In the dream my mother died, i can t remember how but i remember feeling so upset and empty even when i was asleep and i woke up feeling like i was in shock kinda. Me and mother dont really get along, we constantly fight but im a teenager so it s nothing out of the ordinary. I got in a fight with my sister earlier and it escalated into a bigger argument and my stepda got into an argument with my mam and I m upstairs but i heard her say about 3 times about "how we wont be happy till shes 6 feet under" "we make her feel like hanging herself" and how "the kids will be left without a mother" i know she suffers from depression and she is unhappy, but we all are,someone please give me some advice, im only 14

My sister and I were raised by our dad most of our lives. Our mom left the family when I was a baby and never wanted anything to do with us after that. Our dad was very good to us when we were kids. And of course I've always wanted him to be happy. But I wasn't expecting him to announce he was married when he never even mentioned he was dating someone. It was totally random and left me speechless when he then said he'd only met her 3 months before. Now my dilemma is this. I had been planning a little family photoshoot with the three of us, before I knew he was married. I had narrowed it down to a couple of photographers and was waiting to see more example shots when he made this announcement. I decided to cancel it after that because I knew my dad wouldn't go for just the three of us anymore, and I wanted some photos of just us, because there aren't many from the last few years. However, my sister decided to mention it to our dad and now he's had a mini-fit about me cancelling it "just because he got married again". He said it was a childish thing to do and I should be embracing her as a permanent part of my family, even after only meeting her three times to date. Was I wrong to not do the shoot? Should I do it even if I don't really want photos with her yet?

This kind of amuse me but make no sense. I like to add that my family is rather relaxed when it comes to the bathroom, nobody really cares if you get your toothbruth or something when the other is bathing. Beside, both me and my mother tends to bath quiet, so no need to wonder why they would enter the bathroom in the first place, as its normal thing with my family But for some reason, when my father is entering the bathroom while I am bathing to get something (usually a toothbrush), he ask ME to close my eyes ---- ummm shouldnt it be the other way around? - Why should *I* close my eyes when someone enter it? haha typo: Bath for a quiet long time. (I can stay in the tube for hours because I find it relaxing). and my family has NO connection to incestous/perverted relations to each others. lol.

Okay well it s like this program that really prestigious and my mom was okay with it but now that I ve gotten accepted she doesn t want me to go? It s really important to me and I can t just not go. It means the world but she is being really rude about it. I ve tried everything to explain but she keeps saying no. She s especially mean to me of all people, and I ve always thought it was because I have a different father from my siblings, I only found out 2 years ago but my mom DIDNT EVEN TELL ME? I ve been depressed and thinking suicide for a while but since she doesn t want me to be happy I guess this is the final straw?

Everyday my mom picks me up from school. So today I get in the car and she won't look at me at all. Then I ask her if we can go somewhere to get something to eat on our way home. She says "shut up" I then ask her why she is being to snappy and her response is "because". Wtf I didn't do anything! She won't give a valid reason and when I confront her about it she gets mad at me and yells at me. Please help I'm crying over it.

I've noticed this since I was 10, I love my family but I realized I don't feel as outgoing as I could be if they weren't there, I'm one of those people who could drive you crazy but I feel overly limited when they are there, and I have no clue why. :/ Is this just a teen feeling?

You see i am an only child besides my half sister who i dont like i want a brother so can i put my hair in the ground can i grow myself a brother and if not can you tell me how i can get a new brother, thanks

I'm 24 and will be starting a PhD program about a year from now (I will have to move there for classes when the time comes). Which should I choose for now? 1) Stay at [parent's] home, work a job, and save money. 2) Get my own place, work a job, and get experience living on my own. I really want to move out of my parent's home, I can't stand it here sometimes. But is it worth it to move out if I'll just have to move again a year from now? I don't know what to do.

She has this blanket that she's had since the day she was bored... She takes it Literally everywhere. The mall, to school, on sleepovers, vacation and even doing simple quick chores like taking out the garbage, she ties it to her belt and goes outside. I'm starting to get worried people will tease her. Is this normal or healthy? I remember when I was her age I didn't have a security blanket.

