I m a 12 year old girl and the past few years I used to wet the bed at night. My mom still buys me Goodnites, which are basically diapers. I haven t wet the bed in a little over a month now but I still pretend I do so my mom will keep buying me diapers. I ve been feeling really guilty about this because its basically lying to my mom. I know it s really weird and not normal that I like to wear them but I can t help it. Should I just tell her? Im NOT trolling btw!

My grandad has Alzheimer and he usually don't reconize who I am. He lives with us because he can't be by himself. My parents both work full time so during the day in my pauses from university I have to check him out. Today I went to check how he was. He thought it was his 22nd birthday and I was a surprise girl sent by his friends and offered me 300 dollars for a blow*job. My parents never give me money so I said yes in the moment and I did it. It lasted only a few minutes because his di*ck stopped being hard. He wanted me to continue to suck it even if it wasn't hard and I did it but then I left. Now I feel like sh*it. He's my mom's dad! What the hell I was thinking? Should I tell my parents?

Ok so I have and had just gotten home from school and my reflection was showing sideways of me as I was walking to my room. The reflection was pretty and nice to look at. My mom saw the reflection that was showing and she ignored the reflection like if wasn't me and she doesn't expect that to be my reflection while my sister was standing there and she looked towards my sister as if she knows that's not my reflection showing and she doesn't expect that to be me and she looked towards my sister like my sister knows that's not me and that's not my reflection and my sister should know that's not my reflection either and that's not me. What do you think of this situation and what should I do?

What should i do ? Shes seven months old and my doctor advises me to not take her until she is a year old because she hasnt had all her shots and i do what the doctor tells me but they get very upset with me and stop talking . They wouldnt even facetime on their trip i said no to . It was a 10 hour drive to pa , we live in indiana and with a baby it would of made it a 20 hour drive . They also want me to take her to church and my doctor has said not to "oh she will be fine !" I end up hurting their feelings but i am trying to do what i think is best for my baby but i dont want to hurt their feelings everytime . They want me to go on another trip and i ask if i could ride with my parents bc it would be me and baby in back seat with 8 others and mil thinks i dont like her . She wont even drive me separate. They live 40 min away and wont come visit her , saw her a month ago , we take her most the time . Husband works 3rds so i have no car . I feel bad hurting their feelings and dont know what to do . I am just trying to keep my baby healthy

A few months ago her dad brought up College she's only a junior.. she has one more year of high school left he tried talking his daughter into moving out there with him I believe so he can get out of paying child support for 15 more months stepmom was posting stuff on Facebook about how she will win Etc so because my daughter kept telling her dad she did not want to live there all the sudden his sisters are emailing my daughter and telling my daughter she should move to Illinois and go to college out there and leave WI. In her email she's telling my daughter that she has support from her dad and her she doesn't even mention my name all she keeps doing is asking my daughter where do you plan on living when you're done with high school think about it you can move in with your dad I'm sure your dad would be happy to pay for your college etc etc then all the sudden they buy her a camera so she can do YouTube videos and now all the sudden my daughter wants to move in with her dad what is the sound like to you guys. I think it's really strange that she didn't want to live there and now all the sudden she does after she gets a camera a $700 camera to do YouTube videos. She keeps telling me they did not talk her into this I have heard from her several times how she does not want to live with your dad she would make up stories to not even want to go there on the weekends to visit him but now all the sudden she wants to change custody I move in with him

