Our 7 year old daughter couldn t sleep last night, and kept getting out of bed, because she couldn t sleep. My husband took her back to bed twice. The third time he gave her a quick spanking. She kept getting back up and not listening. She wasn t being a smart alec, she just kept physically getting out of bed. It got to the point where he was so angry, and spanked her probably 20 times in a row, really hard. Did that twice This morning, she had purple and yellow bruises on her bottom. While I felt like he might have been doing the right thing last night; this morning I was really appalled at what he did. I feel like this is on the verge of abuse if it s leaving marks. Could my husband be charged for this?

House is appraised on 100.000 , I give my wife 50.000, and divorce is over, next year if I sell this same house for 180.000 did I need to split with my ife if she asking difference on court??,

So I'm 27 he's 32 but we still live with our parents . His mom don't like me (long story) and now I'm not allowed at his house . It's sad really as it's Saturday night and he has to go his way and I go mines . We don't have enough money to move out . I'm sitting alone in my room sad to be in this predicament. What can I do ? He's not allowed either at my house , my parents don't like him neither .

I found my dads phone, he's having a affair. Her names Sue but he has her under a boys name. I dont want to tell my mum she will get depressed but i am only 13 and if i confront my dad he'll rush to his phone delete the messages and deny it. I have tried taking photos from phone but the letters to blury. My mum and dad seem to be ion love so much but i dont want them to split up. What do i doo!!

A husband dies and leaves behind a wife and their 2 children, but he also had a child from before he married his wife. Does the wife and her 2 children's social security death benefits from her husband decrease if the mother of the one previous child also file?

I know I made the right choice but sometimes I think about it. I dated my husband for 6 years but we had 7 month break up. I met a man who treated me awesome. He would have married me, had my husband (ex boyfriend at the time) not come back and proposed. This guy was a lot older, had two kids, and was in the middle of a nasty divorce. I chose not to be with him because I have no kids, had never been married, and his wife is a lunatic. She used to stalk him shamelessly, or lurk around my work place, call me at home pretending to be someone else, etc. His youngest son was another issue...he thought it was wrong his dad would date another woman until the divorce had gone through and wanted nothing to do with me. He moved on and found a new girlfriend. His ex wife stalked them, too, and finally caught them together (which wasn't really 'caught' since they were in the middle of divorce proceedings). Since then, she's left him alone, and, been diagnosed with leukemia. So obviously there is no more harassment. And his son recently met the girlfriend, and has accepted her. I just find the timing weird but can't help but think it was meant to be. Do you ever wonder what things would be like if you'd made a different choice? Do you still think about a particular someone?

My husbands a sweet guy. He's a typical guy. Has a high sex drive, stops when I tell him to, he's understanding and amazing. The problem is well he was my first. Our first time was okay. He was good and understanding. It's just that when we are having sex I just feel like a piece of meat to him. I'm just not use to it still I guess. After we have sex and during I feel sore, humiliated and embarrassed. I don't know why

My wife caught me messing with her products. Long story short, I really like the smell of Tapatio sauce and would looove for my wife to smell like it. I knew she wouldn't wear the sauce for me if I told her cause she can be super narrow minded and kinda selfish sometimes.(she's a great person though.) Long story short, she caught me rubbing Tapatio on her deodorant. (I figured she could smell like it when she applies it on herself. ) Now she won't talk to me. How can I fix this?

Husband met someone at work who he spent a considerable amount of time with and won't admit that he spent more time with her than with me. She's no longer in the same country as us but there's till regular contact despite it making me uncomfortable. He's told me he's bored and not 'in love' with me but still wants to be married. We've been together 17 years, married 8 years and have two kids. I'm tired of not being important to him when he tells me he would do anything for this person, amongst others, all female.

