So me and my boyfriend had been dating for about two years. Recently, he broke up with me, but we've been going in circles between being together and not being together. He claims he still wants me in his life, and still loves me, but then I don't understand why we wouldn't be dating. Currently he's out to sea (he's in military school) and will be back by the end of June. I was able to hear from him recently, but I basically told him I would just give him what he wants and finally move on. However, he keeps pushing to be best friends and remain a huge part in each other's lives right away. Why is he doing this? Does it sound like there's a possibility he may want to get back together soon? Side note, he did say that he wants to try again someday when he's ready, it's just now is bad timing. But I'm worried that he won't wait around for me that long.

Quick background: my boyfriend and I live together but rarely see each other because of work schedules. We've had one day a week where we don't work but his schedule is changing. We planned on having a special date before then since it will be harder to schedule things after. I bought some good food and was planning on having a nice dinner and evening together today (Thursday). A charity he's volunteered at apparently had a party for its volunteers that he "needed" to go to today. Luckily I had someone pick up my Friday shift, so we agreed to do it then. I was bummed but ok, it would still work. He gets home from the party tonight and tells me he didn't realize that a bicycle group he loves riding with is having a ride tomorrow (Friday) evening. He didn't ask if it was ok if he went, or even flat out say he wanted to go it instead so we needed to cancel, he just said the ride was tomorrow like it was a given he would be going. He acted all sad and asked if I was mad and if I could forgive him like it was something outside of his control. I told him he could do what he wants but didn't say it was ok or that I forgave him. Him was asking for forgiveness for something he was planning on doing anyway really pissed me off. He knew it was a bad move but wanted to ease his conscious. It says to me is that I'm not what he wants and not a valuable use of his time. It hurts and I don't know what to do and don't like that he seems to be trying to make me feel sorry for him. Help?

My live is filled with disappointment my parents arnt supportive i have no parental figure. No adult over 25 trusts me. My "friends" just use me. My girlfriend and i broke up. I have insomnia so i havnt slept in 4 days. Grades went from strait A s to F s. I wright music but no one thinks its any good. Im a pessimist. I m honestly hanging on by a thread because there is one last person that cares about me, she is sweet and nice and we are good friends. I kind of like her because she is the only one who shows that she cares, but i dont want to ask her out because then ill have no one at all if she says no.

This guy I'm seeing texted me saying he started "thinking about me", what does this mean?

my mom keeps getting calls from the school saying im absent when im at school mom thinks im going with my bf and is thretning to make me break up with him what should i do?

I know it seems dumb but I'm scared he's going to switch up on me now that we've had sex? After it happened he still acts the same and told me he loves me during and after, but I guess since I care about him so much Im scared to loose him? We're both in college... advice please ...

So we play video games together and she freaks out so much I'll be honest it was cute but now its over the top it's all just a game. She calls people the n word and then says she says it because it's the worst insult to say to someone even if theyre not black and that you have to convince them they're lying about not being a *n word* as if being black is a bad thing. She said the n word so casually. Oh and she has only one other friend on this game and his username says nazihitler or something..she calls me the n word now if I ever get her angry and says she's just joking. Well I told her it's kinda racist and she started saying I was a piece of wonder bread and anytime she mentions white people she says that. Btw she is mexican and wishes she was white and hates mexicans and wants to kill her moms bf...i dont understand why are some people racist? Should I leave her she is crazy and she also punches me if she loses a game and it's like CALM DOWN DAMN

& tells other females, like his kids Mother that "he just tells me what I want to hear" & that he s coming home to her and his kids just give it some time; and that he s just trying to stay on my "good side" because he has some of his valuable belongings here at my house, but tells me that he loves me and that he s not going anywhere what would you think? We ve been together about 2 months now, and he s literally running off every single day for days at a time, with multiple different females he never did this to his kids mother who he was with for about 8 years so I m confused why he s doing this to me..

Does the girl in the picture have a big butt?

