to you is being cheated on a automatic relationship ender? What if it were you who cheated? would you break it off with the person your with out of guilt? or would you tell them? IS the length of time you 2 were together and the severity of the cheating a factor in your decision?

to visit family on jan 11. on march 2 she told me she wasnt comming back and wants a divorce. so i filed here in elko nevada the judge gave her temporary full custody with me getting very limited supervised visits, i cant afford to travel to see him or a lawyer or to pay for the evaluations the judge wants me to do im completely lost and depresed

I try not to get in the middle and i try not to scream and yell because someone has got to be the peace in the family but i remember when our daughter was younger she would mentally and physically abuse our daughter. Ya'll think i'm controlling, well you haven't met my wife. She tries to control my daughter and ME, her adult husband! If things aren't done her way she has a fit. Our daughter traveled with her boyfriend a couple summers ago when she was 23 and my wife completely lost her mind and I thought we were going to have to take her to the hospital for having a panic attack. She punished our daughter for spending the night with her boyfriend un-married when they returned. I feel bad for my daughter because I believe all of our children should be treated equally and she used to be extremely lenient with our 21 year old son letting him fly all over the world with his 20 year old girlfriend. I feel like neither of them should be shacking up but my wife is set on my daughter for whatever reason. I wish they would come to amends because life is too short to have so much hatred for one another and if one of them was to drop dead tommorow it wouldn't be pretty. Ever since my daughter has been cooking there's been a lot more tension between them as well. MY wife doesn't know how to cook and refuses to cook but I notice she hates to see our daughter cook and she gets short tempered when our daughter is in the kitchen. She said yesterday " I'm throwing all this $h!t in the trash if it's not cleaned off my counter by the time i get out the bath" And i told my wife that my daughter assured us it would be clean and to calm down. it worries me how angry she can flip her switch over minor stuff My wife also got super angry because my daughter cooked a meal for me and she didn't want me eating what she cooked, she wanted me to eat the salad she brought for me from a restaurant but i didn't even know she brought a salad until the last minute. she's still living with us because she can't afford an apartment making a little less than $1000 a month on top of all the student loans she owes. She told me she would rather deal with my wife's abuse then be homeless.

If you really don't want to get pregnant, would it be better to use hormonal treatment, which could cause abortion, or surgery, which would be permanent?

good guys are hard to find and she's all up on my neck just because my boyfriend is 34 living with his grandmother and because he has kids. the kids were there before i even met my boyfriend so no worries he didn't have an outside baby on me. I told her " listen do you know how hard it is to find a good guy in this day and age and you're worried about shallow stuff. He's attentive, loving, self-less, and loyal and that's all that I could ever ask for." yes, he might not have his own place but sometimes you can't have it all. A lot of the guys i dated that had their own place were very shallow, cheated on me, were distant, you know. I waited 23 years to meet a decent guy. We started dating when we were 23 and I'm now 27. Plus, my boyfriend is very ambitious because he started back up school and he said he's determined to make a good life for us and move us to new york when he gets a degree and better paying job. I can't even count how many times i've been cheated on in the past, i had to beg my ex to do basic things like call or text. Now my guy friend is seemingly perfect according to my mom because he doesn't have kids, he has a nice car, a good job and he is 30. my mom said that I shouldn't date a man with a child if i don't have or want kids and that my guy friend would be perfect for me. Me and my guy friend tried the dating thing in the past for a month and it was awkward. this was like 8 years ago though. me and my guy friend never argue and he's a good guy. I cook for my boyfriend as well and meal prep all his meals since he doesn't know how to cook. i pack his breakfast, lunch, and dinner. I give him bags of fresh fruit, scrambled eggs with cheese bacon and sasuages and grits for breakfast, and some type of meat with potatoes and veggies or lasgana or pasta for dinner.

I am married and raising a family. My husband works and I work from home four out of every five days. My sister, who is going to school, lived with me several months last year. I found out he told relatives (when they asked her about me) that for the last two years I have been "naked, barefoot, and pregnant" I feel betrayed. Since she is my only sister I trusted her, but she revealed intimate details of our daily life to people I hardly see.

So I was at his house visiting him and his wife, and we were all talking on the couch and his wife asked me if I thought she was pretty, and I said yes and she suddenly SCREAMED at me saying "YOUR LYING IM WEARING AN UGLY OUTFIT YOU DONT MEAN THAT" and i was shocked and didnt answer and she kept screaming at me calling me insults and my son whispered "she has some problems but you really should have been nicer" and i started crying saying i didnt do anything and his wife came up to me and HIT me HARD across the face and kicked me and my son screamed get out and kicked me out

Maybe I just haven't found the right guy? I don't know... but I do know I'm very unsure about marriage and what it all entails. I've always been the strong independent woman. I hate most big compromises because I always feel like I'm giving a part of myself away (small things like where to eat is no big deal lol.) I have a bad habit of having the mindset of "my way or the highway." I sometimes feel like I don't have what it takes to have a good marriage. I don't want kids anyways. Can't stand the little sh*ts. Marriage just seems like too much work. Forever is a freaking long time! I can't even imagine being stuck with someone even for more than a year. Are there like benefits to being married?

Were both in our early 20's. Been together 3 years friends for 5 years. He proposed a month ago now he acting as if he is not sure

Im 35 years old and sadly i have been attracted to chosen the wrong men to date in my life consistently. Two of them were drug addicts. It just now have realized my pattern which i intend to break as Ive already endured wAYYYY too much heartbreak and deserve wayy better. Im just worried that it took me to long to realize this and im already 35 and no good man is going to want to marry me and have kids with me when they can have them with someone else.

