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- Question: What should be done if they won't like him anymore?
- Question: How do I ask my male best friend if we can stop using "suggestive" pet names?
- Question: Could I wait for her. Or am I wasting my time?
- Question: Should I ignore this guy a met online in a game?
- Question: When should you have another baby ?
- Question: If a girl copies another girls body movements does that mean she wants to be friends?
- Question: Why do I try to Sabotage my relationships and friendships?
- Question: How do I get my friend to leave?
- Question: I'm not excited for anything help?
- Question: I'm depressed and my friends still put me down, and they know I am.?
- Question: Are there any other teen's in California who are into throwback or greaser subcultures?
- Question: Break up with my friend Yes or no?
- Question: My friends are always too "busy" for me?
- Question: Are you still friends with people you graduated with?
- Question: Just a questions?
- Question: Fun things to do in the summer for teens with their friends? I'm planning my vacation plans now so summer isn't a let down! I'm female 15yrs?
- Question: What does it mean if someone didn't accept your friend request and the place where it says add friend is blank?
- Question: Best friend doesn't like me anymore? Please help?
- Question: Someone online is threatening my security?
- Question: Por que un chico que va a la misma institución que yo me envió una solicitud de amistad por facebook?
- Question: If He's Not Contacting Me Does it Mean He Doesn't Want To Be Back With Me?
- Question: I don't understand why?
- Question: How do I improve my chances of making friends?
- Question: I hate my friends but if I tell them I don't like them then I'll have no one.?
- Question: Is friendship between a 50-year-old man and a 16-year-old boy considered okay?
- Question: Okay so I just figured out my best friend is cousins with my cousin. Does this make me related to my best friend?
- Question: This is a little long but... when I was six years old, me and my mom where at her friend s house. When she and her were occupied outside.?
- Question: My friend s bday is next week and I ll buy her bouquet but have no idea how to hide it. H?
- Question: Does This Mean He Doesn't Love Me?
- Question: How can I get everything fix?
- Question: My new boyf has problems maintaining an erection that we can not have penetrative sex. Hes 29 and very fit, runs marathons etc. Confused!?
- Question: My brother dated one of my friends and it ruined friendship with her, now he likes one of my close friends. What should I do?
- Question: How to leave a friend without hurting them?
- Question: Person that isn't on my phone anymore still shows up in my Snapchat "add friends" from contacts list?
- Question: Does she care about me?
- Question: Why should I feel guilty for bringing bullies to justice?
- Question: I got a A minus . My friend said how come?
- Question: What's going on with this girl?
- Question: Is it normal to not care about anything anymore?
- Question: Will you help my loneliness?
- Question: I need help.My friend is keeping telling his friends about what I say to him and told him to not tell what I said to him only?
- Question: Should I expect more from my friend?
- Question: I'm an inclusive person, but does that make me weird around my group of friends?
- Question: Why are so many people doubting me?
- Question: I snuck out of the house. What should I do about the after effects of the situation?
- Question: I only have 4 close friends?
- Question: Cancelling plans with a friend for better plans with my boyfriend?
- Question: Why do i get bored instantly of something after wanting it so bad? Read details?
- Question: Can anyone help me out please?
- Question: Am I being unreasonable or are they?
- Question: A friend for hard moments or a friend for happy moments...whcih one do you prefer? Justify your answer.?
- Question: Me podrian ayudar estoy indeciso?
- Question: Dad and Stepmom over the top reaction?
- Question: Do bullies and unimaginable bastrds in high school aim for nice people?
- Question: I am in high school, and I have a friend who I feel is very toxic to me, but I don't know how to get away from her.?
- Question: How to manage a lot of friends and contacts?
- Question: Is it bad that I put my friends before myself and take care of them better than myself?
- Question: Is it normal that I still don't drink, smoke or use drugs at 14 ?
- Question: Is moving away from someone provocative?
- Question: How to fit in a school?
