The only time he likes to talk is when he is not happy about something in the house and wants to blame her for that.She cooks every day and does the other housework. My friend is working and he says,you have to put your income completely in joint account,But You are not allowed to have cash.Unless I let you.You have to buy everything with credit card. My friend is frustrated.She asked him to go to marriage counselor.But he does not accept it.So my friend is using prescription anti depression medicines.Recently he went to refrigerator and began checking to see if she put the stuff the way that he likes and began nagging on her that ,these stuff should not be in refrigerator.She answered him it is OK. Because I needed them .I put them there.But he continued his argument . My friend,when she was working with her laptop in the living room.said put them in your buttocks, if you don't want them in refrigerator. He heard it and said to her,I am fed up with you.I can not tolerate your rudeness.Then he said I put them in my buttocks .Then when my stool is around them I give it to you to eat it.My friend ,did not respond him.Then he came to living room and repeat it in front of her.Again my friend did not respond and slept in the same bed with him.She does the housework as usual and does not talk about that argument with him .She talks about the kids and news and ... ,but he shows cold shoulder and does not respond at all.It passed two weeks.What my friend she do?

The only time he likes to talk is when he is not happy about something in the house and wants to blame her for that.She cooks every day and does the other housework. My friend is working and he says,you have to put your income completely in joint account,But You are not allowed to have cash.Unless I let you.You have to buy everything with credit card. My friend is frustrated.She asked him to go to marriage counselor.But he does not accept it.So my friend is using prescription anti depression medicines.Recently he went to refrigerator and began checking to see if she put the stuff the way that he likes and began nagging on her that ,these stuff should not be in refrigerator.She answered him it is OK. Because I needed them .I put them there.But he continued his argument . My friend,when she was working with her laptop in the living room.said put them in your buttocks, if you don't want them in refrigerator. He heard it and said to her,I am fed up with you.I can not tolerate your rudeness.Then he said I put them in my buttocks .Then when my stool is around them I give it to you to eat it.My friend ,did not respond him.Then he came to living room and repeat it in front of her.Again my friend did not respond and slept in the same bed with him.She does the housework as usual and does not talk about that argument with him .She talks about the kids and news and ... ,but he shows cold shoulder and does not respond at all.It passed two weeks.What my friend she do?

i feel like I have no other chance to find someone and I don't want to as well and I feel like people will always look down on me because am divorced and won't care about how do I look now.and I just lost interest in making myself look good so whats the point. I feel like people would be like uh your divorce why are you living your life?

I want to be a mom and have kids, but I found out earlier today that my husband doesn't want any kids and it completely broke my heart.. I don't know what to do to get the pain to go away.. A friend told me to not stress about it and that if it was meant to be then it would happen. But giving up my dream of becoming a mom cause I don't know if i can even have kids because my sister had three miscarriages and it worries me that i will go through the same. What are some tips or anything to help the pain i feel because i need to give up my dream. UPDATE: We did have this talk and he said he wanted kids and a family.. but today he said he doesn't want kids and everything..

I use to love him and idealize him as the man of my dream. After he cheated is when I realize this was all a lie and the girl he cheated on me with is someone I know personally. He ruined our friendship and made me look bad. He's a ******* two face. He's so fake.. I hate his guts.. I feel angry like I could kill him.. obviously I'm not going to do it, it's just how I'm feeling right now. I don't know why I married him... he was fake.. I wasn't aware before but after 5 yrs.. I got to see his real face. I'm aware and more realistic about what he is capable of doing now... unspeakable cruelty. He's a lying two face cheating whore. I can't move on with him. Sorry for being such a bytch right now but after being verbally abused and betrayed so many times by this asshole. I had enough. My feelings turned cold. This asshole killed every good in me. If he doesn't love me why is he hanging onto me? He's threatened to end my life and my 2 kids if I leave him but everyday he tells me to die. The hurtful things he say to me.. I just can't live with him anymore. He's cause enough damage to me. I literally feel my soul slowly dying. I've reached a dead end with him. Feels like suicide is the only way out. I want to leave but it's so hard.. my kids and we just bought a house.

I was married... i lost my husband in a tragic accident and met my current bf during that grieving process and was a friend to me and comforted me during my darkest times.I then decided it was too much for me to stay in the area and moved 5 hours away to heal and save money..... starting a long distance relationship.It has been two years long distance now out of the 4 years of being together essentially. My main breaking point was the two times he promised me to move to be with me... once in January... and i moved to be with a friend temporarily for two weeks until we got our own place... and he never showed up. Didn t even tell me he wasnt moving here yet. Never told his parents... nothing. I was so heart broken. He is also on suboxone (medication for heorine addiction) and has been on it for 7 years now. He then said he would move in april.... and still did no work... still didnt tell his parents. I try to leave the relationship and he keeps saying to give him time and he doesnt ubderstand how bad it looks to me he doesnt do any of the small things like research for schools in my area, tell his parents, communicate with me, where he is on getting off his meds, etc. He is 26 now and i m 30.Everytime i tell hin and cry about how upset it made me and makes me feel... he says "you re making it worse" "You need to control your emotions" Also... does anyone have experience in suboxone? If they have been on it for that many years... u think they will ever get off it?

