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- Question: Should I be worried about my mind thinking this way?
- Question: How to get over my best friend?
- Question: How do you meet local people online?
- Question: Friend advice?
- Question: Do you think it's okay when I hug my sister?
- Question: Is this considered child abuse in canada?
- Question: Was it wrong?
- Question: Who comes first for care in a nursing home?
- Question: What do I do about my friend? (Read details)?
- Question: IS THERE ANYONE LIKE ME??!!??!?!?
- Question: Is my mom ok looking.she feels plain?
- Question: Is it better to have a handful of close friends or a bunch of acquaintances?
- Question: Are my friends bullying me?
- Question: Bad friend?!?!?
- Question: Last minute invites-is this rude?
- Question: Is it weird i want to remain celibate ?
- Question: Friend help?
- Question: My step sister kisses me on the cheek sometimes?
- Question: Women who turn their back to the guy they're flirting with. What is she trying to tell the guy using this body language? Hit it from behind?
- Question: Is the UK racist??
- Question: My Friends Gang Up On Me?
- Question: Not having the best time abroad?
- Question: How can I be a more interesting and attractive person?
- Question: How do I get my friend to see that I'm cool?
- Question: How come pooping is not a social function?
- Question: NEED HELP A.S.A.P?
- Question: How do I deal with people with listening issues? The type of people that take their assumptions too seriously. Like they're entitled to it.?
- Question: I hope my friendship over .. I did apologize for saying I didn't want to be friends. I didn't mean it . I apologized for everything . Help?
- Question: Is it possible that cats could be a man's best friend?
- Question: Did I do the right thing? What would you have done?
- Question: How do I tell someone that I don't want them to be apart of my life without them going crazy?
- Question: How to confront your boss appropriately?
- Question: Why do I find myself hating the friends I make?
- Question: I saw a dude that look very similar to me on the street ?(copy of myself... basically)?
- Question: What is the purpose of friendship?
- Question: Why do many ppl hate me and don't want to be my friend?
- Question: One person hate me....?
- Question: Why don't my friendships last?
- Question: Is it normal to masturbate to pictures of your step cousin ?
- Question: How can I join their group without being awkward?
- Question: People at college are so immature?
- Question: Im in love with my best friend?
- Question: Anyone here who used to be a bully?
- Question: Why do people seem to hate Jehovah's Witnesses?
- Question: My boyfriend REFUSES TO SAY I LOVE YOU BACK IM DEPRESSED & HATING LIFE BECAUSE OF THIS leave or stay?
- Question: Is it wrong to have a fling? Should I stop going to see him?
- Question: Do you think I'm being mean for not being her friend?
- Question: I have a huge crush on my step cousin ?
- Question: Why do people get mad when you move on?
- Question: Snapchat groupchat question?
- Question: Im moving schools for junior year of highschool, any tips and advice please?
- Question: I hope the friendship isn't over I did apologize for saying I didn't want to me her friend I didn't mean it . Please help?
- Question: Love pentagon in friendship group..?
- Question: How do I get over a really good friend?
- Question: Seriously, why is it that when my friend treats me like **** for months its okay, but the minute i defend myself im this huge monster?
- Question: Why do some friends become so fake and abandon you?
- Question: Is it normal to not have any friends that live close, that consistently arent rude to you and put in effort into your relationship?
- Question: What is your best friend?
- Question: My best friend is bailing on me to hang with a girl?
- Question: My old friend came back?
