Marriage & Divorce: Question: T or f : women force men into marriage and romantic involvement? |
- Question: T or f : women force men into marriage and romantic involvement?
- Question: What's the difference between marriage and misandric slavery?
- Question: I think my wife is cheating on me?
- Question: My girlfriend won't divorce her husband (that she is separated from). Should I stay with her or force her to divorce?
- Question: Do people who get married out of college or in college still get money from their parents?
- Question: How would you describe the most perfect boyfriend/husband?
- Question: How to become financially independent from my parents within 5 years?
- Question: Whats it mean if a guy drives a racecar w/ a female friend,buckles her seatbelt for her& they're so close together?Why didn't he call after?
- Question: I can afford child support help?
- Question: Married women: Be honest now, how many men have you had in the side?
- Question: If you are 34 and married woman and you stop having sex, should you use sex toys or will you be fine. My husband said women go crazy.?
- Question: Is to old to have a baby at age 32-34? How late is too late to be a mom?
- Question: Can having kids ruin a marriage?
- Question: How often do people married the person they dated in high school?
- Question: How to divorce my wife to get her inheritance money.?
- Question: Where online can I get uncontested divorce form to print and complete to submit to the courts for South Carolina?
- Question: Tips/advice about getting and STAYING organized with everyday household things? UGH!?
- Question: What should I call my stuff Grandpa s new wife?
- Question: Is it rude for people to ask how your ex husband is doing?
- Question: Ever get rejected for being ugly/ not attractive enough?
- Question: I was mean to my wife for a few months and now she s leaving me. I feel so bad and I hate myself right now. How can I save my marriage?
- Question: If you were once married to a mama's boy, what happened to him later in life after divorce?
- Question: Does your partner masturbate and do you know about or watch?
- Question: What was the hardest part of your divorce besides you children?
- Question: If a man changes his last name after a marriage does it then become invalid?
- Question: If an unmarried or widowed woman with kids re-marries and her new husband adopts the kids, why can't the kids keep their mom's mame?
- Question: Which factors should be considered before committing to marriage?
- Question: Is it legally-unallowed for a married couple (male and female) to have the wife's name become their surname?
- Question: My Fiance's Ex Wife who HATES me, just "poked" me on facebook. Why?
- Question: Long distance relationship problems please give me advice?
- Question: How to convince my husband not to try to be a "hero" for our sons team?
- Question: Why would my wife feel like I gave her a prank gift for Mother's Day?
- Question: What's it mean if a guy texts you the same day as the first date to say he had fun. You text him 2 days later and he's answering?
- Question: Is having the intention to cheat?
- Question: If your wife goes from attractive to extremely fat, is this a justifiable reason to leave her?
- Question: My wife always accuses me of cheating...Why?
- Question: How to proceed in divorce settlement without a lawyer; and husband is too cheap?
- Question: Is it weird to have a pic of my ex husband and our son on my phone?
- Question: Does guilt last forever?
- Question: Men: why do you do this when you marry?
- Question: How to continue to be intimate with wife after kids? My wife is in great spirits when we have alone time and we end up getting intimate?
- Question: Why does my wife complain about EVERYTHING?
- Question: Is it normal to fantasize about being in love even tho I'm married?
- Question: How do I not care if my husband cheats on me?
- Question: Help on handling this situation please- MIL issues. Way more than I could fit in the box!?
- Question: Should I leave or stay?
- Question: Roommates with children.?
