Don't ask me why, just give me a plausible, nonsexual excuse.

in March 1 me and my bestfriend got into a big argument, she told me to never message her again. But I kept texting her trying to apologize for a whole week. but she blocked me, She even went to the police. And I was asked my police officer to leave her alone or I could get charged. I obviously stopped trying to contact her but it's killing me because I miss her alot. A few people have told me to keep trying if I really care a out her, and to send her ONE last text asking "if we could talk.". But I'm scared because I don't want the police coming to my house again....any help please!!!!! I doo care about her a lot

Now when I say "shy, quiet, people who are popular", I'm not talking about myself. But I know these two, maybe three people in real life who are considered very popular, well-liked by others, and yet say very little and actually don't make that much conversation. I myself am at a new school and have friends but am struggling to really find a solid group. Naturally I'm a very quiet and introverted person but it.....just....doesn't work the same way for me as it does for these people! If I'm quiet, people assume I'm shy and leave me alone. But if THEY'RE quiet, people are all around them lol. Any ideas why, or how to help?

some one I thought was a good friend for a few years now just did something that has really hurt me. We are just friends, pow wow dancers and we made plans to go to a competition. I had my family members coming and I had the rooms reserved and made plans. Last week I asked if we were still on and he said sure thing. Thursday another friend calls to say that he cannot make it. That's it. He cannot make it. I had to tell my mom not to come out and then I could not get back the money for the hotel rooms, 48 hour policy. this was no spur of the moment thing, this event was and is the talk of the summer and we have gone and danced for years now. Well my dance stuff was there at his house after the last pow wow so I would not have to bring it back again in 3 days. I say when I am coming to pick it up and he has this same friend meet me at the train and has my stuff all packed. I took the next train back and could not wait for this guy to leave. I thought we were friends. I was his friend but I guess he was never really mine. I realize I have no claim on his time but I feel somehow betrayed. The friendship is over, That's my take on his actions and that is how I feel right now But it hurts because I really thought we were friends. It was fun dancing with him and I don't get much fun since my husband died. It is really my own fault for forgetting that you cannot depend on anyone and not really trust them either. The only 3 people I could ever really trust and depend upon, my grandmother, my mother in law, and my husband, are all dead now. This feels like a loss almost as great

I'm turning 18 soon but I feel more comfortable when hanging out with my family. I go shopping with them and be lazy at home together. I don't really like going out with friends.. It's fun sometimes but I get homesick when I go to sleepovers, and I realise at the end of the day I'm just going to maintain my relationship with my friends. Is this normal? A lot of my friends I realise also spend time with their mum or sisters but I don't know if they would prefer it over their friends? I also have a sister close to my age and my mum is also pretty young so maybe that's why?

As a child, I never was allowed to go over to other people's houses when I was at school, and they weren't allowed to come to my house. I don't know why, that's just how it was. I didn't have a lot of friends. Now I'm a sophomore in college, and I make friends in class, but it never really goes beyond that. I was just wondering how people get to the point of hanging out with each other all the time.

Whenever I make a "Happy Birthday" post on friends Facebook wall, they always ignore it. They also ignore my birthday texts. This happens every time, even if it is a good friend. I usually just get hurt for a little bit, but today I got tired of it. I posted on one of my best friends wall, and not only did she ignore the post, but she deleted it! Most of the time when I post the person will say "thanks" to everyone but me. Why? It's starting to get on my nerves and hurt my feelings...

So in 5th grade I was considered tall I was 5'5 and I bullied everyone because I was starting in the basketball team. This one guy who was kinda chubby I bullied in and out of school. Well he hit a huge growth spurt, he's 6'5 in 7th grade and a star basketball player now. He continually bullies me, he pushes me into lockers, steals stuff and holds it over my head. He even took my back pack and put it on the rim of the basketball goal. When I had the gym coach get it down he lied and said I did it and his friends backed up his story. He continually makes my life a living hell. He threw away my homework destroyed my backpack. At one point at a party he flirted with my crush when I was trying to flirt with her and then kissed her in front of me and carried her away while they laughed at me. I know I was mean to him but I never thought he could hurt me or my social life this bad. What makes it worse is that he is a teen model for s clothing line and all the girls at my school love him now. He doesn't bully anyone else except me. It turns out he's being mean to me because I also bullied a close female friend of his into anorexia

So lately my friend has been being such a ***** to me. She calls me dumb and is always making fun of me and in the context she says it its not a joke. We've known each other for so long and we have another best friend that i honestly like more than her.

i sold my friend my phone for 150, i took 20 so he could take it and told him to pay me the 130 later, and he still hasn't payed it. i don't know where he lives because he moves around a lot, what should be the next step?