PHOTOS: -Looks good, 9/10 -Long hair -6'2" BIOGRAPHY: -Studying Civil Engineering at a University this fall -Loves running and working out -Music: only metal and dark ambient -Very shy and introverted -Straight edge. No smoking/alcohol 420 -Atheist -Loves playing guitar and bass, and producing music -Loves cuddling Maybe it's the fact that I'm boring? Or that I'm an atheist? Lol. I need some help.

Or if he is just a really sweet guy and well what if he does pullups on a bar and looks straight at you to make sure your looking and what if you guUS text every night talking about your day

Person 1: - youve been together for almost 5 yrs - theyre super sweet and loving towards you (theyve cooked for you, taken care of you when you were sick, etc) - they gave you their virginity assuming that you gave them yours (which isnt the case). Even now, they still do not know and you dont plan on telling them because you dont want to see them hurt or make them not trust you - they have a tendency to be clingy and fiery when things don't go their way - they physically cant have children - they are pursuing a demanding career (doctor). youre happy for them but are worried that their job might compete with your time together Person 2 - you met about 3 years ago. You were still with person 1 and werent looking for a new relationship or anything, but your relationship with each other just grew into something more - you dont have to hide anything from this person; they know everything about you- even the things you are ashamed of- and love you all the same - they give you great advice, even if it isnt in their own best interest - she wants to be active in your familys life and plans to raise your kids until they enter grade school; later she'll become a nurse - your relationship has been long distance but you make it work and youve been intimate in the ways you can. You were also the first person that she revealed herself to and when you saw each other again, you were also her first kiss - she is of higher social status but is willing to make sacrifices for you to be together You love them both equally and they love you equally. 1 doesn't know about 2, but 2 knows about 1. It will probably be easier to be with person 1 since you are already together. If you choose 1 over 2, you have to accept that no one will ever know you like 2 did. If you choose 2 over 1, you have to accept that you took their virginity and ended up leaving them. Either way, forgetting either of them will be very difficult, as you love them both and have shared many beautiful memories with them.

Hey guys, I have a bit of a problem. There is this girl at school I really like but I am not sure if she likes me back. At school she will sometimes want me to put my head on her shoulder, she will sit on my lap (sometimes I will sit on hers for a bit), she always jokes to me and I make her laugh all the time. We will share very personal secrets most of the time in class and she will sometimes act sexual around me (such as shake her boobs and pretend to finger herself through her clothes). I know this seems like she likes me but the biggest let down was that she said a few months ago that I am a really great "friend". This shows that I got a bit "friend-zoned" lol. But what do you guys think about this, does she like me or no? Thanks.

I asked one of my guy friends to come to an amusement park with me in a few weeks. He immediately said "why don't you ask your other man friend I saw in your snapchat story?" I was really confused... he was an old friend from a long time ago. was he jealous? Is there any other reason why a guy would ask this? What the hell

LOOKS: good-looking, long hair, 9/10, and 6'2" QUALITIES LISTED: -Going to a nearby University this fall for Civil Engineering -Loves to cuddle -Loves running and working out -Atheist -Straight edge. Doesn't smoke/drink/420 -Liberal (but willing to date any political/religious background) -Doesn't listen to much music except for extreme metal and dark ambient.

After studying, group hangout, I gave her ride home a couple times, and both times she wanted to invite me into her place. She's not a party animal, and nor she hooks up with random guys. She doesn't flirt much or sexts or any other behavior. But she wanted to invite me into her place. I'm not expecting anything but is she? I'm very shy when it comes to romance, I'm a normal average dude.