Ok so I'm 21. My real name is Emily ,I hate it. It reminds me of the lost sad little girl from my past,and the issues I had in school and I just hate that name. I've always called myself Skylar ,like when I become friends with people or date...I like to tell them my name is Skylar,even my dad agrees with me he hates the name Emily and supports my decision .I feel more like a Skylar . At work they call me Emily and I cringe everytime... Now I know if my mom knew this shed freak out and be hurt so I could never tell her. I am thinking about changing it leagally ,and like that idea.... just don't know what to do 😕

The first birthday since my wife's mother's passing is coming up. My wife was estranged from her mother for many years. No one in her family notified that her mother was even ill, much less when she passed away. Since my wife found out about her mom, she has tried to contact her aunt who once kept in touch with her. Her emails and greeting card have gone unanswered, and the phone number that she found belonging to her aunt has a weird message that says it only accepts text messages, which also went unanswered. Although she was finally at place where she was able to begin making peace with it, she's retreated to denial and the emotional stage. This birthday would've been her mother's 60th. My wife feels incredibly that she didn't reach out before when our kids were born, but at the time, she thought she was protecting our kids by NOT telling her mother about them. I told her we can do whatever she wants to commemorate the day, but she doesn't feel it would be right since their relationship was so rocky and dysfunctional. Someone from her support group told her she shouldn't feel guilty about not reaching out. The phone thing works 2 days. Her mother never cared to check in. She always asked other people how my wife was doing. I kind of having the feeling she's also dealing with some abandonment issues, especially since none of her family has even contacted her about her mother. Is there anything I can do as a sort of memorial or even to help her through the day? First of all, she passed away only a few months ago in November. Second of all, it was HER who did not want a relationship with her daughter (my wife). That was not my wife's choice. And third of all, our children are too young to understand. They are only 2 and 1 years old. As for visiting the grave, that's not an option. We are over 3000 miles away. MIL lived on the opposite coast as we do.

Im 13 and my mom just told me that she has no work tomorrow, so we can go out and do something. She told me to think of something to do, but I have no ideas. We aren t going to do anything to expensive. Thank you ❤️

I'm 15, and I haven't had a normal relationship with anyone in my family for a long time. My dad is batshit crazy, and absolutely not fit to be a parent. My mom divorced him when I was about 3, and I lived with her. I used to miss him and feel sorry for him because he was alone, and whenever I visited my dad he would talk about what bad people my mom and sister were. One time he pulled out a knife from ubderneath his desk and said he would kill my mom with it (I dont remember what we had been talking about prior to thay, but I remember it happening) My mom and I were pretty close and had a healthy relationship, I was also very close to my older brother (5 years older than I). But I hated my sister (8 years older than I), she has anger issues and would always yell at me and beat me for every little thing I did wrong in her eyes. Fast forward many years, and my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer when I was 12. My sister was pregnant then and had to come take care of me because my mom had to move out of the house and live in a small apartment cause it was better for her. My sister used to tell me I needed to stop being a bad kid and stressin my mom. She always reminded me that people with cancer never live more than 10 years after being diagnosed (which I know now isn't true) After a while I had enough of her and moved to the apartment with my mom. I spent the entire summer cooped up in a room and I got very anti social.

I m having an abortion unfortunately and while I have gone through this before my fiancée of almost 4 years never has we r doing the pill version and he s here next to me I want to comfort him just as much as I know he will for me but Iv tried to research it but almost nothing comes up to help he s an emotional guy always has been I just need advice how to comfort him during this process what to say how to make him not feel guilty or regret then we both know we had no other choice because I already have two of my own we don t live together yet and I m trying to get a job just to support myself and my family to move out and he s always wanted a child mainly a son and he s having a hard time that it s his first child and he has to loose the child I feel helpless I really need advice please

I don't give a **** about my Dad, aunts, uncles or cousins. The only family I see are my grandparents, sisters, mom, nephew and brother in law and I like them. But I'm told I have to like people I don't even know or see that live far away and if I saw them on the street they wouldn't know who I was.

