I m a woman who s mistreated by her husband. He s been really jealous without a reason. I have never cheated on him. Today he went as far as to hit me and this was the last drop. He didn t hit me hard but I m done getting treated like this and am ready to start over. I m not originally from the US and my whole family lives overseas so I don t have much of support or anywhere to go. We do own a house and I have a decent job but can t afford the house by myself. Any advice would be appreciated.

I am 21 white lady and married to a 23 year old black man. We have been married for 2 years and we are very happy and so much in love. He is so sweet treats me like a queen and I am also 5 months pregnant. We both are so happy I am pregnant. We went out for supper tonight and when I was in the ladies room this lady said I am a horrible person for being married to a black man and going to have a baby. I am trying not to get to upset since I am pregnant but why are there so many people that don't like seeing white women married to black guys?

I'm not sure I'm going to explain this correctly... Before we got married, we read marriage books and asked as many questions as we could. Please don't think I went in thinking marriage was going to be easy, this is not the case, We just wanted to do what we could, to start out on the right foot... One issue is...We do not have kids, but it is a possibility, so we of course talked about kids and how we would want to raise them. I am a christian and he is an agnostic atheist. We decided back before we got married that we would raise any kids we have in a church, but that they would learn about other religions and opinions as well and that he would attend on holidays. Now that we're married, he seems to have changed his mind and doesn't want any kids we have knowing about organized religions. He sees his niece praying and rolls his eyes and it takes everything in him not to say something. I don't know how to bring up this conversation because I feel like it is going to lead us to divorce, which is horrible, but if we truly aren't good together, if hes going to keep changing our agreements without talking to me, then I'd rather know sooner than later. Please don't turn this into a religious battle or think I'm going to force my kids or husband into religion. I would never force anyone, especially my kids, to believe anything, but I do want them to know the different options they have and that they'll be loved no matter their religious preference.

OK so I only met her,my friend introduced me to her. I want o get to know her bettter I'm going to talk to her sometime this weeek by starting with a compliment. What can I say to her that will make her happy? *week and im putting this in marriage to get better answers *week and im putting this in marriage to get better answers Im putting this under marriage to get better answers thanks! Sorry for all the update my computer was acting up

need marriage advice!

If someone's almost 2 yearly married wife who they had a kid with cheated on them for a month, how would they react? What would they do if their wife cut off the relationship with the other person and the married couple was only months away from buying a house together? If the man can stand the thought of the other guy with his wife and kid what would be a rational thing to do? If they both used illecit drugs in the past, would that be enough to put their child in foster care? If she is extremely beautiful and has been loyal for all this time, would he look for another person, stay single for a long time, or try to win his wife's heart? What are some safety measures this guy can take to prevent being run-over?

I slept with a woman who lied about being single and getting on birth control. I took her word for it. My friends tell me to get a DNA test first before confessing about the affair. I am pretty sure her husband will be able to tell the kid is not his the moment the child is born. They're both black and I'm latino. The baby will most likely come out light skinned. I think it's better to get it overwith but I to have a sit with the wife and husband so we can just get it out. She refuses and wants me to keep my mouth shut.

He was supposed to be my soul mate but things happened and we can no longer be together. My life is ruined and wrecked forever. Without him there's no chance or hope for a happy life. He was my destiny and now destiny is gone and everything in my life is gone.

She's a very controlling woman. She had my husband under a spell until I came along and gradually broke it. She tried her hardest to keep us apart, not inviting me for holidays and laying severe guilt trips on him along with using his fears to prevent him from traveling to meet my family. After a few last ditch efforts to "postpone" (cancel) our wedding, she admitted defeat and now let's me into her house but she is constantly disagreeing with me, especially if she over hears a small disagreement between my husband and I, she can't wait to tell me I'm wrong. She also makes quips about how much and what I eat, my hair, my shoes etc and dictates what we do (her house or mine), where I sit, and every other petty thing. I'd like to understand the root cause of her compulsive need for control so I know how to deal with it. I can't avoid her forever, my husband wants a close family relationship and will be devastated if I don't sometimes see her.