My step father has been around since I was about 11 or 12. I have always had a rocky relationship with him simply because he was borderline emotionally abusive. I never knew what he wanted. We would have people over and he would get mad at me for visiting, yet if I stayed in my room he would complain. I would get called out for being a slob, lazy, never amount to anything, etc. The list goes on. Flash forward to today. I have two kids, I live in a nice house and I am a senior in college with great chances of getting a job. Two years ago my mom left my stepfather because he wouldn't allow me to stay in his house until I got back on my feet while pregnant. Instead of the hassle, I told my mom I would find my way by living in a facility for pregnant woman. My step father and I got into an argument and I knew that if I stayed he would treat my son the same as he did me. My mom ended up leaving him anyway despite my efforts at finding alternative avenues. On my birthday she told me she'd be moving back in with him. I'm 25 now. I should be over it. I have a life of my own, but I'm sad that my family isn't going to be able to drop in and visit like we used to. I'm angry because in my eyes, I had thought she left because she finally understood how awful he had treated me. I felt betrayed. What I had thought in my own head was a lie. There was no realization, she simply left to help me for the time being. I feel like that teenager again fleeing back to my safe room. I was also recently diagnosed with adult ADD a year after my mother left. With that information, I realize that my step father had a dislike for most of the characteristics that came with it, which ended in name calling. knowing that I was called out for most of which was out of my control just felt uncalled for. I apologize if this is a lot of info. My brain can sometimes shoot through the roof and spark anxiety and depression, this has been eating at me for a while.

So my brother was a past drug addict and is 23.he goes out all night and comes home during the day when my mom is not here. And goes off again before my mom comes home. I dont know where he stays overnight. He might be ******* some girls and doing drugs for sure. He does not have a job and is 23 will be 24 in june. He has a bad a level and was supposed to do aviation on april but he does not seem to be going anywhere now. I dont have great communication with him as he is barely home. Im concerned though . Where does he go all night ?

so my dad and mom found out i had sex. I'm 16 . So I was visiting my mom for spring break and I saw that my ex boyfriends mom found condoms in his personal bag. I was freaking out and crying That she would tell my dad so I needed to vent and I told my mom . ( that was stupid because me and my mom have a rlly bipolar relationship ) . And my mom was crying and said she wouldn't tell my dad and if she did i would never have to talk to her. My mom told my dad turns out and my dad made me confess it to him. He started crying and saying how That hurts him because I'm so young and i did it in his house and he can't trust me anymore. He told me after I graduate he wants me out and he doesn't care if i talk to him or don't talk to him anymore. He completely grounded me til I'm 18 and now he took away my house keys and i need to go to my grandparents everyday. My mom and him are tag teaming against me ( it's weird bc before this happened they always argued and never talked )and she's saying how I'm disgusting and it made her even more depressed that i did that, and how she can barley go to work or get ready and she's about to get fired ( continued in comments )

so my dad and mom found out i had sex. I'm 16 . So I was visiting my mom for spring break and I saw that my ex boyfriends mom found condoms in his personal bag. I was freaking out and crying That she would tell my dad so I needed to vent and I told my mom . ( that was stupid because me and my mom have a rlly bipolar relationship ) . And my mom was crying and said she wouldn't tell my dad and if she did i would never have to talk to her. My mom told my dad turns out and my dad made me confess it to him. He started crying and saying how That hurts him because I'm so young and i did it in his house and he can't trust me anymore. He told me after I graduate he wants me out and he doesn't care if i talk to him or don't talk to him anymore. He completely grounded me til I'm 18 and now he took away my house keys and i need to go to my grandparents everyday. My mom and him are tag teaming against me ( it's weird bc before this happened they always argued and never talked )and she's saying how I'm disgusting and it made her even more depressed that i did that, and how she can barley go to work or get ready and she's about to get fired ( continued in comments )

I have to see my Dad this weekend cause the whole family is going there. I hate him so much it makes my skin crawl. I can stay home if I want but then I will be alone. If I go how do I not let my hatred of him eat me alive? He refuses compassion for the abuse I suffered at hands of someone he left me with as a kid, that is the reason for the hatred. He just says "let it go". So how do I stay relaxed around the man I hate the most in this world? I hate him more then the abuser as at least the abuser went to jail and paid the price and plus I never have to see the abuser again, I am stuck seeing my Dad about once a month. I wish I did not hate him but cannot get past it. I know hatred is like a cancer but I cannot help it.

I am 16 and female.

My mom's side of the family puts me down. They tell me they were embarrassed of me at my high school graduation because I was just an honor graduate and not valedictorian. I have an October birthday and was on the older end of my class and some accused me of failing and wouldn't even come to my graduation. When I earned my B.S., they wouldn't even acknowledge it. I have a good job and they put that down and say I don't make as much as my cousin. They always brag about what she makes in front of me ( she makes less, but I don't say anything.) I recently bought a house and some are being hateful and putting me down, saying they don't know how I can afford it. Every time I'm around these people, they make me feel bad. I have a need to earn their approval, but it never happens. I feel like I should just cut them off if they are going to treat me this way. Has anyone else had an experience like this?