I'm graduating college soon, my aunt Jenna is my best friend. Although she lives a far way away from me in Arkansas and I love be in OKC. I invited her to my graduation and she said "I can't find anyone to watch my pets and my brother is sick right now, I am very sorry. I really need a roadtrip badly." Do you honk my aunt even wanted to come? I wish she could be here

There is a girl I've worked with for almost 2 years. She's a senior in high school; I'm a sophomore in college. We're good acquaintances...talk all the time at work and get along well. We have a fun little relationship...we can make fun of each other but it's also very platonic; the only times we've ever seen each other out of work is at the gym we go to. She posted this status on social media about how she's so stressed and overwhelmed with school and people in her life, etc. That people step all over her and she just wants someone who will listen. We've never been close enough to talk on this level, but since I've been there before and since we do talk about school at work and stuff, I feel like I want to shoot her a text and just say that I'm here if you ever need anything, that sort of thing. But I'm just hesitant because we've never gotten to that level and I don't want things to be awkward. But she's a really good person and I really do care and she'd also be a good friend to keep going forward as we go to different colleges. So, should I did it? What would you do if a co-worker acquaintance who you like as a very casual friend texted you and just said they're there for you, you can lean on them whenever, etc? Would it weird you out or would you appreciate it?

I had been friends with this chick since middle school(16yrs). In 2013 we had a bad argument and she put me and my kids out of the house; which led to me telling her spouse all the dirt she was doing behind his back, and so she decided to help my kids dad fight for custody of my kids...recently she contacted me to apologize for what happen back then...

I've known my best friend for about five years now. She and I are practically sisters. I go to all their family events and am constantly around them. I've become basically the little sister to her and her three siblings. Recently her brother and I started getting pretty friendly he would always hug me and lay his head on my lap and we would watch movies. It was kind of weird but no one really questioned it. She had always told me she didn't think she could handle/ would like if i dated one of her brothers. But I always thought he was fine and she knew it, I confessed this to her four years ago at two o'clock in the morning. She would even joke around about it and tell him "She thinks you are fine!" Previous to this we never even talked to each other besides a casual wave of acknowledgement, Well, about a month went by and we went on a few dates and i could tell that my best friend was started to get a little frustrated with the situation and started treating very differently. Okay, so, I did hid the fact that we were boyfriend and girlfriend for about two weeks because I knew she would get mad. Well, long story short it was a lot worse that I hid it from her than it probably would have been if I told her the truth. Now, we have been together about two and a half months. My best friend and I barely talk and when we do she gets very frustrated. Was I wrong for this?

I had a friend who was a girl and I'm a 22 year old guy. we were friends for 4 years, we had an amazing friendship But in the end of February she thought I had lie to her about a past situation. so she came over to my house to talk about it, but she wasn't believing me so she just walked away and told me to never talk to her again, I calmly held her for 30 seconds while trying to explain my side of the story. that night she message me and told me to leave her alone because I crossed the line when I didn't let her leave, and that apparently she was abused in her past. I sent her a few texts trying to apologize but she just block me. I felt really bad that I decided to send her two very long apology letters with some roses to her house... but the next day I had a cop comes to my house and told me that I need to leave this girl alone or I could get charged for harassment. So I left her alone and we haven't talked since FEBRUARY. She's an amazing person who was by my side 7hrs in the hospital when I had neck surgery. And I also helped her with some money when she lost her job (just explaining how close we were). Could she find in her heart to ever forgive me and talk to me?????