He was separated in basic training due to a concussion but when he called me home the first time to let me know he was talking to me how we always would when he was here and everything was normal. This was only after a week he had left that he got discharged. The second time he called he sounded more mono toned and upset, the phone call lasted 7 mins. He called me again today almost 2 weeks later and I felt like he didnt want to speak to me. He asked me to send his mom a message about his bank account, he was in a hurry but still sounded very depressed. I asked him if he was okay and he said it was depressing there. He asked me how I was, then said I love you and that he had to go. I don't know why I felt like he didnt wanna talk. Could he be forgetting about me? I'm just worried he doesn't want this anymore and I'm head over heals over here wasting my time. (Please no sarcastic responses!)

We were friends but I kind of came on to her a few days ago and shes been avoiding hanging out with me since then. In class today she saw me come in and smiled and waved, and got up and moved closer to where I sat down, but then avoided eye contact with me and got uncomfortable when I tried to talk to her. Then she left class a few minutes early. Then later I saw her coming out of a building with a friend and they saw me and they both just stopped and were looking at me from 20 feet away. I waved and they waved back. And they just both just stood there for a while smiling at me. It was really awkward. She went back in, so I went over to her friend and asked if she was avoiding me and her friend started giggling and said nooo, she had an appointment to go to.

My boyfriend and I have been together for two years. My dad doesn't really like him therefore I have to see him discreetly, im 18. For the past couple of months my boyfriends been saying he's going to the gym on and off. When he's not at the gym he's at the super market, getting gas or buying food. He uses at least 3 of these excuses every day. I've used to trust him but now I'm feeling like maybe he's cheating on me. Everytime I go somewhere he calls at least 3 times to ask where I am and demands pictures when I tell him (he's not agressive). He doesn't really like it if I go parties alone, I'm worried that he's like this because he's cheating and feeling guilty or something. His phone is "dead" "on silent" or "on do not disturb" is his response when I ask him why he hasn't answered my calls. A few hours ago he said he was going to the gym. Ive been calling and its been going straight to voicemail. Its 11 he left at 6:50. Also he hasn't gotten any more muscular over the past couple months that "he's been going to the gym". Do you think he's cheating ?

So there's a guy in my parkour group who I didn't think liked me. Then one day, he asked me if I do like him because he thought he saw me checking him out during training. After that, I said that I had thought about it, but wouldn't actually date him because, well, I don't want to crap where I eat. If you know what I mean. The team is like extended family to me and plus, a few of the other guys in the team like me also and I don't want to come between friends. But because I do actually like this guy, I still decided to go on a date with him. I told hm that its just a training/hang out date and that's all. He knows we're not actually dating. On the date, we just talked and climbed a tree, we cuddled on a roof when I got cold too, but we didn't actually kiss. Then at my house, I hugged him goodnight and went back inside. Ever since that night, he's been acting super infatuated. The problem is, I don't know if he really is, or if he's just the type of guy who always texts stereotypical romantic things to get girls. He could still be chatting up tons of other girls (he's the type who accepts every woman's friend request, has like 1,000+), but even so, I'm starting to think this was a bad idea in the first place. I don't want to jeopardize this group I've worked so hard to create. What should I do? Do you think I should go for it slowly, or back out of it, and if so, how do I back out of it without loosing a friend? P.S, this is the message he sent to me the night after our date. Couldn't attach the message he sent so I'll type it: Part 1 Idk why but this has never happened before ever since last night I can't stop thinking about you like wow when you stared into my eyes last night my heart melted and when you cuddled into me I got butterflies you are literally not one of but the most beautiful woman I know inside and out and even tho we arent dating I feel like I'm the luckiest guy in the world. Part 2: As long as I'm around you will always be protected I know you can handle yourself but still its the way I am. I like, no I love how you are different from other girls, you actually respect yourself which is very hard to find these days. I'm still trying to figure out why or how you like me but I'm glad you like me for me even though you know I think everyone of my flaws its an amazing feeling like I get that no one is perfect but babe you are my definition of the word. Sweet dreams xoxo

So...I was looking at my crush's Instagram and I realized that I had accidentally liked his most recent post (it was posted March 31st) 4 days ago. I've only started following him 7 days ago. I'm going to see him tomorrow at a school thing and I'm really embarrassed. I know at least it wasn't one of his earlier posts, from a long time ago, but I'm still really anxious about it. I can't remember liking it (on purpose or not) at all so he could've gotten a notification at midnight that I liked his post from about a month ago. What should I do? Anyone else had this happen? Thanks.