- Question: Would you do a long distance relationship if it was over 27 hours away?
| Question: T or f : women force men into marriage and romantic involvement? Posted: 15 May 2017 09:33 PM PDT |
| Question: What's the difference between marriage and misandric slavery? Posted: 15 May 2017 09:22 PM PDT |
| Question: I think my wife is cheating on me? Posted: 15 May 2017 09:12 PM PDT I got home from work one morning and found someone with my wife I asked about him and she said he was a window cleaner but she looked nervous I didn't think much of it until I noticed he didn't have any cleaning supplies I asked him about it and he told me my wife said he could use ours I thought it was weird but ignored it then a few days ago I called to my wife after work twice and she never answered I haven't approached her about it but i'm afraid our marriage is a sham and she's cheating with that "window cleaner" what should I do?? |
| Posted: 15 May 2017 08:58 PM PDT We don't live together, but she is at my place all the time, and has talked about moving in together. We've been dating for 3 months and I like her, but i think she should move on from her ex before we can be really serious. |
| Question: Do people who get married out of college or in college still get money from their parents? Posted: 15 May 2017 08:37 PM PDT Meaning what is generally expected? Are they financially independent from their parents or are their parents still paying for lots even though they are married? |
| Question: How would you describe the most perfect boyfriend/husband? Posted: 15 May 2017 08:25 PM PDT Not physically but emotionally. |
| Question: How to become financially independent from my parents within 5 years? Posted: 15 May 2017 08:25 PM PDT I am a freshman in college and would like to get married out of college. But if I were to get married, I need to be able to financially support myself so that me and my husband are able to live without extra help from the parents. How is this possible? Any tips, stories, tricks, anything, is greatly appreciated! |
| Posted: 15 May 2017 08:06 PM PDT He's willing to do whatever she wants to do and pays for her stuff during the time that they met up. Both in mid 20s |
| Question: I can afford child support help? Posted: 15 May 2017 07:58 PM PDT i recently got laid off. and i have 2 kids with different women. how am i suppose to pay child support if i got laid off? |
| Question: Married women: Be honest now, how many men have you had in the side? Posted: 15 May 2017 07:53 PM PDT Please no dried up prudes answer |
| Posted: 15 May 2017 07:53 PM PDT without sex do women go crazy? I mean now that not doing with husband can fantasize with anyone they want to |
| Question: Is to old to have a baby at age 32-34? How late is too late to be a mom? Posted: 15 May 2017 06:44 PM PDT I want to get married at 30,I am 23 years old. |
| Question: Can having kids ruin a marriage? Posted: 15 May 2017 06:32 PM PDT |
| Question: How often do people married the person they dated in high school? Posted: 15 May 2017 06:22 PM PDT |
| Question: How to divorce my wife to get her inheritance money.? Posted: 15 May 2017 06:17 PM PDT So a couple of weeks ago, my wife's mother died of a heart attack. She was crying, but I was so happy. She was such a a**hole to me and always showed up uninvited. After the funeral, we started going through her assets. When we checked her insurance, we saw that she had taken out a two million dollar policy on herself. Since her husband died about five years ago and my wife was an only child, she was the sole heir. When she told me that we are going to save all of it for retirement, I was pissed. I want to spend that money on myself. I deserve half since I am the husband. I am trying to think of ways to cause problems in our marriage to get her to divorce me. The spark started to go down and I stopped caring for her. We married about 2 years ago and have no kids. I need a killer way to end this before she spends a dime. Any suggestions? |
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| Question: Tips/advice about getting and STAYING organized with everyday household things? UGH!? Posted: 15 May 2017 05:54 PM PDT I am a married woman, I don't have kids but I do have a husband who acts like a toddler at home and we have a roommate who is also a slob. Then we have birds that are extremely messy and time-consuming. I am going insane trying to work two jobs and maintain the household. The guys help when I ask, but they will not do anything on their own. It drives me nuts!! Anyways, are there any tips anyone could share about getting and staying organized? For example... is there anything you do that helps organize your tupperware, or socks, or ANYTHING lol |
| Question: What should I call my stuff Grandpa s new wife? Posted: 15 May 2017 05:44 PM PDT My step grandparents divorced and one of them married someone knew what should I call my step grandpa s new wife |