I've just started high school this year and I have a few problems. First, I was sick for about 2 weeks but then chickened out going to school and stayed at home for ANOTHER 2 weeks, pretending to be sick. I came back to school for the second term, but I stayed home on the third day. Second, I don't go to the same school as my best friend. We were really close in last year and the years before that, but she rarely goes on our group chat online. It's not that I didn't talk to other people; I did since we were in the same class for basically 7 years, but I barely know anyone this year and feel 'intimidated' by them. I mean, they let me speak, I just don't know what to say to them without thinking that I'm annoying to them. I have anxiety which doesn't really help with all this. I keep faking sick and staying home when I know I shouldn't. Sometimes I even consider online home schooling or something like that (Since I'm pretty fast at learning and don't need much support) but then I think about everything I'd miss. I do have friends here but I don't really feel close with them like I did in primary school. I don't want to talk to my parents about it, since they'd contact the school even though my friends have nothing to do with it. I'm not trying to ask for advice, but do you think this is just a lack of confidence thing or my situation that's the problem?

My whole life so far (k-8) I've been going to school with people I know. I've obviously had friends outside of this group and there have been people who have come and gone from my social circle. When high school started though, I had to go to my local school because my parents were worried about the fee for going to a private school. This new school is terrible. The kids here bully me and I try to talk to a few of them but they disregard me, so this whole year I haven't made a single friend. I tried to find a job to pay off the fee but I'm too young to get a stable income. I convinced my dad recently but my mom is still trying to make this into a life lesson and wants me to stay and struggle. I feel depressed and I've thought about killing myself but I never will because to me that would be extremely selfish/shallow. Help??!!

I told them my crush's best friend proposed to my crush.....they both had rings when his best friend proposed. The ring, on my crush's hand, was on the right hand (I live in the United States) but his best friend have the ring on their left hand. Couple days after the proposal my crush wears the ring on his right hand. My friends find that interesting. Why? My crush and his best friend referred each other as bff, friends, and best friends.

SHE STOLE MY CHOCOLATE WHEN I TOLD HER I WAS GOING TO EAT IT! LIKE, SHE JUST DISRESPECTED ME! PLUS SHE ACTS SOOO FAKE IN PUBLIC AROUND PEOPLE (MOSTLY BOYS) AND SOMETIMES SHE STEALS MY PHONE AND TEXTS BOYS THAT I LIKE THEM. SHE JUST GETS ME SOOOO MAD!! I'VE TOLD HER TO STOP ACTING FAKE IN PUBLIC BUT SHE DOESN'T FREAKING LISTEN!! I'M THINKING MAYBE AT SCHOOL TOMORROW I SHOULD JUST STOP TALKING TO HER, BUT ITS SOOO HARD BECAUSE WE DO EVERYTHING TOGETHER! JUJITSU, DANCE, AND CHEERING! Srry for caps, had to rage

Edit So, I have a friend group. There are three girls (including myself) and one boy. I have known these people for more than two years, and one for nearly 8 now. The boy has never done anything wrong, and may even be GAY. Long story short, he's getting a permit to drive an old-timey plane, and already can. He invited us to go with him, on one of those planes, IN FLORIDA. To raise extra money, we would do car washes. We plan for our parents to meet, and have one or two go on the trip with us. We would stay in a suite, (boys and girls separated, DUH). This probably sounds stupid. But I really want to go. I'm afraid my mom won't let me, and I want to know if there is any way she can. There is nothing wrong about this in my opinion. We all know each other very well. Tell me your opinion. Any ways to get my mom to say yes, or reasons why this is stupid. Anything.

I m an injured runner and I m really bummed about the fact that I can t do what I enjoy for awhile. I have a friend who texts me everyday about my injury. She asks me if in better, how acupuncture is going, if I m going to run the race I signed up for, blah blah blah. All she talks to me about is exercise and I find it rather boring. She s a compulsive exerciser. Every time she asks me about my injury, I get really annoyed because I don t want to think about it. How do I tell her to stop in a kind way? I know she means well and is trying to connect, but it s hurting my feelings.

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I'm graduating college soon, my aunt Jenna is my best friend. Although she lives a far way away from me in Arkansas and I love be in OKC. I invited her to my graduation and she said "I can't find anyone to watch my pets and my brother is sick right now, I am very sorry. I really need a roadtrip badly." Do you honk my aunt even wanted to come? I wish she could be here

So I have been in a really really bad place lately and my friend told me to write everything down in a journal to help make myself feel better. How do I start? How do you create a problem journal?

I used to be very funny until I was bullied and didn t really talk to anyone. So, i have been trying to get it back but I just can t make people laugh. I also can't pick up funniness from comedians or funny things.