I noticed that a lot of people who were smart and successful in college and high school many times flamed out after they graduated and didn't really live up to what many expected them to do with their lives. For example my sister was a valedictorian in high school, triple majored in college and then since she graduated 6 years ago she hasn't done anything except work as a bartender part time and play video games all night long and still lives at home with our parents at 29 years old. Same thing with my cousin, he majored in computer engineering and was extremely smart and now he's an alcoholic and has gained 100 lbs since graduating 3 years ago and does nothing and is jobless living at home still at 26 years old

I used to live with my g/f we split up then I lost my job. So I couldn't afford the house. I had to move back in my parents house. I'm back working and saving but my family scaremonger me you can't cope if you move out.

I'm 18 and still live at home with my mom and my step dad. My step dad does not work, make any sort of income, etc. My mom works. My mom even owns the house we live in, not him. But he wants to go and make up rules with our consulting my mom. The problem is, I have rabbit and he wants to put them in the garage (that's unattached to out house it's on the other side of the yard) because they "bother him" Claims he's allergic to them when I know for a fact he's not because he's held them before and never felt allergic. So he's just lying to get his way. It's not fair because they are smokers, the smoke makes me cough like crazy and makes my eyes water. This has been a problem for me when as a young child before my mom even met my step dad so it's not a new reaction to the smoke. I even made that point to him that I've been dealing with everyone's smoke my whole life and it making me sick and no one cares but the minute he's unhappy with the smell of my rabbits it's a big deal. Also, I clean their cages regularly and make sure I always have a candle lit just to make sure theirs no odor. So it's not like the house stinks. Do I have a point here about the cigarette smoke? I feel like if I have to put up with that then he should have to put up with my rabbits. Also, I think it's mean to put them in the garage, do you guys think it's mean? Maybe I'm over reacting to the garage part but either way it's not fair I have to deal with cigarette smoke but he can't deal with one thing.

When I was growing up, I was always very confused as a child. When ever my dad would get back from work, he shout and scream about the dishes. He'd do that every Sunday. I never can recall him teaching me anything. I'd go to him, while he sat their smoking watching TV and tried getting attention of any kind from him when I was a small child. And he'd shout at me and I'd become shell shocked with sadness realising that he never really cares for me. My mother was the same, when I was 10, I went on a 5 day school trip. And when I got back at school, their was no one their to pick me up. My brother was meant to but he never turned up. So I had to walk back, it was embarrassing. When I got home my mother was on the phone to her schizophrenic sister, shout and arguing. When I walked in she didn't look happy to see me return, when I asked her why nobody didn't pick me up. She told me to **** off you little ****. I was so shocked. I didn't speak to her for a week. There are so many accounts like the ones listed above, I've lost count. I can only recall my dad ever hugging me once and my mother three times in my whole life. Im 22 now and when ever someone treats me like **** like how my parent's do, I am always quick to forgive. I never had the childhood a normal kid would have. If you've been through a similar childhood. I'd appreciate it if you'd comment and tell me your story.

I'm a 25 year old autistic Male living in another state with my caregivers and my 20 year old brother is coming to visit me for a week. I'm so happy to see him we are very close

My unmarried childless aunt says she is my mom when i was staying over for couple of month. She is very old and i was 20, yet she forces me to eat pudding, fights everyday with her sister (they live together). She wants me to live like her but her life is depressing. All she does is work and watch tv and she doesnt do anything else pretty much. She one time said the most offending things to me and she barely takes responsibility. I cant stand her im leaving soon but i sense negative energy from her. Why my aunt said she is my mom but she was very aggressive to me? She doesnt have targets in life or friends, but i am sociable. She is not friendly with anyone.

I hate kids and I will never have anymore, just my ONE KID. Whenever I'm in public, parents and heir kids always manage to sit next to me or near me. I hate kids because they're loud and disgusting. How to get them to move away from me???

