It is stuck and we do not want the boss's wife to find out

@Athena Wow!They are lucky lol.....

I've been working for my married boss for almost a year. For many, many months I loathed him. Most people at work dislike him because he is very difficult to work with/for. He thinks he knows everything, he tends to think there's only one way of doing things and that's his way, he always has something to say when a person calls out of work (which half the time it's because they're a lazy teenager who just doesn't want to come into work on a Saturday). Everybody has always known he hasn't been my favorite person. I've almost gone off on him several times and almost walked out on him. Back during Christmas, I gave all my managers (including him) a gift bag of candy and he jokingly asked if I poisoned his. Over the past few months, I've gotten to know him as a person. He said he was just raised to take work seriously and that he's actually a nice guy. I've begun to learn that. He's still a pain in the butt at times, but mostly in good fun. We flirt a lot, mostly him teasing me or giving me a hard time about something. I told one of my closest work friends that I had a crush on him in the beginning and she said it was obvious because "hate equals love". I admit I have developed feelings for him again, due to him giving me a lot of attention most of the time. It is mostly sexual, although I am starting to become very attached. I always have to be around him and I feel like crap when he pays no attention to me. How the heck did I go from loathing him to adoring him? I had a dream of him about a month ago where it started off sexual, but then he was my boyfriend and I told him I loved him. And before you say anything, yes he's married. Yes, he has a family. I don't plan on anything happening between us. I can definitely agree on the frustration, but I don't know why I am frustrated exactly. And sometimes we are kind of like friends. He is 37 and his little sister is only a little older than me (I'm 26, she's 27) so I think he tries to be that annoying big brother type, but he is also very flirty. His wife and family have come to visit quite a few times, one of my old teachers is friends with his wife and he and I are friends on FB.

why don't they simply cut out the "middle-man" and have direct lesbian sex with another woman?

Lovely woman we get on great but she can't do that first lovemaking she feels she is letting her deceased husband down I have been very loving and kind but it's not happening Been so close but she won't let me actually take her. Any advice from widows please?

A few days ago, my husband texted me and told me he hated me and couldn't stand to look at me. He demanded an emergency divorce. I later found out he had taken out all our money in our checking account. I went to an attorney to begin the paperwork. Today he found out he has cancer. I still care for him and don't want to have him served under these conditions. What are my options? He won't talk to me so I don't know if he's changed his mind about the divorce or not. People tell me it's important for me to file first.

My husband has cheated on me before via someone he met online (his friend Tom has done his ex that way too). Tom is a bum, he works, but he is verbally abusive to women. He has bullied/verbally assaulted me to my face and sexually harassed me in my own home in front of my husband (he has no respect for anyone. The other day, Tom insulted my health which required hospitalization and my husband just stood there. My husband LIED and said he talked to Tom on the phone and said "that wasn't right and that it wouldnt be tolerated!" He said Tom claimed "he didnt mean it that way". My husband claimed he blocked Tom's calls/texts and was done w/him. Today, I discovered that my husband is back up to his internet exploits AND that he is very much still talking to Tom and claims he "will not be controlled by some woman, listen here sweet cheeks, you are manipulative and Tom is my friend, I could care less what you want!" All my husband has done is lie and lie some more even when I caught him. I have tried to divorce him, but he stands behind my car and tries to get me to stay. Am I wrong to want Tom out of our lives? He has cursed me out to my face, cursed at my mom/ and is just a bad apple.

I wanted to hear from your experiences with a situation in which you dealt with this and if so how did you work with the situation

My husband and I have been married for 8 months now, been together for nearly 5 years. We have had a very rocky relationship with his commitment issues and him not being totally faithful to me. My friends disliked him and I had to seperate myself from them. He has bipolar and can get very nasty at times. I ve been called a lot of bad things, been told the sex is bad, I m fat and nasty, plus a lot more I don t care to mention. Every time it happens I always say that s it. No more, but I always end up forgiving him, but it makes me miserable. He lost his job and was unemployed for 2 years. He just wouldn t work. I paid all the rent and bills throughout our relationship. I love him so much but I wonder if I have moved on without realizing. The sex problems started about 6 months before we got married. I was working extra hours to cover the bills, it then I was too tired for sex, and it s just got worse. I honestly don t want it al all. It causes problems netween is as if I turn him down he gets nasty and calls me names. I honestly don t know what to do. He constantly accuses me of cheating when I have never given him the hint of that before. I believe that is a guilty conscience from his past. I m at breaking point and have taken my old job back and hour n half down the road just so I can be away and busy more. I m struggeling to put on a brace face and people are starting to notice. Is there any hope? Or is my marriage over so soon?