Me and my friend are having a dispute baha, in this sentance which is right? Who or whom? My cousin who/whom I haven't seen in years. I think it's who :D

My son just turned 5 and will be having a birthday party on Saturday. He is in preschool full day. Since he spends a lot of time around his classmates I invited his whole class to his party. I gave invites a week in a half ago with today being the deadline. I thought of putting a reminder sign up in his class tomorrow. What would you do in this situation.

If you don't believe in this stuff please don't bother answering. My friend is 14 (same as me) a few days ago she told me a girl appeared to her and she remembered the girl was her imaginary friend when she was younger. But now the girl is scary. My friend spoke to her and she said when she's happy the spirits happy, but when she's sad so is the spirit and it tells her how to hurt people. The spirit told her all her friends will leave her she can only trust her. I did some research and found its an evil spirit from some of the stuff she's said that my friend told me. I tried telling my friend about this but she's convinced she needs her (the spirits called 24 hours and is a girl that's 14) I need some help on what to do as my friend says she's staying with it forever. P.s my friend can have a dark side to those she dislikes or those who annoy her.

I get really really depressed sometimes and this goes way back when I was young in middle school all though out my years I'm living now (I'm 24) . I feel like nobody understands me, my family doesn't support or understand me, I've never had a serious bf, one who really saw me for me and cared and loved me. I'm still trying to get my bachelors and I'm 24, by the time I finish ill be almost 26 and it feels like I'm so behind. I see all these girls live there life with there friends, travel every where and have all these close people that care and I'm here sitting alone in my room every weekend with no close friends. I did have a couple close friends but they weren't "good" for me and every friend I've ever made my parents and sister would judge them and not like them and it made it harder for me to even have friends. I'm really likable and outgoing if I want to be but it's hard with my family. I feel like ill always be miserable and I see no point in living sometimes. Sorry I had to vent

Im so nice to everyone. I always try my best to be the best person that I can be but all I ever get back is meanness. I hate people so much. They're so mean. I wish that everyone could at least try to be nice to others. I'm just gonna stop being a kind person. I'm just gonna stop caring. People are so mean to me and I don't know why. I hate them so much. I wish they would all go away. It's not fair how you can always try your best to make everyone happy but no one cares. No one appreciates anything.

Okay. I'm just wondering about this situation because it feels like every time I go on facebook and twitter it seems that the popular girls from middle school are still very much popular. I remember people telling me who were older than me that in high school it wouldn't matter, and that was pretty much a lie. Because I wasn't popular, I was on the bottom and would get jokes made out of me. People told me that I annoyed them(not to my face of course) only because I would never change my looks or the way I acted. I'm just wondering "Do the popular girls who have nasty attitudes" every fall off or do they keep going and become successful in life? But the thing is all they do is copy off of homework, cheat, and do drugs or claim they do drugs and have sex. Most of the nasty ones either have tattoo or a nose ring. But for the other popular girls which are the very few and rare nice ones, "one of them" were actually my friend. She's actually a model. Will people like her be successful in life? I mean I remember all the time in Middle School she would get straight A's and she would always be on some type of new diet plan. Then, when high school hit she looked absolutely beautiful and were still making the grades, but was just having a hard time keeping up because she had so many auditions to go to. But her attitude was still nice and true unlike the others. Then there's me. The one that kind of changed, but still haven't changed yet. I still don't talk to a lot of people, and I'm still at the bottom kind of. But no one teases me or anything like that at all. Except when I try to talk to one of my friends on face book or twitter than the mean girls come in who used to pick on me in the 9th grade. I'm into a lot of different stuff like I play the piano, love to write songs/stories/poetry. I get good grades, and my G.P.A. is going back up :) What really happens to us after high school? I already seen what happened to my cousin and she was the popular nasty one in high school. Things didn't work out to well for her and she's struggling. Why do they say the one's who peak in high school are the ones who fail later in life? Is this true or no?