Hi. This isn t my account, but I am using it for this question. I m 12 and my little brother is 8. People think that I have all the power over him, but he is always so mean to me and pulls the "my big sister is so awful" card. Today I wanted to use t he TV which he had been using all morning, and he said no. I kept asking, so he walked to the bottom of the stairs and shouted to our nanny that I was being "super mean" and "bullying" him. THen he burst into fake tears and wailing. I was not. Then, as I tried to walk up the stairs, he elbowed me in the stomach and knocked the wind out of me. He s currently hiding in our parents room with the remote and I am SO fed up. He also comes home from school sometimes complaining that he s been bullied by his best friends, but he won t say what they did wrong. It s kind of hard to believe because he seems proud of it, and his definition of bullying is disagreeing. On the other hand, I love him and if he really is being bullied, I will walk right up to whoever is hurting my little brother and make them regret ever laying a finger on him. What do I do???

Is it different for girls and boys?

it's never happened before. I'm almost 19 and really confused. please help. not a troll. I'm serious. I'm really freaked out.

Is it possible to miss someone that you didn't even know? Meaning that someone that is gone before you even existed. Did you ever have that feeling or do you ever have it? I barely found out that it was my Uncle J's B-Day. And when I went to bed I just cried myself to sleep. When ever I think about him I start to cry. I miss him so much it hurts me on the inside. I don't know what to do. Everyone on my dad's side talk about how great he was and how he was everyone's favorite. Please help me with this.

It s been about 6 months since I have been depressed like this . I feel inferior and everyone is so much better than me in everything . I suck at sports . this is ****** up bullshit and I can t take it anymore I just wanna die on top of that my parents don t understand . I need to be perfect in every part in my life .my mother isn t happy with my nature . my father doesn t talk to me much..distances are growing between me my mother father and brother . our family doesn t have any relationship to my father s side and I feel like a loser Someone please tell me wtf I need to do

I am a junior in college and my mom has always been super protective over my sister and I but yet our older sister she let's her do whatever she wants. I'm 24 and my younger sister is 22. I'm graduating next year and want to move to Nashville and start a career down there but she doesn't want me to leave. I've lived at home all through undergraduate and it's time I leave and get out on my own. If I change my mind over doing something she starts freaking out tat something is wrong with me and that I'm depressed. Like for example I've always wanted to be a doctor but now I want to do music business and she keeps telling me I need to face reality and that Nashville isn't going to work out for me. I want to break lose from her and be independent but she won't allow me to. She hardly let's me do anything if she isn't home. She won't go out with friends if I decide to stay in on a Friday night she cancels her plans because she says I'll be home alone...yeah so I want to be haha. How can I deal with this. She never allows me to change at all, like I said she has to be in control or she gets mad and starts crying. I'll always be there to help her out when she needs it or I'll call when I leave but instead she has. Meltdown about me moving. I told her I needed to start saving money to move and she started crying and said I don't care what you do anymore.

Okay my whole life I've called my first cousin's children my second cousin's but now I'm told that's wrong. They are supposedly my first cousin once removed (which confuses me big time). My mom has 5 brothers and 4 sisters and everyone of her siblings (except 1) has kids so they are my cousin's (for example my aunt Mary's has 4 children so they are my cousin's this I know. My cousin (my aunt's son) has 5 kids so I refer to them as my second cousin's). Then I tell people my aunt is my cousin's grandma (my aunt had a daughter and then her daughter had 3 kids). I don't refer to my cousin's as removed I just say my cousin's (what I mean by this is I refer to my cousin's kids as my cousin's not first cousins once removed, which always confuses people). Help me better understand. Thanks!

these are my son's everyday rules 1. never eat anything (even a cracker) until you pray to god for 8 minutes. 2. you have to eat what I put on the plate even if it makes you allergic or puke 3. Computer time on the weekends only. 4. 30 minutes only of computer time. No computer time on Sundays. 5. If you get any grade lower than a 93 you're grounded for 1 month. these are his everyday rules. Right now he broke on of them (cracker without praying) and I grounded him. Right now he's screaming and punching the wall. thanks! i am a educated father who teaches my son muslim and christian religion

I hate her sooo much... She's verbally abusive and makes me feel depressed and worthless. She takes out all her stress on me and my little sister because her family stopped talking to her and she won't even let me drive or get a job and I'm already 17 almost 18. My little sister cuts herself because of my mom and every time we talk we argue and my mom is always telling me about how she doesn't like me I'm so tired of her sh*t

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I am 19 years old and have a 2.5 year old daughter. I also live with my parents. My parents are threatening to take my daughter away from me legally if I talk to or go back with my child s father. He does have a criminal record and all, but I dont. I do consider myself a fit mother. I have no plan to actually move in with him anytime soon. But I am planning to move out on my own. Can they take her from me even if my daughter isn t actually living with her "unfit" dad?