| Question: Should I be worried about my mind thinking this way? Posted: 19 May 2017 05:29 PM PDT We had our friends over to watch the Warriors game and have dinner. Their daughter Kimberly is seven and was wearing a really short but very pretty dress. I oddly got aroused by the conversation that she had with my fiance! She was visiting with my fiance Jill who told Kimberly when she leaned over that "I see your pretty white nylon underpants". I overheard Kimberly then tell Jill that they are not suppose to show other then when I get a spanking. She then told my fiance that "my cousin Steven came in one time when I was laying over Dad's lap and it was embarrassing cause he seen my underwear!" Am I weird for imagining my friends cute little girl over his lap getting spanked on her underpants or in the pretty dress she had on? |
| Question: How to get over my best friend? Posted: 19 May 2017 05:29 PM PDT Long story short my best friend of actually quite a while now has decided that we shouldn't be friends anymore. She's going to a different school for freshman year, so I won't see her every day, but it feels like I've part of myself every time I have to remind myself that she isn't going to text me again. I've been crying a lot, and we were told that we were exactly like Dan and Phil, so I can't even watch their videos without crying. If you have a ex-best friend playlist or just advice in general that would be amazing. Thank you so much. |
| Question: How do you meet local people online? Posted: 19 May 2017 05:27 PM PDT It used to be you could find people locally online via ICQ or message boards, but they seem long dead. People suggest Facebook groups but the only once I can find for locals are for selling, or people suggest dating apps which is just a terrible way to try to make friends (as a woman who prefers male friends, there's no way of getting that via a dating app without guys falsely assuming at some point they're going to get laid). I have no friends locally and don't have the cash to go to the likes of meetup.com meet-ups, not to mention they seem to be lacking locally anyway, I'm not sure how else to make new friends. |
| Posted: 19 May 2017 05:17 PM PDT A few months ago I asked some girls I graduated college with to go to a concert in our area. This concert is at the very end of the summer. Recently with one of those same girls we decided to book a trip to Miami not realizing it fell on the same weekend until a few days later. Our flight does not allow cancellations or date changes so I would loose 300 for the ticket. However, I feel awful about bailing on the concert even though the tickets were only 25 I am typically the mutual contact of our group. I want to know what would be the right thing to do since I am conflicted. Do I re book my trip and loose my money |
| Question: Do you think it's okay when I hug my sister? Posted: 19 May 2017 04:46 PM PDT she's very shy so I'm not sure. |
| Question: Is this considered child abuse in canada? Posted: 19 May 2017 04:39 PM PDT Okay so i have this teacher who tells us that some of our parents are abusing us by letting us.. Dye Our hair!? Were in the 6th grade. Im 12 and half the kids my grade have their hair dyed, even the school lets us do it. She says that it makes us look like we dont have a parent to care for us and that it makes us vulnerable to pedophiles. I like getting my eye-brows done, nails done,and wear crop tops . I pointed out that i know a little boy with his hair dyed whos a kindergartener but she just said, "thats different. Hes a boy and there are many predators out there who are not predators to a boy like him,but are predators to girls". The teacher even told me once that i have "fools" as parents after she found out that I've had a Facebook since 5th grade. she thinks that the principal needs to meet some of the kids' parents or whoever lives with them,particularly certain people who dresses or has certain things that she doesn't like. I have a friend whos in 11th grade in high school and she told me that back when she was my age, that same teacher wrote on her report card in the "comments" section that she was too young to be wearing perfume (when she was my age, she liked to spray samples all over herself at the mall LOL) and she wore the same clothes to school next day. I mean she was just experimenting with the different smells. Its not like she was stealing perfume from the mall at 12 and got the cops involved. No my parents are busy and dont speak English so it s hard to get involved with the schools. Most parents are foreigners who arent English fluent in the whole city so parents often struggle with communication.. I dont think anyone has ever had the nerve to talk to the principal because theres always fear that the principal will not believe someone since they generally believe adults more. Or maybe that theyll get in trouble with the teacher for reporting them |
| Posted: 19 May 2017 04:31 PM PDT My sister got tripped (on purpose) in the hall way and got bruised and scrapes. She snitched and now I'm scared the guy who tripped her will retaliate and call her a snitch. Should she have not snitched? are snitched bad? |