| Question: Is it rude for people to ask how your ex husband is doing? Posted: 15 May 2017 05:22 PM PDT I'm divorced and sometimes people ask him how he is doing. My ex husband and I only talk once a blue moon. |
| Question: Ever get rejected for being ugly/ not attractive enough? Posted: 15 May 2017 05:18 PM PDT I was rejected by a man who was rich and I guess really good looking..He was athletic as well. I am fit too but I guess my face isn't that pretty like some supermodel or some other girls. I've never been miss popular and boys never chased after me. Oh well. I hope he enjoys his modelesque pretty gorgeous stunning girlfriends. Hope they offer him more than a normal girl like me can. That's what he wanted after all. |
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| Question: Does your partner masturbate and do you know about or watch? Posted: 15 May 2017 04:09 PM PDT I watch my husband and he really gets off watching me but my GF finds it odd she thinks her husband doesn't (they all do I told her) and she does it secretly and thinks he doesn't know. |
| Question: What was the hardest part of your divorce besides you children? Posted: 15 May 2017 04:07 PM PDT I am getting divorced and I have no children and there were no affairs. I was just wander what others went though |
| Question: If a man changes his last name after a marriage does it then become invalid? Posted: 15 May 2017 03:37 PM PDT |
| Posted: 15 May 2017 03:10 PM PDT I heard that when a woman with kids re-marries and her new husband legally adopts the kids, the kids will then have the surname of their step-dad. It means that the kids won't any longer have their mother's last name except maybe hyphenated. However if the wife does not have to take her husbands name, why would the children? Also in reverse manner, if a woman marries a man with kids,and the woman adopts the man's kids why can't the kids last names be that of their step mother? |
| Question: Which factors should be considered before committing to marriage? Posted: 15 May 2017 02:34 PM PDT Which things are important for living happily together? |
| Posted: 15 May 2017 02:19 PM PDT Laws changed only a few decades ago and a woman did not have to any longer take her husband's name after marriage. The wife could legally either keep her own name or choose to take her husband's name. But what if the couple choose to have the wife's name be the surname? Is that allowed? If not, why ? |
| Question: My Fiance's Ex Wife who HATES me, just "poked" me on facebook. Why? Posted: 15 May 2017 02:07 PM PDT Long story short, my Fiance & his ex were together 3 years & had 1 child together. She got knocked up by another man so they divorced. I have been with my fiance for 5 years now & his ex has been HELL to deal with, unfortunately she has to be in the picture because of their son. She has slandered me online, filed false accusations w/ child services, told my in laws lies about me so they would side w/ her, brainwashed their child to dislike me, & has shown up at my home on several occasions trying to fight me. She has also sent HUNDREDS of texts over the years insulting me from my looks, to the way I parent my own child. She is not capable of co-parenting peacefully. My Fiance has full custody because she was deemed unfit, but she still sees their son once a week. Anyways...She blocked me a month ago after she lied to us about something major, but she posted the truth on her fb..So after being called out on it, she blocked me. Then she would unblock me to snoop on my profile, then reblock me..but because I was never sure when she unblocked me, I couldn't block her instead, so this cycle continued. However, today I got a request that" ____ (her name) has poked you." Which meant she unblocked me again to look at my profile. Her & I cannot stand each other so I'm not sure WHY she did this. Anyone have any ideas? She's 37 so she's too old to be playing games like this, & she is a sociopath w/ no conscious so I doubt she did this to extend an "olive branch" so to speak. |
| Question: Long distance relationship problems please give me advice? Posted: 15 May 2017 01:57 PM PDT Im 20 and my husband is in the millitary i got married to him because i thought that it would keep us from being apart we didnt have a special wedding because he didnt want one and i wasnt happy but i got over it and now we have been married for 9 months and he lives in another country and i dont mean to not be supportive but im just not happy he doesnt kno when i will be able to move with him and im tired of putting my life on hold he sends me money and he helps finacially and we talk on the phone but its just not enough to keep me happy i started school and im more focused on myself and i dont want to be married anymore am i being selfish and am i wrong for feeling how i feel |