I know a friend that s been married for 25 yrs. Her husband has been cheating on her for over a year with the same woman. He told her at Christmas that he wasnt happy and didn t want to be married anymore. Well come to find out he still talks and see this woman everyday. My friend told him to give her a 2nd chance and she wants to change some things... Like going off with him, helping with the bills, etc... But he can t give her a definite answer on a 2nd chance. Shes been asking for almost 4 months. They haven t slept together in over a year, they don t do anything together except family functions. Should she keep trying or just be the bigger woman and walk away??

If I'm married and my husband and I are separated but I'm pregnant do I legally have to put him on the child's birth certificate or give the baby his last name if I took his last name?

and why do they always lie about all that other stuff I mentioned?

and say they've been thinking about her all these years.

what can i do

My mother-in-law has over the years found various ways to disrespect me, and in the most recent it's been absolutely ridiculous. The other night nearly made me snap, but that's not who I am. I prefer to act like an adult and if I have an issue with anything to handle it politely. My husband and I had invited my MIL over for dinner Saturday afternoon at 6. She shows up at 8, gets mad that we've already eaten, requests that I make something different. Complains to her husband. Then she finishes her food eventually and says she wants to get in our hot tub. My husband bows to her wish and gets his swim shorts on to go outside. As he's getting dressed she starts telling me, "you need to get in there with your husband, Katherine." I explain that it's very cold outside and I don't want to get in and she acts I'll towards me after that. Now, she is an amputee, which I understand is very emotionally and physically taxing, but our hot tub is not safe for her. When I explained that we didn't have rails or a safe way in, she says she is going to straddle the side and put one leg in. She starts yelling as soon as she puts her foot in saying it's way too hot. She takes it out and then complains that the patio chair we had for her to sit on was wet and asked for a kitchen chair to sit on. I'm getting very irritated at this point. I'm just sitting outside, she complains that I'm on my phone, and starts talking about my husbands prior gfs. She eventually leaves without a thanks. I'm fed up.

So I'm currently going through a divorce with my ex and it gets finalized in less than a month. Although I just found out I'm pregnant by another man that I've been seeing during this process. Which is technically not allowed because it's still considered adultery even tho my ex and I are not together. Does anyone know how much trouble I could really get into when my leadership finds out? Should I wait till the finalized divorce date? Please help! In the Air Force btw.

My fiance and I are PA residents, but our wedding will be held in Arizona as that is where her family lives. How do I go about obtaining the legal documents to ensure that our marriage is legitimate. Do we need a PA marriage license or an AZ marriage license? Some help here would be appreciated.

Yesterday my fiancé and I were cleaning out this room that had some of his ex wife's things and he started to tell me something and instead of saying my name, he said his ex wife's name. There were also pictures of them he was cleaning out too. I just shrugged it off because I didn't want it to sound like I was being immature. But I can't seem to shake it off that he did that. Should this worry me? I don't know if I should let it go or say something to him. He did tell me that it felt good giving the stuff to her. I just have a lot of trust issues and I don't want to sound like I don't trust him. What should I do?

He lied to me about his income and greatly inflated it! He also tried to blackmail me and manipulate me into staying with him. He had 2 kids out of wedlock and was 36 when I was 24. He lied about his age twice! Now, he's deported. He gets mean comments on his IG warning people to stay away from him and no do business with him. He has aged terribly, doesn't talk to his family except his mom mostly, and had to beg people to give him money. He also got depressed bc people in his country made fun of how he dresses and had to cancel an event he was planning that likely nobody showed up to

I'm engaged to be married. My mother feeds off of drama and is obsessed with Facebook. Every time my fiancé posts anything on Facebook my mother comes to me asking about it. My fiancé and I went and met with her cousin and my mother asked me who the guy was in her photograph. My wife found out and is fed up with it. Now, my fiancé is purposely posting things she knows will annoy my mother and it's causing even more issues. My family got offended because my fiancé posted about how I never saw the Easter bunny as a child and she was surprised. She came for Easter and nobody in the family would speak to her and so we sat in the living room by ourselves. She told me if things don't change she's ending our engagement. I feel like I'm in the middle between my family and fiancé. I told my fiancé she needs to sit down and speak with my mom herself and ask her what the problem is but she's refusing to do that. She feels this is my responsibility. I'm so tired of the drama and Facebook. My fiancé has suggested deleting my mother but that would cause a war. What should I do?

