The last 5 months we have been arguing he says this is not getting any better we should divorce You make me unhappy Why would I wanna kiss hug snuggle you or tell you I love you when we fight all the time?????I don't talk to you because of the tension between us So one argument he said let's go to the courthouse, I said ok he said yup!!! knew YOU wanted one Anyways I told him I need space and he moved in with his dad last week, Our kids visit him after school from 330-630 daily and weekend sleepovers. I work early mornings so his dad takes the kids up to the bus stop, luckily papa lives right there where the kids get picked up. I asked the kids is daddy there to get you off the bus stop or put you on the bus they said sometimes no, sometimes he is at his friends. I texted him and said these are your kids too, why are you suddenly ignoring your fatherly duties? You ALWAYS took the kids to and from the bus stop every day and now suddenly you are barely there, step up and be the father you were when we were living together. Anyways after thinking about it i got all forms for a divorce, i had his dad give him the divorce papers....2 hours later his dad comes back and said he don't want one! I texted my husband I have divorce so much from YOU it's pounded into my brain, IF I let you back in this house here's what's gonna happen. You DO NOT say divorce unless you want one, I will not be disrespected in this way with such an ugly word He texted back that word is no longer a word.

To make a long story short my husband did not have a good childhood...after his parents divorce. My husband brought up early in our relationship that his mom cheated with several men that she brought over to the house when his dad was working...his father gave her a chance when he found out but soon she continued to cheat with multiple men including my husband's godfather and friend of his dad! His dad divorced and his mom eventually married 4 times ...each time putting her kids last when she had a man...the previous husband was always beating up the kids...his mom did nothing...because she loved the lifestyle he gave her ( this is what my husband had mentioned) she would only take her daughter everywhere but leave her sons to fend for themselves.... Fast forward years later my husband is a home owner and his mom is on her fifth marriage to a man,much younger who does not work....shes been,kicked put of rentals because her new husband has a gambling problem....shes always trying to pull at my husbands heart strings only when she may "need" something...she even,let's het new husband yell at her adult childrem and she always ( sides with any man she is dating besides her kids) why does my husband not realize she does not have his best interest at heart? Early on he had to tell her " your husband needs to work" I'm not giving you money....i stay put of it... My husband acts like a 5 year old when,ahe throws fake crumbs of love...what should i do,

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We have 2 kids 16 months old and a 1 month old. I found out within the last 2 years of our relationship that he has a 4 year old that he has no interest in being apart of ( not my idea). Well he got drunk last night and unblocked his original baby momma on Facebook because she she has been having her friends block their number and call him and harrass him. He originally was supposed to ask her to stop and it ended up being an all night conversation. She admitted to sleeping with his brother during this convo and then proceeded to tell my husband that he was better in bed and that he had a bigger" man piece" than his brother did. My husband already showed me this Message so i was aware of it. Well i got self conscious and went through his phone while he was asleep and those messages are now gone she said to him about him being better in bed and his " man piece" was deleted. Should i be worried???

She has done everything you can think of to sabotage my wedding bc she doesn't like that my husband is white. We are black. She admits to it. We made plans to pick my dress and she reneged at the last moment. She calls and leaves terrible messages berating me calling me a white man's whore, and that I make her sick. Last night she called at 2a.m. spouting the same crap and I couldn't fall back to sleep. I have moved into my fiance's apt. Him and his family own a small building an he and his siblings and parents each have an apt so when she comes and rings the bell my fiance or MIL answers and tells her I'm busy or out. Should I just stop talking to her altogether or just til I pull my grades up, since she has started this they have dropped from a 3.99 to 3.25

To understand the problem i have to explain his personality. He is VERY anxious and Persistent. Everything has to be by the book. His sex drive is so so low. We only have sex usually 2 a week, if im lucky.Now, this week, he had sex with me twice without using a condom. The day after he said nothing abour buying plan be. I went d bought it myself. The next morning he went ahead and had sex with me 4times back to back without a condom and said nothing about buying plan b. Why is this weird? A) He has neverEVER not worn a condom with me. Even in the heat of the moment when I dont want him to. He stops cus he MUST get a condom. B) we have used only two plan B pills throughout a four year relationship. All of a sudden I had touse TWO inthe past week! C) the only two times we had to use plan b, was cus he felt like the condom could have broken. Because of his anxiety, he woke me up BOTH TIMES at 6am to go buy a pill. Now hes just all of a sudden forgotting about it?? D) his sex drive is usually so soooo low. 2 times a week. Id have to pleasure myself because he usually is still weak down there from previous sex. All of a sudden he has sex with me 4 times to the point of exhaustion! Wtf??? What happened??? No we do not use birth control for personal reasons, beliefs and past family experiences. Point is, hes not acting himself. Idc if i have to be the responsible one, thats not the point. Point is, hes not acting himself? Wtf? (I also let it happen just to see wtf is going on)

I really really really really am waiting for that. I want a man to be a good man and take care of me and i can be a stay at home mother and wife and take care of him, do whatever he wants (at home...i dont want to get a job - thats for men) and have endless children togethee and homeschool them. So yeah. I am also trying to learn a lot about telling if a man is good and fit for this job and how to be a pleasing wife. Im already practicing as a single lady how to be a better woman.. Cause i know we women have flaws that hurt relationships. We arent perfect!

