Family: Question: Should I get therapy after my parents divorce?

Question: Should I get therapy after my parents divorce?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 01:43 PM PDT

My parents got divorced a long time ago (I was in 3rd grade). Long story short my dad cheated on my mom with the lady who is now my stepmom. Now, I'm in 9th grade and I dread going to my dads. I think I've got over the fact of what he has done and I've just accepted it. But, lately I just can't stop myself from crying and just getting upset over it sometimes. I just see my dad as selfish and he still continues to show that trait. He seems to never allow me to hang with my friends and I only get to do that on my moms weekend (which affects my mom which it shouldn't) and he always insists on having 'family' time. I know I kind of got off track here but what I'm trying to say is I am constantly reminded of the pain I felt and I still continue to suffer from it. I kind of want to see a therapist but I'm not sure how to bring it up and ask my mom and I know I shouldn't be but I'm a little ashamed to want to see a therapist because I wouldn't want my sister or family (other than my mom) to know that I'm seeing a therapist. I just feel like because I was in 3rd grade I never truly understood what my dad did and never got to truly express my emotions at the time and have just continued to hid them.

Question: I need some confirmation on this? i’m so confused?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 01:02 PM PDT

If i tell someone to "shut up" and they tell me, "don't tell me what to do", how is that person telling me , "don't tell me what to do" a hypocrite by saying that???

Question: What should I do? I urgently need your advice please. I said I study Master degree, and I am the one who did it among the family. However...?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 12:24 PM PDT

One of my family was so jealous and posining, he has been always ruining my relationships with my kins through gossiping. Anyway, he went to the department of the school in order to reveal my personal information, and he eventually found out that I am not one the Master program list, he then got happy revealing that to my family i was lying to them although i was planning to show them a fake one, but just preserve my place among the posining brothers. NOW. My mother expecting good news from me and the certificate as well. What should I tell my mother when it is the last week to finish the semester?. Do i fake a one with a different department to just show off??

Question: I hate my stupid daughter?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 12:08 PM PDT

I hate my daughter she is a loser she is fat and she is ugly i wish she was never born

Question: My sister is in jail for 2 years haven’t seen her in 15 years sent her letter and money want a new start should I visit am scared?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 11:41 AM PDT

Question: He's accepting abuse; What can be done?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 11:24 AM PDT

My brother (22) has been the sole caregiver for our dad since our mom died and is strongly against placing him in a nursing home. The issue is dad has a long list of mental disorders and has become supper irritable. At any given moment he snaps at my brother and often physically assaults him. His hit him over the head with hard object, cut him with broken glass, shoved him down stairs and chokes him all the time. When this happens its brief moment of rage and aggression before he goes back to being one of the kindest most gentle people you'd meet. Still, when he does snap its really bad. I've personally witnessed a couple of these incidents. Jay's been hospitalized twice this year already, as far as I know. Ive spoken to him about it but he is strongly against nursing homes and dad never works well with hired carers. he guilt trips my brother a lot too sating stuff like "the last person on earth who cares about him is trying to get rid of him". I can tell my brother is struggling with the abuse but also gets embarrassed about it. its obviously affecting him negatively but I done know what to do in this kind of situation or if there is anything to do???

Question: If your brother has a kid, what relationship would the cousins be?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 11:14 AM PDT

Like my little brother had first kid, I know that makes me his "Uncle"?? But what about my Cousin? What relation is he to kid?

Question: How to be a very good dad?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 10:28 AM PDT

I have a vision that I'm going to be a dad for the first time. Please give me some pointers how to be a good dad.. I am excited..