So I've been instagraming a lot lately. So anyways it won't let me follow people anymore! Like, anyone. I have 186 photos, 152 followers, and I am following 524 people. Any ideas of what happened and how I can fix it? Thanks! :)

Hello, I had a friend who was a girl and I'm a 22 year old guy. we were friends for 4 years, we had an amazing friendship But in the end of February she thought I had lie to her about a past situation. so she came over to my house to talk about it, but she wasn't believing me so she just walked away and told me to never talk to her again, I calmly held her for 30 seconds while trying to explain my side of the story. that night she message me and told me to leave her alone because I crossed the line when I didn't let her leave, and that apparently she was abused in her past. I sent her a few texts trying to apologize but she just block me. I felt really bad that I decided to send her two very long apology letters with some roses to her house... but the next day I had a cop comes to my house and told me that I need to leave this girl alone or I could get charged for harassment. So I left her alone and we haven't talked since FEBRUARY. She's an amazing person who was by my side 7hrs in the hospital when I had neck surgery. And I also helped her with some money when she lost her job.......(just explaining how close we were). Could she ever forgive me and talk to me?????

Ever since middle school I've been alone. I was always the one in the group who was left out, and if i was a bit late for lunch, my friends would leave me, and I've tried finding better people, but the same thing happens over and over again. In middle school I was so alone, nobody would come up and say hi. I was like everyone's substitute friend; every time there friend isn't there, they finally start noticing me and talking to me, but as soon as they see there other friends I'm left out. I'm in high school now, still to this day i'm left out of everything. It's not because i'm not social, believe me I am, and people have always told me i was super sweet, nice, smart, and very funny. Sometimes I feel left out because i'm always the tallest, and it seems as if though it is easier for sorter people to make friends, Can someone help me, and give me advice, because i am always excluded.

I would like to know this because i have a spoild little cousin named Jake well it all started on Saturday Janury 5,2008 i had to go to basketball pratice i took my cousin with us and i called ''shoutgun".So I got in the car on the way home my cousint he want't to sit up front and my said "no". then today we where coming out of school and agin i said "shoutgun'' but just as i open the door to go in he came rushing by and jumped in the front seat i said to get in the back but he didn't . So thats why i want't to know how old or weigh to sit in the front seat

I used to be very funny until I was bullied and didn't really talk to anyone. So, i have been trying to get it back but I just can't make people laugh. I also can't pick up funniness from comedians or funny things.

I was doing a math problem and I was cheering myself on and I said you can do this *****! Btw I was alone and I didn't realize I called myself a ***** until after I said it. I just feel really dumb and I'm worried that I sub conciously hate myself because I called myself a ***** or maybe I'm a *****? I don't think I am because I try to be nice to everyone and I act like everyone is normal which is how they want to be treated. Anyways what do you guys think?

Do any of you know people who play the victim card? As in they would instigate a fight or huge disagreement and when you call them out for it they go around acting innocent and telling people how you started it and you were actually just attacking them? How do you handle these situations? There's this girl in my school who I thought was my best friend along with another girl and she started spreading rumours about us. When we called her out for it she said that she didn't say anything like that and that all 15 or more people that told us she was spreading crap (all of them saying the same thing) was lying. We obviously didnt believe that and said we didnt want to talk with her anymore, cause she had no right to say any of the things she said. She always does stuff like this where its like she's being victimized when really she's the one who's always starting the problems amongst our group, we just finally got sick of it. Almost everyone else in our grade complains about her because of this, yet she still goes on beliving that everyone else is the problem a nd not her. So now she's going around the school talking about how the 2 of us are so fake and how we're bullying and attacking her for no reason. No body is listening to her because they all know she behaves like this. But it still bothers me. How do I handle a situation like this?

When I was in school everyone used to call me Mona Lisa but i didn't think much of it then. Today my uncle's wife came round and she said I look like the great da Vinci's masterpiece Mona Lisa. I do not know if I should take it as a compliment or be offended as some people say that the Mona Lisa is actually a man and I certainly do not look masculine in any way shape or form. I just have dark hair and pale skin and a baby face.

Each topic has about 10 questions in it. I am a A/B student and only once in my life have I gotten a C (4th grade math). Now on these topic I usually don t finish at school so I do a lot of extra work at home it usually takes me the whole week plus my Saturday s. every week I make 100 s on these topics except for last week because I went to the school spring fling and made an 88. Now my mom is saying I will have to stay home everyday to get my grade backup. My grade as of right now is an 98. Yesterday I was upset because I don t have any fun literally from the time I get home from school I work. In the last week I have lost 2 friends because I have blew them off 4 yitimes in the last 2 week because of this. I have been invited to 3 parties 4 mall invites and 2 sleepover all of them I have not gone to. Is it bad to want a break? I know I need good grades. But seeing everyone else have fun on Snapchat really bums me out... what do I do!