| Question: How to convince my husband not to try to be a "hero" for our sons team? Posted: 15 May 2017 01:46 PM PDT My husband recently applied for the job of our sons little league baseball team, but they hired another dad for the job instead. He even tried to volunteer as an assistant but the other guy had his own professional coaching staff that he brought along with him. So my husband made an offer to the team, trying to gain support and respect from them. He told them that if they collectively raised $20 for the booster club, he would give three of the best pitchers on the team a clean shot to nail him with a baseball as hard as they possibly can. He already promised he would be wearing no padding, and no cup. Rumor has it that one of the kids wants to exploit this and unload on his groin. He didn't think they were capable of raising such a large amount of money, but doesn't want to wussy out and look like even more of a failure in front of all the kids. I feels bad for him. What should I tell him? |
| Question: Why would my wife feel like I gave her a prank gift for Mother's Day? Posted: 15 May 2017 01:29 PM PDT I stopped this weekend and got my wife a very nice mother's day card that said "Mom" on the cover and have a beautiful pop up flower on the inside. When she opened it she looked puzzled and questioned me about it. Her problem was this. "This card said "Happy Mother's Day Mom! I'm your wife." The issue is this. She had kids from her first marriage and I have a daughter from a previous relationship but we don't have kids together. She's upset because the card said mom instead of wife. I told her that it's mother's day not wife's day. And when I said we don't have any kids together she seemed that much more upset. Then she said, "well, last year's card said wife and you signed it Love (insert name)." Really, you are going to remember what last year's card said AND how I signed it and compared it to this year's card? I told her that had she gotten me a card for father's day and it said "DAD" I wouldn't be upset because I'm a dad and it is father's day. Was she just being picky ? |
| Posted: 15 May 2017 01:02 PM PDT But he doesn't really carry on the convo. He does make jokes in it. You were friends before. He mentioned during the date stuff he wants to do in the future, but isn't actually setting the date ... |
| Question: Is having the intention to cheat? Posted: 15 May 2017 12:40 PM PDT just as bad as cheating itself? -Would you forgive spouse for attempting to cheat w/o doing it because they got caught (not because they decided they didn't want to)? Would you forgive if they actually cheated? |
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| Question: My wife always accuses me of cheating...Why? Posted: 15 May 2017 12:29 PM PDT My wife and I have been together for 5 years (married 3 1/2 of them). Anyways, we have had alot of problems. We have separated numerous times, but somehow we always get back together. Anyways, things never seem to change. Although, promises are made things always seem to go somewhat back to the way they were. But, the thing that always stays constant is the fact that my wife always accuses me of cheating. If I listen to her, then I will have been sexually active with half of the State of Texas by now. Here's the deal; I haven't cheated nor am I cheating now! I realize that the way we met has something to do with it, because she was married and I had a girlfriend when we hooked up. I left my girlfriend for her and she divorced her husband for me. So, I know she may have some reason to be distrusting, but I have been with her for 5 years married for 3 1/2 and I have been faithful to her. So, why does she keep insisting that I am cheating? I even give her proof that I'm not cheating with so and so, then she says I am cheating with this person or that person. Each time I dispel or deny cheating she comes with another name of some person I must be cheating with. I am so sick of it! It's to the point that when she accuses me of it that I get angry at her for accusing me of something that I'm not doing. Which only fuels her, because she says that I wouldn't get mad if I truly weren't cheating. How can I convince her and I'm not cheating and why does she always accuse me of cheating? |
| Question: How to proceed in divorce settlement without a lawyer; and husband is too cheap? Posted: 15 May 2017 12:13 PM PDT i cannot afford an attorney for this divorce and my husband is the one who wants the divorce; and he wants to do without a lawyer. so i am trapped and afraid i will not get what i deserve. we have been married for 21 years. any tips, ideas, compromises. thank you |