| Question: What should be done if they won't like him anymore? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 05:40 PM PDT My little brother Kevin is nine and his two friends in the court are making fun of him now cause he stuck up for his friend Anna. Anna is eight while the two brothers are 7 and 9. They make fun of her looks (which is them being assholes cause Anna is the cutest girl in her class!). Kevin just tells them to knock it off guys. The brothers live behind Anna's house and have a habit of climbing up in their tree so they can look in her house. Yesterday my brother got mad at the brothers and threaten to beat them both up. They were spying at Anna after school when her Mother gave her a spanking over her lap with her skirt raised so they seen her white nylon brief. When they later made fun of Anna how her Mother gave a spanking she started to cry. Her Mother was sitting back in the recliner with the foot rest raised up. She was not thinking that any LITTLE PERVS were up in a tree so she was taking he time and spanking Anna on her panty. So my question is should my brother keep sticking up for little Anna eventho his friends think he is a sissy now? |
| Question: How do I ask my male best friend if we can stop using "suggestive" pet names? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 05:28 PM PDT My male best friend told me he s getting married. I m very happy for him and super excited. In this conversation it started with me calling him babe before him telling me he s getting married. Important to point out he never told me he was dating anyone before this announcement. It s also important to note that we never dated but did engage in making out over the last couple of years whenever visiting each other (about once a year). Just as two single ppl who find comfort and trust in one another but both know in unspoken terms that a relationship wouldn t work out and we were fine with that. So our pet names over that period developed from bro and sis to babe, honey, sweetheart over this time. But now that he is getting married I don t want to overstep my bounds. I started calling him bro again, not wanting to use that particular one because indeed calling someone bro or sis you use to make out with is weird. But it s what popped in my head at the time. He pointed my code switching and I told him I wanted to respect his relationship. He asked me to keep using these pet names and I was taken aback. I felt a little uncomfortable. How could I ever defend that to his fiance? So I m wondering if he feels that a reversal in the kinds of endearing language we use means he thinks I m retreating from the friendship, that things are changing. How do I convey that I don t want to continue using those specific pet names but that doesn t mean our closeness as friends will ever change? |
| Question: Could I wait for her. Or am I wasting my time? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 05:14 PM PDT My name is Keith, and me and my best friend Adriana stopped talking and it's killing me. In February she thought I had lied to her so she came to my house to talk about it, but she never let me talk. She walked away and told me "to never speak to her again". Sooo I slightly held her and tried to explain my side of the story, she later messaged me on Facebook and told me " She was abused in the past and that I crossed the line when I put my hands on her.". She blocked me from everything, I sent her flowers with long apology letter to her house. But she went to the police and the cop told me to leave her alone because I can get charged for harrasment. We were close friends for 4 years and I even helped her and her daughter with personal problems.....and my friend also helped me with everything. Could she ever talk to me again???? |
| Question: Should I ignore this guy a met online in a game? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 05:03 PM PDT Okay so a few years back I used to play this game and I had my own mini social life in it. I met this guy and we dated. To me I viewed the dating as a fake reality. One day I dropped off the face of the earth because I entered highschool and my life was busy. I decided to log back in like a year later and see what's going on nowadays. He's there and he texts me all mad saying he missed me and where have you been. I was really surprised because I just viewed it as a game. Anyway he asks for a social media to keep in contact, so I give him my Kik. Ever since we've been texting back and forth but it seems he has become extremely needy. He sends me hearts, and tells me never to leave him. He gives me hugs and random kisses. I clearly told him I have no feelings for him whatsoever. Anytime he does that stuff I set him straight. He said he understands but later he says I might develop my feelings again. ( I never had any feelings in the first place-i viewed the relationship as a game) He talks about meeting in real life but I have no desire to do so. He always gets upset when I don't text him back. Also the way he talks makes me nervous because I feel like he might try to find me and kidnap me or something. (Is that possible? He lives in Canada but I live in USA). I told him I am 16 years old and I have a feeling he is like 20 something. Should I just break this friendship off? I tried to once but he got overemotional and I felt bad. |
| Question: When should you have another baby ? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 04:56 PM PDT My friend and her husband have been married 11 years this summer they have a son who is 7. He was asking if he's ever gonna have a little brother or sister. They thought they were gonna have one last year but she had a miscarriage. They haven't thought about trying again. I don't even think they've had sex since they're son was born. They don't do it very much. She wants to know when they should try for another baby ? |
| Question: If a girl copies another girls body movements does that mean she wants to be friends? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 04:48 PM PDT |
| Question: Why do I try to Sabotage my relationships and friendships? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 04:45 PM PDT So I've noticed that I have this pattern where I talk to people and I literally just turn into a prick. I actually want friends and like the idea of being close to them and then I just push them away and try to appear nasty and rude so they won't want to be around me anymore. Then I feel guilty after that and regret what I've done. I always do it with people who actually try to care but I just ruin it constantly |