I'm a sophomore right now and I've been realizing how alienated I feel from the average student. I go to an advanced school half my day along with an ap class so I'm pretty consumed with work. Most of my friends are nerds like me. Whenever I'm not working I'm usually just resting because of how exhausted I am (I have lots of homework, in a few clubs, and exercise regularly). I enjoy doing very childish (I guess) things in my free time. I like watching movies, video games, swinging (at a playground), malls, and I love music. I watched 13RW and it felt realistic. They were my age too, and it made me realize that people my age do 'bad' things. I've seen house party scenes in movies my whole life but I've (obviously) never been to one. I hear rumors quite often about what kids do in their free time. It's weird. Like I wonder if they can tell how much of a loser I am (I've embraced myself). Ik I come off innocent to them. But I kinda want to understand why everyone glorifies this time in a person's life before it's over. I'm more in touch with my emotions and more mature than the average student it's just that they are more adult-like. What does the average high school student experience?

When i was 17 ,i get bullied by my teacher until i have to change school and live with my father. In the new school i also get bullied. Fast-forward, and i entered university. I got some friend here, but just the last few day before, i get to know that they don t take me as a friend at all. They just used me especially to copy my assignment. Besides, they also talk back about me. When i asked why they talk back about me, they just bullied me back as the whole girl in my class is their gang, so they bash me together. In the same day, i just got lied by my bestfriend. I lend her a bunch of money as she said her family had problem. Then i realise i just got scam when after she got the money, she blocked me all over her social network. I currently stress with my studies because my parents always put high expection on me as my brother and sister always get excellent cgpa every sem.Not to mention they also got scholarship.If i am not getting the good result, i will be the joke to the whole family. It always like that since i was a kid. The studies, the stress, the bullying, the fake friends, the broken promises, also my relationship problem. I don t know who else is to share this with, i dont really close with my mom or dad nor my siblings, i dont have friend. i have a boyfriend, but he seem doesnt care at all. He know i am crying, but he just go to sleep instead of comforting me. Please give me motivation. Sometimes i feel that i want to commit suicide.

Around Christmas of last year(2016) I began an online relationship with an old friend from High School, and we have talked regularly up until recently. In total about 4 months. However, as of late He has basically disappeared on me. This was disappointing(and rude) at first until I realized that it's probably better I don't associate with a convicted felon and recovering heroin addict. He's not on the same level as me at all! Thoughts? Thanks in advance...

So my good friend and I both have 5 year old boys. After every play date my son begins to take on his friend's naughtiness and its unacceptable. He is constantly using bad language, he talks back to every adult, & is constantly throwing tantrums. Once he actually hit me in the face and shortly after he spit in my son's face and got a quick "talking to". Because of all this I limit our face to face interactions quite a bit. I value her friendship but I dislike her child. She is constantly complaining about her kid and I correct nasty behavior in front of me but it doesn't matter if she doesn't DO something. I feel like it's a lost cause but I'm just hoping for more insight. How would you handle it? How would you want to be approached if it was your child?

I m currently in 8th grade about to go to high school. I have this friend that I always hang out with during lunch and other periods but lately she s being very annoying. She likes to steal my things and make a mess of my belongings. If i m messing around with other people, like telling mean jokes, she ll agree with what people are saying about me in a non-joking way. I really want to stop talking to her but there s 1 month left of school and we have a lot of end of the year field trips. I seriously don t want to be at those field trips by myself or eat lunch by myself. What should I do?

don't know any of them. I walked home On the other side of the street, a group of girls(around my age) saw me and were talking between themselves "look at that guy" and then they looked and one said "hey boy". I usually ignore people, so I didn't answer. They continued and said "hey" many times. I didn't answer and they said "why aren't u answering?" What did they want ? I'm 14. Pls answer

I made a friend last summer, about 1 year ago and we've gotten pretty close. I want to know what she thinks of me now that's she gotten to know me, I don't know how to ask though? Would it be a weird question ?