| Question: Who comes first for care in a nursing home? Posted: 19 May 2017 04:30 PM PDT There are a lot of things I really disagree with as a worker in the nursing home, but there is a family who wants there mother to come first during evreything it don't matter if we're feeding other residents or someone sitting in there own BM and we have to change them she wants her mother first over everyone. And our DON said that what ever she wants we need to drop what we're doing and make sure she's taken care of because she's tired of her complaints well I'm sorry that's not fair to others! And we're getting introuble when we're dealing with other people who need fed and changed! During this woman's demands. Now her mother was able to eat uninterrupted lets these other plresidents eat in peace they can't feed them selfs! Or change if they are dirty there is only 2 aides and a nurse so it's very hard to manage 28 people its kind of hard to please everyone! There is probably nothing I can do about this but obviously it really hurts my feelings for the others. |
| Question: What do I do about my friend? (Read details)? Posted: 19 May 2017 03:56 PM PDT So, I dated this guy last year, and he broke up with me. I've moved on, he's moved on, we were fine. Until my best friend started dating him. We go to a small school, so I understand, but now two months later, she's annoying me so much. she never shuts up about him. Ever. I have a lot of classes with her and we hang out a lot, but all she talks about is him. I've tried to change the subject, but now it seems like she doesn't know how to talk about anything else. I've even talked to her about it and she says that she'll stop talking about him so much, but she doesn't. And I get that she's excited, but I really don't want to hear about him 24/7, it just brings up all of those old feelings of being rejected, and he was so rude about breaking up with me. What do I do? Am I a terrible friend for thinking this? She says this whole situation is my fault because I dated him first, but I didn't know this would happen. I regret that whole relationship already, and I don't want to lose my best friend, but I can't stand it anymore. |
| Question: IS THERE ANYONE LIKE ME??!!??!?!? Posted: 19 May 2017 03:43 PM PDT I'm into these bands like, Blink 182, Sum 41, Green Day, Good Charolette and many like this. I like messing around- being an anti-conformist- I'm very 90s alternative I guess. But I'm only gonna be in high school next year. I can't seem to find friends that even know what any of these things are. My friends I have now are really... Boring. I go to a very small school with a small selection of people I really don't know how I'm gonna spend my whole "childhood" with these friends that... Don't even know how to live a little. How do I find friends like myself? Its really difficult. Anyone have any advice???? |
| Question: Is my mom ok looking.she feels plain? Posted: 19 May 2017 03:36 PM PDT http://imgur.com/a/Kc9QP |
| Question: Is it better to have a handful of close friends or a bunch of acquaintances? Posted: 19 May 2017 03:27 PM PDT |
| Question: Are my friends bullying me? Posted: 19 May 2017 03:23 PM PDT My "friend" rachel and other "friend" Charlotte are being really rude. Charlotte was doing a poem bout me which I didn't like, so I was gonna do one bout her and she didn't like it. So the argument started from there. (It's really petty). *1/2 hr later* Rachel then gets involved starting to be rude, saying things like "you've had a argument with everyone in the class" (I didn't tho) then she was like "oh, my friends are getting really annoyed with you now" then I replayed "actually no, just shut up you don't know anything about me" *next day* These are things why I think them 2 r bullying me... 1) Rachel pushed me twice 2) both give me dirty looks 3) Charlotte mimics me 4) get other ppl involved to go against me 5) they accuse me of things I ain't done So please can someone reply asap!!! And if they are bullying me, what shall I do!? Thanks so much ❤💪🐹 |
| Posted: 19 May 2017 03:00 PM PDT My "friend" tells my other friends things and always leaves me out and makes me feel like an outsider🙁 I'm so tired of her bs and I don't want to deal with it anymore! Idk how to get rid of her because my friends have said they want her to ditch us too! But everything always goes back to normal and I hate putting up with her! Idk who I would hangout with if I lost my other friends because I don't want t be friends with her anymore! Please help! |
| Question: Last minute invites-is this rude? Posted: 19 May 2017 02:48 PM PDT So usually I get last minute invites to things with my friends. Like just now my friend and I were talking and she goes "oh me and so and so we're planning a sleepover this weekend if u want to come." I mean it's nice they still invite me but I'm kinda getting tired of the last minute stuff when they plan things ahead together. And recently we just went out to lunch with a few guy friends (not a date) and she also invited me last minute. She says they've been planning it since last week, and you decide to tell me now? It's like I feel like an afterthought to them, since they are so close and have been best friends since what elementary school? I mean I'm pretty close with them too, but I feel like I'll never be as close as they are. And I can't 'find a new group of friends' because overall we're fine, and I don't really have many other options. It's just the last minute invites that get on my nerves, and a couple other stuff too. But overall we get along pretty well with each other, we may have some drama here and there but that's normal |
