Ok so there's this girl who's rather plain but cute, has a great body and she's a runner. So I was shocked when I saw her boyfriend, the guy's like 300 lbs and 6'2 tall and looks like a huge whale. He dresses well though and i heard from someone he has his own penthouse Seriously though isn't that the definition of gold digger? Cause every girl with self respect wouldn't date a guy who doesn't take care of himself Is she getting paid to have sex with the whale?

We have one for men and one for women both have locks. I was wearing a pink tshirt this day and to wait until the guy before me. This guy came up to me and said that he was in a rush and asked if I would mind showering together. I immediately felt like he was coming on to me. Then I thought maybe the pink tshirt must have been what gave him the green light. I told him no that I wasn't comfortable with that. Your thoughts? Is it normal or did he just want to F me?

So when I got hired into my new job the lady dealing with my hiring was so lovely and as soon as I met her I felt this connection where I just wanted to be around her and make friends with her. Has anyone else had this happen to them and in your experience does the other person generally feel this connection also or is it one sided? (I am a straight female)

She's a legitimately gorgeous (single) woman but she's sleeping with multiple married men, for free, and letting them all treat her like dirt. A smart whore would at least get paid for that. How can I become less judgmental of my MIL's poor business sense? Prostitution is absolutely legal in many forms. Why can't she get a damn sugar daddy so she can stop stealing my stuff? There's nothing wrong with loving ur job but u need to get paid for ur job, too.

Sorry for the vague title . Anyway, i have a best friend who gets mad if I don't tell her things that happen to me which I don't mind . And she gets mad if people in our circle of friends do things without her . Me and her are the closest among the others because we're the only ones who study something different from all of the others who share their majors . Recently we and those friends have gotten closer together and I really love them but I always feel like they love her more than they love me . For example if we want to go out they don't tell me instead they tell her to tell me . And if we two have an exam coming up and they wanted to go out they ask her and she usually says no (she's a little uptight when it comes to exams but I'm not and they know it) . So if she says no they won't ask me . Actually I probably wouldn't know until it comes up accidentally in conversation. So I've been ignoring this situation because I thought if I keep bringing it up to them they would think I'm sensitive. But recently they've been doing things without me saying it just happened suddenly. And even if it did i live close by and I could just go over to them but they never invite me even though sometimes i call my bff when they're hanging out and she even admits it but never tells me to come over . What should I do?

I'm a guy and cannot hang out with my own gender. The guys all around me are brash in attitude and overstimulated. I seem to be slandered 'gay' or a '*****' by them or something of that nature, but overall I steer clear from them. Is this normal for guys to be brash in attitude and overstimulated?

So that hot tall guy next door always holds the elevator's door for me... Why is he so polite? Yesterday he waited till I lock my apartment's door holding the elevator's door! Once he also asked me if I need help to carry the supermarket's bags!! Seriously I wanna 😘him. No just kidding :P

My GF passed away recently leaving her lovely husband distraught we were all very close and one night I was helping sort the mess of paperwork out when he just broke down weeping. I offered a shoulder and hugged him we just sat like that for 20 minutes It felt so right I just kissed him nothing was said he was hard so I gently unzipped him and stroked him till he came. Not a word was said it wasn't sexual for me it just relieved the poor guy from his pain I won't tell my husband he doesn't need to know that

Nearly all my life, I've been worried about what others would think if I did this or that to the point some people thought I was a sicko/weirdo and it actually made things worse. Also, some people exploited that shy awkward nature of me to make snarky comments. Is it wrong if from this point of my life, I become more ''selfish'' in that the opinions of strangers don't matter and I put my happiness in front of everything? I guess all I ever needed was loving myself, and I'm becoming a more selective person, cleaning what's bad out of my life. How can I do that without looking like an arrogant/douchebag?

I ve been dating with a Dutch girl for nearly 8 months and as an international couple I think she is kind of obsessed with contact. Due to different time zone, we are on the video phone for 30 mins mostly per day and I think It s ok however except i give any notice that I am busy or doing something, she wants me to text back within 10 mins. I know keep getting in touch is the key to maintain our long distance relationship but occasionally i think it s too often. any tips for us?

i send him nakeds, but i dont show the face so he dont know it is me. he says he dont want a relationship just online sex so its not a problem.

just curious

Ok so sometimes me and my bf hang out with his cousin Victor and Victor's gf Sarah. Well, there's times when Sarah tells me something and then I start talking to her but then she'll start scrolling on her phone or she'll just totally trail off and start listening to what my bf and Victor are talking about and she'll look their way while I'm still talking to her. And I'll finish what I'm saying and I wait for her response but she's just focused on what they're talking about. Why does she do this? It's like I can't talk to her or else I'll just be talking to myself...it's frustrating. Why would a person do that?