I want to stop being friends with her but I don t want to hurt her feelings, and for some reason I can t get over her

She's in my gym and lunch class. I like her but she doesn't know I exist. How do I talk to her?

If so how long have you guys been together and when and where did you meet and what is it that made that person stand out to you and how long did it take you to find them and how old were you both at the time

Ever since i can remember i would always talk to myself about everything because i never really had anyone to talk to. I remember when i was 5 i would talk to myself so much and i still do. Im really the only one who has my back no one really seems to care about what i have to say, just myself right now im crying because my own dad doesnt talk to me, he just ignores me. The only person i really talk to is my sister and thats it. I talk to some friends but once they get the opportunity to talk to someone else they take it and they just run off. I just talk to myself about anything. And i just feel alone i have such a strong feeling that people dont care about me and if i was gone no one would notice. I feel so alone Help me

I'm meeting up with a group of friends I don't get to see a lot due to distance and this guys I've been vibing with for a couple of months is going to be there and I wanna hook up with him and was wondering any suggestions anybody had on how to go about it and what would work

Im a guy and we are both 15 and yeah. You read that right. I love her. She's only a friend but she is so amazing and beautiful and nice. She had a boyfriend that was nice to her at first so I was a bit jealous but I didn't mind as long as she was happy, but turns out as soon as she told him she wanted to wait for sex he left her and started dating another girl. They broke up yesterday and she won't stop crying because she really trusted him and it really pains me to see her this way because she is an amazing girl and doesn't deserve to feel like this :(. Yesterday I asked her if she wanted to talk about it and she said yes so we went into a spot in the woods where we used to hang out a lot when we were kids and I hugged her and told her not to be sad because I really hate seeing her sad. I held her until she stopped crying and then she told me all about it and then cried again and I held her again until she stopped and then walked her home. Man, she really doesn't deserve this she's a pretty, nice, and just all around amazing girl and I really want her to be happy. Sorry it's long but I appreciate it if you read this whole thing and if you want me to answer your question I will :)

There's this girl, and she's a very beautiful women, she seems to like me but she has a boyfriend (and no I'm not trying to get between them at all, he's a nice guy, and his last relationship was ended by a heartless ***** cheating on him, I'm just curious as to if and why.) Now I knew her before she had this boyfriend, and she did the same things but I feel like she's doing them even more frequently now. She looks at me, when I catch her sometimes she'll look away quickly and sometimes she'll hold my stare, she only smiled once though (smiled back of course.) She even looks at me in the hallway when she's walking with her boyfriend. When I'm just hanging out some place and she's around, she gets close to me and always seems like she wants to start a conversation (sometimes I will, sometimes I won't.) Then when we're in conversation she always tries to keep it going, even if I need to leave. If she's with other people and I'm around, she'll get really loud. Also, she'll give me randomn compliments sometimes. I'm just curious, as to I'm also wondering that if she does like me, why is she doing these things more now that she has a boyfriend.

a girl i go to college with asked me out and we went out a couple times. she seemed like she liked me and had a good time. i asked her out to eat yesterday and she was like "i'm going to be kind of busy after work for a while. im really into this new workout." i was like "ok we'll do it another time when it works for you." she seemed super vague about whether she wanted to go with me again. i looked on her facebook and she was FAT a couple years ago before I knew her but now she looks hot so is it just an excuse to not see me or does she legitimately have to work out? HELP!