| Question: How do I get my friend to leave? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 04:42 PM PDT On Friday, I'm going to a concert with my best friend, and I know she's going to spend the night at my house after that. Saturday, I have work, but she's stayed at my house before when I'm not there. On Sunday, I'm going to Six Flags, and one of the people I'm going with doesn't want her to come but she's friends with them. I don't want to hurt her feelings telling her she can't come because he doesn't want her to and I don't want to be mean and kick her out, but how do I get her to leave on Saturday so I can go out on Sunday? |
| Question: I'm not excited for anything help? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 04:34 PM PDT I'm not excited for school, as I am going to be in highschool next year but I really don't want to but at the same time I don't care. I'm not excited for college I know some people say it can be fun and I used to really look forward to it but I don't care anymore. School right now is alright, but I find it hard to make friends there and people I hang out with and am very close to being friends with often fall out with me. But whenever I talk to someone I hate myself afterwards and think everything I did was dumb. But I don't really care about making friends. But even if I had them I wouldn't care. So I guess. I don't know. It's a wierd feeling and it's kinda taking a lot of me. So can anyone help? |
| Question: I'm depressed and my friends still put me down, and they know I am.? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 04:24 PM PDT |
| Question: Are there any other teen's in California who are into throwback or greaser subcultures? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 04:11 PM PDT I'm hoping to meet some other tuff people who are into the subcultures. I'm interested in films like The Outsiders, Grease, The Wanderers etc. I also like an array of music anything from 50's to 80's and a little early 2000's. So if you're into the same **** hit me up! |
| Question: Break up with my friend Yes or no? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 04:03 PM PDT So my best friend lets call her C. Anyway C is always putting me down. I never feel welcomed when i am around her. She hangs out with a group about 6 people and none but one of them respect me. I feel like i am ALWAYS being excluded. They played a game and did not include me it it. I understand she makes her own choices but on my part i find it very rude and upsetting. At the moment nobody gets me like she does but she s rude. Its close to the end of the year and already has there friends. During the summer last year (we have been friends for 2 years) I sat in my room listening to songs about true friends huddled in a blanket cocoon and cried because i felt like i didn t have a true friend. At the moment we are not on speaking terms. The other day and she said "use logic hahaha!" It started as a nice conversation. Then like i started doing i jokingly told her to shut up. I do it all the time and she laughs. Then she saisome stuff then i told her she was a moron as a joke again and then she said "ITS NOT ALWAYS JOKING!" "DON T TALK TO ME LIKE THAT!!!" Etc. Etc. When she is always telling me "You ll never get into sports" "your stupid" "Your weak" "You will never be able to run fast" Etc. Etc. She is engaged in sports and i am not at the moment. I have always talked about trying out and stuff. I know people always say its a little fight but to me....Its not always. And when i try o approach her about the problem she walks away and stuff. What do i do!?!? Help please!! I know theres typos but one is when i said *Everybody already has there friends* Crying as i'm writing my goodbye note i MIGHT give to her. |
| Question: My friends are always too "busy" for me? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 04:01 PM PDT 2 of my friends seem to be always too "busy" to talk to me or anything. We have been close IRL and IG, but recently they started to act different. Whenever I say I'm going they never even say bye. I thought it was nothing just their personality. They are now always too busy to even talk to me. I don't know if this is a temporary thing or permanent. I started to say I'm just not going to talk to them. They can contact me if they want to talk because it's not worth my time for them to just respond with k. I feel like they don't care about me at all.. |
| Question: Are you still friends with people you graduated with? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 03:46 PM PDT Me and my two best friends whom I graduated with are still my closest friends. One's in the air force and one's raising a baby. We see each other frequently enough. |
| Posted: 23 Apr 2017 03:41 PM PDT Is it possible for someone to want to be your friend but be nervous so they give off a negative vibe |
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| Question: Best friend doesn't like me anymore? Please help? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 03:17 PM PDT Long story short- in school I used to hang out with two girls. Let's name them Lily & Rosy. So basically Lily and I met before I met Rosy. Rosy didn't like Lily but I liked them both. They made me choose between them and I was so stupid that I chose Rosy. Rosy hated Lily and Rosy made me stop talking to Lily. This upset me but I didn't want to fall out with Rosy so I stopped talking to Lily . Me and Rosy have been best friends for about 2 years & now Rosy is drifting away from me because she doesn't like that I recently started talking to Lily. Idk what to do because me and Lily are just friends but Rosy is jealous and she isn't talking to me properly. I don't want to break up with Rosy but recently she's not been talking to me properly. I mean, why is she so jealous? There's nothing to be jealous about. She should be glad I chose her over Lily but it was the biggest mistake ever. advice?? Thanks |