Question: Does anyone else prefer their grandparents to their parents?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 10:27 AM PDT

Question: Should I be mad at someone about this?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 09:51 AM PDT

My mom had surgery and she had to have care for her for a week after she came home from the hospital. I could not get off work so my husband Jim volunteered to take care of her while I was at work. One of his tasks was to help her take a shower each day and he did. She has now made a full recovery thanks in part to the great care Jim give her. We were talking about her recovery and she told me that every time she took a shower Jim touched a very sensitive area and it sent a wave of pleasure through body. She was sorry she had to give that up. OH MY GOD. Mom was enjoying my husband master baiting her and he did not even know it. I am not sure how I feel about this. Should I be mad a someone about this OR happy mom made a full recovery and forget about it and move on.

Question: I am facing surgery in two weeks what should I do?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 09:49 AM PDT

I am getting surgery in two weeks Removing tumors in my neck Voice changes, no talking, changed in diet required I will away from work for 8 weeks I am 65 years old How many of my three children should help? One lives 380 miles away and will be getting married in six months, should I ask her to help

Question: Why my aunt always ask if I have boyfriend ?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 09:27 AM PDT

Im conservative and religious, and i let my relatives check my phone i dont have boy contacts. Me and mom were staying over at my aunts place for a while. In first semester I let my aunt help me with my research paper and when I asked my aunt can I stay after college because I'm going to professor to edit my paper she asked if I was having a boyfriend. And other time i was one hour late in coming home i said i was in copy center my aunt asked if I was having a boyfriend because they are men in the Copy center. I said no there are women, cameras, and police outside what was i doing in copy center? I never had boyfriend and never brought up topic, but why my aunt always does? It annoying. Im from religious family.

Question: Is it wrong for my daughter to cut us off because we want to move out of state.?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 09:18 AM PDT

My husband and I sold our house and moved to another state to be closer to our daughter. She became pregnant and she was counting on me to baby sit, even though I suffer from a severe back problem. The move didn't work out for us and we want to move back to our home state. My daughter and her husband have sort of cut us off and are clearly very upset. I understand them, but we are receiving no understanding in return. I wish we could stay so we could go back to having a relationship again. Are they wrong for acting this way?

Question: Why does my sister act like a child and throw tantrums?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 08:52 AM PDT

I am a 20 y/o f living with my parents and my 24 y/o sister. Only reason I'm still living with my folks is because I am in nursing school and want to finish it before moving out.My sister dropped out of college when she was 18 and has never been back.Shes been working as a cashier full time since. If things don't go her way she cries and throws tantrums like a little kid. For example, if she's told to do the dishes, she'll start screaming and crying and pities herself. And if you try getting in her way while she's throwing these tantrums she will physically attack me like pulling at my hair so hard it almost comes out of my roots, slamming me into walls, scratching me, and sometimes shoving things over or into my mouth. It's honestly gotten really out of hand. If my parents are home they don't really do much, they just kind of try to separate us but that's about it. My dad is always on her side and ready to defend her. My mom only threatens to kick her out of the house, but never does it. It's getting to the point where I'm scared to be alone in the house with her if we ever get into a fight.If it were t enough to make things clear, even when she is not crying or throwing a tantrum, I find sometimes she talks about childish things and the way she talks is childish. She is very socially awkward. I feel bad sometimes, because she's never been in any kind of relationship or has never "been" with a guy. I'm not saying that at 24 it's mandatory, I just find it strange.

Question: Why are people expected to move out once they’re 18 and finished high school?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 08:44 AM PDT

Some cultures have children who do not move out for a long time. If those families live in America, however, some people think negatively of their kids for not moving out... especially if it's been years since they turned into an adult. I've seen the parents get ridiculed too, people claiming how they're bad parents for not letting the kid grow up and have a life of their own.

