Well, he looked exhausted this morning and I told him that he looks like he smoked pot and as soon as I said this, his comments became sarcastic and his reply was, "I suppose we look similarly then." I told them that he was being defensive and when I had said it again the second time that he looked like he smoked pot and that he shouldn't be trying to deflect, he said that I look like the type of person who does cocaine and he remarked on several characteristics and claimed he was just pointing out the irony. How do I get him to stop being rude? I told him that looking tired like he did would get people thinking that he smoked weed and he retorted, suggesting no one would think that way, if they wouldn't assume I was on drugs for the way that I walk and how my eyes are always glued shut. Why is he being disrespectful?

I have played baseball since i was 6 years old and my dad really enjoys watching me play, i am now 15 playing in high school. He wants me to play ball in a league during the summer. Keep in mind the regular season just ended which started in january and ended in late april. I am not really that interested in baseball right now and i want to take up other hobbies such as learning to play guitar. I do plan to play baseball again once the regular season starts up again next school year. So how do i tell my dad i don't want to play over the summer?

So there is this girl who I work with and I'm now in a friendship group with her and a few other girls. The first time I met her, she said 'no offence, but you kind of sound like you are from private school' and said 'if I could imagine what it would be like to go to private school, I would imagine people who looked like you' On a separate occasion she said 'you look like you could be royal, or belong to a royal family and I'm like a pig' She keeps mentioning this to me all the time too, that I look dress and act like a royal. When I talk to someone about their clothes and if they are from an expensive shop she says to me 'well only you would shop there' I feel like in the friendship group she doesn't want me there, and when we go out to places to eat she always says 'I can't imagine you being here, you should be in the palace' sarcastically In the friendship group sometimes she will say 'I like you guys because you are like me and we speak the same and I have lots in common with you' and then she will not mention me. She texts everyone else in the group except me too. When we are all together it feels like she wants to push me out and only ever has something to say to me when she wants to insult me Why does she treat me differently based on my social background and upbringing?

I never wanted to be a father so I have been praying about it constantly I am 55 both my kids are 17. I took my kids to a counselling service with my pastor and his wife. They prayed to remove my soul ties from my kids meaning I am no longer their father as they are 17 old enough and will be 18 soon. They told both of my kids it is Biblically that God removes you from your family members at 18. So I am no longer a father. I told my coworker Josh this and he told me my pastor is wrong... but how?

We are just friends but why did he say bye baby and then say my nickname? Haha I know my question is dumb

Generally speaking... Yes, I know that there are always some extreme extenuating circumstances which will not allow this, such as death, abandonment, ...etc.

So I do marching and have done it for 4 years now and I absolutely love it! But last year I became too old for the under 16 team and I wanted to move up to the seniors. My mother threatened to kick me out of the house if I did marching last year. This came as a shock to me because it is something I love to do and she knows that I love to march. I am doing it this year and managed to convince her to let me march for the seniors. She told me that I could only march if I paid for it all myself. I agreed to this as it is something I love to do and I am good at it. I am not sure why she hates it so much, whenever I ask her she just gets grumpy and walks off. I dont know why she did this as she knows I love it and that it takes me happy.

Can a guy cousin love a girl cousin like a cousin or is it not possible to have romantic feelings?

I'm a 16-year old girl and I feel like such a loser sometimes. The high school I go to is competitive and there are people who are in tons of clubs, have excellent grades, do sports and play instruments. I don't play any instruments (well at least not anymore) and I don't play sports. I get pretty good grades but they're not exceptionally good. I like photography but I'm an amateur and occasionally I like to draw but I'm just average at it. I usually spend my days playing video games or going on the internet. When I compare myself to these talented people I feel like such a failure and an embarrassment. I know I'm probably being too harsh on myself but how can I stop feeling this way?

Voglio cominciare con il dire che mia madre è un'ottima persona, ha cresciuto due figlie da sola e fa di tutto per noi. Però la difficile relazione con papà la stressa a molto, e tendeva a picchiare me e la mia sorellina. Nessuno si è mai ferito sul serio, niente lividi particolari che io ricordi, però non erano neanche cose leggere. Quando era molto arrabbiata mi tirava su per il collo, o mi prendeva per i capelli, o mi prendeva seriamente a sberle. Una volta mi ha tirato per la stanza, e un'altra mi ha sbattuto la faccia contro il tavolo. Io mi ricordo di essere stata spaventata, che quando faceva un movimento brusco mi ritraeva d'istinto. Ho provato provato a parlarne con lei, ma mi dice o che sono invento storie, o che voglio ferirla, o che sono troppo sensibile. Non so cosa pensare, non voglio essere ingiusta nei suoi confronti.