Ok so my wife and i had two kids back to back and shortly after having them bought a house and things were going very well so i thought till i found out she was talking to the neighbor down the street i found out from him because he thought i knew something and told me.apreantly she took his number from my phone and just started talking to him and things went from there When i told her i wouldnt be wth someone who isnt loyal she begged me to stay. Idk if anything ever happend she says it didnt. When i asked why she did it she replied bcause her hormones from just giving birth like 7 months ago were out of wack and wasnt thinking straight and thats why she even did or tired to cheat. And so my question is, she lieing to me or is it possible for her to feel so ugh that she would make a bad choice and ruin the family we started that she wanted so she said. And just so its out there im doing well in life money house kids stocks we had a great sex life i love to please we had no debts and nothing wrongs kids were hitting evey mile stone. Im athletic yada yada. The guy she went for ugly as sin and i thought that before i knew anything treats his daughter like trash sends her to bed hungy kinda **** borderline abuse and is just some jobless felon no car lives on his parents land. You get the picture. So please honest answers i didnt break up the family because i love my childen amd came from a divorced house hold so didnt want. To do that to my kids but since them i have zero trust i want to believe somehow she was just not thinking clearly it wpuld help me move foward to know from a womans perspective. Thank you for reading and any help.

Don't love him anymore and just can't stand it when he has sex with me

My schools taught absence only courses on how to be absent at school.

I'm a musician (Part Time) I work a full time job too. I do about 2-3 shows a month and it does take me away from my wife as these are private party shows and she cannot attend. I have one this weekend on Saturday night and now got asked to do another on Sunday night- to me it sounds like too much and the $$$ won't change my life- would you take the 2 show or pass to spend the time with your spouse.

is why she finds very exciting to sleep with gringo

I'm madly inlove with my husband. I feel like a teenager who fangirls over singers (well, I'm 20 and he's 28). Everytime he smiles, I melt. And motivates me to make him even happier. When I see him in muscle tanks and sweating, I feel like I get possessed and I suddenly just wanna jump on him. (Sorry for the language). Whenever we have deep conversations, I always pray to God afterwards and thanking Him how lucky and blessed I am to have this man share his mind with me. I love everything about him! His mind, his heart, his family, his face, his body, his voice... just everything. And the more time I spend with him, the more I appreciate how lovable he is.

He's 28 and I'm 21, but I feel like I'm more mature than him! It drives me crazy when he doesn't help out around the house. He leaves every chore to me, as if I'm his slave!!! Whenever I ask him to do things, he feels so proud as to saying that I SHOULD do it instead. He does provide most financially, and his work is good and also flexible that doesn't need him to be away (he's like needed 4days a week, for only abt 5 hrs)... When he's at home, all he does is play DOTA. And he knows it pisses me off whenever he plays that stupid game... and most of the time he has his cousins and brothers come over to our house and play together... and he's so crazy over this game that he stays up at like 5am with all junk food and root beer and he doesnt even bathe, it's gross. When it's time for me to wake up, he sleeps. And I get so annoyed bc while he's sleeping, i'm doing the chores. I've asked his mom for advice, yet SHE also says I need to do the chores. Like ohmygod I work as well?!?!

A colleague of hers phoned me and told me she had an affair with a salesman! I confronted her and she confessed. We were so happy with a loving relationship great sex life etc. She said she was overcome with lust for the guy and just went with him 'it was just sex nothing else!' She told me!...'just sex!' I am heart broken and am going to ditch her Why do they do this to us????

I've been married to a man for 6 years, together for 10. He was my first serious relationship in college. Before him, I had only ever dated one girl for two weeks and one guy for two weeks, so hardly even dating. I come from a very conservative background, imagine being gay = eternal hell and being disowned It was not an option or even really a thought through adolescence. I developed a crush on my female best friend my senior year of high school, but that was about it until I tried dating a girl my freshmen year of college. By the time I met my husband, I just figured my earlier crushes were a period of discovery and that discovery was that I was straight. As time went on, my feelings for other women grew and my husband felt more like a best friend than anything else. We are no longer intimate. I told him I thought I was gay and asked for a divorce, but he refused and said he was in this relationship until the end. I feel so guilty. I love his company and we have a child, but I know I'm not giving him what a wife and partner should and I don't know why he's okay with that. I will devastate him either way and I don't know how to work past my attraction to other women and just be content with what I have.

My wife trys to make me feel bad about watching porn by saying its "gross" but she used to prostitute before we met? How does that even make sense for her of all people to tell me watching porn is gross?