So today my fiancé and I were cleaning out this room that had some of his ex wife's things and he started to tell me something and instead of saying my name, he said his ex wife's name. I just shrugged it off because I didn't want it to sound like I was being immature. But I can't seem to shake it off that he did that. I am worried now that he is going to accidentally say her name at the wedding. Should I tell him how I feel?

So I am having such a hard time finding a date a girl to take to my sister's wedding. I have tried asking countless of people and everyone says they're busy or out of town. I've tried a friend for hire website and no one from there is picking up when I call to inquire about hiring them to pose as a friend from college. I got frustrated last night so I went on a rant and scream out loud about this girl who my family tried to set me up with years ago and how she broke off the engagement as soon as I was about to go meet her for the first time. I called her a witch and said that she's missing out on america by not marrying me. I drive lyft now so I at least have some sort of income now so I am able to afford a wife. My parents and my sister yelled and screamed at me and said that I am treating this girl like she is a piece of meat from a grocery store. Well I am tired of her and all of these others giving me a hard time. I'm seriously considering about just going the mail order bride route and get an marriage broker in my native country to do the work rather than my aunt who is useless and pointless. My dad yelled at me and said I disrespected my aunt by saying that and says he is close to not helping me anymore cause of how disrespectful I am. Why am I being told that I treat women as objects ?? Why is it not ok to be mad at this girl turning down the arranged engagement ?? I want a wife and I want one now.

My bf has a friend that is always upset and jealous whenever my bf is with me ! He will guilt trip him to feeling bad about it and my bf would then spend every night out with his friends . He stopped wanting to go out in the weekends with me it became just about that friend . The friend is also a very wild guy and is asking my bf to go travelling with him and he would say how there's so many hot girls to f#ck . I was going through my bfs phone to find an old message between us and messages between his friend and him from when we first started dating popped up about me where his friend says "I bet all you're thinking about it f#king her" ,"she just looked at me and smiled friendly if only she knew we were talking about having a burger and she's the meat, shall we have a threesome" to which my bf replied " yes after I smash first hopefully lol" and referred to me as a "bad *****"

my wife and my daughter bicker on a daily basis but today was different and I could tell my daughter was hurt on another level. me and my daughter are and have always been very close. I admit that I could've been a better father when it comes to stopping the verbal, physical, and mental abuse that my wife has done to our daughter. I didn't know it affected my daughter this much until my daughter started pouring her heart out to me one day. I just don't know what's wrong with my wife. she's been angry and spiteful of our daughter since forever. she's hostile towards all the kids but mainly towards our daughter. She calls our daughter the B word a lot, there was times she choked our daughter when she was a child, called her a witch, worthless and there's so much more than I wouldn't even have the time to explain. I'm a Christian man and I tried to pray that God heal our family. Life is too short for those two to not have a good relationship. Last year I gave my daughter permission to go on a two day trip with her boyfriend to florida as she was 25 and old enough. my wife found out she was spending the night with her boyfriend and lost her mind, used my phone to call her a thousand times. she even called herself going out to look for our daughter. I told her please calm down. she was cursing left and right. I notice that every time our daughter is cooking my wife finds some reason to get angry and complain even though she's never made an effort to cook for me. I thought I was keeping the peace by staying out of their drama but my daughter said it hurt that I didn't stand up for what's right. my wife flew off the handle tonight again screaming her kitchen was dirty while our daughter was cooking, however all of the dishes were already washed and me and my daughter both worked together to make sure things were clean before she arrived home from work. there was no kind greeting from my wife, only complaints as soon she walked in the door. wife called daughter the b word and my daughter was like "you know what mom you are the most miserable person I know. my entire life I've been bending over backwards trying to make you happy and you just pick me apart. i'm tired of being dragged to pieces of everything. i'm tired of you trying to control every second of every moment of my life from who I date to what I wear. i'm tired of coming in the house and instantly being cursed out for no reason" my daughter said " you have told me everyday since I was 12 that I am worthless and now I actually believe I am. that boyfriend that you hate so much brought my spirit back to life and showed me the love and care you so desperately tried to take away from me. every time I walk in this house it's filled with a dark and negative energy. my wife said " if this place is so bad then leave and never come back, don't come knocking on my door when things get tough. that boy will break you." our daughter then said " whatever heartache I may experience in the future can't even compare to all of the many years I've experienced being heartbroken, broken, depressed and confused by my own damn mother. goodbye mother, I love you but I hope you get the help you need because i'm done being your personal punching bag." my daughter had tears streaming down her face. I didn't even know what to say. my wife said " have fun being homeless with only 50 dollars in your account." my daughter said she would rather be homeless than spend another moment under the same roof as my wife. I have been trying to call and text my daughter but no answer. I just want to know that she's safe.

My sister is going throuh a medical crisis and does not want to tell her friend Sister is afraid her friend will dump her or end their relationship Her friend is catching on that something is not right with my sister How can my sister get out of this?