I am generally a nice person to everyone I meet. I've always been a nice person, but for some reason, I've always been treated badly for being nice. I've gotten in so many situations for being nice. The people I'm most treated badly by are girls who I have liked or loved at some point. Sometimes, I make faces when I'm angry, annoyed, or I don't like someone. But I don't say it because I'm being nice and I can't help my face expressions. Also, people come to me with their problems but it seems like they don't really try to help me with mines. And I can't seem to tell people when I don't want to be friends anymore or I don't care about them anymore because I'm too nice. In 7th grade, I liked 5 girls (different times), but I ended up getting played by them. And my buddies who I considered like my brothers, knew who I liked and started dating the girls at the times I liked them. Later in the same grade, most of my friends turned on me and decided out of nowhere to bully me. And once they realized that I'm too nice, they continued to bully me. So, 7th grade was basically torture for me and I put up these walls around me since then. In 9th grade, I let the walls down, but the same thing happened again. And then this girl I considered my sister named Kaelyn told a girl who I liked that I had a crush on her. It was true, but she shouldn't have done that. By 10th grade, I became a more mean and angry person, but I still had nice in me and was friends with Kaelyn, who is a much worse person. And I became close friends with one of the girls I liked back in 7th grade who I was about to fight someone for because he cheated on her multiple times. But soon enough, leftover feelings came and I realized I still had feelings for her so I let her know, but she said I'm nice, but she doesn't care about me. Now, in 11th grade, I've become into a much nicer person than before, but Kaelyn has given me too many reasons to just stop talking to her. And she even threatened to tell this girl I like who rides my bus named Casey that I like her and I'm stalking her. I've told people that I'm not close with Kaelyn anymore, but I seem to always find myself forgiving her and talking to her again. And finally, I let it all out and we had a big argument and we stopped talking. But I ended being friends with her again when I really don't want to. I've given her advice on her boyfriend, family, sexuality, and school problems. But when I ask for advice from her, she either gives it very harshly or doesn't give it at all. Soon enough, she started having problems with one of her friends and I attempted to be a mediator to the two since they wanted me to help them. I tried, but it quickly escalated into an argument between me and her. She said I was picking sides and being ignorant. And then she threatened to go completely off on me if I said something else. I did though and she started ignoring me. Now, Casey and I's situation was complicated where she was giving mixed signals to me while she had a boyfriend. I respected their relationship and tried not to be friends. But I decided to just talk to her and soon enough, we became friends again. But she continued to give mixed signal so I asked her about it, but she said she didn't see me as a boyfriend, but she wanted to be friends. But I found out she was talking badly about me to people on the bus so mostly everyone on the bus knows about us. She got mad at me for saying that my friends don't think I should be involved with her and we stopped talking. But I tried to be friends with her again, but she told me to move on and that she doesn't care anymore. So after a long while, I now believe she played me. But I ended up having two dreams about her. One was where I was talking to her and I got mad so I walked away. And then I heard gunshots and I ran back worried about her, but I never found out if she got shot. The second dream was where she got pregnant and a lot of people, even strangers were coming up to me telling me that she was pregnant. But I didn't care. So now, I'm questioning all of my friendships and wondering why I am so nice to people who just don't care about me. I'm definitely tired about caring about my closest friend Kaelyn and the girl I care about too much Casey. And all of this is really stressing me out. Should I just stay nice or just be mean to people?

I have a friend for 4 years who goes around having sex with randoms. She only likes going out at night for that purpose and getting drunk. Sometimes she smokes weed. She has anger problems and sometimes we'd argue. Her housemate is similar. I don't do any of this stuff. I only go out for social and the purpose of seeing a band/show. I'm still a virgin and I have lots of hobbies and want a job, unlike her who is a dole-bludger. We're still friends because we accept and compromise on differences since we don't have any other friends. I explained not to say and do certain things in public that will make me and her look bad so it's all good. We do have things in common but sometimes I just want to punch her in the face. People keep telling me that I'm going to turn into her, but I reckon she's improving on her stupidity and turning on my side. I understand and accept that she can't help it due to her lifestyle, and I figure "what comes around goes around" so that my favour will be returned. I've never been influenced by friends I've always been my own person. It would be so easy to get rid of her but unfortunatly I haven't got anyone to really talk to. I'm not anti-social, it's just that I haven't met many decent people. People say that I WILL turn, not that I have yet.

let's say someone says someone is a loser and another person asks "how much of a loser is he?" and they said "put it this way his only friend on facebook is his mom"

I don't know any of them. I walked home On the other side of the street, a group of girls(around my age) saw me and were talking between themselves "look at that guy" and then they looked and one said "hey boy". I usually ignore people, so I didn't answer. They continued and said "hey" many times. I didn't answer and they said "why aren't u answering?" What did they want ? I'm 14

