I usually thought men love to make those, and he's asked so many times... why does he hate it? What did I do wrong 😅

He sees things as ours. I see things that are mine as mine that he can use if he takes care of them. His things are just... Junky. Not taken care of. Dirty. Broken. Taped. Gummy. Dirty. Oh, I've said that already. I get that we all never take care of someone else's things as much as our own, but he is a slob. I have a nice table I've had for years before he moved in and I have asked him so many times please don't put things on top of it. But he does. And it's got marks on it now from debris under the books he puts into it or his keys. Everything in our apartment that I've lived for years here has some kind of new wear from him. I just like to keep my things new. He told me I'm selfish and he's afraid to ask me if he can use things. I want to share but he does not take care of his own things. Is it wrong that I'm stingey? And don't let him borrow stuff?

Let's say that her ex was 8 inches and her new guy is 5 inches. Will the 5 inches still be enough to satisfy her?

he encourages me to have interaction with people and when the time comes for him to be there he won't go. we have family members here who dislike him. we have grown resentful of each other(me and family) because of him. recently a family member came from overseas and is staying at their house so I have to go say hi. tomorrow he has a day off. I offered to go in the morning because that way there will only be my cousin and the mother will be sleeping. that way I can see the other family member. He said no to say that he is working. But when the week end will come he will have another excuse. Last week we were invited to my friend's bday he refused to go giving me bogus reasons. I had to force him to go. He agreed 5 days later but was talking about it in such a bad way that I changed my mind and said I'm not going anymore. We were invited to his grandad's wife's birthday and he has no option but to go. He literally took 2 days off for it. which means he is actually looking forward to it. He will take me out to eat and go other places but when it comes to actually doing stuff that matters like seeing people I care about he won't go. My bachelor graduation is coming up he literally told me he had to check to see if he could get the day off and that is after letting me know I should go with family. but when he wants to take days off it's not that hard. Why did he change like this I don't understand.

He has been lazy with helping out and im stuck doing everything he just sits in his chair where he eats and watches tv and ignores me. Then when he gains weight he blames it on me...so he can have it his way then how do I teach him a lesson and make him into a big fat balloon and roll him around like the blueberry from willy wonka. (plus ive never had sex with a balloon before >:))

I've moved around so much for my husband it's making me sick and it's starting to Impact me career wise. My husband can't seem to stay in one place for a long period of time. It's really starting to effect me. When applying for jobs employers are starting to ask me why I've moved around so much. Since moving back to Jacksonville last April I've neen REALLY struggling to find work. How do I talk to my husband about all of this?! 2007-2009: moved to Pittsburgh PA for his job 2009 - 2013: moved to Jacksonville FL for a job August 2013 - March 2014: Moved to Tampa FL for job March 2014 - July 2014: Moved BACK to Jacksonville FL for job July 2014 - August 2014: Moved Nashville TN (just because) August 2014 - July 2016: Moved in with his parents in Missouri July 2016 - April 2017: Moved BACK to Tampa FL for job April 2017 - Present: Moved BACK to Jacksonville FL

To set an atmosphere where she can connect emotionally to him in order for that to happen?Why wait until midnight when everyone's tired and all of the favorite shows are off? Why not one candle or a song to set the mood? Why not make a night of it? Why??

ive now been happily married for more than 26 yrs.... why then do some of my wifes so called friends come on to me regularly most are single also.....

I directly asked her if she was in or if she was out, and she said "what do you mean?". When I elaborated that I meant in this relationship, she change the subject a bunch of times, and refused to answer. Finally she said "I don't know". I got pissed off and I said "if you don't know whether you want to be in or out, then I guess get the F out!" Then she hung up on me. But it's pissing me off because it sounds like my own wife doesn't know how to freaking be loyal. I have a feeling she's cheating but I can't prove it. And my company is making like $15,000 a month profit, but she can't even say "our business", she said "your business". But I bet if/when we got divorced she'd want it to be partly her business SMH. What should I do with a wife that's hot and cold? Sometimes everything is fine, sometimes she starts acting super distant. That's why I think she's cheating. It's very weird and Bizarre

So this is actually a very strange question so be prepared lol. Long story short my husband and I got married about 9 months ago. We are both 22. Him and I are in South Carolina visiting his aunt and uncle because we made a pit stop to see them on our drive back from florida. Well anyways they like me very much and truly consider me part of the family...however its our first night here and they are forcing us to sleep in separate rooms!! I went up to go to the bathroom and his aunt poked her head around the corner and said "just trying to make sure you're not sneaking into Derrick's room hahaha" along with a "i know what you might be up to/caught ya look". Can someone please explain to me why the HECK they are forbidding us from sleeping together? It's not even like they are uncomfortable with affection because they constantly hug and lightly kiss eachother all the time! They are not even religious or anything like that so its not like that has something to do with anything. But i mean we are HUSBAND AND WIFE. MARRIED. They are treating us like 2 horn y 15 year olds that just met. We also don't want to be rude considering we are their guests and they are great and surprisingly very normal people. This is just very weird. What do we do?! We are technically here for the next two weeks! Also, YES they know we're married. They attended the wedding lol. Thanks in advance