Question: My mom hates me and my sister, what should i do?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 08:38 AM PDT

so since it's cleaning day i obviously started cleaning my room, and after i was done i was on my phone and then my mom started yelling at my sister for being lazy but i ignored it because it had nothing to do with me, then my mom screamed and said she never wants to see me or my sisters face ever again and to never speak to her, she scared my dogs because of her yelling, what would i do i really dont want to talk to her because she will just yell at me):

Question: Im 34 and trapped into taking care of my elderly parents...i wanna die?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 08:05 AM PDT

My parents had me the youngest and in their 40s. All my other siblings moved away or are drugg addicts. Both my parents are almost 80 and my life is over. I dont date, i take care of their 3 story house, mow, do everything. Whenever my siblings come over nobody acknowledges me. Its like they think since im here they dont gotta worry about nursing homes...sometimes i wanna drive out west or just end it...wat do i do

Question: How to read confidently at a funeral?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 08:05 AM PDT

Poem at granda funeral, how do I do it confidently? Poem at grandad funeral, how do I do It well

Question: How to tell some of your family members you hate them and dont want to have anything to do with them without being mean?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 07:55 AM PDT

Some of my siblings and their kids are all about drama. They love it. Im a introvert and in my 30s. I was born mature, i never did anything crazy and they always invite me to parties or family gatherings but I always refuse. They're so annoying to the point where id blow my brains out. How to tell these people they are toxic without hurting them??

Question: Why could that small child down the hall be crying like a siren?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 07:52 AM PDT

Hi. I am man in 50s. I'm owner of my apartment & live in building. Once in a while I hear a small child crying down the hallway. A neighbour's child. When he cries he sounds like a siren of a firetruck or ambulance. Why could he be crying like a siren? What's the deal with that? This incident & that small child's eerie crying style still haunts me till this day. I think about it everyday. It's my first thought when I wake up & my final thought before bedtime. Why does it still haunt me till this day?

Question: How do I convince my parents to let me travel with a friend out of the country?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 07:45 AM PDT

So I'm a young female teen, and my friend who is my age asked me to go to The Bahamas with her and her family this fall break. I really want to go my parents are so strict and over protective they said no. They don't think her parents will watch us and they're afraid something will happen. I can totally understand and see why they don't think I should go, but I desperately want to. I don't want to miss the opportunity and an awesome time. How can I convince them?

Question: Should I create a Twitter account and just start egregiously swearing at celebrities? Or listen to Stevie wonders innervisions?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 07:42 AM PDT

I honestly don't know what to do with my life right now...

Question: Is there a eeason for this from the mother?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 07:13 AM PDT

On facebook, a mother presses the like button for her adult children photos. The adult children never gets the like love button. This same mother presses the like love button for friend's baby picture. This mother is a highly intelligent woman. How come her children never gets the like love on facebook

Question: I NEED HELP My mom is out of town I have Science Fair today I need my mom Just Please Read and help Help please?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 06:58 AM PDT

I Have a science fair later today! I wanted my mom to go but shes out of town. I miss her a lot! I wish that she could come because it's very important to me! She tried to come home yesterday but everything was book, so now she has to wait until sunday to come home! But I needed her today! It hurts my heart knowing she not going to be there to support me!! I have been crying all week since she left on Tuesday because I miss her and wanted her here for me! She didn't go to my 3rd grade one, she didn't go to my 6th grade one, she didn't go to the one I had at school this year, and now she's not going to be here for this one! It's the City Wide One! She said that she would go next time and promised me but there might not even be a next time! I needed her For TODAY and it HURTS knowing shes not going to be here! What do I do?!? Im heartbroken right now and crying as I write this! Also i'm 13

Question: Are my parents taking advantage of me?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 06:42 AM PDT

I'm 21 years old and moved back with my parents during a gap year of college. I feel like they are taking advantage of me. Im going to list the things that im responsible for and please give me your opinion on them. House consist of mom, stepdad, 3 year old, 15 year old, and myself. Before anyone says just move out I will be once school starts in July. *Mind you I work 48 hours a week. My mom is a stay at home mom she stays home with the 3 year old. I do believe she is pregnant now. She also cooks diner 5 days week. - pay water bill, and other expenses = $300 a month - pay for yourself at restaurants we go to as a family - watch youngest brother whenever asked with 20 min notice they typically don't return for 8 hours - pick up brother from practice on off days - make sure bathroom stays clean - sweep and mop house once a week. - wash/fold towels once a week - dust once a week _ cook once a week - pick up 3 year old toys 3-4 days a week - run errands for them. - grocery shop - buy house fast food when asked rather I'm eating dinner with them or not. - drive my brother around Supposedly my stepdad can't afford me living there so my mom requires me to pay but in reality he has $30,000 and savings my mom would rather take my money than take more of her husbands. I feel extremely taken advantage off my mom is pregnant but hasn't told me I just know so she has put more on my plate.

