I have this guy friend at work. For a month or more now, he has shown extreme interest in me and always asks me questions. We were close and always talked. We still do but now he seems to be talking to another girl now. I think part of the reason he is acting differently towards me is because my boss always interrupts our conversations and seems to always be around when we are talking. He does hug me everytime we leave. Recently, he has kind of been talking to this girl that we work with. He joked recently that he was friendzoned by her saying she looked at him like a brother. He then asked me do you see me like a brother or an equal? Obviously, brother is rude so I said I saw him like an equal. Ever since then, he has not asked me any questions about myself. We still make eye contact but he seems distant and only once he asked me how I was. He recently also was going to show me his truck during lunch. I feel like he is not that into me anymore, am I doing something wrong?

I lost my daddy a few years ago it broke me. I wasn't me anymore saying I was ok but inside felt dead nothing was ok. I went threw the motions of my life but it was like I was a robot. I'm in a relationship and I love him with all my heart but there was this guy friend that made me feel something and forget about my life like I was living in a alter reality. We had a emotional relationship it expand to sending sexual texts than eventually we acted on it.we didn't feel what we thought we would we had so much in common and seemed perfect now I lost him to can't talk to no one about it and I just feel worst than ever I cry daily and feel nothing but pain i drink a lot now to cover the pain. Idk how to be me again.

I got out of a bad relationship with an ex 3 years ago but we still work a half mile away from each other. I haven't spoken to him since we broke up. About 6 months ago a random girl liked some of my public photos on instagram and then quickly unliked the photos. I looked at the profile and it was the new girlfriend of my ex, evident by all their photos and her over the top captions about how he's the love of her life. I took a mental note of what she looked like and moved on without a second thought. A few months later she came into the boutique where I work part time. She did buy something small. She made it a point to talk to another customer of whom she didn't know and loudly state where she works (she works with my ex at a car insurance sales office) and then coax the conversation over to how her boyfriend loves to see her in cute outfits because he thinks she has an amazing body etc. She was talking so loud I could hear her from the back room across the store. She came back two more times that month and did the same thing and stared at me but never confronted me, just stared. Do you think it's a coincidence since she works a half mile away or do you think she was messing with me?

My girlfriend had a bad childhood, spent between bullying and bad familiar relationships. She told me she didnt know what if felt like to be happy and loved. She says she's happy now and she feels her true self, not the grey zombie she was at 15/16 (she was bullied and hated, at family gatherings they said things to upset her on purpose and she took antidepressants). Now that everything seem to be better I feel like taking our relationship to the next level but at the same time I M so afraid to hurt her and scared of the fact that the person I love has been thorugh so much and I'm afraid to scare her with this new experience. Advice?

My bf argued really bad with my cousin. He is 23 and I am 18. My cousin is 27 and her bf is 32. I was staying at my grandma's house for the holiday. My grandma invited him over to get to know him. He came for lunch. In the morning I had a shower and my cousin argued with me cause she said I used up all the hot water and now her fiancé, who came from the beach, is all sandy and cannot have a shower. She told me lots of hurtful things and made me cry. As my boyfriend came he asked me what happened but I denied everything as not to ruin the lunch. After it he went outside for a smoke. My cousin again said it was all my faukt about the shower, that I am spoiled (shes been telling me this since I was a months old baby) and attacked me with words when I answered her back. My boyfriend came back and this time insisted with me telling what happened and I told him. He got mad and went to my cousin asking how do you dare? You bully her cause she's too young, and said are you afraid that idiots' b*lls get cold? My cousin argued with him and told him he was an a****le and they both insukted each other. Her bf was shocked and didnt know what to say, tried to calm diwn my boyfriend but he insulted him with his ethnicity (we are eastern european and he is western). My bf grabbed my hand and took me away and smashed the door really hard. I think it's all over with my relatives after what he did. When I told him things like this happened all the time since I was a child he was shocked. What do you mean with competition? He argued first with my cousin and then with her bf, because he hated that they were grown adults and treated me like that. It'a not the first time I am treated like this in my family. I was always let down and very often family members have made me cry also in group.

