So my fiance and I got back together recently and I just started working two jobs and I'm always busy and we haven't really hung out all week. I however do have the Saturday night off. I initially asked some of my friends to go out for drinks and one of them said I'm not being fair to my fiance because we don't spend much time together. She thinks its weird that I don't always want to spend time with him and suggested that I should stay the night with him or spend time with him as much time as i get I don't know i feel after our breakup things aren't the same and i just have to readjust getting back together. But is she right? Should i spend time with him? I don't feel the need to. I love him but i don't feel the need to hangout or text him as much i used to. Things just feel different :/ Is this normal? Please if you answer please leave details on your reasoning. I want to hear your input

are they taught to be dependent on their sons forever like they are children!!??? muslim men are SICK to me,because they spend more time with their mom than their wives... they don't grow up? they remain children??? its unhealthy and sick in American culture to do this. their moms need somewhere to GO and not hang around a new/young marriage and ruin it.. gross.their men never learn to be husbands!!!!

Do you think back 30 years to men you have wanted or is it young men you see now? I think of men I wanted at college thirty years ago!

They are not all on at once btw. We are also on a fixed income. I try to talk to him about it and he gets defensive. If I don't make the bed and turn everything off for him we get into a fight. He does this when he is the last to leave the bedroom or goes to take a nap and I have been putting up with it for 5 years. I am tired of it.

We have mad several but I wonder who else does it?

What's wrong is it because I told him my ex loved it? I thought every guy wanted it?

My husband and I got married two years ago. His mother and stepfather offered to help pay for some of the wedding because my family was it very much involved. It was a very nice wedding very small and very personal. Having a grand total of MAYBE $1200. Which I must add I was very thankful for, in no way am I ignoring the fact that they helped us with that when they didn't have to. Now my husband's younger stepbrother is getting married to a girl he's barely been with, and my husband's mother and stepfather are cashing out for the wedding. The wedding will have a budget of around 20 grand. Again I loved my wedding I think it was great and it was the happiest day of my life, but I can't get over this jealousy. My husband's mother is constantly talking about how she is so excited that Ashley is joining the family. I just feel like the same excitement wasn't given to me. I'm not saying I don't like Ashley because I do, i'm not saying I wish they gave us more. I simply don't understand why I'm so jealous, because I loved my wedding, but deep down inside I just can't get over the jealousy. Someone please help me try and work through this or explain to me how I can feel little bit better about this

The poor guy is her ex that made her believe he was a millionaire. She has a very good job and is highly educated

It's usually the guy, but sometimes it's the woman, who keep putting off the idea of getting married. They keep saying "soon" , and then years go by and they keep saying "soon". What exactly are they waiting for? I don't understand these couples. Are they just too scared to tell their girlfriend/boyfriend they never want to get married to them and keep putting it off until the relationship implodes?

How was it? How did it feel? Did she enjoy it? :)

I noticed when I go to his friends list, which I can only see his mutual friends, his wife is not on there. And vice versa.

She snatched it off me and was so mad she said 'keep out of my old stuff it's non of your business!' And started crying Whsts this all about? I thought she was done with him it hurt me to think she secretly watches this.

Never been to one, and I do get hard if I see a nice chick but she doesn't know that, is this a test?

It's been three weeks now and we are an every night couple. she say she just not in the mood but yesterday I heard her laughing on the phone I walked in the room and she diconected immediately and just said 'What?' I asked who that was she said 'just a colleague'

It's chalk and cheese I had one who was married to a colleague he kept moaning she never wanted sex wouldn't do this wouldn't do that yet with me she was the wildest or I ever had? Had a few over the years. Think it's a release of pent up feelings and frustrations, which was nice to free them of.

You want Mr Right right ? He does exist But why on Earth would Mr Right want to be with you what do you have that makes you special ? What do you have that makes you think that you deserve to be with Mr Right ? to marry and have kids with Mr Right ? Mr Right has a lot of women to choose from what makes you stand out from all the other women in his life what do you have that will make him choose you over all the other girls who want him too ?

