She walks into my room half naked(top and underwear) and asks me, if I haven't seen her clothers ? That happened twice this week. Is she doing that on purpose ? I gotta be honest... It does turn me on. Should I start flirting with her, or let it go ? Last week, she came into my room and lied down next to me, partially hugged me and started a conversation. She also is hyper friendly, spends a lot of time around me(while in the house) We live together for nearly a month. (I'm 2 months away from my 15th birthday. I'm 5 months older than her) Should I give her attention ? Cause it's hard not to, and I like her.

I have a sister and she is about 3 years younger than me. she is 37 years old now and still growing. I mean by growing her maturity is still not like an adult yet. She has two sons but they are not respectful boys either. Story one: I work for my mom. She has a law office and I'm more the manager of the office (I'm a lawyer too). Suddenly this sister of mine, she started working at the office as an intern (she just sit when we have a meeting) and she has no previous job experience regardless of her age (yes she is lazy). She doesn't do anything really. One afternoon, I got annoyed by her stupid act. Suddenly, she said this to me and my mom "you do not have the rights to this office. This office belongs to us. us meaning "my older sister, me and her self." I have been working there for 8 years and suddenly she tried to take over my mom's office. I said to her "mom is not dead yet, we'll talk that when she dies". What a ******' ***** really. 1 Month of being there equals to taking over the office. Oh btw, my older sister is also a lawyer but she has a real job at a corporate office and she is the vice president at her company, so she doesn't care about the ownership of my mom's office. and btw, I have been buying toys for her two sons for 10 years. In return, she never bought me anything for my birthday even some food or cookies..... really she has a troubled personality. so in summary, my sister is manipulative, self centered and immature for her age. I think she has a mental disorder problem. probably because her husband is not making good money either.

Alright I know that sounds harsh, but to me it is completely true. My mom is 54 years old, and has never moved out of her mother's house for no reason other than she didn't feel like it and to save money. My mother and my grandmother do not get along at all. My grandmother is too much of a pushover to kick her out. My mother has NEVER paid any rent and is completely disrespectful to my grandmother. On top of that, my mom's preferred type of guy to date is either married or in a relationship. Married is definitely her favorite type. She walks around the house in her nightgown at night with her legs wide open for the entire house to see her junk. She smokes way too much and even smoked with me in the car as a small child. When you bring up the fact that she should have moved out a long time ago she throws pity parties and makes up excuses as to why she didn't. Like she'll say things like I wouldn't be able to go to college or have a good life if we had moved to our own place. It's pathetic. She has no pride, self-respect, or self-esteem and I honestly have so much resentment because of all of the reasons above. She is everything I believe a person shouldn't be as far as being a decent human being. Is there anyone out there with this same problem and if there is how do you think I should cope? I am honestly disgusted by her and talking to her does nothing at all. I just want some advice.

I have to leave in a few minutes to ride with my mom to go pick up my dad at work. I am now in my room in my bare feet I took off my shoes and socks as soon as I got home from school. Since I am not getting out of the backseat and my parents and I are coming right back home I am going for the ride in my bare feet and not going to bring my shoes. I had shoes on all day today at school and I don't feel like putting them back on since I am not going in anyplace.

Whenever my mother had a fight with a family member when I was growing up she would get mad at me if I saw them and accuse me of behaving "obsessively" since I am OCD. I DO get obsessed on family relationships sometimes but am good at hiding it now so people don't notice it (I just write about it on here daily). My Mom's brother is an alcoholic. He has been a mild to moderate alcoholic most my life but his kids have come to my mother to say it has greatly worsened since his divorce. My mother, grandmother, and my Mom's two siblings are staging an intervention this weekend. If he gets defiant and storms out like I am told usually happens in these I am worried my mother will be mad if I ever attend anything this uncle is at. Yet, I am not going to boycott things like Christmas or a wedding because an alcoholic is present. Growing up my mother used me as a pawn in feuds. So how do I avoid getting burned in this feud if the uncle refuses rehab? I am an adult so not able to be grounded anymore but my mother will be furious if I attend things like a cousin's wedding in September that this uncle will be at or years when something is held over Christmas. I am guessing, knowing this uncle's personality, that he will refuse help.

