ok im almost 23 and hes 31 he's divorced been divorced for 6 years no kids but he seems to carry his emotional baggage in this relationship he told me he hasnt felt comfortable enough to say he loves me yet and it "takes time" but i've been on family vacations with him watched his dogs and his house when he would go on business trips spent holidays with him he gave me a key to his house but still claims he doesnt feel comfortable saying "i love you" and his heart is still "guarded" he some days says i need to hurry up and get my degree so we can move into a giant house in the future and then another day say he wants to move somewhere on a farm saying "I' and not "WE" anyways its f**king bothering me cause i feel like its time to get married to him i've invested so much into him and his family and also my family is saying since im keeping his dogs and spending the night there some weekends he NEEDS TO MARRY ME Cause they cant stand me coming back in forth to there house and to his house and were not married yet and he might not marry me cause i do so much for him oh yea and he also reminds me we've been dating less than a year & saying "I love you " is too soon & he's invested enough PLEASE HELP SHOULD I JUST TELL HIM I WANT MARRIAGE AND IF HE DOESNT WANT MARRIAGE TO GET OUT OF MY LIFE?? AND PLUS WITH HIS LAST MARRIAGE IT TOOK HIM 7 MONTHS TO PURPOSE SO WHY TF IS IT TAKING HIM SO LONG THIS TIME IF HES ACTUALLY SERIOUS?

My ex and I broke up around 3 years ago mutually due to 'losing the spark'. We were together for 3 years before we broke up. About a year after we broke up I found out that she had moved on, it broke my heart but I accepted it and I was happy for her. After 3years of barely speaking, we finally spoke on Valentine's Day this year and in that message she sent me a pic of a valentines present that I gave her almost 4 years ago and she said that she never knew how weird it could be to go from talking and seeing someone all the time to not talking at all, she also asked if I had met anyone I said no then she went on to say that she wonders how things would be if we were still together.After that she said that she hoped I can find someone that makes me happy because I deserve it.I was shocked but I just said the same back. It felt as tho we were close again, At the end of this conversation she said bye and told me to 'stay in touch'.After this I sent her a pic of a place where I used to take her and asked if she remembers she said yeah and asked who I was with.She remembers everything including my birthday in a few weeks and jokingly said that I should start thinking about 'settling down' bcos I'm getting old. I have tried to get over her but after 3 years I'm still not over her and after talking recently I'm beginning to think that she still might have feelings for me,we haven't spoke much since valentines as our conversations are mostly on and off,could there still be a chance?

The body language i noticed: My crush sits next to me all the time, but he communicates with his friend more, i remember when he hold the door for me, he pulled out a chair for me, complimented my hair, hand to head gesture, like this:

I'm sure she will be there. I do not want to start a relationship with her, and I know she will try to take advantage of the situation and speak with me again. I need to know how to handle this...Advice?

If the guy says he loves you and has been with you for almost a year now but he won't leave his wife but he doesn't love her. He has to stay with her for the sake of their kids and he was going to leave but had to stay since she got pregnant. But he does love the other woman though and not his wife since he always gives her nice things and he even spent New Year's Eve with her telling her that he will leave his wife when the time is right. In that situation doesn't it make it okay? Please be honest and try not to be biased if you are married yourself.

So this has happened MANY times before,either he's in the hospital or lost his phone,believe it or not I've seen it.We're a 3 hour drive from eachother. Last time I heard from him was last wendsday we texted I love you and he had court the next morning he's a lawyer. This has happened before we're he has lost his phone . He was also in a bad reception area. So I I kept texting him and texting him and at first my messages weren't delivered till hours later and it was strange not hearing from him...When I would call his phone I would legit hear nothing but air and it went straight to voicemail.Ive called him on another phone and also dialed *67 . He has NOT been on any social media either and I've also emailed him.He always texts me. I do think it's werid how he's not on social media Last night I called the phone and it rang normally,then today I called and it went to voice mail after 2 rings (using *67) but my messages haven't been deliverd cuz I tried to text him again ... I don't know what to think 😕 I'm getting so mad . Please be nice I have no idea what to think .he lives with his parents so no he isn't hoeing around lol he's disabled

I told him I can't see him if we're not together because it will just get us nowhere. We both had a mutual break up, mainly because he made no effort & is quite selfish. 2 months ago he text me that he hopes I'm ok. I said I was & I hope he's ok too. A few days later he says I look nice in my pic. A couple of days ago he said "hey hope you're well x" and I said I was ok and asked how things are with him & he replies that he's very well & he's glad that I'm ok and put a smiley face. I said I'm glad things are good. We broke up a year ago (seeing each other after that a few times). So what's his deal? He hasn't been in another relationship since. He's 33 & likes his own company so is a bit of a loner. does he still want a hold on me? He still wants to be affectionate & everything.

