I want to have sex with this guy but I'm self conscious about the way I look. My breasts are big but they sag. But I've always had large breasts.

I have a smaler cycle with old friends that I hang out with. But now I really don't have much in common with them. Like we don't listen to the same music, or have the same interests for exampel, so its really hard for me to just start a conversation with them because I don't know ehat to talk about with them. Have you been in the same situation where you don't fit in, or know someone that experienced a simular thing? Just a reminder that there aren't really many people in the same age where I live so its hard to meet new people where I live.

Hey guys, I usually don't do this but I am kind of desperate. So I have a group of friends that I just kind of hang out during school. However, I want to hang out with them out of school because I don't have siblings and i don't have a good relationship with my extended family. But the thing is that they don't seem to really want to hang out with me and it seems I annoy them. See we go to a vo tech school in which people from all over the county go to and most of them have their own friendships from their own towns. I did not have friends from my town and I was bullied through most of school and because of that I am not super confident and I care about what people think about me. So since this is like the first time I feel like I have actual friends I want to do something since most of the time I do complete nothing at home. I have kind of asked before but they don't pay attention and just shrug it off. So I was just wondering should I just not ask and hopefully when I get into college( I am currently a sophomore) get better friends or should I do something about it. Sorry for being so long but I appreciate any advice.

I have a friend who asks me how something works and while explaining, she can't keep quiet and talks instead of listens. She doesn't just talk, she talks loudly. I realize the reason she asks me the same question multiple times is because she never takes the time to pay attention. It's exhausting to get to the end of any conversation.

Not actually happening to me, it just crossed my mind because a friend commented that my mom was a milf one day (cringe). Anyways I've heard stories of friends entering a relationship with their friend's older and divorced/widowed mom (or dad). So say your friend ends up becoming your step-parent which just sounds awkward. Is that honestly justified? What should you do in that type of situation?

I'm a girl. This girl has shown clear signs of interest in at least friendship (smiling at me a lot, cutting the distance between us/walks close to me in the hallways when we walk opposite directions). She is in my lunch period and I see her in the hallways sometimes. She won't sit by me at lunch. She just goes outside with her friends (at my school we are allowed to go outside for lunch). The last day of school is in a few days. Why won't she sit by me?

My online bff owns a club on a video game, i'm in the club and someone named Abby (lets call her abby) So my bff got skype a few days ago and she added me, she also added Abby. But everytime I say hi, she just says "hi" and then she asks me to play with her, but when Abby doesn't say hi for a few hours she acts like its the end of the world, and everytime Abby says "hi" my bff says "EDITH!!!! HI!" or something along those lines. Sometimes my bff completely ignores me, not to mention that she laughed at me having a broken ankle. Is she moving on, or something else?

I have been bullied in college in the dorms, but I find my bullying from middle school is more haunting and affecting me more. The college dorm bullying I forgot about it after.

I have a friend that if I accidentally say that I have plans on a certain day she will give me the third degree about what,where,who,the genesis of that friendship etc. and ultimately an invitation as well. She has plenty of friends but she always wants to be in my business. How can I politely say that I am a private person?

I cashier at Target and I'm 18F, coworker is 28M. I told him last week I was going to a concert and had put my shift on the swap shift board. It was a desirable shift and he took it immediately. If he hadn't taken it, in days time someone else would have. On Saturday morning, I was meant to work but I was sick and at my boyfriend's house. I called out of work and stayed there. My co worker began texting me and calling me, but I ignored his texts and calls because I was with someone else and I figured he'd know that I'm an adult and I can take care of myself. I get home on Sunday and yesterday, my sister tells me that my coworker came to my house asking if I was okay. I have people harassing me online and I have a stalker, so showing up to my house without asking is crossing the line, and my co worker knew that. I texted him, angry at him for doing that and freaking out my sister. We had a bit of an argument and I stopped replying. This morning, the day of my shift, he said that he was angry and that he wasn't going to cover my shift for tonight, so I would have to come in. I told him I would miss the concert and he just said "You're welcome". What are your thoughts on this? I don't think there's much to do about my shift and I'll have to miss the concert.

In two days time it will be last day at work and I want to invite everyone to lunch but I don't feel comfortable because I am only a casual staff member. I have been in the same situation for three years and I'm worried what they would think of me. Should I still invite everyone? Always there are some employees there I don't like should I invite them to lunch as well?

my best friend and i have been best friends for 22 months (yessss we count). we never stop talking. we're basically attached at the hip. but recently, my best friend found some other friends, which i have no problem with. but recently, they're all my best friend speaks about. like, i cannot get a word in. they're all my best friend wants to talk about. and my best friend has began to be distant- saying that 'us being close isn't ideal anymore' and 'i'm tired of being labeled as best friends.' i don't understand and i don't know what to do and i dont wanna push it, but it kinda hurts.

For some reason, whenever i become close with someone, everything they do seems to annoy me. I can never be happy because i always end up convincing myself thst i have the wrong friends and wondering how i ended up with them. Part of it may be that i do end up with questionable friends but the other reasons may simply be in my head and a result of my severe trust issues. How do i make it stop?

I'm in eighth grade, and I miss my best friend who's on vacation for 8 days. She can't have her phone with her so I can't text or call her. I still text her number and leave voicemails, so that when she comes back she can read everything. It's been 2 days. I was looking at videos of me and her and I started crying. Is it unhealthy to miss my best friend this much?