I was watching a movie last night about Kenneth Bianchi I wish I hadn't I didn't know it was real I thought it was just a movie. It was like watching a horror / sex movie. I don't feel comfortable talking about it. I had nightmares. I felt bad for the guy. After I saw what him and his cousin did to those girls I'm scared to have sex with my boyfriend. My boyfriend is really nice he wouldn't hurt me but how do I know that. We've only been together for 3 months but I think we need to take a break I don't feel comfortable around men right now not even my own dad or brother. I'm afraid to go outside or go anywhere. I read about the real story online it said his cousin raped his own daughter wtf. Seriously. I know those guys have been in jail for 30 years but there are guys out there who could probably do that. I have to live at home though because I have disabilities there's stuff I still need help with like cooking , laundry , driving I don't drive. I have my parents drive me. After seeing this I don't feel comfortable living on my own anyway. I'm 24 years old I'm scared to death especially since my boyfriend is a lot older. I'm not in California I'm in Ohio but I'm still worried. I don't understand why guys back then hated women / girls. Is it really safe to trust guys ? Should me and my boyfriend take a break for a while ? I'm so upset I have no idea what to do right now.

I'm gay and there's this shy guy in this summer class I'm taking and yesterday he was talking to me and basically I told him that I have a boyfriend (I don't feel like going in depth, but there was more conversation that led up to that) and ever since then he's been talking to me a lot, whereas before he barely talked at all. Whenever I say something, he focuses on me and whenever someone else is talking he's practically non-existent. He also laughs at my jokes. I know this might sound bad but I'm pretty bored with my boyfriend and this guy is really cute. I think the reason he's shy is because he's in the closet but I don't want to jump to conclusions. Would you assume he's gay based off of what I told you? And what are some signs that I can tell he's gay & into me without asking him? It's hard because his voice and his looks are all masculine, but most straight guys would back off some if you told them you were gay, but instead, he came closer.

Okay, so my and my two best friends had a sleepover last night. In the morning, we somehow got on the subject of spirits and stuff. Then one of my friends (the one who's house we were at) decided that we should make a Ouija board. My other friend was all in... But I wasn't too sure of it. I know that it's bad because it's what I've been taught all my life. So I watched them as they played (they made one out of cardboard and a marker). They had me write down everything the spirits said, since I wouldn't play with them. The 5th spirit they talked to said it was my one friend's uncle Charlie. She was so excited. It was the right death year and last name and everything. They had to be talking to it for a solid two hours. She asked it so many questions about other people and the future. Even though I wasn't playing, she asked a lot about my future. Like what year I'll get married, the first name of the person I'm marrying, if I'm moving, etc. And it answered all of them. I don't know if I should believe it, should I believe it? It said it's a good spirit.. But.. It could have lied. They stopped after a while. But they decided to play one more time before my friend and I had to leave. This time, I played. I knew I shouldn't.. And told them they could do it once before I joined... But they said there was only time to do it once more. So I did it. I was thinking that nothing bad was going to happed because all of the other spirits were good. This one also said it was good, and it wasn't a long conversation. I didn't even ask any questions.. I just had my hand on the thing. But still... I still feel like I've done wrong and I'm scared. Am I going to Hell? And when they were the only ones playing, I would say something... Like tell them to ask her uncle something... And it would just answer. My hand wasn't even on it and it was answering me.. It's scary. Also, I've felt really drained ever since. Like, weak. You know? Were the spirits absorbing my energy? So, should I believe what my friend's "uncle" said about my future? Or was it lying? And am I going to Hell for using it juts once? Like I said I didn't talk to it.. But still. Will God forgive me? And there aren't going to be any spirits following me around, right? I don't need any of that. Please help me! I'm so nervous. Also, don't answer if you're going to say something along the lines of "It doesn't work. Your friends were pushing the thing" or "It's just a game" or "God isn't real". Thank you so much in advance!

Around Christmas of last year(2016) I began an online relationship with an old friend from High School, and we have talked regularly up until recently. In total about 4 months. However, as of late He has basically disappeared on me. This was disappointing(and rude) at first until I realized that it's probably better I don't associate with a convicted felon and recovering heroin addict. He's not on the same level as me at all! Thoughts? Thanks in advance...