My last aunt on my father's side passed away. Her obit didn't mention me being a survivor and I am a blood relative. When I saw my cousin at the funeral, I asked him why and he said "Why should it? You're not a member of this family." Now I know there was some trouble between my father and my grandmother decades ago, like in the 1950s, and it didn't even involve my cousin and me. I don't even know what it was about, so why would my cousin feel the need to carry this grudge so long?

Idk what my daughter's problem is with me. For years she has looked for reasons to argue, debate and disrespect me. Then she turns it around and says she is bipolar. She does the same to my grandma and my grandma spoils her she always did. My daughter is attempting to turn my other daughter against me and so far it's working. Idk what she's getting out of this. She loves to humiliate me and say things to make me feel stupid. Her dad isn't in her life but when he was she didn't act like this toward him. He was never really there for her in and out of prison. She has a sense of entitlement as well. She won't buy anything for the house but she will gladly use up and eat but when it's time to buy milk or bread or something she won't. She is really hateful but insecure at the same time. I am to the point where i don't even want to speak to her anymore. What would you do?

...coming up this weekend. She has lied about losing a book at school, lied about her grades and hid her report card, and lied about breaking and hiding an expensive family item. She is receiving cards in the mail with money in them from relatives. I do not think she deserves the money right now. She will take it and use it to buy junk food (the school sells doritos and soda) so should I confiscate it? She will know if I open a card since it will need re-sealed but my aunt sent her $40. How to handle?

I referred to her as an aunt and my mother quickly and strictly informed me the woman is NOT an aunt since she is my step-mother's sister. So what is she?

I never know if he is high or not.

I'm 21 and my mom is 45, a single mother. My dad divorced mom few years ago. But mom and I having great relationship as lovely family. One day I was walking with my mom in the city and we had to cross a road. My mom wanted to hold my hand. I was looking around some hot girls and I had *****. So once my mom trying to touch my hand she mistakenly hold my erected penis. It happened withing just a second, but I feel she was holding it for hours. I told my mom very sorry, but she looked blushed. Even we had great relationship before, now she don't much talk with me. She almost silent. I feel embarrassed too but I didn't mind it at all. I just mind why my mom changed her mood and now silent. I asked from her many times but now she just trying to avoid me even eye to eye contact. What i should do now? It was mistake and i didn't do anything wrong. But i Feel so guilty.

hi. its been 6 months since my mom passed. ive put most of her things in containers, i tossed out the drawers, as i didnt need them. but for some reason im finding it hard to let go of her bed. just the thought of doing this makes me break down. theres no use for it, its just sitting in the living room reminding everyone of my mom being there in pain her last days. but still the thought of letting it go is hitting me so hard. during her last days my mom wanted our home to look beautiful, so my brother and i are working hard to make it look great. the bed brings sadness to my siblings. i know i am being selfish, but i am crying as i write this at the thought of letting go of this bed. i know people will think im ridiculous, but i dont know what to do.

Here are the reasons I ask: 1. A year or two ago, he started to strangle me & attempted to kill me. He was 16 or 17. I was 12. (there have been other times he's physically assaulted me, too.) 2. He always yells at my mother and I. 3. He threatened to "knock me out" and "hit me" today. He's 18, I'm 13. 4. He never does what our parents tell him to