He's willing to do whatever she wants to do

I am a male. I have a girlfriend and I can only get hard/turned on when I'm with her. Porn doesn't feel the same, have the same effect, or effect me at all anymore. Only my girl can make me feel that good. What does this mean? Am I asexual besides for her? I don't know help?

Whats better 8 inches or just average 5.5 inches long? I figure one has to be better, and considering that 8 inches stimulates more it should be better? Then that means bigger is better? Yes too big exists, but that isnt likely.

He's older but I find him attractive(I prefer older men over my immature peers). Anyways I'm 16, and he's my current teacher. When he's teaching class he always tries to avoid eye contact but when he accidentally looks at me he loses his train of thought and stares and starts to stammer. There was one time he looked at me and stammered badly and a couple kids looked back at me(I sit in the back). When we have work time, he always stares at me when he thinks I'm not paying attention to him(it's kinda hot). And when I have a question after class he always stammers when talking to me. I've literally caught him staring at my *** a couple of times. And when I bite my lip he can't help but stare. He only stammers and gets nervous around me. In the hallways he'll be staring at me and then when I look he looks away and continues walking and stares at the ground and avoids eye contact. I think he might know I like him too as I sneak glances at him and sometimes smile. He's also a pretty strict teacher, and many students hate him, but when I was talking to him about missing assignments I got a little angry and distressed and instead of being rude he tries to comfort me and calm me down and his eyes seem so caring. Basically my question is if he likes me. I know he has a wife, but he still acts like he wants me. Many people think I'm attractive but I have such low self esteem that I don't get it. I'm not planning on sleeping with him, I just am curious on what you guys think.

Don't get me wrong, I could care less if I am weird or what other people think of me. I used to let that affect me, but no longer. Anyways, I am 17 years old getting ready to graduate high school this Sunday (yay!), I do not have my drivers license but I am planning on getting it this June. Now for the actual question. At dinner today, my parents told me that they would help me out and buy my first truck for my birth day (June 3rd). Honestly I wasn't really too excited. Usually I would figure a typical teen would be thrilled for their parents to buy them a vehicle, but for some reason I wasn't. I guess all my life I always thought of saving up every penny I earn and going out and buying a car myself. I just feel kind of weird, I flat out told my father I am not interested in having a vehicle purchased for me, which surprised him. At the end he said take a day or two and think about it. *Note* They will just be buying the vehicle, I will still be paying insurance, fuel and repairs. I just feel kind of odd for not getting excited, am I weird? I guess in the end, I don't want people to know me for being "mommy/daddy sponsored" for my first vehicle

You're both in mid 20s and almost done with grad school. So, I did have fun yesterday. But, I'm not really sure what your intentions were behind it & what your intentions are behind the two of us meeting up again. I'm not trying to make things uncomfortable for you. But, it's something that I think we need to shed some light on especially since we are both at an age and a stages in life where I think we should be able to be know what exactly the intent of the two of us meeting up alone and continuing to do so

I'm African American and 15, and my girlfriend is white and 15. I don't intend this to be a racist thread, just a simple question for help. As said before, I'm black, and my girlfriend is white, and her dad dislikes black people. I'm a nice guy and all, but I don't want him to dislike me spot on as I really like the girl I'm with. The mom isn't a racist as I'm sure of that. But how should I help to have a good relationship with her dad ever though I'm AFRICAN American? This is not a troll post, it's a honest question that I need help with. Please no racist comments, thanks. Also, after watching "Get Out" I'm paranoid honestly (not a joke, seriously).

Long story short, my Fiance & his ex were together 3 years & had 1 child together. She got knocked up by another man so they divorced. I have been with my fiance for 5 years now & his ex has been HELL to deal with, unfortunately she has to be in the picture because of their son. She has slandered me online, filed false accusations w/ child services, told my in laws lies about me so they would side w/ her, brainwashed their child to dislike me, & has shown up at my home on several occasions trying to fight me. She has also sent HUNDREDS of texts over the years insulting me from my looks, to the way I parent my own child. She is not capable of co-parenting peacefully. My Fiance has full custody because she was deemed unfit, but she still sees their son once a week. Anyways...She blocked me a month ago after she lied to us about something major, but she posted the truth on her fb..So after being called out on it, she blocked me. Then she would unblock me to snoop on my profile, then reblock me..but because I was never sure when she unblocked me, I couldn't block her instead, so this cycle continued. However, today I got a request that" ____ (her name) has poked you." Which meant she unblocked me again to look at my profile. Her & I cannot stand each other so I'm not sure WHY she did this. Anyone have any ideas? She's 37 so she's too old to be playing games like this, & she is a sociopath w/ no conscious so I doubt she did this to extend an "olive branch" so to speak.