| Question: Someone online is threatening my security? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 03:05 PM PDT **this is a legitimate concern and i need help and advice on how to deal with this situation. it's not just some internet troll telling me to kill myself** anyways, about 6 months ago, i made this online friend and we got really close. we're both 15 years old. i ended up letting on more information that i should have, which gave them the opportunity to find my address and extensive personal info on me, my family members, and my friends. they're bipolar and have threatened me several times with said information. they live across the country and i know they won't be able to show up to my house or anything, regarding age and circumstances, but i am scared that they will reach out to my friends and harass them or even spread lies about me. i still have them added on social media considering in the past i have removed them which lead to further conflict and more threats. they have not implicitly stated "i'm going to leak your info" or "i'm going to harass you" in a message to me before, but have strongly alluded to it including posting pictures on their snapchat of them opening a new note file and typing out information on me. currently, however, we had not spoken in the last week due to both of us being busy, so i haven't done anything wrong, and i believe they're just doing this now to stress me out and worry me. i don't know if ignoring them will help my case, and i don't want to speak to my friends and family about it and make it a bigger deal. what can i do to stop this? |
| Posted: 23 Apr 2017 02:52 PM PDT Resulta que hace muchos años atrás yo estaba con una amiga y el estaba tocando un instrumento en un escenario y nos quedamos mirándonos era como que yo no le sacaba la.mirada y el tampoco fue raro en fin después pasaba tiempo y siempre cruzabamos miradas pero nunca hablamos.Un día me senté de casualidad al lado de el pq mi mamá me había guardado lugar y cuando yo llegue me hico sentar al lado de el y no se pero cuando le dije una cosa lo sentí nervioso capaz es mi imaginación.Ahora último la institución organizo un evento y fue mucha gente de la institución y yo fui con mis amigas y el tambien fue ,la pasamos genial en fin.Al día siguiente veo una solicitud de amistad de este chico y también de otro más pero con el otro si había hablado algo pero con este chico que les digo no hablé en todo el evento y me mandó la solicitud y mis dos amigas no lo tienen agregado en Facebook lo cual quiere decir a qué a ellas no les mando solicitud de amistad.Despues me entero que mi hermano menos lo conoce y cuando mi hermano lo saludo yo también lo saludo porque el de alguna manera lo conozco aunqe sea de cara y además me anime a saludarlo a partir de que el me envió la.solicitud que opinan? |
| Question: If He's Not Contacting Me Does it Mean He Doesn't Want To Be Back With Me? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 02:49 PM PDT We always had arguments and fights which led me to saying ok we're done but he'd always text the next day and we'd make up. This time I ended up blocking him on my phone and he messaged on viber and whatsapp right away. I blocked him there too then I unblocked him and messaged that he should go find the girl he expects and he said I made my decision to end it by blocking him. He said as far as I'm concerned it's over and i said absolutely. He said ok then stop texting me and asked why did i unblock him it was unnecessary and i said it was and so he blocked me then unblocked me. 10 days later nothing, I texted him about his brother who was undergoing dialysis he texted right away. The following day he sent a pic of his bro at the hospital. The next day I asked how is brother was. I haven't heard from him since Wednesday. Does him sending a pic of his bro mean anything?Is he over me? |
| Question: I don't understand why? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 02:27 PM PDT Ok so I was at work. I was working with this girl I used to like. I really tried hard to be her friend and get to know her and i made sure she knew that I knew we were just friends. Which is ok with me. We hang out sometimes but aren't close at all. However, she is the same person that keeps me on the work schedule. I hate that job, and tried to quit, but she is the one who insisted I stay in the system. This week, she claimed she really needed me to work. Alright, whatever, I'll do it. She promised to help me on something at work, and never did, despite the fact that I had no idea what I was doing. Instead she kept on hanging out with and talking to this other person that I guess she is now close with. The way I tried to be close to her. This is exactly why I did not want to ever step foot in that place again. I knew I was just going to get upset. And I did. I makes me angry knowing that I put a lot into trying to be her friend, but this other person didn't even have to try hard at all. I feel like I'm only used for work, and she doesn't actually like me at all. Now I have to go back and I am just upset. Any advice? |
| Question: How do I improve my chances of making friends? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 02:17 PM PDT I'm long-term unemployed - yes, I'm trying to change that and currently volunteer to try to get back into work - thus no money to socialize, as a result of that and other factors I lost my friends. Obviously without a job there's no regular social interaction and without money I'm limited on what I can do to make friends, add to this that I'm Autistic so always struggled to form friendships. I'm very socially isolated and it has a huge impact on mental health. I'm not an introvert at all, I feel most comfortable when I'm with other people and I'd much rather be spending my Saturday nights at night clubs or hanging out with a group of people at someone's house. It kills me that I'm so socially isolated, sure I'm kind of used to it but it's still no easier for me. Aside from getting back into work I'm not sure what to do, without money it's not like I can take up a new hobby and there's only so much you can do for free...less that could actually lead to forming friendships. |
| Question: I hate my friends but if I tell them I don't like them then I'll have no one.? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 02:03 PM PDT Ok so for the past few months I have been noticing that my friends have been ignoring me. Whenever I sit down at the table with them at breaks they'll get up and go somewhere else. In lessons, they'll only talk to me if they have to. I have been friends with all of them for over 3 years now and I don't know why they are acting this way all of a sudden. I don't want to ask what I've done because they'll think that I think they're mean and I don't want them to think that. At school I am very shy so I don't have the guts to tell them I don't want to be friends anymore and even if I did, id have no one else to hang out with. What should I do? |