| Question: Is it weird i want to remain celibate ? Posted: 19 May 2017 02:35 PM PDT I'm 26 and i am a virgin, i've decided to remain celibate even after college and university and i just want to have friends and the great job i have i'm a male btw |
| Posted: 19 May 2017 02:30 PM PDT Hi. I m in the 9th grade, and I have a friend. He is currently using marijuana, and I don t know how to help. His older brother (20-21) knows, but I m not sure about his parents. He gave me his password on Instagram, and I seen the conversation him and his "buddies" were having about the drugs. I myself would never accept any illegal activity, I just need some advice. Thanks :) |
| Question: My step sister kisses me on the cheek sometimes? Posted: 19 May 2017 02:27 PM PDT My step sister kissed me on the cheek(playfully/jokingly) and then smiled. She also hugs me often and always talks to me. She's a touchy person. I like her... Does she like me ? (We're 14) I asked this once. I'm asking it again because nobody really gave me an answer that was worth anything. |
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| Posted: 19 May 2017 01:25 PM PDT I am 15 years old student planning to study in a summer school this year... I am afraid that I will be treated badly there due to my look.. I don't just feel ugly I am really ugly, people stare at me while I walk any where, I am thin, tall and coloured. Every place I go I don't make friends,, 3 years ago when I fort joined my school I did not make any friends the first year every one thought I was ugly and freaky.. |
| Question: My Friends Gang Up On Me? Posted: 19 May 2017 01:21 PM PDT So, I have this friend, and she has a cousin who is in all of my classes. I really don't like her, and she doesn't like me. But what I really hate is when she gets her cousin and all of her cousin's friends against me as well. Like, she says something to them like: "Oh, she's being really mean to me" and then instantly they all believe her without even hearing the other side of the story. It's like as long as she's happy, then who cares if I'm ******* miserable? |
| Question: Not having the best time abroad? Posted: 19 May 2017 01:13 PM PDT I'm currently in Berlin to learn german for 2 months at language school but things aren't going as well as I thought they would. It's the first week of the second month and I haven't really made friends yet. I haven't gone out at night (like partying) except for the welcoming thing that the school organises every Monday. I live alone in a pretty residential area and even though the closest metro station isn't that far away, I still find myself staying in my studio a lot (we only have class in the morning). I try to get better at that and push myself to visit more things, but I'm not used to big cities and I find them a bit intimidating. I often catch myself crying at night because I want to go home and miss my friends. I just feel like I'm wasting my time here. But it's also hard to admit that things aren't going so well because both my parents and I spent a lot of money, and also because it's going to be hard to come home and tell my friends that I didn't do anything exciting and that I don't have any memorable experiences. It's just hard to accept because I see everyone do all these amazing travels for their gap year and even though I spent 2 months in New Zealand and Australia before coming here (which was amazing and full of adventures) it's just not enough. I know I shouldn't compare myself to others but I just wish I was doing something more exciting. How can I deal with the three weeks I have left and make them somewhat memorable ? |
| Question: How can I be a more interesting and attractive person? Posted: 19 May 2017 01:10 PM PDT I am 23 and female. I had social anxiety as a child and not the best of upbringings but as an adult i have tried my hardest to make life better for myself. One thing i have achieved is getting a boyfriend but I still don t have any friends just aquaitances and people at work which I talk to. Its easy to ask someone for a coffee in a cafe but actually sustaining a friendship is hard for me. I am a waitress and people at work probably see me as the sweet polite girl who just gets on with work. I try to be friendly but don t succeed very well in conversations or making people laugh. I d like to be the person who people look forward to seeing and to have real relationships with people not just small talk. Thanks |
| Question: How do I get my friend to see that I'm cool? Posted: 19 May 2017 12:59 PM PDT Not in a way where your advice would be to "just be yourself". I would like to be invited to stuff so I want people to know I'm cool and down, you know? |
| Question: How come pooping is not a social function? Posted: 19 May 2017 12:11 PM PDT I was watching a documentary in class about how in ancient roman society everyone pooped together in a big group (there were no stalls) and just sort of chatted it up. I often find myself personally bored while pooping but I also consider it somewhat unsanitary to look at ones phone while in the process of defecating. I mean why NOT just chill with your best buds and newly made aquaintances a like, conversing about life and such, all whilst taking a ****? Sounds like a good time to me! Especially for the big long poops if you know what I mean. Thoughts???!!!! |