My wife tells small lies - sometimes I catch them, I'm sure a lot of times I don't. I know she is not cheating on me and wouldn't do something like that, but she often lies when she goes out with her friends. Usually it will be about how much she drank, or what time she got home (we live in separate cities during the work week). I am a suspicious person by nature, and so maybe I'm exaggerating the amount of lying she does...I don't know. It just kills me every time I find out one of her lies. I don't understand why she would lie to me - why? Once, she said that she lies to me so that she doesn't disappoint me, because I put a lot of pressure on her to meet my high expectations. Do other women agree with this? What should I do if this is the case? How do we start building trust again?

I am married to a wonderful man. God has truly blessed me, but as a religious woman, I have only been with him and he has only been with me. I can't help but wonder sometimes what it would be like to be with another man sexually. I, Of course, have religious views against that, but what if? Men: have your wives ever talked to you about having an open marriage at least for a period of time? How did you take it? Have you ever thought about an open marriage but never talked to your wife about it? Women: have you ever thought about an open marriage? Did you talk to your husband about it? How did he take it? Has your husband ever talked to you about an open marriage? What did you say? ***because of my religious beliefs, I will never go through with it. I'm just wondering how many people out there have thought about it and their reaction.

Hello, and thank you for stopping to read my question (and hopefully answer it). I am wondering if I am normal sexually for a female in her young twenties. I am married to my wonderful husband, and we have been together for 4 years now. He makes me immensely happy. He works hard, takes care of me, and would do anything I asked of him. He is extremely emotionally supportive. He is truly amazing, and makes me very happy. That being said, I feel as if I am not normal sexually due to how I perform in the bedroom. I can get myself off easily, and I do often. I even fantasize about him when he is about to get home. Sometimes I'll get super turned on, throw on a cute teddy, and wait for him to get home. The thought of sex turns me on, and the thought of him turns me on. However, sex itself DOES NOT get me off. I love sex. I crave it. It is fun, and feels good. I just can't get off. Help?

We are married with 5 children aged from 15 to 4. I work 2 days a week, Wednesday and Sunday and my husband works Monday to Friday. I don t mind him enjoying himself but over the last month he s been really annoying me! He goes out every Friday and Saturday night. I go to work at 6:30am Sunday, I get home at 12 for an hour and my husband is still in bed hungover. I go back to work and finish at 7:30pm. He s still in bed and expects the 2 older kids to mind the younger ones. On one occasion he didn t even give the kids their dinner which I had cooked and ready. I love my job (I m a nurse) but I feel like I have to hand in my notice because I can t trust my husband. Can anyone give me some constructive advice please, I don t need any judgement I just need some advice on how to deal with this situation.

So my husband will be on a business trip in Santa Fe for our six month anniversary. I want to fly out and surprise him with champagne and roses. Will the hotel give me a key to his room if I am not a registered guest? The hotel room is under his name and credit card, but I can bring my ID (I took his last name) and I always carry photos of him and of our son in my wallet.

Why would my ex of 12 years want me to send her copies of our old marriage certificate from the church we were married in and also a copy of the marriage license? She said she can't find them. I trust her as far as I can throw her. She currently has full custody of our 17 year-old. Anything nefarious possible?

I have a big student loan on my head. I earn decent money but my wife's mom needs to do an eye and knee surgery. I wish I had a lot of money and I don't know what to do now. How shall I resolve this issue.

My husband and I had 11 wonderful years together up until this point. we've been living apart for a whole month, because I said I need space. We are not apart and we are not together either, that's the current situation. We just had a baby and things got tough, we didn't spend as much time together. After everything is said and done, he said he had feelings for her, he was attracted and he was confused, and she played him (she's a known skank in our group, he was dumb and fell for it). After he took some time off he realized he could never ever see himself being with her for the rest of his life like he thought (and was played). He is pleading to come back and he wants his family back. He broke down to me a few times already. One thing that hurt the most is him telling her on a recording that I never question him about anything and that "I'm easy".. during the affair. This made me feel like I'm weak and I'm easy. I re-evaluated our marriage and realized I let him too loose, and was WAY too nice and easy on him. A month ago when all of this happened, I told myself I would never let anyone treat me like that again. But now a month later, he is pleading to come back and I have my 1.5 year old son to think about.I don't know what to do.I want to be strong and not seen as weak. I feel like if I take him back I'll be weak and if I break things off I'll be strong. I'm so hurt and broken by what he did...