| Question: Is friendship between a 50-year-old man and a 16-year-old boy considered okay? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 02:02 PM PDT |
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| Posted: 23 Apr 2017 01:25 PM PDT I was sitting on the sofa, then the friend s son came up to me and said "Hey, do you need to go to the bathroom?" I nodded no but he told my hand and toke me to the bathroom, then he started to take off my skirt then he tried to take my undies off (he is sixteen btw) I struggled and was uncomfortable then I banged his head with my elbow but I was really weak when I was little... And yeah I never told anyone bout this, I am 12 now and Idk was it innocent? Did I overreact? |
| Question: My friend s bday is next week and I ll buy her bouquet but have no idea how to hide it. H? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 01:17 PM PDT She is my aerobics coach,only she has key and we don t have lockers nor I drive yet. |
| Question: Does This Mean He Doesn't Love Me? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 12:18 PM PDT We always had arguments and fights which led me to saying ok we're done but he'd always text the next day and we'd make up. This time I ended up blocking him on my phone and he messaged on viber and whatsapp right away. I blocked him there too then I unblocked him and messaged that he should go find the girl he expects and he said I made my decision to end it by blocking him. He said as far as I'm concerned it's over and i said absolutely. He said ok then stop texting me and asked why did i unblock him it was unnecessary and i said it was and so he blocked me then unblocked me. 10 days later nothing, I texted him about his brother who was undergoing dialysis he texted right away. The following day he sent a pic of his bro at the hospital. The next day I asked how is brother was. I haven't heard from him since Wednesday. If he's not contacting me he over me? |
| Question: How can I get everything fix? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 11:53 AM PDT I am 21 years old and I just play online games almost everyday for the past 10 years. I feel like this ruined my life literally and my motivation. I am very introverted so I don't talk to people sadly and didn't make any friends in middle and high school. I joined soccer club for one year in hs. I do worked at several jobs in the past but they were bad and don't like it. I did mostly general labor work and production line which I hate so I quit. I can't get a job at a retail or even fast food because I'm stupid and they reject me. I can't get a gf because I'm ugly, stupid, and lack social skills. I had 1.9 GPA in high school so can't get into top level university. I'm not going to community college anymore. I went for 3 years and just got only my certificate as an accountant so I wasting time. I don't have the motivation to finish my degree because everyone treats me like crap even my family. They say your slow and you can't do this or that. Now I feel like I'm more depressed and lost hope. I want to travel but don't have the money to do that. I can't smile in photos and on Facebook. I'm not popular on social media. help. |
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| Posted: 23 Apr 2017 11:35 AM PDT A few months ago my older brother started dating a friend of mine, we hadn't known each other for a long time but she was one of my closest friends at my new school and it really hurt my feelings when she told me to go away so that she could hang out with my brother alone, I'm no longer friends with that person. Yesterday I had a few of my friends over for a group project and my brother started talking to Sarah who is the only person at my new school who I feel like I really know. I could tell he my brother was flirting with her and later that night he was turning his phone away on purpose and trying to hide his texts. I found his iPad which is linked to his phone and I read the texts, they were talking about hanging out again sometime soon and how they had kissed that day. I'm tired of losing friends and it's been so hard to make new friends, I feel like my brother is being extremely selfish especially since I've known Sarah for months and my brother just met her. He's already ruined one friendship, I don't want him to ruin another. |
| Question: How to leave a friend without hurting them? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 11:15 AM PDT So I have this friend at school, she hasn't done anything to bother me and we share same interests but there's a group of girls I like to sit with. And when I do, she feels like I'm ignoring her so she blames me for leaving her and sitting with others. She even sometimes becomes so upset because she feels like she's a bad friend. but she always gets me wrong, I don't want her to feel that leaving her means that. I feel like I can't have other friends or spend my time with others... we talked about this but I felt compassionate for her because she was crying and I didn't want to hurt her... so what should I do? I don't want to hurt her but in the same time i can't deal with the drama |
| Posted: 23 Apr 2017 11:07 AM PDT A person that I removed from my contacts on my phone is still showing up when adding friends from phone contacts on Snapchat. How do I get rid of him from that list!?!? Please help. |
| Question: Does she care about me? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 11:06 AM PDT I told her "I'm scared Emily" and she said "Why?" and I said "I'm just worried about a lot of things now. do you have any problems? how strong are you? can you carry people?" and she said "yes? I'm pretty strong I'd say?" and I said "yes you're having problems now? and you can carry people bigger than you over your shoulder? I've seen your pictures you're very pretty" and she said what's the problems?" and I said "you know how i said I like to write? I type on my computer on word documents I had so much of them but I lost them twice there was so much of them. and I have problems communicating because i'm autistic" and she said "oh I'm sorry to here that" |