Question: Why some people don't want to change?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 06:32 AM PDT

My aunt is unmarried and she still lives with her sister, and her sister hits her almost everyday and I saw her sister insults my aunt and makes my aunts cry. My aunt and her sister doesn't have anyone asking about them and they pray all day and fast but their life is dysfunctional. I have relatives they visit me and invite me over and they are very kind. My aunts' relatives don't invite them over or visit them. They are very old and for years they hurt each other a lot but they never apologize. One time my second aunt yelled at my first aunt for 5 hours and I said to my first aunt it your fault since you didnt do what the aunt 2 wants she started crying. They dont want to change.

Question: Why do people check out of real life and play video games all day when they should be advancing their lives?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 06:27 AM PDT

Ever since my sister graduated college, all she does is play online games with her "online friends" who live in completely different countries and she's up at 6am playing games and goes to bed at like 9am and sleeps till 6pm everyday and then wakes up and plays games again all day long she's been doing this for 4 years she's 27 doesn't have a job, lives with mom and dad still, and is not going anywhere with her life. Never had a boyfriend has gained 50 lbs in the past few years, my mom thinks she's a lesbian because she proclaims her hatred for men almost daily and screams and pouts that rich white men are oppressive evil rapists. She's literally losing her mind and is a video game addict

Question: I don’t get along with my mom. Is there any housing and financial programs out there to help college students?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 05:02 AM PDT

Hello all so I'm 20 and I will be graduating college next year. I'm a full time student so I live with my mom whom I don't really get along with at all. I've personally never really had a close relationship with my mom she has always been very opinionated and just overall controlling period. She makes it known to my siblings and I that we depend on her kind of in a way to remind us that "hey you need me so you better listen to me ect" I'm just tired of it. She has always shown some kind of favoritism toward my other siblings and I love my mom since she is the only one that has ever been here for me since my dad has passed when I was 5 but I don't like her she's toxic to me. I want to get away and just live my life and have a relationship with my siblings if possible without her involved. The problem is that I'm a broke college student who depends on financial aid but with the upcoming school year I may not get any money for living expenses seeing as I'm taking over 12 credit hours in order to graduate on time next May and that amount of classes is very expensive. I also live in Colorado and the cost of living is very high so I wouldn't be able to get a apartment with the $2700 I often get back for living expenses because a 1 bedroom or studio alone is $1500. Are there any programs out there that I can sign up for that will help me get a place? I don't have any family that I can depend on and I honestly would rather get help from the government before I ask family for anything

Question: Emotional Abuse? Manipulation? Help?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 02:32 AM PDT

I'm 19. I pay my own bills with my job. I've worked since I was 15. My dad is dead. I have a step dad, 3 siblings. I've known him since I was born, but we never had a real emotional connection. I live with both of my moms. My mother is constantly belittling my actions and comparing me to my younger, much snootier and bratty 13 year old sister. I believe there is favoritism involved with her. She can break any electronic and the next one is handed to her right out of the ***. No problem for her. She is not disciplined. I was forced to be in my room by myself with no real mental escape, but she gets her phone taken and still has her iPad. I am sick of it - I go to a therapist, I've essentially been diagnosed with chronic depressions. I feel my mom is the cause of my suicidal thoughts. I was forced to go to college, I was kicked out of the house once for saying they spend too much money on pointless ****. (Claiming to have no money for their bills but buys an 8000 dollar truck we don't need and we already have two cars.) please help - my mental state is deteriorating.