I am 51 years old and looking for a wife from any country between the ages of 25 to 45. Is there really a true website to find a wife on?

Okay so we married a year and a half ago and he had this one friend who is gay. I am Christian and I respect n let people be who they want to be but when it comes to being involved around my family it is something I don't accept. I don't also want him near because he only has pictures posted about my husband and himself and says my boo boo here or had a great time with. Also his Facebook cover photo album is only pictures of my husband and him. When we all hangout my husband starts gay playing by grabbing him nipples. The guy is really fat so he got boobs going on. Anyways and before my husband married me I read one of his messages with him and when he found out I was pregnant his suggest to my husband was wear a condom if you see your ex. Also my husband my suicidal for a bit and his friend knew about and never did anything to help him. Clear he isn't a great influence on my husband and every time I ask him to choose his friends wisely because he isn't a good influence he loses it and gets mad like they were dating or something. I feel like my husband is secretly gay. How do I cut that friendship?

A few days ago my spouse and I got into a fight, we exchange words, she kept telling me to shut up, yelled at me for something that was trivial and I swore at her and walked away. She acknowledged that she was just upset for something that had happened at the time but urged me to just let it go, which I didn't find reasonable given the fact that she tells me to shut up regularly which I have explained to her I find disrespectful multiple times. She lost it after I told her I wouldn't back down until she realized how she handled the situation was wrong so she told me to shut the f*** up. I called her a piece of sh*t and she spat in my face. This has never happened before and I realize talking to your spouse or anyone like that is not acceptable behaviour but the issue I am having is not with what was said. I do love her and respect her but I feel spitting in someone's face to be the most disrespectful, insulting and rude thing you could do. Punching me in the face would have been less disrespectful. Am I wrong to think that was she did was too far and completely unacceptable behaviour? She feels no remorse for it, and hasn't even acknowledged it.

...until she corrects her attitude?

My wife had an affiar on me a few weeks ago. She said she was going on a camping trip with her cousin so I told her to enjoy the weekend and I would take care of our 18 month old daughter. Needless to say, she met up with a friend of her cousins and well... you get the idea. I want to forgive her and have been trying to repair our marriage and have been constantly met with her saying things like I don't love you, I don't want to be around you anymore, I wish I had never married you in the first place. I've been trying to keep my head held high about the whole thing and have tried to be supportive because I know she is hurting also. But, she doesn't even feel guilty about it and told me she wasn't sorry for doing it. She has told me that she wants to work it out but wants me to keep out of her life. She don't want to even try to talk to me anymore which I understand that it is painful but she did the worst thing you can do to someone you are married to. Her family and herself keep telling me that it is all my fault that she cheated on me and that I need to suck my emotions up and stand by and let her make up her mind. My mother-in-law yelled at me today and pretty much told me that I need to bury my head under the sand. I'm tired of her family acting like I was the one that had the affair and placing all the blame on me. I'm really tired of my wife saying I pushed her to it. My family keeps telling me that the only reason she is staying with me at the moment is so that I can pay for everything (which I have done since we got married because she refused to pay for any bills.) She also refuses to give this guy up and wants me to just suck it up and let her continue being "friends" with him. I have wanted my marriage to work and God only knows I have truely tried but there comes a point when you just have to draw a line and say enough is enough, you can't even be sympathetic for me or even care about how I feel and I'm done. I can't imagine spending the rest of my life with someone who don't want the same. I need some advice because I have decided to tell her tonight that I'm done and I'm leaving her on Saturday because I need to start to focus on my personal health and not everyone elses. My wife only cares that people view her as the victim even though she is the one who cheated. And I know some of you might think that I must have been a bad husband, and I'm not going to lie I wasn't perfect (nobody is perfect). But I did love her, never hit her, always supported her and her dreams, always came home to her, always gave her anything she needed (including time off from watching th and never slept around on her. So if you have some advice please, let me know. Thank you.