| Question: Why should I feel guilty for bringing bullies to justice? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 10:57 AM PDT In middle school and until I was a sophomore, I was bullied. The leaders were two people, let's call them *** and slut. *** was a spoiled brat, and slut was, well, a slut. I didn't know that at first, and I actually had a crush on her. I asked her out, got rejected, and then she starting bullying me even more. I attempted suicide and was homeschooled for a while. That gave me a lot of time to think, and I realised I had to best them with brains. They seemed to think they were the worst thing at the school, and I wanted to prove them wrong. Especially slut, because I hate rejection. I went back senior year, and I set my plan into motion. First, I planted weed in ***'s backpack. He bgot expelled. Then, a tape of slut having sex was sent around school, and soon her religious parents knew about it. That was probably the happiest day of my life, up until recently. I joined a Facebook group (Facebook is old, I know) for my high school, mostly to gloat that I'm making six figures at 25 (I work in private equity). Anyway, someone mentioned slut committed suciude after parents shamed her. The way I see it, it's justice since she bullied me. I got rid of bullies, so I should be congratulated. Instead, people (most of whom have guessed I was behind it) were telling me I should be ashamed. I don't see how. They drove me to try to kill myself, it's just karma that it happens to her. Why do people think I'm wrong? |
| Question: I got a A minus . My friend said how come? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 10:57 AM PDT |
| Question: What's going on with this girl? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 10:54 AM PDT So basically I have this girl in my class that I don't have crush on and she is behaving very strange when talking to me. When she was giving away chocolate for her birthday to the other guys she didn't behave very weird, but when she came to me she made a very strange smile and looked at me in the eyes the whole time. But here is the strange part. When other boys talk she looks at them and listens carefully but when I talk she doesn't look at me. I have some reasons for her to have bad reputation with me but when I talk to her, her voice changes.....DRASTICALLY. It becomes VERY quiet and still looks me in the eyes very....sad. Can someone tell me what is wrong with her? |
| Question: Is it normal to not care about anything anymore? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 10:50 AM PDT it just keep getting worser and worser. im not caring about anything anymore. im failing college because i just dont care and dont show up or dont do the homework. i dont care about my future at all. and im 22 years old and i haven't accomplished anything yet. ive seen some classmates from back in high school posting graduation photos with bachelors degrees. and i dont even have an associates degree it just seems i dont care anymore. i rather just sit at home and bang to music all day. am i screwed up? |
| Question: Will you help my loneliness? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 10:11 AM PDT Hello, world, I am currently really lonely and sad about myself; I have basic needs to go through life but I don't have friends. People in school tell me that I have friends because I am the most social person, but I do it because I don't have friends and in a need of one. Most of my friends come and go, so I don't have any permanent friends. I have a current group of friends but they don't seem to care for my well being. I only talk to teachers, but its never enough I am so lonely. I have been thinking of suicide, but then I live on because of a quote "Life is full of surprises" Should I force myself to get friends or just wait for them to come? |
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| Question: Should I expect more from my friend? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 09:21 AM PDT I feel that every time I ask her to do something for me, she wants money. Yet, I don't want money for the things I do. I would rather do things for my friend and have her do the odd favour for me. I recently cat sat (2 visits a day for about 2 weeks). I asked for a little gardening help and friend agreed. This is only because last time I cat sat my friend then charged me when I asked her to draw a picture of my dog. My friend has drawn a few pictures for me but always in return for money. I feel sad that our friendship is this way and would happily do stuff for free, but it feels one way. She just asked me to convert a VHS to DVD. I have done it before, beautifully, without charging. This time I told her I felt bad because she always charges me. What do you think? Should we do each other favors or should we always pay for each others services. If the latter, isn't that crap? |
| Question: I'm an inclusive person, but does that make me weird around my group of friends? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 09:04 AM PDT I'd like to think that I have a solid group of friends or people I stick to, so when one person isn't involved, I feel weird about it. I don't like anyone to be left out, so I would say "want to invite X person?" And sometimes no one really wants them around and then I feel bad because I am not like that at all. I know there's certain crowds for certain people, but purposely excluding somebody (usually the same person in my group) is almost mean spirited which I'm not about. It's just my personality to be inclusive, so I'm okay with potentially losing friends to stay with someone everyone else left alone. Doesn't that put a damper on my friendships with them, too? |
| Question: Why are so many people doubting me? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 08:58 AM PDT I've been wanting to go into the military for almost 2 years now and I was in jrotc for 4 years which really influenced my decision. I told my so called friends and they just look at me like I am stupid. I had one so called friend I told her and she told her family and her other Freind and she told me that they all think I couldn't make it...so I had to lie about a part of my life to her she thinks I'm not going in anymore for obvious reasons I don't need her bringing me down. I am very athletic and I am capable of doing this. Also when I tell anyone in general they just look at me like my life is going to go to trash... it hurts it really does... I'm trying to do something good for me but why does no one support it |