Question: Should I tell my family that i'm dying?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 02:11 AM PDT

I am 37 years old and I recently found out that I am going to die, I was given a maximum of 2 years to live, it has been 3 months since I found out. I live in California and my family lives in Rhode Island, so I don't see them very often nor do I talk to them often. I am not going to say the reason why I am going to die, but I have already accepted it and there is nothing I can do at this point. I don't want to tell my family because I want these next months to be good and happy, I don't want the end of my life to be sad and depressing. I have thought about telling them but it's too hard, it's just too hard. Do you think it's wrong for me to keep this a secret and just wait for the day until they find out when I actually die?

Question: Is it normal for a father to stay 3 nights in a motel with his 18 year old daughters b day and one bed?

Posted: 27 Apr 2019 02:06 AM PDT

Question: Having family problems?

Posted: 26 Apr 2019 09:32 PM PDT

Iv currently ran into a bit of a problem with my girlfriend. Before I met her I had a very good paying job and had a lot of money saved up but the only problem was it was a job on the road and I wasn't home much. When I met my girlfriend she didn't want me gone all the time so I decided to take a local job where I was home every night but now I took a big pay cut, I still have money saved up but with what I'm making now I can't see ourselves getting ahead. I sometimes think about getting my job on the road back as I would make a lot more money for my family and we wouldn't have to worry but I know my girlfriend wouldn't want that. What should I do?

Question: Why is my sister competitive with me?

Posted: 26 Apr 2019 09:28 PM PDT

Ever since growing up in our teens (we are in our 30's) my sister has a tendency to be very competitive with me. Example if i buy myself a dress or an outfit, purse, or draw something minding my own buisness in my room she would usually snatched the things from me and rant with the rest of the family saying how much my dress, purse, drawing, etc sucks and that hers are better. She hates me wearing shorts she hates my nickname. One day my nephew called me by my nickname my sister came in screamed at him saying "Don't call her that!" She hates me wearing make up and calls me names. Me and my sister both have hiatal hernia and she is always on my case comparing what i eat and if i eat something that is not "healthy" she will call me out by saying " I'm more sick than you" last night i made myself some homemade Mariana sauce for my vegan meatballs. And she ranted at me to stop eating it because it is scientifically proven that i can't eat tomatoes for my acid reflux. I told her it doesn't affect me, and it's not like the one from the store where it has more condiments . I only add Italian seasoning and basil flakes. And that everyone is different in their situations. She ranted how wrong i was and to stop eating tomatoes. I have had it with her weird competitive attitude! Sometimes i just mind my own business and she comes with that behavior with no reason. What can possibly make her feel that way if i don't condone the same attitude? My nickname is rawry and she is married with two kids living at her own place and me still living with my mother and jobless at the moment but going to a career college soon. She's beautiful and draws very good so again i don't understand her behavior.

Question: Is it weird that I don't have the same last name as my parents and my mom and dad don't have the same last name as each other?

Posted: 26 Apr 2019 09:14 PM PDT

We all have different last names.... I'm just wondering if this is weird or not...or if it is common. No my parents are not divorced btw lol!

Question: Help me, for Christ’s sake.?