My wife has a bad atittude that she catches with people. I have looked passed it initially because she's considerably younger than I am. But I have told her about it and even left her a few times (prior to out marriage). I went ahead and married het bc i loved her and eas hoping she'd mature. She is in her early 20s and still she acts like an unruly teenager who catches an attitude with people when she doesn't like something . That may be the norm got young ladies but the norm doesn't fly wrll with me. She catches an attitude with her supervisor when scolded about her work performance. If she gets any type of criticism, positive or whatever, she thinks someone is trying to down her. She has a big issue witj female authority and I believe it's from her bad relationship with her mom. Look, I minored in psychology but I'm not a psychologist and I'm not paid to deal with people's psychological issues. If she has some problem witj authority then it's her who needs to change and if she cannot, then i believe i have every right to leave.

I noticed most wives live in a dream world or glass jar if you prefer. Their notion of how things are and should be is far from reality. And if they mess up something or get emotionally hurt; then you gotta deal with hubbie .. For those reasons i personally avoid hiring married women in the workforce. They ain't nothing but trouble. Why are they like that ? Honestly; married wiman should be segregated at home. Theres no point or utility for them to interact within society once they marry. Emma: married woman are nothing but trouble. They expect special treatment cause of her kids, huband, gender etc. BS. they should stay home

Married 3 years, have a 9 month old baby. She works Mon-Fri 8-5, I work Fri-Sun 6pm-8am at a hospital. I have to change my sleep schedule to be up with the baby on my days off and feel like trash. I do ALL our house work during that time, with the baby or while he sleeps. Cleaning, laundry, groceries. And do ALL the cooking, including making meals for her to have the nights i'm at work. She never offers to help with dinner, never try's to help clean up the house after work. Just comes home and stares at her damn iPhone. She claims she "can't" get any cleaning done on her days off because of the baby. But i do it with the same baby with no problem, he's a gem, not a fussy baby at all. She is always super snappy at me and treats me more like a servant. "When are you starting dinner" no offer to help, and not even a thank you after. She acts so "woah is me" i have a job and a baby I can't get anything done. I plan meals for her to cook when i'm away and she always has an excuse why it didn't get done. And when I try to calmly tell her how if i can she can, she gets super defensive and b*tchy. Every other working mom can do it, why can't she? And i'm sure not every other mom has a husband working full time while also doing all the house work and cooking!! HELP ME! Am i looking at this wrong? Am I selfish??? I just want her to help out! And it's not the baby, she was like this prior as well. She used to blame not being able to cook or clean on having to watch the dogs... really??

My husband always initiates with me. Everyday, he will ask if I want to, atleast twice in a day.... Personally, I'm ok with doing it twice a week. But he wants it all the time. Every night, even when we're both tired from work, he'll always "Do you want to? I'll be super quick." And i don't to reject him all the time bc he'll feel super hurt and give me the cold shoulder. Every time I reject him, he won't talk to me and tell me that I don't love him/ will ask me if I'm seeing someone else...... clearly there is no one else! But my drive isnt just as high as his. Whenever I initiate, he only pleasures himself. Sometimes I ask to switch up the positions, yet he only want it his way all the time even when I want to try something new. I obviously love my husband and I want to pleasure him every time I can. How do I endure the pain when I'm not in the mood? Or how do I get excited fast???

My wife has always pushed me to better myself and in doing so, better us. Lately she has been pushing me to pursue a management position. Problem is, I'm not confident I can do the job and I know I do not want the added responsibility. I have risen through the ranks of my current job tree very quickly and I currently hold the highest non managerial position available. I am on friendly terms with my manager and he talks with me about the professional problems he faces. He has told me he wants me to replace him when he moves on and the idea makes my wife extatic. It just makes me feel anxious. Not everyone is meant for management. I feel I'm meant to be a highly skilled workerbee. What do I do?

My boyfriend if five months and I took a walk through a park . There was s girl with long shiny hair wearing a dress and ankle boots posing fir pictures that her boyfriend was taking. My boyfriend stopped and said he had to stretch his hamstring was tight ( he had never said that) so he sat on a wall and pretended to stretch his leg facing the girl getting her picture taken. He was wearing sunglasses but I could see that he was staring! I felt very ugly and hurt by this like I didn t even want to finish our walk! He also stared at other girls and commented on another girl in a tight pink a jogging suit saying " isn t it a little cold fir that outfit". Why would he care! My question is , am I overreacting or is this not disrespectful? We rarely go out and this was our first walk through a park together it should have been special