I have an Aunt who just passed away from Alzheimer's. I liked my Aunt but never really had a relationship with her/ haven't seen in years. Although I'm an adult I am the youngest of my relatives;decent size age gap. My older two siblings who are closer in age had and have a relationship with my cousins, where I really don't know them that well. That being said, I'm currently between jobs nor do I have a vehicle, a running one anyway, and currently have the use of my husbands truck when he is using a company vehicle and depends on his schedule (which he makes) depending on where he needs to be and what is going on that day/week. The funeral is two hours 3 with traffic, away from where I live and I have no family who live in my area. I feel that if I was able to go I would pretty much just be a fly on the wall and kind of invisible. If I can't attend I would send flowers or cards. My question isn't about whether I should or shouldn't go, I'm asking your opinion on if I can't or don't go! Basically, if I wasn't able to attend would you understand, think much about it or me based on the info I provided? ***I know I don't have to justify not being able to go, but how would you suggest conveying you can't go or would you. Basically, if you and I were related and your mother, my aunt died, based on the other info I provided, and I wasn't able to attend what would you think in general or of me? Would you understand, think much about it? Funny even at 45+, most of still put so much concern into what others/family may think of us, especially when you rarely if ever see them.

because he didn't want my son to eat the oatmeal. I thought was perfectly fine since my son need iron. and when my son grabbed a bowl he snatched it from him and put water in the bowl thinking that he was fixing it for him. he took the water and threw it at him, and then when I told him to stop he did it again, my son just looked confused.. when I'm out with my mother he calls me and text 20 times. I cant even get my hair done without him contacting me all the time. I can understand if he was checking on me but this is always happending. he always want to displine kids and stead of praising them when they do something good. the only reason why he may do something nice is if I get upset with him about his behavior. I tell him I don't feel comfortable about how he wrestle or play around with the kids he does it anyway. I get tired of him trying control everything. im getting to the point that I don't even want to be bother to him anymore. when he does not get his way he throws things, slams doors etc. he said one time that he said out of anger that he "hate this place" which means he prombably hate us. he buys food and hides thing in the room so that kids don't eat it. he hides the remote control from me and the kids things like that. he try to belittle my son, he makes fun of his speech, my son has a speech impairment. I told him I do not like this he keeps doing but saying that he is working on it. my family told me he needs counseling but I don't think it would work because he doesn't believe he has a begin to start seeing that he begin to verbally abuse my son, calling him things like ugly. or applying things like he saying he's in other words gay, and when I get on him about it. he thinks my whole perception is wrong and that he is only joking. well last week when my son ask for some oatmeal and actually got upset problem. and he never gives me space he gets mad if I'll ask. he want to be my center of attention. he also has an attitude at times when my parents comes over. he act as if he is jealous. let me remid you that I have seen some of the same behavior in his family as well. at first I thought my husband was good person and now I see that he has picked up some bad habits from his family. I'm so tired what could I do? he is were I start seeing problems of control issues. my son ask for a bowl of oatmeal for the moring my husband didn't want him touching or getting any of it. my husband was upset I am filling for divorce. I am recently moving and he is not allowed to come in lives with us any longer.

Like what the F*CKKKK??????????

Do younger siblings in confucianist families obey their older siblings? Are there gender differences? Maybe you have personal experience. Please give me a detailed explaination and some examples of practical (as opposed to theoretical) confucianism. Do these hierarchies inhibit free communication? Maybe there are differences between countries (Korea is supposed to be more confucian than china). Thanks!

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I'm appreciative of everything he's done for me and all but I'm literally so sick of him and I hate him. I do the smallest thing and he will yell at me a lot and when I defend myself, he'll hit me and then I'll be in tears. He makes me hate being home. I'm 14 and I've only just got my period and all and he doesn't understand everything I'm going through and he doesn't care. I said that it's illegal to hit children but he doesn't care about that. I just hate life. It's not my fault :( I'm not selfish it greedy or anything. No stupid comments please.

Hey guys, I'm a 21 year old white woman and recently I set up a date between my Dad (who's 45 years old and divorced for 10 years) with a colleague/friend who I run a website with who is 21. They met a few times previous and had great chemistry (she even jokingly said my Dad was hot) so I thought they would be a great match and set them up on a date which they surprisingly agreed to. However I am now receiving intense backlash and criticism from my Mom and sister and some of our friends who say this is 'sick' and 'gross'. How so?! They are both consenting adults and have been dating for about 2 months and both seem to be quite happy. My Dad's been divorced for 10 years and my friend's been single for ages and they are both really great people, the age difference never mattered to me. However it looks like I'm the one getting flamed by everyone. Did I do anything wrong?