Posted: 26 Apr 2019 09:08 PM PDT

Why am I blamed for everything in this household by my mothers? BOTH of them. I am 19. Go to college. Pay for my own bills. I do EVERYTHING as they ask (and what I don't - is also not my responsibility) Since I was a child, I have been blamed for everything. At 7, blamed for my 3 YEAR OLD sister getting out of the house. Blamed for the way my sister acts (we are half sisters) and she is a snobby, brat who gets everything her daddy gives her and mommy. My real dad has been dead since I was 6. My ******* mom left our stepdad at 14 because he's (was) a cheating asshole. Luckily, he's gotten better now. Everything is just my damn fault. I was kicked out of the house AND took my car (I pay for it all - not in my name so whatever) for saying my parents waste their money. Sure, their money, they do as they please right? Okay, well when it comes to asking me to help pay the bills, as they spend the money I gave them on ANOTHER $8000 car. We do not need a third ******* car. They do not use one of them now. And on home improvements, but can't pay for food, can't help me get to college when I may need gas, etc. nothing. But my sister is no where near disciplined as I was when I was her age. She has gone through at least 45 electronics and still sees that if one is gone, she has another right behind her. I cannot afford to live on my own. My friends are ******* retarded. I go to a therapist every week. I'm on the verge of suicide. I'm losing my damn mind.

Question: Teenage brother and sister kissing each other on the lips--weird or not weird?

Posted: 26 Apr 2019 07:45 PM PDT

My cousins are brother and sister--the boy is 15 and the girl is 19. Last time they were over at my house, my younger cousin walked up to my cousins chair, bear-hugged her from behind, and gave her a big smooch on the lips. It was more than a peck but wasn't a makeout or something. It seemed nonsexual to me but my mother was disturbed. Inappropriate or nah? I don't have siblings so I really don't know.

Question: What might make my parents uncomfortable with letting me hang out with kids who are more than 1 year apart from my age?

Posted: 26 Apr 2019 06:30 PM PDT

I'm 15 years old. Ever since kindergarten, I've made friends of all ages. My parents tend to steer me away from people who are not close in age with me. The maximum age gap that they're comfortable with is 1 year/school grade apart. Which means no younger than 14 years old (freshmen) and no older than 16 years old (juniors in high school). I don't get what's the big deal because I'm not doing anything wrong? I'm not doing drugs or stealing someone else's car with my friends.

Question: How to deal with this!?

Posted: 26 Apr 2019 06:00 PM PDT

I got a calll from my daughter from school, saying a little kid gave my daughter a watch, and the parents want it back, when she brought it home I realized that her siblings had broke the watch! Now the parents wants it back, I did take full responsibility of the watch to pay it back but, I am a single dad there mom ain't in there life's, I don't spank my kids I do ground them but I don't know how to deal with this specially the fact that the kid gave it to her.

Question: Should I never talk to my mom again or just temporarily??

Posted: 26 Apr 2019 05:56 PM PDT

She has done everything you can think of to sabotage my wedding bc she doesn't like that my husband is white. We are black. She admits to it. We made plans to pick my dress and she reneged at the last moment. She calls and leaves terrible messages berating me calling me a white man's whore, and that I make her sick. Last night she called at 2a.m. spouting the same crap and I couldn't fall back to sleep. I have moved into my fiance's apt. Him and his family own a small building an he and his siblings and parents each have an apt so when she comes and rings the bell my fiance or MIL answers and tells her I'm busy or out. Should I just stop talking to her altogether or just til I pull my grades up, since she has started this they have dropped from a 3.99 to 3.25

Question: Am I making too much of a big deal out of my ex's relationship with her parents?

Posted: 26 Apr 2019 05:43 PM PDT

She lives with them, she has been told that she doesn't leave the house until she's married and that her parents must approve of the relationship. She's 27, but she was homeschooled and was very sheltered. We met at work, soon after meeting, they expressed disapproval. When she continued, they contacted me and demanded me to stop communicating. Then they threaten disownment, locked her out of the house, demanded where she was at every minute outside of work, contacted one of my family members pretty much calling us mentally unstable. Finally, they threaten to cause problems for me and her close friends if she didn't quit her job. She would tell me some examples of some abuse, but she didn't share some because she was afraid of it getting back to them. She always referred to their treatment of her as imperfect love. They use the bible against her, telling her that she's sinning for disobeying them, telling her that she was following satan by dating someone they disapproved of. She has said before that she has given up on the idea of having a family, and that this was God's will for her. At 27, I was her first relationship and I feel like I'm the only one that knows of her situation. We are no longer in contact, they got her to quit and they moved to another city. It's bothers me that she's in this situation, I know she is the one that has to do something, but from what I've seen, everytime she stands up for herself, they get worse and she becomes more depressed. I've been thinking about reaching out to one of her relatives that's outside that household, but I don't know if that would cause more harm than good and I don't want to make it worse for her.