I've known this guy named David for about a year and a half, and I've liked him for like a year. He's really nice, smart, and funny, and always makes me feel happy. Me and him have become friends, and I've started trying to get him to see me as more than a friend. Recently, since it's the last week of school, I told him that I liked him, and have for a while. He responded kinda surprised, but impressed that I was able to confess. The next day, he seems to be popping up everywhere I went. Maybe it was a coincidence, maybe not. And today, we talked for quite a while, and discussed maybe getting together to hang out over summer. We were kinda arm wrestling, which turned into gentle hand holding. At one point he brought my hand up towards his face and leaned on it, which to me seems kinda romantic. At the end of our chat, he gave me his phone number so we could talk more. But now this story takes a turn. Me and one of my best friends, Nick, walk to a nearby McDonald's after school. While there, we run into some upperclassmen we know. We talk to them a bit, and while talking, Nick lets it slip that I'm into David. They tell me that apparently he and this girl dated for a couple months, slept together twice, and then he dumped her, saying he wasn't looking for a full relationship with her. This seemed so out of character for him, and they told me I shouldn't date him. I know it was a shitty thing to do, yet I'm still REALLY into him. He just always knows how to make me happy. For future answers, I should make it clear that I am not interested in just sleeping with him. I'd like to actually date him, and THEN maybe consider sleeping with him.

So mine happened today exactly half an hour ago. So my boyfriend haven't told his dad about me yet because his dad didn't like the idea of him dating an Asian girl.. So he invited me over to his house to hang out and have some alone time ( not sex ) And his dad unexpectedly came home and he found me in his room. So now his mom and dad knew that he snuck out to be with me and now he's in deep trouble... I am super worried.... I wanted to come on here and hear about other people's experiences so I don't feel like the only one... We're both 17 btw ...

He broke up with me and I figured out it was cause his anxiety and I just want to know if there's any chance of getting him back. I made a promise to him to fight for our relationship if he ever pushed me away and that's all I've been doing but I don't know if I'm getting through to him or if it's working at all.

I've been talking to this girl and she's suddenly never texts me anymore! I asked her what was going on this was the conversation Me: we rarely talk anymore Her: I'm sorry! I've been really busy! I'm the only manager in the office for the week I've been pulling 12 hour shifts this whole week! I'm moving into my new place tomorrow and actually have to drive 4 hours back to Austin to finishing packing my things tomorrow night. Then, the movers are coming on Tuesday and I'll have to drive the 4 hours back Tuesday. I will have Wednesday off but I'll be unpacking it's just bad timing! Me: I'm sure you'll forget about me and find someone else. We had plans Sunday if you recall Her: I'm sorry it blanked my mind! I have to cancel Sunday but we will for sure gef together at some point! Is she trying to say she's no longer interested in me?

He also drew a heart on the front of the card. We've only told each other we like one another. Do you think the love and his name and the heart mean anything?

My husband and I are back together but he left me and was living at a sober living home for 4 months. I found out he cheated while he was gone. But I am so in love with him and so lonely and don't want to be alone, that I take him back anyway. I feel depressed all the time, even when I am not crying and appear to be happy, I am always crying on the inside, because I know he is not in love with me, and I am not who he really wants. I cry often. I feel like he stole my happiness, my hope and my joy. I tried dating too, but no quality man that I am attracted to wants me. My ex was not the most attractive guy and he cheated and did me wrong to, so chances are, even if I decide to settle for someone lesser attractive, or that I am not attracted to, I'll still get cheated on and done wrong. I do not believe that there is some great guy waiting around the corner for me, that I will be attracted to, and will have a job and be faithful and treat me right. I have already tried several methods of meeting men while we were separated, in hopes of finding someone that would make me forget about him and save me from him. Either they are super unattractive and there is no chemistry or they just want sex. I have lost all hope of ever being happy and feeling loved, wanted and needed. People say I deserve better, I know that. Lots of people deserve better than what they get. I can't bring my self to leave him. How do I cope?