I ran into my ex mother in law Lisa at the mall. We talked briefly and as it was lunch time I invited her to go to join me for lunch. We went to a nice restaurant in the mall. We had great food, great conversation, and a lot of fun. I did not think any more about it until I get a text message from my former wife Pam, that she did not want me dating her mom anymore. She said it would be to weird to call her ex husband dad? I thought she must be joking as how could anyone think that having lunch one time with anyone would mean they were going to get married so going along with the joke, I said "Does that mean you will not be a brides maid at the wedding"? It turns out she was not joking and now she is mad at me. Do you think I did something wrong here?

So, my wife and I have been married for 10 years... Now, it is expected that our sex life would deminish over the years... However, for the past 6 months, it is been non-existent! So, the other night, I told her that I really wanted to be with her and that she should give it to me more... She said that she didn't feel like it... then I suggested to her that she should, or she may be sorry... So in a mocking laughing response, she was like "yeah, right" So I give her another warning, and another chance to repent, and tell her once again, that it would be easier on her if she were to give in... Again, the same response... So that night, I "finished" all over the back of her work slacks... Well needless to say, it was not the best day at work for her... But the most puzzling thing was that after all of this, she was actually mad at me... I gave her several opportunities to change her tune, if she would have just let me in and out for 3 minutes, I would have finished in her and not on her slacks... I don't get it, am I really wrong here?

All he says he didn't do nothing. She's a dumb *****

I wear my wedding set everyday and don't leave the house without it on. When guys compliment me ("You're pretty." Thank you my husband thinks so too) I always let them know my husband thinks I'm pretty or beautiful it whatever compliment they give me. I find men who keep pressing disgusting and am completely repulsed by them.

Love like all emotions eventually fades over time. Sometimes you're angry, sad, or happy but it never lasts forever. Personally, I've never seen any marriage based on love turn out to be successful. I'm not suggesting there is no such thing as true love, but such extreme feelings are dangerous. Like a depressed person thinking of suicide. It shouldn't be encouraged. Just like there are varying degrees of hate there are also different levels of love. You could be a racist bigot who posts anti Semitic comments online or go too far and blow up a synagogue. It's the same with love. It seems like marrying for love is one of the worst things you could do. It essentially puts a hex your relationship and you'd probably be happier if you two had simply stayed together without all of the marital stress. I'm also not saying you should avoid marriage all together. However, have you ever noticed how two complete strangers in a business seem to get more accomplished than two people who are apparently in love with each other? Wouldn't make more sense to approach marriage more like a business and not like some weird living arrangement? Why is it easier to communicate and work as a team in business relationships than personal ones? I can walk into almost any retail store or restaurant, them what I want, they tell me what they need, I give it to them, get what I asked for, and leave a satisfied customer. It's never that simple in a marriage is it?

Like... oops??? I also stole someone's identity... :/ Does that make me a bad person? I was like bored lol.

So my husband and i Have been married for 3 years. Things got violent between us so I decided to leave him. I took some items, such as a tv, water dispenser, my 2 children's clothes and crib etc. after I left to my parents house. I took things that belonged to my children and what I felt was necessary for us to have. Turns out, he wants to sue me for things I took and even money that he claims I took out of his debit account (we have separate checking accounts) from cash deposits that he himself has made. I'm currently going through a divorce where I'm addressing these items and am willing to give back the tv and water dispenser if that's so much his problem. If the small claims court see that these items are being handled by my divorce attorney, can they drop the case?

but she just laughs at what I say. I can tell she gets a thrill when men glance at her and I often have an uncomfortable evening when I know guys are looking at her. . I m expecting she ll change when we re married but my friend says that she s not gonna change. dont like it and I m reconsidering if I really should be getting married to her. You would think that she coming from a strong theist family would be considerate of what she is doing?

In the midst of planning for a fun summer and a possible marriage in the winter, my boyfriend, who is in the army, has just found out that he is going to be stationed in another country. Not deployed, but just stationed. This would be for another year and a half. I am currently in my third year of college, so this would be during my senior year. My dilemma is such - should I take a gap year off of school to be with him in the other country, or finish school? I really don't want to be away from him for so long, but don't want to put my education on hold. I am incredibly stressed out and frustrated that this had to happen at this time. Any suggestions? Thank you.