For me hugging my mom hasn't been a easy thing, whenever I hug her it feels awkward. With my dad I can't really hug him a lot because we live in different states, whenever I hug him I feel like it's not comfortable, it feels awkward as well . I can't say I hugged my stepdad only when I was younger because I had to not because I wanted to. My point is that my parents hugging me feels very awkward I never really feel like I'm comfortable hugging them. Whenever I hug a relative I hug them and it feels more comfortable for some weird reason. I just feel better hugging people from church then I do at home, is it me or is it just a thing that most of us go through?

I m 16 years old and I know this is lame and stupid but just leave if you don t want to answer. I miss my brother even though we fight like normal siblings. He is never around anymore be he is always out with friends and going off all the time. He has always been like that but now he s finished school while I m still doing school. Again I know it s lame but we used to walk to school together and I used to always see him in school. As well as that we used to have a laugh making fun of the teachers and he gave me advice on school. Now because he isn t around I find it harder and less enjoyable to go to school (eg. I have to walk alone) I know it s stupid and he has to grow up and all but I just miss him and if I tell him he ll laugh at me and not take it seriously because he s a little **** 😂 I feel really lonely now because he s gone my mam works from 8 in the morning to 8 in the evening, my dad is mean so I don t really talk to him and my oldest sister is 26 so she doesn t really care about me

And yes, I'm over 18, but I'm a college student and I still live at home. Plus, my family has an insurance plan that everyone at my house is on through my parents until I turn 26, after which I would have to apply for my own insurance. I want to change my name because of religious differences between me and my family. I am a Muslim, but my name suggests that I follow Christianity. My father would probably be extremely offended if I were to change my name. There's no talking to him about it, and I don't want him to feel like I want to cut myself off from my family or my heritage by changing my name, b/c that's not my intention at all. I love them and I would never want them to feel like I'm distancing myself from them. It's just awkward for me having to explain to people that I converted to Islam and telling them my whole backstory when they ask "so why do you have a Christian name?" It's none of their business and it would make things a lot less awkward for me in school. But It would be such a difficult conversation to have, and I was just wondering if there was a way to change it without them (or at least my Dad) finding out. :(

He always randomly says mop moap and prang-em-dang , it's kind of really weird... Should we talk to our mom?

I'm 16 and dating this guy, a year older than me, having known him for a while. That's the problem, I can't actually go on a date with him, my parents wont let me. We rarely bring up boys and dating. I sometimes tell my dad a funny story about my "guy friend" just to see how he will respond, but he gets really suspicious. I find it very unfair though, my mom once told me, she and my dad met when they were my age, dating in high school back in their native India. Also my dad is a brahmin hindu, while my mom is a roman catholic. They married right after college before moving here to the US. It was for love, when most young Indian couples are put into arranged non interreligious marriages then and even today. Now, they are not asking me to later get into an arranged marriage or marry within my race or anything, but its just no dating... They think that most teen and young guys at this age, generation and in this country, just want to get into a girls pants. I know this is true for some, but my guy isn't like that, he is sweet, caring, handsome, A+ student, he's biracial (half american half Indian ethnicity) and a Christian. I just don't see why they wont let me, I'm really scared to talk about it because, I dont want them to say no and well, most Indian parents are strict.There is no reason for them not to trust me, I stay out of trouble, get good grades, etc but they still wont. Is there any way I can change their mind? Or do you think I'm too young and this is all nonsense?