More than six months ago I broke up with my boyfriend of four months. He continued to call, message, and even had his family and friends message me to try and figure out what had happened. Despite me clearly laying out to him that I was done with his antics and I would not speak to his family and friends over our personal matters. I've blocked him and his family/friends from all social media, put a stop on all mail with his name coming to my address, and even issued a PPO after he tried to confront me at work (one for my place of employment and one for my home). A friend of mine recently went to his place of employment (unknowing as her friend was driving). When he checked her ID, and realized who she was, he cornered her and began grilling her on how I was doing, if I'd started dating anyone new, if I'd moved, if I'd died, etc. When she refused to answer his questions, he refused to let her enter the establishment, and wouldn't allow her to leave. Another patron had to step in and pull him away in order to allow my friend an escape. I've messaged his employer of his actions, but is there anything else I should do? I've read I shouldn't contact him, as it could invite a line of communication, and give mixed signals even if I'm clear in my intentions. It's been more than six months, I don't know what else to do.

im 16 and no i am NOT allowed stay at any guys house except my gay best friend lol and i cant stay at a my girl friends places unless my mum talks to their mum on the phone (sometimes she does this not all the time tho) my bf doesnt have his license so he cnt pick me up but what story should i tell my mum to convince her im like just going with friends or something? i do have access to busses and i do not have a phone atm if thats relevant umm. and um yeah i just dont know what to say to mum other than "im staying at a friends" she hardly ever falls for that. **no im not having sex with him **do not answer if you are going to tell me not to lie. i just need good excuses please!!

La cosa es asi..llevo 3 años de pololeo con mi pololo tenemos una hija de un año hace un tiempo nuestra relación sufrio una crisis el me dijo cosas feas en verdad despues me dijo que solo me las dijo que era para que me alejara de el viviamos en casa de su mamá y su mamá me presto una pieza para que yo pudiera seguir viviendo ahi me costo pero asimile la situacion y empese a juntarme con un viejo amigo uno que siempre quiso estar conmigo al pasar de los dias la cosa iva yendo en serio y despues de unos dias mi pololo me dijo que queria estar conmigo y que no lo dejara y le dije que sigieramos asi como estabamos pero nos dabamos besos aveces y yo seguia con el otro niño mi pololo se entro despues de unos meses y yo mande a la mierda al otro y decidi empesar otra vez.con mi pololo nos vinimos a mi casa y el se fue al servicio militar ahora estamos 'pololeando' a mi me cuesta mucho separarme de el y pense que estar sin el ahora me iva a dejar muy triste pero estoy muy bien y volvi a ablarle al otro niño la otra vez nos juntamos pero solo ablamos y despues seguimos ablando por whatsapp y nose la verdad estoy muy confundida el me iso feliz me iso sentir bien y me asia sentir linda siento que quiero estar con el pero siento tambien que no puedo dejar a mi pololo siento que despues me puedo arrepentir pero igual siento cosas por el otro que puedo hacer?

it addresses how i've been bullied over my supposed past. would people be inter in knowing the truth or could it be published or even make a good movie?

me and all my coworkers were up all night just chilling and drinking with my manager and his girlfriend and I noticed that at some points he would just look over at me and I would look over him and anytime I would talk he would just smile with his teeth and when we kept on constantly talking I got distracted by how much he was talking and was just slowly falling asleep and he noticed and was like she's falling asleep and stuff and the whole night we just kinda kept on looking at each other I guess? We made eye contact a lot and this morning I had to work and he asked me if I wanted coffee and how it'll make me up but I passed and when I was in the back portioning ranch he walked by and squeezed my shoulder and when I looked back he just kinda smiled and and was like you tired? And I said yes. Does this all mean anything? I don't wanna feel crazy for thinking there's more but I just feel like there could be something there you know. I just really like him and if he feels the same way then I would want to know but I don't know all of this, is all confusing

A former flings friend liked my instagram post.We are not connected on social media and have never met, I hadnt even ever heard of this girl. I clicked on her page after she liked my photo and saw that she had several photos with a girl I used to see casually, who ended up moving away and never spoke to me again. The friend who liked my post lives in Canada and I live in Texas. My Instagram has very little on it and its rare that someone I dont know personally likes any of my content. It was a photo of a flower I took when I was out for a run. What are the odds that she would randomly see my flower photo based on a tag when she has never interacted with me before? Is it a likely coincidence or do you think my former fling is checking up on me via her friends account?