| Posted: 19 May 2017 12:08 PM PDT I live in a "apartment block" where there is strict rules on various issues, i am only young and my parents issued me with the job to do the rubbish. Unfortunately i havent put the small bin bags in the massive bins so theyve sent my mum a letter and talked to her in person. She is now upset at me and is making me apologise, i would like to "repay" the community by doing something over a period of time.. but i have no ideas.. |
| Posted: 19 May 2017 12:01 PM PDT I'm not saying what they assume offends me, they make such big deal out of it like they have to go to drastic measures to make it true. It's starting to irritate me. |
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| Question: Is it possible that cats could be a man's best friend? Posted: 19 May 2017 11:55 AM PDT I know dogs are a man s best friend but cats really mean a lot to me and they are like my man s best friend. Is it possible? |
| Question: Did I do the right thing? What would you have done? Posted: 19 May 2017 11:53 AM PDT My mon convinced her friend Helen to buy a computer so they could communicate with email. Mom asked me to train Helen on how to use the computer. I agreed to do the training. I went to Helen's house on a Saturday and started her training. As I was leaving Helen's husband, Al told me he did not want me coming back to their house. I said OK but I ask him why. He said he did not want his wife around other men. The next Saturday, Helen called me and wanted to know what time I was coming over. I told her I could not come back and what Al had told me. She was outraged. She said "That is the last straw. I am filing for divorce Monday morning from that control freak of a husband. About a month later I got a call from Al. Helen had kicked him out of the house. Al wanted me to call Helen and tell her he was drunk when he told me he didn't want other men around his wife and that he did not mean it. I don't know if he meant it but he was NOT drunk. I told Al I was not getting involved their martial problems. In fact I don't want to have any contact with either of them EVER. Please tell me if you think I did the right thing in this matter? |
| Posted: 19 May 2017 11:50 AM PDT Like they're not your friend but they're not your enemy either. They're just someone who just won't get the message clearly. They complain about being alienated from your life yet they act like you're in their way. |
| Question: How to confront your boss appropriately? Posted: 19 May 2017 11:41 AM PDT Had a bad experience that was partially my fault and partially someone else s fault and I am having to take the fall for the problem that occurred. Now upper management has been questioning whether or not I should be in my current position, No one has really talked to me about it , instead they are sending people to observe me without telling me. I don t know how to approach the situation going forward with the situation. I feel like it s really awkward because they haven t said anything but I feel like I should say something because it is making me uncomfortable |
| Question: Why do I find myself hating the friends I make? Posted: 19 May 2017 11:34 AM PDT So I've been in this cycle recently. I make a new friend, become really close, usually hanging out once week, but not too too much. And then it s like something shifts in my brain and I start to really dislike them for what seems like no good reason. They're not selfish or toxic, they treat me respectfully and kindly. They're a good person with their own interesting quirks. But for some reason I start to loathe getting messages from them, it feels like a chore to talk to them. I avoid them most of the time too. It makes me feel really bad. I feel like I m a shitty person because I'm lying to them about how I really feel, and I don t feel comfortable confronting them about it either because I know I don't have a reason to feel this way, they have done nothing wrong. I haven't changed. They haven't changed. And yet I can't stand them. (For context this has occurred 5 times since grade 10, currently 2nd year uni student, and it usually occurs about half a year to one year into the friendship.) I feel I should still be friends with these people but I can't help pushing them away because of how I feel. I'm beginning to think this is how my brain is wired because no matter what I do or how hard I try to move past it, or give myself space for a bit, I can't help but feel strong dislike towards them. My life feels truly lonely not being able to maintain any friendship for very long, any advice would be greatly appreciated. |
| Question: I saw a dude that look very similar to me on the street ?(copy of myself... basically)? Posted: 19 May 2017 11:29 AM PDT Ok.. I'm not trolling. I'm 14. I was in another city and basically saw a copy of myself. That guy's face was so similar, but he could have been a year older than me.His haircut was different(same color), but he looked a LOT like me. He even had the same jacket as me(and you cannot buy it on internet or anywhere in our country. I bought it in another country...) I saw him and got a very awkard feeling. He saw me, too and stared... How likely is that to happen ? And that was a million people city. Stop jumping to dumb conclusions. I WASN'T adopted. HE's not related to me. He looked like my twin brother and I know all my family members. I didn't approach because I got very awkard and confused. I tried so hard not to stare. That happened in late 2016. 5-6 months ago. |
| Question: What is the purpose of friendship? Posted: 19 May 2017 11:13 AM PDT |