| Question: I snuck out of the house. What should I do about the after effects of the situation? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 08:58 AM PDT Ok so i had my friend over (call him friend 1) and we snuck out and drove our golf cart (13 mph max, no tag, insurance etc) 10 miles and picked up friend 2 and 3. We drove out of their neighboor hood and a law enforcement officer pulled us over. I immediatly went to the side of the rode and stopped. He said, "come here" I got up and walked to him very slowly and hesitantly. "How old are you and where do you live?" as the good honest person I am I said "I'm 15 sir, and I live in that direction" i pointed in was an honest direction. "Sir if would you like me to return to our house?" was the next question i asked him. "yes an im gonna follow you and have a little chat with you parents" were his exact words. I rode back to friend 2's house, and friend 3 was spending the night with friend 2. We went back to the house and the cop said "go get your mother. I said this isn't my house, this is my friend 2's house, it would take wayyyyyyyyy to long to drive back. "call your mom" "ok" Fast forward until mom gets there, "Mam I found your sons riding the golf cart down the street, hopping curbs, and going through ditches etc, im not going to push them, even though i should take your son to jail, but if i find any damage to grass or anything i will make him come plant new grass, and repave the curbs" "Ok thank you officer." I proceeded to leave with my mother and friend 1 in my moms car. When i got in the car I started fake crying, because in reality i don't care, i said im so sorry... ...you can take my computer and my dirt bike, and my jetski and everything. I never do stupid stuff like this and I don't know why i thought that was a good idea... It was all my fault, I thought this was a good idea" Anyways what should i tell them my punishment should be, i want them to relize that i actually regret what i did, Which i do to an extent, What should i do to make them for give me. im thinking i should ground my self the rest of the school year, roughly 5 weeks. What do u think |
| Question: I only have 4 close friends? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 08:47 AM PDT I have other friends for sports and at school but only 4 I would rly have over to my house and one of them is a guy from another grade is this ok? |
| Question: Cancelling plans with a friend for better plans with my boyfriend? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 08:41 AM PDT A while ago I agreed to go on a trip with my best friend for a weekend during the three weeks I have off school. (I am a college student and taking courses all summer). I was in a good mood when I made the plans, which led me to agree to something I would have thought harder about had I been in a more neutral mood. However, my boyfriend wants to go on a different trip the same weekend. (This is the only weekend during my time off I am free to go on a trip). I'd rather go on the trip with him because the location is more appealing to me and also because he offered to pay for the whole thing whereas the trip with my friend would be split cost wise. I don't have a lot of money right now and I am trying to save what I do have for grad school. My friend hasn't made any reservations or anything yet, but if I do cancel, it needs to be soon before she puts any money into it. I really want to go on the trip with my boyfriend, but I feel bad cancelling my plans with my friend. I feel like if I go with her, I'll be miserable the whole time wishing I was on the trip with my boyfriend. I feel like a terrible person, but everything about his trip sounds more appealing to me. Should I cancel on her? And if so, how should I tell her? |
| Question: Why do i get bored instantly of something after wanting it so bad? Read details? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 08:23 AM PDT I m some one who try hard to be as social as others in university, there s a friend of mine whom i like too much, she is now one of my best best friends , we don t see each other on uni that much so i asked to meet her, when we did, the meeting was such in a great condition we were chit chatting and laughing all the time until i got bored after an hour and half, i would never get bored of her, i tell my self, ikeep saying inside she is not the reason there s some thing inside me that doesn t let me appreciate what s going on and itust be resolved. |
| Question: Can anyone help me out please? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 07:46 AM PDT I had a friend Rachelle who was the greatest person I ever met. We met 4 years ago, She helped me through everything, Whenever I was down she would always pick me up at my house ( even at 2am) to go for coffee and talk. She waited at the hospital once 6hrs when I had surgery, but a few months ago she was mad and never wanted to speak to me again. She blocked me and it's been killing me ever since. Everyone tells me to get over her and move on, but it's easier said than done. Sometimes I just want to scream out her name out the windown....i have soo much pain inside.....ANY ADVICE?!?!? |
| Question: Am I being unreasonable or are they? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 07:35 AM PDT I'm in come and I play sports. The entire year I've been lending out my laptop to my teammates because they don't have them. I'm tired of giving it to them and the last time I checked laptops don't cost that much and there's a library on campus. |
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| Question: Me podrian ayudar estoy indeciso? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 07:18 AM PDT una ex se le elimina tanto del face como del whatssap es una decision muy dificil para miii y necesito ayuda ella me tiene en el what y en el face la elimine pero no puedoo borrarla del what por estar checando y posiblemente me mande un msje no se que hacer |