My mom gave birth to me and has it on video, but she said she thinks she had another lady's baby, because she thinks he was sleeping with another women at the time. Did my mom give birth to another lady's baby, that baby being me? I'm so scared that if I turn out to be that other woman's bad that I'm gonna have to go live with her and never see my mom (or not my mom) again. Please help ~LoversLove

My husband's mom had him before she was out of college, she was very young and so was his dad. They are still married and she never got a degree or skills of her own, really. His younger bros are in sports (in fact, that whole family is obsessed w/it). She is now nearly 40 years old and wears extremely short shorts or tight tops. I have noticed that she does not dress this way unless my husband and I or his teen bro's girlfriend is over. But when my family or other elderly folks are not around, you would think she poured herself into the clothes. She loves to brag about how large her chest is, but I don't understand why she dresses this way if she claims she is "self conscious" about this issue. Could it be the influence of the other rich/snobby soccer moms? Or just her own insecurity? *nearly 50 years old NOT 40.

My mum and I have always had a weird relationship, she would go to loving me and acting nice to screaming fits and verbally abusing me (a few times physically). In the past 2 weeks things have gotten worse. She felt like my boyfriend has disrespected her and used her for money. The ironic part is that my boyfriend has denied money from her multiple times, and whenever he's asked to help out around the house he does it (my dad and mom get mad that he doesn't help without being asked, or just stands there during like building the deck because he doesn't know what to do). What bothers both of us is that all of this is completely irrational and my boyfriend wants to make it work with my parents. Yesterday I asked my mom if she'll be there for prom pictures and she said no because she doesn't want to see "that kid" around me. I asked her why and she never answered. Last night once his practice was done we agreed to meet for dinner to talk things over and to make a plan incase my mom decides to kick me out of the house (we have already planned to living together in college in 2017 and making ends meet ourselves ). We discussed how we're going to pay for my private school tuition next year, the apartment we can live a, how much we're going to work, etc. Ironically, after I dropped him off an hour later my mum called me in a screaming fit saying I don't love her, I don't respect her, and I don't care about her because if I would I wouldn't keep seeing some trash like him (he's definitely not trash, he has a 4.2 GPA, plays football and runs hurdles and works extremely hard). She then told me that if I don't get 2 points higher on the act (28 to 30) she will have me shipped off to my home country in Europe to be with my dad so I can take a year off school and clear my head and then come back and finish high school. I definitely do not want to do this because it would mess up my education badly. To sum it up, my mum told me that I need to move out and be cut off or I need to break up with him. She has always been worse towards me than he has and he's shown and told me he's ready to take care of me and make things work.I feel really guilty that he's in this 100% but I'm not because I'm so scared to leave my family because I still love them. I would be fine on my own with him but I know that people can change and if are already moving in and being adults only as juniors it could affect our relationship and marriage in the long run. My question is, what do I do? I know what my heart was, him, but I also know what my head thinks is rational, stay with my mom. I also want to sit her down tonight and talk things out with her, how should I do that?

I know I shouldn't allow things like this to bother me and it really has nothing to do with me but I just constantly sit back and think this isn't fair. My boyfriends family are all on benefits non of them work. My boyfriend gets free school meals yet his mum gives him 4 pound everyday for dinner which he spends on candy. I don't get free school meals nor do I get any money to spend on dinner. His mother brings him about 5 pounds worth of candy to him 3 times a week and she buys him cans of cider and alcohol. If I'm lucky I'll get a pound bag of kitkats from the weekly shop. How is it fair that both my parents work there arses off and we get nothing. He has 4000 pound worth of technology in his room. It just doesn't make sense. For the time I've been with him which is about a year he has gone to the doctors at least 10 times mainly for issues such as a cough. Yet again wasting tax money which his family put nothing into. I haven't gone to the doctors in about 5 years. I don't know if this is me just being a jealous cow or if it's something you would get annoyed at. Me and my family work our butts off and we have nothing to show for it. Yet his family do nothing and have all this stuff. Would this anger you or am I just annoyed over nothing

My sister is the type of person who wants to be better than everyone. When something good happens to me or anyone, she finds something negative to say. shes the type that wants everything handed to her. She complains about things when she knows the reasons for why whatever she is complaining about happened. She constantly acts different towards me(attitude, annoyed etc) when I try to do good for me like exercise, eat good, when I'm happy and all that. She finds way to bring me down. When I'm in a bad mood, she's happy and when I'm happy she's in a bad mood. It's just frustrating. I don't have a good relationship with her and she just seriously makes me wanna explode on her. I just wanna say all this stuff and then just take her out of my life. Every time I'm around her she brings things up to try and make me say something but I just ignore or go "mhm" or something. I hate it!! There's so much more to explain but she's just a person to constantly everyone down and then expects everyone to be good to her. She lies to me to a lot. And I know she does. That pisses me more off. I'm done with her. I'm not risking my life because of her. What can I do?