My parents are getting divorced and my dad is batshit crazy so I'm going with my moms Italian side and changing my last name but she doesn't like her maiden name so what's a cool Italian last name?

I'm currently staying with boyfriend and since he lives with his parents and siblings it's really a full house. (In the past I would only visit and go back home but now I have a job with no other ride besides my boyfriend and I loved far away) It's a tiny cramped duplex. His room was already small, cramped with a lot of stuff. Now I took up one little corner of the room with my clothes, makeup, art supplies, jewelery, beauty supplies. Basic bedroom stuff I would rather have access to. Any tips and tricks on how to organize it to make more space?

I feel like my mom is putting alot of responsibility of my younger brother on me. She even goes as far as blaming his bad behavior on me. Like when he gets into trouble touching stuff at home, she blames it on me, rather than him for doing it. I watch him but it's impossible to keep an eye on him 24/7. He's 10 and should know better. We have younger cousins who seem to know better than him. She's the one who should've taught him how to behave. She tries to guilt trip me saying that I should be a "better older brother". Also, she wants me to baby him. Like brushing his hair for him, helping him get dressed, etc. It makes no sense to me. He is able to do those things on his own and she yells at me for not straight up babying him when he's fully capable of doing that on his own. And she also yells at me for not taking him places. Like to the park, etc. I'm anti-social as it is but I think he'd be better off going to a daycare with other kids instead off putting all the responsibility of me, as if I'm his care-taker. After all, I'm not the one who decided to bring him into this world. So why should I have to be responsible for every little thing he gets into. Don't get me wrong, when he does do stuff, I do speak to him about it but to act as if i'm his parent is wrong.

Here is my probelm. I have 2 guy cousins the same age as me who go to my school. I actually am close friends with both of them and the one who is my first cousin asked me out. My mom was like horrified, saying that I can't date my first cousin. But the deal is that my first cousin was adopted, so I didn't see the big deal. So I asked her if she would feel the same if I dated my other cousin who happens to be the son of her FIRST cousin, and she said dating your second cousin isn't as bad as dating your first cousin. I told her that she makes no sense because my FIRST cousin is adopted is not related to me by blood. So now I wanna know which is worse, dating your 2nd cousin (whose mom is your mom's cousin) or dating your first cousin (adopted son of my mom's sister)? My mom said that my first cousin is more related to me than my 2nd cousin. ??? But my first cousin is adopted.

I'm 21 years of age my sister is 18 and my girlfriend is 20 they got in a physical fight over me I was really close to my sister but strayed away when I got my girlfriend who I've been with for 3 months I don't know what happened but they got in a physical fight that left my sister harmed and needed stitches but my girlfriend is fine. I don't know how to feel as a big brother my girlfriend claims its self defense and I saw my sister act irrational before. My mom and other family members give me a hard time for staying with a girl that harmed my sister and I just don't know what to do this is the love of my life

I m 16 years old my parents have been divorced since I was 3 years old , they hate each other so much that whenever my dad is mentioned mom would insult him which makes me hate him a little and when say this in front of her she tells no that s your father you can t say that but she s the one who drives me to this point and when I visit him he also insults my mom and it hurts me so much that they hate each other like this and both have financial problems and I m a teen who has needs ,I doesn t go out much so I don t cause more problems I don t have a lot of makeup or shoes or clothes like the rest of my friends and it s embarrassing and the insults start when he doesn t send money it s like the money he sends actually makes a difference, my mom s salary can barely be enough for food and rent and it hurts me that they can t buy themselves anything I guess they are both at fault but when my mom asks herself why he s back from Russia (he used to live there before they met ) practically regretting meeting him so she regrets me and it hurts like hell I ve had enough of this I just want die I m really trying hard to fight my depression for two years and no believes me when I tell them I ve depression but I ve all the signs . I ve no one to talk to I really wish that I was never born .