| Question: Is it weird to have a pic of my ex husband and our son on my phone? Posted: 15 May 2017 11:31 AM PDT Is it weird if I have a photo of my ex husband and our son on my phone in my picture gallery. I am asking this because I recently remarried and my husband has been more of a presence on my sons life than his father (my ex husband). I still think its cute when they play together and that is why I have pics of them on my phone. Is this wrong or weird since I am remarried now? |
| Question: Does guilt last forever? Posted: 15 May 2017 09:26 AM PDT I have been on this message board for 7 years. Time and time again with each question asked, I've received such horrible answers from people telling me how worthless of a human being I am for taking part of infidelity in my "long-term" relationship. I've turned my life around so much these past 5-6 and I believe I have worked hard on making our relationship grow stronger and more meaningful. "Once a cheater, always a cheater" isn't so! I have been faithful and conscience of all my life decisions. Yet, I am still fighting mental demons. I am constantly being haunted of my mistakes and it reflects on to my real life. He recently mentioned "things have been too good that you must have been unfaithful". Assumptions that aren't true. Friends will ask him, "what's the hold up, put a ring on it" and he says "You've got to ask her but she isn't getting no ring soon." He made that remark because he does not want to spill all my dirty laundry, I told him why, couldn't you just say "you're not ready"? Crying on inside but forcefully trying not to show it because "in the past" he had said that I do not deserve to cry. I cry because I feel, I'll never have the home, family or husband that I feel I deserve to have now. Will counseling make this/me any better? I'm in it for the long haul as its 12 years soon. I'm not a hateful or mean, person. I am the opposite patiently waiting his romantic decisions to show me happiness other than requesting me to "love him & rub him" |
| Question: Men: why do you do this when you marry? Posted: 15 May 2017 08:40 AM PDT I was with a guy for five years. I absolutely adored him. We never fought, had a mutual respect for one another, and enjoyed each other's company. I did everything for him - helped him pay down his debts (not with my money, but assisted him with formulating a plan that worked well for him), helped him buy a plot for his mother who died after a long illness. We cried together, laughed together, shared a lot of memories with each other. But I had to walk away because he didn't want to marry. I was upset, but we just were not on the same page. I found out last week he married a woman after only dating for six months. I really felt like it was a slap in the face after I worked so hard to build a life with this man. Why do guys marry the next girl? :( |
| Posted: 15 May 2017 07:57 AM PDT However we don't have many baby sitter options. We say we need to have a date night once a month, but it rarely happens. Her mom watches our kids while we are at work and my mom and dad rarely have time. We were recently away and the spark def came back. Now we return and need to be parents again I still want to have that spark. Any suggestions? |
| Question: Why does my wife complain about EVERYTHING? Posted: 15 May 2017 06:44 AM PDT i am a retired u.s. army medic and a stay at home dad. i have 3 kids. 16 y.o. daughter, 11y.o. son, 7 y.o. son. i do all of the laundry and most of the the cooking. i seem to be "walking the line" for my wife. i don't drink, smoke, gamble, swear, abuse anyone, cheat on her or even look at porn. we've been married for almost 18 years and she complains all the time. "who used the last of the toilet paper and didn't replace the roll?" "why are there any clean towels in the downstairs bathroom?" "whose cup is this on the counter?" "who ate the last cracker and didn't throw away the wrapper?" stuff like that. i sometimes say "yes, dear" and fix whatever is wrong, but she still finds things to complain about. |
| Question: Is it normal to fantasize about being in love even tho I'm married? Posted: 15 May 2017 05:48 AM PDT In my feelings this morning I guess. |
| Question: How do I not care if my husband cheats on me? Posted: 15 May 2017 05:26 AM PDT Physical intimacy isn't the same as love. Many people these days have flings for the thrill but there is no emotional connection. I will find men more attractive than my husband and vice versa. How do I not care or keep my frustration to minimum? Wherever I go I admit I see beautiful women and I couldn't help but look for a few minutes. If I caught my husband looking at another woman, how do I agree with him that she is beautiful instead of writhing with jealousy? |
