I don't get what the big deal is. Why do you hate them? I feel really bad because they were born in the wrong body. That must be hard for them.

We have been friends for 5 years and he asked for a massage so i gave him one , but we had another friend over , he didnt really care. But my balls and dick were resting on his *** , he got a ***** and i knew because he needed to fix something in his underwear and he was only on that. I then got kinda horny and started rubbing his ***. Our other friend was falling asleep. But my friend was enjoying it and i started getting a ***** but then after a bit more i stopped

She's in 8th grade (very close to HIGH SCHOOL) and she makes stories off of other stories (like fan-fiction, I guess). She likes children cartoons and Sonic and Amy fan-fiction (in which she states, some fan-fics she reads are... kinky). Honestly, I think she's weird (I know I shouldn't be saying this because I'm her BFF and that I should accept her no matter what). I just think that she needs to mature a little bit (like stop watching My Little Pony and stop watching children's shows.) I feel like she hasn't experienced the "real world" and how everything isn't sunshine and rainbows. What are your thoughts?

I'm not exaggerating when I say my friends text me at least 800 messages per day. we have a group chat and we talk so often, and this has been going on for so long, maybe a year or so. ITS SO FRUSTRATING because I feel like I've gotten to the point where I'm bored of talking to them so often and they don't seem bored at all, in fact they seem to talk more and more about useless things every day. i still like them and i don't want to leave the group chat, and i don't want to confront them about it. another thing is that I have serious anxiety about this stuff and I'm afraid that if i stop talking they're going to forget that I'm in the group chat, so i talk just as often as them to make sure it doesn't happen. this might seem really sad but idk what to do??? AND ALSO THEY SKYPE ME EVERY SINGLE MINUTE OF THE DAY. ITS GOTTEN TO THE POINT WHERE ITS ACTUALLY RIDICULOUS. i dont think we went through a week without skyping before, and im just so sick of them and of the entire situation. but theyre like my only friends. help??

Im a dude and for a couple years I had a bestfriend that was a girl. we were such close friends that at the beginning of the year I helped her by her first car. once when I was sick she waited 8 hours when I had foot surgery. but at the end of February she came over to my house because she needed something cleared up. she thought I had lied to her about a personal problem when I not !!!! she was walking out of my home without letting me talk so I slightly help her so she could just listen to my side of the story. eventually I just let her go she message me later that night saying to never speak to her again because I made the biggest mistake by putting my hands on her. she also told me she was abused in her past, we will not screaming we were calm but I guess she took it the wrong way. she blocked me from Facebook, Snapchat and her phone. I wanted her to forgive me so I decided to mail her to handwritten letters with flowers but she contacted police a few days later and the police asked me to leave her alone or I could get in trouble. me and Diana have not spoken to each other since the end of February and I miss her a, do you think she could speak to me one day down the road????? I don't want her to forget me!!!!!

When I was hanging with my friend, my hand touched his crotch and something got hard. He was super embarrassed, but I didn't understand. What got hard?

How should friend react to bad behavior

I'm a 13 year old male with two siblings, 12 and 18. My older sister is currently living in a college dorm since she went to the US for college instead of Canada. She comes home during holidays and summer break. Sure, there's probably natural sibling arguments and snitching when it comes to me and my 12 year old sister. But when it comes to my 12 year old sister and my 18 year old sister.. They argue more about materialistic things and way more in common. They argue about stealing each other's makeup, which guys they think are "hot", and other things. Generally, they hang out more as well. Why do they argue more about these things? I don't really care about celebrity gossips, how my sister met a really hot college guy at a frat party during her freshman year, or what kind of dress my other sister wears to a middle school dance. But they act so dramatic over this stuff! It seems as if they speak a total different language that I don't understand

Let's call her FeeFee. Lol FeeFee and I have been best friends for 10 years. We now live together for a few years. Growing up she was never like this so she has completely changed. Anytime we are around each other she is ALWAYS texting fast back to whoever she talks to. Looking up at me saying what? Ignoring what I say and I never repeat myself twice because she could have listened to me like I would for her. But she always makes it known she wants to be heard but honestly I began ignoring her back, not to be immature but because I have taken her disrespect for so long. I have told her and her excuse is she's a great friend, seeing no problem with it. It's rude and I feel alone when I'm around her. She never hears me and I hear everything she says with active listening. This makes me wish she wasn't my friend. I don't do this to her. She even texts while driving and doesn't put her phone down once, we almost crash every time and I tell her it scares me and to put her phone down. Lasts about one minute. That's just some of the horrible things I'm starting to hate about my "bestfriend." I love her and don't want to lose her but she obviously won't change.. what would you do? She says she values my time even if we aren't talking. But I want to talk when I'm around? I don't get it, she would rather be in her group chat with a bunch of hoes who she's never met that just talk about ways to use people esp men for $$. IM CONFUSED?