Currently, I can only take a book to bed with me, but I want to have my phone 1. Because it helps me sleep 2. I m a babysitter and it helps me arrange with clients, and 3. Because I d like to use it as an alarm in the mornings. Thanks a lot!

So me and my sons dad have split. He had him two nights and one full day. I have a naughty step and a routine and a reward chart and rules like no chocolate before dinner etc (normal parent stuff) when he goes there his dad lets him do what the hell he wants. He doesn't have meals he just picks on choc and sweets al day, he teaches him to punch because it's funny and other things that a little boy shouldn't be doing. He even told him To punch me when I picked him up. It's making my son hate me because I obviously look the bad one to him. I'm really upset and don't know what to do I don't want my son to not like coming home and being with me

ok i'll start this off by saying we are an asian family and i totally get asian parents are stricter than white parents or whatever other races. my mom and i are best friends, we have times when we literally just hang out all day and have the best time. but sometimes, she gets ticked off by some really small thing, like for example today she woke me up from my nap and i told her she was annoying. then she exploded and told me she hates me and i'm a disappointment and she wishes she didn't have me and stuff like that. when it gets really bad she'll kick me out of the house sometimes or kick me/push me/hit me but the next day she'll be totally ok and be perfectly back to normal.... i don't understand her please help!!

PLEASE HELP IM SO DONE. my family always does this to me idk why I m such an understanding person they know that I could never get mad at them but now I m at my point where I m so upset with them lying to me! My sister is 29 and she was supposed to come get me from work never showed up so I called an hour later asking where she was she said she broke her arm an is in the hospital I told her oh gosh are you okay do you need me to bring you anything. She said no and hung up I then look on Snapchat she posted 2 minutes ago she was drinking a beer with a bunch of ppl smoking weed she always smokes. Now my dad He was supposed to come to my house 2 weeks ago to help me move in my new bed with his truck he has been giving me excuses ran out of gas or stupid stuff his lie today was I think I m dying sorry couldn t make it! This one pissed me off the most because I was just there for Easter &I he was not acting like he was dying so I called him no answer I treat him and he s been ignoring me for days now but talking to my other family. I m so tired of my family they treat me like **** since I m only 19... :(

I'm a 14 year old 8th grader. I have no stuffed animals for me cause I either sold them or gave them to my younger siblings. She got it this month, April, but many weeks before. Why did she give it to me? I wasn't expecting any gifts nor this one in particular. :3 I'm just curious. what do you think?

So tonight we had a big gathering and a bunch of people showed up. One of which called my name and gave me a hug saying my dad talks about me all the time. Problem is I did not recognize this woman. Eventually though my dad started to talk to her but I didn't because I didn't really recognize her like I said. Well I just realized who it was after the fact and feel horrible at how cold I must've been. I kept trying to talk to her but would give up and my dad would go over there. I also whispered to some friends that were there that I had no idea who she was and I'm worried she either heard or saw me. Should I let it go? Or try to make amends. Ps. I've known this woman my entire life and she's been like a second mother to my dad.

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I'm 15 years old, and would like to be allowed a certain amount of privacy. What I am asking my parents for is the right to close my bedroom door and have them knock to let me know that they are entering. I just like knowing that I can have a safe space for myself in the house where I can feel like I have a little bit of independence and control over myself. I think I'm a generally good kid in the sense that I get good grades and don't do illegal drugs or anything like that. Sure, I've been rude or impatient with my parents at times, but I don't think that that is my general attitude towards them. Anyhow, my father gets extremely annoyed when I close my bedroom door when I am not changing clothes. He says that I wouldn't be closing my door if I wasn't trying to hide something, but that is not the case at all. I understand where he is coming from, but I feel like he isn't really listening to what I think. How can I get my parents to have a conversation about this without them automatically assuming that I must be doing something wrong if I want more privacy? PS- Asking my mom to help me talk to my dad is not an option, since I already asked. She said that it is not up to her, but up to my father, and she isn't going to try to change his mind.