This question may sound a little weird, but I really need a different perspective, an external perspective because I am going crazy right now. Please, don't judge, I know he is married but I have to understand what it's happening and I need an opinion from you all. So I met this guy last summer, we always see each other in group: me, my family, some friends, he and his wife, sometimes other people, he also invited us into his house twice. I felt so good with him because he's so charming, he makes you feel comfortable, he's that type of guy who makes you feel confident and, I don't know, just good and I have to admit that no one has been able to make me feel this way before! So everything was ok, he was really flirtatious with me, he did questions to me to know me better, he touched me a lot, he seems to be attracted to me and I noticed he often checked my body and we joked a lot, like just really good friends and I liked the relationship we had a lot. Something changed an afternoon, we invited some friends and there was him too, he was particularly flirtatious that day, we joked and he touched me a lot again, he hugged me a lot, but it was even more than usual (yes there was his wife there but I have to tell you something you don't know about her, later) and at a certain moment, when we were alone, (TO BE CONTINUED) after he hugged me once again, he told me that I am a really good friend like sort of a sister or something like that (yes this may sound like terrible friendzone!) but then he did something strange: he stroked my lower back, I would consider that stroke really sensual, at the point that I felt a little aroused. That time something changed for me, beacuse I started to feel more than simple friendship towards him... I don't know, that "evil" stroke changed everything, I started to daydream about him, I started to think of him more than before, even if I was already attracted to him, that day maybe I "fell in love" and I don't expect nothing from him, but I will be honest with you: I wish I could have sex with him, I feel there is a strong connection between us and I can't deny it anymore. I don't expect nothing more, I don't want to destroy a family I just feel there is something I don't know, like a strong sexual tension between us and yes, my way to fall in love with a man is simply have sex with him in any way, I express passion, I am not that type of girl who dreams about marriage and children, at all. After that we met only twice and I noticed it was like he was keeping it down, he was cute with me as usual but he was containing himself, so I thought his wife told him to stay away from me. At the end of that penultimate encounter, he greeted me with a "Bye honey" so I wasn't expecting he was cooler with me at all. Last encounter, a few hours ago (I live in Europe) for a party with my family and lots of people: I went to say hello to him, he was holding his baby (yes, he has a child, don't judge me please!), he seemed nice but also embarassed at the same time he asked me how are you but he seemed different, well unrecognizable! He is not that type of guy I would consider shy, at all, also considering how many times he wash flirtatious with me! That was red flag number one; then red flag number two, everytime I went into a room or a space where he was, he went away, I felt he was avoiding me, my presence all the freaking time and this sudden change really hurt me, a lot. So I started walking around, talkind with other people but I also noticed that if I was not so far from him he was looking at me, so he wasn't completely ignoring me! I felt sad so I started drink beer, because when I feel sad I tend to drink, yes it's wrong but I AM WRONG, so what else can you expect from me? That worked, I started to feel fine and I laughed a little, surprisingly drunk gave me clarity and that's a contradiction, I know, but I thought you know what? If he is avoiding me, I will stay at the balcony, if he wants to talk to me he can come here and say something, if he avoids the balcony he is really he is really avoiding me. So I stayed there, sad and so lonely, I was losing my hopes, also because I heard that he and his wife were leaving and I thought to not go to say goodbye to him, if he missed me he had to come to me, then he came to the balcony and I felt a hand stroking my back and I turned around and I said that I was drunk, just to keep things light, he said to go on just joking, I don't remember how he said goodbye to me, if he kissed my cheeks or not, because I was too drunk. During the hours following I laughed a lot, just because I was drunk but I wanted to die inside. Now that I am at home I am crying and I don't know what to do, I don't know what's wrong with me, I don't know if I just misinterpreted his past behavior, but something inside my heart says absolutely not, because there was something between us. Yesterday he wasn't so cold, but he wasn't the guy I met the other times either! I don't know what happened to him, maybe I did something wrong, but I am not stupid: he was looking at me sometimes, for example when I had my back to him, I didn't imagine anything. I feel dead inside because probably I won't see him again for a long time and things will get worse and worse, I think, especially if I won't see him so often. Yeah I know that you will judge me and maybe I deserve it but I think that when it comes to love and sex there are no rules, sorry to say but that's what I think, attraction is attraction, chemistry is chemistry and I don't believe in monogamy. What I had to say about his wife is that i know for sure, she cheated on him a few days before the wedding, so I find it funny that she might have blamed him for his flirt with me, that's what I suspect.. But that's another story.. I don't know what will happen tomorrow but that's not how i dreamed to see him again, I am so sad, I feel emptiness and loneliness without him, he was my Sun. Un update: @ ? thanks for your smart reply, this is exactly what I think, regret is the worst thing you could ever experience and I personally know it, you got the point and you understood what I was talking about :) if something will happen, I will never expect more, I don't want him to leave his unfaithful (I remember this!) wife, I just wish the best, I would never hurt or destroy what he built during these years!! Thanks to the ones who gave me kind replies, I appreciate it :) @lala: ahahah you are one of those terribly jealous women, so sad!! Yes maybe I am a selfish sl*** in a world full of hypocrisy, fake people and fake marriages, fake feelings, in this world I am the honest one, trust, because I don't hide myself behind a mask! You didn't read all the text because I informed you that his wife had sex with a guy a few days before the wedding and I am pretty sure she will do it again! So, I don't accept fake moralizing anymore, sometimes happens to meet ..some kind of soul mate, even if this person is married, life isn't a maths problem, you can't control everything, sometimes happens to fall in love with engaged people, that's the beautiful side of life, life is full of emotions out of control, without them we would be soulless empty robots! One last thing: stop with these sexist comments, 2018 guys and if a girl loves sex must be a sl*** yeah I had no idea I got catapulted back to the Dark Ages!!