So me and my girlfriend have been together for 2 months and 2 days now. I know to some people this is crazy but I really think about proposing. I need opinions because i know it s it s big deal and even she says she could see us together. I have never felt this way about a person before. I am 22 years old which yea... is young but my parents got married in Miami 2 weeks after knowing each other and have been married for 20 something years now. My dad was my age. What they did though is got married right away, if I proposed We would be engaged for a good bit ( sometime next year ) so she can graduate college and i graduate next semester. this isnt something id I because I understand it s it s big commitment but I have that feeling she s th one... can someone please help me ?

I love my husband I really do. We have overcome a lot but at the end of the day I think he has a lot of regret because I can no longer have children and already have 3 from before. He brings it up from time to time and it seem like I thought he wasn't worthy for children etc but I knew I didn't want anymore. When we were dating he knew that I couldn't I made it very clear and he was fine with it and he has been with my youngest son since 6 months old and he's now 2 so he sees him as a father figure but I feel for him it's not good enough. Idk I worry that maybe he was desperate for love he overlooked my flaw and now he brings it up every now and then and gets mean about it. Idk??

Been married 6 yrs, husband and i have had alot of problems. Anyway, went back to my home town for a few weeks to let our kids visit with my family. I ran into an old friend (good friend) we chatted via text and decided to hangout. He picked me up and we went to the park, after talking somehow we both ended up in the back seat. We started having sex and after about 10 min he pulled out ( says the condom broke but im not sure he wore one) and he finished on the backseat (alittle got on me) well my period is kind of late and im worried now. Should i tell my husband or if im not just keep it to myself. I am sorry and remorseful

Hi. So as the title says it,I have gained weight during the last few years and as a result my husband hasn't been interested in sex for the last year and this makes me so sad because I am not the typical wife who considers sex a favor that she is doing to her husband....I am different,I really love having sex with my husband. He is a very hardworker, honest and fit man. I know he is not cheating on me, he is a very moral man, for starters he was a virgin until marriage and additionally hates porn...He is always at home right after work... and when he is at home he never touches his phone or laptop ...so I know he is not cheating... Unfortunately I have a weakness for food and that's why I have gained weight... I really miss having sex with my husband . What should I do? Please give me helpful advice...please don't insult my husband... I have noticed that when a woman asks a question about her husband on Yahoo answers she is likely to receive answers where strangers throw insults at her husband. Thank you for your time.

I know this is far away...but I m upset and needed clarity. My ex and I have an 8 year old. In our agreement, it says the parent who has the holiday keeps the holiday - but the other parent may exercise 30 minutes of time for a short visit. My ex has majority custody (that s another long story) and he usually gets holidays. I ALWAYS exercise my 30 minutes. My ex is now married and has two kids with his wife. The kids are 2 and 4. For some reason, I brought up how I m glad that I ll have Halloween this year and he ll finally have to come to my neighborhood (we live about 20 minutes apart). Ex replied that he ll probably skip the 30 minute visit on Halloween and stay in his neighborhood. He said he ll just pick up son later that night (I get one evening during the school week on Tuesdays from after school to 8 p.m.) I asked ex why he s not going to be there on Halloween. Ex replied that he s not going to drag "the babies" around on Halloween. Ex said he didn t want to miss them going out either because they are little. He said I could come to HIS neighborhood if I wanted. But he wasn t coming to mine. I m angry that I have to work around HIM again for my son to see his Dad for trick or treating. How can I help ex understand how angry this makes me? I started to tell him and he totally blew me off and he said I m just trying to start a flight. Also, if he doesn t exercise his time, can I use it against him in court? I told him that it made me feel like our son wasn't important to him. And he told me that Halloween is more for little kids. Since our son was almost 9 and ex has been at every Halloween with him so far, he said going to stay the younger two if I am going to make him choose. So he's trying to put not seeing our son for trick or treating back on me. I might not be required legally to have son see his Dad, but I am probably going to have to go to his neighborhood. Otherwise, I bet my son will be upset. I can almost promise that he's going to ask to go with his brother and sister (the 4 and 2 year old). He is obsessed with them and talks about them all the time - personally I think It's a little weird. So...if ex doesn't come to me, my son is going to want to go to them. And I lose the holiday that I finally got.

