My elder sister, so often slaps my butt & call me "cheesy boy", but it was ok till now she wants me to wear one of her dresses and put a make up then take a photo of me

Adults who were before major woman's rights and before equality for all are still a little racist/unequal. It breaks my heart when I see people who say "Women are useless!" or "Men don't show emotion's and are heartless!" Recently, I realized that racists who actually mean it are Adults. I'm trying to say, since the kids of the 1990's, and 2000's didn't experience that, will they be better/really good in the long run? First one to answer after Destroyer sailor and isn't an insult gets best answer :3

I know many of you will try and give me a " pep talk " or say I'm crazy . Not to interested in hearing any of that . I know what I'm getting myself into and I know it won't be easy. Please no negative comments. Only advice. Anyway. I'm an 18 year old girl I live in a very small town I have my entire life. I want to make a quick transition to Seattle..it is about 3 hours away from where I live. But I am very determend and hell bent on living there immediately. I have no high school diploma but do plan on getting a GED once I am stable over there. I plan on dancing over there to save money..(stripping) yes that is my plan...but I have nowhere to stay in the meantime..and no family up there.. I want to pack a bag get on the greyhound and work my way up over there. I just can't stand it being here any more it's not an option. I want to be gone by the end of June. I have applied many places around here but get nothing back. I have no money and need a smart quick plan to get out of here by June . Please help with any advice I feel that I am at a loss. Nobody will help me out money wise I am all on my own . Thank you !

(não somos da mesma sala,eu tô no 7° e ela no 6°),e tipo,ela gosta de mim também,ela fica me olhando e eu ela,mas ninguém toma atitude de ir em falar com o outro :( me ajudem ai (sou timido,acredito q ela também).Já pensei em pedir ajuda a amigos,mas sei lá,o que vcs achão?obrigado ah,isso vem desde do ano passado,mas fui meio lerdo e nem percebi isso,e agora deu no q deu,ela ainda gosta de mim,parece que não desistiu de mim,e eu dela,me ajudem ai,desculpem por alguns erros,sou meio atrapalhhado pra escrever no notebook

I m a 14 year old girl and I am known to be extremely mature by most parents that I meet. My friends mom asked if my boyfriend and I of 3 months said I love you yet, and yes we did. I truly believe I m experiencing love he makes me so happy and he s my best friend. We have also known each other for 5 years before he asked me out. Unfortunately, my mom doesn t know that we feel like this for each other. One day my moms friend asked if we have said I love you yet. Note: my mom does not know this. I said no when she asked because I don t want people to know and I don t particularly trust this mom. Then my friend decides to butt in and tell the mom that we have. It is clear that she is trying to make me look like a liar, foolish, and a kid that doesn t know what she is talking about. Note: this "friend" is younger than me by 6 months. I persistently kept on saying no because I didn t want anyone to know, but she,of course, keeps on saying that we have and will not take a hint or drop it. I know that this was malicious and not her truly not knowing that I didn t want anyone to know. Now this mom knows and she and my mom talk a lot. What do I do if my mom finds out that my boyfriend and I of 3 months love each other? Also, how should I handle this with my friend because she has done things like this in the past?

When I was a kid, me and my little brother fought CONSTANTLY. Not just arguing, but physical fighting. Kicking, slapping, punching, biting, hair pulling, you name it, we probably did it. Hell, we would practically tackle each other to the ground. Every fight we had was a no holds barred, knock-down, drag-out fist fest basically. Our mom, as long as we didn't draw blood, basically let us duke it out. Knowing that as soon as the adrenaline rush was over and we'd tired ourselves out, everything would be resolved. For the time being. Do you think it's ever acceptable to let your kids just go at it when they start arguing and fighting?

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I tried arguing and telling him I don t want to go, but it s not working. I need some plan to make me unable to go, I ve had some ideas like : lost passport (he has my passport), ear infection (no flying) and few more, but somehow nothing is good enough!! Please give me some ideas asap since the trip is scheduled tomorrow! Every idea is welcomed!

I don't get it. This has happened in a real life situation (the guy did try to come back when he got bored of the other woman he left me for and tried to be "friends" after betraying me by just ignoring and disappearing on me.. I don't accept such "friendships"), and it's happened in online relationships (I know this is less severe, since it's hardly a bond to begin with but it still bothers me and even on there when I wanted to leave a guy I was with I would cut it off clearly and tell him exactly what I was feeling that made me want to leave him. So why guys keep doing this to me makes no sense to me, cause I'd never do it. It's emotionally irresponsible. I mean I even contact them when I realize what they are doing and they ignore me like I'm a piece of dirt. It's so rude, I mean I gave a whole lot of myself to them, and a whole lot of love and affection, and now they want to act like this.