So, I have this one guy at school that is my friend. We used to be better friends but then I got a bit mad when he started ditching me quite often so I just stopped talking to him (without an argument or something like that). It went on for a month or two, we just said hello to each other when we met in school and nothing more. Two weeks ago I sent him a message and we started talking a bit and he said he is going to hit me up when he sorts everything out. Of course I asked him what does he have to sort out and he said "my life" and that it was a long story he would rather to tell me in person. I got a bit concerned and after a few days decided to ask our two mutual friends if everything is okay with him and they told me that something seems off (and I feel the same) but they know only as much as I do. The only thing they knew and I didn't was that he mentioned wanting to see a psychologist but they don't know why. The three of them went out this weekend but didn't learn anything more and we are getting more and more concerned. Should I try to contact and meet him or should I wait for him to hit me up?

My mom used to be so different. She used to be nice and not nearly as scrict. But lately she s been so mean and she gets mad over everything. It s like I can t even talk to her without her getting mad at everything. My sister has noticed it too. I don t know how to make her happy or help her so she won t be so sad and mad. I m scared. I don t want her to be so depressed and sad and mad.

About 2 months ago my best friend was mad at me and she told me to never message her again. But I still kept messaging her and messaging her asking her to forgive me, to the point that she called the cops. I was asked to leave her alone or I could get charged with harassment, I haven't done anything in 2 months to contact her but deep down I really want to message her or find a way to contact her again. I am not a psycho or anything but she was my best friend and I miss her so much, she was the only person I had in my life I never grew up with my parents and I never had a lot of friends it was just her and her only. But long story short I made her mad can I get some help please

My best friend asked me for a kiss I gave him one on the cheek. I didn't tell my husband about it. Is this bad ?

I have a friend and we will call her N. So N and I have been friends since 5th grade and now we are in the eighth. We are both girls btw. I have always noticed her smell ever since we met but never had the strength to say anything. High school is next year and I don't want anything embarrassing to happen to her. This year, I told her twice (other than the things I and my friends tried). The first time I told her that people were making fun of her and she said that they were just trying to make themselves feel better about themselves and she walked off. As a birthday gift, i gave her a variety pack body spray. When I came back to school she has not changed to I told my other friend G (also a girl in our friend group) and she noticed too so we came to the conclusion to text her a long paragraph. It was written by the both of us and I sent it to her. In the message, it said we didn't want to be friends (because people started to think the smell was me when we hung around each other) and that if she decided to change this that I could help her out with products and tips and stuff. In the end, I said that we are just trying to help her and that we are sorry.

while my other friend telling a joke i burst out laughing. my friend makaylah said that i spit on her. i didn't spit on her all i did is laugh. she angrily walk to other seat.

I m with my friend at their house and we don t know what to do we are bored, we can t go anywhere

I'm 18 and when I was younger I made the mistake of becoming friends with people online..For years and years,these people who I thought were my friends were actually two faced bullies..I won't go into detail but they treated me fine one day,then the next they would start bullying me,then I'd delete them,then they'd try and ask for my forgiveness again (By adding me again) and I always forgave them because I'm an idiot..But when I was 15 I finally had enough and never forgave them and so far (I'm now 18) I've not heard anything out of them..But I know them and I know they always come back and try to be my friend again..It's a cycle,they bully me,I delete them from my profiles,then a few months later come back saying "I didn't mean it,etc.." and all that bullshit..They know my full name,they always find my again and harass me by whining..I'm scared..I'm scared to even BE online..I also can't get the things they said to me out of my mind..They knew my interests and they said things about that,so now when I do my hobbies./passions I REMEMBER them..SO the things I once loved are ruined because of THEM :( how can I move on? When I see my passions I remember them,because I remember what they said.

Everytime I post a selfie, they start screenshotting it for no reason and it really starts to irritate me. What should I do about it ?

all i did was touch her breast and squeezed it her dress was already up and i wasn't going to to anything I just wanted to touch her. Her friends saw and the boys ran after me and called me racial slurs i think if they go to the police I will say they lied and hate me because I'm black.