My Mom and Dad argue all the time. Mostly the weekdays. After my Mom comes home she starts yelling at my Dad for being a useless father. My dad is a hard worker and he works for 6 hours straight and comes home because my brother needs to be picked up of the bus. Then he works another 2 hours. What do i do...

I need advice on an issue I'm having. I am 23 years old and I am still living at home. I have attended community college while living at home. Next year I will be going to finish at another school for transfer. My two brothers, dad, mom, and I all live in one place right now. My mom had to move in because of financial issues. My mom and dad have been legally divorced for 12 years now so that makes living together awkward. My mom is on a date site right now. She has met guys that don't like adult kids living at home. I can't help it I work part time and I wouldn't have enough money to move unless I had two roommates. She always tells me in a roundabout way that I should be moved out by now. She told me she wants to get an apartment with me but she looks for jobs but is not working. I told her it would be the same if a guy wanted to see her because she would still be living with her kids even if I move but she says no that it would be better (I don't know how??) Her ex-boyfriend asked her to choose between him and us (her kids) and she chose us. My mom has been there for us our whole lives but now it feels like she doesn't like me. She wants me to do it on my income alone while my brother and her would be living with me. I guess what's weird is that she wants me to move away from her but at the same time wants me to live with her. I feel like my mom is being sort of two-faced towards me. I need advice on what to do about this situation?

So let me just state I am a 17 year old girl finishing up my senior year of high school. So anyways, at 4;23 am my mom randomly walked in and woke me up (now of course I cant go back to sleep, ugh she's a psycho). She told me I was grounded because I did not pick my sister up. The thing is, I went to go pick her up but she got a ride so I left. I told my mom this and she still said I should of done as she asked...So whos in the right? This woman grounds me all the time!!!! I just got off being grounded ugh.

6 years ago i moved to the worst place on earth, saudi arabia, to assist my father in running his company. He does not even show up 10 days a year, always on vacation, while i am making (still) 2600$ a month running the whole show. As im making the money for my own father, i never thought much about leaving. But now my brother gets a gle400 for getting accepted into college, and im the piece of **** for saying this is unacceptable. We are a small company. It takes us a full year to make that much in profit. Since its all being blown anyway, why the **** would i stay here? I hate this country as it is, and my salary is ridiculously low. I have decided im leaving, which means hes gonna have to sell the company as he is physically (and mentally btw) incapable of running it anymore. I just cant get myself to abandon my family for my own happiness.

hi guys, my name is scott and i m 13. i just moved to monterey and i want to go surf with my new friens but they said that i cant because i havent earned the right yet becaise i have to eat a special oreo cookie but my sis said not to because their just makeing fun of me because i have aspergers and that the oreo is really their sperm in the middle i have never surfed before

So my brother is planning to commit suicide a week ago because he's gf cheated on him and I thought that he is okay right now but I'm wrong. Now, my brother is in his bedroom then I heard him screaming and then when I open the door, I saw him with his penis cutted, I'm in panic right now I don't know what to do. Please help! Just me and my brother is living here in our house! Please help! I need help! What should I do! Please! Btw we are both 18. This is not a troll please help I called 911 but i think they will be late what should I do?

Hello, I m going to be a senior at my university and I m 24 and my boyfriend is 30. We have been together for four years and are waiting till I finish school to marry. I have a year and a half left and no longer want to live in student apartments. I feel that I m mentally too old to live here plus sharing half a room with a 19yr old isn t ideal. My dad currently pays for my rent here which will now be under a thousand per month just to share a room on campus. I also don t want him to worry about sending me money for this outrageously expensive rent. My plan is to move in with my boyfriend, get a part time job, and commute to school. Best part is that my dad won t have to pay for anything. I m 24 and need to carve my own life. My mother understands but my dad is very double standard and somewhat traditional with me in comparison to my brother. What are some tips to break the news because I know either way he ll lose it.