The last time I spoke with him on the phone he was mad because I wasn't helping pay for a bill in his name. He lost his job mostly due to him & had a anger issues wanted me to help pay most of the bills because I was working. The problem being is that he didn't want to communicate with me. We lost our apartment his mom told him to take my money out my 401k he had a big argument with me because the apartment was in his name he made me and my dog leave because I refused to pay when he doesn't treat me right. The only time he texted me is about bank acct which he closed down & tried to take my check. I haven't responded to any of his text. We go to the same church I saw him last Sunday on mother's day. I'm feel ashamed our marriage failed. He went & called my aunt for advice, then Sunday played with my nieces & nephew like nothing happened. The only words he said to me where hello, but could talk to my sister & tell my aunt how horrible I am. Our pastor wants to meet with us for spiritual counseling I'm not sure if my husband will come. I've been trying to get my life back together since I've left him. This hurts the biggest think is everyone will know my marriage is a failure. I don't feel sad, or angry, but I am hurt my husband is trying to make look the bad guy. I want to date again, but I know I should wait. How do I handle the people looking at me knowing my marriage failed. I don't want to get back together. Has anyone been through anything similar to this?

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I ve had a friend who I ve known since high school but got really close with in 2014. He married and is now going through divorce... I feel helpless. Should I seek him out to let him know I m here for him? or should I wait until he s ready to start hanging out with me again? I need good advice. Thanks!

I have a 9yr old sister. Right now my grandma has custody of her. But is getting off of drugs and has been literally crazy verbally and yelling at top of her lungs. I would rather have full custody but if joint custody is good to..How would I get a high chance at getting joint custody? Or even full custody? What are things are must I would have to have to win that?

She also previously told me that she would marry me if she ever gets a divorce. What do you think her true intentions are?

I'm 22 and with my girlfriend 5 years. Unfortunately I am getting sentenced in 3 weeks and just agreed a plea deal where I will be getting 1-3 years in prison and then parole. We had planned to get married this Summer but put it off a few months ago after I got arrested. We have a 3 year old son and my girlfriend is 3 months pregnant. She has stuck by me through this and will visit me in prison but I would like to get married before I go to prison but not sure what she will say. I know her family don't want her to marry me but I think it would be good if we married to show that we are serious about each other, even with all that happened, and a proper family for my son and the baby.

I do I love my husband and I love my boyfriend My GF says it's impossible but honestly that's how I feel They don't meet, my husband doesn't know They. are both so different too, my husband is more serious hard working shy person, My BF is younger more fun less worried about money they both love me too I love them both and try and make them both happy and satisfied

My wife cheated and when we talked about him she said he wasn't as handsome as fit as charming as kind and he had a smaller penis Ithought it was just consoling BSand moved on

My boyfriend has a son from his previous marriage whom he has joint custody of. We live 45 minutes away form one another and during the week the only time he can seem to fit in to see me is if I drive in rush hour traffic(which takes over an hour and is full of people driving like crazies) and pick up dinner for us or if I take an entire day off of work. This week I decided just to see him later after his son is in bed and my boyfriend got mad at me for this. Is this fair?

I am too afraid to find out more! I went with him once, and he was out jogging.. but I felt it was for show. I don't want to exercise on early weekend at all.

When we were engaged we talked about when we d combine finances and he made a big stink about it because his ex blocked him out of accessing his money and took it when they were separating (she worked at the bank). I was so upset and said I felt like he was punishing me for what someone else did. We ended up combining finances and everything has been fine, he s thanked me numerous times for helping him sort out debts he had prior to meeting me and that its because of me that he (or, we now) will be debt free. Well I just found out that a few years ago (before we got together) that she contacted him on FB & they ended up being friendly enough that he bought a television from her! So... He gave me such a fight about combining finances because of this girl years back, but in the end they reconciled and were FRIENDS? I brought it up, he seems like he knows it was stupid. I m just hurt by it because this wasn t that long ago. So, if this girl were to cross paths with him they d be on a friendly term and I don t take kindly to someone that stole my husband s money once upon a time ago (plus I m just miffed in general). Why the heck would he talk with her again? I had said, were you that hurting for female attention? He kinda seemed like he knew it was stupid. To punish me for what she did and then I find out he became friendly again with the girl upsets me a lot. I ve said things about it but it s still stinging

When I am the one who delivered them what right do they have to a father when he mistreated me? I don't get this. ANONYMOUS---Amen, you are the one who sees things truthfully, thank you. The rest who answered, you all are fools. I AM THE PARENT, not the bastard ex. Like I told my son if his Dad had loved him then he would have treated me better. Thank you Anonymous for speaking the truth. I wish I knew your real name so I could give you best answer for life.

I have my views just wonder what other ppl view are on the subject.