I'm in college, and it seem like the professor makes eye contact with me frequently. Whenever he make a funny joke he always look at me first before he look around the classroom. He looks around the class as we'll but he look at me the most. One time he was teaching about something and he said "sex" and looked directly at me. One day after class I asked him about my grades and he told me that I would have to see him in his office hours. One time we walked right pass each other in the hallway, but he didn't even look at me at all. If he see me hanging out with a male friend he will do a double look. There's two girls who he calls on a lot. That's only because they stay in his face and joke with him first.

I messaged him one night to say maybe we want different things & I feel like he doesn't want what I want. He messaged back he loves being with me & other things & maybe we could talk on the weekend and clear the air. He was getting sick and run down last time I saw him, & the next day he messaged me normally, & was complaining he's sick. His communication was rubbish with me, while i offered to go with him to the doctors. after a few days I asked him if he was feeling any better & he said "not really. Still in bed, but a bit better. Really hope you're ok x, but i'v e been so ill & I'm useless." I replied saying just hope he feels alright soon & he didn't messaged back. 6 days later I said we're not communicating, something's wrong & I hope he feels better, but maybe we should go our separate ways. He didn't reply. 2 days later he's created a facebook, with 4 girls on it. I messaged him "Good to know you're feeling better etc & told him everything I wanted to say. I said i loved being with him also, but mainly it was saying the things i never said that was on my mind. He read it and hasn't replied. he hasn't been on whatsapp at all, or added any more girls. How can he not care at all, when a few weeks ago he was worried i wanted to break up. I never wanted to break up with him. Last time i saw him he'd bought me a small present. We went out all day. Held hands. Nothing seemed wrong. He's in his 30s so why act like this after almost a year. I told him good luck with the new girls he's speaking to (although he hasn't got messenger or a laptop so he's not) & I wish him all the best.

I've had people tell me I'm almost an adult and that I should start acting like one while on the other hand, people call me a little kid and treat me like one. I honestly don't know what people expect of me.

I'm not a very emotional person and I wouldn't really cry if one of my family died I never seen my dad EVER and if I got to see him I probably would treat him like I seen him 2 seconds ago...that's just facts

I meet new people pretty much every other day, if it turns out we end up having a discussion, they ALWAYS say I look *just like my cousin/sons wife/friend/aunt* or "I've seen u before" WHy???? i mean why is my face so similar to everyone else's

Okay so I've been bugging him about prom for months. I stopped bringing up prom because him and his mom didn't seem interested in what I had to say. So I stopped worrying about it. But just last week he brought it back up. The prom tickets are 90 dollars. And due by this Friday. I have to hurry up and order my dress so that it would be here by May 5th, I have to pay to get my hair, shoes, nails, makeup, and accessories. And he doesn't find it a problem! He's acting so nonchalant about EVERYTHING. My mom is not helping me with ANYTHING. And I just don't know what to do! I still have to get my birthday outfit and pay for whatever I'm doing for my birthday next weekend. And he's acting so careless of that. He said that I am being inconsiderate because I am not worrying about anything else but getting my stuff. And I keep telling him how mad I am that he waited until the last minute. I just don't know what to do. I don't have a lot of money, so how am I suppose to make this work all by myself?

My family is going to stay with my grandparents in Malibu for this summer but apparantely my dad's friend's daughter is too. Background on her: she uses her looks to talk to every boy who her friend's like. She is a bit fat on the legs and arm, she doesn't like the girls who stop talking to her if she talks to their bf. She claims to be a "classy" cheerleader. She's pretty but she just plays sweet and innocent to get what she wants. She shows off her makeup and accessories too much. My grandparents have seven rooms in their home but they're making her stay with me when we only take up six rooms. Instead of puting her in the last room. I don't want her to sleep on the same bed as me. They just want to let her come because she doesn't get to see the ocean as much anyway. We hate each other in school now she's going to be sleeping in the same beach house as me. If she even thinks of showing off her things to me I'm literally thinking of purchasing Dior products and DVF dresses to make her knock off makeup look as poor as her. If she doesn't stop im afraid my Cali. friends will help me put her on grandpa's boat and sail her away

I have my house cleaned every few weeks by a crew of three women who started two months ago. So far, they've done a very good job of cleaning. The mother and daughter are friendly but the other female from the start was unfriendly. She had an angry expression towards me. I don't know why, since we've just met. I thought it was just her expression but the couple times I directed her (since they were new to the space), she had a scowl on her face and responded in a rough manner, not friendly at all. Today, their second cleaning visit, it was the same thing. It was almost as if she hated me or something with the way she responded when I told her that I have new mop for them to use. As if she didn't want to be bothered. I don't have to interact with her, I can just communicate with the other two women, as needed. It just feels strange that I have this person come to my house and stay for a few hours and has this negative attitude towards me. Should I say something to the mother who owns the housecleaning business? Can I ask if she can replace the other woman? What do you think?