I graduated high school last year and I went back today to pick something up. While I was in the front office I saw someone that graduated with me last year. I was in a rush, so I wasn't very talkative. He noticed me first and said "Hey!" Then I was like "Hi! how are you?" He replied "Good" and then looked down and smiled. I was rushing and had to finish filling out a sheet and did that quickly and then left. I didn't even think to say bye to him and now I feel bad and I don't know if I'm worrying myself over nothing. We never really talked much in high school but we did have AP Bio together so we are familiar with eachother. I also think he is kind of cute. Please help.

So I'm 15 and a guy and she is also 15. She has been a very close friend since forever and I've always had some feelings for her but I've been starting to notice her a lot more lately. I really want to ask her out because I just know I can make her really happy that she chose me but I don't want to ever lose her even if it means we just stay friends but I just know I'll never be able to shake me feelings for her. She's just sooooo cute and nice. I mean, I do think she likes me back. She's been wanting to hang out a lot and when we're watching a movie she lets me put my arm around her and we cuddle. Whenever I am feeling upset or pissed off she'll try and make me feel better by singing (her voice is so beautiful) or giving me a hug and she is just soooo cute and perfect and I don't know whether or not to ask her out. Hell I don't even know how to ask out a girl. I'll probably be awkward and mess everything up and make myself seem like a weirdo.

This is a picture of a model, and I'm wondering if her butt is too big.

Hey guys it's ok for me if my GF tells me to buy something that she thinks I will look handsome like clothes shoes etc. I also buy things myself.It's like I dont mind if she says buy this or buy that it will make u look good or more good looking even if I'm taking care of myself because I want to be look good to her and to other people BUT when I'm suggesting something to her to buy something she will question me like ARE YOU NOT CONTENTED TO ME?DO YOU REALLY LOVE ME?This will starts the fight.I don't ask her like that.But she always ask me like I'm not contented to her and I don't love her.If she suggest things to me to look good why can't I?It always happens. I hope u guys understand the story I'm tired I don't know if I want to continue this relationship I don't know what to do

A girl, I met through a friend, and I first met each other and really hit it off in March. We spent some time together and went out on a date. We really connected well, there was no doubt we both felt some type of way. Spring break ends I go back to school 3 hours a way. We go about a week and half more just non stop talking and FaceTiming, we had some deep convos. Long story short she backs off cause we start going too fast, and she needed some space. I may of pressured her too much. We see each other again a following weekend and have some good conversations again and enjoy each others comany. She leaves and then again no contact. Then she comes up for the next weekend and stays with us meaning my friend/roommate (her cousin). Good weekend with some drinks involved. We flirted here and there. 3 weeks go by and still no contact cause I was trying to get over here. She comes up for my birthday week though and it just felt so off. I obviously wasn't feeling too good either after my 21st and removed myself from the situation and do my own thing for the week. We had no one and one time or had any real conversations the whole week. When the week ended she subtweeted me and then unfollowed me. I don't want to be on bad terms with her. I still care for her, and hope we could become a thing since we were so close and shared a lot of personal things. We only talked for a month, but still. Any advice?

So we are both 16 and haven't had sex yet. My mom does manicures and pedicures and facials and stuff and has like a professional massage table and a bunch of oils and a smoke machine. I really want to give my boyfriend a sexy massage and a handjob and make him aroused. I was planning on being in my underwear and letting him touch me if he wants but not take anything off. How should I do this?

We dated over a year ago and broke up oncecuz he cheated with a girl in our town online (setting) and then because we didn't feel the same about each other. Anyway I messaged him a few days ago because he seemed like he was upset by his Snapchat story, and our conversation went well. He thought I was different in a good way since we last talked, but the past 2 days (out of 3) have been kind of boring conversation. I've showed a lot of compassion and appreciation for his talents, like playing guitar, and I wished him well when he was sick. Also I told him I'd always be there for him despite what happened, and I decided to open his message but not respond. He hasn't reached out or anything yet and I'm starting to feel like I ruined what I was originally doing (trying to be a friend to him) did I ruin it? What should I do?