When my parents told me and my sister that we will have a new family member, a newborn.. I didnt feel anything, I was like: "okay" It was like saying: "I am going out to buy some food" :/ Didnt affect me at all. It was like an everyday thing xDD Didnt feel happy, nor sad... It was just.. "OK" I dont know, nothing can really shock me.. Even when my best friend for 11 years died I felt nothing. My older sister's reaction was more intense.. she started to cry but not from happiness :/ I dont get it. I think it shocked her? but why? xP She, later on, said she didnt know why she cried.

Im the youngest by far out of 5 with all older sisters. Im the only boy but also the smallest. since i was really little all four of my sisters favorite thing to do was tickle me. Every night before bed we all had a play time that we all got to bond with eachother. I loved when they played with me and they always make sure its fun. Once i was old enough to play with them every night they loved to tickle me. Im super ticklish but the problem is I laugh so much and all my sisters love it. Once they start saying awww and telling me im so cute i try not to laugh but i cant and i start blushing and they all get all happy. I dont know they have been doing it for so long and i have fun when theh do it but the only thing is i get so embarrassed cause they are my big sisters and they know im ticklish and they love it. I feel humiliated being the only boy getting tickled by girls. also i wonder what they think of me when they tickle me? Do you think they make fun of me? is it bad that they do this even though i have fun but i just get humiliated and i wonder if thats why they tickle me to make fun of me or to have fun. I always have fun but I wonder if they are trying to torment me bevause they get me good and taunt me when they do it. Should i be embarrased that they tickle me. My mom always tells me to be a good sport but I dont know what that means

I call my boyfriend every night so I can fall asleep. It's helped me relax and calm down at night because I have sleep anxiety. My mom doesn't know that I do this. She only knows I'm on my phone past the "10pm limit". Ok granted I am. But it's for the better. How do I explain this to her? She has no idea that I'm dating him. Also that I have sleep anxiety still. She has told me multiple times about my phone use and I'm scared she's goi g to take it away at night. But I would much rather be able to sleep then her have her way with my phone use. Also. Today around 11 pm I was asleep on call and my mum came into my room. My bf thought it was me tryna talk to him so he started to call my name. He said that my mum started to question him then he hung up. Turns out she took my phone after that and I woke up and searched the entire house and found it on her night stand. So fml. I'm dead. Someone please help me.

My mom is the most frustrating person ive ever met, she constantly nags and complains and cries over the tiniest things like her ex husban sending her a video. Or a bad day at work, i cant count the amount of times she hasnsaid shes suicidal and wants to give up and shes jusy so sick of it all just brcause her work was hard that day. The worst part is that she makes it hard on herself and when u try to tell her this in anyways she just gets mad. For example, every single time a guest says ther coming over after work she will go absolutely crazy to make everything look perfect, she will even go so far as to biy thing we cant really afford. She has this control thing aswell, i told her i wanted to move out next year since ill be at college and she just threw a hissy fit and got all salty about it. She also constantly wants to know where we are going and what we are doing, even though my oldest brother is 23, she says its just to be safe, but its seems over the top to me. Its not like me an dmy siblings are doing nothing, we pay for food, fuel, etc so many times. We always comfort her, do the dishes, etc, but its never done good enough apparently. When she gets annoyed or mad, she takes it out on me usually, and sometimes everyone else. I know shes had a tough time and is struggling with a recent divorce from an avusive man, but I just dont know how to handle her anymore.

He's 20 years old and been training mma since he was 18 and he would try so hard to act like Conor McGregor. Like he always says "who the fook is that guy?" Or "shut your fooking mouth" or stuff like "I'll whoop your ***" and it's out of control, he's so annoying now. Why he's behaving like this

They kept on plate but threw the other one away. Am I wrong for being pissed?