I broke my ankle and was in a lot of pain. My boyfriend came to the hospital and at first seemed very empathetic. He offered to take care of me if I came to his place and stayed with him and his daughter. Then however I asked and accepted large sums of money for me for groceries and wanted me to watch his daughter who was acting out and he grew angry with me when I brought up her behavior. He also undermined my broken ankle and acted like it wasn't a big deal and brushed it off. He also accepted my help with cleaning his house and buying him lunch etc when I was off work and never banked me. He was also angry with me and had anger outbursts because I wouldn't put up with his daughters behavior and called me names. He even took a trip out of town and never invited me when I have funded several of his vacations in the past. This while I was in a lot of pain. Should I be concerned about the way he acted while I was hurt or is this normal?

So, me and my husband have now been living together for over 2 years. We have a baby boy. Its been hard and we are facing difficult times. I work full time 8-5 job. He work for a month and then stops for 3 months (why? he say his head hurts) I am the one who pays for grocery, personal hygiene stuff, and anything that is needed at home oh and everything my son need ( dippers, Formula, etc) I have been recently telling him that he need to contribute to all the expenses. Last night out of no where he tells me "you thing your the big **** with that nothing paying job and your low credit score" ( 2 weeks ago I meet with a broker to see the possibility of buy a house and I qualify for a 150,000 loan, credit is at 640 low but I can get an FHA loan) I feed him and my son with that money! I make sure my son has enough! I buy clothes for the both of them! I have tried my best to manage my money. He send thousand of dollars to his Mom/Dad and lazy brothers in Mexico but he wont give my 20 buck to buy a box of dippers! We live in a room his brothers house! " He than tell me that I am ungrateful. His abusive. Its been 2 years of this I can't take it anymore.

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I usually pay for my spouse and I's vacations both but this person decided to go visit one of their male friends while we were not getting along and not pay for my trip and not really invite me. Now that we are getting along my spouse is expecting me to fund one of their vacations entirely again and I dont feel I should because they do not reciprocate the favor when the tables are turned and quite honestl Im tired of paying for their vacations and them never paying. Is this wrong?

The following is a part of movie script from "Charade" starred by Audrey Hepburn and Cary grant. I want to know what "Instant Divorce" means. REGINA. I'm a simultaneous translator, like Sylvie, only she's English into French and I'm French into English. That's what I was doing before I married Charles. Police probably think I killed him. PETER. Instant divorce, you mean? REGINA. Something like that. It's terrible to end it this way though: tossed off a train like a sack of third-class mail.

My wife is an amateur model, 27 years old. Her field is nude art and doing it for extra money for the family for last 2 years. Last week she told me that she would be posing with another model for the first time, a male. Unfortunately I had appointment with my important client so I couldn't accompany her for the session. Yesterday was the day, I dropped her and met the male model who was young, probably a student and well built. Then I left her to met with my client. I told the assistant to get a copy ot the photo session. She was agreed but asked me to keep in secret. After two hours I came back to the studio. The session just finished, the male model already left, while my wife just talked with the photographer. She saw me and gave me a kiss and said that she is glad I came and wanted to get dinner. She never said a word about what happened, and I never asked. Today I got a bundle of CD contains a series of photos showing my wife doing sex with 3 different people, in any kind of position and style, and all ended with *** inside her mouth or vagina. It also has a video showing all activities during the photo session. I was shocked to watch my wife had sex with another man during the session and seemed that she was really enjoy it. And finally she had another with the photographer just before I came. Was this cheating? Was she just being professional? She also asked my permission to have another session with male model within next 2 weeks. Should I worry?

My husband and I just married 2 months ago. And about first 1.5 months he got along with my oldest cat (a male, of 4 cats) better than me. He gave some treats frequently and stroke him a lot than I stroke him. But lately my oldest cat started to hissing at my husband. Even after he stroke him for a couple minutes. My husband is a dog person who will get angry if someone treats him bad. The more my oldest cat hissed, the more my husband will angry. Sometimes he intimidated my oldest cat with a pipe when my cat started to hiss. The more hisses he heard, the more intimidation he gave to him. I often said that that is not the way to face a cat. You treat them well, and they will treat you well later. If you use a pipe like that (he just touched, didnt use it to attack them), they will feel intimidated and not safe, so they will start hissing and traumatic at you. But again, he refuse to understand it. And just now he locked my cat in a storage room WITHOUT any ventilations. I keep crying with so many tears begged him to get my cat out of there. And he kept refusing. The more I cry, the more he got emotional. And just now while he went out, I got him out with my husband's spare key. 10 minutes later, my husband got back home and found out. He threats me that if my cat start to hiss again around him, he will kill him. I dont even know if he's serious or not. But what should I do now? I dont know how to make him understand. The more I protect my cats, the more he get angrier.