I'm an 18 year old male and I've been thinking about this a lot if a 33 year old woman or man came up to me and offered their friendship should I say yes and accept it or should I say no because that man or woman is 32 years old??? This hasn't happened but I'm just asking what if that happened

Tell me all the best times you had togather.

I love him and he does not, the last time I was very rude to him and he said bad things to me too now every I go online he goes offline... why does he avoid me? I would prefer he man up and talk to me instead... is he waiting an apology on my behalf?

I am fat. A problem most people deal with including me. Everytime I look in the mirror I see a huge monster looking back at me. My friends and my family dont know how I feel and I try to hide it so I dont seem more pathetic than I already am. I dont feel beautiful and everytime someone says I am I can tell their lying and trying to hold back laughter because of how big my stomach is. I ve starved myself i ve done exercise and i try my best to eat healthier but NOTHING is EVER going to change.

Lately I have been getting mad but mostly really sad, for example if my brother is on the laptop and my parents won't give me a time for when I can use it or I can't hang out with my friends, or someone calls me a name at school to be funny,(it's not bullying just my friends teasing me) I don't cry but on the inside I'm really upset. It's super dumb stuff to get mad at but I've also been really stressed with homework lately. Any idea on what's happening? Thanks in advance!

So my best friend asked me to join a group with their friends where they make comics. Of course I said yes but I was actually really terrified, regretting my decision. I was thinking what their friends might think of me and what they ll say about me.. So I want to know how to get over my fear and be confidence.

Okay.... I told my friend/ex-girlfriend that I think it's best to keep our distance and go our separate ways because she hurts me, threatens me and accuses me a things I didn't/don't do. Her reply: Good, because you can't keep secrets and it's disrespectful to talk behind people's backs. I blocked her after she sent that. This is not true, she talks smack behind my back WAY more than I do, and she spilled one of my secrets when she said she will keep it a secret. She goes to my church and I don't want to leave. What should I do because I fear she'll accuse me of something again!

Hi, I recently got accepted into my first choice of college. As part of the acceptance I have an opportunity to join a Facebook group that allows accepted students to chat with each other and make roommate selections. I'm really a nerd. I have a lot of anxiety so that kind of fears me. I dont want to paired up with someone who's a psycho or someone that I'd be in disagreement all or most of the time. What do I do?

I've known my friend since I was 7. I'm 13 now. She's a great friend and she helps me out. Sometimes she just makes fun of me. It's okay if it's like once in a while but now it's getting old. She calls me crusty all of the time. I think it's a little funny but she's always sarcastic and she never says anything good about me. I'm not trying to be selfish but it kind of bothers me how she always says something negative. We've also dont really take nice pictures. Whenever we're texting TOO she tries to "roast" me whenever I make a comment about something. Her sister is also my BEst friend because they both come over to my house.(she's 1 year older). She's very positive and always greets me with a hug. I've never hugged myBFF ever. I wish she was more positive. Idk! Tell me what you think.

Hey guys. So I like this guy. He has a cute smile, great personality, and is very athletic. We've been friends for about a year too. Our conversations consist of the following: 1. Me teasing him, or him teasing me. 2. Him starting a foot war, or fighting over something (like a pencil) 3. Him laughing at me being funny and ridiculous, or me laughing at me for the same reason 4. Talking about my friend and her crush (were all pretty close friends) 5. Or something just totally random. I thought everything was just peachy until the teacher changed seats. We didn't talk as much anymore, but we still did maybe three times a week. We still continued on our conversations and everything was normal until the school dance rolled around. I saw him with his friends, and walked up to them and started talking to them. Then a slow song came on, and his friends smiled and started pointing at him. I was confused and scared. My crush was saying something, but I wasn't listening since I was focused on his friends pointing at him and smiling. Eventually he came up to me with this annoyed look and we danced. He looked up, and I looked down. No eye contact. Then he looked over my shoulder and said to his friend, "When's the song gonna be over?" I just rolled my eye's and looked at the floor. When the song was over, I went to my friends and we had SO much fun. I danced with a lot of my guy friends too, but it wasn't as awkward. Finally, at the last song, I looked at him, and one his lady friends said "Go ask her to dance!" he did the annoyed expression again and said "Come on, let's go." and I went with it. So after the dance, we acted like nothing happened. It was normal for two weeks. Until I decided to text him. This is how the convo went: Me: Hey Him: Who's this Me: Katie Him: Oh. How'd you get my # Katie? Me: From Leah Him: Where'd she get it? Me: i dunno Him: Ok Me: So do you know? Him: That you like me, yeah. Is that what u meant? Me: Yeah. Him: Ok. Me: How long have u known? Him: looooong time, like a year Me: And u didnt say anything? Him: Wat did u want me to say? Me: wow ok. Continued.. Him: Btw I got a gf last week Me: rlly? Him: Yeah Me: Oh, well bye. Him: Later So I feel pretty used right now. What do you think I should do? (Btw look at all the edit's, the word limit wouldn't let me finish) Thanks.