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one day i was in a bad mood i threatened my mom and told her i was going to break her tablet but didnt so i went on a walk for awhile and came back the door was locked so i knocked on it and then started pounding on it and the window too and then my step dad came out and said why are you pounding on the ******* window and then held me and started punching me on the top of the head and then yelled out beat your ***

I'm 18. I really need a boyfriend who I can move in with as soon as I start dating him! I want to move in with a boyfriend because my brother, who's 27(he's the oldest while i'm the youngest), thinks he can punish me like he is my parent just because he is the oldest and i'm the youngest! He only does it because my parents let him do it! Here is what he does: He won't let me watch "baby" shows because "i'm too old", and will only let me watch "adult" shows. I've tried pointing out porn addicts and telling him that he should be happy i'm not like them. I don't like most adult shows! I like kid shows! I love my headphones, but he won't let me use them because he thinks it's antisocial I really like alvin and the chipmunks but im not allowed to watch or listen to it He always threatens to take away my privileges, even though he wasn't the one who paid for any of my stuff. My parents were the ones who paid for my stuff. He's very strict and harsh He tells me what I can and can't do He punishes me for things I didn't do He takes privileges away from me like my phone, laptop, TV, and going out He tells me I can't bring my headphones when going out with my family He punishes me for accidents and mistakes He tells me when I can't leave the house He always says that he's "parenting" me, and he tells my parents how to parent me And he does all this stuff to ONLY me, not my two older sisters. He thinks that because he's the oldest and i'm the youngest, that he can punish me. And I have Autism, which makes it even harder for me I can't drive, and I have NO money or a job, so I can't move out. I've tried telling my parents to tell him that he's not my parent and can't do those things, i've tried telling them that none of my friends oldest siblings do those things, even the ones who are also the youngest. My parents do NOTHING about this, and they won't let me go to anyone else but them about this problem. They say that if I go to someone at school or someone else about this, i'll get severely punished. I am not capable of moving out, as I have special needs, have no money, and can't drive, so don't tell me to move out! I want to get a boyfriend so that I can move in with him and stop getting punished by my brother! How can I find one who I can move in with?

I'm 15 and I wanna meet my biological father, but first I want to write letters before we meet face to face. What should I say? How should I start the letter? I want to impress but please give me examples and experiences and ideas thanks!!

Ok. Fist off all, I am a teenager. I have never watched porn in my life. I decided to try it out, just for once. I was watching it and about 1 min. Till the end, my dad waked in. I was watching this on my phone in my bed, and the phone was laying flat. I'm pretty shire he saw it. Anyways, he ment to open my door to get the air flowing through the room, but he seen my phone, and asked what I was watching. I hurried up and clicked the home button and clicked on YouTube. And I pointed to a random video, and said: "this". He said "I'm just opening your door to make it cooler in here", and left right after that. It is now 8 30 PM and my parents force me to go to bed at 9. I am in an awkward situation, and need answers for what I should do from here on out. Should I just ignored it, or talk about it (which I don't wanna do.) Please respond ASAP, for I only have approximately 19 hours left before I have to see my dad again.

I'm getting really worried because my brother recently joined the "Workers United" club at his school and he wears a red uniform to all of the meetings and he won't stop listening to Rage Against the Machine.