My husband and I are approaching our two-year mark, I believed my marriage was God centered. But I have spent my days w/ my husband believing a lie. A few days ago, I have found porn on my husband's computer, dating accounts, & messages on fb to several women. I couldn't believe what I was seeing & reading. The messages were so dirty w/ rated R pictures, I was mortified, the messages revealed that my husband has been physical w/ some of these women. It was as though I was looking at a stranger's computer, I had no idea my husband was doing any of this. I confronted him when he came home by saying, "I know everything now," and threw the laptop on the couch next to him. He looked at me confused and asked me if I was okay, then I told him exactly what I saw on his computer. He was speechless as he went through his laptop to see what I have found. I asked him if he has had sex w/ all the 3 or 4 women he was talking to. He told me it was with one of them only, and w/ another one he was messing around with clothes on. I felt so sick to my stomach, I asked him why he would do that to us. As he cried he told me it had nothing to do w/ me, this behavior goes way back to when he was single. He thought he changed before he met me but after we got married, he began to watch porn again, & a month ago other things followed. Ladies I knew about his past before we got married, but I didn't think It would affect our marriage (or even this bad) because he said he had repented and Jesus has helped him changed his ways years ago before we even met. I do not know what to do. I didn't think this would happen in my marriage, I did everything to make my husband happy but apparently, it wasn't enough. I love my husband with all my heart even though he has hurt me in a way I thought he would never. I remember we once talked about divorcing if one of us ever ended up cheating, but now that it actually happened I can't bring myself to do that to our marriage . My husband has spent hours each day pouring out his heart for forgiveness from me, he has told me he would understand if I decided to leave him forever for this, and that he doesn't deserve such a wonderful wife. The devil has deceived him so much because he told me maybe things would get better if he ended up dyeing so I could finally one day be with a true Godly man. I told my husband to not think such a way because those are all lies from the enemy. The devil has really blinded my husband, when we both got on our knees, my husbands couldn't ask for forgiveness b/ he believed God wouldn't ever forgive him for this, especially since he is so unworthy for forgiveness. I told my husband, "we are all unworthy of forgiveness & that is why we need Jesus to help us." As he cried out to Jesus, my heart felt more & more sadness for him for getting this lost, and for me being so blind to not notice until now. My husband has given me all his passwords, he has promised he would change into the godly man that he needs to be, he even wakes up to as forgiveness from me every morning b/ he sees/knows the pain will take a lot of time to go away. God has given me an abundance of patience, strength, love, & even when I found out what was on his laptop, God gave me sympathy over him, I wanted to run up to my husband, hold him, and tell him we will get through this together. what advice could u give us? For him, and especially for me, so that I may help my husband every step of the way? Did I do the right thing by giving him another chance? Why or why not? Can any of u give me some testimonies to help me stay inspired? Once in a while I get a thought, "once a cheater always a cheater," but I know God could/will change my husband.

I think my boss and I have sexual chemistry. He's married and I have no interest in him romantically, but there's definite sexual chem. We flirt A LOT, mostly him teasing me about things or giving me a hard time. Also, we're constantly in each other's "bubble" and the other doesn't seem to mind. Numerous times, I've accidentally passed too close by him (we work in fast food, not a lot of space to pass by a person at times behind the counter or in the kitchen) and my butt has rubbed up against his crotch and neither one of us has said a word. We don't necessarily try to avoid it either. I feel as though we take any excuse to be near each other. There have been times I've been on break or I've been eating after work and he'll come and sit down next to me, even when there's other places to sit. When I am standing at a register and he has to put something where I happen to be standing, he likes to kind of tap my side with whatever he's holding, to get me to move. One time I was leaning over and he rested something on my lower back as a joke. Can a married person have sexual chemistry with another woman and not do anything about it? I'm not trying to be a homewrecker and I don't think he even notices what he's doing half the time. From what I've seen on Facebook, he seems very devoted to his wife. I am 26, he is 37. I'm not worried about falling in love with him. It is pretty much only sexual. Today, though, was different. He got pissed off and threatened to kitchen that he was going to leave and that today was his last day (he said it in the heat of the moment). When I really thought he was going to leave, I got really upset and felt like crying. I spent as much time near him as I could, although we didn't talk the entire time. He wouldn't even smile, but eventually he did.

When my husband gets undressed for bed he uses his socks to blow his nose into then throws them in the wash basket. Would you mind your man doing this ?

I mean, I thought I was married to a man, not a sissy?!?!?!

Her brother, sister, and parents are my in-laws. Her nephews and nieces are now my nephews and nieces, so is my wife also considered a relative? (please no wise cracks about Kentuckians, incest, or the like)