I'm a straight woman and I just feel violated when my friends try to make out with me.

I grew up being introverted. I mean, I made a lot of friends in elementary school, but I was always in quiet when I was in a group. Once I was in middle school, the amount of I had decreased. I had trouble making a lot of friends in middle school. I only made like two friends throughout middle school. Finally, I only have a few friends. Is anybody like this? I was only talkative with my family/close friends. I think I made a lot of friends in elementary school. I am not really sure.

I'm not sure, but he does purposely touch me (I'm the only girl he touches, and its on the hands, arms and once on the back), and talk to me. I've seen him hold eye contact with me smiling for a few seconds even in a group of 3-4 people. Not only that but we generally exclude the other people in the group to talk and be weird together, only looking at the others if they speak awkwardly or suggest something such as "Let's go on the computer". He did forcefully push my hands aside (ice-cold) to give me one of his social media usernames. I dunno, I've known this guy for 3 years... although I may like him just a little. I don't mean anything rude or violent by "forcefully" I mean he walked over to me and said "here" while typing his username. I don't mean anything rude or violent by "forcefully" I mean he walked over to me and said "here" while typing his username. He did however push my hands aside. I'll never be 100% sure but I need to get close to 100% like, if he tells his friends he likes me and it gets to me somehow. A rumor once went around a few years ago or last year that I liked him and things were awkward for the rest of the year before he started talking to me again. He recently stopped liking his girlfriend and she broke up with him, but they're still friendly to each other so people suspect he still likes her and they might get back together. I don't know?

So, I have this one guy at school that is my friend. We used to be better friends but then I got a bit mad when he started ditching me quite often so I just stopped talking to him (without an argument or something like that). It went on for a month or two, we just said hello to each other when we met in school and nothing more. Two weeks ago I sent him a message and we started talking a bit and he said he is going to hit me up when he sorts everything out. Of course I asked him what does he have to sort out and he said "my life" and that it was a long story he would rather to tell me in person. I got a bit concerned and after a few days decided to ask our two mutual friends if everything is okay with him and they told me that something seems off (and I feel the same) but they know only as much as I do. The only thing they knew and I didn't was that he mentioned wanting to see a psychologist but they don't know why. The three of them went out this weekend but didn't learn anything more and we are getting more and more concerned. Should I try to contact and meet him or should I wait for him to hit me up?

I had some friends I made at a school I went to, but some of them I feel may have been pulling away from me (not all of them). The other day, I got mad at this kid because K was sick of everyone liking him more than me and I got in to 2 arguments with him, but I made up with him, yet I still feel bad. I don't want to switch schools, but I don't want to be away from some of these people because I still care. I am not trying to be obsessive, but I still want some of them. What do I do?

I'm an 18 year old male and I was thinking about this a lot if a 32 year old man or woman came to me and offer their friendship should I say yes and accept it or should I say no because that woman or man is 32 years old??? I'm curious because I don't like having out with people my age I like hanging out with people older then me. Even though I know my mom would never approve of me hanging out with a 32 year old which is okay and fine she doesn't have to approve of it but what if this did happen should I say yes and accept it or should I say no because that person is 30 or 32???

I'm 21 years old and have no friends, I go to work and go to the gym alot. I have friends at work but we never hangout, even when I was in school I had a lot of friends but we didn't hangout Esther. I text people but they ignore me, Iam mature, good looking and I dress great. But I don't know why people never want to be friends with me. Any advice

i have two friend groups and i made plans with one group to go to prom with in a limo yet i recently realised that a majority of that group are quite bitchy and not nice to be around. How do i tell them that i don't want to go with them anymore but with the other group, without causing a big problem

They always focus on something they should not mention at all. e.g I like to use red lipstick because I think retro look is classy and appropriate, they always saying red lipstick is too bold, and scaring people. And they think I should hangout with friends my race, it is too weird if I don't have a lot friends the same race. I am not picky about friends and I am comfortable with any ethnicity. I am at university and my school is really stressful, they don't care, but only focus on these little things and think I am doing wrong?