I am 14 years old. I have friends in range of 12-15 years old, who all have cell phones, I don't. Recently, I've been wanting one, so I did a bit of research. I found a phone that costs $175. I have been saving so I have around $205 dollars. I get $5 for allowance each week. I put together the money and I found if I stay consistant with babysitting, I can afford to pay for the phone and a data plan each month myself. I talked to my family though, and they aren't willing to put me on the family data plan because I haven't been "responsible enough". I have been working really hard in school and get mostly A's and it sucks sometimes because I have other things on my mind. My brother seems to get everything (money included!) from my parents, while I have to pay for everything myself. Why do I get treated like a little kid? I sat them down and talked about it, but they didn't want to hear it. I got half B's and half A's last quarter and I remember my parents being disappointed. I've been working so hard, I think I deserve this! I was so excited but now I'm just kind of meh.... what do I do???

They got into an argument last year about custody of our child because my wife would bad mouth me and even stated to them about wanting a divorce, my dad got mad thinking she was going to take the baby to mexico and not return. We just got into an argument about me leaving her with my dad and stepmother so i can get this interview. She didn't like that and wants to get a divorce she always jumps to getting a divorce when we get into arguments but this time im thinking to just let her go. What should I do?

The only time I get to myself is the bathroom my sisters get about 3 hours to lay down in there beds when I cant even get 45 minutes for myself to play a game or something I always have this duty to be slaving away with my dad, and my dad does some pretty stupid work that he makes me partake in even though I ******* hate him, and I also have to help my mom in the kitchen I swear to god im the one who helps my mom and my sisters are always sleeping upstairs its like what the **** and when I ask my parents to give me time for myself they get mad at me and start talking about stuff I dont do right I ******* hate them

My friends called me spoiled all the time because my dad clears quite a bit of money per day. I do NOT call myself spoiled though. I do not act spoiled at all and I keep myself in line. Anyway, here's what I have. - A Macbook Air and Macbook Pro - iPhone 6 - All white furniture in my room (as in a white sofa, a white vanity, a white bed frame, white sheets, a white desk, white walls and a white dresser) - VS and Pink undergarments (I'm not so sure why I added this....) - Coach Glasses case - Gucci Reading Glasses - Gucci Slides (I bought these with my own money. My parents weren't down with spending 100 bucks for some slides.) - NARS, NYX, Tarte, Makeup forever, Morphe, Anastasia makeup - Dooney and Bourke, Coach, Valentino bags (these are all hand me downs from my mom. She doesn't want me carrying them round until I'm older, though.) - Yeezy 350 v2 - Dresses (I don't wear dresses often, so I get a 400 dollar budget for each dress I wear.) Some of the stuff I bought myself from saving up from my summer job. For example, I bought my makeup myself. My parents tend to buy the rest. I really HATE when people call my spoiled because I don't think I am. I don't live in a house, but a town house. And I DO NOT brag about my stuff at all. My parents taught me better than that.

I have an Aunt who just passed away from alzihmers. Although I liked this Aunt I never really had a relationship with her/ haven't in YEARS. Although I'm an adult I am the youngest of most of my relatives;decent size age gap. My older two siblings who are closer in age had and have a relationship with my cousins, where I really don't know them that well. If it makes any difference, my mothers funeral was just last month and they, my cousins of my now decease aunt, all came. They all said hello to me but never engaged in conversation with me the rest of the reception other then one of them who sat next to me to have lunch and admitted he really didn't know me and we chatted. That being said, I currently don't work nor do I have a vehicle, a running one anyway, and only currently have the use of my husbands truck when he is using a company vehicle and depends on his schedule (which he makes) depending on where he needs to be and what is going on that day/week. The funeral is two hours away from where I live and I have no family who live in my area. Basically I don't think I will be able to attend. I feel that if I did go I would pretty much just be a fly on the wall and kind of invisible. If I can't attend I would send flowers/cards, but would like MATURE opinions on my situation about possibly not attending and what you think? How to convey this or do I even need to? ^^^^^^ My question isn't about whether I should or shouldn't go, I'm asking your opinion on if I can't or don't go! Basically, if you and I were related and your mother, my aunt died, based on the other info I provided, and I wasn't able to attend what would you think in general or of me? Would you understand, think much about it?