They find texts bad mouthing and trash talking their partner to their friend and complaining to their friend about their partner. They also find their partner being overly friendly (bordering on flirtatious) with their ex. Is the one who shopped still the guilty partner and the person who is in the wrong if they ended up finding bad stuff?

4 years ago i loved my husband more then anything. I did anything for him and hes taken my kindness and abused it. Now im broke, ive been homless twice because of him stealing money im disabled and he spent all my savings hes been cheating on me the whole time even when i was giving birth to our children. He pretended to love me to get my money and someone to abuse and now im stuck with him because of the kids and i hate him so much! Every time i see his face i cry. I wish for something bad to happen so he can feel my pain and what hes done to me. I dont want to hate though. Its jyst when someone is lying and using you then laughs in your face about it its hard to accept.

Hi, Let's say I know a lady who is pretty, 23 y.o, blond and has an associates degree. She got married to a 26 year old guy who's about to become a doctor. He's smart, tall, muscular and women are very overwhelmed by his sexiness. They got married an year ago and loved each other very much. However, in past 6 she noticed changes. He gets loads of texts from a girl and at first, it bothered her a lot. But then she started to think "be thankful you're married to a doctor!" therefore just ignores it Is that weird

my hubby and I haven't been talking at all we got mad at each other and said some pretty hurtful thing to one another. I love him. and want to make things better.we haven't had dinner, and when we go to sleep we give each other our backs. I want to hug him and make him feel loved but im not sure how? I want to be loving. can you guy recommend me some thing I can do to maybe get thru this fight

I have been married to him for 10 months, hes never had me blocked on his phone but for the past 5 months he put a password on it and wont give it to me. His reason is bc I went on his facebook and deleted some woman. The funniest thing about this is that he infact did the same thing to me a month earlier and when I found out I didnt make a big deal about it BC i have my priorities straight and I dont care more about FB friends over my husbands feelings. Well when i did that to him he got so angry and refuses after 5 months to let me have the password to his cell. I find this controlling and i feel like hes playing games. Why is it ok for him to do it and not me? We have had many arguments about it and when he sees me cry hes asks "what can I do to make you happy?" but when I tell him to give me the password he refuses. Is he playing games? I feel like he is and its making me confused about my whole relationship to the point where i dont even know if i want to be married to him anymore of this kind of ****. Side note... he lets me see his phone but refuses to give me the password which makes no sense.

About 14 yrs ago my husband got an OUI.He doesn't drink a lot, but when he does,he gets buzzed quick.Sometimes I think he drives when he shouldn't.It is a BIG problem in our relationship. We have been going to counseling, and he has started to realize he needs to be more responsible. He is away on business.Last night he told me he was going to the hotel bar. We were talking, then his phone went off. No messages were being delivered so I knew it was his battery. After a few hours, I got nervous and called the hotel bar. They said he wasn't there. A few hours later he called me. He said he had fallen asleep and didn't charge his phone. I told him the bar said he wasn't there, he said maybe he had already gone upstairs or maybe he was in the bathroom. He said he was exhausted from traveling and working and as soon as his head hit the pillow he went to sleep. He told me he had some beers at dinner. I am now PARANOID that maybe he actually took out his rental car and went out and was driving after a few. I looked at the police log and there are a few accidents or hit and runs. It says hit and run, no injury. I don't know what to do. He SWEARS to me that he was at the hotel and didn't leave or drive the car. He returned it this morning. However, it was under his bosses name (he had an emergency so my husband brought it back). He also took a video of the car to prove it to be, and it doesn't look like there are any noticeable scratches or dings. What do I do? It was a HUGE city he was in with many counties. Should I be calling and asking if his vehicle was suspected? Or, do I need to let this go and start trusting my husband. I have OCD and a LOT of issues around thinking we have caused harm or hurt people. I do have trust issues with him but he has been better. I am very controlling, so I look at every situation with a fine fine lens. I trust no one. Am I overreacting?