So we kinda share a car in the family my dad comes home from doing his lyft ... so later I go in my room to sleep because I have school the next day.. my dad parks the car on the street cleaning side..... I heard my mom tell my dad to tell me to move the car.... I'm in bed already and ready to fall asleep.... my mom comes in the room to wake me up and tells me to move the car ... in my head I'm like who ever used the car last they should move it... like was that right for them to do that? Like why me why can't my dad just move it since he used it last.... plus I'm in bed my eyes are close but I hear them outside talking was that right?

I keep getting a crave for it but I don t know if I can wait any longer. And I know about the slut shaming and I honestly don t give a rat s a*s. My mother keeeps trying to keep me young but I grew up when I raised my sister and now my other sister. Please help and don t be rude .

My family is going to stay with my grandparents in Malibu for this summer but apparantely my dad's friend's daughter is too. Background on her: she uses her looks to talk to every boy who her friend's like. She is a bit fat on the legs and arm, she doesn't like the girls who stop talking to her if she talks to their bf. She claims to be a "classy" cheerleader. She's pretty but she just plays sweet and innocent to get what she wants. She shows off her makeup and accessories too much. My grandparents have seven rooms in their home but they're making her stay with me when we only take up six rooms. Instead of puting her in the last room. I don't want her to sleep on the same bed as me. They just want to let her come because she doesn't get to see the ocean as much anyway. We hate each other in school now she's going to be sleeping in the same beach house as me. If she even thinks of showing off her things to me I'm literally thinking of purchasing Dior products and DVF dresses to make her knock off makeup look as poor as her. If she doesn't stop im afraid my Cali. friends will help me put her on grandpa's boat and sail her away

my life has gone down hill since December. I lost my job and I finally got a new one but my school took away my senior privileges because my attendance issues. now idk if I can get a work permit the only reason I have attendance issues is because I was in the hospital and very sick most of the year with thyroid issues. the school doesn't understand I have to pay those medical bills because they're in my name. my parents don't care about what I'm going though and they don't pay my bills. I have no friends anymore. I cry myself to sleep every night. I hate school and I'm miserable

So, my folks and I, help babysit my 2 year old niece. My sister, who is my second oldest sister, will keep asking her daughter on the phone or my folks and even me, what we give her daughter? My sister is like, "I hope you're not giving her junk food and soda." The thing is my sister and her husband, don't give us food to give their daughter to eat and drink. My sister and her husband want us to give her all healthy food and juice mixed with water. The thing is my 2 year old niece, doesn't cooperate a lot of times when it comes to eating. She misbehaves a lot. I told my sister to stop asking what she eats because it sounds like she's complaining. I'm like, it's best to give her a little junk every now and then as it's better she doesn't starve and has something in her system. My sister and her husband think my folks and I are "soft" on my niece. My niece thinks it's funny if you get mad at her a lot and will keep laughing at you or just smirk. My sister's husband, told me that he gives me permission to lay a hand on her so she behaves. I'm very close to my 2 year old niece. I'm the person who bought most of her toys and children's books and was the one who even set up a jumper she used to go on when she was a baby. It's funny I'm close to my niece whereas I've always gotten treated like garbage as a brother by my 2 sisters who have always treated their friends and m cousins better than me.

And had their friends over at midnight?

He suffered bad trama in an accident and had to have his limbs amputated. Anyway, he acts like a ******* asshole and yells at us for stupid reasons. I know his life must ******* suck, but I don't think he should be aloud to take it out on us. Sometimes i just want to strangle him (not really)

i share a room with my sister and she snores RIDICULOUSLY loud. and although she's in her twenties she insists on going to bed around 9-10 pm every night, which means i'm stuck listening to her snore until i go to bed. except when i do go to bed, i'm stuck awake until the early hours of the morning because she just doesn't stop. i'm actually crying right now because i haven't had a proper night's sleep in 3-4 months since she moved into my room, every single night where i want to stay awake and watch something ends up with me suffering because i can't hear my music over her snoring (the headphones port in my laptop doesn't work so i have to play everything out loud) and it's ruining my life. and i'm not even exaggerating - i have an extremely short fuse because i'm not the most stable person at the moment, and i honestly feel sick and angry every night. i've cried so much because i'm so ******* tired, i'm so ridiculously tired and there's nothing i can do. i hate this. what should i do?