So I am 18 and I don't drink alcohol (Here, the legal age to drink is 18) I always get invited to parties and all that but I tell them that I don't drink and that I won't go. They call me names and make fun of me for not drinking. I think it is the best decision for me and I am not going to start drinking anytime soon. For my 18t birthday party, I was going to make it a non alcohol party because all of my friends drink excessively and I did not want to b responsible for them. My 'friends' turned around and said "Well we aren't coming if there is no alcohol". I don't know why they do this but life is not about getting drunk all the time.

I have supportive friends who are there for me but I still feel lonely

So I work with this girl (I'll call her Anne) and she's.. different. My co workers and I always see her talking to herself, she wears very weird costumes to work, she will be talking to you and then all of a sudden she switches the subject and I can never understand what she's talking about. I felt really bad for her, a lot of our co workers make fun of her behind her back so I wanted to befriend her. We decided to hang out at a local gym tomorrow and during our lunch break at work we were discussing exercises we wanted to do. I told her i would like to go on the treadmill and then she said "Well I have an idea. How about we do this exercise where you wrap your legs around my waist and your head hangs low and you have to do like sits up on me" and then she was saying some other really weird exercises like I'll be on the ground and she'll hold my legs back far to my head basically. I then said I don't think we should do those. Well anyways, a couple hours later another co worker of mine who I'm friends with came to work & I was telling her what Anne wanted to do. My friend laughed loudly and said "Omg please tell me you're not gonna hang out with her. She's a lesbian! That's so weird!" And then I noticed Anne was coming up behind me to say goodbye but I think she heard because she looked sad and walked away fast and never replied to me when I asked her what time she wants to meet up tomorrow. I feel awful. I never meant to hurt her feelings, what should I do?

im having a problem with my absolute bestfriend thats a girl i was mad about something and usually when im mad or upset i text simple and dry and she knows that so she kept askin me whats wrong i said nothing anyway so then later in the day i texted her gn (goodnight) because she said earlier that if she doesnt text me back its because shes at the river swimming and i was mad cause she went again after she said she almost drowned last time and she knows thats why i was mad lowkey so anyway i told her gn cause she aint text me all day so i might as qell tell her gn now cause she not talking to me anyway then she texted back immediately so i asked her i thought u was at the river and she said "i was" "idk why you gotta get all dry for fr" and idk why but it pissed me off and i said "there u go again idk why u keep ****** sayin that **** when i didnt do anything" and she left me on read and so today she completely didnt talk to me at all shes the one who piss me off but shes actin like the victim so idk if im wrong for cursing at her and should say sorry or let her not talk to me cause shes mad at me

I became friends with this guy a few months ago and at first he seemed like a really nice and understanding guy. I also met his girlfriend and we all got really close, and I ended up living with them now. And now that I do, I've seen that he is an extremely aware person, and he does things just to **** with people and see how they react and then he will have a smirk on his face. I've caught him in many lies. He tries to control every situation. I'm not even in a relationship with him, but he has tried to control me as if I am, even if I was he shouldn't and he shouldn't be doing it to his girlfriend. So I finally confronted him about it and at first he got really mad and defensive saying, " I don't know what the **** you are talking about, I'm really confused, and if I'm doing something, I'm doing it subconsciously, I'm not aware." And then he came to me, after I said I'm really trying to understand. And he goes " I really appreciate your understanding and patience, I'm working to break childhood patterns, I know I come off across as manipulative and a sociopath but I'm not and I'm really working through things." ..... I really don't know what to think of anything and my head is just spinning, I never once called him a sociopath but yet he is aware that he comes across as one. What do you think? Should I be concerned? What should I do?

am i a jerk mean or?.. i love this heart transplant girl and so to say things went wrong because people send messages like " he had sex with me " and stupid friends that gave a condom and then when i finally thought i lost her forever i did something stupid because of lies from stupid school people.. but i learned from that but it hurt her a lot but changed my ways and that is more than a year ago but it still hurts her a lot. i do give her time and she vents about what happend in her way thats normal but somehow i am abusive for litterly only loving her and or being super protective over her and because of the crap what happend got anxiety and get suicidal when about to lose her because idiots on deviantart and facebook think they are funny trying to seduce the one i love and litterly abuse her. and when i get mad to them i really really get mad because they all want sex with her or just wnat to cause hurt and i serieusly dont want to cause hurt and only do good for her and i can stand a lot but not when people do this to her. recently got a liver punch from my little brother for example but left it by a comment to ask him not to do it again. he didnt listen but thats another story. but when people threaten the one i love and make lies about me or her that we had sex or something i compleetly go into 1 full panic anxity more or 2 mad and protective. but all of it is abusive what i try to do somehow.. is it or is it not .. i dont know it anymore..

No matter how friendly I am with a female, they always end up acting like a shady.. well... rhymes with witch. I get hateful stares and usually I see them looking me up and down. I dress normally... jeans, regular t-shirt and I am SUPER friendly. I am never given a chance though. I don't have boobs hanging out like most do or wear short shorts. It sucks because I see most girls have a best friend but I can't have a close friend that's a female because she either is a backstabber or wants to compete with me. In my eyes, I am no beauty. I just don't get it. I am hated for no reason.

Be in a relationship with someone, hide it don't post pictures with them on Facebook very much. Meet someone else develop something with them and try to build something with them get to know them, stalk them. Talk about then she find out information about them and talk about them to friends and family. Avoid speaking of them to the person they're dating. Want pictures with them all over Facebook posing close with them. Try to insert yourself into their lives trying to get close to them. Feel hurt and a sense of loss and miss them if they say they're moving away. Try to get you to notice them when they're dressed nicely. Try to encourage you to make a move. Send signals, hold long eye contact with them. Having a select few of your closest friends knowing about this other person. Is this an affair