| Question: Why do many ppl hate me and don't want to be my friend? Posted: 19 May 2017 11:12 AM PDT I want to kill them all 🔪😢 |
| Question: One person hate me....? Posted: 19 May 2017 10:34 AM PDT There's this person who hate me for no reason. She juz treats me with cold treatment. I texted her and ask if we could solve misunderstandings but it's been a frw days she haven't seen it yet and she have not replied.(She's online btw but she didn't even read my meassage on whatapps) The only thing I know that she did not spread any negative rumours about me to my classmates. I feel very frustrated. What should I do? How do i cope with this? What if nxt time I'm assigned to do a groupnproject with her, how do i deal with it? |
| Question: Why don't my friendships last? Posted: 19 May 2017 10:27 AM PDT I'm a college student going into my third year, and I have not maintained a single friendship since I've started. I'll meet people in a given semester, and we exchange numbers to study together, help each other out with homework, and talk about classroom material, but after the semester ends I often don't have classes with them anymore, and the relationship ends because we no longer have anything to talk about. People say college is supposed to be the best four years of your life, and while I'm not having a terrible experience I do get lonely at times. |
| Question: Is it normal to masturbate to pictures of your step cousin ? Posted: 19 May 2017 10:19 AM PDT I'm 15(girl). I sometimes masturbate to pictures of my step cousin(He's 15,too) Is that normal ? I like him. I see, you don't have any idea what incest is. And.. We're friends. |
| Question: How can I join their group without being awkward? Posted: 19 May 2017 09:42 AM PDT I'm studying german in Berlin for two months and it's cool but I'm slowly getting into the second month and I haven't really made any friends yet. Sure I met a few people here and there, but it's so hard to keep in touch when they're not in my class. It would make more sense to make friends with people in class and they're all very nice but it's been a month and I don't really feel like I connect with anyone. A few weeks ago I met 3 really nice people at a welcoming thing that the school organises every monday night and I'd love to be friends with them, but when I see them during the break I can never bring myself to go talk to them. I try every day and each time I kick myself for not having the courage because the more I wait the more awkward it'll be. They're a pretty large group in total, not just the 3 people I met and it's a bit intimidating to not know the majority of them. Plus I'm sure they've seen me sit alone a few times (probably not so subtly watching them and trying to get their attention), they probably think I'm socially retarded (not wrong) or that I'm not interested in knowing them. I think I would be less intimidated if it wasn't at school but I have no way to reach them and invite them somewhere. I just feel like it's too late and I noticed that they made new friends, they're probably better off without me haha any advice ? |
| Question: People at college are so immature? Posted: 19 May 2017 08:03 AM PDT I'm 22 and there 16-17 and they are horrible to me. I was walking to the we toilets and one girl stuck her fingers up at me and they are always whispering and gossiping about me and my friend, the friendship groups are always changing and they are always falling out and won't just get along, I have explained to them it's college and not school and they he told need to get along but they won't. I can't really deal with much more how can I cope please help? |
| Question: Im in love with my best friend? Posted: 19 May 2017 07:39 AM PDT I've been in love with my best friend for the past 2 years. i came out to her as bi, and two weeks later she did too. she was in love with someone else, and she broke up with him before we got closer. eventually, we became unseperable. we'd tell each other everything. and i loved her to the point that it drove me crazy, i couldn't sleep. and anytime we fought i would refuse to eat. it was horrible. id talk about it to one of my friends but she isn't my friend anymore. slowly she began pushing me away. it drove me insane. and when i asked her about it she refused to tell me. I'm petrified. what do i do? i can't lose her. should i tell her? |
| Question: Anyone here who used to be a bully? Posted: 19 May 2017 07:33 AM PDT In high school I was an awful bully. Especially my senior year, me and my friend would target a bunch of freshmen. We'd push em around, tease them constantly, throw things at them, one time we even dumped him in a trash can. |
| Question: Why do people seem to hate Jehovah's Witnesses? Posted: 19 May 2017 07:20 AM PDT there guy went into JWs church started talking about child rape https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hY7uCc6nID0&index=14&list=PLjj3Mg8Sy1CwEkWcW6Ma-INyFtBin32_i&t=13s |
