i want to have sex experience, and yea i know i shouldn't be pressured to do so.. but what can i say, i'm a 17 year old horny girl. my close friend (17) has offered himself up to have sex with me and i trust him enough to know i can have these kind of experiences with him. i take birth control and have always taken it for my periods. sometimes i miss a day and catch up the next following day. will this cause it to lose effectiveness? we're going to use a condom obviously, but i'm paranoid about getting pregnant. just to be clear im in kansas and its perfectly legal for us. i just want to know sex basics. should it hurt, what is it like, how can i prevent pregnancy without being abstinent? PLEASE i don't want horny people in the answers just talking about their experiences in vivid detail. im just... lost. ok just to add on the most i know really is what i got from the Talk as well as porn. not great sources. i rly just want to know what its like. it doesn't matter if i wait until after marriage because i don't want kids. ever.

I'm a first year teacher at a high school and I had the principle come talk to me because she said she has reports from other teachers and faculty that I don't close the door all the way when I'm in the restroom. I leave the door cracked because it's hard to open and shut it, it's a heavy door. I didn't think it was that big of a deal to complain to our principle about. Are people just bored with their lives or is someone out to get me fired. I don't have time for pettiness. Why is it so hard for people to mind their buisness and not always go running around to the manager/principle about things? I peresonally don't care what others are doing and if someone left the door cracked i wouldnt be that hard pressed.

19 almost 20. Every woman I love says I'm sweet but they don't see anything in me. They don't love me like that I'm always lonely

I ran out of toothpaste about a week ago I ve been using shampoo ever since and I don t get paid for another two weeks I decided to look it up and I started reading some comments on here now I m worried what s going to happen? I ve been using VO5 shampoo and it leaves a horrible perfumy taste in my mouth.

So I'm considering suicide because everyone wants me to be a certain way and I can't be the exact way that everyone wants me to be, mostly my mom. She's always saying I don't deserve anything I have (I do live in a bit of a wealthy family I guess but that aside). Anyway she recently agreed to take me and my best friend to New York over the summer and I recently asked her about it just nicely asking if she could look into the availability and what not (because she's the one with the shells vacations club membership) and she freaked out and started saying that she doesn't want to do it because she thinks that I don't deserve it. Even though I try so hard to be perfect. She's always saying that I never work for anything and that I don't deserve anything and that I'm a selfish terrible person. I can't be perfect. I try so hard to be what she wants me to be but it's never good enough. I get straight As, dress nicely, ext. I'm never good enough. I want to become good enough but I know in her eyes I will never be. She's always loved my sister more than me. She's always loved her money and bank account more than me. She's lied before saying she doesn't have the money to give me for a school dance and asked my friends to give me money even though I know she keeps twenty dollar bills in her wallet. I guess this isn't really a question I just really needed to talk about this and I don't want to bother my friends.

She is my coworker.

My wife has one younger brother who is a narcissist. He is the youngest in his family. He is the butt of the joke that goes "how many people does it take to change a lightbulb at his house? None. He holds up the bulb and the world revolves around him". Whenever someone needs him to do something, he provides complicated explanations as to why he is not available but expects people, including his elderly parents,cto drop whatever they are doing and come up to his house immediately, if not sooner. His kids are brats and he expects everyone in the family to put his kids at center of our world over our own children, or so it seems. His wife just goes along to get along and his siblings attribute his behavior to ADD. I call nonsense on that because not everyone who has ADD acts like a jerk and it is no excuse. I stayed home from a holiday celebration at his home recently because I can't take him anymore. I told my wife that I found her brother's behavior a bit challenging and that it might be better for everyone if I did not attend that day. How should I deal with this going forward?

Ladys and gentlemens, I would appreciate if you answered a question I have in my life.There is a friend who for a while I have feelings for her, but for many reasons I know I am not her type and I just want to be her friend, she is very important to me.I want to declare my feelings, tell her how I have been feeling and tell her that even though her feels what I feel, I have to let her go, that I would prefer to be only her friend.In a few words I want to remove it from my system and continue.

I have a good friend. She and I were friends since high school, we are now in our 50's. We even married men who were brothers. Her husband took a liking to me many years ago while they were still dating because we used to hang out together until he introduced me to his brother. Her then boyfriend had made passes at me and while his wife was finally pregnant (they used invitro) he called me and proceeded to tell me how he felt that he made a mistake, a big blunder in marrying this woman. He said he would be willing to leave his wife for me. I could not believe it and it really bugged me so the next time that my friend and I talked on the phone, I asked her is everything okay with you two? She replied yes why? I told her that he said those things to me and it was disturbing. She became angry even years later and told me that I should not have told her that, that it was mean. Was it really? Her husband had been liking me for years! She was aware of this. Isnt it up to a friend to tell a good friend something this important? Wouldn't that be a true friend? Weirdest thing that she would blame me and not him. I feel it is what it is, she just refused to see it all of these years. Opinions please

Whenever another person unexpectedly feels or lightly plays with my side hair, rubs my shoulder and/or upper back, or touches almost anywhere above the back of my upper thigh: my entire spine, nape, and back of my head gets really tingly. It doesn't even have to be my crush, lover, friend, or relative. It's ANYONE. Why?

so basically she was at my house taking care of me, im 13, and my parents are gone for the weekend so today, she accidently knocked over my computer while walking, and the screen fell on the floor and cracked and i told her she has to pay for it and she said she cant afford it so i was just like whatever but she kept going on about it screaming at me telling me i should have a laptop and not a desktop computer and it wouldnt have happened and i told her it wasnt my choice and she got so mad she went up to me and HIT my face HARD i have a bruise and then kicked me while screaming with a red face, then she immedietiley appologized and said sorry!!! she ran out of the room crying begging me not to tell anyone and she was just mad, what do i do when my parents get back it is an iMac computer so the screen is the computer

I understand that technically he is neither, since I am not a guinea pig.