We've been friends for 4 months. She's in my class, she sits front of me.. I already told her that i really like her but i'm not looking for relationship and i know i can't really be with her even if she likes me, i respect her way too much.. Should i stay friends with her??? (After i confessed to her, She told me "I don't know what to say". But she still agrees that we can still be friends till the rest of the school year. To be honest i think she likes me too because she's giving me some hints). I don't know what to do.. I can't focus on my school because of this.. I told her i still want to be friends with her but i feel like i can't continue being friend with her, the feelings just keep hitting me back, it's really hard.. She sits front of me, which make it worser.. I don't want to drop out of school because of this.. If i decide to cancel that friendship, i still feel bad for her because she's always alone because of her anxiety, i can relate to her because i do have it too, i know how she feels, that's why i want to be there for her, that's the reason why i approach her in the first place and that's why i decided to be friends with her but i realized i was falling for her.. I just want to see her happy that's all i want for her.. i don't know if i'm in love or i'm just too compassionate person or both.. I just don't know what to do...

Why do teenagers make a huge circle if they see someone fighting and record the fight.

My friend wants me to have sex with him. He's still a virgin he's 24 years old. He feels bad about it. Me and the other guys are all married have kids or are dating he doesn't have anyone. He said he wants me to be his first time. I'm married I don't think my husband would like it. Even if it is for a friend. He doesn't know wether he likes guys or girls. He doesn't care he just wants to do it. Would it be wrong if we did it ? How can I help him feel better ?

I m afraid that I ll be to gentle and weird and I don t want to make her feel like I m uncomfortable about the situation. Our humor is edgy I guess and I don t want to make stupid suicide jokes but I don t want everything to change because I m sure she doesn t want that either. I can t talk to her yet but idk I just need some advice.

Yeah so he will not stop it's so annoying I tell him to stop he just does it again my best friend told me to report him for sexual assault but I don't think it's that serous he's only 12 and he's my cousin I would never want to report him

Its been a few years and nothing ive tried has helped, bytmainly made things worse, shes actually with my old best friend whi h makes it thatmuch worse.

does it mean you dont want to make friends?? yes my spelling is bad before anyone says

So heres my story from yesterday. Me and 6 of my other friends are riding in my friends truck the thing is it has no seats in the back so me and my other friend we would ride there until we got home which wasn t far at all. As we are about to turn my friend starts to speed up and tried to take a sharp turn and well things didnt work out well out of no where we flip over twice. It was a weird experience and almost felt like a dream no one got hurt thankfully considering the no seats or seatbelt but im just wondering if anyone has had a similar experience as this was my first car crash i've been in and want to hear other experiences.

I've known this kid for a year, but I feel everyone likes him more than me and some of my friends and acquaintances seem to prefer him over me. I got a little freaked about it last month and the last 2 days. I try to put some effort into being nice to them but its hard to when this kid's effort is outweighing mine. Even worse, a close friend of mine is hanging with him and has been treating me differently me differently and they seem to have a better friendship then she had with me. What do I do to save myself?

Today is an acquaintance s birthday. He told me that he wanted to spend his birthday with me. I ve planned a really fun day. I am also going to surprise him by buying him lunch at a special restaurant. I am not the type of person to give cards on holidays. I just do nice things, like buying lunch. I m wondering if he will notice me not giving him a card and take offense in some way.

So yes I know, I should go out make new friends, find some hobbies but something just stops me. I'm 16 years old, I go to school and I have like 3 good friends but that's not the point. All of my classmates have hobbies and it's just me who has no life and everyone knows it. I wanna go to piano lessons, dance lessons and fitness but the problem is that...I'm the problem. I always say and find reasons just to not go because I'm afraid that something will go wrong, I'm afraid to go out but at the same time I wanna be happy...sometimes I imagine myself going to fitness, playing piano, dancing, going to parties but I don't know..the lessons are also expensive I'm afraid that my parents will say that they give too much money for me (as always) so thats why I'm not telling them that I wanna go. I'm also in another country and kinda afraid that people will laugh about my accent or that I will do some mistakes while Talking. So yes I know it is my fault, i have always been like this..i want a change but it's hard for me to take actions..please help me

So about 10 months ago my sister and my best friend admitted they had been together for a couple weeks. It was a little weird at first I have to admit. My sister's only 13 months younger than me so we've always been close and I knew something like this could happen leaving me stuck in the middle. I don't want to loose a friend but neither do I know if I can or want to forgive her for hurting my sister