My ex husband passed away and I was the emergency contact. He has no friends or family in the US. He has a sister in Europe who I reached out to and who informed me that he has a daughter who he hasn't been in touch with and no one has seen or heard from her in years. The sister has no means of coming to the US. I want him to have a proper burial but I also dont know what legal obligation I have or what to do ? tried all i can to find the daughter without hiring a PI and no luck

My wife cheated on me about 7 years ago, I forgave her and from my knowledge it never happened again. from what i know she has been loyal. She didn't physically cheat, but she was emotionally cheating buy flirting with another man and sending him sexual pictures ( I found out when her phone went off one day and i saw the texts from him). She swore after that day she would never be unfaithful again. Anyways while we were in walmart we ran into her ex boyfriend. This was her first love. me and my wife were friends before we dated and she would always talk about him when we were just friends. They were on and off for years and she was completely in love with him until he supposedly slept with her friend. She was smiling a lot when we ran into him and acting like a giddy school girl basically with all of the twirling of the hair and the twinkle in her eyes. I asked her when we got back home was she still into him and she was like ' are you serious. absolutely not, he cheated on me remember, plus i'm with you and in love with you" And I was like " I've never seen you smile that hard around me" And she was like " I was being cordial, no big deal." She is 45 she doesn't need to be twirling her hair and blushing like she's back in college again."

All she does is Lay Down ALL DAY on her laptop, I want to be a loving husband, and try and figure out what's going on, her mother died 3 years ago and she lived with her mom all her life until she dated me, I wonder if that has an effect on her... She seems like she's in a Terrible mood, and anything that takes her away from her laptop puts her in a bad mood... she has No interest in spending time with me... I don't feel happy at ALL but I don't want to leave my 3 year old son... I need feedback Serious Feedback...

My husband went away to upstate New York this weekend for a hockey game. He met some hockey guys and decided to go have beers with them-his other friends went back to the hotel. He called me when he got in and was a bit drunk and had take an Uber back. I am now wondering if he cheated on me. His friends think no and have told me he wouldn't do that, but I'm not sure. Last summer, he was talking to an old friend of ours about his best friend that died. He started to cry and she leaned in and kissed him. I was beyond pissed. I didn't see it. HE told me she leaned in and kissed him- she denied everything until he called her a liar and said she kissed him. Then she changed her story and was apologizing. Now I'm thinking the worst about last night. He told me he wouldn't do that and he feels horrible I even think that and he was just out with a bunch of hockey guys drinking beer and watching hockey. I told him I want us to go to therapy and he said he'd do whatever I wanted and stop drinking for a while. What do I do? Do I trust him? We've been together for 18 years and have a baby on the way.

My husband is away for a fortnight and I reallyyyy want sex. It's been 5 days since he left and I haven't had any since then, and no, masturbation is just not the same, it doesn't satisfy me enough. Would it be immoral if I have sex with another guy? Just this once? I think I'll go mad if I don't have any.

Even in bed

My wife and I have been married for 6 years and we have a son and daughter. I had a 10 month affair with my wife's best friend, I ended the affair. I feel terrible about it, How do I disclose this to my wife without hurting her as much? I don't want to lose my wife and kids.

Im 27 Yrs old my husband in 26 He loves soccer and plays Monday Thursday Friday and Sunday.I like to watch him play but sometimes I don't like to go because he ends up playing two games in one day indoor is only an hour long but he usually plays 9pm-11pm.He knows I don't like to stay late and tries not to play a second game so I'm trying to avoid going now. The guys he plays with are around 18-20 yrs old some still in high school. They are very cool ppl but they like to drink. My husband is the only one who's married everyone else in the team other has girlfriends or are single.Today my husband came home from work at 11:30pm.And said that the soccer team are playing beer pong and that he was going to go he did invite me to go but it's late I was already in my PJs and I was just waiting for him to come home. So he still decided to go. Last party he got so drunk he started to vomit outside in the car while I drove us home and passedout in the bathroom. Which I was a little embarrassed because we live with my parents. I Get mad because I feel like he acts like he single he hangs out with younger guys Who like to party and drink. My worries aren't that he would cheat, my worries are is he going to drink and drive back home He's not single and it's late for him to go to a party, he left at 12:30. I don't know if I'm just being a party pooper and I should just let him do his thing? Or do I have a reason to be mad because he thinks he can just go out late like if he ain't married

I find it alone makes my body respond and seem to prepare for orgasm. Lol! Words are powerful!

My wife cheated on me about 7 years ago, I forgave her and from my knowledge it never happened again. from what i know she has been loyal. She didn't physically cheat, but she was emotionally cheating buy flirting with another man and sending him sexual pictures ( I found out when her phone went off one day and i saw the texts from him). She swore after that day she would never be unfaithful again. Anyways while we were in walmart we ran into her ex boyfriend. This was her first love. me and my wife were friends before we dated and she would always talk about him when we were just friends. They were on and off for years and she was completely in love with him until he supposedly slept with her friend. She was smiling a lot when we ran into him and acting like a giddy school girl basically with all of the twirling of the hair and the twinkle in her eyes. I asked her when we got back home was she still into him and she was like ' are you serious. absolutely not, he cheated on me remember, plus i'm with you and in love with you" And I was like " I've never seen you smile that hard around me" And she was like " I was being cordial, no big deal." She is 45 she doesn't need to be twirling her hair and blushing like she's back in college again."

did you catch her ?