| Question: Help on handling this situation please- MIL issues. Way more than I could fit in the box!? Posted: 15 May 2017 04:50 AM PDT Husband (H) and I married in Nov 2016. We have been living together for 3 years and were engaged for 1 year. My relationship with MIL has been really good, respectful and enjoyable. H is from NZ and his family resides there while we both live in Australia. I had a Hens in Aus and most of his family couldn't attend, so MIL asked for a second hens the night before the wedding, which I agreed to. I confirmed with her and invited my side of the guests as per agreement. 30 mins before it was supposed to start MIL cancelled it because she was tired. I told her this would make guests feel unwelcome and created segregation. She said she was tired and that was it and drove away. I had to find food for 25 people in a town where most of the shops had closed and there was no take away. On the wedding day she told H that his sister will never forgive him and told me she had issues with me. She was seen pulling faces during speeches when my name was mentioned. Told me I was rude for asking her friends to leave the bridal room so I may put my dress on (15 people in a small room), ignored my family the entire weekend, told me I was responsible for changing her son (he has been in therapy to be more assertive). Now withholding $100K wedding gift, and got Sister in Law to threaten to un-invite H to her wedding until H and I apologise for everything we did (what she did) and start talking to her again (therapist suggested we ignore her for not listening and being aggressive). Help on handling a Monster in Law. There are way more issues than I could fit in the box. Just putting it out there, I actually do not want the money. H does. He feels giving it to his sisters and not him shows favouritism and the conditions show that they did not really love him. |
| Question: Should I leave or stay? Posted: 15 May 2017 02:46 AM PDT For the last 20 years of being married, i have stumbled upon many truths about my husband, when confronted he admits. i have forgiven him for lying and moved forward. We both come from backgrounds where we were sexually abused. In my 20's i dealt with my issues and i am a happy, loving person. My husband has no friends, he is very closed up, has been like that for most of our relationship. I am currently on treatment for cancer so i have been at home for the past 5 months. over the past 20 years, he has been looking at escort agencies and porn sites. When i confront him he just says sorry, this weekend when i thought all this was over, i used his phone and saw he is at it again. this time his response was I am a messed up person, i am trying to work out my darkness. he is currently seeing a physcolgist. I am so torn up about this, why look at an escort or porn site and call the woman on the phone if you not interested in what they offering. Am i just such a doormat to have accepted the sorrys, i dont feel very forgiving and feel so betrayed, dont know if i should walk away or hope he can fix himself, the lying is just so painful to deal with. |
| Question: Roommates with children.? Posted: 15 May 2017 12:51 AM PDT So after I got married a year ago we ended up moving for a job my husband needed to move up in his company and I m finishing school here and after those are done we want/plan to move back closer to home. Mean while we ve been looking into some cheaper places to live. Not too long ago hubby brought up the idea of one of our single friends we know well was coming to live for a job as well here. They had the idea of renting a house and we all living in it to help expenses and save. Well about a week ago the friend calls and says he met a girl and she wants to come with him. That s great I m happy for him, living with another couple will have it s challenges, not to mention living with a friend is hard but it s only a year left for my husband and my self. They could afford the place after we leave, great right? Well now all of a sudden the topic came up (to me last) this young woman has 3 young (toddler to first grade) children. She wants to have them live here 2 monthes and then back to another state for 2 and so on. I like kids, i wish to have my own one day but i dont wish to live with someone elses children. We dont know this girl to begin with, we dont know what kind of parent she is, she doesnt know us. This seems like a horrible idea and both men just think I m being a ***** - neither ever having children or much experience. I ve lived with people with kids before which was not my cup of tea so I saved and moved quick. Am I so wrong for wanting our own marital space? |
| Question: Would you do a long distance relationship if it was over 27 hours away? Posted: 14 May 2017 01:30 PM PDT If you just started a relationship a month ago, and the guy you with already had a long distance job that he accepted before he met you was still taking the position. What would you do? The job he s going to is 27 hours away. |
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