So I was trying to sleep, its me, my mother, and my brother who live in this house. I m 19, he is 23, I try to make order, he can t even clean up after himself. He never cleans up his room, my mother is the only one who works in the apartment. And he has been away in a different city to party. He came back, not only did he forget to take the dog out, but at 3 am I get woken up by him entering the house with two drunk guys, I don t say anything until I hear them making noise all around the house. I come to them and tell them that people in this house are trying to sleep, and that they should leave. My drunk brother starts calling me a stupid b i t c h. I go to my mother and try to convince her to tell them to leave and she just tells me to go back to sleep. I can t when there is noise in the house, my room isnt isolated, I can literally hear anything happening in it. And so after that one of the guys literally starts making noise intentionally, staying outside of the room whilst my brother probably talks **** about me. It s very upsetting. I told theem to leave 3 times and neither of them left my brother was already passed out the 2nd time I told them to leave. And nothing, the guy was just getting more and more re ta rd ed while I was getting angrier and I literally told him to freaking leave and that I will beat him up. Nothing. I feel like a joke, nobody respects me. I have a lot if health issues, both mental and physical and I want some peace and quiet in my own home.

My mother is 44 and she's done with kids. She had my two younger sisters two years apart and went through a lot and is still going through some health stuff with my middle sister. My mom still sleeps only 4 hrs. My last sister that's 8 was not planned that made my parents not sleep with eachother for almost 4 or more years, now they do and last month my mom had spotting and I read it could be a sign of pregnancy and I saw how worry she was getting even tho I was telling her what it could be then I said to her what do you think your pregnant and she said god forbid (I believe) then what are you crazy. Now my dad and her are done but I know for sure my mom isn't on any birth control no pill, no device, no nothing at all. I don't think my dad would get his you know what tie ans definitely not my mom. I just don't understand how is she so sure if the only protection they use is condoms that haven't even been really touched we have one closed and it easy to see. Now I'm not being nosey AT ALL! I'm 16 and I literally am a second mother to my sisters that I have no life at all I mean my father works 24/7 and there's no family no friends for help just me and my mom. I've actually been having big anxiety attack due to feeling so overwhelmed with taking care of these kids. I spoke to a cousin that's gifted and she said I been thinking a lot lately and need to take it day by day enjoy my sisters and my dad don't worry about the future. All I'll have is my sisters later on to be strong.

Essentially I'm a straight A high school student with honors classes and have a good work ethic. This leads to my expanding free time which I fill with playing video games. I joined my school's track team just to stay fit and to please my parents. I've never touched any drug in my life and I have not had any type of sexual activity. I'm a faithful person but my parents hate me. I mean, they love me don't get me wrong, but it's complicated. I'm usually secluded in my room a lot of the day and my parents reprimand me for my isolation. At first I thought everyone is discouraged by their parents as I was growing up. It was until middle school that I saw nearly failing kids be embraced by their parents. Even in high school, a myriad of kids do drugs and their parents lack the care to stop them and even encourage them. The only flaw in my life is my interest in playing nonstop video games and my parents absolutely hate it. I don't know about you guys, but I find it ridiculous for I believe I've earned my right to make my own decisions considering my stability and efforts to stay fit. My little sister is getting terrible grades and is very obese but my parents love her to death because she is involved. Honestly I might be stupid, but is being involved seriously more valued than genuine success in life? I need help, I won't stop playing video games but I need to understand how to please my parents even though I am trying all I can to do so!

I have a college degree in an engineering field. I graduated 4 months ago. Sometimes he complains and says "get any job, the engineering companies are taking too long to hire you". So I've had interview opportunities with 5 companies that aren't engineering, and he always changes his mind. He says "no don't interview with those non engineering companies. Try to get an engineering job". He's done that like 10 times.

He favors my brother.

Even though I am 14 years old my mom set up a screen time account thingie on my phone-kind if like a experiment-. Recently I stumbled on some ADULT content and I'm talking XXX rated stuff. I did not mean to but it kept comin back ! Now that im OK i went to delete my history on safari so that no one would see but the words were grey and nothing happened when I clicked on them. PLEASE HELP !!! My mom goes on my phone A LOT and so do my friends, I would be so ashamed if they saw! All the remedies online included putting the password into the screen time account and fiddling with that history but I don't know the password and can't ask my mom !!! HELP !