el esta anciano ya, y dicen que abrio una bolsa y sus vecinos son brujos y cuando la abrio salio humo y desde ese dia anda hablando de su vida pasada y queriendo matar gente y todo eso y corre como loco y dice que ve a un hombre que le dice que lo matara, y dice que ve policias y dijo que su hijo lo hiban a matar o que habia muerto o algo asi y hablaba con su propio hijo cara a cara preguntando por el mismo diciendo y mi hijo donde esta esta bien? yel le decia yo soy tu hijo y lo tenia cara a cara y le decia donde esta mi hijo? y su hijo decia esta bien tu hijo.. le seguia la corriente.. y anda por toda la casa buscando cuchillos y andaba con un desarmador buscando a matar a alguien que segun lo quiere matar a el.. que es eso? un demonio se le metio o es brujeria o esta loquito por la vejes?.. y anda puro hablando de su vida pasada.. y el no escucha bien y dice que si escucha bien.. pero le hablamos y no contesta dice que escucha a los policias que vienen por nosequien y que un tipo lo quiere matar siempre habla de eso y que lo ve todas las noches. el no era asi fue desde que abrio esa bolsa es brujeria o que? ayuda :)

Let say, your siblings hate your gf or bf. Things are not going well due to this. Will you still consider in future?

Where we live, there is around 15 police cars swarming in it each day. Sometimes 15 or more would be stopped at a house. The neighbors constantly argues with police officers and the policemen goes away and then comes back a day later and a repeat. The neighbors continues to argue with them but nothing is accomplished. -just a bunch of loud noise. A swat team entered our neighborhood twice with helicopters and it was very disturbing. As we are already disturbed at the neighbors arguing with police officers this really was extremely loud and disturbing. My mom told me that they inquired about me when I was leaving for work, and my mom told me they assumed that I was in association with my neighbor on my left hand side of my house. This aggravated me much more. weekly coming from work, I see a neighbor on the ground being handcuffed. Trying to find a girlfriend around here is just plain awful too. Where I live and the county next to mine also. The girls has attitudes such as not caring about laws and social mores, violent, vicious outbursts of anger, the desire to do something just plain wrong. Nearly everybody both male and female I meet has a background. what should I do?

If I offered a girl this during a cuddle date at my house (or hers), would she likely accept it? I would like to do exactly what's being shown in the video below: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zP4thzkxF0s

There is a guy at my school that absolutely EVERYONE loves. He's relatively smart, handsome (half the other girls in my year have a crush on him), a really good runner, and cool. I met him when we both first came to the school, we didn't really rub each other the right way, etc etc now we just have a strong mutual dislike. Literally everyone else, older kids and younger kids, teachers and students and coaches treat him like a god. Anyways, while he does have some...redeeming qualities, he's a jerk. It's my belief that he puts himself above other people because he thinks he's better than them. And maybe he is, in some respects, but that doesn't give him the right to treat most people like dirt. He has also hurt me personally, and has hurt my friends. He's a jerk to the girls in my year that like him. He's a jerk to anyone that's not popular or cool. I'll be honest. I am a bit jealous. I get straight A's and I'm a decent athlete and not too bad-looking. I think I'm fairly nice. I'm not super popular. But I'm jealous that he gets attention because of a talent or two and his looks. I hate him. I hate how he treats other people. To sum it up, I hate him, I hate that people treat him like a god when he really doesn't deserve it. I want to find a way to show him up or tear him down, or otherwise find a weakness of his and exploit it because he needs to be brought to his knees. Is there anyone who can help me? Textbook sociopath, little buddy.

Basically I don t believe in the same Gods and same exact religious ideals they do, and recently my mom has been forcing me to go through five minutes of prayer to the Gods she belives in and it s really frustrating me because it makes me feel as if she doesn t respect me or the things in believe in

Hi, I'm a Black man who recently moved to NYC from Minnesota about 6 months ago and since then I've been asked by three different Jewish men if I would sleep their wives on separate occasions. I was pretty taken back when the first one asked me and thought that he was only joking but it turned out he was completely serious. He said that his wife found me attractive and was wondering if I wanted to go on a "date" with her (we went to a hotel afterwards). I guess its some kind of fetish called cuckolding he told me? Anyway about two months after that a second man who was a friend of friend approached me. The second guy was really strange and wanted to be there in the room with us!? Before hand he kept going on about how his small puny Jewish penis couldn't satisfy his wife like my "BBC" could...The whole experience was pretty weird to be honest (Not that I didn't enjoy it). Anyway I was just wondering if this was common thing for Jewish men in particular or if it was just a coincidence that they all were Jewish? Thanks for any replies in advance.

It seems that the man in the house always controls the TV remote control. They seem to change the channels whenever they want not considering what others in the room want to watch. Plus, they watch what they want; never asking what anyone else wants to watch. Why do they get away with this? Don't tell me because they are the boss or they are smarter, etc. but fundamentally why this happens.