| Posted: 19 May 2017 06:21 AM PDT I've been with my boyfriend for 9 months and he hasnt said " I LOVE YOU YET" he calls me "Love" and says he has "love for me " but never says "i love you" just wondering is this too long to wait for those 3 special words? he says he gets in moods where he feels like he could be in love with me but then snaps out of those "moods" and thinks he just really likes me its painful because i know i love him and i feel like he's barely there emotionally and last time i brought it up he said "why is saying the L word such a big deal to you how would that make our relationship any different"& claims since its been less than a year he feels that hes invested enough so far and saying "i love you " would be too much & comparing me to how his ex wife & ex gf's f**ked him over thats what almost makes me lose my patience with him cause i feel like im being punshed for other womens mistakes i dont know what to do i want marriage not to be a GF FOREVER it's been making me so depressed & it's been hard for me to actually enjoy being around him & life in general so should I confront him again asking what is stopping his heart from loving me?! |
| Question: Is it wrong to have a fling? Should I stop going to see him? Posted: 19 May 2017 06:01 AM PDT I have been having a fling with this guy. But he and I live in different states. WE ARE NOT IN A LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP. I met him online and I went to see him for the first time in June of 2015. I saw him again last year in June and I'm going to see him again next month. The thing is I really want to go see him more often. I asked him if I could and he said sure I just enjoy going to see him. He has offered to come see me several times. But I don't want him to I like going to see him instead. |
| Question: Do you think I'm being mean for not being her friend? Posted: 19 May 2017 04:53 AM PDT I was best friends with this girl since we were 12 (I'm female too) and about 1 year ago she started distancing herself from me and not hanging out with me at lunch and ignoring me in class, when I asked her if we're still friends she said yes and that I can still hang out with her. When I do I discover she has a new group of friends who are in the grade below us. (We're both 16). I feel ignored and excluded while they're all chatting so eventually I stop trying to hang out with her and her new friends. I cut her off as a friends totally and stop talking to her after her new friends were bitchy to me. But recently she's starting saying hi to me and still wants to be casual friends but just not close friends anymore. But I don't think I should have to talk to her and be all nice to her after the way she treated me, especially knowing I didn't have any other friends. |
| Question: I have a huge crush on my step cousin ? Posted: 19 May 2017 04:43 AM PDT He's pretty, tall and nice. I sometimes fantasize about him, glance or stare at him. I even had a dream about him. I even masturbated to his picture(once or twice) Is that normal ? I haven't told him anything or given him any signals, but he sometimes stares at me and flirts, hugs me. Am I normal ? He's 2 months older than me. He's 15, I'm still 14. HE'S A GUY, not girl. |
| Question: Why do people get mad when you move on? Posted: 19 May 2017 04:08 AM PDT If someone puts you on the back burner / only calls you when it's convenient for them, why do they get mad when you move on with your life? I was best friends with a girl for 2 years, and randomly got really flakey. She'd say she was busy all the time, even though she knew I was too. The only difference was that I made time for her. After a few times I stopped forcing our friendship & became close with other people. She got upset, yet she was the one who was "too busy" and constantly cancelled plans |
| Question: Snapchat groupchat question? Posted: 19 May 2017 03:35 AM PDT if you're a in a group chat with some people and if one of them sends like a snap on the group chat can they see who views their snap? soz i made a mistake in the beginning |
| Question: Im moving schools for junior year of highschool, any tips and advice please? Posted: 19 May 2017 03:27 AM PDT I just found out from my parents that we are moving over the summer. That means I'll have a fresh new start at a new school. I'll be junior year in highschool and I'm really nervous. I feel like people in highschool already have their "set group of friends" so nobody will want to be friends with me. Any advice for making new friends? I'll try to look as friendly as possible and be nice to people but I feel that sometimes that won't work and I'm scared it won't work in this situation ... any tips? |
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| Question: Love pentagon in friendship group..? Posted: 19 May 2017 02:07 AM PDT Right so this is a confusing one but I'll try and explain it well: So In my friendship group there are 3 boys (Ben, David and Tom) and 3 girls (me, Laura and one other). One of the girls (my bff), Laura, is dating one of the guys, Ben, and they're really into each other which is nice. The thing is, I like one of the other guys, David. David has a crush on Laura though, even though she is dating his best friend, and even before that, she wasn't interested in him. Clearly there is no chance for David and Laura. But I'm really begining to develop feelings for David but I definitely don't think he feels the same yet. Now to make things even more complicated, David's best friend (Tom) has a huge thing for me, and we have kissed before and stuff, and Tom has told me to my face he likes me. However I really don't like Tom in that ay, and I've told him that we should just be friends. So my dilemma is, my crush likes my best friend (who will never like him back and is dating his bff), also his other bff likes me so I doubt David would ever make a move on me due to my "thing" with