My mother is very controlling and physically abusive. she obsessivley used to secretly videotape me at school from accross the street and on my walks back home. shed wip my back and upper arm areas w/ cable cords as punishments or be cruel and unusual like cut my hair bob short and call me ugly.i grew up and accepted her bipolar disorder. i tried to have a relationship with her and offderd my home 4 days a week to her and my 2 little sisters. my mother comes over one morning and we discussed the past. she had a heated reaction and i cried. i got up to get away and went to my restroom. she gets up and verbally insults me and keeps yelling. i take some of her clothing out of anger and kick her out. as im walking to my front door she pushes me and violently takes the clothing. the struggle continues and I plead for her to stop and talkn to me. she screams profanities and tells me ive been rejected by all father figures & that i was an awful toddler and child to manage as her excuse to myncrying reaction.she pushes and pucnhes me so i grab her wrists and plead for her to stop. she continues to hit my body and push me becausenim picking up the mess to try and take it outside. i snap and punch her in the face 2 or 3 times. instantly im filled with remorse and let her tackle me to the floor and attack me in front of my sisters. i go outside for 1hr and come back, she is gone and left my door wide open. she immediatly called my bro and auntto say i hit her and is concerned. Advise?

Before up until now, my bf has always been very nice to me and very sweet. But ever since he went to his friend's house, he's been so different, like something is off. He did drugs at his friend's house, drunk alcohol and partied the entire time he was there and after that, he has recently been into weed. And ever since this all happened, he has bee rude to me and to my mother. But mostly me. He acts like he disgusted to be around me or he'll make these "jokes" where he tells me "I hate you. Just kidding" or "I want to cut your leg off with a meat cleaver" or how he has some kind of murder or amputee fetish. It honestly makes me sad and I don't know what I should do. It makes me sad that things are like this. I love him very much, and I want to help the best I can. Is this an effect of drinking and doing drugs?

I've been trying to convince my dad to go to the doctor for sleep apnea after he complained about waking up in a panic last week because he couldn't breathe for a few seconds. According to him, it was "no big deal, happens all the time." This is in addition to him being obese and a cigarette smoker (even after seeing my mother pass away from cancer last year). It's clear to me he doesn't care at all about his health, and it's very sad to see. Is there anything I can do to help him/convince him to go to a doctor, or is he on his own?

I raised my kids to be responsible & on time. They were taught to write thank you notes and visit. My oldest left home about 5 years ago. He's no longer on time, writes thank you notes and hardly ever calls or visits. He also has become very uppity in his tastes for clothes, restaurants and has simply forgot how he was raised. I know he's a grown man, but am somewhat dissapointed. Anyone else have grown children who changed when they left home?

He favors my brother over me. This hurts and makes me hate my brother when my brother is actually not that bad.

My husband and I have have been together for 6 years, married 3. I have 2 kids that are pre teen.he has 3 older kids that live on there own.my kids dad has nothing to do with them and has in about 3 years, my husband has filled that spot, but the way he treats them is my concern.. He has no patients with them at all, is always yelling and talking bad to them, as there mother I'm always on there side to defend them, because the things they get in trouble for I see as minor.but to him its on and on yelling.I feel he doesn't treat them like his own and have told him time And time again to have more patients with them because they have been thought a lot with there own dad...but nothing seems to change! Plz any ideas?

Can it happen

My parents restricted: App Store, camera, texting, safari on my phone and school iPad all because of a picture of me sticking out my tongue for a silly picture, that they did not find on social media but on my CAMERA roll and now I can't do my school projects because I don't have camera on it and I've told them and they don't care. What should I do? And what do you think of my parents?

I don't have a driver's license or a bank account. My parents say that I cannot find a job but that I am "free" to do so once I leave.

So I was picking up my daughter and as i was walking to her class, i saw a female teacher in a classroom screaming at a 5 year old girl for leaving a tissue on the floor apparently, and the girl was crying, and the teacher went up to the girl and slapped her hard across the face while the girl screamed. i then went to my daughters class and my daughter was just alone in the room and said the teacher locked her in the room alone all day and she had a cut on her face and neck and bruises because she apparently was beaten. i took her home and im shocked. what do i do now what do i say in the police report