I am a religious person who will be marrying a non-religious person in the very near future. She and I have had multiple discussions about it, and her being non-religious is not an issue and not a dealbreaker for me. I made it clear to her that I totally and completely respect her beliefs, and would never seek to try to impose my own beliefs on her, in any way. One thing that was slightly concerning though was when she and I talked about kids and how religion will play a part or lack thereof, in their lives. I originally suggested to her that maybe we should let the children decide for themselves, whether they want to not believe or believe...to leave it up to the kids. She responded by saying that children would probably grow up as "heathen" (her words, not mine). That didn't really bother me though, what concerned me was that she also said that I would have to give up on or let go of certain personal religious beliefs I have. I have repeatedly reassured her that I have no intentions to try to impose my religious faith on her...but by the same token, I guess I'm kinda feeling that it wouldn't really be totally fair for her to ask me to change my beliefs either? Just my own personal thoughts...

I will be marrying an amazing woman very soon and who I love very much. She and I had a recent conversation about assumptions and expectations as a married couple for when having children come into the picture. I guess I just wanted to please get some input or feedback please, on if you think these could potentially be some pre-wedding red flags, or if they are really no big deal? One thing that I was a little concerning to me was that she appeared to be completely adamant that for any children we will be having together in the future, once they turn 18, they will have absolutely no financial support from us as their parents in any way, shape, or form. In other words, once they are 18, they are on their own, financially. Also that if they want to have a car even before they're 18 and after they get their driver's license, they will have to save up for and buy the car on their own. She was insistent that the child(ren) have no illusions or expectations at all that we as their parents will be able to supplement or subsidize them finanally, post-18. While I am in partial agreement with her on the need for the children to be financially-independent, that is not the quite the same way I was raised, since my immediate family tended to be more egalitarian and generous, in terms of financial assistance for my sibling and me when we were growing up. Any thoughts or comments please? Update: during my conversation with her, I agreed and am willing to go along with her approach if need be, but I can't help feeling as though it is just at least somewhat a little unmerciful and unforgiving, to the children. Also somewhat inflexible...what if one of the kids hypothetically has a serious medical emergency post-18, just for example? ETA: the primary reason or driver I think behind her logic and thinking is that she has a sister who ended up completely spoiled, not working, not independent, and freeloading off of her parents, bc fiancé's parents were overly-indulgent and completely spoiled her sister. But that doesn't necessarily mean that all kids will turn out that way though right?

I leave for work at 6am and return at 6.30pm. It's a stressful job, requires a lot of energy and for me to be alert all the time, I'm always doing stuff and I make $750 per week. This wouldn't be a problem except my husband runs his own business which allows him to wake up at 10.30am. For me to get a good night of sleep and feel rested I would need to be asleep around 10pm, but since my husband wakes up late, he simply cannot go to bed at that time (we rent a basement, so he can't really go to another room). So I'm getting 5 hours of sleep and I always feel tired when I wake up, I'm afraid I'll fall asleep driving to work, I'm always grumpy/annoyed/with headaches and can't feel happy or motivated due to lack of sleep. My husband offered for me to quit my job and help him with the company since he's not able to return to many clients because he is working on bigger projects. I would help by dealing with small projects, comparing subcontractors prices, scheduling and handling customers. He thinks that with my help the company would make way more than the $750 per week. But I always had my own money and have been financially independent ever since I can remember, it scares me that by working for the company and money going to the business account, anytime I would need money for something I would have to ask my husband. Would you put you health first, quit and help your husband's company? Or keep the $750 per week, being financially independent even if you feel unhealthy?

Ok so I know some people who I've gone to school with who are getting engaged and married and they are like 17-18 years old. I was wondering why they are getting engaged so young and how could they afford a wedding if they work part time?!?!

My soon to be ex husband is taking his mistress to court tomorrow. Obviously it hurts me because we are ending our relationship nothing more. Why does she have to be their she took him she can him i don't want to deal with her. What should i do?

The other night my husband was telling me about his physical therapist and that shes really good and shes so funny and when he go to her sessions he leaves feeling so good and happy. I kind of got jealous is that normal ?