I said that was Chinese but it turns out she's from Vietnam. Which is the good one?

My wife and I have recently gotten married. She is the mother of my two children. I am wondering what are the steps to removing the child support order that we both are under. We did not start off well in our relationship, yet have grown and realize some of our childish ways. We are looking for the process to remove the child support order. I believe we would have to go to court and get a modification or speak to a judge to remove it. Help in this would truly be appreciated.

She wants to have sex 2 times a day and I'm good with having sex 2-3 times a week (occasionally 4). She thinks It means I'm not attracted to her when I turn sex down. I tell her all the time that she's extremely attractive to me but she still has insecurity issues when I turn down sex. Once I "get off" it takes a good 24-48 hours before I'm ready to get off again. The only way I can explain it is that their is a period of time between orgasms that you don't want to get off again. For girls this lasts an hour at most, for guys it lasts a day at least. So girls, it's simple, it just takes longer for a guy's sex drive to recharge than it does for a girl. I explained it to my wife this way but again, she still is having insecurity issues.

I have tried talking to my wife to see if there is anything wrong with me and I have tried different things and it seems like she isn't attracted to me. Doesn't welcome me home or even kiss me, we are newly weds and have been married for 1 year. Any help?

So my ex wife has alerted me to having filed for custody of our son which I currently have full of. Says she received some kind of paperwork to set a court date. On apr29th it is now may25th. How long does it usually take to be served?

Her younger sister has gone thru a lot and I feel so sorry for her. I hugged her to say I was thinking of her and she squeezed my parts and kissed me. She asked me to comfort her so I did. It felt so right and caring because they are sisters

Hello, I promised to never make my issues public but I need advice I know I'm not the only one that has gone through this and I would like some insight from other relationships. A little about my relationship we've known each other for about 11 years we dated for for 7 and been married for 2. I moved to the city where he lives and left everything behind.. family, friends, my life. I was so in love we started our life together.. I find it very hard to keep friends..one of the reasons why I work crazy hours I don't have a steady schedule my work life is all over the place so they just stopped inviting me or talking to me.. and another reason is i feel like I'm constantly reaching out to people no one reaches out to me needless to say I just stopped trying.. with that being said my husband is my best friend I go to him for just about everything.. I have no family here and I tend to lean on him for everything.. He had been very quiet and didn't really want to hang out or talk with me anymore and I finally asked what was wrong? He said the dreaded words " I need space from you" Obviously I'm confused and upset.. I know I'm needy and I have read on how to cope with things like these but they haven't helped.. I'm in a city with no family and hardly any friends I feel alone.. what advice can you guys give? Help please.

Or does the term 'relatives' just apply to those joined to us by blood?

But I know someone who did this but cashed the insurance check and kept the valuables but why do you say my husbands or wife's or other way around's pet's are not mine and get rid of that when that was their best friend but keep them things worth money.

My husband and I have been together for over 7 years now. No kids, I'm supporting him through school. 5 years ago I found porn on our computer and was upset, he said he wouldn't do it again and I trusted him. Fast forward a few years he's growing distant I'm doing everything I can to try harder-change my hair, lose weight, take a stronger interest in the things he likes etc. I tell him he's getting distant and it gets better for maybe a month. He starts telling me he's too tired for sex or we just did the night before. Let me clarify-I am not unattractive. Guys tell me all the time that my husband is a lucky man this includes his friends asking why I settled. He gets time with his guys and I'm never upset if he goes out without me. I had never thought I settled until recently when I found porn again. I was a wreck mostly because he lied for the past 5 years and I was trying so hard to get his attention when all he was focused on was porn. He's not a bad guy and very good to me-sweet, funny, my best friend. When I found this again and said if he couldn't be honest with me I didn't know that I could stay with him he only said he would never do it again. That this would be different because now he knows he could lose me and before he didn't think it was a big deal. My issue is why wasn't I enough to stop in the first place? It had to be about him losing me before he actually considered it. And now I see him in a completely different light. How do you move forward from that?

When I was in the Navy, I know several married E-6's and up that left the clubs and bars with girls every port they went.