To give background my sister is a complete ***** she is full of hate to her parents and me (her brother). She always mocks her grandparents dying, calls my mom a pill popper, and is just blatantly vile in general. Not responsible in anyway usually gets drunk at her parents house because she can't afford to live on her own. She is a single mother raising a three year old kid. My question is should I call CPS? She is frequently yelling at her kid when she is crying or messes up, pulls a "homework" excuse saying she has 40 hours of it to do so she can't read or play with her kid, frequently has her kid up to about 12 or 1 am cause she doesn't care, fights with my parents over everything swearing at them even sometimes her kid. My parents and I are the ones who usually play with her while she sits on her phone or is asleep an there have been occasions when I have come home to see her sleeping and her kid doing whatever she wants. This is a slight insight to the situation and thank you for reading all this (really needed to vent this), but should I do something because my parents will say they will but something rarely comes from it (which is really surprising) the only reason they put up with it is because she has kid otherwise she would have been kicked out the second she was 18. Forgot to mention this has been going on for about 8 months to a year.

Im 17 years old and I found out my dad is talking to another women, my parents have been married for 18 years and this just hurts so much knowing my dad is talking to another women that isn't my mom, I stumbled across it through his phone because I play soccer and he always takes videos of me an shows it to me after so i was going through the videos and i came across these pictures of a women, at first i just thought they were pictures he used to get off with so i just left it alone but then i went back to the videos to send them to myself and i went on his messages and saw the face of the women on his message board, so i clicked on it, (i know it wrong to invade privacy but i couldn't stop myself) I couldn't believe what I was seeing and I just couldn't look at him the same,, I was so mad and sad all these emotions, I dont want to tell my sister thats 15 years old because she looks up to him so much as do I and i don't want to tell my mom because i don't want to hurt her and she is a housewife so she hasn't had a job in a long time so id not know what she will do with herself. please help i don't want them to split up.

I watched shows on the Lifetime channel one was about 3 girls from Ohio who were kidnapped by their friends dad. The next one was a girl who was kidnapped by her own uncle he killed her mom and her little brother. The first time I watched these shows I couldn't trust anyone not even my own friends and family. I'm not sure if I can trust my boyfriend. I know not to talk to strangers or accept anything from them but those girls knew these people and went with them anyway. The one with the girl and her uncle creeped me out I know that these are true stories I love them but I cry every time I watch them. Those men were just upset because they went through divorces or break ups and wanted a family. I was scared to go out and be around people for a long time. I don't know why they put stuff like this on tv. What if some little kid saw these and had nightmares seriously what's wrong with tv. Those girls were dumb and forgot not to go with strangers. Is it really safe to trust people ? How can I trust my boyfriend ?

So basically my Dad gave me 50$ for our school tour and I put it in my jeans pocket. I tried to give it to my teacher but she said to give it to her tomorrow. So when I came home he asked me could he have my jeans so he could wash them because there was a huge stain on them. So I gave them to him but it s 4am now and I woke up and remembered about the 50$ if he finds a soaked 50$ bill he will be sooooo mad help what do I do?

Well I am going to be doing training to become a Pilot, and that requires to move to London (I live in Scotland), then I ll be moving to Australia to do some more training for a year. So this will be starting next year and I passed all requirements and have all my medical certificates now. I haven t told my Mum, I am 23. She doesn t like it when I travel - (even to the extent of trying to pay me not to go places!)and she encourages me to work from home (I hate working from home but I m grateful she helped me get a job). Thing is, she will probably freak out and try and stop me from going, also my overprotective grandmother that treats me like a kid will probably be going on at me. This is my biggest DREAM. I have always adored aviation and wanted to train as a pilot, I know it isn t easy and I know that this is very expensive, I feel it will be worth it. I have been encouraged by my family to work/study in other roles like Journalism, Psychology, HR, Healthcare, etc but they never held my interest. I've traveled loads of places solo in the UK, Australia, Finland, Japan, Thailand, Dubai, USA so its not like I don't have any worldly experience.