| Question: Dad and Stepmom over the top reaction? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 06:32 AM PDT I'm a 15 y.o. girl. I recently, at my request, moved to Mississippi to live with my dad and stepmom because my biological mom has drug problems and has been a very inconsistent mom (to say the least). I love her, but my dad and stepmom have always been there for me. and I needed stability. Before I made the decision to move here, my dad and stepmom warned me that they still believed in spanking as a last resort even at my age. I was kind of shocked, but really wanted to move in here, and (since I rarely get in any trouble) wasn't all that concerned. This morning I got in big trouble for something that I, in all fairness, deserved to be in trouble for. A major lie about where I'd been, & it was a 2nd offense. But I was still flabbergasted when dad had my stepmom take me out back and bust my behind. She didn't leave any bruises or "hurt" me or anything like that, but she did light me up something good and the pain was/is very intense. I'm just kind of shocked. I know that they love me, I'm NOT looking to turn them in or get them in any trouble (regardless of the answer to this question), but this is so far from my cultural norms that I have to ask, are they even legally allowed to do this? Is it fair at all? I just never really saw this happening at my age, and it all went down so suddenly.... Is this legal? Common? Fair? Typical? I lied about which friend's house I went to last night. They don't feel comfortable with me being at one's friend's house, so I claimed I was at another's |
| Question: Do bullies and unimaginable bastrds in high school aim for nice people? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 06:07 AM PDT I mean they r torurting and abusing me and irritating me even i have done nothing to those mofos..i am new to thiz school..they arent mean to anyone else..i am their standalone target...i myself am gud looking(people say i look like chris hemsworth) ,nice in studies ,teachers do like me and i have good sense of humor too...but why they dont like me and always try to hurt me with bad abuses even i have done nothing them??i only want everyones friendship😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😥😥😥😥😥😥😥 I have been to various schools in my life time but nowhere i have been treated even quarter of this bad...these people are unessecarly extremely rude to me...where is real problem guys...due to this i have developed serious OCD mental disease and anxiety..since i cant figure out where is the problem..i keep geeting obsessions and compulsions.😥😥 |
| Posted: 23 Apr 2017 06:01 AM PDT Last year is when I was BFFs with her, around the time where I never tried anything at school, while she was really involved in everything. This school year I decided to be very involved in many highly credited positions all of which I have worked hard for. Ever since my friend has seen that I have been achieving such things, she has been very salty about it. But the thing is her mom works at the school, so turns out all the positions she has gotten were because of her mom, which makes more sense because shes not really good at the things she does. Either way now that Ive started trying new things which I am incredibly proud of, she always tries to tear me apart for it. She will always try to find a way to criticise me & make me feel bad for things I shouldnt. I wish I could drop her so easily but I see her everywhere at school, & even afterschool because we both go to the same ballet school. Also, like I said earlier that her mom is the reason why she gets all these positions it really frustrates me to see that I have worked so hard to get the same results that she does while she doesnt have to do anything. Anything she achieves she rubs it in my face & sometimes she will make up things just to make me feel inferior. it just gets really annoying & I always find myself thinking of how angry I am. I really want this to stop, what should I do? i talked to her but she doesnt understand & i cant say too much because a LOT of bad things could happen & im just not that person |
| Question: How to manage a lot of friends and contacts? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 05:14 AM PDT I'm interested in becoming involved in the entertainment industry, and I know how important connections and networking is. But I'm really lost in that aspect, especially as I'm not very good at keeping in contact (my average time for responding to a text is 3-5 days) |
| Question: Is it bad that I put my friends before myself and take care of them better than myself? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 05:04 AM PDT |
| Question: Is it normal that I still don't drink, smoke or use drugs at 14 ? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 04:58 AM PDT Half of my classmates drink already. Some smoke. And so many teens smoke weed or do other ****... While I haven't even smoked weed. I maybe drank 350ml of alcohol THROUGHOUT my life. I haven't smoked a single cigarette... I'm simply not interested in that. (And I will never start drinking.) I even have to lie to my classmates about it(so they don't tease me about it) Is that normal ? What benefits I have ? |
| Question: Is moving away from someone provocative? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 04:35 AM PDT When I was sitting at a bus stop waiting for a bus this man comes and sits down next to me (there was only 1 bench) and I get up immediately and stand away. I then got a mouthful of abuse from him. But surely it's my right to move away BEFORE they bother me. I'm female BTW. Sometimes when I'm walking on a quiet street and I see a man about to walk by I'll walk in the road to avoid him if he looks creepy. I can't help but think I'm provoking trouble. |
| Question: How to fit in a school? Posted: 23 Apr 2017 04:09 AM PDT Hi, I'm 16( a boy) and I'm at secondary school. It's just that I feel I don't fit in. I'm a bi weird, I don't have many friends, and I get bullied a bit. My best friend is a bit weird too, and he doesn't have many friends either. So therefore I'm not very popular, and I don't have a girl friend (a friend who is a girl, not GF) I see a lot a boys who have friends who are girls, some are even BF and GF. I also did something to make someone hate me, and I'm not very cool. I can't fit in. I'm jealous of people who have many friends, and I see them walking together. I'm depressed. I just want to fit in, but I'm trying to focus on studying. I not, very clever either, BUT i just don't fit in but can't work out what it all is.plz help. Thx. |
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