it?

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Earlier today we got into an argument about him not being home enough. He often goes out with his friends, comes home drunk after, and doesn't spend enough time with our 4 year old son, we also have another child on the way. When I confronted him about this, he told me that I was pissing him off and that he could do whatever he wanted. I then kept pressing him about the issue and he turned around and kicked me in the stomach and kicked me repeatedly when I was laying on the floor. Afterwards I threw up all over myself and the kitchen floor and cried while my son tried to comfort me. I have never been afraid of my husband till now and I'm too scared to confront him about what happen. He gets off work early in the morning and I have thought about taking my son and going to my sister's house before he comes back home. If you have any advice please tell me.

My husband and I have been together for ten years (since high school). In our 20s, my husband dropped out of college because he had no idea what he wanted to do. He is now working entry-level retail. My distress about this has nothing to do with money, and everything to do with his lack of ambition. Every time I try to bring up going back to school, training opportunities, or even vying for a promotion, it ends in a fight. I have avoided the topic because he is perfectly content doing what he is doing and I'm getting nowhere. Six months ago, I met someone at work. He has drive and ambition. Dreams. He's brilliant. He's caring. As soon as I met him, I felt I could talk to him about anything. If I need cheering up, I turn to him. He knows all the right things to say and he makes me feel loved and wanted. I've fallen for him and want to spend my life with him. He has made it perfectly clear that we cannot have a sexual relationship while I'm married to someone else, which makes him that much more amazing to me (and it's not the sex I want; I just want to wake up next to him everyday). The problem is that I really do care about my husband. I love him, just not with the passion that I love this other man. My husband is a good guy, and I'm all he has. He has told me he would die without me. He is extremely dependent. I feel I have to choose between his happiness and mine, and it has been a really tough call. I know living beside him in misery won't do either of us any good. Help!

I only have 4 pieces of jewerly. Two rings my current wife gave me and the gold necklace and charm from my late wife gave me 39 years ago. The reason I wear the neckless/charm is cause it's very nice and one of a kind. My wife after 13 years is now angry I wear it.

I had recently got married and my wedding ring is little big but it's not too loose and my coworkers thought i was crazy for not wearing it i don't understand because whenever my husband got me jewerly i always wrapped it with a cloth to make sure it lasts longer and the wedding ring was about 8 thousand dollars and i honestly didn't want to wear it to work

I'm 21 and in college. I am not in a relationship rn but I womder what the ideal age is to get married?