Question: Im stuck in life?

Posted: 26 Apr 2019 05:32 PM PDT

Hi everyone. I really need some support, advice, anything that can help me that I can use. Im 21 years old and I dont have any money and I dont have any family. I dont know how to drive. I live with my mom, but its not ok here. She doesnt let me work and she doesnt want to teach me how to drive. I have no idea how to get myself out of this situation. How am I supposed to get a job if I dont have a ride to work or even to the INTERVIEW. I dont have any friends or family that can give me a ride. Nobody knows how toxic this household is. My mom has ruined my credit. I cant stop crying. I feel like shes ruining my life. I wish I had a job, I wish I had money, I wish I knew how to drive. I feel like I should just die already. Nobody would know. I dont have any family or any friends. like who WOULD CARE. Why am I living. It doesnt feel like this is life. I really need some help I dont know how to get started. I wish I could get up and GO. Being here is driving me crazy and the fact that Im 21 makes me depressed. I really feel like my days are coming to an end. I feel like it's easy to be like "just get a job and save up" but I literally cant do that. I live in a small town with no job opportunities, and I dont know how to drive or have a ride to work. My mom wont let me work. Im tired of crying over this. I stay home 6 days a week. My mom takes me for a "car ride" for an hour and then Im back home. Im going crazy. Ive never felt this way before. I need to get out :(

Question: How do I go about this?

Posted: 26 Apr 2019 05:17 PM PDT

First thing first, I recently went to a party and accidentally took something that wasn't mine and it had drugs in it, then since I didn't know it had drugs in it I had brought it to school and was almost expelled. I told my mother the story and all the truth but I lied to her not mentioning that I had some more stuff that wasn't confiscated. She then searched my room when I wasn't home and now she believes I am a liar. Another thing to mention is that she also has lied to me about having drugs in her room which she has repeatedly lied about and I know where her stashes are. I am at a lost of words because I already apologized to her for lying but if she tries to give me a punishment or something else I was thinking of telling her that I know she has lied to me as well, I am 17 btw.

Question: Has your child ever expressed anger that you brought him/her into this world? How did it make you feel?

Posted: 26 Apr 2019 05:04 PM PDT

Question: What should I do if I’m worried my 13 year old daughter is hanging out with 16/17 year old girls, but I can’t stop it since it’s at school?

Posted: 26 Apr 2019 04:07 PM PDT

In our country, kids enter high school earlier than in the US, just clarifying. My daughter is regularly hanging out with teens who are 16 or 17 years old. They all have similar interests, but it worries me how there's usually a big maturity difference between those ages. These girls are old enough to have jobs, drive a car, partying, and prepare for college. They might expose my kid into age-inappropriate activities. I'm not going to say it will happen for sure, and I am not accusing them of doing anything wrong at all. My point is just that compared to if my daughter were hanging out with other 13 year olds, she has higher chances of something wrong happening when she's with older teens who are at a more advanced developmental stage. My daughter has plenty of friends her own age, but I don't see her hanging out with them as much anymore. They still talk but she's slowly gravitating towards an older crowd now. The school has no age segregation, and I have no way of separating her when it's happening during school hours, or after school when I'm at work.

Question: I am attracted to my daughter?

Posted: 26 Apr 2019 03:38 PM PDT

my daughter is 15 and she is absolutely stunning. she has a cute, small tight butt that i at this points cannot stop looking at and tbh i picture her naked all the time. she looks like a younger version of my wife and it drives me crazy do i need help? i have not done anything other than smell cloths from her hamper sometimes..