Please dont judge me! It was over 2 years ago and my boyfriend and I had a very bad phase. He told me he was attracted to someone else and didn't love me anymore. I hooked up with a guy that time and didn't tell him I'm taken. I am now paranoid he will reach out to my boyfriend and tell him. Do I have a reason to be scared? resolved delete. resolved

He was holding me in his arms and then he kissed me and touched my breasts. He looked at me maybe to ask the permission and I nodded. He unfastened the buttons of my shirt and started fondling and kissing and he looked happy and couldn't stop kissing and smelling me. I was a bit shy cause it was the first time he did something like this and I was not used to, but since I love him and he looked so happy I let him do that. At some point he said 'god, how much I love these little things' and sighed and put again his face in my chest. I got mad and said 'that was a mean thing to say'. He said 'but it's true, they're small cause you're still little, you cannot expect to have them big'. I dont know what happened to me as soon as he said that I pushed him away and started crying while fastening the buttons. I felt so stupid and hurt. He then said that I was exaggerating with my reaction and I said in a sarcastic way 'you always know better what another persone feels' and went away crying, he tried to stop me by taking my armi and begging me to listen to him but I refused and went away. He called me but I didnt answer back. I cried for quite a while and then he came up to my house and insisted with my mom to meet me though I didnt want him. I was sick with a bad cold and he apologized saying that he didnt mean to hurt me, that he loves me and that I misunderstood. But I actually understood everything, that I have small boobs. I told him 'go find another girl, with bigger boobs'. I did not got mad because he said I have small boobs. I have a B/C cup, I'm average, but he thinks they are small. I usually dont care about people criticizing my appearance but he is my boyfriend, he should be supportive and caring, not saying 'you're still little and it's normal that they're still small, maybe when you'll end growing up they'll get bigger'. If having big boobs is so important to him, he'd better find another girl. I love everything of him and never criticized anything

I'm 17 years old going on a college tour for 5 days with my school. This will be the first time I'm leaving home without my family (like seriously I've never even been to camp) I'm having anxiety with leaving my family and my puppy. Any tips ? Suggestions

I've a loving family and I'm happily married, but the sadness just doesn't go away. It began during college which was 5 years ago. That's when I started comparing myself to others. I'm extremely unhappy with myself to this day. I consider myself ugly and dumb compared to other people. I look so awful without makeup, dark circles, while other girls are flawless without makeup. I'm also an introvert so I never had much friends. Nobody ever invited me to anything. I was never that special friend to anyone while people were living their best life. College went how I wanted it to be, got my degree, internship, a job and got married. What could possibly be wrong? Idk man. My husband has caught me many times being sad even tho I tried my best to not let it show. How do I explain someone when idk what's wrong? It feels like I've bottle things up for so long that now it's impossible for the bottle to burst.

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I am a sophomore nearing end of the school year I haven t liked football since 8th grade I joined highschool football hoping a change of competition would ignite that spark again that I used to feel for the sport but it hasn t. I absolutely dread football at this point I can barley stand to watch games anymore which is crazy to me considering football used to be my dream. I am a 2 year starter on the offensive line I play center. I m starting to feel depressed I feel like I m trying so hard to please everyone at my school coaches players friends everyone but myself I wanna enjoy my remaining highschool years not dread them. My coach has invested time in me and he s a real hot head I have no idea how he ll react I just know it won t be good my parents are supportive so it s not like I ll have problems with my parents or anything it just comes down to I hate what I m doing but quiting will let everyone down and probably ruin my relationship with my coach I know this probably sounds stupid but I figured I d see what other people thought of the situation spring balls coming up I m going to finish that I won t just spring it on him right before but after that is my only time to tell him if someone was in a similar situation I d appreciate if you let me know what you did. -michael