I know a few couples who have gotten married after knowing each other for 4 months, 6 months, 10 months, etc. And in every one of these situations, they have had to deal with strangers telling them that they were getting married too soon and should reconsider, because many couples in their situations get divorced. Oddly enough, it was mostly strangers who didn't even know them who would say these things, and not their own family members. I just think it is so rude to doom someone's marriage to divorce when you don't even know them. And really, from what I've seen, the length of the courtship doesn't have much to do with the success of the marriage. If two people feel that they are ready, who is anyone else to tell them they're bound for divorce? Some of the most disastrous marriages I've seen are people who were together for 3-5 years or more before getting married. And I know several couples who married within less than a year (in some cases, less than 6 months), and are still happy after several years. I really think that for some people, when you know, you know. And who's to say that Couple A who has known each other for 6 months isn't just as ready to get married as Couple B who's been together for 2 years? Different couples get to know each other at different speeds and different depths. My honest opinion is that you shouldn't marry too TOO soon (like not after a week), but I just don't understand the people who say that at 6 months, you're still complete strangers. Maybe that's true for some couples, but others get to know each other on deep levels more quickly. If anything, I would have more hope for the couple who marries after 6 months than the one who marries after 5 years - I would wonder why it took the second couple so long to get married...were they really just unsure and staying with the person until someone better came along, and then just got married because they realized there was no one else and they wanted to hurry up while there was still time to have children? Is there any real reason why people are so critical about short courtships? 50 years ago, it was the NORM for people to get married within less than a year, and the divorce rates were actually lower back then.

Why pay for sex when you can get it for free with your wife?

Okay, I had to make a yahoo account today just for some advice because I don't know what to do. I'm a 27 year old white woman and I'm married to a black man. We been married for 3 years and have one child together. Before him, I never really thought about dating outside my race but he was very sweet, nice and funny to me so I fell in love with him. We became married and things were great for the first 2 years. Starting about 6 months ago, he started to act distant towards me. He rejected me sexually, didn't put a smile on my face like he use to, argued more frequently with me. I knew something was up so I did something I regret to this day. I checked his phone while he was sleep and I found multiple pictures of this black woman and text messages between them confessing their love for one another. She is gorgeous and that made me feel insecure. All of his black friends are with black women so I know he is attracted to them also but I feel like its hard to compete. I'm in shape, 5'4 125 pounds, brunette hair, clear skin. She has a huge *** due to the butt pictures he has stored of her. I'm scared he will leave me for her being that their both black and have more in common then me and him do. He lied and told me when we first met that he didn't like black women because of their attitudes and drama. But now its different. He don't know that I know about his affair. Its been 6 months and i'm tired of this. I want to work things out for our child. What do I do? SERIOUS ANSWERS!

Does this mean she wants to know if I want to watch her **** a bbc? Or was it just dirty talk?

He's in the military, Do some men like to call their wife/girlfriend that as a nickname ? What does it mean ?

My husband and I had 11 wonderful years together up until this point. we've been living apart for a whole month, because I said I need space. We are not apart and we are not together either, that's the current situation. We just had a baby and things got tough, we didn't spend as much time together. After everything is said and done, he said he had feelings for her, he was attracted and he was confused, and she played him (she's a known skank in our group, he was dumb and fell for it). After he took some time off he realized he could never ever see himself being with her for the rest of his life like he thought (and was played). He is pleading to come back and he wants his family back. He broke down to me a few times already. One thing that hurt the most is him telling her on a recording that I never question him about anything and that "I'm easy".. during the affair. This made me feel like I'm weak and I'm easy. I re-evaluated our marriage and realized I let him too loose, and was WAY too nice and easy on him. A month ago when all of this happened, I told myself I would never let anyone treat me like that again. But now a month later, he is pleading to come back and I have my 1.5 year old son to think about.I don't know what to do.I want to be strong and not seen as weak. I feel like if I take him back I'll be weak and if I break things off I'll be strong. I'm so hurt and broken by what he did...