All of my life my parents have never supported what I do. Before I went to college my mom warned me and thought I would fail out and be in major debt. She was wrong. I have my masters degree. This isn't everything my mom hasn't supported me in. I can list more but it would take all day. Lol Most recently I had to quit a job for a number of reasons. It was just a bad environment and the job wasn't what I was hired for. My mom was ashamed that I quit and called me a lazy f***. I have been job searching lately. My grandma randomly gave me $100 and my mom got furious. She said my grandma is enabling me. Lol. I am a hard worker. I've been looking for a job since I quit. I'm even waiting to hear back from the interviews I had last week. But anyway, why won't my parents ever support me? Why do my parents expect me to lead a miserable life like they do?

mas ela entende tudo que os outros pede e fala e só vevi nas casa o dia enteiro todo dia, mas dentro de casa a bixa não faz nada, nada, nada e nada, eu separo logo dessa mulher ou continuo aguentando as "aberrações" dela?

Ok so sometimes i feel so evil. Like when my family talks junk about me or argues with me or if people talk to me the wrong way I get very angry and I feel so evil. Like I could kill someone. Like even if the argument is my fault I feel very evil or have this killer type attitude lol. Like I don't care some times. Like my dad and my grandma argued with me about a situation were I didn't get the right change back from cashier when I went to go get cigarettes now I'm 21 years old and my dad and grandma cussed me out and I felt like hurting someone like I didn't care who got hurt I know they are family but I can't help how I think lol and then my dad offer to fight me after I yelled at him like wtf so I was just thinking of evil things at that point.

I m in high school and my mother is a screamer. She doesnt get drunk too often and usually when she does it just makes her happier. My father is however a time bomb and, while sometimes he is ok, many nights he comes home drunk and the tiniest thing sets him off. Tonight my mom asked him to be quiet when he came in so she could keep sleeping and he started shouting for 15 minutes. I was doing my homework and finally I couldn t take hearing "please stop I just want to go to bed" anymore and I went into their room and shouted (so they would hear me (when they re arguing they often zone out)) "I don t care what happened one of you needs to shut up because I can t concentrate on my homework anymore". Then my dad turned on me trying to verbally abuse me by calling me less of a man because I lock my door in order to keep them out (they re usually arguing). After, I said I don t care that I lock the door more than you I want to do my homework" he didn t get the message so I shouted it a few more times before closing the door and locking it. After asking Is the door locked and receiving no answer he proceeded to break down my door. I m a pretty big guy I swim and play lacrosse and I can take a bunch of hits before folding, so I could definitely take him in a fight if needed. I just want to know, would it be against the law to call the police to calm things down? I just want to know in case I can use it as a threat, or actually do it if there is violence in the future. I just wanted a second opinion to make sure

So yesterday my dad camr home from work early and today he told me that he quit his job after an argument with his boss. This is the problem, he couldent have quit at a WORST TIME. He just got his job about a year ago. It pays well and is the only thing that supports the family. My mother cant work yet because she has not passed her tests in order to become a doctor. We just recently finished paying off our moving bills and we also need to pay for some other stuff. Im just worried that something might go wrong. He had no backup plan after he quit, and now hes just sitting at home looking for jobs. I dont know why but this makes me very depressed. I wish that i could tell him how i feel, or force him to bite his lip and go apologize to his boss and get his job back to support his family but last time i told my parents how i feel about something they either laugh at my face or get mad at me. Not once in my life they had felt simpathetic for me. Whenever i cry, my mother just laughes and says that i have no reason to cry, ir she just gets mad at me when i cry after something she has unintentionally done and after i tell her. Okay, i got a bit off topic there but... I just dont want everything to go to crap like last time he quit.