Yesterday I was going out with friends and she said that my shorts were too short and we fought for a bit then I just apologized because I was tired and she wanted a hug so I gave her a hug and she said that loosing me is one of her biggest fears then today she brought it back up and said I didn't give her a "real hug" but I did and I also meant it. When I forgot my charger today at my friends house I asked to borrow hers for less than 10 minutes because I just had to tell my friend to give it to me on Monday when I see her and she got upset and threw her 2 chargers at my face then went out and slammed the door and got me one. She said that I didn't love her and that I hated her and then she said while she was out she thought about leaving and was leaning towards that and she says this all the time when we fight when I say I'm sorry and give her a sincere apology she said that I don't mean it and she always does this and expects me to talk but when I do its always wrong she also calls me names and she says I'm a bully and that I'm worthless but I can't do anything because she doesn't hit me only 1-4 times has she. I don't know what to do anymore and I'm lost at this point I've tried to bite the bullet but I can't I feel like ending my life sometimes and I know that seems so childish over this but she says I never do anything for her and that she's never enough and starts to cry then endless scream and when I try to comfort her it's always "get away from me." Sorry if there's another post about this I thought it wasn't posting.

Do you think that a girl that has never ever had a boyfriend nor kissed (even as a joke), even at kindergarten, should date and have a relationship with an ex soldier? I have always dreamed about prince charming, a young, humble guy about 3 or 4 years older than me, mature, cute and stubborn who would protect me and love me. It never happened. I was always bullied cause I liked to study and called me prude cause I didnt like the things they did. But this one, he's different, tall, cute, broad shouldered, good looking and muscular, mature, polite, serious and fair in everything he says. He looks me in the eyes and smiles just a bit, when he realizes I blush he stops not to make me feel embarassed. He's a nice guy, comes from ukraine and says he wants to quit his old life (military and his land). He speaks well english but sometimes he doesnt understand some basic words. He says he likes me cause I am sweet and a good girl, and only if I want to he would be glad to date me. He looks really perfect and I never knew someone like me would find someone like him. So perfect and mature. My friends already said we look like an odd couple, a child and a soldier. He himself was shocked when I told him my age cause he thinks I look a lot younger. What do you think? My first love will be an ex soldier 10 years older than me.

I know my boyfiend doesnt have it altogether but a good man is extremely rare and I fear if we break up I will never find this type of love again. good guys are hard to find and she's all up on my neck just because my boyfriend is 34 living with his grandmother and because he has kids. he has 3 kids kids by two different women and she's been suspicious about him ever since finding out. the kids were there before i even met my boyfriend so no worries he didn't have an outside baby on me. He's attentive, loving, self-less, and loyal and that's all that I could ever ask for. yes, he might not have his own place but sometimes you can't have it all. A lot of the guys i dated that had their own place were very shallow, cheated on me, were distant, you know. I waited 23 years to meet a decent guy. We started dating when we were 23 and I'm now 27. Plus, my boyfriend is very ambitious because he started back up school and he said he's determined to make a good life for us and move us to new york when he gets a degree and better paying job. I can't even count how many times i've been cheated on in the past, i had to beg my ex to do basic things like call or text. Now my guy friend is seemingly perfect according to my mom because he doesn't have kids, he has a nice car, a good job, he's an engineer, he has his own apartment and he is 30. my mom said that I shouldn't date a man with a child if i don't have or want kids. My mom said love isn't enough sometimes, you have to date who you are compatible with. she said that my guy friend would be perfect for me. My guy friend is a good guy no doubt. We've been friends since 2010 and have only had like two argeumentsI remember one time years ago when i had got cheated on with my ex on valentines day my guy friend took me out to eat and bought me flowers and a giant teddy bear so i wouldn't be so depressed. I don't even know if my guy friend likes me in that manne my guy friend normally texts me once a month to update me on his life and see how i'm doing. I really can't be with a man that's not attentive. I get he is busy with his engineer career and schooling but idk just seems like he doesn't like me foreal or either's trying to respect my relationship but not texting a whole lot. but i remember when i was single many years ago me and my guy friend would text basically 24/7 and go out to the beach and stuff together