Tom. Also I'm scared the friendship group would fall apart if I were to say anything to David bc of Tom... I really feel bad for him because I love him as a friend and I've tried to like him back but I'm just really into David :( help "you shouldn't have kissed Tom" : Sorry I should clarify this, I just didn't want the question to be too long. I know I shouldn't have kissed him. I was extremely drunk and he kissed me, and I think I kissed him back, but I know it didn't last long and I pushed him away in the end. I know being drunk is no excuse for my mistake, but I would never have kissed him sober. I think it was the most drunk I've ever been. Also when me and Tom kissed, I didn't have any feelings for David because I knew he liked Laura and this was before she started dating Ben. Complicated, I know. Tbh I did also try liking Tom because he's an amazing guy, but I've found out you can't force yourself to like someone, and I know I'd just end up hurting him if I gave it a try with him. I feel awful, like why do I like David so much instead of Tom? But there's nothing I can do about it unfortunately :( |
| Question: How do I get over a really good friend? Posted: 19 May 2017 01:50 AM PDT I'm currently beefing with one of the best friends I've ever had, but I need too because she keeps on being a ***** to me and being way too sensitive with my new friend. She hates me for hanging out with a new friend she supposedly hates, ironic isn't it. Long story short I wont bend my back over just for her, but it's been really hard to cope with. Advice please? And please try not to say the regular corny "It'll pass soon" because that advice is currently not working. |
| Posted: 19 May 2017 01:10 AM PDT My old friend was a complete asshole to me. Calling me fat and stupid a lot, treating me like ****. He was my housemate (Sam), and for the 6 months I lived with him I never said anything. I mentioned this to our mutual friend (Jim) and his response was always "Ah that s just the way he is. He doesn t mean it. Your just over thinking it." Anyway this went on for months and I never said anything. After I moved out, I texted Sam saying I felt bullied by him. That he insulted me for months and I m not happy with it. No response. I message Jim later and his reply is "Sam was so offended and hurt by you. How dare you." I tell Jim again how I felt living with Sam, Jim s only reply is how hurt and angry Sam is with me. I ve tried contacting Sam to fix this, no response. Jim is okay with me, he doesn t want to get involved. Has this happened to any of you? I hate it that he has the "ah that s just the way he is excuse" but when I defend myself, I m a monster. |
| Question: Why do some friends become so fake and abandon you? Posted: 19 May 2017 12:25 AM PDT I had a friend since 1st grade and until 8th grade she started to change and hung out with mean girls and making my life miserable. This other girl we because friends with in 5th grade. She moved after 7th grade. We didn't see her until freshman year. She changed too and believed the rumors. She called me a hurtful name and even my best friend since 1st grade she even laughed at me and it hurt me so bad. Ever since they started being fake and stupid. They would say stuff behind my back after I left. My friend since first grade so have done so much for her and it hurts me that she would talk **** behind my back. I'm no longer friends with them. They're my enemies now. I had other friends but a couple just stopped talking to me for no reason. I didn't show my fear or that I'm hurt like my parents told me. Them girls are still take to this day and wanna hurt me. Junior year they got pissed off at me for ignoring them and they cyberbullied me and made up rumors. They would bump into me and when it got ugly, we got into a HUGE fight and it got bad. I didn't do anything to them. I don't usually fight but I had no choose. Bitches deserved it. The two girls I've known since senior year I'm friends with them and they have been true to me. |
| Posted: 19 May 2017 12:24 AM PDT I have new friends and meet all three of these criteria. I have a few friends that put forth no effort and I have to initiate everything. if I stop talking to them they would never reach out period I have one long-term close friend I've known since high school but she periodically takes me for granted and can go off on me being rude and condescending. She doesn't seem to think there's anything wrong with her behavior. And then I do have a few people who live far away that don't do either of these things. |
| Question: What is your best friend? Posted: 18 May 2017 10:55 PM PDT |
| Question: My best friend is bailing on me to hang with a girl? Posted: 18 May 2017 10:39 PM PDT So my best friend and I have been friends for years and see each other almost everyday, we hang out on weekends a lot too. Well as we were deciding what to do for our Friday night he says that the girl I like just asked him if he wanted to hang out tomorrow. This is just a huge bail to begin with but what can I say to get him to hang out with me and our other friends instead? Also we are in high school if that helps |
| Question: My old friend came back? Posted: 18 May 2017 09:59 PM PDT My old friend moved back, but I have totally different new friends and all of our similarities are gone. How do I tell her that I kinda don't really want to hang with her |
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